INFJ | Want to know if you have the rarest personality type and are TRULY an INFJ?

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • First are the basic requirements...
    Have enough experience in life. Have grown up a bit and have had enough successes and failures to look back on. Have a very solid foundation on who you are as a person. When you can look back at your past and see enough actions and thoughts and emotions that describe your inner self. When you can see and feel with a mature and soul searched minds eye. The picture is crystal clear!
    I am 49, I have done the work. I can answer and fulfill the above requirements. I am going to give you the answer in this video. It may not be what you expect, but if you are truly an INFJ...
    You WILL understand and agree. Well, maybe not the agree part, lol, but at least understand.

Комментарии • 189

  • @nigarakhundova1732
    @nigarakhundova1732 4 года назад +44

    I think being an INFJ is not such a tragic thing. At least until you acknowledge it. After knowing your weakness it is much easier to understand your pain and grow. But until then yes, we are wondering in dark almost whole time searching for ourselves.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +7

      Hi Nigar. Yes and that is the point behind the video I did with the 1% vs the 99%. Well said and I agree with you. TYWC - Marty

    • @shockedpikachuface7376
      @shockedpikachuface7376 4 года назад +4

      There's literally nothing to be liked about being an infj, the only thing I want is to swap personalities with something considred "normal" in this society. I'm seriously exhausted dealing with myself

    • @TheWizardjones
      @TheWizardjones 4 года назад +4

      This comment nails it. I tried Astrology, almost got a therapist, but then discovered the MBTI test and other infjs and the light bulb in my brain damn near blew up.

  • @edwardwright886
    @edwardwright886 4 года назад +14

    As a kid growing up. I processed things differently then others and still do. It took me till later in my life to understand thats how I work. As you can see I'm still learning about the way I am by watching videos like yours. My childhood was challenging because of this. Back then if you told someone about how your brain works. They would of called you crazy. So I keep quiet about it for most of my life.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +6

      You are right. It only became ok to talk about it recently and thanks for that. It is a good thinking but does not erase the early challenges. My Mom now lately says sorry for not understanding. Can you imagine how that makes me feel? - M

  • @LittleKittyCat
    @LittleKittyCat 3 года назад +7

    It's easy to feel lost, isolated, and fall into depression when you're an INFJ. You see the fucked up reality that many people don't see. You realize that we're in a system that is false. It's bittersweet. I feel safer alone than around people.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +2

      Yep. I know this comment all to well. TYWC - Marty

  • @bhmoye
    @bhmoye 4 года назад +21

    I remember telling my mother that I wished that I was just dumb enough to be happy, but smart enough to function. Think Forest Gump level. Maybe it has more to do with my personality instead of my intellect...

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +7

      Life is like a box of chocolates! lol TYWC - Marty
      Mine are all full of nuts and no caramels... WTF lol

    • @markoselendic9633
      @markoselendic9633 4 года назад

      Oh my God yes! There's this one episode of House where the patient was orally consuming some eye drops or something like that, just in order to become dumber, because his girlfriend was khm not so smart and he wanted to be with her. I related so bad, just like I relate to this!

    • @celestica55
      @celestica55 3 года назад

      MEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YOU PHRASED IT SO WELL

    • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
      @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад

      Crap! You mean I'm too smart for my own good? How bout yupppp!

    • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
      @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад

      One day I came up with 15 triple entendres in typical dramatic fashion. Love 😍 word porn

  • @chriselliott8509
    @chriselliott8509 4 года назад +6

    Nailed it. I'm 30 and I don't want it. It's exhausting sometimes. We pick up too much energy and when we don't know who we truly are, we find ourselves mirroring other people, good or bad. It can devastate relationships and you have a sense of being lost when you are alone because who are YOU, what do YOU like? It's a trip man. I'm still learning.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Well you are learning and you are watching me and there is 20 YEARS between us. Who is ahead here... ;) TYWC - Marty

  • @Scarlet_Phoenix
    @Scarlet_Phoenix 4 года назад +7

    I think I was a functional INFJ since infanthood and I say that because of what my mom has told me. When I was 1, my 3 year old sister passed away from leukaemia and I instantly became my parents’ but especially my mom’s lifeline. I was what kept her getting up in the morning. I was what kept her trying to function. And even at that age, I would know when her broken heart was crushing her because I would go up to her and just...comfort...her, even at the age of 1. I think that I, even then, was highly tuned into the emotions of others and just knew that something was wrong.
    Being an INFJ is a burden. Some might say it’s a privilege because we’re so rare and we are able to have special insights and whatever but that’s bull. Being an INFJ means you’re constantly overwhelmed by your own emotions AND the emotions of everyone else around you. It means you are constantly looking 10, 20, 40 years down the road and it feels like it’s tomorrow and you’ve already failed at achieving your dreams and goals. And you have dreams and goals, oh yes, but you’re so buried under your own fucking self that you just can’t believe you’ll ever achieve anything. Or maybe that’s just me.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Nope. That is not JUST you. That is the INFJ. TYWC - Marty

  • @whitneyvise7911
    @whitneyvise7911 4 года назад +11

    What you said about just wanting to be seven, or trying to be (I don't remember the exact words) that really spoke to me. I think INFJs, because of their perceptiveness, are oftentimes not able to have a childhood. Especially if your caregivers are troubled. And how often is that the case? More often than not, I would say!
    I feel a bit Benjamin Buttonish. I was born old before my time, but as I heal and grow (now 48), I think I'm getting younger, if that makes sense. Freer, more open (not more childish). I just came through what I hope was a final bottom, and I hope that I will continue to go up from here on out. I think you will do it, it seems you are doing it. And if you can, maybe I can, too. 😊

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      You said: "but as I heal and grow (now 48), I think I'm getting younger, "
      You are and so am I and as for the bottom. That is not a bottom you are reaching but a spring board. ;) TYWC - Marty

  • @nikiepunt8631
    @nikiepunt8631 4 года назад +3

    My mom was crying. She told me that she hated her life and wanted to die, marriage, children. I knew she hated herself nothing else. I told her that if I had problems I couldn’t come to her because she had enough troubles of her own. I told her she needed help. I was 7 yo when that all happened.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Yep. Been there and felt that. That is not good on the child brain but is what it is, right. TYWC - Marty

  • @SkipRogersJr
    @SkipRogersJr 4 года назад +17

    I'm 36, I thought I was an intj, until I started reading about the infj. I honestly don't know what my personality is, but I know I wish I was something else. I wish I was normal, I wish I could look at the world like all the rest of the simple people enjoying their lives... but I don't know, I have no idea, and Im probably just coveting another person's situation. If I had a new personality, I believe I would just hate other things about myself... there is no winning in life...

