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Thank you for this! I saw this comment at 5am and it is a really great boost for the start of the day. Wishing you a great week 😀😀

Haha I love that Prachi 🥰😆

Thanks!

lol then you are the rare guy that girls would really appreciate, I wish more men could properly see one girl at a time like you

Yes! 3 months is definitely enough. I remembered thinking about algorithms on the app and those who pay for membership gets better perks + match opportunities or something like that.. and after that point you have to risk the communication part!

@Patsplatform Yeah I was only active on it for like a week but after that, I just kind of started seeing it from a new perspective. I can't imagine it being any better with a paid subscription but maybe that's just me. I also wholeheartedly agree with everything you said in the video. Especially the part where you feel like an option since there are so many choices to choose from. Additionally, it's online so they just ghost you whenever and there's no responsibility or accountability whatsoever.

It varies from person to person but I think it deals with how fast both parties are moving in the relationship and where you are mentally in the relationship. I have a friend who was upset about a guy she liked moving on with another girl because they knew each other for a year but she never really initiated romantic progression with him and kept having around as a friend even though she liked him. I tell my homeboys or homegirls if they want to wait and invest in a friendship first that's cool but keep in mind sometimes all that waiting gets you no where and that it's up to them if they want to take that risk.

@@CarlosGonzalez-Rocha I don't make friends for potential romance in the future

@loreta4665 I completely agree with your point of view. The basis of real solid relationships is always great friendship but because there's abundance of options from an app.. people tend to move from swipe to getting in bed like a sales process 😅😢

Thank you!! It is very sweet ☕️

Haha I love this comment. Thanks algorithm!! 😀😀

I absolutely love this!!! Thank you for sharing. Your experience on a dating app really reminds me of my uni days, it gets exhausting bonding for no reason! Firstly.. if you come from a dating app.. the label that people will ALWAYS assign you is the guy from dating app, so that context already puts you in a disadvantage whether you are male or female. I understand that 26 feels old, but it is very young, and there's so much opportunities for you on both love, lifestyle AND career. Honestly people could still go and sculpt their bodies, wear a suit and come off "masculine" but feel insecure. The key is to NOT listen to people's dating logic of: "it's harder for men to approach woman" and etc, and focus on how what you WANT to experience, as a result of dating her. Then you want to put yourself in physical environments that helps bring out that EXCITED, PASSIONATE feeling. My one is going to swim.. at the beach.. and jump into ocean water at 7.30am. I don't look at my phone screen and really soak in the moments. When your life routine is just home and work.. your energy feels stagnant and bored. But once you carve out time to do what EXCITES you.. the chances of meeting quality people in real life, with the right energy is so much more higher! Do not listen to people who don't have the love life you want, and be fearless about doing things on your own term.. without waiting for a friend to go with you. The more you do this.. the more confident you will become.. and girls can pick up on it. Also.. once your life feels exciting, you will naturally feel less urgency to find a partner now.. and THAT will ironically help people come into your life much faster! Hope this helps!

@ thank you for your advice. I should mention I’m infj and that I deleted social media 2 years ago, meaning I barely use my phone unless for RUclips so I don’t have much of phone distractions. All my hobbies are quite introverted ones such as writing, reading and I realise even the beaches I go to (I live in Sydney) I find the quietest beaches with little crowds. So I do think maybe I should take your advice and be a bit more outgoing, because my current activities don’t seem people friendly hahaha. Maybe a more crowded beach? Speaking to someone in library or a cafe? It’s anxious to do so but maybe from your insight girls aren’t as afraid as one may think of being approached ?

Wow nice!!! I actually don't like crowds at all to be honest so I think I prefer your style of hobby! I think what you suggest is a great idea. When I work from home, the chances of human interaction is always 0. But if I take a journal to write in a cafe/library.. and a guy talks to me.. it will make me feel like I'm attractive EVEN if it's not getting hit on. So the key is to put yourself in situations where you either feel comfortable talking to a girl (without hitting on her) or having a girl talk to you. Recently I was spoken to in the sauna and I really liked the feeling. It brought back a spark feeling that I really missed. I also do evening walks and when somebody talks to me or smile at me, I would feel more alive again. So if you go to places where people CAN say hi to you, ask you to help move a chair, their dogs approach you or anything like that.. and get used to talking to strangers in a relaxed way.. by the time your girl is in front of you.. you can really bond with her without needing her approval.. but just sharing good moments :)

