Thank you for watching , JBRO fam! This is our last vlog of 2020. What a year🙂. Also, sign up for a free account and get 20% off Grammarly Premium: grammarly.com/jbro Lastly, thank you to thr Cauldron NYC 🧙♀️🧙♂️for being a great host:) MUCH LOVE, JBRO
Saw your video from your collab with Leenda. Then i find you are also Columbia alum. and also did single/dating related videos like myself. Hope to see more videos of yours! If you are interested in, welcome to support mine too: Single/dating: ruclips.net/video/TFuivje26zA/видео.html Columbia: ruclips.net/video/bWexTl9f5ZY/видео.html
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Maybe for every introvert and highly sensitive person out there: I have realised (just as Jason said) you‘re not missing out on anything as long as you‘re spending your time doing what really speaks to your soul. If you do what feels authentic and exciting to you, there‘s absolutely no reason to feel guilty or triggered ‚by having no social life‘. You can have a few close friends, see them from time to time and spend all the rest of your days reading or drawing or whatever you love. Don‘t feel like you have to match into society‘s notion of a ‚fulfilling and good life‘. You‘re only hurting yourself by neglecting your actual needs and desires. Especially if you‘re more sensitive than the average person and going out leads to exhaustion. Have the courage to walk your own path!! There‘s nothing more rewarding.❣️
I definitely agree to this. And sometimes as an introvert, I find myself feeling the need to flake on people at the very last minute. 🙃 I know it’s wrong but... 😁
I’m 42 and life has changed so much of course. In my 20s, I loved to party; loved going to the clubs. Slowed down towards the end of my 20s. Saw my good friends once on awhile. Didn’t really care to make new ones. In my 30s, It was more of what I wanted to do with my life and where I wanted to go and when I was going to get married. Now that I’m in my 40s, socializing is very rare. Family and a kid has taken over my life. It’s very rewarding though. Enjoy being young because you’ll never get that time back but also do things that are fulfilling because you’ll also never get the time back. You boys are doing amazing. Keep it up.
There is always a tradeoff between hanging out with friends and getting work done. I am in my 30s working on my dissertation like Jason. I find myself growing apart from friends. Many of my friends are married with kids. Sometimes, I feel like we don't share common interests as we used to. The friendship between John and Jason is indeed very precious. =] Happy New Year!
A current friend of mine said, "You can grow out of those friendships you had in your 20's and mourn the loss but it doesn't make you any less friends." which is true. My core high school friends, most of them are married with kids, I share very little in common with them now that we are in our 40's. I cried after a gathering with them because I had SO little in common it hurt on a very deep level. I still talk with them every once and a while but you'll find friends as you grow into your late 30s who share more in common with where you are in life.
Im not even a guy or 30 yet, but these videos really bring me a lot of comfort and humor in times where i feel like im super lost or defeated by where im at in life.
this was sooo relatable, was just thinking about FOMO and how I'm more introverted than expected. all my social media friends are crazy extroverted and it's natural for them to go out a lot but it was unnatural for me to try to match what they were doing
I was never a sociable person to begin with, I find it hard to connect with EVERYONE, and it feels really good to connect with someone immediately because I know it is a genuine connection. I think we can all agree that we are more introverted than ever because of the pandemic. I am an undergraduate student in my penultimate year now, sometimes I see my friends meeting up with other friends on Instagram and I just feel bad for myself. But with a tighter, quality-over-quantity social circle, I am able to focus on myself; Social life imo is a waste of time if it is done so unwillingly, or it is coming from a place of fear (fear of looking like someone who doesn't have a social life/friends) also, I LOVE you guys. You guys are incredibly wise and y'all really have good personalities, hope to be able to meet y'all one day in NYC or if y'all ever come to Singapore! :)
Life is so much more enjoyable when we mute the outside noise; i.e. societal/disingenuous pressures, and just focus on our own lane. Great video to end the year with guys!
The main thing to remember about social media is that people are usually share only the most prestigious ten percent of their lives. If you knew about the other ninety percent as well, you would not be so envious. Another thing to think about is: You can choose not to have a Facebook or Twitter or Instagram account. Some people think that kind of stuff is a complete waste of time. You could be old fashioned and call people on the phone to ask about that party they went to that you opted out of.
this was very relatable. i had like 40 "friends" in college and now in my mid 20s i have 4 - and i wouldn't want it any other way! i think as you get older and get to know yourself and your priorities better, you become more selective with how you spend your energy and who you spend your energy on. and in the process, you realize that you'd rather cultivate strong friendships with a select few people you have a special connection with rather than superficial relationships with a bunch of people you only know by circumstance. #adulting 👏 as always thanks for sharing J Bros and im excited to see the success that 2021 will bring you! ✨
I'm one of those people who spent years and years "finding themselves"... I've taken enough to college to get my doctorate with no degree as of yet 😅 I always had a hard time finishing something because I felt as though once I get this degree that's it. My future is set in stone. It took me a long time to figure out that, I can do this "for now" and pick up something later and do that too. I got my massage therapist license in my mid thirties and now I'm working on getting my bachelor's in nursing. I also had a bad habit of not doing something unless I could be great at it, but I've learned to let that go too. I'll take dancing classes for a few months at a time and if life gets busy, I'll stop and come back 6 months later having forgotten half of it - but still having fun. Experiences, moments, learning, laughing, etc. I respect those who can really commit to one particular passion in life, but that's not for everyone.
The last 4 minutes of this video was well said in such a sophisticated manner. As you two are talking I can't help but think "wow, how are these two handsome men still single? Especially seeing how well put together you two are." But then John makes a good point "we're not trying to pigeonhole ourselves into this constructed societal timeline." And for me that statement made me feel good about myself and where I stand in my life. I'm the same age as John, so sometimes I can't help but feel a certain way because I haven't achieve my PharmD goals just yet (in the process btw) and be single. I slowly start to become envious of my college friends that are moving foward in their lives both career and relationship wise. After watching the rest of the video I realized that they are right. That those things shouldn't define me. I am more than just a degree and I have other interests/passions that I want to tackle at the same time. This video made me feel a little bit at ease so thank you for sharing your thoughts. 😊
Really really love your content guys, it feels like its my two older brothers giving me advice! Fulfillment is a lifelong discovery journey, the key is to enjoy the process and spend time on the things that matter to you. Thanks for the awesome videos
As a med student spending my time studying while all my high school and college friends are already working/married/having kids, I definitely related to this video! I always love seeing your guys' content, ambition, and growth as it motivates me to do the same!
Part 2. What I really wanted in and for my life never happened because I always met the wrong men. Now at 60 years old I don't bother trying to meet someone. If it happens and he is a nice guy then great, if not I am used to being alone. Happy New Year J-Bro.🌹
Really enjoy listening to your guys perspective of life, careers, dating, ideas etc. Your channel is genuine and hilarious. Happy New Year to come and may the next be successful for you both.
