Sean!! ☺Oh my goodness, my heart is filled with so much love and gratitude!! 🥰Could you be any sweeter?? Thank you, thank you, *thank you* from the bottom of my heart!! You are a real gem and I'm beyond grateful that you found me, the unofficial INFP mascot. 🧚♀️You guys are the best and I'm excited to find the others and create our NF tribe of peace, love, and positivity! Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help your channel. I also agree about the challenges the N/S dynamic can sometimes create. For some reason, I find myself connecting most deeply with other intuitive types as well. Anywho, thanks again for the rad shout out, wonderful INFP!! 😎🤩
The only thing I need (we all need) from you is for you just to keep on keeping on with your WONDERFUL POSITIVITY!! Much love girl - go get em!!!! Sean
I’m an infp and my best friend of 5 years is an enfj and I have never had a deeper connection with anyone else in my life and I’m beyond greatful to have such an inspiring and wonderful person in my life :)
That’s so awesome to hear Bobby! Like I said in the video I don’t “knowingly” have close experience with an ENFJ type, but found it very intriguing that they were a recommended ideal type for us. I think I’m going to put a Craigslist ad up today asking if any ENFJs want to be friends lol.. Sean
I’m so glad I found your channel! It’s refreshing to find an Infp with so much excitement and passion about life! I love how optimistic and funny you are. For years I have been trying to escape my overly serious side and have slowly been making progress by showing up more “lite” in life, generally speaking. You are a perfect representation of how I want to engage with life. I wasn’t sure it was possible, but have proved to me that it is. Thank you!
What's up Cheri!!!? I'm so glad you found me too lol (comment relating section is my favorite part with this stuff!). Yeah I definitely am maxing out all the Ne stuff I can which honestly gets tiring at times because it's essentially a never ending door going round and round...... Being "content" is something I just can't seem to find which is the dark side to the thirst for everything that is out there (when the earth runs out of things I'm sure I will board some space shuttle - blaaaaah lol). I have always been into comedic things which I think has helped me cope with a lot of our dark INFP times we can sink into. It's really just a constant battle and if you don't water it with humor then the dark times in life are gonna "win"! I will say that yes, I come across as very animated in my videos and indeed that is a true representation of a "part of me". However, all the video stuff is something I'm passionate to learn all about (when we are passionate about something then - look out!!!!) so my excitement is a little over dressed during the small snippets of filming. Obviously in the editing too I get to carry on with more creative fun but yeah....Basically I just wanted to point out that "I" don't have it all figured out living this fun care free non serious life. With that though I'm also not going to hop in front of a video when I'm in some bad place either because....I'm just not (I'll process through that stuff internally - Sean's got those times..). I have been in the fast paced grind for the last 20 years in my work life which I've brushed on in some of my videos. This has had me in the clutches of "seriousness" in order to pay the bills etc etc. I have always brought that fun vibe along with me with attempts to uplift others along the way, but still I have had to also play the serious role way more than I desire. I'm now working on simplifying my life over the next coming years to start working backwards from the fast paced lifestyle and a more simple, relaxed, creative one where I truly feel happiness is REALLY at! It's not at the top of the corporate ladder, money, or in the back yard of your huge house. So yeah I'm not trying to lead people on with a depiction of "I'm all good" cause really I have the same struggles in general that other INFP's have in their heads. Video you can just pick and choose when you are having a "good day" (which is still a "real day"). Sooooo Ms. Cheri....I see you have a little channel over there with "crafty things"! Why has it been so long since posting or am I missing something..? Sean
INFP HD Thankfully my husband bears the brunt of providing for us, so I’m homeschooling my kids now. When I was really active on my channel I was really hustling because we really needed extra income and at the time I really enjoyed the process and the success that came with it. Then we moved a bunch and I just couldn’t get back into my previous world and mindset. As of lately, I’m getting more into painting than sewing. So for me right now, my world is homeschooling, painting, and psychology!
Yeah that's one thing I have never had was a dual income support. It's always been "me" since 18 and I often forget that dual income families is "a thing". That's awesome you were hustling like that to make things workout and I respect ANYONE who puts in that kind of work. I definitely change up interests quite often as boredom strikes and I want to find something completely new to venture into so on board with you coming from sewing to painting! My mom has been a serious quilter all her life so I have grown up with fabric cluttering up all rooms of the house. And with a single mom trying to raise us I had the added benefit of her not understanding young male needs and instead "hey come here and help sew this quilt I'm making for your cousins". Answer is "no" I don't still sew, but have done so lol. My world is 9 year old daughter, work, RUclips, and psychology!
My significant other is an Enfj and I am an Infp and we've been together for 8 years. We just naturally compliment and complete each other. Of course I never knew for certain he was an Enfj until he decided to take the test... But I had my suspicions.
That’s awesome Silvia - thanks for sharing that with me! Yeah definitely something that’s intriguing to think about. Obviously there will be struggles with “any type”, but some things probably have a more balanced flow with it I would imagine. Take care Sean
I (infp) get along with other NFs in general. My best friend of 12 years is an infp My fiancé is an enfj and apparently I'm the closest he's ever been to another person. I'm always seeking connection though so I've had many close relationships in my life. I have to say, my scatterbrained self is sooo grateful for the j tendencies of my partner. They are so helpful!! We do get along very well. We both share a sentimentality, creativity and interest in the intellectual that brings us together.
Love your ying and yang picture!!👍🏻👍🏻 Yeah same here my best friend for the longest duration is too an INFP. Found that out after about 13 years of knowing each other. Obviously it’s not to say that all INFPs and ENFJs will work out as each type has their good and bad representations, but yeah I think if the two are on a healthier spectrum then the partnership seems as though it would make for a great connection (I personally have no experience in an ENFJ relationship) which I appreciate you somewhat validating that thought... Nice to meet you! Sean
Yeah she’s a little coo coo (lol) with the Self Love Kitchen part but there is a lot of genuine authentic calm in the majority of her videos. The one she just made yesterday is very relatable, sincere, pitches again to us INFP’s, and gets unfortunately emotional at the end - all things I naturally went along with. Pleasure to meet you Shelby!! Sean
Awesome! Yeah I found out my best friend is INFP after knowing him for sooo long. He’s not “as fun” though as probably an ENFJ is.... I think I’m gonna turn him in for credit 😆
Enfj's over Enfp's for me. Not that I don't like Enfp's I know about 4 of them. 1 is my mates Dad and I've know him for 32 years. And we get along fine. Enfj's just seems easier and a more comfortable fit. I only know female Enfj's, don't know if I've met a male Enfj. Anyway that's my 2 bobs worth.
WHAT did I just say!?!?!? This is officially the “first conflict” INFP HD has incurred! THANKS A LOT MENTOS!!! * I do understand “edjumacate” as that’s how it would come out of my mouth in front of camera 😆
DID I SAY THAT!?!!??? - incorrect. 😂. Yeah I can’t promise what comes out of my mouth in these videos are going to be on point. It’s all crystal clear in my head however!!! 🤗
OH OK! ....yeah I was completely taken back by me ever saying such thing! I mean there is something to it where the older I’m getting I care less / doing what I want to do, but yeah it still affects me.
@@INFPHD you are so right about that, and for reasons quite unromantic (at least to what I perceived it would be). It's becoming slightly less convenient over time. 😊
We are generally non-judgemental ( not openly anyaways) We tend to be openly accepting BUT we will judge when we feel judged. We don't like the Lack of reciprocity at all. (Imo)
That "self love kitchen" sounds just about like the imaginary RUclips channel I have when I'm home alone lol. ENFJs are the best friends - so energetic and positive, always willing to help me make that harmless mischief I am too shy to try on my own.
Great video man!! My sister is an ENFJ and one of the best people I know! I feel like these two types can really inspire each other and work well together, in relationships and in the workplace!
I didn't know that ENFJ's could be such a good pairing for INFP's. I always found myself attracted to other INFP's or ENFP's (though they can be tough to keep up with). I'm not sure I've ever met an ENFJ, but I look forward to checking out Pebble's channel! She seems really sweet and bubbly like you said and has a great energy but isn't obnoxious, at all, like some other youtubers with extroverted personalities can be. I also had a thought. I wonder if ENFJ's aren't the least extroverted of the of the extroverted types, in the same way that INFP's can be one of the more extroverted of the introverted types. Maybe that's why we can kinda meet in the middle more easily? I dunno. I will need to do a little more research to figure out if that's true. Anyways, great video dude! Really natural outro this time! Keep it up! :)
Yeah I never really looked into it all that deep as this all just came about for me too. I even heard that from others on here that they prefer ENFJ over ENFP which I wouldn't know myself but very interesting info! Yeah there is definitely "something" about Rebecca that is, like you said, not obnoxious. I feel that her content is going to be some solid stuff with great inspiration sprinkled throughout. Yeah I did see her respond to a comment in one of her videos that "they would be surprised how much alone time she needs". We don't have to research now as we have HER!!! lol - Our ENFJ Yoda!!
Hi Jason, yeah I've heard that Enfjs are the most introverted of the Extroverts, and Infps are the most Extroverted of the introverts. Like you said, I found that my youngest (Enfj) sister and I meet in the middle. We get there a slightly different way, with a slightly different way of saying it. But we always meet in the middle. We get each other very much. And with all the Enfj girls I know, I find it a very easy conversation.
