@@danafoley4603 it depends on the urgency of the message, if for example it was organising a date on the Saturday and it's currently Monday you have untill Friday to answer it, unless it requires bookings or tickets in which case it should be answered within a day. If it's a general conversation over text so much as it's weird to just exit, you have no right to be upset, the conversation has ended and it's time to get on with whatever you were doing, even if it didn't end on a satisfactory note. If you really want to talk, go to their house and have a normal conversation then. I don't particularly want to go over a proof of these as general wisdom so will this suffice?
@@danafoley4603 @Voxs Voxs it's the accessibility and ease of utilization of technology that makes this tricky. The fact that someone you might like has literally seen your message, read it, and goes on to ignore it for 2 days, it might be a sign they're just not that into you. A message is not a letter or an email, it too casual, to easy to respond to. I despise the social media, because it's so invasive and at the same time so addictive. You're never really alone with yourself, it's like living on the street. I would try not to get upset, try to look at it exactly as like it's a letter or a phone, and understand that people can choose when or if they want to respond, some people value their solitude more than others.
Thats one of the reasons im divorcing my wife, she spends all her day on social media....also her being a cheating whore mightve had something to do with it
@@Magicstar-nw6xw taco bell is far from cheap now. Where did the. 39 cent taco with the crunchy shell go. I went to order a taco ten pack and it was near $20 for one
Yeah, that’s pathetic. Of course she will be f*ing around on a dude that acts like a cuck. It’s sad how society has been castrating and feminizing these men to believe masculinity is toxic. It’s a recipe for disaster.
This is the same as a feminist replying to a woman asking that question, and saying "Omg, women in America have no rights it's sad" 🤦♀️ It's not about being a man or a woman, it's about whether you confront your SPOUSE about something, regardless if you're the man or the woman..
No. It is about that. Everyone should be able to confront in a case like that, but for a man it is many times more important, because it is more in his basic nature. That's why we call him 'castrated' if he can't: because he's missing his masculinity.
Idk I think that could also be someone's way of giving an ultimatum. Like they're not happy so unless they can be intimate with people outside the relationship, it will end.
@@teh_jibbler to an outsider it would seem that way but sometimes people like to keep their partners at arm's reach. Other things could complicate it like if they have kids. Might need to stay married to raise kids but have an affair to fulfill one's carnal desires. The wife could be relying on the husband for financial support/shelter. Many factors at play here.
These dating disasters happen when both sides were indoctrinated SO HARD that they have no idea what even a real functioning relationship should like like, and definitelly not how to build one.
I mean it's not their fault for growing up in dysfunctional families, and especially when lacking interpersonal skills (I'm assuming), so more or less everyone kinda wings it unless training themselves to live up to a certain standard
@@AggysMagic And here is why the family has been destroyed by government, media, Hollywood etc. Single parent? "So brave" Take your government handout. Both parents work and government raises your kids "That's empowering to woman". Having mindless sex, multiple partners "You go girl". Open marriage? "Thats progressive" Men being men is "toxic" "Men should put on makeup and a dress" "no more masculinity" Look what it has created. This had to be intentional
If your partner is happy with the thought of somebody else touching you in the most intimate ways, you gotta go. Man or woman, if you are in love with somebody the thought will make you sick. If not, and shared intimacy is cool there is really no connection in this relationship. Run! And run fast! Or stay, but stay fully aware of what you're signing up for
oh fr because if i had a girlfriend i would get physically sick just imagining another woman touching me and for my hypothetical girlfriend to suggest an open relationship even tho she would be saying it for herself it clearly means she does not care about other women touching her man
I confronted my wife about a letter she wrote and it blew up in my face. The first thing I asked her was ..why did you send me a letter with a bomb in it?
That first one is so pitiful. How badly was this man treated that he's asking for advice on whether to walk away from a situation full of red flags? I hope it got better for him.
Oh wow!! I just checked and yesterday he was 2k short. He owes us all that dance he said he'd do if he hit 1mil 😊 Seriously great to see his show growing. 🎉🎉
Its all Thanks to sticking with facts.....and to all the hate from the alphabet pple and those affirming them on his movie "What is a woman" Nothing like free advertising!
I never understand how people DON'T watch Matt or Klavan vs Ben Shaps. Klavan is so refreshing, but we all know who our sweet daddy is. We just got a buncha new sweet baby siblings!
My dude, despite my hesitant exceptions about your new documentary, you absolutely hit a grand slam with this project. It was funny, infuriating, heart breaking, and inspiring. The presentation was immaculate, and the final scene was transcendentally romantic. 10/10 truly a milestone.
I cannot believe we have reached a point where confronting your spouse about cheating is somehow not okay. We have gone down the shitter, as a society, so terribly it scares me that we can’t turn back. Hence why I refuse to take any part in “gentle parenting.” God, family, country 🇺🇸 Conserve traditional values 💪🏻
I agree with you. Some advice that I heard one day was that our ultimate mission is to point people towards God. So don't be so obviously against the other side that you lose any chance you once had of influencing them for God. Instead, be so rooted in the Bible that God can use you to be a light towards them and to anyone else for that matter.
It's just mind boggling how many people on reddit ask advice from complete strangers about their dating life and only portray one side of the picture whereas the first and only option they should choose is to discuss it with a person who knows both of you or atleast you. No wonder why they end up in shity relationships in first place.
I agree with you. That being said, most of the people who are posting like this, never had someone (father or mother) actually give sound relationship advice from the start. My parents remained married until my mother passed. Grew up in the church. I never got what Matt is dishing out here for free. I find these chats he is giving VERY helpful. Emotional neglect, lack of emotional mirroring, lack of boundaries, and lack of basically explaining how relationships work…as they are happening, during childhood is the root of this. Ask most of the redditors and I am willing to bet that mom and dad worked (or single parent), they went to daycare, school became their main social community, and there were few, if any mentors. The “entitled” generations are largely in this foundation (if you can ever call it that). The root of the trans movement, in my opinion, is the lack of emotional mirroring as a small child. Mom and dad never mirrored back “Jonny you seem angry. Why are you angry?” Watch a child who is acting up to get his mother’s attention while she futzes on her cell phone at a store for the picture. Attempting to be heard never worked: whether acting good or bad. Toys given to shut the child up. Emotional mirroring is how the child is “heard” and they learn to identify their own and others feelings. No affirmation very young creates a void… thus the bottomless pit of affirmation and narcissism in adulthood. It’s arrested development. And it’s an epidemic of it. As bad as these questions are, and clueless these adults seem, I feel for them. I see failed development, lost potential, and the repeat of the cycle that got them to where they are. It’s all just very, very sad.
I'm eternally grateful that I found my husband over Halloween in 2002. We've been together since February of 2003. Married since August of 2004. I cannot fathom having to date in today's climate.
Married in 2014. The environment is not good, but there are still people out there that want a real relationship. You just have to weed through alot to get to it.
Matt's advice was solid, but that first guy needs to kindly box her stuff up and put it on the front porch, and then tell her to move along. No confrontation needed, the relationship opened right for her. Now he can meet someone who actually loves him for himself, and not because he pays the bills.
@@Arkangilos there's always a quick trip down the stairs. However, adultery deserves divorce. She wants it, let her have it before it causes you more problems.
8:20 - Matt Walsh's wife text - "Honey can you pick up some milk on your way back?" Four Months Later - "Sorry, I'm in the middle of something. I can go out tomorrow."
@@larissagonzales6075 Agreed. I think there is a reasonable amount of time till response depending on the importance of someone in your life. If you're married to them, you'll respond quickly. If it's someone you barely know, you might take longer to respond. I just find it odd he thinks of texting as something where he'll respond sometimes days later.
