The Rational Male - Hypergamy: Micro to Macro | Rollo Tomassi | Full Length HD
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In this presentation, Rollo Tomassi discusses hypergamy, the Red Pill and what you can do to optimize your sexual market value as a man.
In this speech you will also learn:
Why hypergamy is unique to the female psyche
The dichotomy of "alpha fucks" and "beta bucks"
How to benefit from your girlfriend or wife's menstrual cycle
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Thanks! I've been waiting for this talk.
Pura vida from CR
+John Washington (Life Extension YT) if your so good why are you trolling others channels
Hypergamy (in it's effects/result) seems quasi-synonymous with matriarchy ..or crypto-matriarchy.
So ..THIS is the Real 'facts of life' ..along with Prof. #KevinMacDonald's #CultureOfCritique.
I majored in a Social Science (MA/Economics). This Rollo guy is GOOD. Hits it out of the park repeatedly for over a hour. Captivating, relevant information and most importantly, the TRUTH. Grateful to have found the video. Cathartic and a breath of fresh air, someone finally telling the truth. Thank you Rollo
Thanks for all the feedback everyone. I'm glad you could benefit from what I write. Thank you.
So far i've red only 2 psychology books based on what is called "universal laws". Gravity is a universal law and so are the biology laws. "The rational male" is one of them.
Wonder how the world will evolve from now on, knowing this, especially now that we can "play" with biology laws. Because of genetic engineering women wil no longer have absolute controll on their hyper gaming.
On men/women hyper gaming. If we love different, we may also have a different hyper game. Men of all ages are attracted to young fertile women. Men and women either settle or try harder. It is a "game" on both sides.
The game of life.
It would be interesting to see the statistics of young fertile women compared to 80/20 rule. This would explain why women try to look younger all the time with very few exceptions.
Cheers !
A man who went his own way.
Rollo Tomassi I have to say after reading The Rational Male I look at love movies, marriages, women who say I love him it man who says I love her w all my heart, friends relationship, and women responses to me totally different. I have been unplugged for awhile now after a LTR with a single mother. I do love her but I question where that love comes from. Because she was my source of intimacy fir 8 yrs? Or we had genuine connection? I question everything now. So is maintaining myself as a dominant man and never "giving in" to concept that I can't walk away , the main ingredient in LTR? Because I'd like to love one like I thought I did but I'm truthfully very leery. If I become complacent and boring she is influenced by her hypergamous mind and we know what happens. Idk
I have gamed a lot, and never had the foundational knowledge, there has to be something solid and YOU brought that to the table. There must be a model on how to transform a blue pill guy to a well groomed red pill guy. I burnt myself by learning game but not understand what it means to be a man first
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Rollo Tomassi I’m high as fuck watching this and I’m confused
You can never go back once you've taken a red pill. Good luck my brothers
Julian Rosas Whats red pill? I mean people are talking about RP like its the second coming of Jesus. Ist it just the fact of being a Man with capital M?
Mikhail it’s in reference to that scene from The Matrix; you take the blue pill, you go back to sleep, believing whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill, you wake up and see how the things truly work
hah, nonsense, try taking the blackpill
Mikhail ? If you don’t take the red pill some woman is going to come along and get her hands on that capital M. Whatever the M means?
@Fernando Trujillo López Why don't you just accept things as they are and why don't you focus on yourself?
women want the beta male to raise the alpha male's child
Yup, very true.
Women are very simple, emotionally steered maniacs.
And we are in big trouble, because we failed to set healthy boundaries for them,
and for us too.
Yep, and that is why such women are good for only one thing at best, the pump and dump.
What happens when enough beta males refuse?
@@taraswertelecki7874 That's the problem. If these guys hadn't had been so stupid, if they'd exercised more self control, had had more self respect, and been more discerning, they would not have created this mess that we have now.
Where was this 30ys ago. Younger men PAY ATTENTION
Justin Sidervag truth
Same here.
Man, im in my 40s and i vote this. Younger man, must seriously know about this.
Younger men have 2 obstacles. One is hormone levels are geared to reproduce and are at the highest level at a young age. The second is lack of experience in life.
It was underground. But yes, this knowledge existed 30 years ago, but not disseminated at this level.
"Why does my eyes hurt?"
"Because you never used them."
Hahaha!
Rational Male intro though
🤣🤣
socrates also said "yes go and marry..if you marry a good woman you ll be happy if not you ll become a philosopher"
>Socrates fucked boys.
this is false.
Xantippe was a whining bitch. As for his children, it's written they didn't have the intelligence of their father.
@Kasper H Gozdecki if you have so much advice then make a channel with some tips and a patriot subscrition. Your message looks like spam with no substance.
Aristotle is better
not true, you can become a good philosopher even without ever marry etc...
And by the way, socrates died like a fucking bitch, taking the poison drink.
Research more of that for yourself!
this is what my father should've taught me
William John Could your mother have taught you? I’m being genuine...Not trolling you, Sir?
Probably in your dads day females knew their place. Wasnt welfare to prop up bad decisions made by females and feminism was in its infancy.
Gypsie Jankins no...? A boy is (meant to be) taught to be a man from his father, if not then a father-figure. Vice versa for a girl to be a woman by her mother.
You wouldn't expect a rabbit to tutelage a fox would you?
Women have been trying/failing at raising their boys into men in the form of single mother families, the hard stats show that boys AND girls are (generally) much worse off in almost every metric than those raised by both parents in one household.
That's not to say you won't find tons of anecdotal exceptions but over the course of hundreds of thousands, millions of cases, the stats bare out the truth.
Tony truth
Assuming your father is a "good man" and married a decent woman, he's blue pilled through and through.
Your mother is a woman. A near complete lack of self-awareness comes with the territory.
Wow!! Instinctively I've known this all my life but I was raised by a single mother who conditioned me to think that this is a lie and evil. Thank you
Sabelo Ndlovu same... lacking a father figure hindered me in so many ways
Sabelo Ndlovu right. Most single mothers raise their sons to be the type of care bear men they’d never deal with.
