8 Signs You’re An INFJ - The World Rarest Personality Type
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- Опубликовано: 31 июл 2024
- One of the rarest personality types in this system is the INFJ, which is characterized by Introversion, Intuition, Feeling, and Judgement. This type of personality makes up less than 2% of the world’s population and people with this kind of personality are known for their warm empathy, keen insights, and deep insights into human potential. Do you think you might be an INFJ? Watch this video to find out.
Previously, we also made a video on the differences between INFP and INFJ. If you want to check that out, here's the link: • 5 Differences Between ...
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Do you believe in personality types? Which one are you? (pt3)
what
Bro this was 2 years ago why did you come back
@@JamesRice_idfkidk
I would love to see this as a series where you add signs you are for every personality type
yes, i'm an INFJ that took the test 2-5 years back :)
Love the channel cuz i like thinking about psychology in general. Like how i'm not queer or anything, but i find it interesting to look at things like xenogenders, which are genders that explain the concept of how someone feels about their gender through an example. I feel like taking the test again even though I still relate pretty hard to this video (good job :D).
INFJ be like: "I mean I did take a hundred tests and they were all INFJ, but I don't want people to think I'm just saying it because it's the rarest type, so I'll just keep my mouth shut"
Me: well it’s just his/her thoughts
*my POV; how did she know.*
Y-you're a wizard
EXACTLY
You read my fucking mind
HOW DID YOU KNOW KJBFUYJBJHYGUY
No matter your personality type, rare or not, there is only one you 🤗
Nicole on EQ amen!
Thank you :D this made my day✨
This made me feel better since I’m an ISFP and I’m one of the most popular type
Yup definitely☺️☺️☺️
Are you sure about that?
I mean, there are several people like me. Hispanics, brown eyes, trilangual, dark brown hair, tiny feets, underweight, skeleton look alike, average height (etcetera).
But there is only one with my personality (in all human history: past, present & future) and that's me.
As an INFJ I kinda felt lonely and not understood (dealed with loneliness a lot) but then I found my best friend. After 3 years of friendship I found out why I felt so understood and comfortable around her: she was also an INFJ
I'm an INFJ too, and I've always had friends, but like it said in the video, they were more like acquaintances. When I met my two best girl friends and my best guy friend, I suddenly felt so valued, understood and loved. I found out later that he's also an INFJ (which explains how we got along so well as soon as we met) and that my other friend is the "best friend" with INFJs (according to online sources)! (I forgot the MBTI for it TT) Anyways I found the video to be very accurate XD Especially the part about being a perfectionist and a procrastinator XD
@@Rue779I relate to you and the comment very well as an INFJ as well I often feel left out tho and want to meet more people like me. And it’s nice to know you found your people. 😊But the perfectionist and procrastinating part is so relatable 😭
🫥
Being rare feels great! But that means it's also rare to find other INFJ, cuz INFJ are rare. Yeah I'm an INFJ too. Loneliness is a part of our life that can only be solved if we find someone trustworthy. So accept it, and hope for good!
i had the same thing happen with me😊
I figured out that I’m an INFJ about 3 weeks ago. It’s crazy how accurately it captured me. I’m happy with who I am, even if I feel out of place sometimes.
Hey quick question, it sounds weird but like who do u go to to get diagnosed or "checked out“?😭
I think I'm one I'm not entirely sure tho. They all perfectly matched me.
@@justhereyk6201u can search it on RUclips bright side had posted this test
@@justhereyk6201diagnosed?!! No need for money its a quiz on the internet just type
"Personality type quiz" on google and answer the questions [honestly]
To get right results🤍hope this helps
@@justhereyk6201 there is a test you can take online just search up ''16-personality-types-quiz''
Once you added “rarest personality type” to the title you made people subconsciously want to fit the type since it’s special to be rare. Now a lot of people will do anything to rationalize themselves being relatable to this video.
Facts. And using words like “You” is convincing for simple minds
Thank you. Thats exactly it.
I've always thought that about these videos but you worded that perfectly😂
Lookin thru comments and cant agree with u more. Found like 20 people like im one too in the same comment thread
@@tempest510 read the title of the video. Its a comment on that
"youre a perfectionist but you procrastinate"
oh my god
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time,people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
Hello army
@@scyllari3544 To be completely honest I wouldn’t fully put all your belief in those tests. Personality tests aren’t really accurate. You can answer the questions 100% truthfully and you know what each question specifically means, but it can still put you in a category which isn’t you. A lot of people here are mistypes, and a lot of the time with those personality tests is a lot of the questions are similar to each other and therefore you think you relate to them all, which therefore doesn’t give an honest answer
@@scyllari3544 that test is inaccurate. Mbti goes by functions and that test goes by the meanings of the letters.