HiSean! Once again, another awesome video Sean, I didn't know ENFJs are so compatible with INFPs, my best friend is a INFJ, this is good info to know! Usually I'm more drawn to the "quiet" types though. I feel uncomfortable with people who are too outgoing. Yes...and bubbly....there's not much bubbly comming out of me...lol, I've always been very quiet until I feel "safe" and "secure" in a way. But I do get stuff done, and I have much vision and I also know many useful skills that others have to pay companies to get done, those are my fortés, and you're absolutely correct, I don't take credit for much that I do, and that's perfectly fine. By the way I loved your intro! That was ao nice of yiu to introduce Rebeccas channel.
Yeah the ENFJ stuff is all new to me too! She randomly popped up in my RUclips feed last week and I just happened to click on her INFP video and it all went from there. There is something about her that is welcoming and not too "loud / extroverted" - it's very intriguing to me. I just have not known a lot of NF types and their bubblyness I think is a good complement for us where that is not always the case. If you haven't ventured over there I recommend it as I think her new channel is going to be an all around good one. Plus her newest video she just made today needs a little extra love from us down in the comments section....and your "motherly" (lol) comments are super duper!!!! Sean
@@INFPHD I did get a chance to venture over there and she seems super!...I really liked her. I haven't yet commented because I haven't been feeling too great, I will do so soon! Definetely will subsribe to her channel though! That was very kind of you do. You know Sean, one thing that caught my attention and really impressed me about you, is you seem very giving and you're willingness to share and mention people even strangers like myself whom you come in contact with that you click with, not many people in todays day are willing to take time to do that, which I belive is a really nice quality you possess. I admire you for that. I'm sure you will be sucessfull at anything you put your heart and soul to do, you seem like a good person, and good people deserve great things. Thanks Sean!... Oh and by the way, I'll share some of my "motherly" luv...lol...with Rebecca soon!!! Best wishes to you Sean...looking forward to your upcomming videos!!!!
Yeah and I’m really just no one special I just like to help others as I enjoy when others help me out in life (pay it forward type stuff). But yeah I’m all about bringing people along for the ride with me as I feel when I make a video and you guys take time out of your day to comment it’s the least I can do. Plus it just helps me feel like I’m not “alone” up there “on stage” in a sense so I look at it that way too. It’s honestly just about helping each other out in this crazy difficult life and if we can “step away” from our real lives just for a bit in video world everyone should have the opportunity to be apart of it even if “being in front” of the camera is not gonna happen for that person. Yeah I may have the vessel, but when I started I had the intention of it being more of a “community built” channel and not just something I’m doing solely. Yeah I’m sharing “my perspective” about topics but they are generally inspired by other people. Without that spark of inspiration to me that video would essentially not have been made with then zero chance of “helping others”... I just have been stepped over and hushed for so long and know how it feels. If someone adds to something that gets a ball rolling then I want to recognize that person as I simply see it as the right thing to do... I will obviously tread cautiously and not make personal videos for everyone as a lot (including myself) like to stay under the radar more than others but quick little things here and there I plan to always sprinkle throughout my videos..
@@INFPHD Hi Sean... Why would you say you are not a special person? I think you are even though I don't really know you, just watching your videos and noticing how you compose them, very much leads me to "know" you are special...so there you go, that's my view of you!!!! I enjoy watching your videos, as I see others do as well, I think it's a really great creative way to express your feelings (which is very hard for us to do), I get you, because when I create as well, it gives me a sense of fulfillment, even if just one person comments on my work. Sean...I just had an idea...a suggestion from me... maybe on one of your upcomming videos you can ask the viewers specific questions of personal interest, such as... what are their talents, entertainment interest (movies, music, travel...etc). Maybe that will spark some more new ideas that you have yet to entertain and create a viedo on...Just an idea that may be fun! Take care Sean!
Yeah I mean special in the sense that I’m not better than anyone else. I don’t have like a self deprecating attitude towards me or anything as I super enjoy who I have become as a person. Especially just how much I really know who I am which is very liberating when you can peruse ventures that “you” are into and not to just follow the rest of the world.. Yeah I’m still trying to better perfect my flow with videos etc. which is a HUGE learning curve that takes up every min of my free time. I feel that when I get more comfortable I will more openly ask in video for engagement stuff other than it all being through one on one conversations down in the comments. Honestly I just can’t nail down any content. The last 5-6 have all been inspired videos where they came out of nowhere and jumped in front of my list of “planned videos”. I don’t want to throw something out there, a bunch of people respond, and I can’t ever get to that topic for months because of the above (mostly inspired) issue. Naturally I’m a more go with the flow type person and don’t like to follow list etc which is why I understand why it’s all happening, but I just can’t plan for what I’m gonna do week to week. And it’s not like I’m dried up on ideas as I have so many it’s overwhelming so yeah for now I’m gonna try not to open a flood gate of “more” ideas and then potentially suffer overwhelming mental burnout where I run away into a hole for awhile to process it all. So yeah much appreciation on the advice I’m just not quite there yet in my personal opinion is all. Sean
I don't know how I missed watching this one Sean. I love ENFJs. My best friend is an ENFJ. I'm sure it is because their cognitive functions completely mirror/support our own Fi-Fe, Ne-Ni, Si-Se and Te-Ti in the exact order. They are extroverts but great listeners and they are kind and support we INFPs in things we aren't good at, like making phone calls or being organised. We might have the ideas for social change but the ENFJ will execute the ideas. Funny, but I have a bigger problem with 'TJ' types than 'S', maybe because they can be so darned rigid and insensitive. My best friend from primary school was an INFJ, high school was and ENFP and now an ENFJ. There can be no doubt that I am drawn to the kindness of the 'NF' type. Now I am going to check out Rebecca since she seems like such a sweetie. Meredith
lol yeah I totally love types who will make a phone call for me 🤣! My two ex’s were both ESTJs and when it came to simply order a pizza I would try and talk them into it each time and eventually it got to the point where they were like “just make the call Sean!”....🥺😔 🤗 So yeah the NF particular combination to me just adds a touch more understanding to where we INFPs are coming from and do the things we do. Obviously any type can work out in the end I just thought it was interesting seeing charts on our “preferred type”. I’m super drawn to INFJs I meet on here I will say that!
INFP HD I work with an INFJ and we get along really well. He is married to an INFP so is good at dealing with my quirks 🤣🤣. I always make my ESTJ partner make the phone calls, I have major phone phobia, it is ridiculous
Yeah for sure any types can have there issues. My long 8 and 1.5 year relationships were both with ESTJs. That combo was a big recipe for disaster and both girls weren’t bad people there were just extreme differences with our preferences. I’m also pretty content with being alone to do my own things...
INFP HD probably because ENTJ is widely listed as the most advantageous match for INFPs - just look at how well Jane Eyre and Mr. Rochester go together :)
Me (INFP) and my wife an ENFJ just watched your vid and really enjoyed it! I keep saying to to her "he should just ask her on a date already"! Lol! Oh maybe your in different towns! Though we were in a long distance relationship for a year! Not to be pushy, maybe you'll find another! You got subbed!
You're so funny!! 😂 I, INFP, was dating an ISTJ, "thanks, it's nice knowing you, I wish you well." was exactly what I said when I find out about his type, which explained our clashes/inability to get each other. ENFJs, on the other hand, are just amazing people. Beautiful souls, and they think of us the same way - that's the best thing. Me and the ENFJ I know in my life never failed to tell each other how we find each other beautiful on the inside, good people. 💖
Yeah I too try and keep the really negative people out of my space. I have enough dark stuff to already try and mentally navigate on my own without their stuff on top of it all...
Yeah I have many including family members. It’s not an easy thing for types like us to do as we can typically stay in things for longer than we should due to avoiding that conflict, but yeah once you do gain the courage to break free it is a great feeling after the initial feelings subside...
INFP HD ... Same! And I’m also from the South (I’m guessing you are from your accent), and I always use that Oscar Wilde quote, too (on your About page). It’s just awesome to find a person who gets me, because he’s so similar.
Lol it’s funny how a lot of people say I have a southern accent! I don’t hear it in me but when I go south I definitely hear it in others. I’m originally from Southern California and now living in Ohio with England and Jersey for a few years each in between. Probably just some weird mix of all that? Yeah I love relating to similar minded people which is a big part of why I jumped on here to fish us all out of the shadows for fun relating times! Met a lot of cool people so far...
INFP HD .... Oh wow! So you’re not at all from the South. You’re sound SO Carolinian (I’m a North Carolina girl, so that’s just all kinds of flattery there 😋). I love that you’ve made this channel. Sometimes, I feel alone in how I am. To meet people who are like me, makes me feel acknowledged. And that means the world. ❤️
Yeah I especially get called out when I go to my companies HQ in Boston. Everyone assumes I’m from Texas - I really can’t hear it, but apparently that accent is there lol. I’m gonna keep trying my best with this RUclips stuff. It’s my creative outlet currently and usually I don’t stick with those things for this long so something is with all this to keep me planted instead of running always to something new and shiny...
"I m trying to put her in for INFP mascot." I m at 2 minutes 10 seconds and I m already rolling over the floor laughing! I'm so glad I found you. MBTI and INFP's IN PARTICULARRRRRRR - I don't know, it all seems to have this almost lethal heaviness and seriousness around it, that I do can feel myself falling into, inadvertently letting myself fall through the rabbit hole and realize I can't go back and literally forgot where home was anyway. But here you are! All bubbly and funny, and not a rabbit hole in sight! I think I m gonna put you in for being our INFP mascot!