Yea I really would love to sit down with my mother one day and ask her, WHAT THE FUCK!!! because she was raised by an alpha male hahaha
same
I grew up in a pretty stable household with both my parents who remained married until Dad passed away. Didn't help me any with women. Got screwed time and again all the same.
I found the red pill accidentally...the quest for self improvement and meaning. I don't regret finding it and I am thankful for men sharing this knowledge.
I never found the red pill. The red pill found me
I found the red pill accidentally too and tbh its made me depressed, i always knew finding the right partner was difficult but now it feels impossible ... ill never be able to trust a woman now and relationships seem pointless. Wtf is the point of life then? To just fuck and get your dick wet and move on? I get it, focus on your career etc but lets be real, men want love, at least most men and now im red pilled it seems like that is impossible, im in a relationship rn and im just paranoid more than anything... im basically waiting for the day to come where inevitably i will be cheated on or left
I got to know the redpill while I was in a relationship, but I felt that was not what I wanted. For a time I had no direction to go, since what people usually goes after didn't fulfill me at all. I was looking to find out if I was the only one feeling like that.
@@Mropop you’re only looking at the fine details and not the over arching message. I will simplify as best as I can. Your last bit of your story is telling. You state that you’re mostly paranoid that you’ll be cheated on. Why do you feel this way? Because of insecurities. Why do you have insecurities? Because whether real or to a degree imagined....there are things about you personally that you yourself know could be better. One of the over arching messages of the red pill is to do everything in your power to be the best version of yourself. If you are truly becoming the best version of yourself....people will take notice and it will inspire confidence in yourself. Confidence is something that will also get people’s attention. Being confident and being the best version of yourself is attractive. That attraction will give YOU options with females. Options with females will alleviate the insecurities of losing a female, because you’ll intrinsically know that you can replace her. And finally.....your intrinsic belief that you can replace her will inspire your behavior. The mentality that you can take her or leave her is the very thing that will make HER not want to lose you. I know that some segments of the red pill are opposed to long term relationships or marriage, but that doesn’t mean that you have to avoid them. Create the best version of yourself, adopt the proper mindset, understanding and behaviors, and you can attract women and make them want to stay for as long as you wish them to stay. The red pill will also teach you how to filter out problem women. So you will also become better at finding the most stable and loyal types of women if that is what you’re looking for. Don’t let it depress you. Let it inspire you to be the kind of man that a woman wants to stay with.
@@Mropop you wrote this a year ago. While I am feeling exactly the same right now. Does it get better? Some sort of new found mission of bettering oneself?
Knowing this would've saved me 20 years of pain.
How knowing this would have helped you?
Amen brother.
@anewnameforme Wouldn't have gotten into relationships. Pump and dump, only. Saved all of that time, money, and effort for something useful.
$hit, would’ve saved me 30 years of pain.
@@TheyRiseBand you're not the only one. All that time, money, sacrifice, effort, etc er. I've wasted over a couple of decades. For nothing.
men propose, women dispose
😂
While our fathers we're teaching there daughters about boys wanting women for sexual desires
the mother's we're teaching there sons to be submissive to women's needs and wants
mohican19831 this is factual
Sad but true.
Mothers should teacher their sons what woman are really like
Very well put.
NAILED IT!
I'm 42 years old, thought I knew a lot but this Red Pill movement really opened my eyes to female nature and the true view of women and marriage
Are you or have you been married?
The good news at your age is you have another 40 years to look forward to knowing how to dodge the bullets and so avoid being annihilated...
dont despair I learned this at 51
@Jerin Imeraj Consider non Westernized Feminist/Marxist dominated system countries women, but don't bring them back!
Many MGTOW videos EXPLAIN what usually happens, (as with most guys i know, or heard about DID happen IF you bring them back)
. ALWAYS exceptions, but they NOT the rule.
I know from experience.
My neighbor is a good 26 yr old guy with hot gf, whose father married a Filipina who scammed him out of 250.K - for only 2 years of marriage! He wisely divorced her.
Better late than never
Evacuate the city; engage all defenses; and give this man an award! He’s doing the Lord’s work!
I never dated single mothers, I always had this nagging feeling of my blood line is important. I will never raise another man's kid. I feel I can only love children properly if they are my own.
@Bryan Charles
Seconded. Only bad experiences and I'm not talking skanks either. Just divorced women who had decent jobs, kids from the same man who dutifully paid child support and had every other week custody. Still a minefield.
That's normal! What is not normal is that amount of men willing to take the sword deep in the butt hole.
Never date a godamn single mother, never.
@@flambelk4489 why
@@googlewantstoknowyourlocat1115 -First, most likely, a single mother is a woman who makes terrible decisions in life, whether she chose a bad partner or her partner wasn't actually bad but left her because of her bad qualities as a woman.
-Second, single mothers are also more likely to date men merely seeking wealth and stability. (they are often the ones with the lowest standards, and some guys fall for that).
-Third, if you date a single mother you may possibly have to deal with psychopathic exes and their families.
-Fourth, the children of single mothers often grow up to have profound emotional issues.
This is why a rational men should never date a single mother. Myself, I would never choose such a woman to be the mother of my children, I want the best for them, not just the first thing I can get my hands on. Also I do not want to make my own life unhappy
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The only instance in which I believe a single mother can be given the benefit of doubt is in the case where she is actually a young widow, but that does not happen often.
Its just so fucked to know women have been a lie since day one. The ultimate betrayal
Well, feminists saying this for all along, they say; ''she never loved you''. And they right, and this is not women's fault either, neither men's, because men also never loved.
Redpill rage.
the West(particularly the Anglo-derived societies)+most other countries, regions, institutions, civs &/or [insert here] of the world that the American hegemon has its tentacles in are absolutely INUNDIATED with all sorts of pretty little societal rules, standards, circumstances, lies, parameters, milieu, et al.... that once were essential(or at least of partial use).
