It took me a lot of bad relationships to realise that I'm much happier single. I enjoy being alone, I never get lonely. I have a daughter who is my world and I would love for her to have some siblings one day, but right now I'm loving the peace
Yes! I'm sure that we all have the opportunity to meet the right person, but in the meantime, if all there is right now are people who are incompatible, then being single to take care of yourself, spend quality time with your daughter and find your inner peace is much better!
So interesting! Thanks for sharing a part of your inner world and using "this man" as an inspiration for all your mind shift. I think you should consider writing a book on this❤
Yes!! if you read it, I'm willing to write a short version of how it helped me reach some goals that I couldn't reach before I met him!! It must be so funny if he ever comes across this lol.
Your thoughts are really unique and deep! You should write a blog atleast to start, I think it will be great since it's not what I've heard of before! ( I was struggling with limmerance and it's totally ruin me)❤ @@Patsplatform
I think it’s certainly okay to want a 10/10 person. I personally do not believe there is such a thing as a “perfect person“ we’re human and humans can never be perfect. But it’s okay to seek that in others. It’s just that you need to be comfortable with never finding what you’re looking for. Because even if the “perfect person” were to exist, they would be very rare, you’d need to find them, and they’d have to want you back
Yes definitely there is no perfect human. But I AM a big believer in improving ourselves to reach our highest potential. And once we become something, we always attract a reflection of what we are. The one thing that I can't take is settling for people that hinders us from our potential - which is a real thing, so as long as WE embody 10/10 habits everyday, the person with a very similar value will be in our life
I never seen a video about unrequited love being a transcendent force to help an individual get into the imaginal space to overcome life obstacles or be a motivating force but here I am. Entertaining story but you need Jesus (and I’m not even Christian). Don’t make sages out of mediocre men. Also stop trying to bring a man 🤦♂️
If you think about it, alot of artists had their own muse that they looked toward for inspiration. I think this is kind of that concept, and in a way I kind of relate to her too. Seeing someone you admire and wanting to improve yourself because it reflects back to you parts of you that need to be worked on- how is that such a bad thing? Motivation can derive from so many different sources- a soldier will fight in war whilst thinking of making a better life for their family and their will to survive only through wanting to return back to their arms. And here like you said is unrequited love that potentially inspires you to do things differently in your life. Alot of the things she said is valid
YES thats right!!!! Theres a difference between limerance and admiring an artist or an idol and using that feeling to change your life in a good way. Since I've never had an interaction with this man beyond just those two occassions (and brief formal texts), I've never experienced a heartbreak from him so I don't known if it's unrequited love. Every time I think about him, I never felt pain or neediness, but I just feel some very weird anticipation of the future, then use that positive feelings to hit my goals - which makes me feel really awesome that those goals were hit long term! Thanks you for your comment!
It took me a lot of bad relationships to realise that I'm much happier single. I enjoy being alone, I never get lonely. I have a daughter who is my world and I would love for her to have some siblings one day, but right now I'm loving the peace
Yes! I'm sure that we all have the opportunity to meet the right person, but in the meantime, if all there is right now are people who are incompatible, then being single to take care of yourself, spend quality time with your daughter and find your inner peace is much better!
So its been that kind of journey for you ❤️
You're so incredible and so are your words ❤️
Thank you so much girl! This means alot
So interesting! Thanks for sharing a part of your inner world and using "this man" as an inspiration for all your mind shift. I think you should consider writing a book on this❤
Yes!! if you read it, I'm willing to write a short version of how it helped me reach some goals that I couldn't reach before I met him!! It must be so funny if he ever comes across this lol.
Your thoughts are really unique and deep! You should write a blog atleast to start, I think it will be great since it's not what I've heard of before! ( I was struggling with limmerance and it's totally ruin me)❤
@@Patsplatform
I think it’s certainly okay to want a 10/10 person. I personally do not believe there is such a thing as a “perfect person“ we’re human and humans can never be perfect.
But it’s okay to seek that in others. It’s just that you need to be comfortable with never finding what you’re looking for. Because even if the “perfect person” were to exist, they would be very rare, you’d need to find them, and they’d have to want you back
Yes definitely there is no perfect human. But I AM a big believer in improving ourselves to reach our highest potential. And once we become something, we always attract a reflection of what we are. The one thing that I can't take is settling for people that hinders us from our potential - which is a real thing, so as long as WE embody 10/10 habits everyday, the person with a very similar value will be in our life
Thanks
Insightful! Was this a toastmaster session you were at?
I cannot answer this question haha
Keep going!!
Thank you!!!!
I never seen a video about unrequited love being a transcendent force to help an individual get into the imaginal space to overcome life obstacles or be a motivating force but here I am. Entertaining story but you need Jesus (and I’m not even Christian). Don’t make sages out of mediocre men.
Also stop trying to bring a man 🤦♂️
If you think about it, alot of artists had their own muse that they looked toward for inspiration. I think this is kind of that concept, and in a way I kind of relate to her too. Seeing someone you admire and wanting to improve yourself because it reflects back to you parts of you that need to be worked on- how is that such a bad thing? Motivation can derive from so many different sources- a soldier will fight in war whilst thinking of making a better life for their family and their will to survive only through wanting to return back to their arms. And here like you said is unrequited love that potentially inspires you to do things differently in your life. Alot of the things she said is valid
YES thats right!!!! Theres a difference between limerance and admiring an artist or an idol and using that feeling to change your life in a good way. Since I've never had an interaction with this man beyond just those two occassions (and brief formal texts), I've never experienced a heartbreak from him so I don't known if it's unrequited love. Every time I think about him, I never felt pain or neediness, but I just feel some very weird anticipation of the future, then use that positive feelings to hit my goals - which makes me feel really awesome that those goals were hit long term! Thanks you for your comment!