This is why we CAN'T travel with our Autistic daughter!
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- I whole heartedly believe that this will always be a challenge we face whether at home or away but I would rather experience what the world has to offer than to sit in our four little walls depriving ourselves of life… it can be overwhelming, discouraging and exhausting but there was good being around family and just being in a different space of earth.. despite what we wanted to show you today, I hope this helps the next family feel seen and heard, because you are not alone.
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Her side eye while she was eating the grapes had me cracking up! Mikko is quite the character 😊
so funny cause i kept replaying that part
You are such a great mom. I saw your video where you were talking about the difficulties with raising a child with autism. Your patience with her is phenomenal.
WAT ABOUT THE DAD 😮 LETS NOT FORGET HOW WONDERFUL HE IS AND THAT LIL GIRL LOOKS JUST LIKE HIM ❤ SUCH A NICE FAMILY . LOOK HOW GREAT THOSE TWINS ARE . VERY EDUCATED AND SO POLITE . GREAT UPBRINGING 👍 👌 👍
I totally agree with you, they both are amazing and fantastic parents. All of their children are so blessed to have such wonderful parents! ❤❤
My babies….. all I can say I am
So happy you came in spite of all our setbacks. Travel is so hard but you guys are amazing and WE GOT THIS ❤❤❤
When you look at Mikko, I knowwww all you see is your son…..they are twinzzzz…it’s was nice seeing her GiGi
Thank you for sharing…my daughter non-verbal autistic and is 4 and ur videos help me so much to see I’m not alone and some of ur tips from ur experiences have helped me…love that you are sharing yalls journey even the ups and downs
I'm in the same boat! It's quite challenging and I too appreciate seeing others experiences and learning from them. Sometimes ppl tend to post and speak of the easier moments, but those difficult times definitely exist and can be quite difficult. One day at a time.
Wait! A rental, to the bus, to get to the plane, only to take a shuttle, to get the rental, to get on another plane? Girrrrrrrrrl, bless you and your family! 😮 - You are so gentle with your daughter-thank you for that! ❤ I think once you get home things will calm down a little. 😊
*I WOULD LOVE TO JUST GIVE YOU A BIG🤗 NO WORDS, JUST TO LETCHU RELEASE💜💜💜💜 YOU’RE A VERY LOVING, ATTENTIVE AND VERY PATIENT MOTHER🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 YOUR FAMILY IS VERY BLESSED TO HAVE YOU TOO SAY THE LEAST🫶🏽 GOD IS PREPARING YOU ALL FOR GREATER, JUST WATCH~ HAPPY SUNDAY GUYS*
❤❤❤❤❤❤ yeeessss 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤
YESSS!!❤
The twins are SO adorable and such good role models for your little one!! I bet their teachers love them!!! Love watching your family support one another
Thanks for sharing. I've been a caretaker for a a autistic child who's now 17, for a while, and now I have an autistic granddaughter. It's definitely challenging, but it does become easier over time. Continue to travel, and it will become familier to Miko. Please don't get discourage. Just think how exhausting it for all of you with every milestone she goes through. Teaching her new things, ect. Traveling will become familiar. Try more short trips that aren't so far away from home, like more road trips and staying in an Airbnb to get her familiarized with staying away fron home. Also, remember Miko wasn't feeling well, which made the travel experience differently, than opposed to her and everyone else feeling well. Now you know, you have to check the air quality and do lots more research before traveling, as well as times of the year. I normally do night flights where it's a little less busier, and less stressful for the kids and I.
Mikko is eating those blueberries very fast and I think she knows she is getting away with it! She is very smart. Mom does'nt notice so Mikko is doing her thing while she can 😂
Yep!! She's smart!
I pray they’re all receiving the same attention love and affection and soft, talking as the youngest
Of course they are!
It does not seem so. Mikko has been taking ALL the attention since her diagnosis. The other kids put their needs to the side and exist in Mikko's shadow. Too bad the twins father is not in their life. So at least they would feel special with their dad's side of the family. At least they have each other because mom does not care about them like she does Mikko. And while this is just a snippet of their lives that we are shown this is what they show.