@@larissagonzales6075 might be an age thing? my husband and I are almost the same age as Walsh (we're a few years younger) and my husband hates texting too and he didn't often text back even when we were dating. he would often respond to a text in person when he saw me next lol. I wasn't ever all that into texting either and was cool with it once he let me know he hated texts. Op made me laugh
@@MC-ze8wj my husband and I didn’t have texting while we were dating. We lived long distance for a few months and I would write these long emails (and letters occasionally). I would get a sentence or two in reply. And one letter written in those few months. We talked on the phone almost every evening. You could probably imagine how texting is now between us. I get a lot of “k”’s and “sure” or “that’s fine” if he’s being particularly chatty that day 😂
I 100% agree with Matt about the whole texting thing. The shortest relationship I've ever had lasted for one month, and part of the reason I ended it was because the guy was EXTREMELY clingy. He told me all the time that he missed me. He once even texted it five minutes after I left his house. I'm a self-sufficient, introverted person, and I felt like he was sucking the life out of me to the point where I began to have anxiety, and I am not an anxious person. I had to end it.
Nah, you just didn't like him. ......Only partly kidding. I haven't experienced that, so I can't relate. But I strongly believe we have a tendency to let stuff like that slide when we are really into someone. But what do I know...
@@lcam9241 I did like him, but I barely knew him. We went on one date before deciding to pursue each other, lol. That's why the sudden clinginess turned me off.
Holy crap, yes 1000x about the “women find neediness repulsive.” I met a guy on a dating site a few months ago, we chatted back and forth about a week before I gave him my number, and BRO. This GUY. He sent me over 50 texts before noon, and before noon I’m, 1. At work anyway and 2. Still half a zombie. Like bro. He was so clingy and we HADNT EVEN MET YET! If I didn’t respond within 10 minutes he’d send another text and another and another and I ended up muting his whole line then telling him I wasn’t interested good luck in his future endeavors. Dudes. If you’re clingy from the start it’s absolutely suffocating and makes me, at least, fear it will turn to controlling as the relationship progresses.
As a woman, I strongly disagree. I judge a guy's communication as a means of understanding how much he actually enjoys me as a person. It's easy for a guy to like you when you're in front of him...that's physical. But the more he wants to talk to me...wants to know my thoughts/opinions/words...I take that as a sign he's truly invested. So I disagree with Matt...we don't all think the same way. And I'm not disagreeing the guy you mentioned sounds overboard, but on the flipside, there's more men out there that are more than willing to have their time divided among 500 women at the same time.
@@ncorp2668 texting is barely communication. Wanting to talk to someone face-to-face is not indicative of physical attractiveness, it's the normal way for humans to communicate. If someone is reluctant on texting, phone calls, and even video calls and prefer to wait to talk until you can see one another face-to-face then, as far as I can tell, that's objectively a healthier way of living.
@@ncorp2668the guy (or gal) who replied above has a point. As a man, I make it clear that I don't like phone tag. I go weeks without texting or calling my girl, but when I'm with her, we talk so much it takes the jaws of life to seperate us. That's the kind of communication I enjoy. All of my friendships are this way, too. I am perfectly fine working on my home and myself and mind while I'm "recharging" and then get right back to chatting up a storm when the opportunity arises. As for having my time divided among a myriad of women, it's clear talking to me that while I appear to be the player type, the man underneath is actually pretty old fashioned and loyal. I have to be REALLY interested to even reach out.
Women everywhere: Why can't men ever communicate? Man: (Tries to communicate a lot) Woman: Ugh, that man who wants to communicate is so clingy, it's suffocating and makes us afraid you want to control me!
The second one with the clingy woman reminded me of when I had a stalker. I was married and I had only spoken to this woman once about getting some carpets fitted. She started phoning me "just to chat" and every time she did I told her not to. If my wife answered the phone she would always hang up and when I did she pretended she hadn't called previously. It got to the point where we'd unplug the phone all night and, then, if I plugged it back in at 1am the phone would ring a minute later. That was 25 years ago. I can't imagine actually being in a relationship with a crazy stalker.
that fits with the left's entire agenda..transgender is about NO children abortion (obviously)is about NO children dating with privileges is, in most cases, is about NO children and if you do end up having a child, a non-commited father is worse than a divorce...which leads back to NO children being the "correct" thing to not have...
That take on the text massages culture was on point! That's exactly how I feel! I hope more people understands this toxic culture of "being available all time" is wrong. Thank you as always for this video 👌🏻
@@DanishTroll87 Exactly. I think Matt's take on replying to someone else whenever he wants to because he doesn't owe anyone a response is a lame excuse. The least you could do is say "sorry, I'm busy, but I'll talk later" or just reply when you have time. That's called being courteous and respecting others.
@@EliteAgent2323 his dating advices don't seem that good either lol. He literally said : walk away for every answer. He's married and has 4 children. You don't reach that level in a relationship by walking away at any inconvenience.
For the 1st guy: I would first try to find a good true crime series where cheating spouses get....well, bad things happening to them. Binge watch that show with her. The following day, confront her about the letter
If your lady suggests an open marriage and claims the "man is always happier" she is lying to your face. Women don't do much in the courting phase so it's easier for them to attract and retain sexual partners. They are well aware of this.
Although a whole lot of us don’t think about “attracting and retaining sexual partners” while we are in a committed relationship. That is the LAST thing a lot of women think about!!
@@DaveG-kb2sr Sad to hear it. 😪 I am committed to celibacy for the remainder of my life, truly. I was married one time and one time is what I promised, divorced or not.
I frequently get text messages and I don't respond to them for days. I treat text messages like they're letters and I'm living on the frontier in 1835 when the mail comes on horseback every four months. Best thing I've heard this week.
Ever since the cell phone and the internet was invented, I thought right then that this thing is going to cause a lot of problems with relationships. We were never meant to be able to have access to each other 24/7. It doesn’t allow to miss the other person. Yearn for them while you’re apart from each other. And there’s no need to have to be in constant contact. That’s why we have separate lives. They’re meant to be separate! As far as online dating goes. We weren’t meant to have a virtual Rolodex of partners to choose from. It’s supposed to be, you see a person from across the room and work up the courage to go talk to them. Or someone randomly introduces you through a mutual acquaintance. Having the ability to swipe “like” on 200 photos and hope that someone matches you isn’t how it’s done. I don’t don’t, maybe I’m old fashioned, but the way people interact these days is way too impersonal, in my opinion.
Please, I am from a vast majority Christian country. The number of shitty immoral people is the same as in the UK where majority are. atheists. Values are not necessary in line with religion.
Not necessarily. Marriages die and people cheat. Even good people cheat. If she slept around with the entire block, that would be one thing, if he had low self esteem, no confidence, poor health, high body fat, depression and doesn't want to sleep with her when she does, than ofcourse she'll move on
@@Senorzilchnzero no “good” people don’t cheat, when you get married you take an oath to another person, breaking that oath now makes you a “bad” person. If you don’t want to dedicate yourself to someone for life then don’t, but don’t take that oath and then later ask “can I break our oath” also. That’s tells me one person, took that oath seriously the other doesnt. Find out who your partner is and what marriage means before you commit to it, it will save everyone heartache
@@Senorzilchnzero exactly. There are plenty of unloved unappreciated wives and husbands out there. It’s unfair to withhold something so vital to a healthy relationship.
@@razielquadmegistus9551 you know very little about human psychology. Not calling you dumb, just saying you don't understand the way human brain works. If he isn't contributing to the marriage and she no longer loves him, even a good woman will cheat. I didn't say All. Some. It's human nature. Maybe the marriage has been stale for a while. Maybe he smells like blue cheese and looks like a trash can. She has needs and will move on.
Promiscuity for me. I've met many men who were really honest about being hohohos. Didn't make them any more appealing. Especially how they framed it as some sort of achievement.