Yet now have given way to anomie, widespread alienation, paralyzing isolation, barbaric criminality, demented perversions, enmity, ennui, et al..... & the gradual implosion of what we call the Occidental lead "modern world".
Regarding feminism, muh womynz......don't take this shit too personally. It is how it is.
I will never raise another man's child. Single mothers, your debaucherous carelessness and cruelty is not my problem to solve.
I have several single mothers acquaintances and something that amazes me is how they independently agree to reject any single dad or divorced guy with kids. "I should be his first priority" ....... girl you're a single mom wtf............
amen
@@sapitron I see it all the time too. The audacity and detachment from reality is beyond words.
Wow. Just as the difference between a women labeling a man's attention as either welcome flirting or creepy stalking is merely if she decides he's high enough status, a woman's decision to abort a baby is partly based on what she thinks of the father. Never thought of this.
Holy shit, I never seen it that way..
Exactly, this is the type of things that are so obvious but you don't see it for some reasons.
Incubus Rising - if he didn’t marry her and can’t provide properly why would she go ahead? Why should he get the opportunity to even pass on his ‘genetic legacy’?
I went through similar. It’s nothing I like to talk about and honestly Ive blocked it from my emotions as it did damage but my decision was 95% because of the guy I was with at the time. He lacked ambition and wasn’t who I saw myself with in the long run. For some reason when you carry life in you your mind changes. You look at things differently. Him being cute and charming wasn’t enough anymore. I knew I didn’t want to work and Slave away all day which I would’ve had to if I became pregnant because he had no sense of responsibility. I knew it would get in my way of getting a better man, getting married (which is what I wanted but later found out he didn’t even though when I was pregnant he lied and said he did) and also being able to focus on my dreams/ambition. I told him my reasons. Mostly because I don’t want to be hindered in terms of lifestyle and my chance to find a better man.
I don’t regret my decision. The only thing I don’t like is the fact i even got pregnant in the first place even though I took measures to prevent it but things happen and the pills aren’t 100% reliable. He had also tried to get me to get off birth control for a long time. So I think it was his plan/ something he wanted.
Anyway. I have all the things I want now and I’m the fiancée to a guy who own companies around the world. So whatever children I have by him will now be born into generational wealth unlike the start I had in life. All because of luck (being in the right place and right time) and ‘mummy’s’ ability to leave her female emotions aside and go with logic (I was seeing my now fiancé and left my ex for him) which also aided my choice (I didn’t want to go through the same thing again because that is what will happen if I didn’t change the TYPE of man i was with) so logically, it was better for me to be with and sleep with the guy who I will feel comfortable enough to bear children for.
You’ve got to understand as women, we don’t think of just having sex with a guy during the dating/relationship stage (unless were very young and/or just in it for the thrill) but that gets old. We eventually start to think of long term things as all adults should ☕️ with that being said there are still dumb women who won’t mind bringing children into suffering and poverty. Not me.
Candy Kane good for you!!!!!! Of the women I know that have had abortions most are married and they decided together they didn't want more kids, followed quickly by getting snipped.
EvilAlbear
I got a girl pregnant at 18. Nobody has anything at that age from their own work usually. She aborted and contacted me years later with regret because she can no longer get pregnant.
This video made me realize that "Where have all the good guys gone" actually means "I don't have enough betas, I need more".
Right, they don't want to even look at a guy who might be good for them but maybe not as motivated or fortunate as far as career or life prospects are concerned. Even when they are fast approaching the wall and "done screwing around" they still have that high value mind set, unlike us guys they can never really "settle" and learn to be happy with what they can actually get, they always want more.
They're like whiny children that complain that there is no food in the house.
Hy
He figured out women, and why the world is the way it is! Standing ovation!!
Standing ovulation
@@CHWEESE69 you got there first
LOL!!!!! NO, HE HASNT!!!
standing ovulation*
You really need to be on the Discovery Channel. Your info is pure gold. I’ve been divorced 5 yrs and have experienced or lived a lot of what you’re saying. Please keep the info flowing.
How the hell can you put this in Discovery Channel if feminism controls the media?
This all can be controlled, by the power of God, this is just ones guys philosophy which happens to be in the most cases in reality, and it is couse people dont live by the Word of God.
Feminism, blatant favoritism and the couple of hypocrisy and double standard brought me to the red pill.
gabs Just listening to this is helping me understand the mass hysteria associated with the left. We have an alpha type president restoring some of the balance that has been tipped terribly against us. Not only that technology is making it more difficult for them to take advantage of men evolutionarily, therefore the state is their last manipulative tactics available
gabs same here man, after my last relationship, I have realized women are by far the most hypocritical of the two genders. Always giving double standards.
David Franco. Yes! Great analysis and comments man! Obama seemed like a Beta President, with Jimmy Carter. That weak "Beta Bush" running for 2016 election, didn't have a chance against an "Alpha Trump!"
KaysianReigns Yea my girl fell for the bad chad guy,and dumped me on the spot,even though he abused her emotionally for 6 months.She young and naive,but yea girls and hypergamy is real.
I haven't taking any pills besides my one a day, and I didn't understand all this cause it was made up by this guy like we all see it this way and I don't understand a woman's bio even my own so I'm probably ignorant to woman as I was to consent plus the woman I was with had a communication issue and me a understanding, but who's fault is it, I say it was here way of communication that I am not paying attention to what she's lead me to believe. This is like a get out of being a hoe explanation as if this is a shit test to woman from a guy with the experience of what women do to men when they interfere with another's life. Same fear mongering woman that fails to trust because she's a ugly person inside and out when trying to be someone she's not all personality is closed off to the public till their in a safe place. I guess I should check it out since I'm starting over someday soon I think.
I've read his book "The Rational Male". It's truely life changing. Salute!