@@queennanna5595We do not see their household 24/7 so what we see is not what happens 24/7. We see Mikko on camera because this is about what they go through with an autistic child. They are amazing parents to Mikko and I'm sure that same live is shown to them as well. You can't judge them by videos.
Yes Mikko is autistic and she need a lot of attention but their is no doubt that the mother love her other kids or give them attention. Some people just assume just based off the videos but don’t know what goes on in the home off camera.
@@queennanna5595 I'm guessing you don't have or know children on the spectrum. Mikko hasn't been taking all the attention. She NEEDS more help than the twins. An autistic child is a 24/7/365 responsibility. Some are flight risks. Some parents have to put locks on their refrigerator to keep their child from cramming so much food in their mouths they can choke themselves. Some love water so much that you have to hold onto them because they don't realize they can drown. The melt downs in stores, restaurants even parks. You are only seeing a glimpse into Mikko and her family's life. It's the hardest yet most rewarding thing to be blessed with a special child.
I am so sorry that your trip was difficult! But I absolutely must say that you and Chris are the most amazing parents and I thank you! You are truly a depiction of the good in the world despite all your trials! I support you and have so much love and respect for you both!❤
It’s too bad Chris’ mom couldn’t make the trip to see the family instead of vice versa. This was a lot to deal with for everyone…and that Vegas dry heat is unbearable…
Chris works so well with Mikko. You two are a great team!
Dont give up on vacations strictly on account of Mikko. You have two other children to think about as well. Regardless its good to take a break from the norm every now and then
Mom showed a bit of frustration with the son's nosebleed, but so much patience with Mikko. Please don't dismiss the other children's emotional needs.
Stop using you all childhood trama on this family this women in the video isn't your mother
I don't understand how you could come up with that... The other children need just as much patience as Miko...@@ProxyBlue00
Your a fantastic mother but you must be a little more relaxer for your mental health let mikko live her live.❤❤❤
I think first yall as parents need 2 take a deep breath & relax!! Somethings are okay like Mikko not eating much. That's normal 4 any kid her age, some kids will go all day with nothing. I promise she's be okay & gon eat when she's ready!! Then the other kids say nothing!! Things are gonna be okay, dont over think the small stuff.. Also there's a difference between a meltdown & throwing a tantrum!!
AMEN
Kudos to both of your abilities to manage parenting during stressful times and all the kids for their patience as well.. Beautiful family.
Try making her smoothie when traveling, with frozen veggies and fruit ! You can take a smoothie bottle with you, it’s very convenient!
I always get the impression that the US makes very simple things more complicated than it should be. Banking, renting a vehicle, help for families, paid leave, one stop shop for people with dissabilities. This is suppose to be the richest country in the world. Why?
Thanks for sharing, as a teacher it is informative to hear and see your day to day challenges and successes with an autistic child. Be Blessed!
I agree with you both 100% 😮
Thank you for speaking the absolute truth! Government is trying too hard to be involved in other things instead of the problem at hand.
Gosh that just sounds exhausting. What kind of things would help people when traveling with an autistic child? Is there something hotels can do to help accommodate autistic kids?
You are such a good Mother. When Mikko was upset that her brothers had something and she wanted it, you took the time to teach her she had to wait. I think a lot of parents would just give it to her to stop the melt down. But there you are, with everyone not feeling good, and everything else you've dealt with, taking the time to teach her she has to wait. And in the middle of her meltdown, making sure your son felt heard and cared about with his bloody nose. I am in awe of your patience and kindness Precious❤
Don't give up on family vacations. They're important ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
That side eye she was giving u while she ate had me laughing. U guys are really good with her. I know that u have ur rough days but just wanted to acknowledge how awesome u all are. The twins are so sweet ❤
I can't imagine how hard it must be to raise your autistic baby and also spread yourself to the rest of the family. I know you only share parts of your life but from what I can see you're doing an awesome job. You are supermom and kudos to dad for not taking the easy route and leaving. He is there with you and all 3 of your children. I pray for both of you all continuous strength and guidance ❤
🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆 you guys are shining examples of how parents should act with children 🎗🎗🎗🎗🎗🎗
Ho do your other children cope of the fact that you take care of Mikho a lot more ? It’s just a question, not a judgment
I been wandering the same thing the other day never new she had more kids because I never seen at all
Coming from someone who has a younger sibling with autism, it is hard to accept when most of the attention goes to the autistic sibling. But, oftentimes, it is the parents job to at least give some love to the children. The parent needs to explain why this is happening, or if the kid is too young, dumb it down and help them understand. When my sister was born, it was hard to accept that she needed more attention. She was non verbal and had sensory issues, but I had my mother to help me through it.