@@scyllari3544 the fact that you recommended that website 😬😬 the only reason why your results seemed “accurate” is because the questions are vague and all have similar concepts, therefore each question sounds similar and ends up mistyping you with the wrong personality type. A lot of the questions on those personality tests are Barnum statements, which are statements that apply to most people.
1. I mostly don’t share in things that other people do or are interested in
2. I missed one piece of homework and I was really stressed for the whole day and I procrastinate SO MUCH.
3. I can always tell what a person is feeling just by looking or talking to them even if they’re trying to hide it.
4. I have a circle of 3 friends and would do anything for them even though some of them don’t really share that.
5. I imagine what people are going through on a daily basis
6. I always think about what’s coming next. I also tend having a hard time letting go of possessions that I associate with my past. I keep several shelves full of these things and just go through them sometimes just to re experience those times.
7. I always feel like I need to help people. One person said to me “I think you help people to avoid helping yourself.” And it hit deep.
I just do it without thinking about it. I really relate to this video. I guess I am an INFJ.
Thats exactly 😊the same with me
That’s me too
Your #6 hit deep with me. I hoard stuff that I have a deep connection to. I am trying to get up the nerve to downsize but it seems so overwhelming.
Thats deep alot of that decribes me! We should be friends lol. Everything you said I agree with especialy 6 3 and 2 DEFINETELY 2.
Nobody asked for your results
"Perfectionist but procrastinates"
Holy crap. I feel *a t t a c k e d*
God, I thought the exact same thing
Damn me too
that was my reaction as well
Ya that got me
Bruh same, and I got INFP
“Perfectionist but procrastinates”
*my whole life has been described in one sentence*
Boi same
CUBERR YEY
That's me 😪
This is so meee
IKR
oh my~ I was recently tested as a INFJ again, I wasn't so sure if I am still a INFJ, but this video definitely affirmed the test result. it's also a bit spooky how accurate these descriptions are...
wow you just described me perfects with this whole video, its crazy how accurate you got my personality
Imagine wanting to succeed but your too lazy. And when you didn’t succeed you feel sad. Ik its complicated
I feel you
Yes this happens so much. Honestly this group of people are amazing and I'm happy that I'm not the only one. I love these comments.
You’re literally describing me here
That's me but I'm not even close to an INFJ
Yh
Most people who are an INFJ most likely didn’t feel like commenting that they are
Theres a chance no one here is infj almost all of us do shit like this
People just watch this sorts of videos and diagnose them shits as this to feel specials when they are not they are not
@@hokyvessaint there's a official 16 personalities test which almost everyone here took, most of them took it about 3 to 5 times. Not everyone is r/notlikeothergirls, sure there might be mistyped INFJ'S but generalizing is really stupid, no need to be so pissed. Anyways, this test has actually helped me a lot, I took it a year ago without knowing any of the personality types, they give advice, career suggestions, a lot of and a lot of information, this video is just simplified and INFP's also might relate to this
Ur right.im not here to complain about myself
Hahahah your the one 😂but I suppose it could always depend on the mood
Wellll i seem like one but- eh forget about this
the concluding message made me cry. I thought that no one could understand me. but here's a video that says it all.
This video changed my life, all my life I struggled, felt deep sadness and not belonging anywhere and being misunderstood, I also live in a small village with 1000 people so you can imagine the struggles Ive been through, finally I can live a bit more peacefull life knowing there are others like me and now having some insights and knowing myself better I can finally focus on things that matter to me and not destroy my mental heatlh like i did wandering in my mind what is wrong with me for years and years, I want to thank you for this video and i mean this absolutley sincerely 😘
INFJ people when they've been grouped with people they're not close to:
"sh*t, please end this day quick"
I think I'm INFJ and that's me lol
@@kawaii3157 lol same
@@tsu-kazuki Wait nvm I thought I was INFJ but I think im enfp or infp now :D
me in any group at all
I feel you
INFJ: the rarest personality type
People in the comment section:
" *Hey, that's me.* "
it’s because we’re all over the internet lol imagine an extrovert looking at this shit. hehe.
I know right, it's almost as though people will watch and comment on a video that is about them and their type of people?
even you jjajajj must be an INFJtype , jajajaj what are you doing here extrovert then? jejeje and yeah introverts are mostly on the internet
idk if people are lying or nit. so i never trust anything. but its whatever
@@nerdemojireal what you got against extroverts huh
Great explanation and description.
I love how you talk to the viewers like people and not subjects. 💙😍🤩
“Perfectionist but procrastinates” this right here is not a fact.. it’s life
:0 that’s what I do
ADHD be like
Nothing has ever been said better and truer
Yes
For an INFJ, it's more intense. Usually, we know what to do, but just don't do it. I wouldn't classify it as "procrastination", but rather our constant struggle towards perfection.
We don't do something, at times, because of: the social circumstances, the timing, and the certainty of the outcome.
"Small circle of friends"
I dont think two people can make a circle-
mine makes a triangle-
Can one make a circle?!