Nice to meet you Suzanne, and welcome to the relating party 🤗🥳. Yeah I too found it very comforting to watch INFP RUclipsrs who just seemed to get me as well as share similar struggles. Placing “myself” in front of the camera was to kind of pay it back and hopefully offer those same helpful feelings I gained prior to creating content, but just using my perspective. Yeah I’ve been hooked on MBTI / psychology stuff ever since I found it about 10 years ago. Humans fascinate me and it’s just a new experience with every interaction. If something is easy to figure out lacking depth then I get bored super quick and I think just a big part of why I like complex things to go unravel.. ...but yeah, ONE in the spotlight thing at a time! Videoing myself on a social media platform is what I can seemingly handle at the moment..ALSO being a mascot - 🤔🥴🤯 Hope all is well 😬 Sean
Yeah Ham it’s not to say any type can’t be a great fit by any means! Every type has their strengths / weaknesses and opposites do attract is something. I can get along just fine with every type (depending on their own personal healthy level) which no type is anything different than a Human Being at the core. MBTI is simply a tool and not some hard written thing that we need to stay over here or over there. Just fun talking points is all.. Sean
If I were to choose platonic or romantic, I'd honestly see ENFJs and INFPs as more of a great teammate than romantic partner. They can compliment each other together like a single unit, but I guess in a romantic setting the INFP can only handle an abundant amount of ENFJ's outgoing sunshine. (It's an opinion which I'm honestly not 100% against this pairing and also thinks this can workout in the long run when there is understanding and respect with each other)
Yeah can definitely go that way too. Any type combination has a chance for success it's just what this "one" chart showed so thought it was interesting. And yes for sure - I can get overwhelmed personally by too much sunshine especially when I need to recharge on "my own". A bold positive bubbly person is not what I need during my processing times and sometimes I just need to stay in the dark shadows for awhile to come out better. Sean
@@INFPHD As long as she knows and respects your space, that communication and understanding is important. An E needs to go out a little more and socialize with friends while the I does their processing quiet time. In that way it fits.
I don’t know what it is about coming up on an ending. It’s like I get “in the zone” all passionate about the topic and then when it’s time to stop I get hit with a big uncomfortable INFP awkward in front of the camera rush!! It even makes me laugh watching it lol
ENFJ here....Interesting! I went on a date last night with an INFP! We spoke non stop, yes I actually listened lol! Question for you...Are INFP men generally not ALPHA males??
Awesome to hear - yeah I’ve never dated an ENFJ, but you guys are very intriguing to me and when I talk to one on here it’s fun! So I stumbled recently upon the term “Sigma Male”. It feels the same as the word Ambivert where everyone wants to just claim that instead of introvert / extrovert. However, reading the Sigma description does resonate to me with how INFP males would more-so fall into this category if they were somewhat of a healthy confident INFP. I have been in many leadership roles and when I have to boss someone around I really don’t like it! I can do it and get my feelings out of the way to get the overall task done, but it tags me with a lot of stress. We generally are said to be great leaders, but prefer to do things off to the side not in the spotlight which an ALPHA is typically going to want the opposite. I personally just don’t like to assert “my stuff” on anyone with more of a collaborative approach, but if I know a certain work task has a small time frame and I’m in charge I will buckle down and get it done without using the fluffy collaboration tactics in the background I would mostly prefer. I can go on and on about this topic, but if the INFP is a healthy / confident one then I would say the Sigma male term would give you better insight.. Sean
Yeah I don’t personally know an ESFJ (who took a test anyways) but I do like to look through all the types preferred functions for better relating with them. Definitely will work other type dynamics into the mix down the road...👍🏻 Sean
We get along well. He's extroverted so he's got connections haha plus he can do the talking part with strangers whenever we're out HAHA. He's a J so he gets things done, he really makes life so much easier for me. Being an N, we can talk about things that interest us both, while being an F, we are both highly atuned to our values. As an INFP, I don't open up much about the deepest things about myself, but I guess my dad as an extrovert is more comfortable doing that. Being an N, my dad and I don't get bored easily since there are a lot of things going on in our heads. We can stay in the house and hang out without having to talk too much. He can do something he likes while I also do my own thing. We simply enjoy each other's company. I hope someday you will come to personally know an ENFJ (and even have one in your life).
Infp here, my gf is ESFJ and ofc the S/N part can be challenging sometimes but she is very well balanced ^^ I also have a very good acquaintance and training buddy that happens to be ENFJ, super cool and down to earth dude 👌🏽
Yeah Cosmolore I really didn’t want it to come across that an S is a zero chance possibility for us... Every type has good, quality, balanced individuals within them. It’s more of a personal thing for me to explore more of that N letter in a partner just with it potentially having that better common ground understanding naturally woven in it. But yeah, good luck to you in your relationship and an ESFJ has the ability to pull us out of our shadows - becoming a better rounded person for sure 🙌🏻🥳 Sean
I know what you mean. With ESFJ's it can be hit or miss depending on your ability to deal with the "s" factor. Balance is key. I personally prefer another intuitive BUT I've seen successful infp / esfj pairings.
My boyfriend is an ENFJ and this is so true (I’m an INFP 51/49 ENFP)! I must keep this video and watch it when I need clarity and reassurance lol you’re great. Thank you 🌞
Yes, I have realized that it's probably a good idea as an infp to stay away from S types too😄 nothing against them, but it's pretty much oil and water most of the time...
Yeah obviously N types can be bad as well these are just my majority based relationship personal lessons. Not saying when I find an N in a relationship it’s going to be all sunshine and roses, but I think I’m just going to put a little more weight on it next time around and see what happens there.. Nice to meet you Pamela! Sean
Yes - s types can make good friends - my best friend is an ESFJ - but they don't have enough in common with us intuiting types for a relationship to work that well.
Yeah and like I mentioned in the video I’m not saying a great relationship can’t come from any type combination it was just something more that “I” was going to explore as I have the S experience (of 10 years total - both were ESTJs) already checked off the list.
Hey Sarah nice to meet you!! Yeah I’m an idiot you can just say it 🤣... Thanks so much for the positive comment nonetheless!! Hope all is well with ya! Sean
My dad is an INFP like me and he's been married to my ISFJ mum since 1985. Yep, that pairing happens. They are on different wavelengths a fair bit though.
In the INFP/ESTJ situation the cognitive function stack is reversed, while in the INFP/ENFJ situation the cognitive functions are the inverse. I’ve noticed inverse works complementary while reversed kinda repels each other.
My bf is a Enfj. Loveee our chemistry 🥺 Hope we last. Funny thing is he is a Gemini and I've ALWAYS avoided Geminis as I'm a Pisces. He is soo different. He is extroverted yet so selfless, sweet and care about my feelings🥺❤
Lol yeah I can totally see that. Then having Fe just wants to help us out and our Fi wants to typically be left alone doing it ourselves. I also feel I’m already extroverted enough personally and having an Extrovert pull me out more than I already do I feel would be a bit much. Not saying it can’t be a fantastic relationship (as with any type pairing) just perhaps not for me at this time in my life.. Nice to meet you Paris 🤙🏻 Sean
With what little I have currently seen of Rebecca's channel, I have to say ... *SHE'S COOL* 5:43 (she's influencing me already) 😅. and now someone is going to go get divorced because of mbti 9:06 , look what you've done 😂
NO MONDAYS!!! You too can't start a "Self-Love Kitchen" segment ALSO!! We need you over here in stable land - Rebecca was losing it that day!!! lol. You just stay over on your channel making more Spicy Noodle Challenge videos which are less crazy!! (I soooo just bought this Hot and Spicy noodle bowl in chilli sauce like a half hour ago in the hotel vending machine (I don't do hot stuff well) downstairs and literally thought of you when I bought it lol!!! That's strange that you had a comment waiting for me on my computer in that short span of time.... WEIRD!! I mean only good at 9:06 and tried to make a clear disclaimer about the "S"!! I'm simply just saying that that's the route "I'm" taking and not that other people should even listen to "anything" I'm saying...
My boy Derek just threw out his ISFJ wife relationship video with his opposite opinion of looking at that chart LOL. Should have took your divorce advise..... :) ruclips.net/video/LJlfs6rVT0Q/видео.html
Hey Matilda - nice to meet you 😬. Yeah we’ve talked a few times on the phone over the last couple years, but never met each other. Thanks for the compliments 🙃 Sean
What up Liljulee!? yeeeeah the INFP preferences I feel are a little more accepted for the girls as us "boys" have to be all tough and macho - blah lol! Send them my way - I LOVE meeting other INFP's (and you too of course)!! ;) Sean
As an ENFJ who’s dated two INFPs I gotta say I’m not the biggest fan anymore. I find them sweet and peaceful but just way too quiet and like... not to offend, low key cowardly when it comes to being honest about their feelings.