14:02 this is reassuring to hear. i'm at a point in my career where i'm ????? and in terms of social life there is nothing going on lol i've been focused on networking rather than meeting people just to have fun, and this time away from people since march or so has actually made me less communicative with friends. 2020 has revealed to me a lot of negative aspects of my life haha i should really invite some excitement into my life... thank you so much jason and john, it's been a great 2020 with you two. i'm grateful to be able to peek into your lives and your meaningful conversations. i guess i'm living a bit vicariously through you two. i'm hopeful that i'll be able to meet you two someday and just have a nice chat (i do live in manhattan haha), you both seem like genuine people. hoping for a better 2021 for us all :')
Thank you for the video. Social media definitely paints a picture that makes me feel like I’m missing out. In reality it’s just a façade. It’s OK if we are not out and about all the time as long as we are happy. No need to feel pressured by what others are doing.
Personally, this particular video really resonated with me. Over the course of the last two years after completing my Master degree in education and even now teaching full time. I'm finding that even though I love my job, there still a sense of incompleteness I feel in my life. Whilst I am actually quite happy, I've come to the same conclusion that although teaching is the passion of my life, it doesn't define me. This past year has been an incredible journey of exploring my other hobbies and interest that feed my creative hunger(getting out of my comfort zone = talking to more adults and not children hahah). All in all, I wholeheartedly agree. Never stop doing what makes you happy! Keep feeding that curiosity and passion! Happy New Year Jbros and friends
love this on multiple facets . so cool to hear that you took adv of 2020 to explore your other interests . thats on making most of the situation . best of luck on this new year ahead as well lets get it!!
Everyone is always growing and branching out. Duo/multi career is soo common nowadays. I’ve met a ft dentist with three clinics / flight attendant, ft engineer/flight attendant, nurse/ flight attendant and a boarder security officer/massage therapist just to name a few lol the career combinations are crazy.
Lol I’m a youth worker / flight attendant (pre covid) myself so I’ve met a lot of people and what do you think we do when we everyone is sleeping? We “galley talk” about each other
As embarrassing as it is I'm almost 30 and have never been in a relationship. I think it has stemmed from many things growing up. Having a strict household, a judge for a dad. Being a twin and feeling like I couldn't do anything without her. I'm also an introvert so I've been accustom to doing things solo. When you're use to doing things solo it becomes normal and you sometimes think it's meant to stay that way. I hope I'm wrong tho. Love you guys 🙏🏾
Part of me doesn't comment on youtube videos, especially if they're Korean. It's a weird Korean American thing that I couldn't explain. This one, in particular, gave me more to say. ^^ Went from Undergrad Physiology/Chemistry, to all types of marketing, to sales, to EMT, to currently teaching English in South Korea. I can feel myself changing in ways that I don't envision for myself in the future, and I find that that's a good way to evaluate any confusion or indecision I feel about "what's next." Feeling like it's time for something else, and onto the next. This isn't it. If you're reading this, I hope this can be of some help; particularly if you're younger, or if you're older. Things happen when they do. Sometimes they take longer than you think, and at the same time, shorter than you thought. It's good to be in the details of planning, but when you find yourself getting negative about the world, zoom out and think big picture. It's not about the career, the money, the prize, or prestige. This is about you. The majority of a movie is the middle, the journey, and it gives the beginning and the ending context. The journey is what you remember -- because it changes you.
great points made here destiny , thanks for sharing . zoom out big picture - simple and effective statement! such a good reminder to take a step back and eval what and why we are doing things . happy new year~!
Had that conversation with a friend this week as we were talking about New Year's eve plans. I decided this year I wasn't going to watch fireworks at midnight (early sleeper) but when asked I still felt like I should have a plan. Definitely have had FOMO but learning like Jason said to do more fulfilling stuff instead.
I like it when u guys talk about different subjects like this one and not too much about guys and girls dating stuffs. There are a lot more about life then dating advice. Love your production. You guys complement each other. There is no better J bro then two of you. Wishing both of you to achieve greater and go further in 2021, feel good and feel fulfilled.
@@JBRODUCTION this year crash landing on you for sure, something in the rain, legend of the sea, my mister, one spring night, it’s ok to not be ok, start up lol so many more...
I don't really have a social life (especially this year) but it just makes me treasure the times with friends even more when we do get to see each other 😊 Also happy new year! ✨
I can definitely relate. After college, my social life completely went from 100 to 0. After work, I go home, eat then sleep. It's kind of a routine. That's why, I also started my youtube channel to at least make some changes on my day to day routine and somehow socialize with the people who can also relate with my content. I appreciate this kinds of videos Jbro! Keep it up! Much respect from LA, Cali.
When I saw the title of this video it triggered me haha “Why we don’t really have a social life.” Story of my life 🌝🌝 Anyways thank you for uploading great/fun videos and have a Happy Happy New Year!
Our priorities shifted over time. I hardly socialising. Not that i don't have friends. I do have a small circle of friends but we only meet up few times a year over lunch/dinner or go camping. Past few years, i would spend my weekend hanging out with my friends but now as i grew older (30 🤣), I spend it with my parents and siblings. Career wise... It's still a long way to go.. There's so many things to explore and learn. My career path are full of ups and down mentally and physically. My first job was not relatable with what i studied. But it was truly an eye opener. Work for a couple of years there and I became a workaholic. Spent most of my time at work even during weekends and it affected my health so i decided to take a break. Resigned, helped up with my parents' cafe while pursuing my MS degree. Now I'm back in the industry, doing something I'm passionate with and loving my new role. 2 years and still counting. I totally agree that everyone has their own timeline. Be at your own comfortable pace. Don't compare yours with others. You are you ✌️. Happy New Year guys 🎉🎊!
No second channel after party? boo. I started working in industry after undergrad, and honestly I'm glad I didn't pursue more in academia right then. Going head first into industry allowed me to move around the US comfortably, make my 'I want to make $X annual salary' goal by the time I was 26 (in retrospect maybe I just set the bar too low lmfao), and subsequently to travel and have more fun and exciting experiences outside of the grind. I'm happy with how things seem to fall into place when I just set my mind to something. PS I would like to request a return to Stone Street for a future bro date at Adrienne's Pizzabar. THANKS 😊
"Why not now" really resonated with me. Often times it feels like we're chasing the next stage of our lives until we reach retirement. I think a lot of people have the mindset that "oh once I retire I'm going to be able to do all the things I wanted to try" but for me i think what better time than now to get started and try it out?