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +6

      HaHa. You said it best with this: " there is no winning in life..."
      What that means is that you are not happy with you. Been there and I get it and understand. 36 is young. I did not get it until 45-47. You watch my videos. They tell a story I think most can relate to and I know that I touch buttons for others who maybe cannot relate. The key is this: find you!

    • @james12erby43
      @james12erby43 4 года назад +1

      Deep

  • @benjaminpeera4329
    @benjaminpeera4329 4 года назад +3

    Being a young INFJ, I was excited to find out I was rare, but as I’ve grown, learned, and experienced life how I feel. I don’t want it, and I figured out who I was, through my experiences but also from watching ur videos. They’ve helped me grow as an individual, and has allowed me to realize, I’m not fucked up, I’m just me.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Yes. It will be a good idea to embrace the rare and then push it to the side. That will mess your head up, and direction, as far as I can tell. Being young and already looking into it is a very good thing. TYWC - Marty

    • @Justjewels8436
      @Justjewels8436 Год назад

      I think not knowing i was an infj and trying to change these personality types and thinking i was like this from trauma was the worst, im at peace now with who i an and what i cant change. Now what i can change will flourish

  • @katrinarichards1405
    @katrinarichards1405 3 года назад +1

    That made me happy. Shedding tears on this video. Resonating the truth. That I am humbled by the experiences of life.Yet left alone. And forever will be alone. . Still I want to be an infj.. As I am willing to suffer myself because I know I can rise up, though alone. Soaring up high, up in the sky.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      A little too spiritual for me, your comment, but I understand and see the good. Well said. TYWC - Marty

  • @Ang.143
    @Ang.143 4 года назад +4

    Lmao real shit! “Come and take it”. It’s a lot of work and self reflection in INFJ land and honestly I don’t always want to do that. It’s extremely hard to just flow... on this side of the fence everything has to be analyzed and it’s tiring lol

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +3

      Very tiring. Well said. TYWC - Marty

  • @ironsnowflake1076
    @ironsnowflake1076 4 года назад +2

    This one gave me chills Marty.... I'll be 44 this year & the arc you described was spot-on....the ability to look into people from my first memories, like they were made of glass, to see their fragility....the exhaustion of experiencing every angle, how paralyzing it can be.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Hi Iron... ( great name ) I have always liked any name that is positive / negative. True / untrue.
      Strong / Fragile in this case. Anyway...
      Always doing my best. And as I have said many times before, I enjoy the fact that I am not trying to be anybody or create anything; just be transparent and straight forward. Your compliment really helps and thank you.
      TYWC - Marty

  • @joyousprairies9313
    @joyousprairies9313 4 года назад +9

    The squiggly line to measure happiness.......ha ha ha ha ha YES!

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Isn’t it always?! Lucky it is trending up. TYWC - Marty

    • @joyousprairies9313
      @joyousprairies9313 4 года назад +3

      @@marty_glenn i am finding my 40s very freeing. It is trending up. I have always wondered why in the world would anyone WANT to be infj.....i almost laughed out loud when you said it. Many many times I would chose to be anything but. Carry on, your videos are great! Thank you

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Hi J...
      Thank you and yes. You are so right. What I love the most is when people tell me in the comments that I am not an INFJ and I am like...
      " Shit. Hurrayyyyy! Tell me what I am. Guess what I get back: crickets
      Me: Sad face and WTF! lol
      TYWC - Marty

    • @joyousprairies9313
      @joyousprairies9313 4 года назад +1

      @@marty_glenn people like to do that for some reason. I had that ALL the time when I started posting videos. Nothing else fits. An extroverted sensing type would be best i think. Just to be more like the norm. The extroverted sensors in my family are so blissfully happy it seems.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      HI J. What creates so much trauma within the mind of the INFJ is this:
      "When you wake up you think of others first. 100% of the time and not your inner feelings and inner self where as they do. For me that is the hardest part and what infiltrates 90% of who and what I am." TYWC - Marty

  • @jamiel6169
    @jamiel6169 4 года назад +3

    I'm 41. I screwed my life up royally between 21-39, and that damned introverted intuition helped push me to the lowest of lows. But it can be turned around. INFJ (A) for reference so I don't always empathize with some of the more turbulent problems. Being assertive has it's own issues. I learned the hard way that "I know better than you and I will do what I think works" isn't always the best answer.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Nope. You know I bounce between one and the other. More on that later... TYWC - Marty

  • @pibadar
    @pibadar 4 года назад +3

    I feel you.. I think there's a reason why infjs are the rarest. Mother nature doesn't see much value in our way of thinking and sensing the world hence we are slowly evolving out of existence.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Interesting way to look at it for sure. Had not thought of that before.. TYWC - Marty

  • @patrickr.sansonetti3237
    @patrickr.sansonetti3237 3 года назад

    OMG Marty, you nailed it! I had a horrible relationship with a covert narcissist that ended when I was 51(5 year relationship). The experience led me to in depth personality research which led me to a long overdue understanding of myself and why my life has been so turbulent and emotional. I feel now that I'm 53, 2 years post-narc, my life will only improve, but I can honestly say I HATE BEING AN INFJ. It is a great blessing at times, but a great heartache just as often. Thank You!

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Great stuff. Start living at 50 plus years and I think it is better than anything else. The days seem to go slower... maybe it is just me who thinks that way. TYWC - Marty

  • @Cerotis203
    @Cerotis203 4 года назад +6

    Hi, my name is Sanna, I'm 27 and I hate being an INFJ.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +4

      Hi Cerotis203. My name is Marty, and I am 49 and I love who I am but hate the 1% of the INFJ that wrecks the rest of the 99% that I call ME! TYWC - Marty :))
      p.s. I know. Right? Yes, I do make this shit up as I go. I really do. lol ;)

  • @erickelly4107
    @erickelly4107 Год назад

    Yeah it's certainly no "cake walk" being an INFJ, we literally absorb the emotions of people, this is utterly exhausting to say the least so it's only natural for us to limit our exposure when it comes to "social interactions". This is simply who we are so we must make it a priority to "balance" our lives in a way that allows for plenty of "a lone time" to sort out our thoughts.
    Just remember there's a reason for why people like us still remain on this planet, we have a very important part to play. Sure it's often very difficult but it's not all negative, we have much to give society. Never forget that YOU are unlike anybody else on this planet (even amongst other INFJ's of course) and have something truly special and unique to offer humanity.
    Lastly, my advice is to not concern yourself with "fitting in" as you likely never will and this is just fine as you are who you are for good reason. All the "weaknesses" you see and feel have even greater opposing "positive" traits that just come natural to you and these positive traits are very much needed in this World rather you realize it or not.

