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INFJ's, a living contradiction. - We value helping others, but we don't like asking others for help. - We are great listeners, but we don't think others will want to listen to us. - We want to make the world a better place, but prefer to stay home all day and keep our thoughts to ourselves. - We have wild imaginations and like to do stuff our way, but we need some structure and rules as well. - We like to be efficient and effective with our time, but we also like to read a long comment like this one.
1: INFJs always care. 2: Feeling lonely in a group. 3: Self- Sabotage (overthink things so much they ruin something happy) 4: Easily getting emotionally drained from others (being a therapist friend, etc.) 5: Rarely opening up or feeling as though you've revealed too much. 6: Inner guilt. (edit: Ty for the likes! I’m an INFJ btw
In this INFJ'S perspective,this video is for younger ones. The older you get the more you drop off, over thinking, under saying, guilt ridden feelings. The more you get to know yourself, the better you are at being accurate and dead on in the assessment of the situations you encounter daily.
Tbh I used to hate myself but not at all now, I love getting older lmao (it really benefits INxJ more than any other types imo, in terms of inner sanity and real self love)
Thank you, I think I am indeed an INFJ, I just started crying while watching this video because I could relate a lot to that feeling of inner guilt and feeling lonely and misunderstood, can you really relate to this? I'm not sure if I'm being weird
As an INFJ I still haven’t met someone who understands me. And usually us INFJs are trying so hard to find someone who understands us but being an introvert makes this harder. Edit: Wow, thank you guys for the support. My heart goes out to all of you. I never really comment at all but I’m glad I did. Edit 2: Hello; I’m back again 10 months later and have grown a ton emotionally. I am officially taking my passion to music to works right now. I’ve understood how much INFJ can be labeling, so you guys, don’t label yourselves as just INFJ, label yourselves more than that. It took me a few years to realize this as a young lad, and as you can see in the comments, so many people relate the same just like me and you. As much as we have in common as INJFs, don’t let that define who you are. Great thanks for the positivity in the comments, you don’t really get that in YoutTube comments that much.
@@tenkyuzz literally same, I agree with everything you said! I just want some to have deep conversations with and just talk about life, but I guess it's hard to find
Being an INFJ myself, I feel extremely thankful to have met my best friend who's an INFJ herself too. She has always been the only person who truly understands my feelings and thoughts whenever I explain something to her. We understand each other and know almost exactly how we can help each other. I truly hope that every INFJ out there can get to know another INFJ who can provide them with a sense of safety and reliability. I love you guys 🥰
I am an INFJ too and I have INFJ bestfriend and cousin that is also like my bestfriends. I have friends that are INFP and ISTP, I think there's also Exxx in my friends. I am happy that even though I feel like an outcast and other people see me as weird, but meeting these people really helped me feel understood, especially my best friend and my cousin. I hope too that every type have friends with the same mbti as them or understands them.
I'm an INFJ male and I've been hoping and praying that I come across another INFJ I can befriend and who knows maybe chance will have it that I also end up in a long term relationship with an INFJ female!
It's not as tiresome as you think. Though sometimes I wish I could just not think for a while like I could when I was a kid. Now a days I'm always looking at every problem in my life and trying to see it at every angle like it's some kind of puzzle to solve. Even the things I can't change sometimes which is an equivalent of hitting your head against a wall because there is no solution, just a desperate want for one.
"Feeling lonely in a group" is by far the most relatable one. And yes, this feeling exist. They're not fakeass emotions- we INFJs feel this maybe not on a daily basis, but had experienced this. It's so hard to explain why it's more alone whenever you're with your group of friends than being "alone". It's not insecurity nor the envious feeling that sums up why we feel lonely even if we're with our friends, but rather, there's something else. Something we can't explain, hence why we always feel lonely whenever there's a friend gathering. So we really appreciate it if you try to not misunderstood our lonely feeling as enviousness towards you. It's not that, we just feel lonely bc, that's like a default emotion we had to guard ourselves from further expectations.
Thats true and wrong in the same time because we dont feel lonely because we are introverts or feel lonely.We just set for higher goals and understand things better.We detect the wrongs and unfairness in a system or the world and we just dont like how the society works.So by being like this we don’t want to incorporate in a group where people go against the right flow as we think,and it just happens most people are like this and thats why we have trouble finding people with whom we feel at ease because we want people like us not in the sense to be actually like us (although it wouldn’t hurt to) ,but since we have too much potential and are trying constantly to improve and we are good at determining other people potential,we want to find people with high potential capacity and lets say 5 out of 100 can be like that so that’s why we feel lonely.We are also stubborn because we want only worthy people in order to try and open up and relax.Sorry if I went overboard but if this helps I would be happy!😅
I’m an INFJ - T, and I’m always overthinking and feel so guilty for little things that weren’t even in my control. I constantly overthink things that happened 4 -5 years ago, and this video I can relate to so much, it really shows our personality type deeper in a very distinct way
The fact that there are INFJ's who struggle with self-guilt, analysing every conversation that we had to see if we didnt speak the wrong thing (and many times overdoing it unknowingly), not wishing to burden people with our problems, having burnouts which greatly affect our work efficiency, and sometimes behaving so contradictorily that even we ourselves tend to get confused on what our actual personality is like, is so unbelievingly reassuring to me.
The over analyzing conversations after they already happened is like having a tribunal judging constantly everything we do. Did we say the correct thing? Did we seem nice or not nice enough? Maybe we forgot to say something? Why did I expressed only one point of view? Mmmm.
It's so interesting. While as an INFP I think that "For every bad things, there's always a good thing.". I think of a bad thing first before conforting myself with a positive outcome.
Feeling lonely in a group is something I’ve always struggled with, I love self reflecting and deeper thinking. This actually makes sense. I get so emotionally drained and I adopt those emotions all the time. Even if it’s music or a movie. I always thought it was strange so knowing it’s not 100% strange is actually comforting.
1) INFJ's always care 0:57 2) Feeling lonely in a group 1:33 3) Self sabotage 2:15 4) Easy to get emotionally drained by others 3:55 5) Rarely open up or feeling like you revealed too much 4:35 6) Inner guilt 5:18
Hey, everyone. I know some of you have been having horrific times, so I'm just here to tell you that you're loved. You all deserve the world, and I'm very glad to have you all here with us. You will always, always be valid, needed and incredible people. Please, don't forget to take care of yourselves today. I believe in you and hope your week has been amazing so far.
Fun fact: The character in the thumbnail, Xingqiu (He's a character from Genshin) is an INFJ too! Ayaka from Genshin impact is also an INFJ, which is honestly why she's still my favorite character
🥺So true I love both xingqiu and Ayaka. I don't have Ayaka but after her story quest I really really got connected to her because of the time I spent with her was so amazing, she's so elegant and I love her sm.
