BEFORE YOU FIND 'THE ONE' // Singleness Series PART 3

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  • Опубликовано: 16 июл 2024
  • Chatting about everything we believe is important to learn before "the one" comes along!! I hope it encourages you no matter what season you are in!!! We want you to know you are WORTHY of a love that reflects Christ.
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Комментарии • 95

  • @tallisall7394
    @tallisall7394 3 года назад +111

    "the right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person" this! love your videos and this series so much! xo

    • @lovesalt8613
      @lovesalt8613 3 года назад +1

      but weren't Chad and Tori friends for a really long time before dating?

    • @michellezaborowski7621
      @michellezaborowski7621 3 года назад

      Can you explain this more? God answer are yes no and not now?

    • @tallisall7394
      @tallisall7394 3 года назад +5

      @@michellezaborowski7621 i think what this means (in my opinion!) is that even if God presents someone that appears to be the person meant for you, but the time doesn’t align with Gods purpose, then it’s a sign that it truly isn’t the one God has destined for you.

    • @crystalcantu255
      @crystalcantu255 2 года назад

      @@tallisall7394 one of my friend's she persuade her now bf & now there dating.

  • @malisehargrove8971
    @malisehargrove8971 4 года назад +99

    I needed this! I prayed about this three days ago! I asked the Lord to help me with the desire of finding my husband because I felt it was consuming me. I prayed for a strengthened relationship with Him and becoming the woman I am meant to be and a better woman for myself and my future husband. I can’t expect all of these things of my husband and not hold the same expectation for myself! This video only sent confirmation! Love this series!

    • @naomistokes9795
      @naomistokes9795 4 года назад +3

      Malise oh my goodness! I am in the same boat!! Can we hang out?

    • @malisehargrove8971
      @malisehargrove8971 4 года назад +2

      @@naomistokes9795 virtual buddies! yes! And Lord has he been working in me!

    • @naomistokes9795
      @naomistokes9795 4 года назад +1

      @Malise It’s so nice to have a virtual buddy!

  • @heidiroth8839
    @heidiroth8839 4 года назад +10

    When you were talking about how Chad was getting upset and you were like "babe let's just pray about it", I literally stopped in my tracks and said "A couple that prays together stays together!"
    This literally was such an inspiring video and helped me so much! ❤️❤️🥰

  • @moviekris0426
    @moviekris0426 3 года назад +16

    3:49 Yes!!! I was in my late 20’s when I started getting serious about my relationship with God. Now, at 31 singleness is a struggle. I was never someone who dated a lot. I’ve truly been trying to follow the advice of growing in character and using this time to do things like traveling, but it still gets discouraging sometimes...

    • @katwebster1986
      @katwebster1986 3 года назад +6

      I hear you! Will be 31 this year, never dated, never was in a relationship, and now am really working on making me the best me there is.
      Tori and Chad's videos have really been an inspiration for me, and give me hope that this (long) season of singleness will prepare us for a lasting relationship

    • @kilesl2733
      @kilesl2733 3 года назад +6

      Hi! Stay in faith! I know that you may be feeling impatient but trust that you’re on time and that you’re where God wants you to be rn. His way and timing is perfect. 💗

  • @jocelynschwartz5582
    @jocelynschwartz5582 4 года назад +27

    "Not brokeaz, Not cheapaz" I died 🤣🤣

    • @garbonomics
      @garbonomics 4 года назад

      Hypergamy lol!

    • @Buttondor345
      @Buttondor345 4 года назад +2

      From the single and secure sermon 😂😂

  • @jessbrown24
    @jessbrown24 3 года назад +20

    I love the honest tone of the entire message since so often being single is seen by others and even ourselves as such a negative thing.
    I do feel like we need to all be careful about the whole "law of attraction" thing though because fundamentally that's more manifestation minded/ New age than it is Biblical. I'm sure you didn't mean it that way but it's worth mentioning.

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  3 года назад +4

      Aww thank you!

    • @bubble98jmi
      @bubble98jmi 3 года назад +4

      agreed, thanks for flagging this up!