As someone who grew up with social anxiety and self-validation issues, I never enjoyed partying or had the courage to hang out with bunch people that i barely know. Plus, i don’t drink. Therefore, I never had those fun college life, left alone dates and relationship. While i was busy picking up the pieces of myself, my other half of the mind was torn to think that i missed out huge part of so called “life experiences”. “Why didn’t I brave enough to get out there and be more social？”, which made me even more anxious. Recently, i graduated with my doctoral degree in physical therapy (how can someone with social anxiety can be clinician? Lol, magic). I started to have more time to reflect on myself. I started to value more on what i have and consider what i don’t t have as room of improvement. I realized i have so many good friends who always there for me. I have a supportive mom who trust her daughter regardlessly. I completed grad school (grad school was a bitch). I am building a better relationship with myself. I have a better and stronger version of myself!!!!!! I just stepped into the dating game as a 27 yrs old and had no luck yet (sad face here lol), but a big step for someone with social anxiety. I still aware of the social clock ticking around me. But i started to care less. No one gonna live the life for me. So i should just be responsible for myself, instead of fitting into the social standard. Still working on making a better version of myself. I don’t remember when was my last time writing so much. If I have any grammatical mistakes, i guess I need to use grammarly. Lol. Thank you guys for talking about this kind of topic. Love from a local New Yorker
It's more meaningful to have a few close friends who REALLY knows you well, rather than having tons of friends who don't really know you. By the way I must visit your Harry Potter-like bar, it looks amazing! From Hong Kong :)
Randomly stumbled upon your channel a week ago (been living under a rock) and I've rewatched a ton of your videos since then. It's so refreshing to hear the male perspective on adulting/relationships/life in general and how relatable it is for young adults like me. PS: more song covers in the future please! :)
I do agree (after some life changing events) that you should always focus on doing what you love and what makes you happy. Because I’ve had a job that I devoted my life to and it honestly was terrible for my health to be in an environment where my bosses only cared about the bottom line (I was an RA). So for the first time I had the desire to quit a job that was making me miserable and it really showed me how important going to work in a place that I love is to me. Also happy new year!! Be careful on that day Manhattan tends to go a little crazy xD
When all my friends are either married, or getting married, enjoying vacation or honeymoon, posting their social life and so on; Here, I am watching your videos with a consistent smile and wondering how relatable single lives are!!!! 😂😂 Happy New Year guys! Have a wonderful year ahead with lot of excitement and adventure!!!🎉🎉🔥😎 (Not to forget, me and Jason will be Doctorate by then 🙈🙈🙈🙈)
I didn’t have much of a social life this year, but idk why, it’s not like I’m too busy...It makes me a bit sad, cuz I miss the fun stuff (clubbing) I used to do with my friends. Your videos with your bros make me so jealous, I wish I had fun and solid friendships like that
My only social life this 2020 was watch your videos!! Thank You so much for share with us about your perspectives and life. See you in 2021!! 🎉✨ Greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It makes me (and probably lots of the viewers) feel like we are not alone in this adulting journey. I've been working in hospitality for almost 10 years, since I was 18, dropped out from college. I'm at the managing position that I was thriving for but after the pandemic, I'm burnt out and I'm lost. I helped the company passed through the difficult time but I suddendly felt empty looking back on my life. I'm just trying to do more of what really fulfills me and take time for myself. What you said toward the end of the video somehow resonates with my current situation. That feeling when you know that someone out there experienced the same situation is really heart warming. Especially how you called out the issues and the inportant questions of our generation is very calm. Thank you for making these videos. Wish all your projects will be super successful!
Very interesting! I love your introspective bro talks and I'm not even a bro haha I'm coming up to my mid-twenties and recently moved from banking to buyside, but now trying more creative outlets like a food blog and podcasting. I think you guys hit the nail on the head with finding other avenues to personal fulfilment. Wishing you a happy new year!
Hey J Bro, just subscribed this channel yesterday and found it really informative for me. I am a 26 Chinese student in Tasmania, Australia and have spent my past 2 years backpacking in Australia to explore and one year working my butt off to get a residency here. Holding a bachelor’s degree of geospatial engineering, I didn’t do much I my field or I would say it’s not field coz I chose it when I was not mentally mature at all and I lost my appetite for it after graduation. While I was backpacking and studying in Australia, I did bar job or barista job to stay afloat. I did feel anxious on the way to get residency while I couldn’t move forward in what I perceive as a career. It stays mysterious to me and I work as a disability support worker now, which is another inconsistent part of my career pathway. There are a few things that I can relate to while watching the video, such as working out and nutrition. Thanks to your video contents coz it allowed me to read your thoughts and think about my path for the next 4 years. Keep it up and I love you guys. Let me know if you are coming to Tasmania, and we can have some talks over about Australian new immigrants and American Asians.
I'm in my mid 20's, living and working remotely in NYC, and my career is still at the "analyst level" since graduating more than 4 years ago. I would have liked to be at 6 figures at this point, but it is not the case. I'd like to figure out the next step in my career. Also, I'd like to make more friends. It doesn't always feel great when other people are doing so much better, have more money, friends, going out, partying, concerts, life experiences, luck etc. But, I have myself and will continue carrying on :)
The topic on this vlog is definitely really valuable for those of us who are in the same situation of rushing towards life because of fear of not always doing enough coupled with the pressure to make more money or start a family. We shouldn't compare ourselves to other people's timeline. As long as we're striving to improve and be a better version of ourselves whether we can see the results yet or not, we should be happy cause our time will surely come in the future when we will look back. It's best to look back with a sense of fulfillment that we enjoyed the process of making ourselves a better person and not because of pressure from society. Hope you guys make more of these contents. From one bro to another. :)
Freesia Park's channel recently showed up on my feed so I think that led to this video popping up as well. Definitely appreciate this conversation. I'm mixed but first generation Asian American on my mother's side and definitely felt the pressure from her to go to school in the medical field which led to me feeling lost in college and dropping out. Then I also felt the pressure in my mid twenties to potentially marry my partner at the time and in hindsight we were completely incompatible. Now I'm twenty-eight, single, and back at a university to study something I'm actually passionate about. I can't even imagine how unhappy I would be if I just followed what others wanted me to do. I think not following society's timeline and having an untraditional path allows me to be my most authentic self and actually live to enjoy life instead of filling out check boxes. Aside from career, the idea not settling for the sake of conforming also helped me learn what I value most in people whether that be friendships or relationships. There is definitely a sweet pot when it comes to balancing goals and finding your own ebb and flow to life.
This is true. Im also having a full time career but also recently, after years of being career oriented, I am trying to focus on other passions, hobbies and people.
I’m in a mix between socializing more to working more on my career/school and what fulfills me more often. Not forcing myself to socialize because I see other people on Instagram or because of FOMO. I think 2020 showed me how not social I was with people out of fear of being rejected and not well liked. I think in the coming year I’m gonna branch more into being a social butterfly while being more productive with my passion. Btw: I wish Jason was underneath my mistletoe, he’s a cutie 🥰 maybe next year 🤷🏾♀️
I am currently set and stone to get my MS in Electrical Engineering this Fall 2021. I'm stuck at this roadblock in my life where I can either choose to go PhD, work locally, or join the Air Force. Sometimes I do feel like I FOMO seeing colleagues partying, traveling, or raising a family.. sometimes I think life can be draining being lonely and studying, but after seeing this, I think it's just trying to do whatever simple things make me happy. Just seeing you walk n' talk, find foodie places, or just chilling with a bro; it is so simple but gosh it's pure bliss! I will probably try vlogging some simple things too! Liked and subscribed bc of this video!!! Godspeed J Bro and keep inspiring the future!
Moved overseas, working at top 5 company and doing photography on the side. Additionally, use to work in the nightclub scene haha. Love the contrast between different worlds! Happy new year chaps!
I'm just here listening to you guys chat about life while playing my Fishdom app game lol. I'm in my early 30s, married with a toddler son, but it's interesting listening to you guys while I unwind for the day. A lot of my friends aren't married yet, so the topic of what fulfills us is interesting to me because I think in many ways, it depends on the stage of life you're in or engage in. It's an ongoing discovery that changes with time, and sometimes the hardest thing is to let go of what used to be and allow for yourself to change and evolve. And hopefully you have good friends and family along the way to support you through that growth. Happy new year, y'all! Keep up with your vlogs - they're interesting, funny, and complement my gaming well haha.
I love how much fun you guys had with this in the beginning of the video. You guys were really into this place. Jason's playfulness reminds me of my good friend in Toronto. Btw, John's hair was on fleek... get it John.