I have both series I'll start today after work
This makes so much sense. The hypergamy explanation was so clear my eyes have been opened
99.9% of this "redpill" shit is just common sense to me. Comments like this are just... bizarre. To me.
Im 32 and Im ripped af. I never, ever looked nearly this good in my 20s.
I'm on that journey right now man. 8 year relationship ended....been slamming that gym 5 days a week.
Same, kinda
39 and quite the same here.
how long have you been training? i am 21 years old and been training for 2 years now, built about 7kg of muscle so far
Atta bo 💪🏼 me too. Keep getting stronger, wealthier and better looking
This video should have 7 billion views, but I'll settle for 330 million.
330 million is like the population of US, the knowledge is spreading.
Pavel Krioukov That’s not the male population. Half the population roughly speaking is male. Women don’t want this kind of information to be made explicit.
Ha
I see what you did there
I’m in my 20s. So fucking glad I found this. I probably saved myself from unnecessary problems.
Likewise brother
@@griotolu7040 likewise. Saw this video 2 & half years ago at 23 & half years old. My life is much better, though my heart still aches from time to time.
You are so lucky man. Wish I found this in my 20s. Keep on the path brother.
This explains why so many women in their 40s and 50s are single renting a small room with a few cats and no savings.
@TheMKG26 I lived in a shared house with a 40 yo woman. She made me live literally though hell. Don't make the same mistake work hard so you can afford your own studio/appartment
They take early retirement, have pensions, and travel with friends. No time for cats
Dude this is not tru. Lots of old ladies are still picky and get younger chads
Woman are incapable of the giving the type of love they wish to have.
bravo!!
True !
That just sums it up!
Deep
I’m assuming you’re not attracted to women, naturally.
Life is going to be a whole lot easier once the Japanese get those AI sexbots perfected
Yep, and the AI mouth will have an "OFF" switch after the BJ !
And if they ever learn how to make a sandwich, it's off to the baby farms for women
What if a sexbot developer adds a difficulty factor where you gotta use game to laid.
@@CaseyPlexy1 that makes it even better tho
Christine Plymouth 😂😂😂😂😂
Every man feels they saw this too late.
If Johnny Depp couldn't keep his woman, what chance does a mere mortal like me have?
Johnny was a pussy. He went after vapid empty women like most of us do.
It should tell you that there's more to relations than meets the eye.
there is always a BBD
Fentydeluxe / If Johnny Depp had taken the red pill, he could have kept his woman !
Or Brad Pitt
My wife left me so, it would give me time to evaluate where I was and, what I wanted in this relationship.
She cheated while I was alone, in my "self reflection" period. Her reason was that, I didn't pay enough attention to her.
Well played honey. Well played. Once trust is gone, it is gone forever. Those battle scars are a sweet reminder of my past. I want to keep, intact, what is left of my dignity.
Yeah! And we all know what happens when we do pay enough attention to her. She leaves due to smothering.
Macio Luko
Cheating in marriage:
20% of men
13% of women
Source: GSS survey 2018
Both cheat. Point blank. Stop acting like men don’t. They just cheat for different reasons. When men don’t get enough sexual attention they tend to cheat. When women don’t get emotional attention they do.
Also:
~10 % Expecting Fathers cheat on their pregnant wives.
(They admitted to it btw. Cheating. When she’s carrying your child. Women have the rights to be angry too.)
@@hannahmonize1436 And how many of these pregnant women are actually carrying the husband's child?
@@Aakash_Goswami1 so I did not find any such gss survey that claims those statistics. Infact intergender experts are all unanimous of the opinion based on true observation and anonymous polling that women do indeed cheat more. this includes opinions from intergender experts who are themselves females as well...lastly, both genders have the rights to be angry for an understandable rational and not just for the sake of the fact to demean one gender from another...red pill advocates don't say women should die, they say you should know the trade offs of being with women and hence tread carefully...whereas feminazis literally shout 'die men die'!
@@hannahmonize1436 it’s a trade off. You want none sexual attention then give me sexual attention.
Enlightning information...
My lonelyness has become much more bearable.
«Bearable» how is You being with You is being «bearable»? I dont understand the negative connotation.
Oh so true my amigo. 51, divorced living on my own and feeling no stress at all. You ain't gonna be missing anything. Vacation in Cancun every summer now.
Don't be lonely, love you and yourself. Educate yourself, learn a new language, a musical instrument. Learn how to make more money. Now you have taken the red pill you can navigate the minefield and avoid the shit. Wish I knew this 20 years ago. I got sucked in and raised another man's child. Spent a fortune, got physically attacked and arrested for the privilege. I now have a girlfriend who is over 200 miles away, I set the rules and yes I do travel to her but she also travels to me alternatively. As soon as she uses aggression and drama for no real reason apart from getting her own way... I shut off comms. She can't cope and comes creeping back and we have the talk of why I am not accepting her bullshit. I will never cohabit again ever. Its the start of betatisation from the alpha male she was attracted to in the first place.
Millennials and in general guys raised by single mothers should consider themselves lucky that videos like these exist. A while ago, there was nothing but confusion and lack of knowledge, and that led to misery.
i would rather say the modern way of living, if we were to go back 60yrs people would be in large families and close knit communities where all this nature was easy to observe, imagine people who often had 7 siblings and cousins and aunts close by, they would literally see the different stages of a certain type of person,be it female or male. now people are raised by step parents, with a single half sibling, total confusion
Amen
@@crimsonite1524 60 years ago?
Brotha are you referring to Western States? Or are you referring to most other non-Western countries, regions, institutions, alliances, &/or [insert here] of the world that the American hegemon has its tentacles in?
Because i can assure you, 60 years ago almost everything was starting to come undone.
@@crimsonite1524 absolutely..
Being 40 , just understood what does all is fair in love and war means
Always be dead honest with a women. Give her as short, straight to the point answers as possible to her questions. Keep it that way.
the only way to deal with hypergamy is to embrace it
Yup.
so should I start my preparations for taller limb lenghtening surgery?