Yes, because you know he's eyeing you as his next conquest. Even if he says he'll respect chastity, hell live by the mantra that is the man's right to push and the woman's duty to say no.
I’ve had only two boyfriends in my life. The first, my now-ex, I was with for 2 years. Now I’m coming up on one year of being with my current boyfriend, and two years of knowing him and just being friends. I’m in highschool, and a lot of my friends and cousins my age ask me how I’ve managed to maintain a relationship for that long. Most people my age break up after a week or a month, maybe a couple months. My answer is always the same. I date for MARRIAGE. I don’t date just because I want to say I have a boyfriend, I don’t date around ‘just to see’. I find a man I believe I may marry one day, and I stay with him unless this changes. It’s one of the most important things to me. Is he someone I may potentially spend my entire life with? Someone who loves me as much as I do him? Yes? In that case, I’m willing to enter a relationship. I’m extremely happy with my current boyfriend and I absolutely believe we will end up married. If not, it wasn’t in God’s plan, but the point still stands. Don’t date people just to date people. Date people because you love them and believe they may be the person you’ll spend the rest of your life with. I don’t do hookups, never have. That’s another good step in getting a healthy relationship. Asking questions about family, making sure your ideals (for the most part) line up. You want to make sure you and your partner are on the same page on most/all of the important things. My boyfriend and I are both Christians, with very similar interests (though not identical). It’s the important things that may affect your relationship in the future you should be sure about.
I agree, that mindset you have is very important. Most people have reduced relationship and the word love has been used so much that it seems to have lost its meaning.
Ive never bothered dating highschool guys, they were a waste of time. If youre the kind of girl who wants marriage out of a relatio ship i feel like older guys out of highschool are a better match
I have learned the hard way that it is not worth the effort or time to try and mend a relationship that is obviously toxic and broken. Don't 'hope' for things to change (they won't), don't capitulate to unreasonable demands (they will only feel empowered and take advantage of your weakness), but DO get out of the relationship as soon as possible. Of course relationships involve some compromise, but they shouldn't involve the obliteration of who you are or make you miserable. Life is far too short to be miserable because of other people's bull and manipulation. This applies equally to men and women by the way.
Matt got the 1st one completely wrong. You *do NOT* confront her. You don't let her know that you know, start the div0rce process and check if you're in a state that allows "at fault". If so, you gather evidence / hire a PI, and secure your money. Then ambush her with the papers being served. She's already cheating on and lying to you if she asks for an open marriage. Confronting her just gives her a heads up to cover her tracks / delete evidence and find a way to gaslight it into being your fault. The fact he never even mentions div0rce and instead says to lay down the law makes it sound like he thinks the guy should stay in that sham of a marriage, which is totally messed up.
A good piece of advice for anyone like that last dude wondering if his frequent texts were bothering his partner is to remember that you can alleviate all ambiguity and stress regarding these things by simply asking the other person about it. Literally all he has to do is say that he's just the sort of person who likes to keep in touch frequently and ask her if she's bothered by that, and depending on her answer he can either keep it up or change his behavior (or just stop going out with her) depending on what either of them feel about the subject. Vice versa, if you're someone like me who isn't really inclined towards calling and texting all that frequently you can simply ask your partner whether they'd like you to check in more. So many of these problems that these Reddit guys seem to spend all their time worrying about can be solved in an instant just by earnestly asking the other person what they feel about the matter.
I like this take. Nicely written. The thing is that no..you shouldn't be always available for anybody texting you. But a love interest is not anybody. So there should be some expectation to receive a reply in a given time frame. What that time frame should be has to be discussed but it definitely shouldn't be days. The guy seemed a bit too needy.
Using the word daddy is oversexualized. Pretty gross to see Matt referred to that way. Maybe some respect for a married father of 4? I know it's a new concept to many.
It’s a good point with the texting. No, you aren’t owed a response and I understand people are busy living their lives as I am too without constant communication. What is incredibly bothersome is when a guy is frequently texting in the beginning of the fling..good morning, day happenings, cute shit, good night…then like a switch, they stop all that completely. I been on a few dates with this guy recently, we click pretty well and mutual attraction is on fire. He did just this. We see each other at work so it’s not that I’m being ignored. But I noticed I text him 5 times (casually!) without reply over the past week and a half. Then comes the “I don’t have time to text I am just so busy” like…2 weeks ago you were texting me 15 times a day! So it’s an excuse. And I can move on from there. I don’t think anyone is too busy to send a text- it literally takes 13 seconds to type “hey what’s up, doing this today talk to you later” or something like that…annoying as all hell. Dating in your 30s is a frickin nightmare 🙄 I’m too old for any games but the single ones are perennial bachelors or just too dumb to hold a conversation with. The good ones (on the whole) are living their lives with their spouses. Happy for them! I’ll still keep digging in this burning pile of trash and find my rare gem one day. But it is a f*cking task and a half!! ❤️ ya Matt, thanks
I couldn't agree more about the intrusive nature of texts and phones generally. I've had more than one person panic if I ignore them for a day or two, reaching out to other friends and family; in one case, sending somebody round to knock my door. It's actually quite stressful to have endless interractions on this horrible but necessary device. No wonder everybody is crippled by anxiety.
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I’m trying to imagine being at work and I don’t want my girlfriend to send me a long text message… work sucks and reading texts from my girlfriend is awesome i don’t understand
If work sucks you should find a new career dude if you like what you do you never work a day in your life brother professional window cleaner of 18 years
because you have an actual functioning relationship in which you are invested in the person and enjoy their company. If someone hates getting textx from their partner (as long as its not abusive) then theyre the problem not the other one lol
I don't believe you can truly love someone and be ok with fooling around. Whoever is ok with that has no real respect for their partner and is only concerned with their own lust
I disagree on the texting part. It applies to friends texting, but when it comes to dating always apply the brad pitt rule. A woman would never be casually delayed in responding to brad pitt or any guy she was very interested in. If a woman is giving any resistance whatsoever, including consistently delayed communication, she aint that into you period.
Agreed. He may have showed his age with that one. It's batshit disrespectful in the current dating world to leave someone on read, especially in the beginning. When a person takes 17 hours to respond in the first few weeks without an apology, excuse, and preferably both, they're just toxic human waste, dude. Only a closet crack fiend who thinks every friend they earn is future-currency will spinelessly put up with that, and in turn, make them pay 10x for it later on in some way.
@Jane Smith brad pitt rule. I'm not saying they should always respond immediately but no woman is consistently waiting hours to get back to brad pitt or any man she's actually interested in
@Jane Smith sure there are exceptions to every rule, but in general women aren't doing that to guys they actually want. 90% of texts are seen within 5 or 10 minutes. And you will get a response unless she's the weird type to play games in which case she's also trash
start taking pictures of the documents that she has in her purse any information you can get would be helpful to prove that she is cheating on you! that way when you lawyer up. you take her to court for the divorce she won't get half of all your stuff! don't let her take advantage of you. after all you said you gave her the card to pay rent. that says a lot, that means you make the money! you better start doing your due diligence. now lawyer up get all the evidence, ask her for a divorce kicker her to the curb
@@prodebates9182 I agree with you but you should still present them with the evidence that you caught them doing it because once you show them the evidence whether it's a man or a woman they're going to break down crying whining sobbing and begging and that's when you know you got them now unless you're a billionaire or super rich you want to hang on to your money you don't want anybody taking you for a Ride
@@prodebates9182 I would have to strongly disagree with that. That conversation is the kind of thing you can have with a wife who actually trusts and respects your rights. She's asking for permission to cheat, and writing love letters to guys she's already cheating on you with. So she clearly doesn't care whether or not you get hurt. That lack of empathy can be especially dangerous to you. And in a biased legal system that favors women over men in divorce proceedings like ours does, not covering your ass first before showing your cards is pretty much suicidal. Gather your proof first, because you're a human being who deserves protection. Then when your lawyer tells you you're fairly safe if anything goes wrong, then you can sit her down and have a talk.