Thank you guys for this video! I can relate to many of the points you've made throughout the vlog. If anything, 2020 was certainly a time of deep self-reflection for us all, thanks to all the time (and open ears) we've gained as a result of a semi-uniformly-forced-non-existent-social-life. As for me... until now I've been very career-driven and solely focused on getting to the top in my field, but after this hiatus, post-pandemic I am really looking forward to spending more quality time with my friends and family. I hope we will all retain gratitude post-pandemic, do the things that fulfill us most and let go of all the things that don't serve us, and cherish the time with our loved ones. As for me, I can't wait to hug my friends and explore more of NYC (and the rest of the world, really)!! Thank you both for building this community, for being your authentic selves, and for making your RUclips channel your creative outlet! HAPPY NEW YEAR JBROS :-)
Yeah love this, friendship is all about quality over quantity! I’m an introvert and I’d rather have a deeper conversation than attempt to small talk (I’m so bad at it anyway lol!) with a whole bunch of people. It also takes more work to keep a social life in your 30’s, as apart from work, the places you naturally run into friends becomes less as you get more time poor, your peers get married and start having kids, and you all tend to be a bit further apart. I started making it my habit to have coffee or breakfast with a friend at least once a week and it has kept things easy and conversations real 👌
I'm usually saying that I'm just selective when it comes to socializing but still too much socializing wears me out. After a night out, I need a week alone and the friends that I care about now know it. Like many people said if reading a book makes you happy do that, but I do feel its important to here and there socialize, make some interactions, keep in touch just to keep yourself on your toes, to venture out of your comfort zone, you'll eventually fall into the place you are comfortable in and your friends will get to know how you 'operate' . As you get older the pressure dies down, you care about the people around you who you give your time and energy to and everyones priorities are different. You realize you don't wanna hang with people just for the sake of hanging.
From the busy tiring life your videos make me smile at times. Totally loving them. Keep up the great work guys! All the best for all your future endeavors. Wishing you a happy and prosperous new year ahead.🎉🎊😃
I think a lot about my social life and what does it mean to have a social life, to begin with. I realized that you could be social in your own way and with your own terms and conditions set up for yourself. I no longer feel the pressure to have lots of friends or go out because everybody else is doing so. I like how you two kept comparing socializing with fulfillment, which you can also find in other things or even within yourself. This is actually the purpose of socializing in my perspective; it is like learning new things from other people and realizing that we all are the same in many different ways. Love your videos as always.
Currently happy where I am. Just living the life I wanted to be on my own and trying to achieve my dreams one at a time. No timelines. being more present every single day.
FOMO is real, especially fueled by social media posts. But 2020, with its long term isolation phase, has taught me that you do whatever makes you happy, having social life or not. Fulfillment is different for everybody. Btw I've just discovered your channel like 2 weeks ago but I've been binge watching! Keep up the great contents, J Bro. Love from halfway across the world (I'm literally 12 hours ahead of you). And have a very happy new year! ❤
I really enjoyed this topic, it helps me to reflect on some of the moments in the past before the end of 2020. I was so focused on doing my Master's and Ph.D. degrees, I actually missed a lot of time socializing. Now that I am doing my postdoc, looking back on those days, I don't really have regrets. In life, we all make choices, sometimes you just can't afford to spend too much time getting a degree because of the tuition fees and living expenses (every country has a different financial aid system for education >
"comment below, we read every single one of the comments" makes ME write essays. Now as I became more calculated and strict with my time(according to my nephew "I am boring and missing out all the funs") i take my time off and try my best to catch up with My people and Support my Jbros algorithm until I find other bros. Oh sorry I literally forgot what I wanted to say about the epi I will comment again when I'll remember after watching the episode for 200X times
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Thank you for watching , JBRO fam! This is our last vlog of 2020. What a year🙂. Also, sign up for a free account and get 20% off Grammarly Premium: grammarly.com/jbro
Lastly, thank you to thr Cauldron NYC 🧙♀️🧙♂️for being a great host:)
MUCH LOVE,
JBRO
Saw your video from your collab with Leenda. Then i find you are also Columbia alum. and also did single/dating related videos like myself. Hope to see more videos of yours!
If you are interested in, welcome to support mine too:
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How are you single? I get that question a lot. Seems like the ones you like don’t like you, and the ones that like you, you don’t like them! 😓
@@anitagracious2609 yes it’s a wicked game. Isn’t it? I think u would be interested in this video about why dating is waste of time. ruclips.net/video/TFuivje26zA/видео.html
Maybe for every introvert and highly sensitive person out there: I have realised (just as Jason said) you‘re not missing out on anything as long as you‘re spending your time doing what really speaks to your soul. If you do what feels authentic and exciting to you, there‘s absolutely no reason to feel guilty or triggered ‚by having no social life‘. You can have a few close friends, see them from time to time and spend all the rest of your days reading or drawing or whatever you love. Don‘t feel like you have to match into society‘s notion of a ‚fulfilling and good life‘. You‘re only hurting yourself by neglecting your actual needs and desires. Especially if you‘re more sensitive than the average person and going out leads to exhaustion. Have the courage to walk your own path!! There‘s nothing more rewarding.❣️
I definitely agree to this. And sometimes as an introvert, I find myself feeling the need to flake on people at the very last minute. 🙃 I know it’s wrong but... 😁
Temi's Corner Sounds familiar to me! But I‘ve started saying no when I really mean no, so that I won‘t have to cancel later on.
Exactly. I feel that a large part of being able to "let go" of FOMO is spending less time on social media (twitter, instagram, facebook, etc)
So beautifully said
Valeria H. Just so
I’m 42 and life has changed so much of course. In my 20s, I loved to party; loved going to the clubs. Slowed down towards the end of my 20s. Saw my good friends once on awhile. Didn’t really care to make new ones. In my 30s, It was more of what I wanted to do with my life and where I wanted to go and when I was going to get married. Now that I’m in my 40s, socializing is very rare. Family and a kid has taken over my life. It’s very rewarding though. Enjoy being young because you’ll never get that time back but also do things that are fulfilling because you’ll also never get the time back. You boys are doing amazing. Keep it up.
you've seen it all ! sounds like you living it up with no regrets ✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
Everyone is literally in their own bubble. Literally the definition of antisocial social club
There is always a tradeoff between hanging out with friends and getting work done. I am in my 30s working on my dissertation like Jason. I find myself growing apart from friends. Many of my friends are married with kids. Sometimes, I feel like we don't share common interests as we used to. The friendship between John and Jason is indeed very precious. =] Happy New Year!
sounds like you are grindin Blueberry.. we respect the hustle . go kill that dissertation !!
@@JBRODUCTION Thank you. Will do! See ya next year!😎🥰😘
A current friend of mine said, "You can grow out of those friendships you had in your 20's and mourn the loss but it doesn't make you any less friends." which is true. My core high school friends, most of them are married with kids, I share very little in common with them now that we are in our 40's. I cried after a gathering with them because I had SO little in common it hurt on a very deep level. I still talk with them every once and a while but you'll find friends as you grow into your late 30s who share more in common with where you are in life.
Im not even a guy or 30 yet, but these videos really bring me a lot of comfort and humor in times where i feel like im super lost or defeated by where im at in life.