You'd probably need, like, infinite friends to make an actual circle
Lovely just lovely
Mines 1-0
Ive always wondered why my heart of gold never went away ❤
hearing these common signs actually made me feel heard and comforted
im not even sure if im an infj but all these signs, i can heavily agree.
"INFJ is the rarest type"
Everyone on the internet: wow that's me
Unoriginal fool
this is because these are common parts of the personality
True
2% of the world population is at least 156 million people..........
@@borahaeflash782 and...?
You're an INFJ when the person you talk to the most is yourself. Lol
Edit: Thank you for all of the likes! 🤗❤
I feel very exposed 😂
lmao I thought I did that just because i'm lonely
@@cloudy4536
Hahaha. I ask that myself everyday.
I feel attacked
No
I will say only one thing.I know a lot of people,but i also know that my friends are 5 maximum.The only humans on earth except my family that i talk a lot , be myself and not be stressed by just talking to them.I am an INFJ for sure.The other 5 friends i have are ALL INFJ s, i suppose that is the reason we fit together so many years.This channel has helped me a lot to understand so many things about life, and i am grateful, because i am just 15 years old.Lastly, very good job.Your videos have a point and you are right, you have proof.Not like some other channels that just say random stuff,and i like that. Congratulations about the channel, keep up the good work!!( I am sorry if i wrote something wrong, my mother language is greek)
Wow, this video really described me. It is so accurate!
1. You're on a different wavelength
2. You're a perfectionist & procrastinate
3. You're perceptive & good at reading ppl
4. Tend to keep a small circle of friends
5. Deeply empathetic
6. Cannot stand small talk
7. Future focused
8. Gravitate towards ppl who need help
THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE WITH THE INFJ FRIENDS I HAVE!
The comment i was looking for
Future focused, That's me
Thanks so much for this!!!
Yep im the 2%
The way every legitimate INFJ wishes they weren't an INFJ because we literally have the most difficult time finding similar people to connect with mentally and emotionally.
omfg I feel that on every level
Yep...
I totally feel that everyday..
totally agree with you, when you try to reach out to other people yet you feel like it drains your energy too much and you feel like they don’t get you then the tendency is you isolate yourself again.
@lia luna your right. i think that sometimes its just stressing..
I always fit every personality type you make a video of, idk why
The things that depends are always the determining thing to know my personality type ;-;
The last one hit especially hard. I'm like a beacon for that. Over the last few weeks I've been going out more regularly and more often than not I seem to run into some broken soul, yearning to be understood and just listened to.
INFJ: you hate small talk
Literally everyone: “that’s me!”
Truuuuueeee
Is there really anybody that likes small talk?
One time:
Me: *Texts in all caps with my friend*
Friend: “Why are you yelling?”
Me: “I HATE SMALL TALK”
:)
@@lemin-lyme8807 LMAO
I LOVE just sitting in a room, not talking, listening, and reading people.
Lol that sounds so boring
Me tooo
Same I align with every symptom that was mentioned in the video 😂 I always felt like a black sheep
For me it’s weird I’m like this with one of my friends yet another personality if front of another so on so forth. It’s like I change personalities around different people and I trust them all equally so it has nothing to do with trust.
all mbti statistics are fake, there are no concrete statistics of types
im saying that infjs are not the rarest type
holy crap. ive been trying to find my personality for so long but i never fit any type that suited me. this video just answered my life long question. thank you so much.
These arent quirky or unique personality traits, these are basic things literally everyone does all the time. They are only stated so that you can feel special. And if you need/ or watch these videos to feel you are unique than everyone else that is exactly what they want and you need to figure out yourself. Dont watch personality trait videos to figure out who you are. For example: everyone in the comments are stating "omg! I am infj!??!? I got 8/8!!" Even though its the ""rarest personality trait"" perfectly proves my point
WHY IS THIS SO ACCURATEEE
"Perfectionists but Procrastinate."
*angered exposed noises*
*Joins in too*
do you have a link to take this test
Mhmmmmmm
Yep yep
this sentence explaines me, even though the test said im an ENFP-
Rare Personality: *exists*
I’ll bet every person in this comment says they have it
"I'm quirky"
Well yeah there's a test that shows your 4 letter thing :/
The “rare” is relative tho, 2% of the population would be roughly 160 million people
Someone a while ago said "Who else is INFJ!!!" with some other emojis. All the replies were "Omg, yeah, I'm INFJ!" I thought it was a rare personality lol
Well they may not be an INFJ if they are completely happy about it because in my opinion its more like a curse than a blessing, because we often feel left out because we are not understood on how we think. This might be only me but being aware on almost every aspect of life can make me feel depressed on how bad the world is.
I am an INTJ, and I am apparently really rare for some reason, being part of the 2.6% of the population. I think it's really interesting how they've actually named different personality trates and in which way. Really interesting stuff, keep it up!