Hopefully that helps
My son might have it but I'm not sure yet . He is 3 year old he's doctor made him a referral to see someone but if he does have it i don't see myself having anymore kids because I wanna give my all to him .
@@DogMommy. One of her twins is autistic
You guys are A-MAZ-ING!! Seriously, you guys are SO much better than I could ever be! I don't even try to take my two autistic grandkids to Denny's. When baby boy was younger, we took him to a truck fest because he loves trucks. The closer we got to the crowd and trucks, the more agitated he became. And when they blew their horns, we had to hightail it back to the car because he started screaming while other kids there were cheering.
Vegas is a dry heat oven - I hate it! Giving you guys a ton of credit plus it is nice to visit family. You're going to need a vacation from your vacation! Hope Chris got over the food poisoning quickly. Oh, and the kids are sprouting!
Children goes through stages of not eating, mines did & they're not artistic. They'll eat when they get hungry as long as they don't stop drinking.
Not if the child has ARFID, which is more common in autistic people. It doesn't matter how hungry we are, if the food is not safe, we won't eat it
@LornaBaker-cw7qx ARFID isn't usually due to categorising foods in terms of being "safe" or not. That is more common in other eating disorders like anorexia-nervosa or bulimia-nervosa. For kids who are neurodivergent and also have arfid, they tend to avoid certain foods due to a sensory reason like texture/smell, having a genuine lack of interest in eating, or if the food/meals are not items that they regularly eat as part of their routine.
Occasionally, if they are afraid that food will cause them to be sick or choke (or really experience anything negative) they will also avoid it. For instance, maybe they experienced something negative happening previously whilst or after eating (choking and vomiting are the most common but it could be anything). Instead of viewing it as an anomaly or due to another factor, they begin to associate all/most foods with choking or throwing up etc. As a result, they start to restrict their intake significantly or avoid food altogether.
This happens because cognitively they struggle with reasoning skills. This is a challenge for most young children because their frontal lobe is still in the early phase of development. However, it is even harder for many kids on the autism spectrum, especially if they already are delayed developmentally (e.g not reaching milestones in a time period that is comparable to their peers).
Safe foods are usually associated with AN, BN or OSFED because those eating disorders are driven by body image concerns. So you often see people developing rules (like "safe" foods) to help them maintain the eating disorder. Kids (and adults) with arfid don't have cognitions (aka thoughts) like that around body shape/weight. So they don't develop rules about their oral intake that people with other ED's use to help provide them with (the perception of) control which helps to maintain their disordered eating behaviors.
You are doing a wonderful job. Remember to breathe a lot. I love beautiful Miko 💕 My grandson is now 13 and autistic. His speech is still delayed, but knows as much as most 13 year olds. I have 3 other grandboys. We just came back from his 7th trip to Vegas. He loves to travel. Lots of immersion, therapy and experiences. It is a lot, tiring, but rewarding at the end of the day. He has begun using his headphones for comfort. Travel is challenging with children in general. He now travels better than my other grandsons. You are doing a wonderful job. 💕🙏🏽 By the way, my nose bled on and off for 5 days while in Vegas. I think of you guys often and watch your videos.
Don't worry she will eat when she gets hungry enough!! Mom & Dad are phenomenal!!!!😊
Precious you handled the mishaps wonderfully. You are a wonderful mom. Happy Birthday Mikko. Enjoy your stay, safe travels back home.
Her dad is awesome, she really listens and he's very detailed, both of you guys are doing great.
Omg you can tell that your work with her Momma makes a HUGE difference I hope these videos inspire other parents with babies with ASD.
Your world revolves around Miko. What about the other kids you guys have? How do you balance giving attention to all equally? Cuz I don't see it thru these videos clips.
I agree it’s very blatant and makes me a little sad.