"She suggested an open relationship" she's cheating. Or she wants to cheat. Either way, it's over. Don't even confront her, just leave. If a woman doesn't want you anymore, she gets bored and will be almost unable to not cheat on you and not degrade your name, especially nowadays. Or wait for her to do something that gets you a shot at not having to hand over half your property to her when you divorce.
That was beautiful honestly so refreshing, just straight to the point common sense answers and solutions, that unfortunately has been brainwashed out of men in this new era of woke emasculation
The point on texting in your last segment is honestly something I desperately needed to hear. As an overthinker it's advice I wish I could have heard 10 years ago lol.
The issue in that example is, they haven't established that there are times in the day when they can't text. Due to work or other commitments. It's key to communicate about these things. That way there is no need for anxiety. The woman just lets him know that she is at work during certain hours and is not allowed to text then. Or she's in college or wherever. If he matters to her she will happily ease his fears and concerns about this. It's about respect.
Me and my girlfriend love watching your show, me and her thought no one was gonna take a stand against this crazy world, but we were wrong! We are happy knowing you and many people are not being brainwashed by the left. To lighten the mood after some depressing topics, you should maybe play some more video games. That would be cool to see you try some our favorite games! (Kirby, Pokémon, Mario, etc.)
One night I talked to a girl and grilled her about her parent, are they divorced, what she thinks about kids, college, equality, fidelity, religion, politics, all the pain in the ass topics. we moved in together 3 weeks later. that's >25 years ago, we've got 3 kids and going strong. EDIT, that was a two way convo, otherwise I would have ben talking to SIRI.
You take the letter to your lawyer and divorce her as brutally as possible. No chick writes a love letter to a dude she hasn't done stuff with. She wants an open marriage because she's already tried it and liked the salty flavor.
This the reason I am single!!! I don’t like games, I’m not sleeping with a man because he takes me on a date, I want to be treated like a woman, and want the man to be a man.I’m too old fashioned for this time in history. That’s alright, I won’t settle, if God doesn’t sent him, I don’t want him Men, if a woman wants you to pay her rent etc, it’s a high probability she is using you
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You can have a 1000 differences but you must share common, fundamental values. If your values and morals do not match, your relationship will not go the distance. And yes, the morals have to be the right kind as well.
I think ya hit the nail on the head brother..in all 3 cases I would advise the same Matt.. keep fighting the good fight brother.. stand firm stay strong and keep vigilant my friend.. cheers and God bless from a PureBlood Canadian 👍🙂❤🇨🇦
Matt knows what he is talking about. Love means sacrificing for the other. If you don’t properly understand this idea (don’t assume you automatically know what this means and until you talk with someone who understands sacrificial love), then never ever get married.
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If someone brings up that they want an open relationship while in a monogamous one they are likely cheating and just want an excuse to justify it.
She already slept with the guy. She just doesn't want to admit it, wants him to sleep with someone else so that she can blame him and leave
I think that she probably does want to admit it but she doesn’t want to compromise the security that she has with her husband.
I really wished I had not read what you wrote. It is just more evidence that my ex was cheating. :(
Leave as soon as brought up.No discussion nothing just o.k .You are free
Ofc.
There's no such thing as an open marriage. Marriage by definition is closed. I'm really tired of leftists redefining words.
I agree!
At that point it's just tax fraud since you're basically pretending to be married for tax benefits.
Marriage is beautiful. Wtf would you want to destroy something like that?? Ugh, I hate these people.
Like alternative Christianity
What are your thoughts on marriages during Biblical times were men took addition wives often from the slaves of war? Were those men married?
So strange to see how people have been convinced that its wrong to expect a partner to act like an adult.
Is it irrational to be upset if he or she doesn’t respond in 2 FREAKING DAYS; asking for a friend?
@@danafoley4603 it depends on the urgency of the message, if for example it was organising a date on the Saturday and it's currently Monday you have untill Friday to answer it, unless it requires bookings or tickets in which case it should be answered within a day.
If it's a general conversation over text so much as it's weird to just exit, you have no right to be upset, the conversation has ended and it's time to get on with whatever you were doing, even if it didn't end on a satisfactory note.
If you really want to talk, go to their house and have a normal conversation then.
I don't particularly want to go over a proof of these as general wisdom so will this suffice?
ok but what is a woman???
@@danafoley4603 @Voxs Voxs it's the accessibility and ease of utilization of technology that makes this tricky. The fact that someone you might like has literally seen your message, read it, and goes on to ignore it for 2 days, it might be a sign they're just not that into you.
A message is not a letter or an email, it too casual, to easy to respond to.
I despise the social media, because it's so invasive and at the same time so addictive. You're never really alone with yourself, it's like living on the street.
I would try not to get upset, try to look at it exactly as like it's a letter or a phone, and understand that people can choose when or if they want to respond, some people value their solitude more than others.
Thats one of the reasons im divorcing my wife, she spends all her day on social media....also her being a cheating whore mightve had something to do with it
Dude really went from ~800k to over 1M after “What is a woman?” Just shows how great that movie is.
There’s nothing like taking a gas day and catching up on some Matt Walsh. A gas day is when you have to call out because you can’t afford gas.
Ahhhhhhhhh I am sure that day will come for me soon. I’m literally calculating my net pay every day 😩
Soon so many of us will be having a gas day that climate activists will want to fill up our tanks.
Cheaper to get Taco bell and have a gas day that way. 🤣
@@Magicstar-nw6xw taco bell is far from cheap now. Where did the. 39 cent taco with the crunchy shell go. I went to order a taco ten pack and it was near $20 for one
I'm going go ahead and steal that one from you because your funny and witty. Gas day. Hilarious 😄😆
Imagine being the guy who's actually asking "do I confront my wife about this".. Omg America has been so castrated its sad!
Yeah, that’s pathetic. Of course she will be f*ing around on a dude that acts like a cuck.
It’s sad how society has been castrating and feminizing these men to believe masculinity is toxic. It’s a recipe for disaster.
This is the same as a feminist replying to a woman asking that question, and saying "Omg, women in America have no rights it's sad" 🤦♀️
It's not about being a man or a woman, it's about whether you confront your SPOUSE about something, regardless if you're the man or the woman..
@@TheWilDOn31nah, that's very much NOT masculine. A MAN should be able to confront possible infidelity straight on.
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No. It is about that. Everyone should be able to confront in a case like that, but for a man it is many times more important, because it is more in his basic nature. That's why we call him 'castrated' if he can't: because he's missing his masculinity.
"If I had a soul I would cry"- Matt Walsh
"but I don't so we're good." lol!
Your soul is the most valuable gift God has given you. Protect it at all costs.
Matt had to amputate his soul after a shopping cart accident
When your girls brings up an open relationship, she's already cheating. She just wants to stop hiding it without facing any consequences for it.
Idk I think that could also be someone's way of giving an ultimatum. Like they're not happy so unless they can be intimate with people outside the relationship, it will end.
She wants her garbage behavior "grandfathered in" to avoid consequences! 😄
@@abad-enoughdude._.3919 It's already over at that point.
No she might not be.
@@teh_jibbler to an outsider it would seem that way but sometimes people like to keep their partners at arm's reach. Other things could complicate it like if they have kids. Might need to stay married to raise kids but have an affair to fulfill one's carnal desires. The wife could be relying on the husband for financial support/shelter. Many factors at play here.
These dating disasters happen when both sides were indoctrinated SO HARD that they have no idea what even a real functioning relationship should like like, and definitelly not how to build one.