He said Men are Idealistic when it comes to love. This is so true in my experience. I was a hopeless romantic until about 5 years ago. I just turned 38. I still have resentments that girlfriends left me for other men but the science presented here reminds me it's just nature. But how I wish I understood this at 19. It would have changed my attitude and outlook immensely. And perhaps I would have changed my expectations and played the field more with a more light hearted approach. It could have saved me a lot of pain. I just never understood why I had keep earning they're love when I had proved it in the past. I'm pretty sure woman only appreciate what you bring to the table now not yesterday....it took my dumbass years to get it. Now unfortunately I feel like I have hold back and not get too close... it feels more like a game of worth than what I had Idealisticly hoped for as a younger man.
"I need to find myself"
- "Yeah, you need to find yourself a new place to live"
😂😂Savage, love it.
😂
Man, this statement is something i shouldve applied half a decade ago. Wouldve saved me so much trouble holy shit
Buddha said that in one Sutra I don't remember which one. That women don't think with logic but they ruled by their emotions because of their hormones
Also putin said that
Vale good to know
Thank god i found you Rollo. I’m 16 and you saved my whole life.
Really thank you man from the bottom of my heart.
Great video.
Key takeaways:
Women's behaviour changes based on the menstrual cycle in 2 14 day periods.
Women are idealistic and upward seeking.
Men are the true romantics.
Hypergamy.
I really CANT BELIEVE that such a thing NOBODY tells you this stuff on school or university.
School and universities are taken over by feminist propagandist of Women's Studies and Social Science departments. Any professor or academic shows interest in this subject are being fired for being misogynist.
universities are a scam!
I get what he's getting at, they crave alpha one day and then beta the next. That makes a sh*t ton of sense.
This is all true, and its very disheartening.
Ive got my son, ive spread my genes. Im 41 years old and i still love sex, but this shit isnt worth it.
I used to belive in romantic love, but i cant unsee the truth. Its a lie.
On the upside, my buisness is going well, and i have plenty of hobbies and interests to pursue.
Mgtow!
Dave Ware dude, this rollo guy is happily married
I'm only 29 Dave, and while I find these videos give me a weird nihilistic dread I also remember that there are exceptions to this rule. One would have to be nothing less than gullible to believe that any rule can be blanketed to all humans (women) without exceptions. Now, I think that believing you can find one of these exceptions has the potential to bring on a deep case of misery and despair if you fail (the odds don't appear good), but I do believe you can find a decent woman that isn't bound by her nature. I have personally met a few of them!
Take it as an education to how women operate , don't fall into either extremes, but ultimately it is your life , so you do you! Don't let any bastard including myself tell you how to do things. You. Do. You.
If we could get the audience questions subtitled, that'd be great.
I've been introduced to red pill at 28 and became full red pill at 29. My approach and attitude towards women changed completely
The good news is that men are waking up to the modern women. Men, stay focused on yourself, your goals, and your happiness. The Red Pill is truth!
I needed this information during f**en puberty....would've made better choices
Same here. My beta blue pill dad never ever disagreed with any women including my mom. That's what I learnt that women can never be wrong.
So did I.
Me too open mind
Becoming red pilled has literally changed my life. I just wish I could somehow get my friends to understand and appreciate all of this. Such a great video
Logan Burg they’ll learn when their wife divorces them and they lose all their shit
I am from Kenya - Africa
This man changed my life..its as if I am reborn...i can see & understand female female nature, I can also predict the next stage in a relationship - its as if I am a step ahead of these women...I have introduced rollo to some of my male friends & in the future to my sons & nephews...I am eternally greatful
Im from india, every indian man needs to watch this.
This video is unequivocally the most significant resource that any young man should watch to comprehend the world.
I am 56 never married no kids. I feel so lucky. I wish I had this when I was a teenager. I would have saved myself some heartache
I have to occasionally watch something clear-headed and rational and fact-based like this about female nature (and not just female-bashing) to remind myself why I am MGTOW.
Frederick Burke it’s called your daily dose of the red pill and we must all take it periodically (even better daily) so that we don’t fall back into the matrix
No jealosy at all im happy for em.. Theyre prolly going thru what this video / comments talking about anyways ! I still have a desire for relationships but now being mgtow i know what i expect out of one! I know what red flags to pay attention too.. For now im being patient ! And personally i masturbate but very soon i wont be im working to become my purest self
@@johncaudy8739 Why does it seem like bullshit to you?
if you want to be happy for the rest of your life...never make a pretty woman your wife.....
that song is ridiculous
please explain why you think so
Lmao! You’ll be wasting money you could have saved up for retirement on anti-aging makeup and cosmetic surgery.
I'll only wife a fat chick. Keeps the alphas away.
I would rephrase - never make woman your wife )))
When it comes dread in a marriage, the divorce laws quell the fear of loss for the woman by almost ensuring her long term provisioning in the event that he defects. The more you learn, the deeper the rabbit hole gets.
Many men are so thirsty they make entering the rabbit hole their quest. The deeper they go, the more they realize the dark nature of those possessing the kitkat.
god bless this soul for saving poor men like me.
Mail jealousy is an evolved defense mechanism to ensure paternity. holy shit he’s totally right
Jealousy doesn't ensure that.
It does ensure that you will have drama though.
@@unfencedrelationship
You don't understand hetero "romantic" relationships among Western or Western-esque countries all too well, do you sis?
@@hectorramos3436 Who is "sis"? And yeah I understand well but you didn't specify what you think "romance" is.
For sure. These guys talk about ''paternity'' when none of them even have children or want them.@@unfencedrelationship
excellent video. Rollo Tomassi God bless you!
also something that I wanted to add is that women do not want the patriarchy because they don't want their father choosing a beta male for them to have kids with. they want to choose an alpha male by themselves
Im 16 and im so lucky to learn this information. Ive seen patterns of it so far in my life and im very grateful. No my dad's not in my life so definitely if i didnt find this i would be blue pilled.