Because this video is about the child who has more problems then the other two and I'm pretty sure she give her twins love and attention also or else when you do see them in videos they would act weird and awkward and they don't. So there you go
You're not supposed to!! These videos are about Mikko and how they deal with her and her diagnosis. This IN NO WAY gives a view of her whole life.
Hi, you guys are doing an awesome job. Mikko is just so adorable and I can relate all too well with the challenges you guys have to face. I just want you to know that patience is virtue and please don't get discouraged. I live in Chicago and have a 14 year old granddaughter who is autistic and lives in Texas. It took us 4 attempts to get her comfortable enough to visit with her nanna and grandpa. The first three attempts she would have very bad meltdowns to the point where her mom had to come all the way back to Chicago to get her. Well, I want you to know we kept trying because my daughter seriously needed a break. When I tell you God is so good, this is our fourth attempt and she is now visiting with us for the whole summer. It's been two whole months with absolutely no meltdowns and she has been enjoying the beach, restaurants, family gatherings etc. I am so elated that my grandbaby now feels comfortable enough to visit with us for an extended period of time. I'm going to miss her terribly when she goes back to Texas in 2 weeks but I am just so glad that God answered my prayers!!! Don't give up on taking her out of her comfort zone. I know it's hard but it took us years to to get there. I love your family and will be keeping Mikko in my prayers! Stay strong and continue being the wonderful parents you are!
There’s clove oil that you can put on a cotton pad or swab and rub on her gums. Also, consider smoothies if she won’t eat. Anything else will supplement the smoothie but you’ll know she’s getting the nutrition she needs.
I think she may be feeling your vibe sometimes. She senses your discomfort and reacts to it. Yes she'll learn faster by watching your older children. Maybe sit her with the older kids to eat. She'll probably eat as they eat with them encouraging her.
They did every thing right . Though took long time or few melt downs . The title kind of not liking where they said can't travel they can travel just takes patience and keep at it. Don't let the autistic in child dictate the weather or not go on vacation
Glad you were able to even try your best... Hope their grandmother was able to spend time w you all. Always try to find the silver lining. Thanks for sharing and I'm sure another family Vaca will be in your future, oneday 💜
Mikko looks like her dad, he looks like his mother😊🥰
You can travel with her. Of course you can. I worked with children like this for over 20 years. Don't think you have to live in a bubble,just get an aide to help out in the house ... For a few hours if it gets too much. I took them everywhere. The Mall ,block partys, out of state and away camps. Without there parents
I think it's because people with autism don't adapt well to change to their environment because they like things when they stay the same and also because there would be a lot of sensory involvement with different things to look at and different things to hear and too much at once is too upsetting and the reason why I know all of this is because that kind of thing affects me also even though I am not autistic but I am extremely sensitive and I react very badly to change and to too much noise and to too much going on in the environment such as colors and sensory things and I get sick and uncomfortable and I have to leave that particular environment in order to be able to breathe better. Like being in a mall is too much for me sometimes and I have to leave and be in an environment where there is no noise and no colors in order to be able to feel more myself. So I can totally relate when people have problems with change and new environments and things that are uncomfortable
You are sutch an amazing parent
Edit 19 is the most likes I've ever gotten
Well, u really are going trip with 36 now luv 🤣
❤YOU are so patient and
She doesn't want to eat because of teeth issue...😢
Hi precious, I'm just making this comment to you but I know Chris and everyone else was affected as well hearing you talk about the buses and the shuttles I could never ever ever even do that. You are the most incredible human being I've ever seen. I struggle a lot with COMPLEX PTSD and I also have very severe depression and I struggle with chronic illnesses which leave me pretty much disabled. When I was listening to you and watching you with Mikko I almost had to turn off the video. It is just so overwhelming what you go through. And of course I hope you know that having autism is not a curse it's not you know some horrible moral problem anything like that. However it is so challenging for you to deal with your beautiful daughter who cannot speak to you and tell you what is going on with her. All I know is watching you with your daughter makes me cry because I cannot believe how much you love your children and the highlight obviously of these videos is Mikko. I watched in disbelief literally I cannot comprehend how you do it I did not have parents who gave a crap about me at all I was raised with so much abuse and trauma to watch you being so absolutely patient and selfless and committed to her comfort and committed to understanding what to do is beyond anything I can even comprehend. When you said at the end I hope you enjoyed the video I was thinking how could anybody enjoy this video? It was so obviously challenging beyond challenging and just to go on a so-called vacation is so incredibly difficult. I'm with you I would stay home and never put yourself through that or any of your kids through that or your husband through that It was just unbelievable to me It was so painful to watch to be honest It was very painful. To me precious you are a hero a true and literal hero. You always amaze me but this one took the cake. I know you have your own struggles as well so just seeing all this coming together is just too much too overwhelming way too overwhelming. I just send you all the blessings in the world May you have some of those blessings to help keep you cared for and comfortable. Bless your entire family and bless you for being a mother that should be getting awards whatever those awards are would be whatever you wanted because you deserve it.