  • @sheilareyes5511
    @sheilareyes5511 4 года назад +1

    Totally understand. I was done with the horse and pony show at 12 years old. Yet here I stand, now 51. I may never be understood and that has to be okay today. We just get to be Givers. The prayer of St. Thomas Aquinas is my mantra. I call you blessed.

  • @lukaskosc6410
    @lukaskosc6410 4 года назад +4

    26 and happy see this vid. It is hard sometimes...not sure if im infj but there were times from my childhood till now when i had pretty interesting feelings. And my view of world is still absolute different of my age friends. Not even my age... Hovewer, yea i like this vid.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      It takes time to know who and what about yourself. The fact that you know what you know at 26 is far ahead of me when I was 26. I was not that self aware and I wish I had been. It is a good thing and will help you. I wish I had started earlier in my life. Well done and keep going; you will not regret it. Thank you for watching and your comment.

  • @vermillionbunny7922
    @vermillionbunny7922 3 года назад +1

    I’ve known for a long, long time, since I was a small child, that my INTJ dad, even though he hides his emotions, is deeply sad that his wife (my mother) never understood him, and never cared about sciences or his work, or anything that he liked, really.
    I spent so much of my childhood asking him and talking to him about those things. And offering to help him on the farm, since he hated how my mother would just leave him swamped with work, stress him out so much, and never helped.
    I wonder if he ever knew that I was trying so hard to make him feel better.
    As an adult, I now have so much anger, because he just let my mother’s abusive ways continue, didn’t do anything, and took his stress out on the rest of us kids (not by hitting us though, he refused to, since he was abused as a kid himself. The physical abuse done to me was by my mother). I’m so angry that he can’t see that he’d be better off without her. He’s always so happy when he’s away from her, and then becomes so angry and miserable when he’s with her.
    She burned his arm with her car’s cigarette lighter, jabbed it right into his arm, and then gaslighted him into thinking she didn’t mean to hurt him. No healthy person does that! Why can’t he see that.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      If you want to know... Ask him. Within your comment I see a weakness that lacks boundaries. But let me say this...
      You are the child. He is the parent. You must not cross the line and become the parent. That is very destructive and abusive to you and your inner self. Do your best. Thank you for sharing. TYWC - Marty

  • @AgeofMachines
    @AgeofMachines 4 года назад +2

    I'm sitting in a dark room in my favorite recliner conflicted.
    I feel like my INTJ saved me a lot yet can be vicious about critiquing my past.
    Turns into a propulsion to do more...just to make up for the time my own limitations,fears of what was inside and realizing very little of what I heard resonated with me.
    Only thing stops me nowadays is that moment of total energy depletion and deteriorated motor skills...
    Deadman sleep then....

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi A.... lol
      You said: "Only thing stops me nowadays is that moment of total energy depletion and deteriorated motor skills..."
      Me: Exactly!
      That is what I say: " I will sleep when I am dead."
      TYWC - Marty

  • @me-pn3du
    @me-pn3du 4 года назад +1

    Hi Marty, Thank you so much for the video. I am a male Infj, Just learned how to be profitable trading the financial markets.(took eight years). I created a chart tracking my progress and it looks exactly like the chart you drew, during that time my self awareness, connection and relationship with God and the universe followed the same pattern. I think you have discovered the INFJ progress chart. Beautiful work! Can't wait to see what you will discover at 90 :).

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      HaHa. Well that is 40 years so... Great minds... right? TYWC - Marty

    • @me-pn3du
      @me-pn3du 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn haha sounds ironic but yes! I think the slow sensitive mind gathers compounding itellectual momentum, reaching levels of deep profound insights like you demonstrate in your videos. Makes me think of the story of the tortoise and the hare which was probably written by an infj, so maybe there is some bias..lol

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      ;) - M

    • @jenfloresta6427
      @jenfloresta6427 3 года назад

      Brian, what are your thoughts and experience as infj on trading. Im just starting...

    • @me-pn3du
      @me-pn3du 3 года назад

      @@jenfloresta6427 hi Jen, how long have you been trading? I think as an infj you are both at a great advantage and equally disadvantaged... We are very sensitive to information and always try to piece it together to form a whole.... But with trading, you will never have a complete picture....which I think is very tough on our brains to process.....we have to think and act from a probabilistic, point of view.. which we are not designed to do. What are your current problems with trading?

  • @jenwipf729
    @jenwipf729 4 года назад +1

    I remember watching ET as a kid and totally getting “Eliot feels his feelings”
    my Grandma would play classic music on the piano and she told me as a toddler I would stop and cry because the song ‘felt’ sad.
    Who would want this? A lifetime of questioning me own feelings and self worth? I practically seclude myself just to feel healthy and safe.
    It does get better. At 42 I just tell people. I’m feeling overwhelmed and I just need some time alone. If they love me...they understand.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Hi Jen
      You said: "I remember watching ET as a kid and totally getting “Eliot feels his feelings”
      Me: I remember watching ET and wondering about the government and the men and the bubbles and why was it needed. Why were they doing this. What was the point. Feeling uncomfortable.
      You said: my Grandma would play classic music on the piano and she told me as a toddler I would stop and cry because the song ‘felt’ sad.
      Me: I remember watching Excalibur from the 70's and this seen and being overwhelmed: ruclips.net/video/nthojvLZoNY/видео.html
      I remember wondering what the chills were or are, in fact, I have wondered my whole life what the chills are and why?
      You said: "Who would want this? A lifetime of questioning me own feelings and self worth? I practically seclude myself just to feel healthy and safe."
      Me: I am at that point now in my life
      You said: "It does get better. At 42 I just tell people. I’m feeling overwhelmed and I just need some time alone. If they love me...they understand."
      Me: I am very happy for you.
      TYWC - Marty

    • @jenwipf729
      @jenwipf729 4 года назад

      Marty Glenn I think the chills are one of those extra sensory gifts we have...like a ‘spidey sense’. A little poke that says “pay attention” something magic is happening.
      Or on the other hand I often get the ‘something’s not right’ ping right in my gut. It’s can be downright scary. I have left in the middle of movies or appts...,like there was a spring in my chair.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Jen... Yep. I agree. Very strange. ;) - M

    • @Coolchefgtag
      @Coolchefgtag 4 года назад

      Marty Glenn what you refer to as “the chills” - I didn’t watch the Excalibur clip but are u referring to a relaxing tingling sensation u experience when you hear certain crisp sounds or voices, or experience certain sensory stimuli that will trigger them?