The captions are perfect because I can still know what you’re saying over my chip crunching sound 😂👍🏽
make sure u arent biting on anything too hard . - john the dentist
@@JBRODUCTION 😳😅😆 I will make sure!
Already choked on the first 20 seconds haha. Jason is the lotion master TROLOLOLOLOLLLLLL
if you know u know..... #wizard
this was sooo relatable, was just thinking about FOMO and how I'm more introverted than expected. all my social media friends are crazy extroverted and it's natural for them to go out a lot but it was unnatural for me to try to match what they were doing
Lol this is one for everyone that fomo swiping thru social media haha
I like the phase “everybody have their own timeline”. Sadly my parents didn’t get it.
I was never a sociable person to begin with, I find it hard to connect with EVERYONE, and it feels really good to connect with someone immediately because I know it is a genuine connection. I think we can all agree that we are more introverted than ever because of the pandemic. I am an undergraduate student in my penultimate year now, sometimes I see my friends meeting up with other friends on Instagram and I just feel bad for myself. But with a tighter, quality-over-quantity social circle, I am able to focus on myself; Social life imo is a waste of time if it is done so unwillingly, or it is coming from a place of fear (fear of looking like someone who doesn't have a social life/friends)
also, I LOVE you guys. You guys are incredibly wise and y'all really have good personalities, hope to be able to meet y'all one day in NYC or if y'all ever come to Singapore! :)
Life is so much more enjoyable when we mute the outside noise; i.e. societal/disingenuous pressures, and just focus on our own lane. Great video to end the year with guys!
The main thing to remember about social media is that people are usually share only the most prestigious ten percent of their lives. If you knew about the other ninety percent as well, you would not be so envious.
Another thing to think about is: You can choose not to have a Facebook or Twitter or Instagram account. Some people think that kind of stuff is a complete waste of time.
You could be old fashioned and call people on the phone to ask about that party they went to that you opted out of.
I love how you both always ask each other where you are. Gives us viewers the chance to go see and experience what is shown in the videos.
yesss come along for the ride. just pay for the cab
this was very relatable. i had like 40 "friends" in college and now in my mid 20s i have 4 - and i wouldn't want it any other way! i think as you get older and get to know yourself and your priorities better, you become more selective with how you spend your energy and who you spend your energy on. and in the process, you realize that you'd rather cultivate strong friendships with a select few people you have a special connection with rather than superficial relationships with a bunch of people you only know by circumstance. #adulting 👏
as always thanks for sharing J Bros and im excited to see the success that 2021 will bring you! ✨
perfectly said audrey. depth , not breadth seems to be the name of the game beyond college for most . look at us #adulting . cheers to another year !!
I'm one of those people who spent years and years "finding themselves"... I've taken enough to college to get my doctorate with no degree as of yet 😅 I always had a hard time finishing something because I felt as though once I get this degree that's it. My future is set in stone. It took me a long time to figure out that, I can do this "for now" and pick up something later and do that too. I got my massage therapist license in my mid thirties and now I'm working on getting my bachelor's in nursing. I also had a bad habit of not doing something unless I could be great at it, but I've learned to let that go too. I'll take dancing classes for a few months at a time and if life gets busy, I'll stop and come back 6 months later having forgotten half of it - but still having fun. Experiences, moments, learning, laughing, etc. I respect those who can really commit to one particular passion in life, but that's not for everyone.
The last 4 minutes of this video was well said in such a sophisticated manner. As you two are talking I can't help but think "wow, how are these two handsome men still single? Especially seeing how well put together you two are." But then John makes a good point "we're not trying to pigeonhole ourselves into this constructed societal timeline." And for me that statement made me feel good about myself and where I stand in my life. I'm the same age as John, so sometimes I can't help but feel a certain way because I haven't achieve my PharmD goals just yet (in the process btw) and be single. I slowly start to become envious of my college friends that are moving foward in their lives both career and relationship wise. After watching the rest of the video I realized that they are right. That those things shouldn't define me. I am more than just a degree and I have other interests/passions that I want to tackle at the same time. This video made me feel a little bit at ease so thank you for sharing your thoughts. 😊
Really really love your content guys, it feels like its my two older brothers giving me advice! Fulfillment is a lifelong discovery journey, the key is to enjoy the process and spend time on the things that matter to you. Thanks for the awesome videos
this hit us in the feels with the brother comment, bro . glad to have you with us, cheers to 2021 gordon !
the best thing ever happened this year is discovered this yt channel and know you guys. the algorithm did really works amazing!!
Haha what a compliment:) thank u syiqah!
As a med student spending my time studying while all my high school and college friends are already working/married/having kids, I definitely related to this video! I always love seeing your guys' content, ambition, and growth as it motivates me to do the same!
Part 2. What I really wanted in and for my life never happened because I always met the wrong men. Now at 60 years old I don't bother trying to meet someone. If it happens and he is a nice guy then great, if not I am used to being alone. Happy New Year J-Bro.🌹
Happy New Year to you as well gail . cheers to another year of YOLO!
Really enjoy listening to your guys perspective of life, careers, dating, ideas etc. Your channel is genuine and hilarious. Happy New Year to come and may the next be successful for you both.
Happy new year Angelica. Come back for some more in 2021:)
14:02 this is reassuring to hear. i'm at a point in my career where i'm ????? and in terms of social life there is nothing going on lol i've been focused on networking rather than meeting people just to have fun, and this time away from people since march or so has actually made me less communicative with friends. 2020 has revealed to me a lot of negative aspects of my life haha i should really invite some excitement into my life...
thank you so much jason and john, it's been a great 2020 with you two. i'm grateful to be able to peek into your lives and your meaningful conversations. i guess i'm living a bit vicariously through you two. i'm hopeful that i'll be able to meet you two someday and just have a nice chat (i do live in manhattan haha), you both seem like genuine people. hoping for a better 2021 for us all :')
Never a dull moment with you guys! Enjoy the rest of 2020 with so much warmth and love!
Side note: NY has all the cool places 😭
I know right, the place that they went to reminds me of Daigon Ally of Harry Potter. Will definitely visit that bar when I was at NY.
The realer you are, the smaller your circle will be.
Appreciation post on John’s fascinating and stylish fashion effort. 4 thumbs up 👍👍👍👍
Thank you for the video. Social media definitely paints a picture that makes me feel like I’m missing out. In reality it’s just a façade. It’s OK if we are not out and about all the time as long as we are happy. No need to feel pressured by what others are doing.
No need to fomo just watch jbro 24/7
Personally, this particular video really resonated with me. Over the course of the last two years after completing my Master degree in education and even now teaching full time. I'm finding that even though I love my job, there still a sense of incompleteness I feel in my life. Whilst I am actually quite happy, I've come to the same conclusion that although teaching is the passion of my life, it doesn't define me. This past year has been an incredible journey of exploring my other hobbies and interest that feed my creative hunger(getting out of my comfort zone = talking to more adults and not children hahah). All in all, I wholeheartedly agree. Never stop doing what makes you happy! Keep feeding that curiosity and passion! Happy New Year Jbros and friends
love this on multiple facets . so cool to hear that you took adv of 2020 to explore your other interests . thats on making most of the situation . best of luck on this new year ahead as well lets get it!!
