1- Be Sorry (You genuinely & mean it) 2- Right Attitude (Have a pity face) 3- Touch Her (Meaningful hug or touch her hands) 4- Say "I am Sorry" (Acknowledge your mistake) 5- Say What you are Sorry for (Be clear for what you are sorry for) 6- Be Patient (Never be in a hurry) 7-Assure her of your Love (You most tell her she's still valuable) 8-Apologize Again (After days tell her sorry again, again & again) 9-Actually Change (Never repeat the same mistake) 10-Make it up (Buy her a gift/Do something she Loves)
Men will not watch this video now but they will be looking for submissive women. Thank you Pastor Kingsley, I will be sharing this video to all the men in my life.
Wow..! Beautifully Articulated. I now understand that women are truly Complex to relate with, Except that you have the Right knowledge on how the Almighty Created them. Thank you Pastor, You're Awesome...👊🏻
I'm sending this right away to my fiancee, he wonders why I always hold on to hurt and remain angry after fights, I keep trying to explain this to him but he doesn't understand. You just spoke what I've been trying to say all this while
'Send this to your EXs' 😂😂😂 Pastor K,we do not speak to those people_oo😂. Thank you so much for this....its a joy to hv one explAin this things from our point of view
Now I understand why all those foods he orders for me from Wazobia after I blow my tops about something he did. He was apologizing. 😂 Once I caught him checking the Styrofoam pack to know if I ate it. Of course I did and was still waiting for my apologies. Nothing has tested our marriage like migrating to the US and my channel is all about it.
See Kai, When Pastor said Touch her, I screamed God Bless u sir... Cos I have been hoping that he mentions this point and he did... Because this really speaks that you are sorry and you are actually apologizing to me. Oya, HONEY, come and hear Pastor Kingsley oooooooooooo... He is speaking my mind loudly
Read "The five languages of apology" by Gary Chapman. Our apology method is usually dependent on our child training and how we were taught to apologise. Applys to both men and women
Lol It's almost the same thing trust me, we all just have to be human beings, and work in guidance of God, Permit me to say this in humility that almost if not all that pastor said are what I actually learned as a child growing up, as an unbeliever at my teen's age I was already very emotional intelligent , and then Giving my life to Jesus Christ because a plus to me till today, God is love, and his children are expected to showforth their father's DNA(love) This would naturally and spiritually help you to grow with anyone in regard to any kind of relationship...
My love for this man @pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is equal to none. God bless you sir. I am sending this to my fiance right away. He needs to hear this and stop seeing me as being dramatic when I am only trying to express my grievances with him. Thank you so much pastor
This is wonderful teaching. As a woman watching this I will make sure to apply some of this point in my relationship with my spouse when I’ve hurt him.
Wow Pastor K you are amazingly on point with the best advice. There was one point I thought you were going to make but I don't know if it's important or if it's just something that I like. Do not begin by saying "if I did something". Obviously something was done or there's been an infraction of some kind otherwise we wouldn't be having this issue or this discussion, right? That was always a problem for me when my husband would apologize because he would say "if I did something wrong". By saying "if", it's like he was actually denying it and was apologizing only because I felt he should. If that makes sense! 😊
True this. Women visit the past to be able to move forward. That past must just be clear otherwise how can one move forward when there is account debit. Ko le work now.
I continue to be amazed at how this Pastor can know what women want like this... God bless you Mama Mildred Okonkwo you are such a Godly and beautiful woman.
Sincerely I am here speechless and laughing at myself, most time I try to explain this to him but I haven’t been able to but I think if he watches this he will understand me. Everything is true
*How to Apologize to your Lady | Kingsley Okonkwo* 1) *Genuinely be sorry*.... u have to mean it 2) *Right attitude*.... there's a way you face have to be, your attitude speaks more than your face, don't bring up what she has done in the past, have an apologetic attitude. 3) *Touch them*..... its has been proven women need more meaningful touches in a day… Not sexual, it might be a hug, it means more than your words. 4) *say the words I AM SORRY*........its important you say it in full, it will be on record you said sorry for some things, 5) *say what you are sorry for*.......for e.g. I am sorry for shouting at you. 6) * don't be in a hurry to say sorry*.... don't rush her if not she will bring it up later as an issue, look attention, pay her attention, don't be too forward. 7) *assure her of your love and respect for her*.................when you treat a woman badly she equates it to YOU DON'T LOVE HER. Tell her she's valuable, appreciate her. 8) *Apologize again*...................some weeks, months or years later, bring it up and apologize again., it reassures her that you're really sorry. 9) *make sure you ACTUALLY CHANGE*...................if you don't change all the above things don't matter, women have the capacity to forgive you if 10) *do something to make it up to her*..................................actions speak louder than words, know what she wants and do it for her, go out of your way to make it up to her.