This is a tremendously brilliant lecture. Thank you, Rollo!
I'm completely disgusted by women at this point. Wretched battle axes.
Tommy Vines sad
@@kathya1956 it is sad, and disgraceful that it is the way it is.
Take a seat, we are all disgusted by each other 🥳
@@Airinnnnnn cant handle the truth?
Karmen Ribnica Yes, it’s utterly overwhelming and unbearable. Wait, what was the question again? 🥱
"The reason patriarchy exists is because women choose alphas" just blew my mind!! Simple fact but so logically practical. Atleast now if your smart & rich evolutionarily speaking we are slowly adding more brains to the gene pool.
Reminds me of the old fashioned senario of the alpha mail man knocking up the stay at home housewives while the beta man is off at work.
Frank deGroot And thats why i beat up my wife. She deserved it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@lovethechop Paternity Test should be mandatory
I used to get sad because my experiences with women had been really bad from very eartly on, then I realized thanks to that my eyes opened to the truth, and I avoided getting trapped in a marriage with kids. I'm 46, single, no kids, and I'm not 100% red pill, but I feel really lucky my life has been spared.
Lucky man.
No female drama.
This is the most eye-opening presentation I have ever seen. It will surely prove useful to me for the rest of my life. I cannot thank you enough, Mr. Tomassi.
I know men, myself included, who look for emotional stability, character, rationality, cooperation, fairness in women. This is hypergamy in men, to ignore the impulsive bitches when it comes to long term perspectives. It's true that very few women have even some of the traits.
I look at things like this as well. But we can use hypergamy to our advantage in terms of sexual benefit. It’s a weird line all men have to walk I suppose, but fuck it.
Men chase good looking women for sex, this is your first mistake.
Watching this video made me feel like I did decades ago as a physics student reading Einstein’s work for the first time. I just wish I could have gained this knowledge when I was younger. As an old man now, I just hope all you young men take this knowledge and make it part of your life.
This stuff used to be picked up by social cues just handing out and growing up with women. Today guys don't get socialized near as much as they used to so you have to break it down to them. I'm 55 and was the last of seven children with three sisters. I knew this stuff inside and out by the time I was in Jr. high school.
Gmail 1 You're right. I've always felt the vast majority of "redpill" content should just be common sense. Some people really treat this stuff like it's some ultra significant, life altering, enlightening secret truth that they just happened to stumble into.
Well gmail 37 years ago all the boys and girls weren't constantly being told that both genders are the same.
Gmail 1 so true--this is the crisis of these days. I'm 54 and the deterioration of even basic standards of behavior and loss of rational thinking has left many broken people in its wake. One is hard-pressed not to suggest a decades long conspiracy has been underway to destroy the West.
Very few guys know this information when in their 20's and even in their 30's. The ones who do are the natural Alphas.
@@iron-farmer They also used to know that once you made your decision, you were stuck with it. The no-fault divorce has made a shameful act commonplace. Open and free sexuality has made what should be a serious 'marketing decision' (really sorry to lower it to that, but it's useful language) is instead free samples.
@41:47 This is a point to be cautious about.
It's important to remember that hormones work by interacting with receptors. Raw data showing total blood plasma testosterone concentrations will obviously be higher in men. However, men use testosterone differently than women do. For example, female testosterone levels range from around 15-70 ng/dL and male testosterone levels range from around 270-1070 ng/dL. When a man's testosterone levels drop to 100 ng/dL he is said to be suffering from low testosterone and his sex drive will be practically non-existent as a result. This means that a women who is at peak sex drive with high female testosterone levels still has lower testosterone levels than a man with no sex drive as a result of low testosterone.
In other words, women are much more sensitive to the hormone than men are. They need very little in order to have their libido stimulated whereas men need a relatively huge amount in order for it to have any effect at all. For this reason, it is not valid to compare male testosterone levels to female testosterone levels and cite this as evidence than men are hornier than women. What is valid, however, is the hormone cycle he is talking about. Men definitely seem to be more consistently horny whereas women tend to have a fluctuating sex drive which is cyclical.
Thank you for the thoughts on men are hornier than woman. I've always had a high sex drive, especially when i was 20. Don't tell me men are more sexual or I'll call shit on that! But of course I use that drive and I'm called a whore... So men can go screw off since woman/I'm to blame for everything... Impossible, men are completely impossible!!! Let's just flip this perfect package of blame, shame and hate! Some one do a talk about the male form and his hormones and all about his social status and what he is doing consciously and none consciously to shape woman, children and society. Please for fuck sake some one do this and what is the hypergamy word for men? I'm so sick and tired of woman being hated on and blamed. men are not cherubs more so than woman!!!
@@scarletsummer3526 the one and only reason why men are "allowed" to sleep around without called a slut is, men have to work HARD for it. The typical process of 95% of men to get sex assuming he has a OK appearance AND is behaving alpha enough > he have to make the first move > even the best PUA getting through 50 rejections > dealing with shit tests > having 7 numbers > 4 are not responding at all > 2 at least texting little bit > finally with one you go to 1-4 dates till he can finally proof his worth.
Yes there 5% of men who get attention without doing anything, then there are 15% man who put up hard work to get laid often and 80% of men get MAYBE laid after TREMENDOUS amount of work and have to deal with nonfullfilled sexual desire 90% of their lifetime.
A Women process to get laid. Assuming she is not to lazy to maintain a fuckable appearance (which is NOT HARD). Dress sexy > get to a club or any place with enough men > men hit you on or in 1 of 20 situations you have to hit someone on (which 99% of women just refuse to do) > say yes > 80% success. Or even better: Get Tinder > swipe 20 times right > get 15 Matches out of these > say yes to meet > done.