Everyone is always growing and branching out. Duo/multi career is soo common nowadays. I’ve met a ft dentist with three clinics / flight attendant, ft engineer/flight attendant, nurse/ flight attendant and a boarder security officer/massage therapist just to name a few lol the career combinations are crazy.
holy moly. is there a particular reason the flight attendant combo is most common around you?
Lol I’m a youth worker / flight attendant (pre covid) myself so I’ve met a lot of people and what do you think we do when we everyone is sleeping? We “galley talk” about each other
I'm trying to enjoy the little social life I have now before going back to school on top of my full time job 🙃
That Part!!! We Got This 화이팅!!!!
As embarrassing as it is I'm almost 30 and have never been in a relationship. I think it has stemmed from many things growing up. Having a strict household, a judge for a dad. Being a twin and feeling like I couldn't do anything without her. I'm also an introvert so I've been accustom to doing things solo. When you're use to doing things solo it becomes normal and you sometimes think it's meant to stay that way. I hope I'm wrong tho. Love you guys 🙏🏾
Same here, I'm 30 and never been in a relationship so I can relate. Focus has always been school and after that my career.
It is okay I'm 38 and I chose not to be in a relationship 🙃🙂
Part of me doesn't comment on youtube videos, especially if they're Korean. It's a weird Korean American thing that I couldn't explain. This one, in particular, gave me more to say. ^^
Went from Undergrad Physiology/Chemistry, to all types of marketing, to sales, to EMT, to currently teaching English in South Korea. I can feel myself changing in ways that I don't envision for myself in the future, and I find that that's a good way to evaluate any confusion or indecision I feel about "what's next." Feeling like it's time for something else, and onto the next. This isn't it.
If you're reading this, I hope this can be of some help; particularly if you're younger, or if you're older. Things happen when they do. Sometimes they take longer than you think, and at the same time, shorter than you thought. It's good to be in the details of planning, but when you find yourself getting negative about the world, zoom out and think big picture. It's not about the career, the money, the prize, or prestige. This is about you. The majority of a movie is the middle, the journey, and it gives the beginning and the ending context. The journey is what you remember -- because it changes you.
great points made here destiny , thanks for sharing . zoom out big picture - simple and effective statement! such a good reminder to take a step back and eval what and why we are doing things . happy new year~!
Had that conversation with a friend this week as we were talking about New Year's eve plans. I decided this year I wasn't going to watch fireworks at midnight (early sleeper) but when asked I still felt like I should have a plan. Definitely have had FOMO but learning like Jason said to do more fulfilling stuff instead.
I like it when u guys talk about different subjects like this one and not too much about guys and girls dating stuffs. There are a lot more about life then dating advice. Love your production. You guys complement each other. There is no better J bro then two of you. Wishing both of you to achieve greater and go further in 2021, feel good and feel fulfilled.
so proud for being this early 🥺🥰
We are as well👍👍
@Ayunga Tan because your mom
No social life bc of covid/ rediscovered
k dramas this year....I’m not mad about it ✌🏼😂
drop your favorite kdrama rec, expert
@@JBRODUCTION this year crash landing on you for sure, something in the rain, legend of the sea, my mister, one spring night, it’s ok to not be ok, start up lol so many more...
Haha the infamous “send him/me your address” line...trademark that & put it on jbro merch 😆
how to truly (un)impress your crush in 2021 ft. jbro pickup lines~~~
My social life has been nonexistent all year. Ngl it’s not that bad 😂
Stay home and watch jbros right? Loll
I don't really have a social life (especially this year) but it just makes me treasure the times with friends even more when we do get to see each other 😊
Also happy new year! ✨
yes✨this✨✨ . this year has certainly made us all more grateful of our prized possessions
Ouu what a magical brodate ✨🧙🏼 love the theme and the igloo tents. #thirdwheelingFTW!
please come thirdwheel. we welcome our bro dates to be interrupted anytime .
☯️ when social life becomes of an option than obligation 👌
2020 the year of option for introverts
@@JBRODUCTION and/or gymrats 😂
I can definitely relate. After college, my social life completely went from 100 to 0. After work, I go home, eat then sleep. It's kind of a routine. That's why, I also started my youtube channel to at least make some changes on my day to day routine and somehow socialize with the people who can also relate with my content. I appreciate this kinds of videos Jbro! Keep it up! Much respect from LA, Cali.
It's so nice to see a real example of chill reflective and passionate young people out there with whom I share ideas values and principles
When I saw the title of this video it triggered me haha “Why we don’t really have a social life.” Story of my life 🌝🌝 Anyways thank you for uploading great/fun videos and have a Happy Happy New Year!
I’m binge watching your videos at 19 it’s so interesting seeing different your perspectives
Our priorities shifted over time. I hardly socialising. Not that i don't have friends. I do have a small circle of friends but we only meet up few times a year over lunch/dinner or go camping. Past few years, i would spend my weekend hanging out with my friends but now as i grew older (30 🤣), I spend it with my parents and siblings.
Career wise...
It's still a long way to go.. There's so many things to explore and learn. My career path are full of ups and down mentally and physically. My first job was not relatable with what i studied. But it was truly an eye opener. Work for a couple of years there and I became a workaholic. Spent most of my time at work even during weekends and it affected my health so i decided to take a break. Resigned, helped up with my parents' cafe while pursuing my MS degree. Now I'm back in the industry, doing something I'm passionate with and loving my new role. 2 years and still counting.
I totally agree that everyone has their own timeline. Be at your own comfortable pace. Don't compare yours with others. You are you ✌️.
Happy New Year guys 🎉🎊!
No second channel after party? boo.
I started working in industry after undergrad, and honestly I'm glad I didn't pursue more in academia right then. Going head first into industry allowed me to move around the US comfortably, make my 'I want to make $X annual salary' goal by the time I was 26 (in retrospect maybe I just set the bar too low lmfao), and subsequently to travel and have more fun and exciting experiences outside of the grind. I'm happy with how things seem to fall into place when I just set my mind to something.
PS I would like to request a return to Stone Street for a future bro date at Adrienne's Pizzabar. THANKS 😊
Going back there with some new spells next time and a second channel after party😗wooop
"Why not now" really resonated with me. Often times it feels like we're chasing the next stage of our lives until we reach retirement. I think a lot of people have the mindset that "oh once I retire I'm going to be able to do all the things I wanted to try" but for me i think what better time than now to get started and try it out?
yasssssss. that's the spirit. SPIRIT FINGERSS
As someone who grew up with social anxiety and self-validation issues, I never enjoyed partying or had the courage to hang out with bunch people that i barely know. Plus, i don’t drink. Therefore, I never had those fun college life, left alone dates and relationship. While i was busy picking up the pieces of myself, my other half of the mind was torn to think that i missed out huge part of so called “life experiences”. “Why didn’t I brave enough to get out there and be more social？”, which made me even more anxious. Recently, i graduated with my doctoral degree in physical therapy (how can someone with social anxiety can be clinician? Lol, magic). I started to have more time to reflect on myself. I started to value more on what i have and consider what i don’t t have as room of improvement. I realized i have so many good friends who always there for me. I have a supportive mom who trust her daughter regardlessly. I completed grad school (grad school was a bitch). I am building a better relationship with myself. I have a better and stronger version of myself!!!!!! I just stepped into the dating game as a 27 yrs old and had no luck yet (sad face here lol), but a big step for someone with social anxiety. I still aware of the social clock ticking around me. But i started to care less. No one gonna live the life for me. So i should just be responsible for myself, instead of fitting into the social standard. Still working on making a better version of myself.