Hi, another INTJ ..
well, not that rare… I‘m a person with Asperger, and that’s 2% too, and that‘s not that rare. If you pay attention, you‘ll notice which people have things like this, and You‘ll see that it‘s more or less common. Some just „hide“ (bc it‘s nothing negativ of course) it better than others.
Müsst ihr wissen.
@@Mandarinoooooo
No, Introverted Intuition and Extraverted Thinking simply don't mix.
Which makes INTJ one of the rarest type
@@ditto6384 OBJECTION! Psych2go said themselves in the vid that about 2% of people have this personality type.
at least I think that was the case too tired to check rn 🗿
@@Mandarinoooooo dude, there are literally 8 billions of people in this world.
2% is like, Idk 160,000,000?
That might looks a lot to you but it's very little considering the fact of how big the world actually is.
Infj reality: you 're telling your friends to stop screaming because you're the only one who notices everyone staring
YES
i‘m always so worried about the environment and what the others will think. they just continue screaming and dont give a shit lmao even though i try to calm them down!!
@@rosestulip444 Frrr
Im always the one shouting and my brother tells me to stfu xD
Yes this happened once when my friend was screaming some weird things- we were in the middle of a park, next to an old lady💀
My weird shower thoughts: Even though INFJ's are the rarest personality type, they can be found in the comments section because they don't go out and instead spend their whole day watching RUclips.... I speak from experience
I also have the same weird shower thoughts
Ooo yess its possible why so many comments
same like it won't bother me if i don't go out for a month but at some point i want to see my friends once then go on hybernate mode again
I've thinked about that too! But I think because INFJs personality type is the less common so maybe we are more confused and we want to know better about us? Or maybe because (talking about myself but I know its pretty common in INFJs persons), when you are into a theme (which would be all the MBTIs personalities) we do want to search information and learn about that stuff they are now into
I relate to all of the above reasons but I don't watch RUclips allot, because I think it's a waste of time and should be working on myself instead.
Your voice has a magic to win my heart, ur voice is rarest in my voice theory and gal just give me ur no damn it
Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout.
The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it.
(Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
"You also tend to be critical about your past experiences."
*flashbacks to those times I stayed up till 3am because I regretted using a certain word in a text message*
That is so me lol
Same
Wwaaiittt so not everyone does that?
Oh God, my brain remember that one embarrassing message RANDOMLY, like, in the middle of the day!!
i do that except it's more serious than that
INFJ: the rarest
95% of the comment section: *allow us to introduce ourselves*
I hate small talk, so I’m gonna dislike this comment.
Well, this is one of the most popular infj videos on youtube. I can imagine most infj personality types, would come here put of curiosity after getting there score. It makes sense, actually, this comment section is probably where a lot of them are.
since their is about 7 billion people in the word and 2% of people are infj that means that there are 140 million people who are infj. Since this is a video about infj, people who are infj would most likely watch this video. so it would make sense that the majority of the comment section is infj.
Injf mostly populated the internet the rest of 7billion are ego centrics
Dammit, I said the same thing. I guess I'll delete my comment because I'm NOT on a "different wavelength", apparently.
I was infp but this time I gave a test i was infj i didn't know it was so rare btw this video is really good i feel like i need to take good care of myself bcs i feel really burnout thank you for making this video!
I love this channel it understands me 😭😭😭
Literally every INFJ: “I’ve taken over 1,000 tests and everyone thinks I’m lying so I will shut my mouth.”
Omg the way I relate to this comment sm.
Exactly
Yesss
Meh I wpuldnt just assume one of you guys who say thats lying
Yes I am too an infj and no one believes me
INJF: The people around me are all idiots- but idiots that are just trying their best 🥺
spelling this INJF has to be either great satire or irony. Not that typos are a sign of intelligence anyway.
This
Lol
Well this is true, I find myself confused at why people don’t get this.
I used to hate all chinese people for my entire life, but then I've spent an entire week thinking about China and Chinese people, so now I feel sorry for them and bad about my self. Though, I am an introvert and avoid conflicts, so nobody ever knew that I had any hatred of Chinese. I also was bored af and felt academically invincible to the point that I speak Chinese now. It's like 1 month 180 degree transition.
@@alansteyrbach6926 bro what
I didn’t expect this to be so dang accurate what the heck-?
Did the test, got INFJ, never actually understood that until now. The thing is, I used to be like this a couple years ago, then depression came, a couple toxic relationships latter... I am starting to slowly find myself again, and this video just reminded/showed me a little of who I am and that I am not who I was trying (Toxically and unsuccessfully) to be, thank you❤
INFJ be like: If I can't be perfect then fuck it all
😂
Well-said!
That’s it. This is THE COMMENT.
Yep
Lol yes. It feels like even small thing gets ruined, you are like everything's fucked up. My whole life is fucked up
Video: "Less than 2% of the population is INFJ"
Everyone in the comments: "OMG, this is so me!"