Hey girl! Yeah it’s obviously not some hard set rule that certain types are for sure to be a perfect fit for one another. It also depends on how “healthy” a specific person is to where they will typically be a more hardened stereotypical (INFP for example) type opposed to understanding that the harder stuff is required to really be more successful with people / things in this life. I will say that being led by a STRONG feeling value system which we typically run through life first with we do keep that bad boy protected pretty heavily. My circle is very small “on purpose”. I can mingle with society and have a very sociable work life that I navigate day to day, but those people are not going to get that deep feeling side of me. When I find “someone” who I trust they will get a pretty intense on pouring of 100% pure feelings which I keep locked from others so they can’t step all over them. If I lose trust in a person or a relationship is on the way out then yes I will start closing up shop to again protect the Fi to where the other has no idea what my feelings are. I am aware that the sharing of feelings to the ones you care about are important if you want something to work, but again if “I’m” (yes Fi can get selfish) not feeling the dynamic anymore then I know it’s time to move on from that person as my feelings don’t typically come back to the surface and it’s not fair to the other if feelings can no longer be shared honestly from both parties. ENFJs with the lead Fe are typically in the business of helping “others”. It’s stated that lead Fi users need to help themselves as external influences aren’t gonna be able to work internal the best they need. This can create one of the many challenges as you just wanting to help and the INFP staying silent, leaving you off to the side, until they are finished. But yeah, compromising to the others needs would provide a better working win win if say the INFP understood you were generally just wanting to help and would allow a simple conversation to happen out of our little internal world. Sean
Right on! Yeah I have no real life experience dating an ENFJ I just thought the information was interesting especially since I couldn't get the two ESTJ's to work out lol
@@INFPHD When i met my wife in 2005, I didn't know about MBTI then. I just went with my feelings, as she did. Turns out she is isfp. I do love her, but choosing someone now ( not knowing her) I would never go for sensor, or someone with fe or se. Chances arewould be an intj or I would remain single for rest of my life ( most likely be single and have few close friends ( intj, intp infp and enfp) etc
Yeah totally feel ya on this as I’m in the same mind state! ISFPs are actually a really close type to us and there’s always something to be said about opposites helping balance each other out. I’m 39 and my longest relationship was with my kids mom ESTJ (stayed together for the thought of the kid - never doing that again!) for 8 years. Took a 2 year break and then just so happened to be I stumbled upon the next one who was also ESTJ (1.5 year relationship). Every type can obviously develop themselves into a well rounded person, but yeah I’m now just interested in seeing what that “N” most importantly has going on with it. Honestly, I’ll probably prefer an introvert as well as I already have the capability on my own to want to go out and do things...I just don’t want the “pressure”. But yeah I’ve never been married and also content with if it never happens - it is OK by me. I commonly romanticize about life with another person, but also know it’s something that I don’t fear not having as I’m fine being alone (don’t really feel alone). So yeah not writing it all off etc. just going to be more cautious next time as I have plenty of intimate experience with our direct shadow type (as hard as the daily struggles were I am appreciative of the experiences it gave me..). Just stumbling upon that MBTI Compatibility Chart on Google just got my mind interested as it shows the main letter to avoid for us is all the “S” types. Doesn’t mean that can’t work just because some chart says so, but again, I’m just going to explore it... Sean
@@INFPHD wow 2 estjs 😥 my heart goes out to you. Must have been tough at times. But nice you have a kid now. How is that going for you ? Enjoy being a dad ? Isfp and infp can be similar, but fi clash , that Se and I lack, my ne and she lacks. It's always where we clash. Anyway, yeah I agree, when i was younger i didnt care if single or have partner, actually younger i was very anti marriage.i am happy with her, but the frustration times are sooo full of frustration. But definitely this will be last marriage for sure.
Can you PLEASE tell me why we both have that attraction to them? It’s weird ESTJ happened to me twice in a row. Like at first I was deeply drawn to them, but the differences set in and was extremely difficult on a day to day basis for each of us. Both those types have the same cognitive functions as us, but just flipped around opposite. Like in the video I’m not saying those relationships can’t work as having different points of view can help you grow....but yeeeeeah - I’m gonna look in another direction next time around..
@@INFPHD I am attracted to his 'nerdy-ness' and him being an introvert just like me. My ex partners all were something with E and that was just exhausting with all those parties and always friends hanging around 😅 My husband is the first introvert for me and it works out - from time to time 🤣 We love and hate each other passionately. He knows what I need plus he knows to push my buttons - so it's a perfectly imperfect relationship. I never ever wanna miss him, he is my soulmate and nemesis 🙈😂 Hard to put in words what I want to say
Yeah my relationships we sure knew how to push each other’s buttons... Great you found an awesome pairing for yourself!👍🏻 No worries on the English as I see it as very good! I can barely speak my own 1 language let alone two! Plus I correspond with Germans a lot for the job so used to it.
I love INFP so much. I love INFP so much that I am delving into MBTI just so I can have the perfect relationship with one. I love INFP with all my heart. If they only all knew 😂
Awesome to hear man, and yes I agree we INFPs can be a handful at times. Just nice when you have a type like yours who kinda gets a more than many of them do... Sean
In my opinion only the infp female and enfj male is a match. Everywhere I look the infp is respresenred as female. I’m infp male and i think INFJ is the match
Yeah there is so much info out there on stuff that it’s difficult to process. I can see how opposites can be a good pairing and my last two long term relationships were both with ESTJs. There were moments that I can appreciate the differences, but at the same time the negatives outweighed the positives which is obviously just “my” personal experience and can obviously be different for others. I just stumbled upon that MBTI relationship chart which had ENFJ as one of the ideal ones so I gravitated more to that idea that the STJ realm from which my experience lays. Sure there are plenty of issues that can also transpire from that relationship, but it’s just more of the angle I’m entertaining now a days.. Sean
Yeah I feel it is attributed to the healthiness level of any given type to where there is a good amount of balance, but regardless of that concept I’m just more interested in trying for a closer intuitive match.
@@matilda4406 I’m most solid on the “N”. I don’t want another extrovert just because I can extrovert enough for myself and don’t want extra pressure to go out with people more than an introvert would. F and T not too big of a concern, but think I would prefer a P. I just don’t like structure of being controlled. So my more so hard preferences are more the I and N.
@@INFPHD Interesting. I've had "S"s too and realize I need an "N". So you realize you prefer INxP. There is also ambivert xNFx. Don't forget too many similarities means no growth and stagnation in a r/s. Though I think you may need an xNxJ
Yeah I understand having similar dynamics amongst two people, but I would honestly just want to try that combo (since I never have yet) to where the connection / conversations can be on a deeper level than with an opposite. But yeah a J comes with more structure / control tendencies as the slightest sign of someone trying to control / change me I will get very skiddish. I'm not saying that my perfect person out there isn't a type outside of an INXP as its also just based on the healthiness level of every human, but it's just something I want to entertain is all. If I was a younger INFP then yeah an opposite type would probably bode better, but I don't need someone to take care of me. I can get through life just fine on my own...I just want a compliment to my life is all.
Sean!! ☺Oh my goodness, my heart is filled with so much love and gratitude!! 🥰Could you be any sweeter?? Thank you, thank you, *thank you* from the bottom of my heart!! You are a real gem and I'm beyond grateful that you found me, the unofficial INFP mascot. 🧚♀️You guys are the best and I'm excited to find the others and create our NF tribe of peace, love, and positivity! Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help your channel.
I also agree about the challenges the N/S dynamic can sometimes create. For some reason, I find myself connecting most deeply with other intuitive types as well. Anywho, thanks again for the rad shout out, wonderful INFP!! 😎🤩
The only thing I need (we all need) from you is for you just to keep on keeping on with your WONDERFUL POSITIVITY!!
Much love girl - go get em!!!!
Sean
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I'm new here and you all are so sweet!!!! 😀😄🌼🌹🌺
Nice to meet you Alisha, and welcome! 🙃
Sean
@@INFPHD Thank you Sean!! 👍😀
I’m an infp and my best friend of 5 years is an enfj and I have never had a deeper connection with anyone else in my life and I’m beyond greatful to have such an inspiring and wonderful person in my life :)
That’s so awesome to hear Bobby! Like I said in the video I don’t “knowingly” have close experience with an ENFJ type, but found it very intriguing that they were a recommended ideal type for us. I think I’m going to put a Craigslist ad up today asking if any ENFJs want to be friends lol..
Sean
I’m so glad I found your channel! It’s refreshing to find an Infp with so much excitement and passion about life! I love how optimistic and funny you are. For years I have been trying to escape my overly serious side and have slowly been making progress by showing up more “lite” in life, generally speaking. You are a perfect representation of how I want to engage with life. I wasn’t sure it was possible, but have proved to me that it is. Thank you!
What's up Cheri!!!? I'm so glad you found me too lol (comment relating section is my favorite part with this stuff!).
Yeah I definitely am maxing out all the Ne stuff I can which honestly gets tiring at times because it's essentially a never ending door going round and round...... Being "content" is something I just can't seem to find which is the dark side to the thirst for everything that is out there (when the earth runs out of things I'm sure I will board some space shuttle - blaaaaah lol). I have always been into comedic things which I think has helped me cope with a lot of our dark INFP times we can sink into. It's really just a constant battle and if you don't water it with humor then the dark times in life are gonna "win"!
I will say that yes, I come across as very animated in my videos and indeed that is a true representation of a "part of me". However, all the video stuff is something I'm passionate to learn all about (when we are passionate about something then - look out!!!!) so my excitement is a little over dressed during the small snippets of filming. Obviously in the editing too I get to carry on with more creative fun but yeah....Basically I just wanted to point out that "I" don't have it all figured out living this fun care free non serious life. With that though I'm also not going to hop in front of a video when I'm in some bad place either because....I'm just not (I'll process through that stuff internally - Sean's got those times..).
I have been in the fast paced grind for the last 20 years in my work life which I've brushed on in some of my videos. This has had me in the clutches of "seriousness" in order to pay the bills etc etc. I have always brought that fun vibe along with me with attempts to uplift others along the way, but still I have had to also play the serious role way more than I desire. I'm now working on simplifying my life over the next coming years to start working backwards from the fast paced lifestyle and a more simple, relaxed, creative one where I truly feel happiness is REALLY at! It's not at the top of the corporate ladder, money, or in the back yard of your huge house.