I don’t remember when was my last time writing so much. If I have any grammatical mistakes, i guess I need to use grammarly. Lol. Thank you guys for talking about this kind of topic. Love from a local New Yorker
It's more meaningful to have a few close friends who REALLY knows you well, rather than having tons of friends who don't really know you. By the way I must visit your Harry Potter-like bar, it looks amazing! From Hong Kong :)
This video is very playful! Made me feel like I was there with you bros! Happy 2021!!!
I love the title of this video and I totally agree with you, it is waaaaaaay ok to be single and older while finding your passion.
Randomly stumbled upon your channel a week ago (been living under a rock) and I've rewatched a ton of your videos since then. It's so refreshing to hear the male perspective on adulting/relationships/life in general and how relatable it is for young adults like me. PS: more song covers in the future please! :)
Happy New Year Gentlemen!
congratulations on the new job . sounds like you found what you were searching for. 2021, here we go~~
Can't get better than enjoying your friendship with your bestie.
I do agree (after some life changing events) that you should always focus on doing what you love and what makes you happy. Because I’ve had a job that I devoted my life to and it honestly was terrible for my health to be in an environment where my bosses only cared about the bottom line (I was an RA). So for the first time I had the desire to quit a job that was making me miserable and it really showed me how important going to work in a place that I love is to me. Also happy new year!! Be careful on that day Manhattan tends to go a little crazy xD
Great job producing such relatable content this 2020!! Keep #BeingReal and look forward to more videos ahead. #PeaceOut #AFanFromSingapore
When all my friends are either married, or getting married, enjoying vacation or honeymoon, posting their social life and so on;
Here, I am watching your videos with a consistent smile and wondering how relatable single lives are!!!! 😂😂
Happy New Year guys! Have a wonderful year ahead with lot of excitement and adventure!!!🎉🎉🔥😎 (Not to forget, me and Jason will be Doctorate by then 🙈🙈🙈🙈)
Sending you guys cheer 😊from the Sunshine State! 🌴
Will see yall there~
FOMO IS REALLLL. You guys made me realize that if I'm burnt out socially, then stop putting pressure on myself to go to social events.
I didn’t have much of a social life this year, but idk why, it’s not like I’m too busy...It makes me a bit sad, cuz I miss the fun stuff (clubbing) I used to do with my friends. Your videos with your bros make me so jealous, I wish I had fun and solid friendships like that
POST MORE!!! I live for your content!! Jason, can you rekindle with Freesia?
OKAY!!!
My only social life this 2020 was watch your videos!! Thank You so much for share with us about your perspectives and life.
See you in 2021!! 🎉✨
Greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽
One thing that no one probably meantioned is that I appreciate the subtitle you guys put, it’s extra work but it really helps.Thanks guys!
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It makes me (and probably lots of the viewers) feel like we are not alone in this adulting journey.
I've been working in hospitality for almost 10 years, since I was 18, dropped out from college. I'm at the managing position that I was thriving for but after the pandemic, I'm burnt out and I'm lost. I helped the company passed through the difficult time but I suddendly felt empty looking back on my life. I'm just trying to do more of what really fulfills me and take time for myself.
What you said toward the end of the video somehow resonates with my current situation. That feeling when you know that someone out there experienced the same situation is really heart warming. Especially how you called out the issues and the inportant questions of our generation is very calm. Thank you for making these videos. Wish all your projects will be super successful!
That was so cute with your fan. 🤗
We educating next generation of youtubers haha
@@JBRODUCTION. You guys really are nice. I am happy to have met you , virtually. 🤗
Very interesting! I love your introspective bro talks and I'm not even a bro haha I'm coming up to my mid-twenties and recently moved from banking to buyside, but now trying more creative outlets like a food blog and podcasting. I think you guys hit the nail on the head with finding other avenues to personal fulfilment. Wishing you a happy new year!
i love these close to midnight uploads lol have me sleeping close to 1 am
our dearest trash, u need ur beauty sleep
@@JBRODUCTION i do indeed but not tonight it looks like
Hey J Bro, just subscribed this channel yesterday and found it really informative for me. I am a 26 Chinese student in Tasmania, Australia and have spent my past 2 years backpacking in Australia to explore and one year working my butt off to get a residency here. Holding a bachelor’s degree of geospatial engineering, I didn’t do much I my field or I would say it’s not field coz I chose it when I was not mentally mature at all and I lost my appetite for it after graduation. While I was backpacking and studying in Australia, I did bar job or barista job to stay afloat. I did feel anxious on the way to get residency while I couldn’t move forward in what I perceive as a career. It stays mysterious to me and I work as a disability support worker now, which is another inconsistent part of my career pathway. There are a few things that I can relate to while watching the video, such as working out and nutrition. Thanks to your video contents coz it allowed me to read your thoughts and think about my path for the next 4 years. Keep it up and I love you guys. Let me know if you are coming to Tasmania, and we can have some talks over about Australian new immigrants and American Asians.
Early bro! 😂😂😂🎆
7:32 7:37 LOL AHAHAHAAHAHAH
Hyungs!! Happy new year to you both and all the Jbro fram! LESGGOOOO 2021 stay safe and healthy!
love the enthusiasm jay . thanks for your support . lets kill it in 2021 , hwaiting!!!
I haven't dropped in J Bro for a long time. You guys are looking good. Happy New Year, John & Jason.
Silly babies playing around ❤️
Helloo fellow silly baby~
I'm in my mid 20's, living and working remotely in NYC, and my career is still at the "analyst level" since graduating more than 4 years ago. I would have liked to be at 6 figures at this point, but it is not the case. I'd like to figure out the next step in my career. Also, I'd like to make more friends. It doesn't always feel great when other people are doing so much better, have more money, friends, going out, partying, concerts, life experiences, luck etc. But, I have myself and will continue carrying on :)
The topic on this vlog is definitely really valuable for those of us who are in the same situation of rushing towards life because of fear of not always doing enough coupled with the pressure to make more money or start a family. We shouldn't compare ourselves to other people's timeline. As long as we're striving to improve and be a better version of ourselves whether we can see the results yet or not, we should be happy cause our time will surely come in the future when we will look back. It's best to look back with a sense of fulfillment that we enjoyed the process of making ourselves a better person and not because of pressure from society.
Hope you guys make more of these contents. From one bro to another. :)
Freesia Park's channel recently showed up on my feed so I think that led to this video popping up as well. Definitely appreciate this conversation. I'm mixed but first generation Asian American on my mother's side and definitely felt the pressure from her to go to school in the medical field which led to me feeling lost in college and dropping out. Then I also felt the pressure in my mid twenties to potentially marry my partner at the time and in hindsight we were completely incompatible. Now I'm twenty-eight, single, and back at a university to study something I'm actually passionate about. I can't even imagine how unhappy I would be if I just followed what others wanted me to do. I think not following society's timeline and having an untraditional path allows me to be my most authentic self and actually live to enjoy life instead of filling out check boxes. Aside from career, the idea not settling for the sake of conforming also helped me learn what I value most in people whether that be friendships or relationships. There is definitely a sweet pot when it comes to balancing goals and finding your own ebb and flow to life.