World population is around 7 billion people. 2% of that is still quite a lot and often people with same views gravitate toward same content.
yes there are a lot of people
@@harinyeagerr6855 people are just self diagnosing themselves over this video tho lmao- if they really think they have it, they could maybe talk to somebody more professional (not saying that the person who made this video isnt professional, but like somebody to talk to 1 on 1 kind of thing if u get what i mean), not just rely on a youtube video. there is two types of people in this comment section. people who say that they think they have it/have it just to be quirky and think theyre "special', or people who seriously think they have it/have it.
I was thinking the same thing 🙂
That’s cz people who aren’t INFJ wouldn’t be saying it lol, also 140 mil is a big number
The video mentions my character vividly, btw the video is helpful and cute,ty!
ahaha i took the MBTI test recently and i got INFJ. At first i didn't mind much and thought it probably won't be relatable to me but after this video, i realized this video exactly describes me. Thanks!
"The world's rarest personality type"
Most of the people in the comment section: "Yes"
Ha thats funny and true what you said.. In 5 years its gona be populated with infj over 102 percent of population
Ikr 🥲🥲
@@Psych2go wtf how did you get them emojis
@@jasmineguy2236 lmao what why is this making me laugh so hard-
“INFJ is the rarest personality type”
Literally everyone in the comment section: “I’m INFJ”
I noticed that as well
i was thinking the same thing lol
Does that mean everyone is starving for attention, or does it mean the RUclips algorithm knows us more than we think?
@@paytoncollins4629 I've seen this video 3 other times in my recommendation this is the fourth so i decided to watch it
@@paytoncollins4629 I think people tend to associate and relate themselves with media. Wether it’s a book, a show, a movie, or even a RUclips video.
I think I have it but I'm not sure. I'll check it out to be sure. Love ya ❤️
Two of those things you mentioned really goes to me like i can seee how someone is feeling and beyond, it's like if i am reading people's minds and the other one was the one of going beyond i have a on most of my subjects but i still don't see it much i still think that i can do more than that
You know you're an INFJ when you're a good listener and people always come to tell you their problems, and then you get depressed because you have their problems weighing on you, and there's no one who takes the time to listen to your problems.
For real...I really don't understand how it happens. All my life I have been the recipient of people's confessions, I don't know what vibe I give off that makes people just want to start telling me their stuff. And it literally is everyone I encounter, not just people I know. It makes me good at my job now, and I'm able to disassociate so it isn't a burden anymore, but it really was terribly difficult to handle when I was younger.
And yeah...NO ONE fucking reciprocates. Unless you're lucky enough to be friends with another INFJ who will take turns with you sharing and caring.
My life story. Everytime.
So true.
You explained who I am holy- i seriously weigh myself with everyone's problems and no one is with me :')
Thought that was introverts
*video*: “INFJ is one of the rarest personality traits”
**me just realising that half of the comment section are INFJ**
Makes sense tho. The world's population is 7 billion, 2% is a big number 😍
7/8
Welcome to 50% I.N.F.J...... of this chat
That’s because this video targets INFJs?
Lmao of course they’ll be here because this video is literally about *”INFJ”s.*
Lmao you might as well wanna use your brain sometimes.
There’s literally 7 billion people on earth, so there’ll be at least more than 156 million people who are INFJ type. 💀🙄
I love all of your videos you're AWSOME ❤️❤️❤️✨🤩
NOW I KNOW WHY I'M LIKE THIS..😐😐.
THIS VERY HELPFUL TY FOR UPLOADING.. 😘
Omg me too!!!
Literally nobody:
INFJs people on the comments section: writing large texts about how they feel, cuz we can only understand to each other
Damn you, this is too real
We're so lonely
Been bottled up for too long
@@RS_mamf need help?
Finally, someone in the same group I’m in
Infj catch phrases:
"Sorry"
"Do you want help?"
"Is everything okay?"
"Sorry"
saying sorry when it isn't even your fault
So basically Canadian 😅
I guess I’m an INFJ 👁👄👁
soooo been a canadian is infj huh?
Literally I use all these
I can actually relate to a lot of these.
One - Am I on a different wavelength? Answer - Yes, to the point that my point of view and the evidence is so obscure it takes an explanation for an explanation.
Two - Am I a perfectionist/ procrastinate? Answer - Yes. I’m never satisfied with the work I do and keep putting off practicing to keep my life consistent
Three - Am I perceptive and good at reading people? Answer - Yes, I usually know how a person would react to ‘X’ situation, although if I already know the person, bias tends to get in the way.
Four - Do I tend to keep a small circle of friends? Yes, I’m introverted as heck.