So yeah I'm not trying to lead people on with a depiction of "I'm all good" cause really I have the same struggles in general that other INFP's have in their heads. Video you can just pick and choose when you are having a "good day" (which is still a "real day").
Sooooo Ms. Cheri....I see you have a little channel over there with "crafty things"! Why has it been so long since posting or am I missing something..?
Sean
INFP HD Thankfully my husband bears the brunt of providing for us, so I’m homeschooling my kids now. When I was really active on my channel I was really hustling because we really needed extra income and at the time I really enjoyed the process and the success that came with it. Then we moved a bunch and I just couldn’t get back into my previous world and mindset. As of lately, I’m getting more into painting than sewing. So for me right now, my world is homeschooling, painting, and psychology!
Yeah that's one thing I have never had was a dual income support. It's always been "me" since 18 and I often forget that dual income families is "a thing". That's awesome you were hustling like that to make things workout and I respect ANYONE who puts in that kind of work. I definitely change up interests quite often as boredom strikes and I want to find something completely new to venture into so on board with you coming from sewing to painting! My mom has been a serious quilter all her life so I have grown up with fabric cluttering up all rooms of the house. And with a single mom trying to raise us I had the added benefit of her not understanding young male needs and instead "hey come here and help sew this quilt I'm making for your cousins". Answer is "no" I don't still sew, but have done so lol.
My world is 9 year old daughter, work, RUclips, and psychology!
Oooh look I have found the INFPs... hello! ENFJ here and I'm excited to subscribe and watch. Loved the video thought it was super cute!
ENFJs ALWAYS welcome!!! Nice to meet you Aurea!
Sean
My significant other is an Enfj and I am an Infp and we've been together for 8 years. We just naturally compliment and complete each other. Of course I never knew for certain he was an Enfj until he decided to take the test... But I had my suspicions.
That’s awesome Silvia - thanks for sharing that with me! Yeah definitely something that’s intriguing to think about. Obviously there will be struggles with “any type”, but some things probably have a more balanced flow with it I would imagine.
Take care
Sean
After watching the clip I can understand how an ENFJ could be a good match for INFP.
Absolutely! It’s a very intriguing thing that I plan to research more on...
Great meeting you!!
Sean
So, now, where’s the app that finds me an enfj? 😂
I know right 🤣. I think they do have like MBTI apps out there already floating around.
Maybe typematch
i haven't tried it yet, but i know an app called birdy.
Yes pleaseeee
Exactly!!! They are rare just like us.
I (infp) get along with other NFs in general.
My best friend of 12 years is an infp
My fiancé is an enfj and apparently I'm the closest he's ever been to another person. I'm always seeking connection though so I've had many close relationships in my life.
I have to say, my scatterbrained self is sooo grateful for the j tendencies of my partner. They are so helpful!! We do get along very well. We both share a sentimentality, creativity and interest in the intellectual that brings us together.
Love your ying and yang picture!!👍🏻👍🏻
Yeah same here my best friend for the longest duration is too an INFP. Found that out after about 13 years of knowing each other. Obviously it’s not to say that all INFPs and ENFJs will work out as each type has their good and bad representations, but yeah I think if the two are on a healthier spectrum then the partnership seems as though it would make for a great connection (I personally have no experience in an ENFJ relationship) which I appreciate you somewhat validating that thought...
Nice to meet you!
Sean
As an infp, she scared me, but I'm sure she's kind.
Yeah she’s a little coo coo (lol) with the Self Love Kitchen part but there is a lot of genuine authentic calm in the majority of her videos. The one she just made yesterday is very relatable, sincere, pitches again to us INFP’s, and gets unfortunately emotional at the end - all things I naturally went along with.
Pleasure to meet you Shelby!!
Sean
(INFP) My best friend of 27 years just tested as an ENFJ. I also love ENFPs, but ENFJ seems to be a more steady pairing.
Awesome! Yeah I found out my best friend is INFP after knowing him for sooo long. He’s not “as fun” though as probably an ENFJ is.... I think I’m gonna turn him in for credit 😆
Enfj's over Enfp's for me. Not that I don't like Enfp's I know about 4 of them. 1 is my mates Dad and I've know him for 32 years. And we get along fine. Enfj's just seems easier and a more comfortable fit. I only know female Enfj's, don't know if I've met a male Enfj. Anyway that's my 2 bobs worth.
Brett - We don’t know what “2 bobs worth” means over here in America!? You’re cut off from commenting for two videos... 🤣
@@INFPHD Lol, you guys need to edjumacate yourselves on Aussie slang. Get some culture about ya. 😂
WHAT did I just say!?!?!? This is officially the “first conflict” INFP HD has incurred! THANKS A LOT MENTOS!!! * I do understand “edjumacate” as that’s how it would come out of my mouth in front of camera 😆
Infp's don't get swayed by the judgments of others...
we don't?????!!!!!! teach me! lol
DID I SAY THAT!?!!??? - incorrect. 😂. Yeah I can’t promise what comes out of my mouth in these videos are going to be on point. It’s all crystal clear in my head however!!! 🤗
@@INFPHD lolol! no Rebecca said it, your conscience is clear I almost spit out my tea when she said it. Cuz I would LOVE to have that trait.
OH OK! ....yeah I was completely taken back by me ever saying such thing! I mean there is something to it where the older I’m getting I care less / doing what I want to do, but yeah it still affects me.
@@INFPHD you are so right about that, and for reasons quite unromantic (at least to what I perceived it would be). It's becoming slightly less convenient over time. 😊
We are generally non-judgemental ( not openly anyaways)
We tend to be openly accepting
BUT we will judge when we feel judged. We don't like the Lack of reciprocity at all. (Imo)
Just discovered your channel! Like the humor will continue
Nice to meet you!
That "self love kitchen" sounds just about like the imaginary RUclips channel I have when I'm home alone lol. ENFJs are the best friends - so energetic and positive, always willing to help me make that harmless mischief I am too shy to try on my own.
Yeah she’s the first “known one” that I stumbled upon. Was intrigued to say the least especially with how much they seem to “get us”..
Great video man!! My sister is an ENFJ and one of the best people I know! I feel like these two types can really inspire each other and work well together, in relationships and in the workplace!
Thanks and yeah I totally agree. ENFJ's are new to me as I have no confirmed experience with them. Was very interesting the more I dug into it all...
I didn't know that ENFJ's could be such a good pairing for INFP's. I always found myself attracted to other INFP's or ENFP's (though they can be tough to keep up with). I'm not sure I've ever met an ENFJ, but I look forward to checking out Pebble's channel! She seems really sweet and bubbly like you said and has a great energy but isn't obnoxious, at all, like some other youtubers with extroverted personalities can be.
I also had a thought. I wonder if ENFJ's aren't the least extroverted of the of the extroverted types, in the same way that INFP's can be one of the more extroverted of the introverted types. Maybe that's why we can kinda meet in the middle more easily? I dunno. I will need to do a little more research to figure out if that's true.
Anyways, great video dude! Really natural outro this time! Keep it up! :)
Yeah I never really looked into it all that deep as this all just came about for me too. I even heard that from others on here that they prefer ENFJ over ENFP which I wouldn't know myself but very interesting info! Yeah there is definitely "something" about Rebecca that is, like you said, not obnoxious. I feel that her content is going to be some solid stuff with great inspiration sprinkled throughout.
Yeah I did see her respond to a comment in one of her videos that "they would be surprised how much alone time she needs". We don't have to research now as we have HER!!! lol - Our ENFJ Yoda!!
Hi Jason, yeah I've heard that Enfjs are the most introverted of the Extroverts, and Infps are the most Extroverted of the introverts. Like you said, I found that my youngest (Enfj) sister and I meet in the middle. We get there a slightly different way, with a slightly different way of saying it. But we always meet in the middle. We get each other very much. And with all the Enfj girls I know, I find it a very easy conversation.
Oh cool, thanks for the insight! I hope I have the privilege of meeting and befriending more enfj's throughout my life!
HiSean!
Once again, another awesome video Sean, I didn't know ENFJs are so compatible with INFPs, my best friend is a INFJ, this is good info to know!
Usually I'm more drawn to the "quiet" types though. I feel uncomfortable with people who are too outgoing.
Yes...and bubbly....there's not much bubbly comming out of me...lol, I've always been very quiet until I feel "safe" and "secure" in a way. But I do get stuff done, and I have much vision and I also know many useful skills that others have to pay companies to get done, those are my fortés, and you're absolutely correct, I don't take credit for much that I do, and that's perfectly fine.
By the way I loved your intro!
That was ao nice of yiu to introduce Rebeccas channel.
Yeah the ENFJ stuff is all new to me too! She randomly popped up in my RUclips feed last week and I just happened to click on her INFP video and it all went from there. There is something about her that is welcoming and not too "loud / extroverted" - it's very intriguing to me. I just have not known a lot of NF types and their bubblyness I think is a good complement for us where that is not always the case.
If you haven't ventured over there I recommend it as I think her new channel is going to be an all around good one. Plus her newest video she just made today needs a little extra love from us down in the comments section....and your "motherly" (lol) comments are super duper!!!!
Sean
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I did get a chance to venture over there and she seems super!...I really liked her. I haven't yet commented because I haven't been feeling too great, I will do so soon! Definetely will subsribe to her channel though!
That was very kind of you do. You know Sean, one thing that caught my attention and really impressed me about you, is you seem very giving and you're willingness to share and mention people even strangers like myself whom you come in contact with that you click with, not many people in todays day are willing to take time to do that, which I belive is a really nice quality you possess. I admire you for that.