I mean it's not their fault for growing up in dysfunctional families, and especially when lacking interpersonal skills (I'm assuming), so more or less everyone kinda wings it unless training themselves to live up to a certain standard
@@AggysMagic
And here is why the family has been destroyed by government, media, Hollywood etc. Single parent? "So brave" Take your government handout. Both parents work and government raises your kids "That's empowering to woman". Having mindless sex, multiple partners "You go girl". Open marriage? "Thats progressive" Men being men is "toxic" "Men should put on makeup and a dress" "no more masculinity"
Look what it has created. This had to be intentional
Big facts! My sister is a single mother like our single mother-_-
@@threat645 Your sister had a dead beat dad as a dad
Antiwhitism has made it extremely difficult to find and keep a mate.
Hot take: You should only discuss religion, family, and politics on the first date so as to see if you're wasting your time.
Seriously, but most people these days just want a physical relationship.
Not just that , that's a very formal date is it not........
^^^THIS
I do haggling mostly on my first dates
Good advice
that first one is literally the "my wife's boyfriend" meme in real life
If your partner is happy with the thought of somebody else touching you in the most intimate ways, you gotta go. Man or woman, if you are in love with somebody the thought will make you sick. If not, and shared intimacy is cool there is really no connection in this relationship. Run! And run fast! Or stay, but stay fully aware of what you're signing up for
oh fr because if i had a girlfriend i would get physically sick just imagining another woman touching me and for my hypothetical girlfriend to suggest an open relationship even tho she would be saying it for herself it clearly means she does not care about other women touching her man
Connection and exclusivity are different things. Both can happen simultaneously.
@@kurtpunchesthings2411 huh?
I confronted my wife about a letter she wrote and it blew up in my face. The first thing I asked her was ..why did you send me a letter with a bomb in it?
Lol nice joke
That first one is so pitiful. How badly was this man treated that he's asking for advice on whether to walk away from a situation full of red flags? I hope it got better for him.
Your wife penning a love letter to another man isn't a red flag; it's an exploded mine.
If a woman asks for an "open relationship", your supposed relationship is already over.
Break with her on the spot is what I’m getting, no point in discussing it any further correct
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers!!! You deserve every last one!
...the interpretative dance
Oh wow!! I just checked and yesterday he was 2k short. He owes us all that dance he said he'd do if he hit 1mil 😊
Seriously great to see his show growing. 🎉🎉
Sending love from Sweden! 👍
1.000.000!
Its all Thanks to sticking with facts.....and to all the hate from the alphabet pple and those affirming them on his movie "What is a woman"
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I never understand how people DON'T watch Matt or Klavan vs Ben Shaps. Klavan is so refreshing, but we all know who our sweet daddy is. We just got a buncha new sweet baby siblings!
My dude, despite my hesitant exceptions about your new documentary, you absolutely hit a grand slam with this project. It was funny, infuriating, heart breaking, and inspiring. The presentation was immaculate, and the final scene was transcendentally romantic. 10/10 truly a milestone.
I cannot believe we have reached a point where confronting your spouse about cheating is somehow not okay.
We have gone down the shitter, as a society, so terribly it scares me that we can’t turn back.
Hence why I refuse to take any part in “gentle parenting.”
God, family, country 🇺🇸
Conserve traditional values 💪🏻
I agree with you. Some advice that I heard one day was that our ultimate mission is to point people towards God. So don't be so obviously against the other side that you lose any chance you once had of influencing them for God. Instead, be so rooted in the Bible that God can use you to be a light towards them and to anyone else for that matter.
@Jesus Isn'tReal Is your name saying that Jesus never existed or that He's not Lord?
Gentle parenting and the cell phone are two major contributors to our lost society.
It's just mind boggling how many people on reddit ask advice from complete strangers about their dating life and only portray one side of the picture whereas the first and only option they should choose is to discuss it with a person who knows both of you or atleast you. No wonder why they end up in shity relationships in first place.
Not a lot of people say what you did. You're 100% right
I agree with you. That being said, most of the people who are posting like this, never had someone (father or mother) actually give sound relationship advice from the start.
My parents remained married until my mother passed. Grew up in the church. I never got what Matt is dishing out here for free. I find these chats he is giving VERY helpful.
Emotional neglect, lack of emotional mirroring, lack of boundaries, and lack of basically explaining how relationships work…as they are happening, during childhood is the root of this.
Ask most of the redditors and I am willing to bet that mom and dad worked (or single parent), they went to daycare, school became their main social community, and there were few, if any mentors. The “entitled” generations are largely in this foundation (if you can ever call it that).
The root of the trans movement, in my opinion, is the lack of emotional mirroring as a small child. Mom and dad never mirrored back “Jonny you seem angry. Why are you angry?” Watch a child who is acting up to get his mother’s attention while she futzes on her cell phone at a store for the picture. Attempting to be heard never worked: whether acting good or bad. Toys given to shut the child up.
Emotional mirroring is how the child is “heard” and they learn to identify their own and others feelings. No affirmation very young creates a void… thus the bottomless pit of affirmation and narcissism in adulthood.
It’s arrested development. And it’s an epidemic of it. As bad as these questions are, and clueless these adults seem, I feel for them. I see failed development, lost potential, and the repeat of the cycle that got them to where they are. It’s all just very, very sad.
Reddit is a cancerous blight on human civilization.
And when viable advice is given, the poster is downvoted and called all kinds of names by the community.
Most people want confirmation of their actions, not objective judgment.
I just love how unapologetically sarcastic Matt is in his videos. It’s almost god tier like.
Sarcasm SEEMS ESSENTIALLY UNAPPOLOGETIC
God speed anyway
You mean how wrong he is and can't define "female?"
God tier omfg you win comments 😂😂😂
God bless Reddit. It's a junk yard of human despair and tragedy
_LOL_
That is one of the best descriptions of Reddit I have ever come across. 😂
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@@estevanvasquez9733 Throw in:
Cesspool, liberal shit pile etc
Where is the fucking lie???
@@ClickClack_Bam couldn’t agree more.
I'm eternally grateful that I found my husband over Halloween in 2002. We've been together since February of 2003. Married since August of 2004. I cannot fathom having to date in today's climate.
Happy for you☺
Married in 2014. The environment is not good, but there are still people out there that want a real relationship. You just have to weed through alot to get to it.
Matt's advice was solid, but that first guy needs to kindly box her stuff up and put it on the front porch, and then tell her to move along. No confrontation needed, the relationship opened right for her. Now he can meet someone who actually loves him for himself, and not because he pays the bills.
Nah. They are married. His first responsibility is getting a handle on it and fixing it. Marriage vows are clear, “Until death”.
@@Arkangilos great then he can turn out just as happy as Will Smith 😏
@@Arkangilos there's always a quick trip down the stairs. However, adultery deserves divorce. She wants it, let her have it before it causes you more problems.
Exactly
@@destined4purgatory643 Is Will trying to fix it, or is he accepting it?
8:20 - Matt Walsh's wife text - "Honey can you pick up some milk on your way back?"
Four Months Later - "Sorry, I'm in the middle of something. I can go out tomorrow."
yeah I wonder if he didn't respond to his wife for weeks when they were dating.
@@larissagonzales6075 Agreed.
I think there is a reasonable amount of time till response depending on the importance of someone in your life. If you're married to them, you'll respond quickly. If it's someone you barely know, you might take longer to respond.
I just find it odd he thinks of texting as something where he'll respond sometimes days later.
@@larissagonzales6075 might be an age thing? my husband and I are almost the same age as Walsh (we're a few years younger) and my husband hates texting too and he didn't often text back even when we were dating. he would often respond to a text in person when he saw me next lol. I wasn't ever all that into texting either and was cool with it once he let me know he hated texts.