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Brian. No. Its an emotional trigger. There is no emotional words. It is the outside stimulus affecting me. What I am watching and what I am hearing combined together. There are no words in my head that bring it out about. It is not a combined stimulus reaction between my thoughts and emotions and the outside stimulus. I hope that makes sense and I expressed it well. TYWC - Marty

  • @AlbinoCrow
    @AlbinoCrow 4 года назад +2

    I am not gonna say this to be cool or something but now I am just 20 years old and I think I am already experiencing the drop. I honestly feel so old now in my age (I do not want to offend those people older than me it's just how I feel). I am so exhausted from all the senses and thoughts. The drop of happiness is literally what I am experiencing right now for approximately 3 years. When I was in kate high school I started asking and hating why I think and feel like this. I disappeares and goes back from time to time. It is kinda weird that I am an audience to myself. I can see my self with fire then the burn out when I get tired from all the perfectionism and too much effort.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Hey Soil. You mean me: I'm 49. Social Media and the internet will not make it better but worse so maybe unplug. Try it. I felt what you did but I was always working and trying to become more and escaping so maybe that helped me in some way. TYWC - Marty

  • @Nat-o1p
    @Nat-o1p 4 года назад

    Ubderstandig feeling of adult parent... you are the first person who describe this. I have been feeling this for all my childchood. It was not easy. Sometimes this pain from others (often they did not see this so paintful) Hit me to the core. Like i was seeing and feeling their situations from such angle that was capturing all pain and lost chances and dreams and that they somehow know they loose their lives...

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Natalia.
      You said: "I have been feeling this for all my childhood"
      Me too. 100% It is not a good place for a person. It creates chaos in the dynamic of parent child and then when you have children you cannot attach as parent. Does that makes sense to you said that way? That is how I feel and how it has always been for me.
      To the rest of your comment: Correct
      Well said. It is very hard and most do not truly understand the depth and the troubles. I believe some have it at higher levels than others. That is why I think I get upset when people call me out or say things and I am like.. " Come and take it!"
      TYWC - Marty

    • @Nat-o1p
      @Nat-o1p 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn yes, definitley chaos in dynamic.. For few years i thought it was due to i am ACA. I guess it is also the case, but i also think i won't be so hard if i was not an INFJ. Maby this pain won't be so deep. Maby even it wont be existing. Because this pain has never been about me. I was always about them and my image of them beeing so sick and unable to manage emotions, lives etc. I do not know if it make any sense. Hard to desribe such concept by comment and in foreign lnguage :) I am 26 and wondering if this is possible for "broken" INFJ to establish connection with child when yuou have never had one. Keep doing your great work! Really good to see some of us shining bright and putting self for others :)

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Natalia. You said: " Maybe even it wont be existing. Because this pain has never been about me. I was always about them and my image of them being so sick and unable to manage emotions, lives etc."
      Me: This statement is correct and real.
      As fro this: "I am 26 and wondering if this is possible for "broken" INFJ to establish connection with child when you have never had one."
      Me: If you are talking about the inner child, the answer is YES. It takes work and lots of it. Also you might bring up a very good point as to why it is so hard and might take so long. That is something for me to think about for sure. TYWC - Marty

  • @eliotbh1365
    @eliotbh1365 2 года назад +1

    I like being an INFJ (T)
    Just when I'm happy..

  • @thomaschandler6802
    @thomaschandler6802 2 года назад

    I have done that several times but peace is so hard to find for myself I have to end up walking alone to gather my thoughts and find my own emotions because people come to me looking for answers to there problems and for most I already have the answers for the ones that know me when they listen to me there world changes for the better the ones that doesn't know me and I tell them, they do what it is they had in mind instead of listening to me there world falls apart it's not because I'm a fortune teller it's because ask questions through our talks that seems odd to them and off the wall. I can't explain it to people but it's extremely helpful to me to get the answers they are seeking to find and after there world falls apart they quickly start remembering the questions I asked them that at that moment seemed pointless to them started making sense why I asked them in the first place all I ever wanted was to have a simple peaceful life but that seemed impossible to me but like you said the older I get I'm starting to see a small shimmer of light and I can't wait to reach it

  • @ar77pm
    @ar77pm 4 года назад +1

    really feel represented, you know this why I can know ... when I was at the playground my mother told me that we only had three of us with my brother because mother and father had divorced from me as a baby, at that time I was 6 years old mother told me why they divorced with all the tragedy and you know what my response was at that age "yes I understand, it's okay" and I continued playing with friends .. as time went by I increasingly understood why my mother was so workaholic, My brothers love to be absent from class and transfer schools. I understand their pain ... when I was in elementary school I really hated myself, but they thought I was fine by not being in the tragedy even though I was troubling all sides and was very sickening I'm the only one who feels that ... and why my father is so heartbroken to us ... I try to be a good kid like other kids, school to college well. but now I am 22 years old I have made peace with myself, I forgive all of them, including the father who left us ... all I can ask God, I can only pray both mother, brother and father out there hopefully they will soon recover from the pain of the past, and may they quickly reconcile with themselves and feel peace ... and I realize that what looks perfect may not necessarily be perfect, that imperfection is the most perfect itself ... thank you marty for explaining it easily but deeply

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi waprilia. So far apart yet so close together roads traveled and I am glad you were able to see what the message is and was. Very good. Thank you for your comment as I know others will read and relate too. TYWC - Marty

    • @ar77pm
      @ar77pm 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn Yes, of course. and strangely at the same time I indirectly saw cs joseph discussing infj and he mentioned that in the cognitive function infj in (fe) is (fe) parents ... and the points you describe are interconnected with what cs joseph describes ... I just found out, your explanations both indirectly complement each other. Thank U so much

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      That is great. He seems to have a solid foundation for his thoughts and message. TYWC - Marty

  • @smallworld5769
    @smallworld5769 3 года назад +1

    what l love being an INFJ is l can understand people's motive way before and can get out of the mess and forget everything that's laid in my past.l will still be thinking good of them but will never choose to return back! I don't know whether it's good or bad,it's just me .