Some women actually think you apologising genuinely make you less serious. They want the 'drama' they want to go back and forth. You apologising when they bring a matter up shows you are not serious and too gentle. Pastor, over to you sir.
God bless you so much sir,for your teachings and restoring homes. Please sir I would like to speak with you directly or a chat will be ok. Thank you so much
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1- Be Sorry (You genuinely & mean it)
2- Right Attitude (Have a pity face)
3- Touch Her (Meaningful hug or touch her hands)
4- Say "I am Sorry" (Acknowledge your mistake)
5- Say What you are Sorry for (Be clear for what you are sorry for)
6- Be Patient (Never be in a hurry)
7-Assure her of your Love (You most tell her she's still valuable)
8-Apologize Again (After days tell her sorry again, again & again)
9-Actually Change (Never repeat the same mistake)
10-Make it up (Buy her a gift/Do something she Loves)
Yes ooh
At 52, I'm learning this.
Could have spared me so much unpleasantness if I knew this years back.
Thank you so much!
How I wish men actually take the time to learn about marriage on platforms like this.
Thank you Sir for all your teachings.
Don't worry some of us actually do. Like me 😁
Sent this to my husband right away! The bragadociousness needs to stop lol!😂😂😂
Lol! I'm one of the stubborn women watching 😁
And does this work for you?
@@oluforijimibadejo5567 yes it does😁. He is right on point👌🏽
I am watching with him her 😂😂😂😂
Association of stubborn women....we are here papa🙏🙏🙏🙏but I am also learning how to say I am sorry
Stubborn girl is watching oo. we are blessed to hear this message! May God lead us to the right partner 🙏🏽 love from 🇷🇼
Suzzy Tk was here
The most painful thing is to be married to a man who does not know how to say sorry.
Talk the d ting Sis
I will share this with my husband every month! 😂
Funny you
Ha haha
😂👏👏👏
🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Hahahahahahaha. I just got to that point where Pastor Kingsley said some "stubborn women" are watching and I burst into laughter. 😅😂😅😂😂
Pastor Kingsley knows us ladies well. Thank you Sir. You are a blessing
I’m just wondering 😫😫😫😍
Many men actually need a 2weekly refresher training on this topic....for remembrance purposes😂😂😂. Pk really captured it all. Thank you sir
Men will not watch this video now but they will be looking for submissive women. Thank you Pastor Kingsley, I will be sharing this video to all the men in my life.
I'm a man, And I'm watching. I don't see the link between this and submission. Each and everyone has his responsibility and his roles .
@@johnetntemgwa3189 My friend everything is interconnected. An unhappy wife is not always a submissive wife.
Waiting on how us ladies should apologize😂😄
This is great PK!
I want to be a normal lady and send this to my husband, but i guess i must be pretty blessed, cos he always apologizes when he is actually wrong.
This is a whole textbook to study ooo.
Women are wonderfully made indeed!
🙏
Really? Textbook😂😂😂😂 this is just a "one pager" flyer hlee😉😎
Wow..! Beautifully Articulated.
I now understand that women are truly Complex to relate with, Except that you have the Right knowledge on how the Almighty Created them.
Thank you Pastor, You're Awesome...👊🏻
These formulas just solved a problem that has lingered for a while in my relationship, thank you so much Pastor.
Awww
I'm happy for you!
Thank God for ur understanding bros. I like ur courage
May we the single ones who are about to go into marriage , in future learned from that please, is very crucial guys.
Everyone who wants "how women apologise to their man" gather here!
Lol! That one is not difficult😁.
Just say *I AM SORRY* with a big hug🤗, and the man will be alright.
Case closed.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@daughterofzion6443 sometimes ehn, it requires an art o.
@@gwonisobrantley8577 u r correct, especially for men, who act like men but think🤔 like ladies.
Yes I want that
"I am sorry"
Thank you Pastor K, this is so educational even for myself as a woman, understanding how I'm wired.