I've known with certainty that I'm an INFJ since childhood but the descriptors of caring, intuitive, prone to self-sabatoge, exhausting ly empathic, bound by inner guilt and apologetic are absolutely accurate and validating. Maybe being in the 1 percent of the population isn't so bad...
Anyone commenting on INFJs being rare but so many saying they're INFJ: 1) 1% is still 80,000,000 people in the world 2) they never said "1% of people interested in MBTI". The ratio of INFJs to other types watching this video is probably higher. 3) According to new data, INFJ is actually "only" the 3rd rarest type after ENFJ and ENTJ (with ENTJ being rarest). This data of rarity has always been debatable anyway, and like this video mentions, being rare is not necessarily a "good" thing. Being rare is likely to make you feel like You're the one who's broken since you can't seem to find your place.
Hello there, I noticed that you have mentioned 80,000,000 (eighty million) as world population but it is actually 8,000,000,000 (eight billion) and I am pretty sure that you were well aware of that . I guess it was a silly mistake lol, I just thought I'd let you know. Hope you have a nice day :)
The fact that you spelled every single trait of me made me actually cry. I never met single person who would understand how hard is for me to socialise trying to help others and still feeling lonely and overthinking my everysingle action over this 21 years of my life.
I’m an INFJ myself, but after the extreme burnout I’ve been experiencing I decided to go easy on myself and started to care for my well being, it’s a tough process- but it’s well worth it💕
Just from my experience, INFJs are old wise souls 😁 Some is extremely good at counseling and advising others, even older ones from an extraordinarily young age. They are very caring, understanding with a warm and giving heart. But they can be childlike in many ways, having the playfulness and simplicity of children 😋 It's really great to be their close friends ❤
Ugh, as an INFJ myself I sadly relate to the feeling lonely in a crowd. I went to a school club today and just felt disconnected from everyone else 😭. Trying to find others who understand is hard. Although I am an INFJ at heart, I’m only 51% introverted according to the MBTI test, which makes me feel like I’m all over the place socially. I’ve yet to find someone who truly gets how I feel, but I’m still searching!
As an INFJ, I’ve been dating an ENFP and it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve been in. ENFPs are so understanding of our need for space and independence yet still bring us out of our comfort zone to get us out of our heads and enjoy the moment. 👌
Let me share you a short story. On my birthday last October 8, my homie guy friend made a speech for me and he said, "You really understand me, not because you study Psychology, but because Sydney, you are an innately understanding person." Man, I bawled my eyes out. He, too, was crying when he said that. Having this personality makes me thank the Lord so much. I thank Him for giving me this capability to understand people and weigh things through, to put myself into their shoes and to exactly see through their own eyes, and to be able to comprehend why they felt a certain emotion. I thank God for making me this way.
We INFJ’s are kinda seen as a tool. People are like “hey can you help me?” And I jut can’t say no. But some people take advantage of that and it makes me mad. I’m in between INFP and INFJ
I Understand... Like i am the only artist in my class amd whenever we get any work related to drawing my classmates always ask me to draw it for them and i can't sayy no Like i myself don't what is my problem...
I’ve always felt like an outsider, even within my own family, and most comfortable in my own company. I’ve only in the last 10 years come to embrace it. I didn’t realize this was an actual personality type and I take comfort in knowing that there are others like me.
Being misunderstood sucks, that's been a recurring theme for this INFJ. Recently I met someone new, put myself out there and stated exactly what my intentions are. She didn't believe me, she thought I was telling her what she wanted to hear - so she missed out on a great dude when I told her to move along. Some of us genuinely have good intentions and it's painful when people don't believe you when you're being 100% authentic
If that's the case then it is all her own choice and her own loss. Remember to not put too much "focus" on things you can't control. I also found some girls on dating apps that I could have had a really strong connection or friendship but they decided to be ignorant or blind. INFJs require mature people who don't judge but listen and accept. We aren't compatible with immature, ignorant, judge mental-type. I recently learned to be okay with everyone rejecting me. It is their own loss.. what can I do? struggle to convince them? waste all my energy and time on girls who can't see who I am?
@@NicholasPR Well yeah but its a simpler way of saying that INFJs are usually more focussed on other people and learning about them (probably that extraverted feeling) and thus dont usually talk to people much about themselves so therefore they just don't get understood at all, while INFPs are more misunderstood because they tend to talk about themselves a lot and know themselves very well, but in talking about themselves a lot tend to get people mixed up and end up being misunderstood. There is a difference, but its pretty slight so you definitely can look at it either way
I don’t think I have INFJ but I relate to being lonely in a group. I always see others talking to eachother, I don’t feel sad, but I just feel “by myself.” In my life, I am considered the “sensitive and over dramatic” person. I always try to help others but when I don’t I start beating myself up about it. LITERALLY. I am also super indecisive. This channel is amazing because the art is so cute, and I get to think and learn about how I am feeling.
As an INFJ, I always felt like I wasn't understood by others, and this video was full of sentences that understood me from beginning to end. Thank you very much (special information: written with tears in mind)
Everyone is like ''trying'' to be the most rare personality. And then there's me who is trying to NOT be the rarest personality as it is. Rare doesn't mean that is something good only AAA
that reminds me as a shy person, or maybe im not shy and i’m just a nervous person, but, no, being shy is not cute, it feels like a social disability/hyp? i honestly don’t think i’m an infj, my friend thinks i am one though, i’m more of an infp, atleast looking at the definitions of each word, but my friend says i act like an infj, so i don’t really know, especially because they get confused so easily.
You cant try to be something you're not. It just won't work. You'll have internal guilt monologues and ask yourself why you're doing this when the world will most probably accept you for who you are anyways... But who's talking? Definitely me getting bored of almost every single INFJ overrated video on the internet extolling our values, even if we aren't the rarest personality type( I never cared about that anyways). Like, stop it, I don't want to be overrated! But this one is good because it tackles a variety of problems I can have :)
I see a lot of INFJs fixating on the negative aspects of this personality, but I feel that the incredible abilities and harmony you bring to the world are even more powerful. Stay strong, friends. You can do incredible things.
THIS OMFG. dude the first time I read the whole thing about my infj personality, the FIRST THING I said was : “this isn’t really that accurate..the only things I agree with are the weaknesses.”
My crippling guilt had ruined relationships with Manny people I care deeply, hurting them in doing so So what that you can help strangers if you even hurt the people you care about what is the point
@@spankiespank4573 You can't help people much if you need the help you're giving. It's ok, you don't need to help people to deserve to be here. You're amazing enough already :) When you're in a better mental state, that's when you can help the damaged
As an INFJ I'm always screaming in the inside while smiling on the outside. Or put on headphones and listen to music to drown my emotions so no one else sees them. I don't trust anyone with my emotions because it makes me vulnerable. And my thoughts...well only my diary knows about them. If I we're a super hero, I'd be batman lol...well batwoman.