So sorry for the other two kids; I hope they are not damaged by all this!
Give yourself grace, you are an amazing mom. You demonstrate love, patience and understanding.
Just got back from a day trip with my ASD son and neurotypical daughter, both teenagers. It was amazing how the first half of the trip, he was in such good spirits. He loathes leaving the house and especially hates day trips. But for some reason he was very jolly. Half way through, he was done, but we were three hours from home. And then, when we finally get home he has a huge meltdown, huge, and his sister is right there, fanning the flames. This is why it's so hard to go anywhere.
Hey, Mom and dad you guys are doing a phenomenal job with Mikko. You do the best you can with the resources you have. What a fantastic example for your other two children to see. You can only do the best YOU can do. G-D bless you and I pray that he gives you the strength to endure whatever challenges that come to your family!
I bless you with Love. Your patience and ability to guide your children is amazing.
Mikko is at the age when kids only eat certain things. And not much of that. My kids only ate macaroni and cheese.
Please don't give up on traveling. Y'all do a wonderful job with all of your kiddos...so patient and kind. Let it go and try again. ❤
Maybe try an AirBnB next time?
It is very hard travelling with Mikko but you're doing a great job so just forge on, you and family will be fine.
I hope you know that persevering will help the entire family deal with her meltdowns and it will prepare her to face life
long after you and you partner are gone. KEEP HOPE ALIVE. we know that you are only human but we are cheering you on.
I like to see that Mikko has no issues with anxiety of being out in public 😊
She has anxiety poor baby Have you tried pediasure some sugar free applesauce might be good I’ll be praying for all of you
Have you guys ever thought that you coddled her too much? Especially With her child development breakthroughs, she’s speaking more, etc. etc. sometimes she’s just gonna have to feel it🤷🏾♀️flipping out because she doesn’t get what she wants, having all this options for food… she will get older and we pray she’s gonna be more independent, but what do I know at the end of the day? Thank you for sharing!
How do you tend to your other children Meeko takes up so much time
I know how old is on the spectrum too. All we can do is pray for them at this point. I just hope that the other ones don't resent their mother as they grow older
Wow Precious, I am so sorry that you had to go on vacation to where there was a wildfire. I hope and pray that you recover quickly and Chris with food poisoning too. Mikko was sure enjoying what appeared to be bluberries. She may also like cantelope slices in addition to the grapes, even watermelon pieces too. Your whole family is so nice. I cant help but observe how sweet Makenzie is and Matthew too. Matthew, I was pulling for you with your nose bleed. It sounds like the rental car company wasn't as helpful as they should have been. You all deserve a nice vacation but in all honesty, sometimes the best vacations are 'staycations' where you stay home but just do some nice and different things near home. I'll be praying for your family.
I love how patient you all are with her. I have a nonverbal great niece and she reminds me so much of her.
Get her smoothies or make them see how that works, yall make them together
Too much sugar when fruits are broken down into smoothies.
Real talk I don't have an autistic individual in the home, but vacations, traveling is not fun for me. It's hard work. The hustle and bustle of packing, flights, lodging. Not fun. It's like hurry up to get there, to then hurry up and relax, to then hurry up and leave to be left with bags and bags of dirty clothes needing washed, dried and put back away. It usually stays dirty for a while. Id rather have a stay-cation and we visit all the local summer fun options. Home has all the amenities I could ever ask for. Then go back to my job rested.