Am also looking forward to see how woman apologize to their man too I really want to learn thanks sir
But we r always right🤷♀️
I am sorry but “women are always right”😂
I’m actually the stubborn woman watching this🤣🤣😂
I'm sending this right away to my fiancee, he wonders why I always hold on to hurt and remain angry after fights, I keep trying to explain this to him but he doesn't understand. You just spoke what I've been trying to say all this while
That's because the message is coded. Make it plain and simple. He will understand. Except he does not want to learn.
The manner of approach, matters too.
Same with mine
ah ah , he is just spilling all our secrets, lol
'Send this to your EXs' 😂😂😂 Pastor K,we do not speak to those people_oo😂.
Thank you so much for this....its a joy to hv one explAin this things from our point of view
Now I understand why all those foods he orders for me from Wazobia after I blow my tops about something he did. He was apologizing. 😂 Once I caught him checking the Styrofoam pack to know if I ate it. Of course I did and was still waiting for my apologies. Nothing has tested our marriage like migrating to the US and my channel is all about it.
You really learnt women's mind Pastor. God bless you. I wish all men would understand this, as simple as this 😊 there would be peaceful marriages.
See Kai, When Pastor said Touch her, I screamed God Bless u sir... Cos I have been hoping that he mentions this point and he did... Because this really speaks that you are sorry and you are actually apologizing to me. Oya, HONEY, come and hear Pastor Kingsley oooooooooooo... He is speaking my mind loudly
Lol
Lol 😂
He took the words right out of my heart. God bless you pastor. 😁
"you know that pity face"
😀😀😀😀
Some many men can never have it oo🤣🤣🤣
They av it, but mostly use it when dey want something
Read "The five languages of apology" by Gary Chapman.
Our apology method is usually dependent on our child training and how we were taught to apologise. Applys to both men and women
This is so truth.. some ladies also have this pattern.. I once had a female friend and this was her pattern.. it really applies to both sides
Well said Mercy, this is true.
I'd like a video on "How to apologise to your man "
Pastor Mildred will do it
I concur
Wow!
Please it should be out soon because it's very necessary
Lol
It's almost the same thing trust me, we all just have to be human beings, and work in guidance of God,
Permit me to say this in humility that almost if not all that pastor said are what I actually learned as a child growing up, as an unbeliever at my teen's age I was already very emotional intelligent , and then Giving my life to Jesus Christ because a plus to me till today, God is love, and his children are expected to showforth their father's DNA(love)
This would naturally and spiritually help you to grow with anyone in regard to any kind of relationship...
My love for this man @pastor Kingsley Okonkwo is equal to none. God bless you sir. I am sending this to my fiance right away. He needs to hear this and stop seeing me as being dramatic when I am only trying to express my grievances with him. Thank you so much pastor
Are we this complex?? 😂😂😂😂 This process seems so complicated, I pitty our brothers
Yes, we are😁
Sweetheart we are!
I just realized that I was wrong o but I was haggling someone's son to apologize since yesterday 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I just apologized
I'm.ashamed mpo
@@theewuravlogs4688 you don't have to be ashamed please
@@richbootyplug thank you dear
I'm waiting excitedly for the men's version of apologizing, look forward to learning
That video will be less than a minute😁
Just say *I AM SORRY* with a big hug🤗, and the man will be alright.
What do you think?
My baby tick all these boxes though 🤩😍
Your baby?
🇰🇪 well represented
tuko hapa wakenya. 😊👌
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Wow so a feature like this is possible on RUclips? Interesting. Oya o lemme learn this down for future purposes.
I love the dim background combined with the color of your shirt and trouser. Perfect match. Thank you so much for the tips. I'm sure it will help.
This is wonderful teaching. As a woman watching this I will make sure to apply some of this point in my relationship with my spouse when I’ve hurt him.
Very good. I cried through the whole thing.
True that...
More grace sir, I just sent this video ASAP It will go a long way.
Wow!!! What a beautiful and interesting video... God bless you sir
Am glad to be here
I wish i could like this video a million times.... Thank you very much sir. Please we need one for Women too
We dey wait o
Wow Pastor K you are amazingly on point with the best advice. There was one point I thought you were going to make but I don't know if it's important or if it's just something that I like. Do not begin by saying "if I did something". Obviously something was done or there's been an infraction of some kind otherwise we wouldn't be having this issue or this discussion, right?