    • @Whitspiration
      @Whitspiration 2 года назад +3

      Thank you for mentioning that because the actual Law of Attraction is spiritually dangerous. I know the way they meant it, but it’s good to be mindful about using that phrase cuz we don’t want people confusing that with following Christ. But God leads us the right way no matter what so this video is definitely still a blessing to others🙏🏾❤️

  • @cortesdoserjaopedreiro
    @cortesdoserjaopedreiro 2 года назад +5

    Hi guys! I'm 23 and I'm from Brazil. I know this series was made to girls, but it's really helping me at the right time in my life! Awesome! It's amazing to see how God is leading you to tell us your life experiences that are exactly what I'm going through right now! God bless you and continue to guide you as always by His Holy Spirit! :)

  • @brooklinandjoe
    @brooklinandjoe 4 года назад +16

    Being married honestly has been the greatest gift I’ve been blessed with and my husband and I love hearing your stories! It’s so relatable and it’s awesome to see the happiness you guys have and the joy you bring 😃 keep on telling more 😃

  • @lilymartin5409
    @lilymartin5409 3 года назад +1

    “Run your feelings through truth.” So true! Our feelings will try to override the truth of God’s Word, but we have to filter it through the truth to make sure we’re thinking clearly.

  • @marinachoban2607
    @marinachoban2607 4 года назад +5

    15:44 😭 thank you Jesus!

    • @erikahenderson4307
      @erikahenderson4307 3 года назад

      BEAUTIFUL! This part was definitely exactly for me. Thank you for highlighting this part.

  • @evabethellis9094
    @evabethellis9094 3 года назад +7

    I'm sitting here balling after just watching this video bc it has so specifically touched my heart on things I'm struggling with right now. There are so many thoughts that you sweet ladies shared that I feel like were absolutely made for me at this very moment, unbelievably enough, even though it's been a year since you made this video. Tori I just have to say thank you for what you're doing and what you've done. I've just recently become a subscriber and am so grateful for the content you share. I don't have much Christian community where I am and it's been encouraging to know there are people like you all out there, I just have to do a little digging to find them (honestly wish I could virtually meet/talk to you all sometime, if that could ever be possible). I know God works in incredible ways and through incredible people like you. Many blessings to you and the sweet ministry that you and Chad have.

  • @nicab77
    @nicab77 4 года назад +3

    watching this video again, about 3 months later and it’s hitting differently. love love love this. God has transformed me in ways I would’ve never imagined in this season of singleness. last year was a year of pruning, God released from chains I’ve been bound to and emotional soul ties I was bound to along with having an identity crisis (i didn’t even realize i had) I’ve been consistently spending the very first hour or two every morning reading the thrive bible and letting the Holy Spirit transform me. I’ve a always had an issue with being consistent with spending time with Jesus but since I’ve had, the fruit of the spirit has never been so present up until now. I can see how Jesus is transforming me into the woman He’s called me to become. I’m also taking steps to honor my future husband by creating boundaries with other men in my life.
    love love love this channel, both you Tori and Chad. your marriage is something I honestly aspire for but also your love for Jesus.
    Nicole and Tori, thank you for sharing your hearts over such a prevalent topic. 💛

  • @sgwiedenheft
    @sgwiedenheft 4 года назад +2

    Thank you so much! This series has been so helpful for me!

  • @sharon1046
    @sharon1046 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for this video, Tori 💕 Love youu ❤❤

  • @SarahBunce
    @SarahBunce 4 года назад +1

    I love your videos! So inspiring! Keep it up
    Love you girl❤️

  • @IdaraJoy
    @IdaraJoy 4 года назад

    love love loved this video! 💗

  • @CATNESS1993
    @CATNESS1993 4 года назад +3

    “The Wait” is sooo good!!!!!!

  • @barbarasipos
    @barbarasipos 4 года назад +3

    I feel so encouraged by this!
    Love the way you guys went about it, absolutely humble and loving. I’m so glad I found your channel!
    Lots of looove

  • @ashleyglover8219
    @ashleyglover8219 Год назад

    Needed this so much!!!

  • @faithsmith8911
    @faithsmith8911 4 года назад +1

    So much truth here! I love it 💛

  • @vlt2322
    @vlt2322 4 года назад +5

    Such wisdom... I needed to hear this

  • @MichelineIyera
    @MichelineIyera 4 года назад +1

    Loved every moment in this video! Such amazing ladies, thank you for sharing the truth!