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +2

      Sounds good to me and a solid boundaries; that is always a good healthy way to be. TYWC - Marty

  • @hvcreator2380
    @hvcreator2380 Год назад

    Wow!, Thank You so much, that’s the reason I never fit or get understand in school and at home, I wish I was not an INFJ

  • @JacksTestimony
    @JacksTestimony 3 года назад

    So happy I found this channel. I can’t wait to go to the Father at the end time. I hate this world so much.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Life is a journey. TYWC - Marty

  • @b.a.7270
    @b.a.7270 3 года назад

    This! I cried after watching this video.
    I remember my entire childhood. I remember sensing what the adults were intending. Just an example: I was very close to my fathers mother. She was my best friend. I remember being about four and we were out and about having lunch and a planned shopping day, she got a bad headache followed by a nose bleed. She was desperately truing to conceal the nose bleed and telling me it was just a headache. I knew it was more.
    A few months later she was in a nursing home and could no longer speak. No one told me she had a brain tumor and that she was going to die. We went for our daily visit, I could sense the pain and frustration she was feeling. I told her that someday she would go to heaven and not feel anymore pain. I told her my Dad( her son) and Jesus were waiting for her, to take care of her; I didn't want her to worry about me that I would be okay. Two hours later she passed. I knew she was trying to hold on for me. At four, I knew that death was a part of life and the circumstances were inevitable.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      Yes it is tough when the unknown health issue comes up. Death and taxes do not scare me. Cancer and Audits scare me. All wounds heal with time and to forget or not to forget is the key time to healing and that is a personal path. TYWC - Marty

    • @b.a.7270
      @b.a.7270 3 года назад

      @@marty_glenn They say the best way to deal with an IRS agent, is not to deal with them. Lol. They also say the best way to deal with cancer is prevenitive care and alkalinity...I' m not a professional... Is it normal for your subconscious mind to talk to dead people or to randomly think of someone out of the blue, to find out they have passed? To sense your child has had an accident and five minutes later the school calls? For someone to tell you an event didn't take place and you know damn well it did? Sometimes, I wish there was a tool that would just erase the mind, learn from it and move on...like you stated in your comment above its a choice; I suppose I was under the assumption(to assume can be dangerous) that the option to forget was unavailable. Thanks for the reply! ✌💛 🌞

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Apricot Kernels. Research them... - Marty

  • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
    @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад +1

    Good luck in your quest to change the world through the use of your infj superpowers

    • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
      @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад

      This man is brilliant and we should listen to him

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  Год назад

      Ya thanks. I’m fact that is such a funny comment that I don’t even know how to respond. It a toss up between:
      1. I don’t give a fuck
      2. Fuck off
      3. I am always doing my best
      You pick for me. Thanks for IQ compliment; appreciate it. TYWC - Marty

    • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
      @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад

      I chose fuck off.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  Год назад +1

      You choose: Fuck Off!
      Perfect choice. It says nothing and says everything and no matter what you can never go wrong with that and here is why?
      Because those who are weak will walk away and only leave you with those who have the strength to ask why or tell you the same, in return, in kind.
      With that, you will be left with only persons who maybe worthy of your time and persons that you know are worthy of your time. - M

    • @user-xu3jo3ye1w
      @user-xu3jo3ye1w Год назад

      @@marty_glennis this a ' Friends come and go but enemies accumulate ' kind of thing? Bring it on motherfuckerz! I'm so battle hardened at this point yet I've retained my soft gooey center somehow. I still believe in love, like an idiot, because somehow I figured out how to heal myself using the work of Carl Jung as a basis for Shadow work. Such a powerful tool 🔥.

  • @INDAREVISH
    @INDAREVISH 3 года назад

    I think there is more than that to being an INFJ, its not that we hate being us, or at least most of us, of course I wished things were easier, to connect with more people as I did before but lost it because of things out of my control, but I will roll the dices and dare to say, that you know you are an INFJ regardless you hate it or not, when you know, you have been trough shit, but you dont just resent the world, but you want to change it somehow so people you know, at least don’t go trough what we had to go trough, for what I have seen from your videos, I do sense a hard childhood, but also a strong desire to do good, to be fair, and to let people be themselves, because that is the only way to get to know if we like them or not, we hate lies, because we love certainty after a childhood of uncertainty.

  • @roberttyree7808
    @roberttyree7808 2 года назад

    I wish somebody would can't stand it. My failed marriage as literally drove me crazy, all want for every one is to reach a state of peace.

  • @toopidipoo1153
    @toopidipoo1153 4 года назад +1

    I was like, isn’t it the skincare guy that I follow?
    Nice to see the diversity in curiosity and knowledge.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Hi. I am going to move all the videos from skincare science to here and put them inside the skincare playlist. Not to many people on the skincare side know of this channel. We will see how that goes. lol - Marty

    • @toopidipoo1153
      @toopidipoo1153 4 года назад

      Marty Glenn good luck!

  • @sofiealvestad120
    @sofiealvestad120 4 года назад

    i found out i am an infj two months ago. i am 56 year old woman. i just found you. a cannot agree more. i just want to feel and be normal and fit somewhat in. i will watch all your videos. thank you it all makes very much sense

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Thats great and Thank you. TYWC - Marty

  • @Typhoon792
    @Typhoon792 2 года назад

    This happened to me at 30... That exact graph. I finally made it to the top, realized I'd be alone forever despite having literally put it all together and figured it all out, reconnected with an ENFP from middle school (the most broken person but at first who seemed to get and value me and I thought I could help heal - of course Cluster B), seeing right through her freaked her the fuck out, she did EVERYTHING backwards at every angle to destroy me, wrecked every relationship I had including family, now I'm completely left alone, having effectively had my soul murdered.
    Derealized, disintegrated, and lost everything I tied together and built up over the course of my life, now painfully playing out in reverse through every part of my mind and body. I couldn't keep it together isolated and alone like that while getting negative feedback from my family who through this process I unfortunately fell back into the hands of (not loving and supportive). My core pain, after months of fighting, shut me down, and now I'm left with only all the scattered thoughts and emotions which I finally had after all my life fully integrated and together. Now all I have is trauma, numbness, and pain.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  2 года назад

      Move away from cluster B’s and any family and or friends that are not supportive and good. That’s a requirement to healing and the happy inner self. TYWC - Marty

    • @Typhoon792
      @Typhoon792 2 года назад

      @@marty_glenn Unfortunately, I think (fairly certain) it's too late. Everything got completely murdered and destroyed (my inner-child, every part of my Self/soul, and deeper), to the point where even my central nervous system snapped. I am numb from my neck and all around my cerebral cortex, from back to front, and sometimes it spreads down my face and mouth. There's too much trauma. And I can't take care of myself alone. Honestly it's over, not just because I feel that way and can't get over what happened, but because I know what I'm working with, and know what would be required for things to fall into place, and at this point I wouldn't be well (to say the least) even if I had a comfortable place of living and everything was compensated for.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  2 года назад

      You are truly the only one who knows and to that I never argue. Sometimes the darkest or bottom is a resting place to take time to value the place of your bottom, nobody else's, and see exactly where you want to exist. In the movie, Shawshank Redemption there are many great lines and thoughts. I am sure you have seen the movie. I have seen it at least 10x's and maybe you could watch it again. Just a thought. - M

    • @Typhoon792
      @Typhoon792 2 года назад

      @@marty_glenn You're right, and unfortunately, I know...
      Good movie though, not that anything means anything or I can connect anything anymore.