Five - Am I deeply empathetic? Yeah, not really with cartoons or anime, but being fiction, it probably doesn’t count. Aside from that, I tend to overly connect with virtually anyone. I remember one person brought up their late best friend, and the supervisor gave some generic sh*t, I’m sorry there’s no better way to put it, and while everyone else agreed with that, unsure of what to do, I felt like the others were being heartless, which I later found was how he felt, too, and I did my best to comfort him in what I call the ‘real’ way, with straight talk from the heart, not sappy speeches from a movie.
Six - Can I stand small talk? Truthfully…no. I always feel like when someone brings up something minor, it’s either really obvious, or there might be something that is happening, just happened, or is going to happen, which leafs us to -
Seven - Am I future focused? YES. I panic so much about the future, how every decision I make could save or screw me in the long run, how one day I won’t have anyone, and my whole family will all be dead one day - sucks to be the youngest - and how I always feel slightly rushed to make a decision.
Eight - Do I gravitate toward people who need help? If you asked me a year ago, I would have said ‘no’, but looking back, I kinda do. Three of my friends suffer with minor depression, my sister is going through some serious regret and vague reverse-trauma, one of my friends suffers emotional instability, depression, breakdowns, and yeah. Crazy part is, under other circumstances our personalities would totally clash, but for some reason, they don’t…? Idk.
Do I identify as INFJ? No heckin’ idea. Stats say yes, although I feel like there are some specifics I may have overlooked. That’s me done.
Cool
Boriiiiiiing
Holy yap 💀
I might be this but i think not. Yet everything is literally on point.
INFJ be like : texting someone for a while, then realize that they have overshared most of the things
Yess!!
Meeeee
Yesssss
Oooh Man stop exposing us ,our biggest trait is to remain secretive and mysterious.
also INFJ: typing up paragraphs and not sending them because the other person would think he/she's too much
As an INFJ, It just feel sad that I always tend to observe other people's reaction and emotion but everyone of them misunderstood me
When the imporstor is sus
Yes
Yeah [INFJ as well], like I'll literally tell them exactly what they're feeling and going through yet on the otherhand, they only know what I'm feeling or talking about if make I obvious or like most of the time, they just never know 😶 It really is pain to know its hard to find people or even someone who could actually grasp your thinking into one jar. Srry for the whole paragraph, but if you read this then thank you 👍
@@wolfsnicker I can relate heavily my friend, I think you just gotta appreciate your weird brain cause most people aint all that intuitive sadly
@@bnmangaman Or don’t worry bud I freakin love it, not to sound weird but it literally tells me about the future or even gives me auras around certain people and things telling me if their good for me or not and it ALWAYS RIGHT !! 😳 So it helps me in the long run 🏃♀️🤩 but I’m just sucks that I can’t share that with someone almost exactly like me heh, who’ll understand and talk to me about it 😅.
Nailed it
Literally every chapter title perfectly describes me, and I mean every *single* one of them, really. I haven't watched the video yet but I'm gonna say this. To be fair I'm working more on it now, but that are the impulses though, no joke. Also I'm aware that most people would relate anyway because of the points being generic, but the way it's so accurate kinda shocked me, I mean some points are really specific tbh
INFJ: "I am INFJ!"
Everyone: "I am INFJ!"
INFJ are 2% of the world population.
Which means there are 14 millions INFJ 😄.
I am radio rebel
I am microwave
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time, people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
@@rebeccaeverett8957 exactly. Everybody thinks about their future and procrastinates lol. Just cause you have heard about it doesn’t mean you are it
“This personality type is rare!”
Everyone; “THATS ME!”
Exactly 😂 it’s actually annoying me now
But They are getting everything correct-
@@abiiixoxo6555 I definitely understand that and I respect a degree of skepticism. If I may, I would like to intercede. The video states that the infj type is 2% of the global population. As someone who has designed and conducted psychological studies, albeit in an undergraduate context, I can tell you that psych stats, or even all stats in general, are very ambiguous at times and prone to misrepresentation. That 2% can only be inferred from people who have taken the test. It isn't a hard number but rather a trend. Meaning that of those who haven't taken the test, it could be said with some degree of certainty that only 2% will be infj, however there exists a chance, however small, that maybe all the infjs have been hiding in that group and suddenly the average increases. (BTW in psych stats you can have a maximum of 95% certainty that the stats a representative of reality. You can never state a psychological finding as proving but only supporting a theory)
Secondly, at the time of writing this comment, only 4.3k people have commented. Not every single one is stating that they are infj so less than 4.3k people are claiming this. And even if they were, it would make sense that those who relate to the characteristics presented in the video would be the ones to comment. I personally wouldn't make a comment to say "oh... that isn't me". Some might but I would theorize that it is unlikely. Yeah, its possible that some people are lying so that they feel apart of something but what percentage do you think that would be? 2%? 5%? 50%? Consider that and put it into practical details. If you think that half or more people are lying, then that goes a bit beyond skepticism and into cynicism, which is fine if you find supporting evidence. Otherwise, you're categorizing people based on a faulty intuition. I personally abide by the trust but verify method, but like many of us, I dont have the free time to engage with everyone on this thread. Anyway, thanks for your time and im open to hearing any kind of response!