Op made me laugh
@@MC-ze8wj my husband and I didn’t have texting while we were dating. We lived long distance for a few months and I would write these long emails (and letters occasionally). I would get a sentence or two in reply. And one letter written in those few months. We talked on the phone almost every evening. You could probably imagine how texting is now between us. I get a lot of “k”’s and “sure” or “that’s fine” if he’s being particularly chatty that day 😂
I 100% agree with Matt about the whole texting thing. The shortest relationship I've ever had lasted for one month, and part of the reason I ended it was because the guy was EXTREMELY clingy. He told me all the time that he missed me. He once even texted it five minutes after I left his house. I'm a self-sufficient, introverted person, and I felt like he was sucking the life out of me to the point where I began to have anxiety, and I am not an anxious person. I had to end it.
Nah, you just didn't like him. ......Only partly kidding.
I haven't experienced that, so I can't relate. But I strongly believe we have a tendency to let stuff like that slide when we are really into someone. But what do I know...
@@lcam9241 I did like him, but I barely knew him. We went on one date before deciding to pursue each other, lol. That's why the sudden clinginess turned me off.
Holy crap, yes 1000x about the “women find neediness repulsive.” I met a guy on a dating site a few months ago, we chatted back and forth about a week before I gave him my number, and BRO. This GUY. He sent me over 50 texts before noon, and before noon I’m, 1. At work anyway and 2. Still half a zombie. Like bro. He was so clingy and we HADNT EVEN MET YET! If I didn’t respond within 10 minutes he’d send another text and another and another and I ended up muting his whole line then telling him I wasn’t interested good luck in his future endeavors. Dudes. If you’re clingy from the start it’s absolutely suffocating and makes me, at least, fear it will turn to controlling as the relationship progresses.
We don't claim him or any like him. Abomination to our kind😂
As a woman, I strongly disagree. I judge a guy's communication as a means of understanding how much he actually enjoys me as a person. It's easy for a guy to like you when you're in front of him...that's physical. But the more he wants to talk to me...wants to know my thoughts/opinions/words...I take that as a sign he's truly invested. So I disagree with Matt...we don't all think the same way. And I'm not disagreeing the guy you mentioned sounds overboard, but on the flipside, there's more men out there that are more than willing to have their time divided among 500 women at the same time.
@@ncorp2668 texting is barely communication. Wanting to talk to someone face-to-face is not indicative of physical attractiveness, it's the normal way for humans to communicate. If someone is reluctant on texting, phone calls, and even video calls and prefer to wait to talk until you can see one another face-to-face then, as far as I can tell, that's objectively a healthier way of living.
@@ncorp2668the guy (or gal) who replied above has a point. As a man, I make it clear that I don't like phone tag. I go weeks without texting or calling my girl, but when I'm with her, we talk so much it takes the jaws of life to seperate us. That's the kind of communication I enjoy. All of my friendships are this way, too. I am perfectly fine working on my home and myself and mind while I'm "recharging" and then get right back to chatting up a storm when the opportunity arises. As for having my time divided among a myriad of women, it's clear talking to me that while I appear to be the player type, the man underneath is actually pretty old fashioned and loyal. I have to be REALLY interested to even reach out.
Women everywhere: Why can't men ever communicate?
Man: (Tries to communicate a lot)
Woman: Ugh, that man who wants to communicate is so clingy, it's suffocating and makes us afraid you want to control me!
The second one with the clingy woman reminded me of when I had a stalker. I was married and I had only spoken to this woman once about getting some carpets fitted. She started phoning me "just to chat" and every time she did I told her not to. If my wife answered the phone she would always hang up and when I did she pretended she hadn't called previously. It got to the point where we'd unplug the phone all night and, then, if I plugged it back in at 1am the phone would ring a minute later. That was 25 years ago. I can't imagine actually being in a relationship with a crazy stalker.
For those wondering, I asked Alexa and she said she is “happily single”.
that fits with the left's entire agenda..transgender is about NO children abortion (obviously)is about NO children
dating with privileges is, in most cases, is about NO children and if you do end up having a child, a non-commited father is worse than a divorce...which leads back to NO children being the "correct" thing to not have...
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That take on the text massages culture was on point! That's exactly how I feel! I hope more people understands this toxic culture of "being available all time" is wrong. Thank you as always for this video 👌🏻
making people wait for 4 days because you feel like it is also toxic.
@@DanishTroll87 Exactly. I think Matt's take on replying to someone else whenever he wants to because he doesn't owe anyone a response is a lame excuse. The least you could do is say "sorry, I'm busy, but I'll talk later" or just reply when you have time. That's called being courteous and respecting others.
@@EliteAgent2323 his dating advices don't seem that good either lol. He literally said : walk away for every answer. He's married and has 4 children. You don't reach that level in a relationship by walking away at any inconvenience.
For the 1st guy: I would first try to find a good true crime series where cheating spouses get....well, bad things happening to them. Binge watch that show with her. The following day, confront her about the letter
The first wife is looking for permission and someone to blame for what she has already done.
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Yep
"If I had a soul I would cry."
This^ needs to be a T-shirt.
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I would buy the shirt
"If I had a heart i would love you"
Congratulations on reaching 1 million subscribers!
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If your lady suggests an open marriage and claims the "man is always happier" she is lying to your face. Women don't do much in the courting phase so it's easier for them to attract and retain sexual partners. They are well aware of this.
Although a whole lot of us don’t think about “attracting and retaining sexual partners” while we are in a committed relationship. That is the LAST thing a lot of women think about!!
Men are happier if they have that option tho. Let's not act like we are celibate.
@@kaybeekal not in 2022, times have changed.
@@DaveG-kb2sr Sad to hear it. 😪 I am committed to celibacy for the remainder of my life, truly. I was married one time and one time is what I promised, divorced or not.
« She suggested an open relationship » « I feel like it’s just for her » Well no shit Sherlock
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I frequently get text messages and I don't respond to them for days. I treat text messages like they're letters and I'm living on the frontier in 1835 when the mail comes on horseback every four months.
Best thing I've heard this week.
Anytime someone brings up an open relationship, it is over. If you stay, you are a fool.
Ever since the cell phone and the internet was invented, I thought right then that this thing is going to cause a lot of problems with relationships.
We were never meant to be able to have access to each other 24/7. It doesn’t allow to miss the other person. Yearn for them while you’re apart from each other. And there’s no need to have to be in constant contact. That’s why we have separate lives. They’re meant to be separate! As far as online dating goes. We weren’t meant to have a virtual Rolodex of partners to choose from. It’s supposed to be, you see a person from across the room and work up the courage to go talk to them. Or someone randomly introduces you through a mutual acquaintance. Having the ability to swipe “like” on 200 photos and hope that someone matches you isn’t how it’s done. I don’t don’t, maybe I’m old fashioned, but the way people interact these days is way too impersonal, in my opinion.
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I cannot exaggerate enough how all these problems wouldn't even exist to begin with had the person on reddit simply married a Christian
Please, I am from a vast majority Christian country. The number of shitty immoral people is the same as in the UK where majority are. atheists. Values are not necessary in line with religion.
Ah yes, no Christian girl has ever been divorced or committed adultery in the history of Christianity
Cope. Marriage is no longer a thing. See "no fault divorce".
Many of the self proclaimed Christian women I have met were huge slore.
Even though if they were Christian married couple doesn't mean it will be without a problem. Marriage is always a hard work.
Matt passed a million subs!!!! Time for the dance!!!
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“If I had a soul, I would cry.. But I don’t.” 😂😂😂
are you a ginger?