  • @indahastrid811
    @indahastrid811 4 года назад +4

    i can relate, experienced it as a child too :)

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      ;) The earliest memory of deep thoughts and an understanding that something is not normal is what you are acknowledging and I think it is a very large part of the first initial stages of the INFJ. TYWC - Marty

  • @s3rit661
    @s3rit661 4 года назад

    I'm a 24 years old INFJ-T according to 16personalities.com, i've done the test multiple times over the recent years, i'm pretty sure that's what i am, more and more i discover about it. When i was 6-7, i had such strange experiences, like one i recently shared with my cousin. Sometimes, it was like i got out of my body and i was able to see my friends, just with a look at their faces i could feel, YES, feel their emotions like it was me feeling them, and i could understand what they were thinking, feeling, needing. That transformed into understanding my friends, feeling what they feel, just without the strange part. I relate on everything you say, keep going on. Even the drama part, it's like we (INFJ) are doomed to get the bad experience, the depression you talked about, i got it 3 years ago after a relationship with a malign. narcisis , that allows us to get intrested in ourselves and discover what truly we are. Thank you.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Michele. Goo and I am happy you used the right term: Malignant Narcissist
      Not eh term Narcissist which is what you clearly have: Healthy Narcissism.
      Well done and I get it. TYWC - Marty

    • @jillelizabeth478
      @jillelizabeth478 4 года назад

      Michelle, it sounds like you are also an empath. Many INFJS are also empaths and it's important to learn to release all the energy we read and tend to carry and take in ourselves from others.

  • @andrewjones6007
    @andrewjones6007 3 года назад

    Just come and take it! Been reflecting for over a month and barely leaving the house trynna figure this shit out. Then finding the one guy on the internet that gets it! I mean I'm still depressed though lol. *cough* Can only go up from here, right?

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      Yes. Happiness is on the way up! TYWC - Marty

  • @valeuk4076
    @valeuk4076 4 года назад

    INFJ-A male here (more that 50..)... I feel you 100%. Be positive. We have so rare moments to be.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Vale...
      You said: "I feel you 100%. Be positive. We have so rare moments to be."
      Me: I appreciate the comment and although at first it is like ' Fuck ' but I know exactly where you are coming from. What I try to do is point the negative and the dark so that the light can be seen instead of always pointing toward the light and not the dark. Most who see tor express only the light and are or maybe hiding the dark are left disconnected and alone. But if I share the dark and express my own darkness then trust can be established and full transparency can be seen from both sides of the equation. With that said, I do get your comment and appreciate the reminder. Your comment did not and does not fall onto deaf ears. TYWC - Marty

    • @valeuk4076
      @valeuk4076 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn Sorry for being so "minimalistic" :). I'm not used to be "INFJ-A" yet (as definition I mean) I discovered this definition a week ago. It didn't changed a lot(not true) to my life besides a bunch new words and some other connections between different behaviours that now came out in a new light. I still need to process all these info but this is interesting in one way and deep/endless meaning in the other. But you know.. we have superpower :) Our x-ray personal scan that give us the result of many patterns in a fraction of second :). Introspection using this scan is what I do. I have some past experience in npl so my current attempt is to try to merge these informations (new and old). I guess is not simple whatever methods we use. At least for us. I was hoping that I was not an INFJ so I tried other tests but besides the definition the percentage of the sections are more o less the same. So.. I'm doomed heheheh. We are! :)) There is no turning back... (ps Ive already used our doorslam before (without knowing the definition) So this is another proof that I m an INFJ.. sad..

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Vale. You are golden. I can tell, you know this too, the difference between a red apple and a green apple and one that is rotten on a first comment. That is all and as you can see you were not green for very long and I expected as much for the sweeter red apple to emerge with just one exchange. The comment section means a lot to me as that is where the magic and the goal of the channel is; I will not sacrifice the comment section even for my own ego.
      To keep the comment section pristine I will step on my own self because there is no other way. I am sure you get it and do agree. I cannot be higher then the comment section; it will fail and my goals will fail.
      With that said, Thank You for Watching and the Comment (TYWC) - Marty

  • @ojwenge
    @ojwenge 4 года назад

    This is fantastic Marty.....thanks for prompting my psyche with this......hopefully the 30s dont go to waste......kudos man

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hey Ronald. You are welcome and you are working toward your goal. Keep going.. ;) TYWC - Marty

  • @saikiran7888
    @saikiran7888 2 года назад

    I don't know exactly which type I'm but most of the time result will be infj, so now I'm going right some my qualities and how I think
    . I think that my brain can think very depth unlike an ordinary people
    . Most of the time I think that this world no belongs to me ,I have my individual world inside my head.
    . When I'm with my even it my close frnds & childhood frnds I cant enjoy properly what they really enjoy, I have to act That I'm also enjoying that .
    . When my teachers explain lesson most of the time I try to imagine that concept in my, like how could be in real life situation .
    . Even if it is lots of my friends around me some time I feel that I'm still alone thinking about future and past.
    . When ever I met my relatives and friends I feel that they are not efficient as like me I have to adjust to like them and I feel I'm more intelligent then them
    . I can figure out that like minure details in painting or other something and it is difficult for normal person.
    . I'm more interested in how and what going to be happen in future.
    . I don't really good at maths I'm an average but I fee that I'm like aesthetic person, when I was child I like to draw like detailed and very perfect.
    . I know That , people are acting like they know everything thing but really they don't know
    . Basically Iam very introvert it's depends upon situations, wanna talk to girls but suddenly anxiety and nervous Will come when I was in school .
    . I think that I'm different from all others I want the world that specificly for me only and more I feel like Iam an artistic type, I want to become an artist but but I stepped in to management and business field is it suits for me ?
    .this is the feelings and the qualities which I faced in my real life and there are still so many qualities are there but I can't write all that 😂
    So, this above mentioned qualities and my way of thinking is , tell me that which type suits is it infj then comment me soon waiting for ur replie, I wrote with honestly. Thank you

  • @martcichocki5571
    @martcichocki5571 4 года назад

    Better late than never, taking the MBTI & coming up: INFJ. The new insights are very helpful for closure.
    Yes, precocious, "teacher's pet," a walking empath. "Kind & sensitive people are not rewarded."(Dr. Todd Grande). Less than 1% of males are actually: INFJ. It IS estranging. Be prepared for an intense intuitive trip!