Everything is me. I took the MBTI 16 personality types test 3 months ago, and my result came out as an INFJ. Ever since, I have constantly been watching videos to try and find out more information about my personality type. This video is the closest to what I am as a INFJ and everything is pretty spot on. Especially the over thinking things I have said in the past. Like after I say something I start getting deeper into thought and then I find a better way I could have said what I said. Leading me to feel guilty, some things I start to think about happened years ago and than all the sudden I feel guilty for it. Another thing is that when I hangout in a crowd of people I do feel lonlier than I would be by myself. I tend to sympathize with people to much to a point where it does emotionally drain me. Everyone comes to me when they are going through something hard but it seems that people don't understand that even thought I have sympathy for them, it's a lot for me to handle. I put my needs off for to long, and others don't seem to understand my needs or my train of thought. I let other people choose what we should do because I am afraid that they would hate what I want to do. Even though what my friends want me to do, is something I don't want to do, its just that I don't want to disappoint them. All in all, INFJ'S understand everyone else, but no one understands us and we don't understand ourselves. One of the things that sucks the most about an INFJ.
I like how this comment section are full of genuine people. In other videos, some people are claiming to be an INFJ just because it was the rarest (now, no. 14 based on myers-briggs company research as of 2018). If only others knew how hard it is to be an INFJ. The struggle is real. It's hard to feel misunderstood most of the time. When you really care for others but they think you're too good to be true.
love to all INFJs out there. I hope you find someone with a complex enough mind to understand you and make you feel appreciated and loved for who you are.
I feel like crying right now and not from sadness but from the fact someone actually gets me and they have never even met me. This whole video hit so close it invoked some serious emotion. I feel like I could be on Mars most days bc I feel so out of place. Thank you for this video it means more than one could know
I'm an INFJ myself, it's crazy how accurate all these signs were. Thank you for explaining a bit more though, I tend to confuse myself with what I'm feeling. 💙
I'm such a INFJ. What I have found helpful is self love. I'm the only one who can truly care for myself, and I make an effort to occasionally endulge myself to spa treatments, or binge watch a serie. I let my introverted side come out to take care of me. I do enjoy my partner and we have a great relationchip (culd not have found a more caring man) But we are both carers and we have to let eacother to be carers. Neither one of us would be happy if we weren't allowed to live according to each others personality. We know we have each others backs when needed.
Lol same here i'm an INFJ too, no one will ever care about me the way I can for myself, even as a guy I've realised the importance of self care, even doing something like getting a massage, getting pedicures, and spoiling myself helps regulate me, and brings out the best in me.
- Watched this to have a better grasp of your own personality - Understood it really well that you resonated with every points that are related to you - Still drowning in your pit of self-criticsm thoughts and reluctant to open up..
I did not even know of these personality types until a couple of years ago. Out of curiosity I did a couple of online tests and while instinctively I do not fully trust such things I was surprised with how the traits of an INFJ just kind of seemed normal to me. It wasn’t until I paid more attention to those traits that I realised just how much of an impact they have had on my life, sadly to the point where they have really played a big part in how I lived my life and quite frankly shaped me into a person I am. Unfortunately, that has continually resulted in a failure to really connect with someone and do the ‘normal’ things like settling down and having a family. I have a house, a nice car a steady job and seemingly should be happy, but ultimately I feel a little cheated by life and am basically lonely with no real sense of belonging to anything and have pretty much lost any motivation in trying to do so anymore. I am pretty sure many of you may relate to that. Don’t get me wrong I love my family and a few close friends, but despite wanting to help and please others I don’t really like people on the whole. I think that is largely because I typically always feel like an outsider in most situations. I really shy away from social gatherings or events because I feel really uncomfortable and out of place, ultimately so,e thing that should be enjoyable becomes a stressful situation to endure. I am sure most people must find it quite difficult to comprehend a feeling of loneliness in a crowded room! Being so naturally intuitive can be useful, you can often be way ahead of everyone around you in really quickly analysing a situation or problem and come up with a number of possible solutions or outcomes before anyone around you has even really grasped the problem. I also find it a bit of a curse too - you can never really switch it off so you often find your mind going into overdrive with too many possible solutions to a point where it can be difficult to choose one and run with it, too much second guessing yourself. It might seem quite nice to be a rare personality type, but ultimately being an INFJ can be quite isolating, if I had the choice I’m not sure I would continue being one….
Sometimes, things just be the way they are, but never lose hope! This is all you need. Trust your life, and carry on. I understand how it feels like a curse. Being rare also makes it hard to find someone like yourself. It's just....you cannot find people who understand you....they might say they are this, they are that, but they are something else in reality. Everyone has hidden secrets but INFJs have the most because they don't talk and try to keep talks at bay, and just keeping everything stored in your mind..... locking up your words......Not being able to say what you want to.....hiding that you are not okay......when you say that you're okay, in reality, you're not. The true INFJs only has pain in life. They find it awfully hard to have fun. Even laughs are rare, and you just try to become an invisible shadow in a room of crowd of people, just because you're scared to do something, because you think it might hurt someone, in just some way.
I get you as well and feel many of the same things you noted, and even though it is hard, I would still walk this life because of the many ways we are able to uniquely help others or be there to "say or do exactly what needs to be said or done" to help others that no one has been able to manage. That is the very best complement I've received (many times by many people) from loved ones and strangers alike when I am brave enough to put myself out there.
I can relate to so much of this, especially shying away from social gatherings. I wouldn't say I want to change myself, however, even despite the crap I've endured. It's who I am, everyone's personalities are different. I think I had my facebook penpal suddenly turn me down after 7 years because of my INFJ traits. Crazy huh?
I understand where you are. Keep pushing. You have to break through your own mental barriers. It takes persistence in confidence and strength. I cannot explain it, but as you mature it will become easier to break through these barriers and you will feel a lot more at ease with life and yourself. I also recommend to self-reflect on past circumstances and what lessons you can learn from the decisions you made, and apply them next time. Give it time friend. We all make the same journey, some have just walked it sooner than others. You are on the right path. Shed your cocoon and grow into the marvelous butterfly.
As an INFP, I can relate to these too, though I've learnt a few things throughout the years, like opening a bit more, being able to care for myself and that people who are close to me are actually interested in what I say.
@@Venice_HayamiXx Intp here, I also find it relatable. Younger me would totally relate to the traits of an infj. As I grew up, I've learned and unlearned many things..