The reason why it seems that way is bc INFJs are the main ones that watch these videos
@@LifeisaBeautifulting Fair-
I’m an INFJ. I procrastinate a lot. I try to be perfect in everything. I have selective friends, and I get bored very easily in small talk and I rather have long conversations. I never knew I was till I saw this video.
I think journaling and blogging is the best outlet for INFJ. It allows you to share and express your origional thoughts and ideas to question and improve the world. ✏️
Summary:
1. You are on a different wavelength.
2. You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate.
3. You're perceptive and good at reading people.
4. You tend to keep a small circle of friends.
5. You are deeply empathetic.
6. You cannot stand small talk.
7. You are future focused.
8. You gravitate towards people who needs help.
I think i fit these all except for empathetic
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These are so general
@@bomoore9872 you’re perceptive and good at readin people but you aren’t empathetic? How sway?
Nah bruh this is everyone they pulled a zodiac sign on us 💀
Does anybody else cry when they're angry and yellin, as an INFJ?
This treat always confuses me, like the moment I broke the gate to get angry at someone at the same time it also comes with the flood of tears wtf man
Bro right I hate it when I start yelling or get angry I cry midway
i cry whenever i talk about myself to others but at this point i’m not even sure if it’s my personality or if i’m mentally ill
WHY IS THIS TRUE, like when i get angry at anyone at anytime, outside or inside, i start breaking into tears midway
yes!
Every single one of these are out smacked of the ballpark when describing me. #7 might be a ground ball base hit but yeah the rest are dingers when describing me. Love you're guys work and knowledge you share to help us understand and better ourselves
I believe that's all true. I never liked the fact that INFJ is the rarest personality type, because I'd love for other people to feel what I feel, it'd be easier to explain how I think. n°8 is like a "curse" for this personality type, the need to help people and the sense of being forgotten after we have done that. This is a great video, thanks!
"Number two, You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate"
me: oh
Me too.
Ikr! It's spot on. 🤭
Just gotta write this but, yeah. Hahah
Somehow i procastinated till the last 5 or 6 hours or so. I somehow got a B, idk bout you but id call that a pretty good grade for an essay
um...
"you're a perfectionist and procrastinate"
I feel *murdered*
I laughed for 10 minute cause that is me described perfectly
Exactly 🤠
Accurate honestly
Rough tendency, not a strict behaviour of yours. Are you a perfectionist with literally everything? I doubt it since you never capitalized the “Y” in “you’re”. Zero period after the statement, no period after your second statement. This is not perfectionism in the slightest.
I m also
I don't know whether to be scared or not anymore. In one of my classes at school I took a personality test. After reading it, it described almost to perfectly. Then I look at this video and it just describes me more. I guess I am this type but whenever I try to help someone I fail.
This video popped up in my recommended after never having watched videos on the subject of personalities but I was intrigued and was completely expecting a comment section of people saying that’s exactly what they are. And to no surprise there it lies lmao. Out of curiosity and having no knowledge of personality groups other than basics like intro/extro vert, I took a test (first result on google to be honest) and got INFP-T. No idea what that means but found it funny because for a split second I thought I’d recalled that being the ‘personality type’ discussed in this video and was about to just shut down my phone in hypocritical shame. So my shunning still stands, but with no disrespect, y’all be happy with you however you choose, it’s best, even if goofy.
The worst part about being an INFJ is being able to read people but also giving everyone a fair chance and trying to help everyone. Like you know someone is going to hurt you but you still give them a chance because you want to be proven wrong.
But you're usually always proven right.
@@zackfameree4474 Yes and then the cycle continues because you lose faith in humanity but the next person comes along and you’re like “okay they give the same vibe but everyone deserves a fair chance!” Like dammit 😂
...Does it mean I'm one if I could read my friend while playing...Roblox... And feel that people who do bad things on purpose may need attention and care...... Is it weird I could tell my friend was stressed without her actually purposefully showing signs in her text but just slightly less focused and different when it came to speech. Or that bullies really want to be that cool anime protag whos sarcastic psychopathic and brutal but don't realize there being mean.
Preach. I feel that every day.
@@who069 it’s based off of the Meyer Briggs test which is free to take online, you could be but you could also be a different combination of empath and other factors!
Me: *already knows I'm an INFJ*
Also me: *still watches because maybe the test lied to me*
Same🧍♀️
@Lazarsworld it's possible, but I match every bit and corner of the INFJ type so I'm not worried about them lying really. It's just trust issues are a part of who we are lmao. I should take the cognitive test though.
sAme
Same here. I even take the test every year😂
Haha same!
I finally found out my personality type! Thanks Psych2Go!
as an INFJ, im glad that i found my people heree (+ i feel called out)
I think the reason why "perfectionists but procrastinates" hits so close to home is because it's extremely rare for us to find something we actually truly care about--so in the few instances we do, we put our hearts and souls into it since it's one of the few opportunities when we're able to express who we are.