I'm sure you will be sucessfull at anything you put your heart and soul to do, you seem like a good person, and good people deserve great things.
Thanks Sean!... Oh and by the way,
I'll share some of my "motherly" luv...lol...with Rebecca soon!!!
Best wishes to you Sean...looking forward to your upcomming videos!!!!
Yeah and I’m really just no one special I just like to help others as I enjoy when others help me out in life (pay it forward type stuff). But yeah I’m all about bringing people along for the ride with me as I feel when I make a video and you guys take time out of your day to comment it’s the least I can do. Plus it just helps me feel like I’m not “alone” up there “on stage” in a sense so I look at it that way too. It’s honestly just about helping each other out in this crazy difficult life and if we can “step away” from our real lives just for a bit in video world everyone should have the opportunity to be apart of it even if “being in front” of the camera is not gonna happen for that person. Yeah I may have the vessel, but when I started I had the intention of it being more of a “community built” channel and not just something I’m doing solely. Yeah I’m sharing “my perspective” about topics but they are generally inspired by other people. Without that spark of inspiration to me that video would essentially not have been made with then zero chance of “helping others”...
I just have been stepped over and hushed for so long and know how it feels. If someone adds to something that gets a ball rolling then I want to recognize that person as I simply see it as the right thing to do... I will obviously tread cautiously and not make personal videos for everyone as a lot (including myself) like to stay under the radar more than others but quick little things here and there I plan to always sprinkle throughout my videos..
@@INFPHD
Hi Sean...
Why would you say you are not a special person? I think you are even though I don't really know you, just watching your videos and noticing how you compose them, very much leads me to "know" you are special...so there you go, that's my view of you!!!!
I enjoy watching your videos, as I see others do as well, I think it's a really great creative way to express your feelings (which is very hard for us to do), I get you, because when I create as well, it gives me a sense of fulfillment, even if just one person comments on my work.
Sean...I just had an idea...a suggestion from me... maybe on one of your upcomming videos you can ask the viewers specific questions of personal interest, such as... what are their talents, entertainment interest (movies, music, travel...etc). Maybe that will spark some more new ideas that you have yet to entertain and create a viedo on...Just an idea that may be fun!
Take care Sean!
Yeah I mean special in the sense that I’m not better than anyone else. I don’t have like a self deprecating attitude towards me or anything as I super enjoy who I have become as a person. Especially just how much I really know who I am which is very liberating when you can peruse ventures that “you” are into and not to just follow the rest of the world..
Yeah I’m still trying to better perfect my flow with videos etc. which is a HUGE learning curve that takes up every min of my free time. I feel that when I get more comfortable I will more openly ask in video for engagement stuff other than it all being through one on one conversations down in the comments. Honestly I just can’t nail down any content. The last 5-6 have all been inspired videos where they came out of nowhere and jumped in front of my list of “planned videos”. I don’t want to throw something out there, a bunch of people respond, and I can’t ever get to that topic for months because of the above (mostly inspired) issue. Naturally I’m a more go with the flow type person and don’t like to follow list etc which is why I understand why it’s all happening, but I just can’t plan for what I’m gonna do week to week. And it’s not like I’m dried up on ideas as I have so many it’s overwhelming so yeah for now I’m gonna try not to open a flood gate of “more” ideas and then potentially suffer overwhelming mental burnout where I run away into a hole for awhile to process it all.
So yeah much appreciation on the advice I’m just not quite there yet in my personal opinion is all.
Sean
I don't know how I missed watching this one Sean. I love ENFJs. My best friend is an ENFJ. I'm sure it is because their cognitive functions completely mirror/support our own Fi-Fe, Ne-Ni, Si-Se and Te-Ti in the exact order. They are extroverts but great listeners and they are kind and support we INFPs in things we aren't good at, like making phone calls or being organised. We might have the ideas for social change but the ENFJ will execute the ideas. Funny, but I have a bigger problem with 'TJ' types than 'S', maybe because they can be so darned rigid and insensitive. My best friend from primary school was an INFJ, high school was and ENFP and now an ENFJ. There can be no doubt that I am drawn to the kindness of the 'NF' type. Now I am going to check out Rebecca since she seems like such a sweetie. Meredith
lol yeah I totally love types who will make a phone call for me 🤣! My two ex’s were both ESTJs and when it came to simply order a pizza I would try and talk them into it each time and eventually it got to the point where they were like “just make the call Sean!”....🥺😔 🤗
So yeah the NF particular combination to me just adds a touch more understanding to where we INFPs are coming from and do the things we do. Obviously any type can work out in the end I just thought it was interesting seeing charts on our “preferred type”. I’m super drawn to INFJs I meet on here I will say that!
INFP HD I work with an INFJ and we get along really well. He is married to an INFP so is good at dealing with my quirks 🤣🤣. I always make my ESTJ partner make the phone calls, I have major phone phobia, it is ridiculous
Nice shirt! As a proud indoorsman, indoorsy ppl are the best!
Thanks - I totally agree! Lol
Im an infp & I was married to an enfj ... It got really messed up...to say the least. Now I want to be alone so I can work on my art .
Yeah for sure any types can have there issues. My long 8 and 1.5 year relationships were both with ESTJs. That combo was a big recipe for disaster and both girls weren’t bad people there were just extreme differences with our preferences. I’m also pretty content with being alone to do my own things...
INFP HD probably because ENTJ is widely listed as the most advantageous match for INFPs - just look at how well Jane Eyre and Mr. Rochester go together :)
Me (INFP) and my wife an ENFJ just watched your vid and really enjoyed it! I keep saying to to her "he should just ask her on a date already"! Lol! Oh maybe your in different towns! Though we were in a long distance relationship for a year! Not to be pushy, maybe you'll find another! You got subbed!
You're so funny!! 😂 I, INFP, was dating an ISTJ, "thanks, it's nice knowing you, I wish you well." was exactly what I said when I find out about his type, which explained our clashes/inability to get each other. ENFJs, on the other hand, are just amazing people. Beautiful souls, and they think of us the same way - that's the best thing. Me and the ENFJ I know in my life never failed to tell each other how we find each other beautiful on the inside, good people. 💖
I like that enfj woman. That positive energy is just nice to me. A lot of negative people I run into. It gets exhausting for me. (Infp).
Yeah I too try and keep the really negative people out of my space. I have enough dark stuff to already try and mentally navigate on my own without their stuff on top of it all...
INFP HD
I once ditched a negative person and it felt like a weight was lifted
Yeah I have many including family members. It’s not an easy thing for types like us to do as we can typically stay in things for longer than we should due to avoiding that conflict, but yeah once you do gain the courage to break free it is a great feeling after the initial feelings subside...
Oh... my.... gawd. I just found your channel. You’re like a male version of me! I’m also an INFP. Lawrd!
Lol 😂👍🏻 Pleasure to meet you Natalie!
INFP HD ... Same! And I’m also from the South (I’m guessing you are from your accent), and I always use that Oscar Wilde quote, too (on your About page). It’s just awesome to find a person who gets me, because he’s so similar.
Lol it’s funny how a lot of people say I have a southern accent! I don’t hear it in me but when I go south I definitely hear it in others. I’m originally from Southern California and now living in Ohio with England and Jersey for a few years each in between. Probably just some weird mix of all that?
Yeah I love relating to similar minded people which is a big part of why I jumped on here to fish us all out of the shadows for fun relating times! Met a lot of cool people so far...
INFP HD .... Oh wow! So you’re not at all from the South. You’re sound SO Carolinian (I’m a North Carolina girl, so that’s just all kinds of flattery there 😋). I love that you’ve made this channel. Sometimes, I feel alone in how I am. To meet people who are like me, makes me feel acknowledged. And that means the world. ❤️
Yeah I especially get called out when I go to my companies HQ in Boston. Everyone assumes I’m from Texas - I really can’t hear it, but apparently that accent is there lol.
I’m gonna keep trying my best with this RUclips stuff. It’s my creative outlet currently and usually I don’t stick with those things for this long so something is with all this to keep me planted instead of running always to something new and shiny...
"I m trying to put her in for INFP mascot." I m at 2 minutes 10 seconds and I m already rolling over the floor laughing! I'm so glad I found you. MBTI and INFP's IN PARTICULARRRRRRR - I don't know, it all seems to have this almost lethal heaviness and seriousness around it, that I do can feel myself falling into, inadvertently letting myself fall through the rabbit hole and realize I can't go back and literally forgot where home was anyway.
But here you are!
All bubbly and funny, and not a rabbit hole in sight!
I think I m gonna put you in for being our INFP mascot!
Nice to meet you Suzanne, and welcome to the relating party 🤗🥳. Yeah I too found it very comforting to watch INFP RUclipsrs who just seemed to get me as well as share similar struggles. Placing “myself” in front of the camera was to kind of pay it back and hopefully offer those same helpful feelings I gained prior to creating content, but just using my perspective. Yeah I’ve been hooked on MBTI / psychology stuff ever since I found it about 10 years ago. Humans fascinate me and it’s just a new experience with every interaction. If something is easy to figure out lacking depth then I get bored super quick and I think just a big part of why I like complex things to go unravel..
...but yeah, ONE in the spotlight thing at a time! Videoing myself on a social media platform is what I can seemingly handle at the moment..ALSO being a mascot - 🤔🥴🤯
Hope all is well 😬
Sean
I am an INFP and my best friend of 17 years is an ISTP. I don't know why we get along so well, but we do.