I wish you and your family well. You looked drained and yet you pushed through you the amazing mom you are.
Thanks for sharing. I can only imagine the effort it took to video while going through the various challenges during vacation, Hopefully more autistic family friendly vacation locations are in the making. 🙏🏽💕
sorry to hear about all of the hiccups. I just want to say, that you as a family are troopers. there will be other vacations in the future. your older children are patient, and your husband a great support. you Mom was fantastic. thank you for sharing.
Mikko is beautiful and her siblings, bless the whole family!
A couple things that might help - we travel with a small, carryon suitcase of my son’s favorite shelf-stable snacks (ex. fruit pouches, pop tarts, cheese its, etc.) so that we always have some stuff with us that he’ll eat. Usually if there is something available that he will eat when we go out & travel, he is more likely to eat stuff that’s “new” or made a different way at a restaurant, like sausage that is in a patty instead of links or a different flavor of yogurt.
As a Vegas local, I can say that people get headaches and nosebleeds a lot when they come here because it is so incredibly dry. We have no humidity here at all, and coming from Texas it would be a shock to your systems & often folx don’t up their water intake to counteract the extra dryness. Next visit, I recommend doubling your fluid intake, using those saline nasal sprays to keep them from drying & bleeding, and asking if the rental house has humidifiers - they really help!
She'll be old enough for Kindergarten next year. What's going to be going on with her to get her prepared for K - 12 school life?
She will most likely be in special education.
@@BrownBeauty2u That's obvious. I'm speaking on how they're preparing her for the structure of school life. Reading comprehension is fundamental.
Maybe they will homeschool
@@Starbeoghtuser3475 neither of them have any experience homeschooling children, much less special needs children. That would be a bad idea. She needs all the core subjects, plus early intervention.
@@courtneylucas508 she could've been on an IEP at a special needs preschool as early as last summer. It's concerning that she'll be 5 years old next July & is on the level of an 18 month old baby. She needs to be on an IEP in a school setting 5 days a week. The teachers and SPECM will really help her out.
Ihr seid so eine tolle Familie und ihr geht sooo lieb mit mikko um ❤ ich weiß es ist nicht immer alles leicht aber ihr schafft trotzdem alles so toll
What a strong family you all are! You need a vacation from the vacation. You all are such a beautiful and loving family. Love all of you.
To you parents 🏆🏆 Vegas has very dry air, plus smoke, dust, would make it harder for sensitive sinuses. I have to use a moisturizing nose spray. At least this is a learning experience. I hope the older kids enjoyed it a bit.
When I lived in the Midwest I had bad nose bleeding,left there and had lived in California and Florida for decades!! Moved back up there and had my 1st nose bleed in 12 years!! Had a slight one in the desert out West but nothing like how bad the air was in the Midwest and how it effected my sinuses!!! Miko is a beautiful child and told you No she wasn't sleepy!! She's learning!!!😊
You do know at two yrs old they go through faces where it’s hard to get them to eat that is a toddler thing so it’s age appropriate
If I'm not mistaken, she is 4 pr about to be 4
You and Your Husband are GREAT Parents..Always so very informative and helpful, I have a 3yr. Old Autistic Granddaughter and I've learned so much from you guys...Keep up the Great work, Videos are always so very good, you all are my FAVORITE You Tube Family❤❤❤
I love the way you communicate and comfort her. I’m sure it’s not easy, God bless you and your family.
Girl I love you and the whole family. You’re a great mom. And hubby is a great dad.
Thank you for being so open about your family 😊
What about the other children?
Finally people are seeing that this mom seems to care nothing about her twins. Sad.
You all are not being fair. This channel is called the gentle life and she explained from the beginning that it was aimed at sharing her experiences raising her autistic daughter and she still highlights her other kids on occasions. Thank you for doing so mom, I appreciate you.