  • @twobunnies1504
    @twobunnies1504 4 года назад +5

    You are seriously the best youtuber! Your videos are so relatable and I love how open you are about your relationship with God. It’s sad, because it’s so hard to find people like you!! Keep being awesome!!!

  • @kacifilms9192
    @kacifilms9192 4 года назад +13

    I could listen to y’all talk for hours!!
    It was all soo good!!🙌🏽 I feel like we’re friends just havin girl talk! :) love it!!
    I wish I lived in LA so we could actually talk that would be amazing!! 😄

  • @HelloKeianaS
    @HelloKeianaS 4 года назад +2

    So thankful for this video! It was so encouraging 🙌💛

  • @gwendolyno.3330
    @gwendolyno.3330 4 года назад +2

    great point about the truth in love. You will be soo miserable if you yoke yourself to someone unequal to you in your faith.

  • @autumnrose8091
    @autumnrose8091 4 года назад +9

    Omg loved this!!! Ugh I could watch y’all talk for an hour and I wouldn’t be bored- is a part 4 too much to ask for? Idk 😂 Either way thanks Tori you’re the best! I wish I had friends like y’all 💗 xx

  • @tahliaruhle1223
    @tahliaruhle1223 4 года назад +5

    So so good! Thank you for being vessels for God’s Truth and God’s Love, so so special xx Feel encouraged that you ARE encouraging us :))

  • @ananyasharma1302
    @ananyasharma1302 4 года назад +5

    more series please ❤ they are life changing . so much to take awayyy 🌟 THANK YOU TORI ❤

  • @isabelmoore1024
    @isabelmoore1024 3 года назад +1

    THANK YOU Tori and Nicole

  • @saisaim6937
    @saisaim6937 4 года назад +1

    Great video. Thank u for sharing ur wisdom

  • @danielscully9356
    @danielscully9356 3 года назад +2

    Wow! Super helpful and insightful for men too! Thank you.

  • @jessicaduquecastano3982
    @jessicaduquecastano3982 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much.

  • @Verena_s
    @Verena_s 2 года назад

    THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing !!! love you

  • @mabelasas6691
    @mabelasas6691 2 года назад +1

    I really love this singleness series 😭 I've learned a lot. 💗💗
    The more you value yourself, the more your standards go high.
    It doesn't mean his Christian, his the one.
    Align your feelings through the word of God
    Run!!!!
    I love this chanel. I pray to God more blessings for you.. 🥺🥺😍😍

  • @halcowen5886
    @halcowen5886 4 года назад +1

    Always amazing ... always

  • @shekinahtagoe5365
    @shekinahtagoe5365 Год назад

    Thiss!!! The series is amazing, definitely something not spoken about enough!!

  • @loveazlen
    @loveazlen 4 года назад +5

    ahhhhhh new subscriber !! love your channel so much

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  4 года назад +2

      aweeee thank you so much for subscribing and your kind words of encouragement :) if you have any other topics you want me to talk about lmk!!

  • @creezhan
    @creezhan 3 года назад

    the way i've watched this 3+ times. i need more tori + nicole content

  • @swagatikahansda8020
    @swagatikahansda8020 4 года назад +1

    Superb talk..☺

  • @racheln3369
    @racheln3369 3 года назад +1

    Love love love 💗

  • @sallykabukuru1638
    @sallykabukuru1638 2 года назад +1

    Great, encouraging words!

  • @glendapaballomoyo4620
    @glendapaballomoyo4620 4 года назад +8

    I love your joy Tori...its contagious :)!

  • @moniquesantiago3762
    @moniquesantiago3762 4 года назад +4

    LOVE NICOLE!! ❤️

  • @erinchapman3104
    @erinchapman3104 4 года назад +2

    More singleness series please!

  • @hilarinajohnsonrose2557
    @hilarinajohnsonrose2557 4 года назад +1

    You are so pretty and I love your vibes❤️

  • @erikatorres3617
    @erikatorres3617 4 года назад +1

    Please do more videos like this

  • @annlavine3576
    @annlavine3576 4 года назад +2

    i am new. Your channel is great

  • @soumiliray1522
    @soumiliray1522 4 года назад +3

    Please start a podcast!!!!