My personal INFJ Struggles: 1. It seems like I'm good at finding someone in need, or that it's hard for me to say no to requests. Saying no and the person will feel disappointed, saying yes and the person will make more and more requests. But it doesn't feel like I have any option but to accept, so I avoid answering at all. OUR REAL WEAKNESS are those opportunistic, pushy, and overly dramatic persons. 2. Although it seems that it's easier for me to understand the presence of my surroundings, I find it's REALLY HARD for people, even the closest one to me, to really understand me. Hence, I just keep it, till it's full. Then I run away somewhere, leaving all possible contacts behind and lost in my thoughts to heal. I FIND IT'S PEACEFUL to be in a crowded place, but no one recognizes me. 3. I kand of having a different opinion on being perfectionistic. I know that nobody's perfect and everyone will do mistakes at times and that's okay. But all I know is that when I choose a path to live, I will do the best I could and be fully responsible for the choice I made. I will go till the end line and will try my best not to stop midways.
@@5-starmichelin760 it's like self sabotaging. I set high expectation for myself, but I never set high to other people, because I understand that I can't expect anything out of them LOL
@@asmimondal944 ikr. It's just really hard to express our thoughts (which are full of layers and knots) in a way that people understand. Again, for me, I don't want to bother others with my problems, especially if I can find the solution myself. Then, it'll be painful if you tell your problems to people but no matter how hard you try, they don't understand.
🌌Timestamps🌌 1. 0:54 INFJS always care° 2. 1:32 Feeling lonely in a group° 3. 2:14 Self-sabotage 4. 3:55 Easy to get emotionally drained by others° 5. 4:34 Rarely opening up or feeling like you revealed too much° 6. 5:21 Inner guilt° 🌌have a great day/night, and happy late, or early birthday to my fellow Libras 🌌
So scary how accurate this is. I thought that I was alone in most of these things that I feel (which I’ve been calling issues in my head), but now I realize I’m not alone. It’s also so surprising to think that only 1% of the population is also an INFJ, and that our personality type really is THAT rare. Thank you so much. I can see things clearer now.
52 yo INFJ here. I think I'm finally beginning to understand just how important healthy boundaries are for me. I honestly don't think I would have had nearly so many problems in life if I had learned to stand up and think for myself sooner.
Still in denial that I am an INFJ but every article, every video I read or watch about INFJs is friggin relatable on so many levels. It's like the narrator is narrating my everyday life. I've been denying it because I feel more lonely, knowing that I am part of the 1% and it makes me feel more left out. Like I'll go through adulthood knowing that only a few can understand who I am
Same here! When doing the personality tests, I either get ISFJ or INFJ; I’ve been getting into MBTIs quite a bit, and it’s so cool and amazing. I thought I was an ISFJ, and relate to both, ISFJ on some things, and INFJs on others. But after watching this video, it’s making me rethink lots of things
As you get older, (closer to your 40’s) you learn to put up boundaries and are more comfortable saying no! Getting older defiantly has its advantages.😊
I hate being infj bc I’m a guy so it’s like 3x weird. Like not having any male friends I can hug or show affection for sucks. And with girls if I show affection it’s usually perceived as creepy so like m :,)
Having instant change of mood seeing someone at the grave is so relatable. Understanding others makes me shut down myself from expressing or revealing things about myself, not only because I think everyone has enough on their plate to deal with but also because it makes me overthink and make assumptions. Should I have said/done something better? What do they think? Did I reveal too much? Should I have put it in a different way? These type of thoughts are so disturbing that I feel like not expressing is a solution to avoid these thoughts. Then I make excuses like for my guilt. It's extremely draining, sometimes I wish I could not care about things or people.
I couldn't agree more with being alone in a group and rarely opening up myself with other people. Haha. I have my journal with me always, and I somehow make it as my, you know, companion. I share my thoughts to it, tell stories, and enumerate how my day went through, to that journal. It's because some people don't understand my sentiments and I might as well jot my musings all down in my beloved journal. I can live with my journal, my art materials, my books, and my guitar, let alone a social media-less phone. :)
hii i wanna ask u something, considering that u do journal i wanted to ask u how did u bring urself to start writing it? i've been wanting to journal for so long so that i can just put my thoughts out on paper which would feel nice knowing that i don't share it w anyone else but it just feels so hard writing down something as simple as 'how my day went' i rly cannot bring myself to do it :( i just want to get over w this obstacle that i have so i can journal and feel at peace.
@@javeria6822 Hi! I started journaling last year when I started to withdraw from my phone because of a major situation that I went through. Basically, I had no gadget that time (it had to be that way for me to better heal and focus myself on the more important things like my relationship with the Lord). Only my books and my journal were my "friends" for months, and that was how I brought myself to writing / journaling. I just poured whatever I was feeling and was honest with it, and in that way, I became more honest with myself. Writing helped me to track my thoughts and my progress better, rather than letting my thoughts pass day by day. Even now, I am still doing it. Also, I do it because it'll be fun to read your sentiments and thoughts years after writing it :) For you to write better on your journal, I suggest you to lessen your screen time so that you'll be more attentive to your thoughts. And take time to listen and process to what you have in mind. Hope this helps you, and God bless on your journaling!
@@javeria6822 no worries, dear! And if you have questions about journaling, or in any matters as well, just comment here in this thread and i'll be so happy to help you! God bless you again in your journaling! 🌻
2:04 - 2:14 that's by far the most relatable thing I've heard as an infj and being able to hear that was very comforting. I can never explain what goes on in my head, I can't even put it into words. I've tried looking for other ways to express and explain it but never found one. I just want someone to understand.
Great video, I'm an INFJ, and I self sabotage, a LOT !!!!! and I have an extremely hard time getting over certain things, I dwell, and obsess over them, for hours, sometimes days, it's hard letting go of things, thank you for this video 💯🙏🏼❤️
I feel like this video is legit just me in life, especially the part about never opening up, like- I know so much about so many people's lives, but the only person who even knows what I was like more than 2 years ago is my girlfriend... And well, she knows everything, because as was said in the video, I started talking about how my life was, and didn't stop, then felt shitty about it because she was sad for me and I really don't want her to be sad
Hi carter, I relate at how you feel, it feels lonely and having hard time making social interactions.... Through my school years I feel like outsider or probably worse, I grow up with depression and anxiety.... Try to put yourself out there carter, people probably gonna reject you, but there are other people who want to befriend with you, I make mistake for not ever trying to put myself out back then Don't give up, people gonna like you as who you are
I swear... It's this loneliness and guilt that drove me to suicide Not being able to relate to anyone, always feeling like a burden, pushing past limits to help others then feeling incredibly drained to the point of wanting to hibernate for an entire month just feels so... Horrible
@@prosamis Hi there. Please seek out a therapist to help you with your suicidal thoughts. Therapists can be extremely helpful. Also, remember that God loves you and wants a relationship with you. I also feel really lonely, but even if others around me never can understand me, I know that God understands me better than I understand myself. And the same is true for you. God knows you better than you do. He's always ready to listen to what you have to say. Please seek out a nearby church that teaches about Jesus Christ being the only way to salvation and read the Bible book called John. When you're on God's side, you have access to God's resources of strength. And I know I need His strength! If you'd like more info, please let me know! I'm praying for you.