@queennanna5595 I agree. Why allow Mikko to dictate whether the fam ever goes on vacation or not? It's like the twins aren't taken into consideration whatsoever. Also, there's a huge difference between a meltdown and tantrum. Mikko was throwing a tantrum and wanted attention (hence whining not crying) nothing more. She still babys Mikko when she needs to allow her to begin to spread her wings a bit 😊
Look mom baby girl is a dad girl all day and it's good her grandma won't to no her. (dad mom )so suck it up its not about you. She understands her dad about every thing he says to her look her eyes with him says alot
How do you guys find time for the other children?
They don't. Mikko is the dad's child and that is where his true love is. And the mom has pushed the twins to the side a long time ago for Mikko and Chris. I feel really bad for those twins.
@@queennanna5595how do u know that about THIER life?
You guys do such a great job with your babies! I know it's hard, but keep pushing! I love watching! I get a lot of tips to use with my 3 year old granddaughter. ❤
I feel for you guys. Hope you’re all on the road to recovery ❤️🩹
I’m glad her brother and sister are smart and show their little sister
Oatmeal and fruit will grow a child to an elder in good health
Sorry it has been a while since I watched your videos! I thought things were getting better when I stopped watching because she was starting to talk ! I see she has grown alot! I pray she gets better on the eating situation! You two are Awesome Parents! You take your time with her! She is beautiful ❤and so are you! I hope you figure it out
I think she is doing 'better'! She's just having lots of issues with her teeth! Off days are okay... Doesn't mean she's regressed or anything. ❤
*Precious you are a phenomenal Mother*
God Bless You and Your Family 🙏🏾🙏🏾
My grandson stuffs his mouth again at 3 1/2, he had stopped for a long time. His therapist told me yesterday as a matter of fact that she had just left an ABA center that told her that the reason autistic children stuff their mouth, especially when it’s something that they really enjoy is because they don’t have enough tastebuds sensors working, something to that effect so they stuff their mouth to get that flavoring that They want. So I was like OK that makes sense because he does do that.
Bless you fam, i appreciate your travel video. I have a teen with Autism, and we find it hard to book a holiday, as they have meltdowns for many reasons, and they are strong now, and aggressive when upset. I am glad that you all had the trip. I hope that Miko's teeth are ok. Best wishes from London UK
I have seasonal allergies and struggle with sinus inflammation. Saline sprays have been very helpful. They will combat the lack of humidity in Vegas and clear the nasal passages of pollutants. Just a suggestion for the future.
We always have issues with our son eating on road trips. He literally survives on snacks during that time and it's still very hard to get him to even eat his "regular" foods. I take it as a win though over not eating at all so I won't get stressed out myself.
I hope you guys make it as a couple it’s so hard but he’s a good dad wishing you guys love peace and happiness ❤
If she gets hungry enough she’ll eat.. even through the discomfort. Miko knows just how to manipulate you, give her some credit she understands more than you give her credit for.
This comment is very ignorant. It's ableist to say that a young child displaying behaviors of autism, who is unable to communicate verbally, is being manipulative.
That is true if she gets hungry enough she will eat something
The comment I very true. I have an autism cousin that behavior was like Miko because her mom cuddles her a lot and she knew how to manipulate her mom. She talked very little like MiKo . Her mom passed and I took over the responsibility to take care of her. It was very hard to break the cycles from her mom over protection of her. But now that we have broken the babying her she's much better. Think about it , if something happens to Miko mom it will be hell for the family and Miko. She has let Miko cry when she doesn't get her way and figure it out on her own
True
The comment is not ignore, I have had autism kids in my class all are different.
I HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD ARTISTIC GRANDDAUGHTER AND SHE WAS NON VERBAL BUT NOW IS TALKING A LITTLE HAVE MELT DOWNS DON'T EAT NOT POTTY TRAIN SO I LOVE WHAT YOU'LL ARE DOING WITH MIKKO AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR TWINS IF YOU DON'T KNOW ALL THAT GOES ON IN OTHER PEOPLE HOUSE DON'T JUDGE JUST SAYING THIS I THOUGHT WAS ABOUT MIKKO HAT'S OFF TO YOU MOM AND DAD FOR A WONDERFUL JOB MY GRANDDAUGHTER IS IN SCHOOL NOW AND PROGRESSING EXCELLENT
Such a beautiful family. God bless you ! God knew you all could handle it. I know it’s stressful at times, but your babies could not have had better parents ❤
Please dont abandon vacationing. You need to Relax and You"ll Find it. Next time the air will not affect you Chris will not get sick and You'll be more ready and prepared for what may happen, and You did Great JOB despite the miss haps. Always ALWAYS travel with Activated Charcoal capsules. Its good for a lot of things like food poisoning. Read up on it. If Mikko does not eat do not worry about it because she will when she gets hungry. (she was sure eatin them blueberrys Lol) Let Mikko help her brother if he has a nose bleed by allowing her to hold the cold cloth to his forehead or show her how to pinch the bridge of his nose to stop the bleeding while he sits with his head back. It seems she wants to be involved and express her concern for him. she is very brilliant. It seems she does not want all the attention always on her. You are a Beautiful Family. I Pray You will see fit to Give Your Marriage a chance somewhere down the Road. IT IS NOT TOO LATE...(Not unless ya'll married other people already) GOD CAN FIX ANYTHING AND ANYBODY including marriage GOD BLESS YA'll Beautiful People
Mikko is a handful. I think she's just as frustrated. It's like she has something she wants to say...but she's unable to express herself.
I totally relate to the travel inconveniences. After my two week trip to Hawaii, all I wanted to do was go home and not see another plane nor airport again. 😂
They sell Clove oil now, in the section where Orajel and all that is. Not sure which would work better for Miko ❤
Precious, I think some of the time you are the issue. You've said in previous videos you don't like to travel and you have bad public anxiety. Children can pick up your energy. The twins seem like they enjoy traveling and Mikko goes with the flow. Calm down and relax. It's gonna be be okay🙏🏽🙏🏽
Molars coming in can be so painful I didn’t know molar teething could be so painful. The dentist said for some kids it’s no big deal and they don’t feel it and with others it’s very painful and much like infant teething. And unfortunately eating is very difficult and there is lots of drooling especially at night.
I hope she feels better now! Sending you blessings from our family to yours. 💗💗💗💗💗
I'm so glad you shared this video. This may give support to other parents of autistic children that feel bad for not vacationing. It's a lot of work. Also, if more people from the general population would watch your videos, it may give them some insight as to what your family deals with on a day to day basis. Keep up the good work!
It's probably best that you cut her fruit it might be easier I just wanted to say that you are a wonderful person wife mother and daughter with a very sweet spirit ❤❤❤❤❤
YES, number It's the number one choking hazard and cause of choking among children.
Aww that boy looked so sad when his nose started bleeding and he went to mum for help and she seemed frustrated with him when he probably wanted reassurance and a hug . I understand that the mum wasn’t angry with him she was just overwhelmed and feed up with everything for the day . She is obviously tired and concerned. I have autism adhd depression anxiety and intellectual disabilitiy . My mum is a single mum and when I get sick I turn into a baby I’m 17 . When I’m sick and cry and shout my mum sometimes rasies her vocie and seems angry when people come over and hear what she says and her facial expressions they think she is a bad mum and that she is angry with me but she isn’t angry with me she is angry at the fact that she seems me in pain and discomfort but there is nothing she can do except from give me medication and stuff . It’s hard being a parent to a child with disabilities and it’s even harder being a parent to a child with moderate to severe disabilities and it’s especially hard being a single parent of a child with moderate to severe disabilities. It dosent always get easier when children grow up but over time parents learn how to communicate better with the disabled child and stuff
You never talk about your son and his difficulties...
Probably because he’s high functioning..but I, too, would like to know more about his struggles being high functioning autistic.
@@kendrasinterlude I have 2 autistic kids too and although my 4 year old is non verbal needs much more support than my 15 year old, he usually says to us that not because he is gifted or can speaks struggles less than his brother and in some instances is harder because he is constantly masking and people expect him to just deal with stuff ;(
@@cuedan8700oh no ☹️ do you think her son is masking as well ?
@@cuedan8700I can relate to your 15-year-old very well. After a lifetime of struggling, masking, and misdiagnosis of bipolar disorder, I was diagnosed with level 1 (high-functioning) autism last September at an advanced age. My mother, life partner, managers at work…they basically have a “deal with it” kind of attitude. I, too, wonder about Matthew; I hope he’s getting the gentle support he needs.