The first woman belong to the streets, you didn’t ask enough questions before you put a ring on. You’re welcome
Not necessarily. Marriages die and people cheat. Even good people cheat. If she slept around with the entire block, that would be one thing, if he had low self esteem, no confidence, poor health, high body fat, depression and doesn't want to sleep with her when she does, than ofcourse she'll move on
@@Senorzilchnzero no “good” people don’t cheat, when you get married you take an oath to another person, breaking that oath now makes you a “bad” person. If you don’t want to dedicate yourself to someone for life then don’t, but don’t take that oath and then later ask “can I break our oath” also.
That’s tells me one person, took that oath seriously the other doesnt. Find out who your partner is and what marriage means before you commit to it, it will save everyone heartache
@@Senorzilchnzero exactly. There are plenty of unloved unappreciated wives and husbands out there. It’s unfair to withhold something so vital to a healthy relationship.
@@razielquadmegistus9551 you are either very young or newly married.
@@razielquadmegistus9551 you know very little about human psychology. Not calling you dumb, just saying you don't understand the way human brain works. If he isn't contributing to the marriage and she no longer loves him, even a good woman will cheat. I didn't say All. Some. It's human nature. Maybe the marriage has been stale for a while. Maybe he smells like blue cheese and looks like a trash can. She has needs and will move on.
7:30 I have to disagree there, Matt. Far beyond neediness, the most repulsive trait for the women I call friends and myself, is promiscuity.
B A S E D
Promiscuity for me. I've met many men who were really honest about being hohohos. Didn't make them any more appealing. Especially how they framed it as some sort of achievement.
Yes, because you know he's eyeing you as his next conquest. Even if he says he'll respect chastity, hell live by the mantra that is the man's right to push and the woman's duty to say no.
I'd vote for ADD: Accountability Deficit Disorder. It's endemic.
or being broke with no job.
Damn, your at 1 million now, time for that interpretive dance!
I’ve had only two boyfriends in my life. The first, my now-ex, I was with for 2 years. Now I’m coming up on one year of being with my current boyfriend, and two years of knowing him and just being friends.
I’m in highschool, and a lot of my friends and cousins my age ask me how I’ve managed to maintain a relationship for that long. Most people my age break up after a week or a month, maybe a couple months. My answer is always the same.
I date for MARRIAGE. I don’t date just because I want to say I have a boyfriend, I don’t date around ‘just to see’. I find a man I believe I may marry one day, and I stay with him unless this changes. It’s one of the most important things to me. Is he someone I may potentially spend my entire life with? Someone who loves me as much as I do him? Yes? In that case, I’m willing to enter a relationship.
I’m extremely happy with my current boyfriend and I absolutely believe we will end up married. If not, it wasn’t in God’s plan, but the point still stands. Don’t date people just to date people. Date people because you love them and believe they may be the person you’ll spend the rest of your life with.
I don’t do hookups, never have. That’s another good step in getting a healthy relationship. Asking questions about family, making sure your ideals (for the most part) line up. You want to make sure you and your partner are on the same page on most/all of the important things. My boyfriend and I are both Christians, with very similar interests (though not identical). It’s the important things that may affect your relationship in the future you should be sure about.
My boyfriend and I*, affect not effect*
I hope to remember the relationship is for Marriage and what Marriage means. Marriage is lifelong, not something you can let go of.
I agree, that mindset you have is very important. Most people have reduced relationship and the word love has been used so much that it seems to have lost its meaning.
@@loganw1232 It seems she does.
Ive never bothered dating highschool guys, they were a waste of time. If youre the kind of girl who wants marriage out of a relatio ship i feel like older guys out of highschool are a better match
I have learned the hard way that it is not worth the effort or time to try and mend a relationship that is obviously toxic and broken. Don't 'hope' for things to change (they won't), don't capitulate to unreasonable demands (they will only feel empowered and take advantage of your weakness), but DO get out of the relationship as soon as possible. Of course relationships involve some compromise, but they shouldn't involve the obliteration of who you are or make you miserable. Life is far too short to be miserable because of other people's bull and manipulation. This applies equally to men and women by the way.
Congrats on the 1 million subs!
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Matt got the 1st one completely wrong. You *do NOT* confront her. You don't let her know that you know, start the div0rce process and check if you're in a state that allows "at fault". If so, you gather evidence / hire a PI, and secure your money. Then ambush her with the papers being served. She's already cheating on and lying to you if she asks for an open marriage. Confronting her just gives her a heads up to cover her tracks / delete evidence and find a way to gaslight it into being your fault.
The fact he never even mentions div0rce and instead says to lay down the law makes it sound like he thinks the guy should stay in that sham of a marriage, which is totally messed up.
Last time I was this early dating was just arranged marriage
i sometimes wish we still had arranged marriage. loneliness is a hell of a drug
@@nurgle-j5n it still happens in India, apparently
@@nurgle-j5n you can try a matchmaker maybe?
A good piece of advice for anyone like that last dude wondering if his frequent texts were bothering his partner is to remember that you can alleviate all ambiguity and stress regarding these things by simply asking the other person about it.
Literally all he has to do is say that he's just the sort of person who likes to keep in touch frequently and ask her if she's bothered by that, and depending on her answer he can either keep it up or change his behavior (or just stop going out with her) depending on what either of them feel about the subject.
Vice versa, if you're someone like me who isn't really inclined towards calling and texting all that frequently you can simply ask your partner whether they'd like you to check in more.
So many of these problems that these Reddit guys seem to spend all their time worrying about can be solved in an instant just by earnestly asking the other person what they feel about the matter.
I like this take. Nicely written.
The thing is that no..you shouldn't be always available for anybody texting you. But a love interest is not anybody. So there should be some expectation to receive a reply in a given time frame. What that time frame should be has to be discussed but it definitely shouldn't be days. The guy seemed a bit too needy.
Our king Sweet daddy Walsh is the king of dating advice. Period. 🙌
Daddy Walsh
Daddy Walsh!!! 🤤🥵
Thank you for keeping us safe from the Swamp Donkeys ✌️
Using the word daddy is oversexualized. Pretty gross to see Matt referred to that way. Maybe some respect for a married father of 4? I know it's a new concept to many.
@PAX
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Matt's beard is sentient. His mouth doesn't move. It's his beard mimicking speech.
It’s a good point with the texting. No, you aren’t owed a response and I understand people are busy living their lives as I am too without constant communication. What is incredibly bothersome is when a guy is frequently texting in the beginning of the fling..good morning, day happenings, cute shit, good night…then like a switch, they stop all that completely. I been on a few dates with this guy recently, we click pretty well and mutual attraction is on fire. He did just this. We see each other at work so it’s not that I’m being ignored. But I noticed I text him 5 times (casually!) without reply over the past week and a half. Then comes the “I don’t have time to text I am just so busy” like…2 weeks ago you were texting me 15 times a day!
So it’s an excuse. And I can move on from there. I don’t think anyone is too busy to send a text- it literally takes 13 seconds to type “hey what’s up, doing this today talk to you later” or something like that…annoying as all hell. Dating in your 30s is a frickin nightmare 🙄 I’m too old for any games but the single ones are perennial bachelors or just too dumb to hold a conversation with. The good ones (on the whole) are living their lives with their spouses. Happy for them! I’ll still keep digging in this burning pile of trash and find my rare gem one day. But it is a f*cking task and a half!!
❤️ ya Matt, thanks
Love your advice Matt. I can't stand when someone send a text and expects a response ASAP.
I couldn't agree more about the intrusive nature of texts and phones generally. I've had more than one person panic if I ignore them for a day or two, reaching out to other friends and family; in one case, sending somebody round to knock my door. It's actually quite stressful to have endless interractions on this horrible but necessary device. No wonder everybody is crippled by anxiety.
Yes, totally agree!
@@wendyquiroga6197 I was born in 1971. I remember when peace meant simply taking one phone off the hook lol.