@@Cassie-xx5fb I appreciate the message❤ I have been trying therapy for a while but to no avail, therapists drain me more than they help I am confident I can stop myself from committing suicide no matter how horrible things get (hopefully I don't reach that point to begin with), I've went through several dark periods in my life, all of which I was pushed so close to the edge, but I still managed to hold on God has blessed me with many a miracle for me to be alive right now, and that's a pillar I cling onto everytime I get suicidal thoughts
There's always a time that I can no longer carry the burden in me and went out to my friend to rant about it and they understand me and started to relate their stories to me, giving some examples about their life and then I ended up symphatizing with them and giving them advices until I realize I was the one who is already comforting them instead me being comforted. And then I said to my self "okay, it's okay it's better to be a greater person. I can divert my problems into other's problems. It's better to advise than receiving advice". It makes me feel good when helping and makes me forget my problem. I often tend to overshare when I share but sometimes too lazy to do so. The point is I can compromise always for other people.
Why is everything spot on? 😭 Finding my personality type is a kind of relieving feeling. It's like finally getting a explanation to why I am this way. We strive to be perfect but our efforts and thoughts go unnoticed many a times. These personality type videos feel like someone is noticing every detail of you and appreciating. This is a good feeling especially when there's a need for reassurance and longing for someone to look into your soul.
I have an INFJ friend I’ve known for 10 years (we’ve talked off and on) and just barely this last year I’ve finally come around to understand her and how she works (I’m an ESFJ). I think it just took me learning a lot of patience because it’s very hard to understand an INFJ, in my experience, at least.
Just one little thing you forgot - INFJs and ISFJs are pretty similar, even tho by far not the same. So I, an ISFJ, live with the things you've mentioned in this video. (which was super great by the way)
I would like to thank the creator/s of this channel. As an INFJ, I used to think that I am different in a negative way. But this channel help me embraced my uniqueness. I now understand myself better and love myself more. Thank you!
My breath was completely taken away by the time you got to all the points... I - I feel like you described all my feelings and thoughts better than I could ever express it myself. I am and INFJ and this was scary accurate, but in the best way, because now I can reflect on each of them! Thank you so so much for this, and the quality you always bring to us! I prefer to be alone, yes, because even if I don't understand myfelf, I understand myself better than anyone could understand me. This probably also boilds down to not opening up to anyone...And the overthinking, inner guilt... This video came to me the best time, I reaallly needed this, thank you again
To be honest, this video described my high school life pretty accurately. I have grown out of taking things too personally since then. I wasn't even too embarrassed when I was de-pantsed in gym class, I calmly pulled up my pants and continued on. Not caring what others think of me has helped a lot.
It’s scary how spot on this is! Just watching this video put so many things in my life into perspective (never wanting to be late, always waiting for someone to ask me to do something first, being god awful at opening up or displaying emotions, then spilling everything when given the chance, always feel like I’m bothering someone etc).
as a INFJ i can easily relate on how people take advantage of our helping nature, im only 19 and i definitely know if i keep this up and not say 'no,im sorry ' , i will have to sacrifice a lot of things in future. i now do turn down things that i think they themselves can do but still , that makes me guilty . still sometimes i end up helping too...
100% relate and yes, I do help my friends and others a lot and even sacrifice my time for them, I have thoughts of guilt and prefer to be alone to reflect my life and choices, and lastly I have my own feelings bottled up inside whenever I talk to others about it. Like when I have feel sad or miserable or afraid.
I didn’t feel like being targeted so hard, thank you for sharing this! It really helped me feel I’m not alone. Sending you good vibes to all the INFJs out there!🌻
I had started to doubt myself to be an INFJ anymore or not... And this video brought me back. I am an INFJ. Thank you so much, for always being there for us, giving us support and helping us realize ourselves for the better. Really, thanks a lot!! ❤️♥️
Can you please do videos on other types? All personality type videos are on INFJ's just cause they are the rarest type it seems (even though they aren't even close to being the rarest type anymore. They take up 2-3% of the population. NOT 1%.). I'd love videos on other types, such as my type the INTJ. But I still wouldn't want much on those, cause I feel like the INTJ is another of the more common ones for videos cause we are also very rare, and strange to say the least.
I agree. Every mbti videos are about INFJ. I don't know right now what personality type I am, my mind is confused. But for other types it is sad. I have an INFJ friend (maybe me too, I am not sure right know) and she has such a beutiful heart. But not just INFJ have it. Please make videos for other types too if you make video about INFJ. That's just a request. Please don't understand it other way, and if I made mistake in language sorry cause my English is a little. I tried to be kind as I can, sometimes language isn't enough for this😅.
I could relate to a lot of these, especially the inner guilt. I even stopped talking to my friends group for months because I thought i was being annoying or talked way too much.
Before, I hated myself that Im an INFJ. I tried to change myself, but I only ended having so much psychological stress. I occasionally have panic attacks.
I really feel the being overwhelmed by other people's emotions one. Especially when I'm already feeling anxious/moody. It's like sensory overload except with the emotional energy in the room. And at home, I have to make sure the people around me are okay or I won't be. It's exhausting sometimes
1 : used to but now I'm overly selfish . But still when it's a person I love I end up doing too much for them. 2 . I'm used to it, for this I have to be more clear and assertive, takes a lot of time . But I don't wanna be understood ,someone trying to understand me is enough for me. 3. Holy shi , that's so relatable . For this I just think if I'm harming anyone by achieving something, and if I'm not then I'm good to go. 4. I get sad easily when someone else is sad but it's hard to be happy when someone else is happy . I try and turn off my brain . Because I want people to feel better but I'm always drained or in a blank phase. 5. Yeah I don't wanna budern people , I wanna say it all but I don't want them to be worried about me, I just want them to give me an advice of they could . 6 : Again I don't wanna hurt others whilst getting what I want . Just because I say this doesn't mean I'm a good person , I have hurt others when I couldn't keep my calm .
This is so relatable. Everything about this video was so accurate. I love the MBTI system because it helps me to understand who I am and why I am like this
I'm an INFJ boy, this is really relatable in my life. It's really hard to be an open person, even my parents told me to be an open person. But i just can't... i found my self really hard to believe others people, because i think they will never understand me. And i'm scared they will think that i'm weird. But, i really get comfortable to being an open person in social media, idk why. Anyway, keep healthy guys. your health is so priceless!
Maybe not open but try to be more direct with others. I dated an INFJ woman as an ENTJ man myself. Everything was working fine but she would rarely communicate her desires and she broke up with me after saying she likes me a lot without telling me why.
