omg I’ve been a subscriber to soft ASMR for several years and never heard your full volume speaking voice until now, and I’m shocked!!!! like a totally different person, but happy to be here on the podcast side now
Respectfully, idk how you can know someone is right for you, know someone is right to be your spouse if you dont live with them first, like everything can be perfect and you get married then suddenly you find out they chew on their nail clippings or something off the wall that you didnt know about before lol
I somewhat agree with the "time is nothing" one. My husband and I got married after 6 months of dating. 9 yrs in and going strong. But I don't think everyone can do that and be good😆 And I always hated when pple said "when you know, you know" until I met my husband and then i was like "ooh this is what pple mean" lol
I personally rather live with someone before getting married because being in the same environment all the time and seeing how they act is a big part of decision for me wanting to get married
OMG Sam I never thought this would be your voice When I clicked on it I was wondering what’s different Like hmmmm smth is offf 🤔 and I realized YOU ARE NOT WHISPERING 😂😂 U have such a cute voice 🥹❤️
FACTS just because they go to your church does not mean they’re the one … There’s this girl that still goes to my church we were on and off for like 10 yrs and never became official it was a waste of time for both of us & we were just eachothers rebounds when we were both single at times
Ooh I disagree with the "wait to talk about finances." You need to talk about it closer to the beginning. If you are thinking about marriage, you need to already know these things!!
That statistic is a little outdated. Totally thought that too for a long time and I’m sure that was true at some point lol interestingly recent research found that the longevity of a relationship/marriage depended on the age of the people who either got married or started acting married (this was to consider the couples that moved in and had a long term domestic partnership) … not saying moving in together first is correct but just found the recent research super interesting. They acknowledged the older statistic within the research as well so that “nerd” part of me appreciated that lol Makes sense but I’m not coming from a religious perspective. Just more so like a developmental lens, to me makes sense that people who are a little older are more likely to last compared to younger ones. 🤓 just thought it would something to share cus honestly didn’t know about that until last semester lol love the video ☀️
Awesome video 😊 relationships is a job were to people are willing to talk about things that should be discussed in the nicely manner without being mean or rude. Also cheating it’s a sight of disrespect for me and the relationship I am in because when I ❤️ man then I love him completely and when he does cheating then that means he is not for me and yes talking about things like finances it’s a good thing.
I agree it shouldn't be a secret. But porn is not good for you or your relationship, and it is not a productive form of "entertainment" But if you and your partner both believe it is fine and it doesn't affect you negatively, then it is okay. But I'd say those cases are rare.
A lot of the people involved in porn are trafficked young girls or being forced to contribute in that industry. Porn destroys many many relationships and is super dangerous. Please don’t try and justify pornography in a relationship .
The not doing wife things is kinda messed up, bc I'm sure if men said the same u wouldn't be happy about it. Eg. Paying for u, protecting u, listening to your problems and feelings are all husband things, and no women would except a man saying he wont do that tell marriage, so why should a man
This is a valid statement except for the “listening to your problems and feelings are all husband things”…. That’s not specific to husband duties that’s what a partner regardless of their gender should do. The rest I agree with- ppl deserve to know what their partner will do for them and it needs to be shown before marriage.
omg I’ve been a subscriber to soft ASMR for several years and never heard your full volume speaking voice until now, and I’m shocked!!!! like a totally different person, but happy to be here on the podcast side now
Comparing losing an animal to mourning the loss of a child is crazyyyy
Respectfully, idk how you can know someone is right for you, know someone is right to be your spouse if you dont live with them first, like everything can be perfect and you get married then suddenly you find out they chew on their nail clippings or something off the wall that you didnt know about before lol
I totally get it!
You should know this before you're married! You CAN know someone. My husband and I and many other couples are proof😊
I somewhat agree with the "time is nothing" one. My husband and I got married after 6 months of dating. 9 yrs in and going strong. But I don't think everyone can do that and be good😆 And I always hated when pple said "when you know, you know" until I met my husband and then i was like "ooh this is what pple mean" lol
I personally rather live with someone before getting married because being in the same environment all the time and seeing how they act is a big part of decision for me wanting to get married
OMG Sam
I never thought this would be your voice
When I clicked on it I was wondering what’s different
Like hmmmm smth is offf 🤔
and I realized YOU ARE NOT WHISPERING 😂😂
U have such a cute voice 🥹❤️
PURE BEAUTY
I was like why are my cats meowing? And it was Luna lol ❤
The hot take about being friends with exes. I tried and if things ended badly it won’t work. I tried a couple times and couldn’t do it!