Your lack of empathy results in you seeing only the bad things for women. In the world the man get blamed/shamed/rejected 90% of the time and women 10%. If the 90% just gets invisible to you and you are only seeing the 10% bad for women it's no surprise that you create your own little world where women get blamed 100% of the time because the 10% becoming the 100% just for you. The same goes for your claim why sexual women called whores you just didn't take into account what men have to go through. And be honest who is calling you whores? Only Men or women too?
Universal rule: Women are born with value because of her vagina and just having it because they exist. Men are born with nothing of value in the sexual market place and have to work their asses of to gain value, some are refusing because they are lazy or want equity, many are working but just got crashed by badluck, circumstances or they are just bad and finally on the top who got there and had to brun other man. You are not in the race, you got placed on the finish line and just waiting for the winners to bang them.
@Cardinal Sin lmfaoooooo this guy right here 😂
This is very true. I know from 1st hand experience.
I'm 31 YO, recently divorced, 11 years relationship, have a daughter and bought a home that was sold in result.
A friend referred me this book. Everything made sense
Interesting story you have. Very similar to mine. Divorced at 31, daughter etc. but that was 23 yrs ago. You’ll get through it. Trust me. I did.
Let me blow your mind why I went mgtow before it was even invented. When I was a teenager I was a huge player for a reason cuz the girls grab me and Pull Me by my arm they're the ones who wanted sex not me. Most of the girls I slept with had boyfriends, I didn't know. But they did, so they were the bad ones not the guy not me. 2nd reason was a player when I was young was cuz after 20 years of marriage my dad gave my mom she cheated and she left with the guy and abandon me and my brothers. Left my dad to raise 4 boys on his own. My dad had 8 sisters, Not 1 helped him out! 3rd, reason I was a player cause every girl i had cheated on me. They always found stupid excuses to cheat & blame me for their cheating, never blame themselves. 4th reason, cause I hungout with a group of girls & they all cheatedthey men. My homegirl we're open with me. Yhey would tell me the truth. U can learn alot from hanging out with a group of girls& pretend not to judge her, She will tell u the truth. Women are WAYYY more sick dirty & perverted than men. They always need something in there pussy hole. They figure thats why it's there for. Meanwhile the real reason is there is to conceive to make humans make children. 5th reason to ignore women & improrove yourself is cause I was married for 13 yrs & she finally cheated. She cheated when I changed & became a stay at home good guy. is when she cheated, it seems like she got bored. Cuz when me & her were better I used to go out a lot. My own way and they like that they like bad boys, not Good guys. They take advantage of good guys. Don't you see we men have sports, But a women sport is Sex & money. Even my mom tell me there ain't no good women anymore, all she wants is money money more money, different guys, and sex. They don't want to clean, or cook or work. Tinder is full of holes. Oh Dating websites are full of holes. They go on dating app & pick guys like clothing. Its that easy for them. but for us it's hard we have to work for it we have to pay for the date, there food. We have to put on suits & impressed them. They don't do s***. They don't even put the tip
@SEEK - R Ayy I understand your situation. I was a fit good lookin guy back in the day, had women always comin up to me. After an injury, I put on weight and look sickly most times on medication , women would ignore me, women that I know suddenly treat me cold asf. 360 change.
So damn true!!
I'm 54 yrs old and I wish I'd had this information when I was in my teen's.
There should be male study classes, for male's only!!!
Anyone watching this that is under 25 years old... TAKE NOTES. The second half of this video is gold.
From 18-25 focus on yourself and becoming the “man” you want to be.
There’s girls turning 18 every single day but understand one thing... your fun time will come. But don’t get attached to those females. You can have the most conservative Christian monogamist female at 18-21 years old but they will ALWAYS have their party “hoe” phase as females refer to it as... listen. Once you know a females car fax report and understand all this psychology that is being talked about in this video about having that parental deep understanding... that’s when you will wake up! I just hit my “epiphany”! I finally got my ass handed to me for living in the fantasy of boy meets girl etc.
Just take this video for what it is and my comment above. Nothing biased or sexist. Simply do what makes YOU happy until you are 27+ don’t chase women. Chase money, chase the body you want, chase the entrepreneur in yourself. Travel the fucking world do something with YOUR life before you hit 30 years old.
Most men here watching this are Beta. DONT BE UPSET. We win at the end as long as we wake the fuck up.
We actually can change the value system if we stay single and be picky about who we choose when we have it all!
Beats are actually in control and we just need to understand that we have the advantage of actually being on both sides of the spectrum.
If you are beta and have those “Alpha” moments in your 20’s and get attached. You will hurt yourself.
Sounds self explanatory but I never knew this. I’ve been used more times than I can count and finally listened to videos about getting girls and got my confidence.
This confidence is great for a good time...
Understand there’s gonna be a time after partying that you realize that this party hook up culture isn’t what you actually want out of life.
Try and understand this now! Don’t waste your time and money on it.
Simply save your money and improve your life for you. That’s the greatest advice I can give that has been handed down to me that I refused to listen to and now I finally get it.
Thanks for reading I’m thinking of making a video on this as well and hopefully I can insight younger viewers who are just trying to find their happiness. Because that’s honestly what all this is all about.
If we at a point where dating women is a science exam it's time to just stay single. It's not worth it bruh! That takes way too much time and effort that you can use to better yourself!
Great talk. We must live life positive...not hate on women:). It is what it is. Be our best self
Yep. Hate leads nowhere. I just do my own thing.
I think this is something that should be said more often
Exactly.
the West(especially the Anglosphere)+other countries, regions, institutions, organizations, et al....of the world that the corporate intersectional shitlib & dark occult controlled American hegemon has its tentacles in will continue towards sharp decline(and much more) for the foreseeable future:
- Biopsychosocial, epigenetic, bio-chemical, et al.... restructurings or re-wirings
- Metapolitical+other State-societal re-alignments
- Implosive polarization
- Bio-ethnocultural, religious, genetic, political, regional, & other demographic balkanization
- Economic+other Institutional breakdowns
- Natural disasters & other environmental troubles
- Supply line shortages
- Famines
etc.....