I’ve watched many of your videos on INFJ’s and I’ve always seemed to relate to the different traits you have presented, and even writing this now I can feel myself questioning it. Thank you so much for all that you do, I likely would have never really understood why I do all of these things if it weren’t for you guys and I wish you all a merry Christmas
These videos really helped me opening up, and make me feel so much more understood. I only know one other person who‘s an INFJ, but still is he a long distance friend. I really saw my own reflections in those situations, and they made me know, that all INFJ‘s out there are having the same kind of feelings, and that I’m not alone. Thanks
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I want to feel safe, and I want them to speak freely and not judge. I’ve always dealt with judgey people in my life.
Thx for this video! I really need to know what I'm like cause I don't know it myself...
Intelligence, wiseness, compassion.
Very cute animation ❤️
INFJ's, a living contradiction.
- We value helping others, but we don't like asking others for help.
- We are great listeners, but we don't think others will want to listen to us.
- We want to make the world a better place, but prefer to stay home all day and keep our thoughts to ourselves.
- We have wild imaginations and like to do stuff our way, but we need some structure and rules as well.
- We like to be efficient and effective with our time, but we also like to read a long comment like this one.
Fully matching habits. 🤘
So true
Facts 💯
Sum up real gud. Thanks bruh
I 100% agree
Every INFJ agrees that we understand people more than we understand ourselves
Yeah, but I don’t understand this person above me
True haha
Relatable
Indeed
Preach 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
"I don't care about people."
**5 minutes later proceed to feel guilty and cares about people**
Haha. 🥲😥 Sometimes I just want to stop feeling so much.
Yup. Sometimes it sucks.
😂 yes
@@mcmike4144 Sometimes it sucks but It also comes to mind that if I'm not overthinking , Is it actually me? As this generally feels normal.
See the both side : "I care about people" 5 minutes later, feel guilty too.
1: INFJs always care.
2: Feeling lonely in a group.
3: Self- Sabotage (overthink things so much they ruin something happy)
4: Easily getting emotionally drained from others
(being a therapist friend, etc.)
5: Rarely opening up or feeling as though you've revealed too much.
6: Inner guilt.
(edit: Ty for the likes! I’m an INFJ btw
my best friend is an INFJ :,)
Also, you can’t type by letters- Like what she did in the video
Cognitive functions
Last time i took the Meyers briggs i came out as INFP... but i relate to 5/6 of these
INFP but still can relate
infp too but can relate
Allat shit over wit
*Do you feel lonelier when you're with other people than being by yourself?*
SOMEONE FINALLY UNDERSTANDS 😭
EXACTLY
lol its awkward situation and how hard try i cant used to it.
It has come to the point where i romanticize friend groups because I know I can't function when i'm in one
I feel you
yes when every single nice girl is alrleady taken and a TON of single males and only 5% single females how to comptete with that!
"infj's make up only 1% of the population"
almost everyone under a mbti related video: 'as an infj, i wholeheartedly agree'
Actually they take up 2-3% of the population but ok lol
Edit: wait, I'm pretty sure it's 3-4% now
Hilariously accurate, sadly the reason why its rarer than other types because its the most common type to be misinterpreted as
we are actually very drawn to learning about personality and psychology due to not being understood throughout our lives
-infj
And this whole time I thought it was autism
Well news flash! We ain't the rarest anymore!
I used to be a fan, but after watching this masterpiece, I'm a whole air conditioner
You had me for a second there. 😂
I'm gonna use that if you don't mind.
Good one
Love it!
😂😂😂😂
😆😆
In this INFJ'S perspective,this video is for younger ones. The older you get the more you drop off, over thinking, under saying, guilt ridden feelings. The more you get to know yourself, the better you are at being accurate and dead on in the assessment of the situations you encounter daily.
true I have decreased my habit of helping every single person in my life and I am 15 ....and tbh it was quite refreshing
and still is
Tbh I used to hate myself but not at all now, I love getting older lmao (it really benefits INxJ more than any other types imo, in terms of inner sanity and real self love)
I think it's safe to say I'm one of the people you considered "younger ones" and honestly, I hope your right. Thanks for the small hope.
I was wondering why I have gotten INFJ multiple times and this didn’t really describe me
I feel bad for myself and all the other INFJ’s out there, here’s a message to all of you guys : keep pushing forward and smile:)
I felt bad too 😔 but thank you
I am done
Thx man I really needed it
Thank you, I think I am indeed an INFJ, I just started crying while watching this video because I could relate a lot to that feeling of inner guilt and feeling lonely and misunderstood, can you really relate to this? I'm not sure if I'm being weird
@@worldofelegance15 Yed everything is so relatable from this video
It's low-key scary how these psychology studies can read me like a book...
yioo man ikr it like revealing all your inside..
Even the animation is life accurate...
ikr ! It's almost as if they know me better than myself because I suck at putting things into words:'(
actually though
Meanwhile I can barely focus long enough to finish reading a book lol
As an INFJ I still haven’t met someone who understands me. And usually us INFJs are trying so hard to find someone who understands us but being an introvert makes this harder.
Edit: Wow, thank you guys for the support. My heart goes out to all of you. I never really comment at all but I’m glad I did.
Edit 2: Hello; I’m back again 10 months later and have grown a ton emotionally. I am officially taking my passion to music to works right now. I’ve understood how much INFJ can be labeling, so you guys, don’t label yourselves as just INFJ, label yourselves more than that. It took me a few years to realize this as a young lad, and as you can see in the comments, so many people relate the same just like me and you. As much as we have in common as INJFs, don’t let that define who you are.
Great thanks for the positivity in the comments, you don’t really get that in YoutTube comments that much.
Yeah, same...😔😔
You said it.
I've given up trying to find someone who understand me. Because I think there will never be one who completely understands me. And that is ok.
Sameeee, sometimes I always wonder why no one seems to relate deep personality of me then I realize I never tell them or show them
@@tenkyuzz literally same, I agree with everything you said! I just want some to have deep conversations with and just talk about life, but I guess it's hard to find
Being an INFJ myself, I feel extremely thankful to have met my best friend who's an INFJ herself too. She has always been the only person who truly understands my feelings and thoughts whenever I explain something to her. We understand each other and know almost exactly how we can help each other. I truly hope that every INFJ out there can get to know another INFJ who can provide them with a sense of safety and reliability. I love you guys 🥰
I am an INFJ too and I have INFJ bestfriend and cousin that is also like my bestfriends. I have friends that are INFP and ISTP, I think there's also Exxx in my friends. I am happy that even though I feel like an outcast and other people see me as weird, but meeting these people really helped me feel understood, especially my best friend and my cousin. I hope too that every type have friends with the same mbti as them or understands them.
I'm an INFJ male and I've been hoping and praying that I come across another INFJ I can befriend and who knows maybe chance will have it that I also end up in a long term relationship with an INFJ female!
1% chance tho
I feel you're so lucky to find another infj who can see through you and understand you very well.