It's been a year and a half already??! Wow!
FACTS just because they go to your church does not mean they’re the one … There’s this girl that still goes to my church we were on and off for like 10 yrs and never became official it was a waste of time for both of us & we were just eachothers rebounds when we were both single at times
Ooh I disagree with the "wait to talk about finances." You need to talk about it closer to the beginning. If you are thinking about marriage, you need to already know these things!!
omg love your shirt where is it from
Great video Sam! Given you've formed a kind of community here you should open some kind of group chat or place for viewers to chat.
That statistic is a little outdated. Totally thought that too for a long time and I’m sure that was true at some point lol interestingly recent research found that the longevity of a relationship/marriage depended on the age of the people who either got married or started acting married (this was to consider the couples that moved in and had a long term domestic partnership) … not saying moving in together first is correct but just found the recent research super interesting. They acknowledged the older statistic within the research as well so that “nerd” part of me appreciated that lol Makes sense but I’m not coming from a religious perspective. Just more so like a developmental lens, to me makes sense that people who are a little older are more likely to last compared to younger ones. 🤓 just thought it would something to share cus honestly didn’t know about that until last semester lol love the video ☀️
Awesome video 😊 relationships is a job were to people are willing to talk about things that should be discussed in the nicely manner without being mean or rude. Also cheating it’s a sight of disrespect for me and the relationship I am in because when I ❤️ man then I love him completely and when he does cheating then that means he is not for me and yes talking about things like finances it’s a good thing.
Where did you get your outfit?! I’ve really been into denim lately and that is soo cute
Abercrombie!!
your spotify linking isn’t working for me it says page not found
Fixed it! :)
My ex was here when we found my brother's body and let's just say he didn't handle it well but I miss him everyday
Maybe a new topic could be finding one's connection with faith when its completely new to someone
Omg love your shirt! Where is it from?
It’s a dress from Abercrombie!! :)
First time hearing your actual voice
wow I've listened to your ASMR videos for a long time and it's strange hearing your normal voice
Trust with going through text should be open but taking the phone for an hour is absurd lol that shows more insecurity than hiding it
If a woman asks my salary, I will ask her weight, bodycount and all size measurements. Fair?
If it’s a serious relationship, both salaries will affect the way you live. Does her body count, weight or measurements do the same?
I’m here to learn what a “hot take” is 😂
Ahhhhh lol now I know! Thanks Sam!
I'm not sure if I'd say porn is cheating. It's just entertainment. Shouldn't be a secret.
Agree!! Porn is a healthy thing to watch but in no way should it be kept a secret from your partner😊
I agree it shouldn't be a secret. But porn is not good for you or your relationship, and it is not a productive form of "entertainment"
But if you and your partner both believe it is fine and it doesn't affect you negatively, then it is okay. But I'd say those cases are rare.
It’s cheating.
A lot of the people involved in porn are trafficked young girls or being forced to contribute in that industry. Porn destroys many many relationships and is super dangerous. Please don’t try and justify pornography in a relationship .
@@lennygreen8497 most people are fine with it. It's pretty rare that it becomes a problem.
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The not doing wife things is kinda messed up, bc I'm sure if men said the same u wouldn't be happy about it. Eg. Paying for u, protecting u, listening to your problems and feelings are all husband things, and no women would except a man saying he wont do that tell marriage, so why should a man
That’s a pretty good point. I feel like it’s gotta be the same on both sides
@@samtaylorr16 ya, who knows maybe the soft guy era will become an actual thing and not just satire😂. Might be what balances it out
This is a valid statement except for the “listening to your problems and feelings are all husband things”…. That’s not specific to husband duties that’s what a partner regardless of their gender should do. The rest I agree with- ppl deserve to know what their partner will do for them and it needs to be shown before marriage.