전 당신들의 긍정적인 마인드가 항상 좋아요~그래서 영상 보죠~~🙏🏻❤️하기 싫어도 해야하는게 사회생활인것 같아요.....
I have a grandma soul all the way 🙌🏻😊 #noshame enjoy MY own time instead of comparing myself to others is the best thing I can do for myself.
all the grandmas in the comment section cheerin right now
13:21 why did you pick up the chip, dip it in some sauce then put it back to same place, john?? still love you hahahaha
Thanks, guys. Loved this introspective and reflective video. ❤️
I’m ready for your podcasts ☺️
This is true. Im also having a full time career but also recently, after years of being career oriented, I am trying to focus on other passions, hobbies and people.
I would com back here everytime I need that reassurance
Happy New Year Jason and John!❇ Loved your magic show, Wingardium Leviosa🧙♀️ cheers 🍾 for a better new year!
I’m in a mix between socializing more to working more on my career/school and what fulfills me more often. Not forcing myself to socialize because I see other people on Instagram or because of FOMO. I think 2020 showed me how not social I was with people out of fear of being rejected and not well liked. I think in the coming year I’m gonna branch more into being a social butterfly while being more productive with my passion. Btw: I wish Jason was underneath my mistletoe, he’s a cutie 🥰 maybe next year 🤷🏾♀️
I am currently set and stone to get my MS in Electrical Engineering this Fall 2021. I'm stuck at this roadblock in my life where I can either choose to go PhD, work locally, or join the Air Force.
Sometimes I do feel like I FOMO seeing colleagues partying, traveling, or raising a family.. sometimes I think life can be draining being lonely and studying, but after seeing this, I think it's just trying to do whatever simple things make me happy.
Just seeing you walk n' talk, find foodie places, or just chilling with a bro; it is so simple but gosh it's pure bliss!
I will probably try vlogging some simple things too!
Liked and subscribed bc of this video!!! Godspeed J Bro and keep inspiring the future!
Moved overseas, working at top 5 company and doing photography on the side. Additionally, use to work in the nightclub scene haha. Love the contrast between different worlds! Happy new year chaps!
nightclub scene? u have our attention helen!!
@@JBRODUCTION A story I'll be happy to share on IG
Hoping to find a forever bro like John and Jason..greetings from 🇰🇷🇺🇲👍❤
I'm just here listening to you guys chat about life while playing my Fishdom app game lol. I'm in my early 30s, married with a toddler son, but it's interesting listening to you guys while I unwind for the day. A lot of my friends aren't married yet, so the topic of what fulfills us is interesting to me because I think in many ways, it depends on the stage of life you're in or engage in. It's an ongoing discovery that changes with time, and sometimes the hardest thing is to let go of what used to be and allow for yourself to change and evolve. And hopefully you have good friends and family along the way to support you through that growth.
Happy new year, y'all! Keep up with your vlogs - they're interesting, funny, and complement my gaming well haha.
I love how much fun you guys had with this in the beginning of the video. You guys were really into this place. Jason's playfulness reminds me of my good friend in Toronto. Btw, John's hair was on fleek... get it John.
Thank you guys for this video! I can relate to many of the points you've made throughout the vlog. If anything, 2020 was certainly a time of deep self-reflection for us all, thanks to all the time (and open ears) we've gained as a result of a semi-uniformly-forced-non-existent-social-life. As for me... until now I've been very career-driven and solely focused on getting to the top in my field, but after this hiatus, post-pandemic I am really looking forward to spending more quality time with my friends and family. I hope we will all retain gratitude post-pandemic, do the things that fulfill us most and let go of all the things that don't serve us, and cherish the time with our loved ones. As for me, I can't wait to hug my friends and explore more of NYC (and the rest of the world, really)!!
Thank you both for building this community, for being your authentic selves, and for making your RUclips channel your creative outlet!
HAPPY NEW YEAR JBROS :-)
Yeah love this, friendship is all about quality over quantity! I’m an introvert and I’d rather have a deeper conversation than attempt to small talk (I’m so bad at it anyway lol!) with a whole bunch of people. It also takes more work to keep a social life in your 30’s, as apart from work, the places you naturally run into friends becomes less as you get more time poor, your peers get married and start having kids, and you all tend to be a bit further apart. I started making it my habit to have coffee or breakfast with a friend at least once a week and it has kept things easy and conversations real 👌
I'm usually saying that I'm just selective when it comes to socializing but still too much socializing wears me out. After a night out, I need a week alone and the friends that I care about now know it. Like many people said if reading a book makes you happy do that, but I do feel its important to here and there socialize, make some interactions, keep in touch just to keep yourself on your toes, to venture out of your comfort zone, you'll eventually fall into the place you are comfortable in and your friends will get to know how you 'operate' . As you get older the pressure dies down, you care about the people around you who you give your time and energy to and everyones priorities are different. You realize you don't wanna hang with people just for the sake of hanging.
From the busy tiring life your videos make me smile at times. Totally loving them. Keep up the great work guys! All the best for all your future endeavors. Wishing you a happy and prosperous new year ahead.🎉🎊😃
I think a lot about my social life and what does it mean to have a social life, to begin with. I realized that you could be social in your own way and with your own terms and conditions set up for yourself. I no longer feel the pressure to have lots of friends or go out because everybody else is doing so. I like how you two kept comparing socializing with fulfillment, which you can also find in other things or even within yourself. This is actually the purpose of socializing in my perspective; it is like learning new things from other people and realizing that we all are the same in many different ways. Love your videos as always.
Currently happy where I am. Just living the life I wanted to be on my own and trying to achieve my dreams one at a time. No timelines. being more present every single day.
FOMO is real, especially fueled by social media posts. But 2020, with its long term isolation phase, has taught me that you do whatever makes you happy, having social life or not. Fulfillment is different for everybody.
Btw I've just discovered your channel like 2 weeks ago but I've been binge watching! Keep up the great contents, J Bro. Love from halfway across the world (I'm literally 12 hours ahead of you). And have a very happy new year! ❤
I can so relate. Being 30, and social life. I guess life just happened. Happy New Year Jbros!!!
Didn’t understand the “lotion master” joke at first, then out of the blue a few minutes later, boom! Haha! Well-executed and well-timed!
Only the exquisite can understand this joke. You are exquisite sir~ lol
I really enjoyed this topic, it helps me to reflect on some of the moments in the past before the end of 2020. I was so focused on doing my Master's and Ph.D. degrees, I actually missed a lot of time socializing. Now that I am doing my postdoc, looking back on those days, I don't really have regrets. In life, we all make choices, sometimes you just can't afford to spend too much time getting a degree because of the tuition fees and living expenses (every country has a different financial aid system for education >
discounted goblin 😂😂
Thank you for showing us around such a cool bar! yall should do more of these around nyc!
Aka the Best goblin haha. Yes, will do:)
"comment below, we read every single one of the comments" makes ME write essays. Now as I became more calculated and strict with my time(according to my nephew "I am boring and missing out all the funs") i take my time off and try my best to catch up with My people and Support my Jbros algorithm until I find other bros. Oh sorry I literally forgot what I wanted to say about the epi I will comment again when I'll remember after watching the episode for 200X times
the stream of consciousness in this comment is applause worthy (clap clap clap)