  • @clintbryan1128
    @clintbryan1128 3 года назад

    I love you man. I never took the test. And I completely feel every word here. I am a musician/lyricist/vocalist and wrote a song inspired by a girl I had a strong connection to and was falling for but knew because intuition and gut feeling we could never be at least not in this life but strangely felt we had before in another life. And this inspired the song. Upon performing it for her afterwards asked her what do you think? she was speechless for a moment. I knew already she loved it. Then she said with sincerity you truly have a gift.. I immediately scoffed under my breath then I said ......
    A gift??? (Anger in my voice) then I tactfully gave myself a second before responding with a little more composure I repeated a gift I can see why you would say that from where you're standing but let me ask you do you consider it a gift to know when your friends and loved ones are lying to you and why? do you consider it a gift to know how people are feeling and feeling that exact feeling 10 times stronger? do you consider it a gift knowing people's secrets without their consent and having to keep them? Do you consider it a gift to feel like there isn't a wound or scar that you don't bear or have not felt through someone else? then I stated well help me look around to find it... she replied find what? I replied the receipt because if it's a gift I want to f****** return it. I apologize to her of course for my outburst but upon seeing this video and recalling this particular moment even though I haven't taken the Myers-Briggs test I am almost certain by description that I am and infj with an emphasis on turbulent I'm literally crying right now and I can't thank you enough Marty for making me feel truly understood and not so much like a f****** freak for the first time in my life don't ever stop what you doing brother for whatever reason you do this I know it's not motivated by money I know you don't give a s*** about that and I'm sure you've heard this before but if you haven't and your goal was to reach one person you reached me.
    thank you

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      You are welcome and the key is being real to self and I am sure that is what you ( many ) see within my videos. Glad to hear it. ;) TYWC - Marty

  • @tamannatazz5800
    @tamannatazz5800 2 года назад

    I aslo experienced this, between the relationship of my grandmother and her daughter in law sitting on dining my granpa saying something and her daughter in law laughing evil sarcastically I get the laugh when almost all the people even my granpa didn't get it. she is very naive, emotional, kind hearted person. May be infp:) I got her the laugh I can say what she was thinking. their relationship is not good. although I took an mbti test find out I'm infp

  • @olivercroft5263
    @olivercroft5263 4 года назад +1

    This is the most accurate video

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Just trying to keep things simple and as far as I can tell about my view of things is this: when you don’t care about something is when the laws of attraction work in your favor and on the other side of the same said laws of attraction: what you tell yourself is what happens.
      Sorta strange but I feel those who want to be an INFJ do not understand the reality and I am not going negative. Just being truthful.
      Thanks for the comment and watching.

  • @Kumar-oq4it
    @Kumar-oq4it 3 года назад

    At end we are just human who want happiness and not wisdom. I am infj-t, for someone it is an achievement, but for me it is not. I just want someone who can understand me and want me as i am. But unfortunately, people like us rare, so, finding a companion is too hard.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Hard is not the same as 'Too' hard. Just a thought. TYWC - Marty

  • @alabamahebrew
    @alabamahebrew 4 года назад +1

    Hi Marty, I just found your channel while doing some research and trying to figure out who/what the hell I am and what is wrong with me. I'm not like anyone ever in anything. Even in my passions when I meet others with the same passion, Ron is different. From what I have found so far I am a INFJ, On another video the doctor said that INFJ's in some cases experience a lot of hatred towards them by those that are supposed to love them, such as parent or spouse or even child, because the INFJ is so different. Because the INFJ can sense this as a child it can severely cripple them as an adult and cause them to maybe do things that a typical INFJ might not do or achieve goals a typical INFJ might otherwise obtain. I feel this is me, I did not have a good childhood and did feel unloved by my parents, mostly my step dad and my biological father, and these feelings caused me to do some of the things I did throughout my life that not typical for an INFJ person. I am going to go through your videos and see if you have some that can help me, any suggestions?

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Ron. I do have some...
      Watch the personal ones first and then watch all of them. Serious. Your comment has a lot in it and I read between the lines. Do I believe in what you are saying: Yes.
      Can I explain it: No
      Will I think about it and try: Yes
      TYWC - Marty

  • @al3x
    @al3x 3 года назад

    Long live to you Marty. Long live to all the types

  • @ngeee10
    @ngeee10 2 года назад

    I'm 30 and I already feel like I hate being an infj i can't stop being the way I am so I become very isolated.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  2 года назад

      Be careful. Just saying. It has a way of developing itself into a life you might be wasting instead of challenging. Think about. I get it. It is daily for me and never easy. I have ups and downs. TYWC - Marty

  • @INDAREVISH
    @INDAREVISH 3 года назад

    I remember being like 8 and picking the change in moods on my mother, cause she has drinking problems, and I hardly fought with her, since it was my sister usually fighting with her specially in those situations, but I remember telling her I wanted to talk with my mother not with the monster, even before knowing what the hell alcoholism was.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Yep. How it goes at levels that are deeper than most. TYWC - Marty

  • @maybee...
    @maybee... 4 года назад +2

    How do you know if you are an INFJ...?
    I took the test, we took the test at work the first time.
    My boss said "hmmm, that explains it".
    Of course I had no clue at that time.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +2

      Know for sure? When you keep trying not to be but you keep trying to figure it out sand you keep coming up with the same answer. That is how you know. TYWC - Marty

  • @janetzinati1190
    @janetzinati1190 3 года назад +1

    How INFJ turned their vision into reality by WENZES on RUclips she’s a life coach and she’s amazing I think you’d enjoy her show as much as I enjoy yours. Peace ☮️