I had an INFJ friend but we end up arguing and decided to stop the friendship. Edit: I'm INFJ too
I'm so glad my grandma is a INFJ too because she is the only one who really understands me
Your grandma is very precious
Always respect your elders
Same but mine passed away 😔
The type who understands others very well, but is never understood by others in return
My parent is an INFJ although she doesn't believe in typology and MBTI but yeah we get along but not always.
It must be difficult being an INFJ. No wonder INFJ's get so exhausted with all those thought in their heads. I have great respect for them.
It's not as tiresome as you think. Though sometimes I wish I could just not think for a while like I could when I was a kid. Now a days I'm always looking at every problem in my life and trying to see it at every angle like it's some kind of puzzle to solve. Even the things I can't change sometimes which is an equivalent of hitting your head against a wall because there is no solution, just a desperate want for one.
It is exhausting.
It can be exhausting atimes
Don't respect me just because I'm INFJ
I didn't do anything to gain your respect
im an INFJ AND OUR LIVES ARE STRESSFUL AF 😓
"Feeling lonely in a group" is by far the most relatable one. And yes, this feeling exist. They're not fakeass emotions- we INFJs feel this maybe not on a daily basis, but had experienced this. It's so hard to explain why it's more alone whenever you're with your group of friends than being "alone". It's not insecurity nor the envious feeling that sums up why we feel lonely even if we're with our friends, but rather, there's something else. Something we can't explain, hence why we always feel lonely whenever there's a friend gathering. So we really appreciate it if you try to not misunderstood our lonely feeling as enviousness towards you. It's not that, we just feel lonely bc, that's like a default emotion we had to guard ourselves from further expectations.
couldn't have said better :)
Unless you're around people who are very similar to you.
Go to a buffet and there is nothing to eat. Starving. Thats how I feel.
Thats true and wrong in the same time because we dont feel lonely because we are introverts or feel lonely.We just set for higher goals and understand things better.We detect the wrongs and unfairness in a system or the world and we just dont like how the society works.So by being like this we don’t want to incorporate in a group where people go against the right flow as we think,and it just happens most people are like this and thats why we have trouble finding people with whom we feel at ease because we want people like us not in the sense to be actually like us (although it wouldn’t hurt to) ,but since we have too much potential and are trying constantly to improve and we are good at determining other people potential,we want to find people with high potential capacity and lets say 5 out of 100 can be like that so that’s why we feel lonely.We are also stubborn because we want only worthy people in order to try and open up and relax.Sorry if I went overboard but if this helps I would be happy!😅
@@Alenivation wow! its a very nice comment!
I’m an INFJ - T, and I’m always overthinking and feel so guilty for little things that weren’t even in my control. I constantly overthink things that happened 4 -5 years ago, and this video I can relate to so much, it really shows our personality type deeper in a very distinct way
Can relate strongly with that, INFJ-T here too lol.
Me too
I'm a T as well!!
same here, cant agree more, im a T too
Me tooo!!
The fact that there are INFJ's who struggle with self-guilt, analysing every conversation that we had to see if we didnt speak the wrong thing (and many times overdoing it unknowingly), not wishing to burden people with our problems, having burnouts which greatly affect our work efficiency, and sometimes behaving so contradictorily that even we ourselves tend to get confused on what our actual personality is like, is so unbelievingly reassuring to me.
Yes 😢
The over analyzing conversations after they already happened is like having a tribunal judging constantly everything we do. Did we say the correct thing? Did we seem nice or not nice enough? Maybe we forgot to say something? Why did I expressed only one point of view? Mmmm.
i feel so understood right now ;-;
Wow. I thought that was just me.
It's even worse when you're an INFJ with speech impediment
I’m not even an INFJ but the fact that they included Xingqiu is everything
Xingqiu
Same
Ikrrr
same
Yep
“For every good thing, there should be something bad.” My mindset 24/7
Yep. I'm always waiting for the bad
It's so interesting. While as an INFP I think that "For every bad things, there's always a good thing.".
I think of a bad thing first before conforting myself with a positive outcome.
Well, if something seems too good to be true, it probably is
Frogger has nothing bad in it
Therefore your opinion is invalid
Same goes to "If something good happens, something else must be sacrificed to balance everything"
Feeling lonely in a group is something I’ve always struggled with, I love self reflecting and deeper thinking. This actually makes sense. I get so emotionally drained and I adopt those emotions all the time. Even if it’s music or a movie. I always thought it was strange so knowing it’s not 100% strange is actually comforting.
1) INFJ's always care 0:57
2) Feeling lonely in a group 1:33
3) Self sabotage 2:15
4) Easy to get emotionally drained by others 3:55
5) Rarely open up or feeling like you revealed too much 4:35
6) Inner guilt 5:18
I'm all those
Its weird how im all those but I still don't want to belive I'm an infj
I can Relate here but i am INFP ....lol
1, 2, 4, 5, 6
Same. But I'm an INFP
Hey, everyone. I know some of you have been having horrific times, so I'm just here to tell you that you're loved. You all deserve the world, and I'm very glad to have you all here with us. You will always, always be valid, needed and incredible people. Please, don't forget to take care of yourselves today. I believe in you and hope your week has been amazing so far.
thanks
Ok, am I the only one who hates these types of comments? Just me? Ok
I needed to hear these kind words today ♥️
ik i should appreciate this comment but i just feel so disconnected
@@kristun216 same tho. These comments are so annoying
Fun fact:
The character in the thumbnail, Xingqiu (He's a character from Genshin) is an INFJ too!
Ayaka from Genshin impact is also an INFJ, which is honestly why she's still my favorite character
Wth I'm an infj and I happen to main them both. Is this a coincidence?!
I'm a INFJ..Now I want Ayaka 🙂
🥺So true I love both xingqiu and Ayaka.
I don't have Ayaka but after her story quest I really really got connected to her because of the time I spent with her was so amazing, she's so elegant and I love her sm.
im an infj and i have ayaka in my team
@@hamazing913 i think not !!
I've known with certainty that I'm an INFJ since childhood but the descriptors of caring, intuitive, prone to self-sabatoge, exhausting ly empathic, bound by inner guilt and apologetic are absolutely accurate and validating.
Maybe being in the 1 percent of the population isn't so bad...
Xingqiu is an INFJ. I love the genshin artwork :)
THANKS :D
@@Psych2go i always enjoy your videos and for this one I can relate to all of the things since I’m an INFJ 😅
same and the was another genshin impact character who was an INFJ
I thought he was intj but OH WHO CARES I STILL LOVE AND MAIN HIM
@@sagemaster1357 kamisato ayaka is also INFJ if I’m not mistaken
Anyone commenting on INFJs being rare but so many saying they're INFJ:
1) 1% is still 80,000,000 people in the world
2) they never said "1% of people interested in MBTI". The ratio of INFJs to other types watching this video is probably higher.
3) According to new data, INFJ is actually "only" the 3rd rarest type after ENFJ and ENTJ (with ENTJ being rarest).