@@trippymchippy8586 Those were some good times before cell phones! I was born a little after you, in 1981, but I sure do remember! 😊
“If I had a soul, I would cry.”
I hear that.
Wow matt is over 1 million!!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽God bless!!
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YES YES YES!! Matt, your general rules for texting are absolutely supreme. I treat texts the same way and it has never ended up being a bad thing
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Congratulations Matt on the 1 Mil
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I’m trying to imagine being at work and I don’t want my girlfriend to send me a long text message… work sucks and reading texts from my girlfriend is awesome i don’t understand
Maybe it's time for a new job? One that you enjoy and requires your full attention while you are working.
If work sucks you should find a new career dude if you like what you do you never work a day in your life brother professional window cleaner of 18 years
because you have an actual functioning relationship in which you are invested in the person and enjoy their company. If someone hates getting textx from their partner (as long as its not abusive) then theyre the problem not the other one lol
just not all day long and every hour that's too much.
I don't believe you can truly love someone and be ok with fooling around. Whoever is ok with that has no real respect for their partner and is only concerned with their own lust
Gratz on 1 million subs!! Deserve more and keep up great work!!
Do more of these please, they're a lot of fun
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I disagree on the texting part. It applies to friends texting, but when it comes to dating always apply the brad pitt rule. A woman would never be casually delayed in responding to brad pitt or any guy she was very interested in. If a woman is giving any resistance whatsoever, including consistently delayed communication, she aint that into you period.
Agreed. He may have showed his age with that one. It's batshit disrespectful in the current dating world to leave someone on read, especially in the beginning. When a person takes 17 hours to respond in the first few weeks without an apology, excuse, and preferably both, they're just toxic human waste, dude. Only a closet crack fiend who thinks every friend they earn is future-currency will spinelessly put up with that, and in turn, make them pay 10x for it later on in some way.
@Jane Smith brad pitt rule. I'm not saying they should always respond immediately but no woman is consistently waiting hours to get back to brad pitt or any man she's actually interested in
@Jane Smith sure there are exceptions to every rule, but in general women aren't doing that to guys they actually want. 90% of texts are seen within 5 or 10 minutes. And you will get a response unless she's the weird type to play games in which case she's also trash
Congrats on hitting 1 million subscribers! 🥳
Go Matt...so proud of all your work, morals and values👊🏻
@1:24 “My god these are depressing” cracks me up EVERY SINGLE TIME😂
start taking pictures of the documents that she has in her purse any information you can get would be helpful to prove that she is cheating on you! that way when you lawyer up. you take her to court for the divorce she won't get half of all your stuff! don't let her take advantage of you. after all you said you gave her the card to pay rent. that says a lot, that means you make the money! you better start doing your due diligence. now lawyer up get all the evidence, ask her for a divorce kicker her to the curb
Smart. I mean it.
Sneaking around on your spouse and investigating them isn't a great idea.
Having a conversation with them is a better idea.
Let me guess... you are American?
@@prodebates9182 I agree with you but you should still present them with the evidence that you caught them doing it because once you show them the evidence whether it's a man or a woman they're going to break down crying whining sobbing and begging and that's when you know you got them now unless you're a billionaire or super rich you want to hang on to your money you don't want anybody taking you for a Ride
@@prodebates9182 I would have to strongly disagree with that.
That conversation is the kind of thing you can have with a wife who actually trusts and respects your rights.
She's asking for permission to cheat, and writing love letters to guys she's already cheating on you with. So she clearly doesn't care whether or not you get hurt. That lack of empathy can be especially dangerous to you.
And in a biased legal system that favors women over men in divorce proceedings like ours does, not covering your ass first before showing your cards is pretty much suicidal.
Gather your proof first, because you're a human being who deserves protection.
Then when your lawyer tells you you're fairly safe if anything goes wrong, then you can sit her down and have a talk.
Let's go!!! 1 million subscribers!! Time to see that dance!!!!
"She suggested an open relationship" she's cheating. Or she wants to cheat. Either way, it's over. Don't even confront her, just leave. If a woman doesn't want you anymore, she gets bored and will be almost unable to not cheat on you and not degrade your name, especially nowadays. Or wait for her to do something that gets you a shot at not having to hand over half your property to her when you divorce.
That was beautiful honestly so refreshing, just straight to the point common sense answers and solutions, that unfortunately has been brainwashed out of men in this new era of woke emasculation
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The point on texting in your last segment is honestly something I desperately needed to hear. As an overthinker it's advice I wish I could have heard 10 years ago lol.
The issue in that example is, they haven't established that there are times in the day when they can't text. Due to work or other commitments.
It's key to communicate about these things.
That way there is no need for anxiety.
The woman just lets him know that she is at work during certain hours and is not allowed to text then.
Or she's in college or wherever.
If he matters to her she will happily ease his fears and concerns about this. It's about respect.
@@Woo_Woo_Woman To clarify I'm referring to his last segment
"I want an open relationship" really means "I am already cheating."
Matt doesn't know how entertaining and funny he is when seriously giving advice 🤣 😂
Yes, he definitely has no idea, as an entertainer, how entertaining he is. That is unheard of.
I need affirmation so I’m commenting so soon it’s obvious I haven’t watched the entire thing.
Good times.
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Criticizing and offering advice. You got it all Mr Walsh
if a partner wants it open , it is already over
Me and my girlfriend love watching your show, me and her thought no one was gonna take a stand against this crazy world, but we were wrong! We are happy knowing you and many people are not being brainwashed by the left.
To lighten the mood after some depressing topics, you should maybe play some more video games. That would be cool to see you try some our favorite games! (Kirby, Pokémon, Mario, etc.)
Oh wow congrats on the 1M milestone!
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One night I talked to a girl and grilled her about her parent, are they divorced, what she thinks about kids, college, equality, fidelity, religion, politics, all the pain in the ass topics. we moved in together 3 weeks later. that's >25 years ago, we've got 3 kids and going strong. EDIT, that was a two way convo, otherwise I would have ben talking to SIRI.
Congratulations on 1 million subscribers :)
You take the letter to your lawyer and divorce her as brutally as possible. No chick writes a love letter to a dude she hasn't done stuff with. She wants an open marriage because she's already tried it and liked the salty flavor.
1 Million Subscribers!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Congrats!! Interpretive dance time! 😁 I've been waiting a long time for this.
This the reason I am single!!! I don’t like games, I’m not sleeping with a man because he takes me on a date, I want to be treated like a woman, and want the man to be a man.I’m too old fashioned for this time in history. That’s alright, I won’t settle, if God doesn’t sent him, I don’t want him
Men, if a woman wants you to pay her rent etc, it’s a high probability she is using you
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All of your advice is spot-on! I hope these people listened to you.
Matt's phone message history must be something like
Matt:Hey
Other guy: hey
4 days later
Matt: you wanna get some lunch?
The bye felicia clip killed me😂😂😂
You can have a 1000 differences but you must share common, fundamental values. If your values and morals do not match, your relationship will not go the distance.
And yes, the morals have to be the right kind as well.
2:33 That roof & house example was so good and wise.
Hot take: you should have done the interpretive dance instead of this
Congrats Matt on your RUclips channel reaching 1 million subscribers...
I think ya hit the nail on the head brother..in all 3 cases I would advise the same Matt.. keep fighting the good fight brother.. stand firm stay strong and keep vigilant my friend.. cheers and God bless from a PureBlood Canadian 👍🙂❤🇨🇦
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Matt knows what he is talking about. Love means sacrificing for the other. If you don’t properly understand this idea (don’t assume you automatically know what this means and until you talk with someone who understands sacrificial love), then never ever get married.
If I had a soul……🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Congratulations on 1 million 👏