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      The unfortunate part, thank you for the advice, but her and I are on different levels. I watched one of her videos and thought it was good. Well done. But the depth of how my mind functions is just in a different place. But I can clearly see how many would enjoy her. TYWC - Marty

  • @stringerchick3650
    @stringerchick3650 4 года назад +1

    I remember my friends mom breaking down in front of me and knowing it was because the dad was cheating.. mean while friend had no clue.. was only 10

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Hi Stringer... Yep. The early signs. :) TYWC - Marty

  • @sztrtk
    @sztrtk 3 года назад

    You made me cry

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      That is great. I am happy I moved you. I normally like to move females with a smile but I am sure a smile came later. I am glad the content is worthy of your time. TYWC - Marty

  • @tigranstepanyan4009
    @tigranstepanyan4009 5 месяцев назад

    Hello bro it's me again, it's true being an INFJ is traumatizing, I am still happy to be certain of being one , because it confirms me of my high emotional intelligence, what I was all my life unsure of, I thought something like yeah bro u must be tripping.
    Still I don't like the way u bring over things as well as ur logic, I get the first part being highly emotionally intelligent as a young child let us think or perceive us as ahead , later we get more and more stupid because we have noone who can relate because we r rare , so we think that we r wrong with our intuition and theories and our empathy u name it.
    So we stagnate and discard our gift and realise later that we r not wrong we r right, we have just unusually high emotional intelligence.
    Later as I encountered an INFJ video on RUclips I thought damn that's what I am and there r people like me blablabla also cried a lot to be honest.
    I took my time to confirm to myself that I am indeed an INFJ and yes it's more than obvious.
    And of course I was happy to know I am one because all my life I have been different and I feel confirmed on all those assumptions I made over the years.
    Of course it's traumatizing and intense as an INFJ but I would not be who i am if I were another type.
    Of course someone can be happy being typed as an INFJ, it's just that Life sucks in general as an INFJ, we can only hardly enjoy the moment blablabla
    So if u would ask me what is it that u want to be j would have to say happy.
    It's being hard being an INFJ among other reasons that our emotional intelligence is so high, would I hand over my emotional intelligence, definitely no.
    Would it be smart to do it to become more likely to be happy, yea definitely.
    I would change emotional intelligence against another intelligence probably.
    Also do I have to get 50 to feel stupid again, idk I hope not.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  5 месяцев назад

      Life is hard and what I am finding out is being 'ignorant' might be the place where happy and satisfied lives its life. TYWC - Marty

  • @DMAC1301
    @DMAC1301 Год назад

    Oh absolutely. NOBODY WANTS TO BE ME.

  • @gregm3224
    @gregm3224 3 года назад

    Ah man.....you messed me up. That’s the test I thought of for if your really an Empath, cuz if you are and the question is is it a blessing or a curse? Real Empaths will say curse everytime.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      Tricky part of life and who we are as it relates to behavior and cognitive functions. TYWC - Marty

  • @h.smeenk1273
    @h.smeenk1273 3 года назад

    Psychedelics helps people see like INFJ i just realized..

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      HaHa. Okay but stay away from Opiates! ;O) TYWC - Marty

  • @ericaGhoulscout
    @ericaGhoulscout 3 года назад

    I watched few of your videos on INFJ before this one and I thought if there is a way to stop being an INFJ and when I saw this video I had some hope to learn that I'm NOT one but now i'm just sitting here laughing

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +2

      It is a journey and it is okay to be anything you want or ? Try on labels for what you are today and maybe tomorrow it will be something different but in the end we cannot hide from our inner most thoughts and one day if we truly want to be happy we must accept the answers our inner self tells us. Keep doing what you are doing as it is a journey and not a destination. TYWC - Marty

  • @xkali8119
    @xkali8119 4 года назад

    But what about INFJ-A? I must say (if i really am an INFJ) i can't deeply relate to what you've said. I am somewhat detached from my emotions, and from emotions of others as well. When i try to helps someone, i can calmly and objectively (if i can say that) analyze how they feel, what they need and what's the best action for them to take. I think from time to time that i am an INTJ, but i am certain i have extroverted feeling, i can't help but care how those around me feel, and I am almost always trying to improve how they feel when im around. Also, my failures and distrust i receive don't bother me that much. Im just moving on over it and proceed to live my life.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      Stay tuned, Xkali. I think I can help with this. okay. This week I will come back to this within a video. TYWC - Marty

    • @xkali8119
      @xkali8119 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn thank you, I can't wait to see it!

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад +1

      We all want to know the truth. So the truth, as I do and seek, you shall have and get an idea. Great IQ. TYWC - Marty

  • @saxongreen78
    @saxongreen78 4 года назад

    Nadir is the counterpoint of zenith...it'll happen - no fear!

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      :) - Marty
      Thank you for Watching and the Comment (TYWC)
      Saying less is always more.

  • @lush429
    @lush429 4 года назад

    fuking spot on Marty... Im 60 now... wow is all.

  • @DMAC1301
    @DMAC1301 Год назад

    Good morning Marty

  • @erik_1953
    @erik_1953 4 года назад

    Confirmative. 66 And growing..

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      Haha. Continuously growing is right. ;)

  • @saleenabryant8750
    @saleenabryant8750 4 года назад

    Now everybody in the comments say something deep to try in prove your a INFJ GO!!!

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  4 года назад

      This should be good. ;) What I am going to do is a video on why I am an INFJ and why I am not an INFJ. Will that do for your comment? TYWC - Marty

    • @saleenabryant8750
      @saleenabryant8750 4 года назад

      @@marty_glenn lol yeah....am I wrong to be irritated that the majority of folks who watch these videos seem so desperate to be an INFJ simply because its "special" .I get feeling special is kool in all but dont bullshit and lie to yourself just to feel that..watching dueled themselves in return for a false sense of "fit in" is annoying as shit.... .JUST BE YOUUU WHATEVER THAT ISSS.....we are all individually unique gosh Damnn.

  • @yaozhao4150
    @yaozhao4150 5 месяцев назад

    same here😢

  • @striderwolf687
    @striderwolf687 3 года назад

    🐺

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад

      So you are going to have to explain this comment to me. I am listening. TYWC - Marty

    • @striderwolf687
      @striderwolf687 3 года назад

      @@marty_glenn very authentic video. Hit hard and felt what you said/lived. Didn’t really have words and seemed a symbol or archetype fit. After viewing all I could say was “oof”. Thanks for your honesty.

    • @marty_glenn
      @marty_glenn  3 года назад +1

      I get it. Thank you for the positive emoji. - Marty