Yet for us RP awakened guys/men we just gotta remind ourselves:
Even though "Rome" will be burning, the sun will still rise for us.
I'm turning 37 next month and I look and feel waaaay better than in my 20s
Cope harder. U are just old
this guy changed my life!
Not the best public speaker OK. You can forgive him. Would you be? With this topic? Exposing yourself after years of secrecy.
But. Absolutely THE Master of the subject. Forgive the presentation and learn.
It wasn’t even bad, sure he may not be used to it but he went over many essential points men must understand. The presentation was more than sufficient, thanks Rollo 👍🏼
I’ve seen/heard worse oratory skills.
I think he's a pretty damn good public speaker. Better than I and most of you could do
Mr Tomassi is probably the least showman of all the people at the 21 conference (who think of themselves so highly that it's visible) while also being the most interesting by far.
He's also quite intelligent and eloquent. How is it he's not a great public speaker?
Came here a hell skeptic and was transformed! I do not care if this comment might sound exaggerated because what he has said in this lecture is just pure logic- That's the way evolutionary mechanism has designed and shaped us all as humanity. A huge additional upside of being aware of these truths is that you stop being judgemental and resentful towards women out of ignorance of the way they've been programmed for tens of thousands of years! Thank you so much for uploading that and thank you too Rollo!
Daniel W didn't understand how they can use this information to their advantage? Did you mean to the option of them making an excuse claiming that that's not their fault but that's their biological nature?
Knowledge is power - now that you know the truth you can use it to your advantage instead of floating in the breeze, allowing hypergamy to push you where it pleases!
If this information had been freely available half a century ago, my entire life would be different and better.
Out of curiosity, if all men were red pilled what would women do? Would that mean their hypergamy failed? What would the world look like ?
They would be escorts, sugar baby’s and only use men for money. Some who have low self esteem, don’t know any better, or are really ugly will pine for men’s attention and fuck for free.
We'll just turn gay - Duh lol
The world would be more logical
Rollo really broke a code here with an understanding of women and how they play the game, single, dating, or married.
I have the same level of respect for you Rollo as i have for my Dad
Absolute required viewing for any male looking to get awakened. Awesome speech by Rollo Tomassi!!
This should be required viewing for adolescent males. Simply because it's presented with facts, statistics and studies in relation to dating..
If the majority of people are anything like my blue pilled simp friends, they would fall asleep during this, or completely disregard everything said and go right back to trying to be a (nice guy) sadly.
I feel like everything this man says is a breath of fresh air. No man can understand what the feeling is until they get red-pilled. Not only that but after the anger settles, this deeper knowledge will help you really begin the change needed for ourselves. Its freeing me from all the experience I felt from my divorce and bs from the past. Amazing. I cant believe I've never heard of Rollo, a reddit page brought me to him.
this should be taught in every school on the planet as an obligatory subject
I'm glad you guys kept this up. Not because I got anything out of it. It hasn't started, but I think the free speech aspect of it is good, and people seem to have benefited from it, including you.
The male equivalent of hypergamy is DOMINANCE.
Chloe Wang Real shit. 💯 When the world was functioning normally.
Chloe Wang Genghis Khan was a genocidal rapist. No wonder he wanted the world to be brutal.
That's all BULLSHIT.
"But men aren't allowed to dominate anymore. You get locked up for that. "
With good reason.
That bullshit leads to societal collapse.
All of you idiots in favour of the idea need to drop all modern technology,take off your clothes and head to the nearest cave/forest.
EarFarce4
Womens hypergamy not being dominated has got us in the mess we are in now.
A better job
It was really an insightful and an eye opening speech! I look forward to reading his books.
This was the 1st video that Red pilled me, about 7 years ago.
God bless you, Rollo.
You changed my life forever.
Great to re watch this.
Thank you Rollo. This, with practical personal finance, should be taught in schools. Education about these topics would prevent so much sorrow...
I’m glad I will be teaching my child this knowledge this is one of the most important lessons in life .
Excellent talk.
1:08:50 Furthering your point about anti-male ‘hate crime’ laws in the UK, it’s worth noting that the legitimacy of accusations are based entirely on the feelings of the woman, not evidence of wrongdoing. Meaning women are free to accept "inappropriate" advances from desirable alphas, while also using the full weight of the legal system to crush hapless betas for the same behaviour. It’s pure, weaponised, government-enforced hypergamy.
I was floored when I heard that! It's literal insanity. How can you legislate against the natural act of courting a mate? The west has gone truly mad!
I've had a theory for a while now that our society (world) is ruled by reptilian females which would also have hypergamey, I'm starting to really wonder if I'm onto something.
UK deserve its destruction...for been stupid
@@Superman00221 OMG 👀
@@juliaportillo5485 😎
It's painful as a girl watching this cause I get hurt by male more. Always loyal but end up getting cheated on.
Wish I could understand men.
It makes it look like it's only guys going through stuff which is not entirely true
I am a loyal girl and would consider myself a feminine person and got cheated on by guys 3 times. Was always loyal but still got cheated on.
But I guess I have to stay strong and watching this makes me really want to understand men.
If you listened carefully, Rollo explained why you got cheated on.
You chose men superior to your own value as most women do. Those men can have plenty of chick's like you, so losing you is not a problem, hence the cheating.
If you chose a guy on your level or lower, he would never cheat but you won't. Cause as a woman, you're programmed by hypergamy to seek men way better than you, that what makes you love them, and that what makes them cheat on you.
I am 27 years old, and I was always taught values of respecting women. Even though I have now found this community, I find it very hard to unlearn what I have been already indoctrinated with. I just can't be as methodical or clinical in my interactions with women, as I would want to be. How do I stop being like this? I don't let anyone use me, but the flip side is I am always away from this market. I feel left out, and I don't want to MGTOW. Does any one have any advice about it ?