When you put your heart into something.
But people dont see the same value its just soul crushing
Yeah.
Glad someone else understands. So hard to find something I genuinely care about so I just coast through the days.
i once joined a soccer team (wiich trained for 4 years) and they just threw me to the others like im a professional, the coach always yelled at me until... on the third day, he told me not to go, i didnt, this is where my dream, to be as good as my friend has ended
Either overachieve or don’t do it at all
How is INFJ the rarest personality type and yet almost half of the people under every video like this are INFJs 😭😭✋✋✋
from 10 seconds of google search. i found world population is about 7.8 billion. so 2 percent of 7 billion = 140.000.000. this youtube only has 1.9 million views. cmiiw.
I mean, if it's a video about INFJs... people who know they're INFJs through the test will be the majority of people clicking.
@@HarryPotter-pi3km That was insanely rude. Everybody's special in their own way.
2% prozent is still 15.6million people
Infj's unite ✊
Your voice sounds calming
You know in my psychology class in 2014 I was an INFJ. Now I’m an INTP. You know what changed, I stopped focusing on the future and started living in the now (though I still think and plan for the future). I also stopped believing my life’s mission is to only help people. In 2020 I went on a spiritual journey to evolve lol. I learned to always put me first and still believe helping people is apart of my life mission. Not my life’s mission.
As an Infj, I hate the fact that I'm always there for everyone when they need me but when I need someone, I realized that I'm alone.
Same
Same, I have a small circle of 4 friends and I am always there for them. They like... don't realise that I really need and want help. But I don't want to ask because I am afraid that they will judge me or something. So I kind if try to hide it and just continue to make them feel better so there is at least someone who can be happy.
yes i can relate so much
So true
Humans are mostly unreliable
INFJ can never be in a 3 ppl friend group bc whenever you talk to one of the friends you worry that the 3rd person gets jealous so you end up always letting the other 2 become best friends but you’re a jealous person yourself
I feel attacked!!! hahah
As an INFJ that's in a trio, this is very true, so I tend to keep my interactions with them limited to avoid conflict. :')
T T
Well i was lmao i let them play games with each other and left them cuz they understand each other support each other so i feel left out, thats why i left i don’t want to get involved with them anymore lmao
I am in this situation 😒
just out of the random, alot of people think having some sort of unique feature such as being a rare personality like "at random times you will scream" or something, (example,) is something to stand out/feel special and some way, but please, dont change yourself. for me, i have this weird feature after a thrilling event, the excitement lingers for hours. and i shiver non stop. ill have horrible random energy bursts such as screaming or something and ive been told i sound mentally ill in this state. and let me tell you, not fun. i genuinely feel like something is horribly wrong with me and i should be isolated from people in this state in some way. it doesnt feel great to be different in the way i mean. faking disabilities is one of these ways people try to feel special. stay yourself. be your own person. your perfect the way you are.
Yes, people really need to stop fantacising mental dissabilites or neurodivergence. I am medically diagnosed with autism but the difference is i dont talk about it like its something special about me. Its normal.
Im not really sure if I'm an INFJ, but all of this is scarily relatable! :D
Everyone’s like “omg I wish I was an INFJ” but they don’t consider:
The fact that we are the worst when it comes to making decisions. Maybe it’s just me, but I am so freaking indecisive about everything
No same thing here
bro i literally flip coins to make decisions
PLS- WHY IS THIS TRUE FOR MEE 💀😭😭
YES EXACTLY PREACH
EXACTLY. I just see so many options that I can't decide which one is the best for me
Me as an INFJ: craving for deep connections and yet so private T.T
Lol relatable
Yup that's why I just shift
Reading this comment, yup sounds exactly like me. Does this mean I get minority status now?
@Arianna shifting is the act of moving your conscious to another reality that you want, you could go on adventures, see dead love one's in another reality, have that deep personal relationship that you always wanted and many more!
Same
Wow I actually relate pretty much all of the points exept the final part where you say that friends and family really care for me: I mean, the few people that I consider my friends seam to care more for their other friends and to my parents my brother is the perfect son with perfect marks ecc... I'm kinda stressed out for constantly thinking how people feel much worse than I do and at the same time I can't feel as happy as they look do. I need some rest from both others and my self.
"thats good but you need to go better"
OH MY GOD IM ALREADY DOING MY BEST
everyone: "omggg being an INFJ must be SO cool ur so rare lololol!!!'
literally every INFJ: **irritated silence**
Yes being a person like that is hard just care for others and be thankful
- coming from a INFJ girl
Sometimes we won't even tell others it's not cool because they think INFJ people are bragging.
YES!!
Trueeee😶
I feel like we often are the ones trying to help people but no one wants to return the favor so we end up burnt out often