Yeah Ham it’s not to say any type can’t be a great fit by any means! Every type has their strengths / weaknesses and opposites do attract is something. I can get along just fine with every type (depending on their own personal healthy level) which no type is anything different than a Human Being at the core. MBTI is simply a tool and not some hard written thing that we need to stay over here or over there. Just fun talking points is all..
Sean
ISTP is the shadow personality of the ENFJ. Maybe that is why you guys click
If I were to choose platonic or romantic, I'd honestly see ENFJs and INFPs as more of a great teammate than romantic partner. They can compliment each other together like a single unit, but I guess in a romantic setting the INFP can only handle an abundant amount of ENFJ's outgoing sunshine.
(It's an opinion which I'm honestly not 100% against this pairing and also thinks this can workout in the long run when there is understanding and respect with each other)
Yeah can definitely go that way too. Any type combination has a chance for success it's just what this "one" chart showed so thought it was interesting. And yes for sure - I can get overwhelmed personally by too much sunshine especially when I need to recharge on "my own". A bold positive bubbly person is not what I need during my processing times and sometimes I just need to stay in the dark shadows for awhile to come out better.
Sean
@@INFPHD As long as she knows and respects your space, that communication and understanding is important. An E needs to go out a little more and socialize with friends while the I does their processing quiet time. In that way it fits.
Nice ending mate. Best yet! ;o)
I don’t know what it is about coming up on an ending. It’s like I get “in the zone” all passionate about the topic and then when it’s time to stop I get hit with a big uncomfortable INFP awkward in front of the camera rush!! It even makes me laugh watching it lol
That look at 5:55 , ok that's the end of infp patience 🙄
ENFJ here....Interesting! I went on a date last night with an INFP! We spoke non stop, yes I actually listened lol!
Question for you...Are INFP men generally not ALPHA males??
Awesome to hear - yeah I’ve never dated an ENFJ, but you guys are very intriguing to me and when I talk to one on here it’s fun!
So I stumbled recently upon the term “Sigma Male”. It feels the same as the word Ambivert where everyone wants to just claim that instead of introvert / extrovert. However, reading the Sigma description does resonate to me with how INFP males would more-so fall into this category if they were somewhat of a healthy confident INFP. I have been in many leadership roles and when I have to boss someone around I really don’t like it! I can do it and get my feelings out of the way to get the overall task done, but it tags me with a lot of stress. We generally are said to be great leaders, but prefer to do things off to the side not in the spotlight which an ALPHA is typically going to want the opposite. I personally just don’t like to assert “my stuff” on anyone with more of a collaborative approach, but if I know a certain work task has a small time frame and I’m in charge I will buckle down and get it done without using the fluffy collaboration tactics in the background I would mostly prefer.
I can go on and on about this topic, but if the INFP is a healthy / confident one then I would say the Sigma male term would give you better insight..
Sean
Every ISFP, ESFP, and ENFP I meet we automatically are drawn and connected with each other. Same with other INFP’s. You should do a video on the ESFJ.
Yeah I don’t personally know an ESFJ (who took a test anyways) but I do like to look through all the types preferred functions for better relating with them. Definitely will work other type dynamics into the mix down the road...👍🏻
Sean
I'm an INFP and my dad is an ENFJ and he's my best friend!
Awesome Pocholo! Very cool 👍🏻
We get along well. He's extroverted so he's got connections haha plus he can do the talking part with strangers whenever we're out HAHA. He's a J so he gets things done, he really makes life so much easier for me. Being an N, we can talk about things that interest us both, while being an F, we are both highly atuned to our values.
As an INFP, I don't open up much about the deepest things about myself, but I guess my dad as an extrovert is more comfortable doing that.
Being an N, my dad and I don't get bored easily since there are a lot of things going on in our heads. We can stay in the house and hang out without having to talk too much. He can do something he likes while I also do my own thing. We simply enjoy each other's company.
I hope someday you will come to personally know an ENFJ (and even have one in your life).
Oh I’m looking for them now 😂! I think most though is that N for the deeper understanding. One day one day....
Aww that's so cute 😊🥰
Infp here, my gf is ESFJ and ofc the S/N part can be challenging sometimes but she is very well balanced ^^
I also have a very good acquaintance and training buddy that happens to be ENFJ, super cool and down to earth dude 👌🏽
Yeah Cosmolore I really didn’t want it to come across that an S is a zero chance possibility for us... Every type has good, quality, balanced individuals within them. It’s more of a personal thing for me to explore more of that N letter in a partner just with it potentially having that better common ground understanding naturally woven in it. But yeah, good luck to you in your relationship and an ESFJ has the ability to pull us out of our shadows - becoming a better rounded person for sure 🙌🏻🥳
Sean
I know what you mean.
With ESFJ's it can be hit or miss depending on your ability to deal with the "s" factor. Balance is key.
I personally prefer another intuitive BUT I've seen successful infp / esfj pairings.
This is interesting I should learn more about ENFJs.
Yeah definitely! That’s what I’m about to do through her channel... caught me off guard and very interesting now!
You’re so stinkin’ adorable! Lol. -your fellow infp 😋
Lol thanks Tam Tam 😊
Sean
My boyfriend is an ENFJ and this is so true (I’m an INFP 51/49 ENFP)! I must keep this video and watch it when I need clarity and reassurance lol you’re great. Thank you 🌞
Yes, I have realized that it's probably a good idea as an infp to stay away from S types too😄 nothing against them, but it's pretty much oil and water most of the time...
Yeah obviously N types can be bad as well these are just my majority based relationship personal lessons. Not saying when I find an N in a relationship it’s going to be all sunshine and roses, but I think I’m just going to put a little more weight on it next time around and see what happens there..
Nice to meet you Pamela!
Sean
@@INFPHD Very nice to meet you too!
Yes - s types can make good friends - my best friend is an ESFJ - but they don't have enough in common with us intuiting types for a relationship to work that well.
Yeah and like I mentioned in the video I’m not saying a great relationship can’t come from any type combination it was just something more that “I” was going to explore as I have the S experience (of 10 years total - both were ESTJs) already checked off the list.
Yep can't b with ST s ... Just can't understand our emotions...
You're so funny 😂 - INFJ
Hey Sarah nice to meet you!! Yeah I’m an idiot you can just say it 🤣... Thanks so much for the positive comment nonetheless!!
Hope all is well with ya!
Sean
My dad is an INFP like me and he's been married to my ISFJ mum since 1985. Yep, that pairing happens. They are on different wavelengths a fair bit though.
his is soooo good! Beautiful stuff man, your energy too :D
Pleasure to meet you! Thanks - yeah the energy is caffeine infused mixed with a TON of on camera awkwardness!
Sean
@@INFPHD Hhaha you are so funny man!! :D
The same, keep it going. Creative and FUN!
Infp and my best friend is an enfj. Best friendship I’ve had.
(I just cracked my neck.. agh..)
Awesome to hear (....not your neck cracking part!!! - you ok????)
Sean
INFP HD
It’s great
(I was ok after 5 minutes. All I did was turn my head. I’m so weakXD)
In the INFP/ESTJ situation the cognitive function stack is reversed, while in the INFP/ENFJ situation the cognitive functions are the inverse. I’ve noticed inverse works complementary while reversed kinda repels each other.
My bf is a Enfj. Loveee our chemistry 🥺 Hope we last.
Funny thing is he is a Gemini and I've ALWAYS avoided Geminis as I'm a Pisces. He is soo different. He is extroverted yet so selfless, sweet and care about my feelings🥺❤
My two closest friends are infps. My husband is an infj. I'm one of those enfjs! ♥️ Love my infs!
Thanks for posting this :)
No problemo 🤙
Sean
My husband is ENFJ and I’m an INFP. We have a great relationship but he’s jut so pushy!
Lol yeah I can totally see that. Then having Fe just wants to help us out and our Fi wants to typically be left alone doing it ourselves. I also feel I’m already extroverted enough personally and having an Extrovert pull me out more than I already do I feel would be a bit much. Not saying it can’t be a fantastic relationship (as with any type pairing) just perhaps not for me at this time in my life..
Nice to meet you Paris 🤙🏻
Sean
With what little I have currently seen of Rebecca's channel, I have to say ... *SHE'S COOL* 5:43 (she's influencing me already) 😅. and now someone is going to go get divorced because of mbti 9:06 , look what you've done 😂
NO MONDAYS!!! You too can't start a "Self-Love Kitchen" segment ALSO!! We need you over here in stable land - Rebecca was losing it that day!!! lol. You just stay over on your channel making more Spicy Noodle Challenge videos which are less crazy!! (I soooo just bought this Hot and Spicy noodle bowl in chilli sauce like a half hour ago in the hotel vending machine (I don't do hot stuff well) downstairs and literally thought of you when I bought it lol!!! That's strange that you had a comment waiting for me on my computer in that short span of time.... WEIRD!!
I mean only good at 9:06 and tried to make a clear disclaimer about the "S"!! I'm simply just saying that that's the route "I'm" taking and not that other people should even listen to "anything" I'm saying...
@@INFPHDI'll leave the self love kitchen to Rebecca! But I want more self love kitchen and lool I'm psychic. 9:06 I'm joking 😅... But imagine
Uhhhhhh you’re talking to another INFP if you didn’t notice... I imagine EVERYTHING 24/7 365 (maybe 364)
@@INFPHD true, true.
My boy Derek just threw out his ISFJ wife relationship video with his opposite opinion of looking at that chart LOL. Should have took your divorce advise..... :)
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So two years on... did you meet up with Rebecca?? Another ENFJ here and I really like the way you talk ;-) You're sweet
Hey Matilda - nice to meet you 😬. Yeah we’ve talked a few times on the phone over the last couple years, but never met each other.
