I stumbled across your videos at random, and I genuinely appreciate how articulate you are with your content. Its so informative and easy to understand, and I've learned so much over the past few videos i've seen from you. Thank you, looking forward to more! :)
@maishathegreat9846 I am so glad you are enjoying. I want to make topics easy to understand to help y'all so I am glad to see that is how it is coming across :)
I really liked how you put your information out there. I have watched a lot of videos and yours was extremely helpful! I’ve noticed what you are saying is truth with using that language and actions recently. It helps, so thank you! Self regulation makes a lot of sense too.
Amazing. NURTURING CHANGE VS DEMANDING CHANGE. That will be my takeaway from your insights. Thank you. Cheers from Paris! To me an analogy would be trying to show a painting to a colorblind person. Either you - both! - find a common ground, or you part ways.
These are traits that avoidants have directly told me, as their therapist, that they truly love in a person or helped them to fall in love with that said person. I wanted to share these patterns with you all to help uncover some misunderstandings in relationships with avoidants. This is not intended to be used to manipulate or trick a partner but to help them open up and find love.
First, it's rare to find someone to put perspectives from both sides of a relationship with a dismissive avoidant. Your videos have been novel, in the sense that you offer more pragmatic ways to approach relationship with an avoidant, unlike most other resources found on relationships around a person with avoidant attachment style. Have you considered offering online coaching? As someone living in Asia, even with affordable and accessible mental healthcare, we have little-to-no mental help professionals who are trained for helping individuals navigate through avoidant attachment styled relationships. I really hope you consider offering coaching (as I'm in dire need for one at this very moment). Would you be willing to offer 1-on-1 or perhaps a group call advice, even as a paid outreach? Nonetheless, thank you very much for your videos. We need more professionals like you giving an unbiased insight on such relationship nuances!
@@sheepsleeps Thank you very much for your perspective, I really appreciate it. Unfortunately, I am only licensed to practice in the US but I am trying to come up with ways to reach others outside the US. I will continue to look into it. Because I am licensed and I am considered a medical provider (insurance), we are limited to jurisdictions where we have licenses.
@@GuidedAwareness-n1d Really looking forward to what comes out for others outside of US. A suggestion - could you recommend reading/resources or workbooks for people who wouldn't have access to mental health professionals specializing in attachment wounds, in one of your future videos? It's a suggestion, if that makes sense ... Regardless, keep up the good work!
@@sheepsleeps I will be expanding my practice in beginning of 2026 and I will also publish my book at that time as well. So that may help. I will also try to start courses for those outside the US. As for recommendations, I steer clear of doing so because if these recommendations are harmful or cause harm it can cause issues with licensing/liability ect I hope that helps a little. :)
The more of your videos I watch the more I think I'm DA with a bit of anxiety thrown in there too. I'm often very distant and quiet, but get clingy. I'm often depressed, but my mood changes wildly around people I'm attracted to. Given this list, I feel my emotional regulation has likely been a major stumbling block in the relationship I'm pursuing.
@sienile That makes sense. I cannot specially speak to your case, but I do appreciate you sharing. I can say this --it is possible individuals who are anxious in relationships but fit DA category tend to be fearful avoidant (FA).
I stumbled across your videos at random, and I genuinely appreciate how articulate you are with your content. Its so informative and easy to understand, and I've learned so much over the past few videos i've seen from you. Thank you, looking forward to more! :)
@maishathegreat9846 I am so glad you are enjoying. I want to make topics easy to understand to help y'all so I am glad to see that is how it is coming across :)
She can fix me 😍. Literally 😂
I really liked how you put your information out there. I have watched a lot of videos and yours was extremely helpful! I’ve noticed what you are saying is truth with using that language and actions recently. It helps, so thank you! Self regulation makes a lot of sense too.
@HollyFitch-q3n I am so glad you are enjoying!
I think you're spot on (especially about the moodiness😀)
Amazing. NURTURING CHANGE VS DEMANDING CHANGE. That will be my takeaway from your insights. Thank you. Cheers from Paris!
To me an analogy would be trying to show a painting to a colorblind person. Either you - both! - find a common ground, or you part ways.
These are traits that avoidants have directly told me, as their therapist, that they truly love in a person or helped them to fall in love with that said person. I wanted to share these patterns with you all to help uncover some misunderstandings in relationships with avoidants. This is not intended to be used to manipulate or trick a partner but to help them open up and find love.
First, it's rare to find someone to put perspectives from both sides of a relationship with a dismissive avoidant. Your videos have been novel, in the sense that you offer more pragmatic ways to approach relationship with an avoidant, unlike most other resources found on relationships around a person with avoidant attachment style.
Have you considered offering online coaching? As someone living in Asia, even with affordable and accessible mental healthcare, we have little-to-no mental help professionals who are trained for helping individuals navigate through avoidant attachment styled relationships. I really hope you consider offering coaching (as I'm in dire need for one at this very moment). Would you be willing to offer 1-on-1 or perhaps a group call advice, even as a paid outreach?
Nonetheless, thank you very much for your videos. We need more professionals like you giving an unbiased insight on such relationship nuances!
@@sheepsleeps Thank you very much for your perspective, I really appreciate it. Unfortunately, I am only licensed to practice in the US but I am trying to come up with ways to reach others outside the US. I will continue to look into it. Because I am licensed and I am considered a medical provider (insurance), we are limited to jurisdictions where we have licenses.
@@GuidedAwareness-n1d Really looking forward to what comes out for others outside of US. A suggestion - could you recommend reading/resources or workbooks for people who wouldn't have access to mental health professionals specializing in attachment wounds, in one of your future videos? It's a suggestion, if that makes sense ...
Regardless, keep up the good work!
@@sheepsleeps I will be expanding my practice in beginning of 2026 and I will also publish my book at that time as well. So that may help. I will also try to start courses for those outside the US. As for recommendations, I steer clear of doing so because if these recommendations are harmful or cause harm it can cause issues with licensing/liability ect
I hope that helps a little. :)
@@GuidedAwareness-n1d Perfectly understandable!
It's so ture each and every word 😢
@SatyanK-r5u Thank you so much for sharing your perspective!
The more of your videos I watch the more I think I'm DA with a bit of anxiety thrown in there too. I'm often very distant and quiet, but get clingy. I'm often depressed, but my mood changes wildly around people I'm attracted to. Given this list, I feel my emotional regulation has likely been a major stumbling block in the relationship I'm pursuing.
@sienile That makes sense. I cannot specially speak to your case, but I do appreciate you sharing. I can say this --it is possible individuals who are anxious in relationships but fit DA category tend to be fearful avoidant (FA).
You are so beautiful that I barely can focus on content 😊❤