  • @renaissancegirl87
    @renaissancegirl87 4 года назад +8

    You should make a video about boundaries in the predating phase. For instance I have a feeling that I should not even entertain to communicate with a man who is not prepared to pursue me with intention. There was a guy I have been talking to But I have sensed that all he’s really wanting is to be buddy penpals, So I think to myself “why should I even give my time to talk to this guy if I am looking for the man who will pursue” But people tell me I’m driving to heart of the line and I need to be more open. What do you think?

    • @justinsamson517
      @justinsamson517 4 года назад +3

      Be intentional with the guy. Just state what you want. If he doesn’t agree, then he is not the best fit for you

  • @itsel8950
    @itsel8950 4 года назад +1

    ❤️❤️

  • @ericalaurenthompson4769
    @ericalaurenthompson4769 3 года назад +1

    ♥️

  • @sarahmaria7718
    @sarahmaria7718 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for the video, so many great points!!❤ There is just one thing I stumbled upon and that's the law of attraction. It's an esoteric concept/ practice and not biblical at all, maybe you should do some more research on this to make sure you don't promote something that is not in line with scripture...

  • @SimplyNobel
    @SimplyNobel 3 года назад +1

    I really enjoy watching lots of videos on your channel. I am not Christian but I have always believed in Jesus and God and label myself as spiritual.
    I am interested in a lovely Christian guy... yet to talk to him about our beliefs. I agree with a lot of things Christians believe but not all... I also hold some beliefs which some Christians may not agree with.
    One thing I disagree with is that people need to both share the same faith in order to have a successful marriage or relationship. Many people manage to have great interfaith relationships. We simply need to notice and respect one anothers different views but focus/build on our common values and beliefs.
    Our different views can be a strength... so long as the love and respect is there and we are on the same wavelength... that's all that really matters. I hope that the Christian guy I like will see things this way too but if not, he won't be the one for me then and that's ok. Time will tell 🙂

  • @mlmj1994
    @mlmj1994 2 года назад +1

    It can be disappointing because you could meet a man that’s interested but you don’t know if their a man of God or not so it’s hard to get excited lol

  • @Sunbeargirl-
    @Sunbeargirl- 2 года назад

    It's just frustrating when I want to pursue my calling and purpose, but I feel like I'm stuck somewhere I don't want to be in the present. Living in a place that I don't love, with no one I'm interested in dating in sight... I don't even know what it means when people say to build a relationship with God first because I don't know how to do that.

    • @oceandove
      @oceandove 10 месяцев назад

      When I first became a Christian, I read the bible a lot to get to know God more. Through a friend, I found a church that I joined that preached the bible. So I would encourage you to read the bible, pray , and find a church where you feel welcome, that preaches Gods Word. ❤😊

  • @alexiacastillo3188
    @alexiacastillo3188 4 года назад +1

    Can you send me the link to that devotional bible? :)

  • @torikrasovska
    @torikrasovska Год назад

    law of attraction is very new age and weird, i think it is more of a question of worth and view of ourselves - who you think you are and deserve and let into you life.

  • @ecopsychology101
    @ecopsychology101 4 года назад +1

  • @anntangpanit2684
    @anntangpanit2684 4 года назад +2

    Is there a channel like this but for Christian guys?

  • @TutiFruity7103
    @TutiFruity7103 4 года назад +4

    Do you both have Botox? Your eyebrows don’t move. You have beautiful skin. Not an insult. I’m thinking about it myself.

  • @briannawelch3420
    @briannawelch3420 3 года назад +1

    Which Bible is this?

  • @LZE-12
    @LZE-12 3 года назад +1

    I don't have accountability or community. 😣

  • @andreealupoaie
    @andreealupoaie 3 года назад +1

    We miss Nicole😍🙈

  • @lugm1034
    @lugm1034 2 года назад +1

    Pls the piano! I can't hear a thing

  • @adrianamf2283
    @adrianamf2283 2 года назад +1

    Aaah no law of attraction is new age

  • @mrsallisonturcios
    @mrsallisonturcios 3 года назад

    Nicole reminds me so much of Sarah Jessica Parker lol

  • @torikrasovska
    @torikrasovska Год назад

    i need this video without the crazy background music