Thanks for the compliments 🙃
Sean
All my girl bffs are infp’s :)
What up Liljulee!? yeeeeah the INFP preferences I feel are a little more accepted for the girls as us "boys" have to be all tough and macho - blah lol!
Send them my way - I LOVE meeting other INFP's (and you too of course)!! ;)
Sean
I think platonically enfjs are great! ..i prefer esfjs romantically ..
As an ENFJ who’s dated two INFPs I gotta say I’m not the biggest fan anymore. I find them sweet and peaceful but just way too quiet and like... not to offend, low key cowardly when it comes to being honest about their feelings.
Hey girl! Yeah it’s obviously not some hard set rule that certain types are for sure to be a perfect fit for one another. It also depends on how “healthy” a specific person is to where they will typically be a more hardened stereotypical (INFP for example) type opposed to understanding that the harder stuff is required to really be more successful with people / things in this life. I will say that being led by a STRONG feeling value system which we typically run through life first with we do keep that bad boy protected pretty heavily. My circle is very small “on purpose”. I can mingle with society and have a very sociable work life that I navigate day to day, but those people are not going to get that deep feeling side of me. When I find “someone” who I trust they will get a pretty intense on pouring of 100% pure feelings which I keep locked from others so they can’t step all over them. If I lose trust in a person or a relationship is on the way out then yes I will start closing up shop to again protect the Fi to where the other has no idea what my feelings are. I am aware that the sharing of feelings to the ones you care about are important if you want something to work, but again if “I’m” (yes Fi can get selfish) not feeling the dynamic anymore then I know it’s time to move on from that person as my feelings don’t typically come back to the surface and it’s not fair to the other if feelings can no longer be shared honestly from both parties. ENFJs with the lead Fe are typically in the business of helping “others”. It’s stated that lead Fi users need to help themselves as external influences aren’t gonna be able to work internal the best they need. This can create one of the many challenges as you just wanting to help and the INFP staying silent, leaving you off to the side, until they are finished. But yeah, compromising to the others needs would provide a better working win win if say the INFP understood you were generally just wanting to help and would allow a simple conversation to happen out of our little internal world.
Sean
INFP HD This reply is everything. Thank you for the amazing insight
Infp here. I find enfj too heavy on Se and Fe for me. I prefer INTJs
Right on! Yeah I have no real life experience dating an ENFJ I just thought the information was interesting especially since I couldn't get the two ESTJ's to work out lol
@@INFPHD When i met my wife in 2005, I didn't know about MBTI then. I just went with my feelings, as she did. Turns out she is isfp. I do love her, but choosing someone now ( not knowing her) I would never go for sensor, or someone with fe or se. Chances arewould be an intj or I would remain single for rest of my life ( most likely be single and have few close friends ( intj, intp infp and enfp) etc
Yeah totally feel ya on this as I’m in the same mind state! ISFPs are actually a really close type to us and there’s always something to be said about opposites helping balance each other out. I’m 39 and my longest relationship was with my kids mom ESTJ (stayed together for the thought of the kid - never doing that again!) for 8 years. Took a 2 year break and then just so happened to be I stumbled upon the next one who was also ESTJ (1.5 year relationship). Every type can obviously develop themselves into a well rounded person, but yeah I’m now just interested in seeing what that “N” most importantly has going on with it. Honestly, I’ll probably prefer an introvert as well as I already have the capability on my own to want to go out and do things...I just don’t want the “pressure”. But yeah I’ve never been married and also content with if it never happens - it is OK by me. I commonly romanticize about life with another person, but also know it’s something that I don’t fear not having as I’m fine being alone (don’t really feel alone). So yeah not writing it all off etc. just going to be more cautious next time as I have plenty of intimate experience with our direct shadow type (as hard as the daily struggles were I am appreciative of the experiences it gave me..).
Just stumbling upon that MBTI Compatibility Chart on Google just got my mind interested as it shows the main letter to avoid for us is all the “S” types. Doesn’t mean that can’t work just because some chart says so, but again, I’m just going to explore it...
Sean
@@INFPHD wow 2 estjs 😥 my heart goes out to you. Must have been tough at times. But nice you have a kid now. How is that going for you ? Enjoy being a dad ?
Isfp and infp can be similar, but fi clash , that Se and I lack, my ne and she lacks. It's always where we clash. Anyway, yeah I agree, when i was younger i didnt care if single or have partner, actually younger i was very anti marriage.i am happy with her, but the frustration times are sooo full of frustration. But definitely this will be last marriage for sure.
@@INFPHD yeah, if you end up single forever, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Probably for infps could be best option in my view.
5:42 headphone warning, PLEASE?
The chaos here is so relatable😂😂😂
So sorry to hear it happens in your life as well 🤣🤪
Nice to meet you Gracie 🤙🏻
Sean
Yh😂😂😂
My husband is an ESTJ .... 😬 im on the struggle bus
I have the feeling all I needed as an INFP female would have been an INFP male.
..... I am married to an ISTJ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Can you PLEASE tell me why we both have that attraction to them? It’s weird ESTJ happened to me twice in a row. Like at first I was deeply drawn to them, but the differences set in and was extremely difficult on a day to day basis for each of us. Both those types have the same cognitive functions as us, but just flipped around opposite. Like in the video I’m not saying those relationships can’t work as having different points of view can help you grow....but yeeeeeah - I’m gonna look in another direction next time around..
@@INFPHD I am attracted to his 'nerdy-ness' and him being an introvert just like me. My ex partners all were something with E and that was just exhausting with all those parties and always friends hanging around 😅
My husband is the first introvert for me and it works out - from time to time 🤣 We love and hate each other passionately. He knows what I need plus he knows to push my buttons - so it's a perfectly imperfect relationship. I never ever wanna miss him, he is my soulmate and nemesis 🙈😂 Hard to put in words what I want to say
Fun fact: his procrastination is worse than mine!
@@INFPHD p.s. sorry for my not so perfect English 🤗 I still struggle with the vocabulary
Yeah my relationships we sure knew how to push each other’s buttons... Great you found an awesome pairing for yourself!👍🏻
No worries on the English as I see it as very good! I can barely speak my own 1 language let alone two! Plus I correspond with Germans a lot for the job so used to it.
As an INFP getting divorced from my ENFP wife. My life was such a hell!!! Not a good match!!
She cheated on you huh?
I love INFP so much.
I love INFP so much that I am delving into MBTI just so I can have the perfect relationship with one.
I love INFP with all my heart.
If they only all knew 😂
🥺
ENFJ with an INFP wife.
It's true, we're a perfect match...most of the time.🤪
Awesome to hear man, and yes I agree we INFPs can be a handful at times. Just nice when you have a type like yours who kinda gets a more than many of them do...
Sean
@@INFPHD I was actually referring to me 😜 I'm the maniac that can be a handful at times. She's practically perfect in every way.
Lol oh ok. Yeah you guys can also be a handful, but regardless glad it’s working out for you two 🤙🏻🥳
In my opinion only the infp female and enfj male is a match. Everywhere I look the infp is respresenred as female. I’m infp male and i think INFJ is the match
According to socionics, i think ISTJ is the perfect pair for INFP.
Yeah there is so much info out there on stuff that it’s difficult to process. I can see how opposites can be a good pairing and my last two long term relationships were both with ESTJs. There were moments that I can appreciate the differences, but at the same time the negatives outweighed the positives which is obviously just “my” personal experience and can obviously be different for others. I just stumbled upon that MBTI relationship chart which had ENFJ as one of the ideal ones so I gravitated more to that idea that the STJ realm from which my experience lays. Sure there are plenty of issues that can also transpire from that relationship, but it’s just more of the angle I’m entertaining now a days..
Sean
I don't think so because they r ST s n we r NF s . there is a whole morality issue there.. Nf s r comfortable with other NFS..
@@Userykp You must be new to typology. You will learn with time. ST and NF means very little
@@telemahostelemahou7406 well I have seen other videos where most of them say that, anyways I think its all about preference n connection. .
yeah... the N and the F have to go together, the rest can be opposites
Yeah I feel it is attributed to the healthiness level of any given type to where there is a good amount of balance, but regardless of that concept I’m just more interested in trying for a closer intuitive match.
@@INFPHD So is what you mean that the two middle letters should be the same? Or any two?
@@matilda4406 I’m most solid on the “N”. I don’t want another extrovert just because I can extrovert enough for myself and don’t want extra pressure to go out with people more than an introvert would. F and T not too big of a concern, but think I would prefer a P. I just don’t like structure of being controlled. So my more so hard preferences are more the I and N.
@@INFPHD Interesting. I've had "S"s too and realize I need an "N". So you realize you prefer INxP. There is also ambivert xNFx. Don't forget too many similarities means no growth and stagnation in a r/s. Though I think you may need an xNxJ
Yeah I understand having similar dynamics amongst two people, but I would honestly just want to try that combo (since I never have yet) to where the connection / conversations can be on a deeper level than with an opposite. But yeah a J comes with more structure / control tendencies as the slightest sign of someone trying to control / change me I will get very skiddish. I'm not saying that my perfect person out there isn't a type outside of an INXP as its also just based on the healthiness level of every human, but it's just something I want to entertain is all. If I was a younger INFP then yeah an opposite type would probably bode better, but I don't need someone to take care of me. I can get through life just fine on my own...I just want a compliment to my life is all.