@ wow thank you for your strong insight. Great video by the way. And knowing that your mindset is like that if someone approaches really should show me that it’s not that scary out that. I appreciate your words and time to reply to me

You know, I can tell you’ve got a good heart from just this. It’s refreshing to see someone being so honest about what they want and how they feel. Makes me think you’re the type who’d be worth meeting, if you’re already this thoughtful with strangers, I can only imagine how sweet you’d be in person!! Other than that it’s understandable that dating apps can be exhausting, but the fact that you‘re still optimistic after all this says a lot about you. :)

Girl you do you and do what works for you :) dating apps don't work for me but it may work well for others

Thank you Esther!!! Lovely to see you here again. Wishing you to have the most awesome November and December with powerful breakthroughs 🥰🥰

@@Patsplatform Always love 🔥seeing your RUclips videos Patty keep shining unapologetically bright.

Thank you soo much Esther!!! I really appreciate your support. I am trying to change my routine so I can talk about many topics!!! Wishing you a beautiful mid November!

yes! absolutely. Glad this video resonated

Wow! yes, I'm also so glad that you shared this. I completely understand how you feel when there's only one person you want the text from, or the dates from even if you match with others! You CAN manifest him by energetically detaching, but after you do.. there will still be other wonders of life that you look forward to. So once you shift the power back into you, now you get to decide what you want and not care where he is, (and he most likely will come to you)

I love this!!! You do you and be confident without it ❤😊

Love this! Thank you ❤😊

Thank you! I had all these thoughts for a long while, so glad you liked it!! 😀

Thank you girl 🥰🥰 glad you liked it!

Yes coming soon! 😀

This was the scenario I was really scared of facing! Hearing weird stuff from people who met the guy 😅

Wow!! I have no idea that this happens. That is a terrible environment to be in!! 😮

Thank you girl! ❤❤ your comment made me smile today! I can relate even without the app!!

Yes! I love this ❤ thank you for stopping by! 😊😊

I will have it up for you soon ❤! I'll properly work out the measurements first!

thank you for stopping by! 😀

❤😊thank you! wishing you a lovely weekend!

Thank you! 😊❤

Thank you girl! glad you enjoyed this topic ♥🎀♥

😂😂 thank you Prachi! please let me know if you want to see any other topics!

Thank you!

haha lovely to see you again Savanna 🥰🥰😁

@@Patsplatform ❤️

Yes! We don't really eat butter but we have margarine spread for toast and it tastes the same :)

Haha we never finish these in one go, but yes it is alot of sugar! 😀

Yes! I only have one teaspoon of it 😂

Yes absolutely! You can use margarine instead of butter and tastes the same 😀

Thanks!

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YES! Hello Delilah ❤❤ thank you for stopping by. Love that you shared about your previous experience in workplace, I guess this happens everywhere to people with high potential!! 😊

Thank you do much Prachi! Love to see you here again 🥰🥰 I will do a variety of topics in the future as it helps me speak better, but I hope it could also be helpful for you too!!

Thank you for this! I still go through burnouts today, but your comment just gave me more energy!! 😀🥰

Thank you girl for sharing this and stopping by! I love your story and want to let you know that I'm so proud that you are taking steps little by little per day, especially while you are pursuing the next chapter in a brand new country! It took me 10+ years to properly transition.. so it's never too late or too long for you! You WILL absolutely have an amazing outcome especially that you already have the positive mindset! Wishing you a beautiful weekend girl ❤❤

Thank you for dropping by! You are absolutely right 😊 I really appreciate this and I will let go and keep going with the longer videos!

Prachi! So glad to see you, yes of course! Thank you for all your comments, it gives me so much energy girl! The next topic after this is dealing with burnout 😁😁💗

@Patsplatform Excited for the video!!!! Great topic it's like you are reading my mind 😅.

​@@prachi17004yay! Thank you for dropping by again Prachi, see you in the next vid 😊😊

Thank you! Glad you liked the videos! :)

Thanks! I saw your comment before in another vid

@Patsplatform ok.. 😍😍