That was always a problem for me when my husband would apologize because he would say "if I did something wrong". By saying "if", it's like he was actually denying it and was apologizing only because I felt he should.
If that makes sense! 😊
Pastor, this is simply great! Thanks for the splendid coaching!
Well said! Thank you
I am sorry
True this. Women visit the past to be able to move forward. That past must just be clear otherwise how can one move forward when there is account debit. Ko le work now.
How can you be "genuinely sorry" about what you don't think is wrong?
I continue to be amazed at how this Pastor can know what women want like this... God bless you Mama Mildred Okonkwo you are such a Godly and beautiful woman.
Sincerely I am here speechless and laughing at myself, most time I try to explain this to him but I haven’t been able to but I think if he watches this he will understand me. Everything is true
*How to Apologize to your Lady | Kingsley Okonkwo*
1) *Genuinely be sorry*.... u have to mean it
2) *Right attitude*.... there's a way you face have to be, your attitude speaks more than your face, don't bring up what she has done in the past, have an apologetic attitude.
3) *Touch them*..... its has been proven women need more meaningful touches in a day… Not sexual, it might be a hug, it means more than your words.
4) *say the words I AM SORRY*........its important you say it in full, it will be on record you said sorry for some things,
5) *say what you are sorry for*.......for e.g. I am sorry for shouting at you.
6) * don't be in a hurry to say sorry*.... don't rush her if not she will bring it up later as an issue, look attention, pay her attention, don't be too forward.
7) *assure her of your love and respect for her*.................when you treat a woman badly she equates it to YOU DON'T LOVE HER. Tell her she's valuable, appreciate her.
8) *Apologize again*...................some weeks, months or years later, bring it up and apologize again., it reassures her that you're really sorry.
9) *make sure you ACTUALLY CHANGE*...................if you don't change all the above things don't matter, women have the capacity to forgive you if
10) *do something to make it up to her*..................................actions speak louder than words, know what she wants and do it for her, go out of your way to make it up to her.
God bless you ...
Waiting patiently
This is Gonna be another bomb
God bless u sir.... So blessed
Thank you very much for always dishing out value all the time Sir. You've been a blessing to me. God bless you
Thank you Pastor, God bless you sir
Thank you sir. You're always a blessing
They're doing well indeed! 😆😆😆
P. K. I'm watching so I'll know when the apology is genuine and whether it'll be accepted or rejected. 😆
You are a man of great understanding.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏🏾
We were here first 😌
Yes💕☺
Can't miss this
Very brilliant!!!my man has heard🔥🔥🔥🔥
Great message Sir, what if the man is not willing to see things from the woman's point of view
My point too
Then he's serious pride in himself. Report him to @pastorKingsley, lol.
Outstanding clip, thank you.
Wow! Simple but hard for men. Thank you for reminding them sir
I'm waiting for the women part
Thanks a lot P.K! This is just the Truth. God bless you immensely Sir
Honestly I have learnt something today..God bless Pastor Kingsley ..
Thank you pastor K. Even to us adies all the points are so helpful. May God continue to increase your oil in Jesus Name Amen....
How did this pastor know all this, God is Good
Much love and respect from Kenya Pastor K
Please pastor k. How about how to deal with a man who cannot apologize or even own up to his mistake instead he will turn it around and blame u
No truer words than this.... Thank you pastor k
Awesomeness
Bless you greatly Pastor K
Some women actually think you apologising genuinely make you less serious. They want the 'drama' they want to go back and forth. You apologising when they bring a matter up shows you are not serious and too gentle.
Pastor, over to you sir.
Thanks so much for this awesome teaching Sir.. am bless
really good sir
Wooow...thanks so much pastor. This is really a great lesson. I'll share this. More grace sir
Thank you sir. Please also show us how to apologize to the man.
Very important ohhh
Make sure you actually change!!!
Very true.... thanksgiving you pK
Thank you Sir I lant a lot from this teaching more grace Sir
Sir this is so useful, thanks for this u always help my stubborn self
I hope my bf sees this...
He doesn't understand honestly
God bless you sir
Thank you very much pastor K
God bless you sir
Thank you, merci beaucoup
I’m a lady and I’m watching
Very educative video. I had fun listening to it.
God bless you so much sir,for your teachings and restoring homes. Please sir I would like to speak with you directly or a chat will be ok. Thank you so much
Thanks Awesome Pastor k
We die here
Another great lesson learnt
Thank you so much Pastor Sir