This data of rarity has always been debatable anyway, and like this video mentions, being rare is not necessarily a "good" thing.
Being rare is likely to make you feel like You're the one who's broken since you can't seem to find your place.
That is all very correct. well it may still be incorrect they now bealive it is 2.9% insted off 1.4% putting it (as you said) in thired rairest
1% of people who’ve taken the test are INFJ (not world population) so the ratio is definitely fluid and difficult to place.
Also true infjs would like there were more of them, because we want someone who can make we feel less isolated (not too much thought 😂)
@@Someone-sl4zq thay is true, which is why well the 2.9% is still probably not correct, it is at least better/more realistic then the 1.4%
Hello there, I noticed that you have mentioned 80,000,000 (eighty million) as world population but it is actually 8,000,000,000 (eight billion) and I am pretty sure that you were well aware of that . I guess it was a silly mistake lol, I just thought I'd let you know. Hope you have a nice day :)
Bottomline: being an INFJ is stressful AF
True
So trueee😫😫
True
HONESTLY THATS SO TRUE
It's a deeper level of depression.
The fact that you spelled every single trait of me made me actually cry. I never met single person who would understand how hard is for me to socialise trying to help others and still feeling lonely and overthinking my everysingle action over this 21 years of my life.
I’m an INFJ myself, but after the extreme burnout I’ve been experiencing I decided to go easy on myself and started to care for my well being, it’s a tough process- but it’s well worth it💕
Same
I hope you're well on your way and that I'll be there too someday
Same here, friend. It is a tough process because of the guilt, but it is necessary for self-care
@@coocoointhebrains you will dw💕I’m recovering well, we just need to keep trying and know that small progress is still progress 🏃♀️✨
same, it’s better for me :,>
It's so easy for me to see things from others people's point of view that it boggles my mind when they can't see my side of things :)
Exactly! It’s frustrating
Right~
Same pfp moment:
Can so very much relate to that feeling :)
I always thought about this :')
I'm happy there are people I can relate to
Just from my experience, INFJs are old wise souls 😁 Some is extremely good at counseling and advising others, even older ones from an extraordinarily young age. They are very caring, understanding with a warm and giving heart.
But they can be childlike in many ways, having the playfulness and simplicity of children 😋
It's really great to be their close friends ❤
Thats me in a nutshell. Especially the being childlike part.
WOWWW😯😯😯 you just elaborate me👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
This kind of just discribed me 😳😂
That’s me except for the caring part
Lol im young but i feel like an old wise dragon and can help but say "kids these days" even if im younger than them lol
Ugh, as an INFJ myself I sadly relate to the feeling lonely in a crowd. I went to a school club today and just felt disconnected from everyone else 😭. Trying to find others who understand is hard. Although I am an INFJ at heart, I’m only 51% introverted according to the MBTI test, which makes me feel like I’m all over the place socially. I’ve yet to find someone who truly gets how I feel, but I’m still searching!
I feel exactly the same, even my BFF doesn't get it, and I'm INFJ - T who according to the same test, is 84% an introvert
As an INFJ, I’ve been dating an ENFP and it’s the healthiest relationship I’ve been in. ENFPs are so understanding of our need for space and independence yet still bring us out of our comfort zone to get us out of our heads and enjoy the moment. 👌
aa i need a ENFP patner's too:(
I've always absolutely loved Tom Holland's personality, and I can see why. He's an ENFP 😊
ENFP here. My best friend of 17 years is an INFJ. I feel like I understand him.
@@FredrikFazBjorn that's so cool! And damn....17 years! I'm 17 years old lol
my boyfriend's an ENFP too and he's the most understanding partner I've ever met 🥺💛
Let me share you a short story. On my birthday last October 8, my homie guy friend made a speech for me and he said,
"You really understand me, not because you study Psychology, but because Sydney, you are an innately understanding person."
Man, I bawled my eyes out. He, too, was crying when he said that. Having this personality makes me thank the Lord so much. I thank Him for giving me this capability to understand people and weigh things through, to put myself into their shoes and to exactly see through their own eyes, and to be able to comprehend why they felt a certain emotion.
I thank God for making me this way.
Ahh hi birthday twin 🤗
Happy belated birthday gurllll
May god bless you .
Awww so cuteee
@@averemack hi, belated happy birthday to you, birthday twin!!! 💖
@@sheesho3600 thaaank you so much!! 💖
We INFJ’s are kinda seen as a tool. People are like “hey can you help me?” And I jut can’t say no. But some people take advantage of that and it makes me mad.
I’m in between INFP and INFJ
Me too
I Understand...
Like i am the only artist in my class amd whenever we get any work related to drawing my classmates always ask me to draw it for them and i can't sayy no
Like i myself don't what is my problem...
Me too
same, I took the test several times and I always end up with J and P being 50/50.
....Are we the same person???? I'm also between INFP and INFJ too. Sometimes idk which to pick when ppl ask what is my mbti type.
I’ve always felt like an outsider, even within my own family, and most comfortable in my own company. I’ve only in the last 10 years come to embrace it. I didn’t realize this was an actual personality type and I take comfort in knowing that there are others like me.
Being misunderstood sucks, that's been a recurring theme for this INFJ. Recently I met someone new, put myself out there and stated exactly what my intentions are. She didn't believe me, she thought I was telling her what she wanted to hear - so she missed out on a great dude when I told her to move along. Some of us genuinely have good intentions and it's painful when people don't believe you when you're being 100% authentic
I remember hearing somewhere that a better way of explaining it was that INFJs are not understood, while INFPs are misunderstood
@@dorto7779 I feel like the line between lack of understanding and being misunderstood is a distinction without a difference at a practical level
If that's the case then it is all her own choice and her own loss. Remember to not put too much "focus" on things you can't control. I also found some girls on dating apps that I could have had a really strong connection or friendship but they decided to be ignorant or blind. INFJs require mature people who don't judge but listen and accept. We aren't compatible with immature, ignorant, judge mental-type.
I recently learned to be okay with everyone rejecting me. It is their own loss.. what can I do? struggle to convince them? waste all my energy and time on girls who can't see who I am?
@@HideorEscape That's why I told her to bounce. Don't owe anyone my time
@@NicholasPR Well yeah but its a simpler way of saying that INFJs are usually more focussed on other people and learning about them (probably that extraverted feeling) and thus dont usually talk to people much about themselves so therefore they just don't get understood at all, while INFPs are more misunderstood because they tend to talk about themselves a lot and know themselves very well, but in talking about themselves a lot tend to get people mixed up and end up being misunderstood. There is a difference, but its pretty slight so you definitely can look at it either way
I don’t think I have INFJ but I relate to being lonely in a group. I always see others talking to eachother, I don’t feel sad, but I just feel “by myself.”
In my life, I am considered the “sensitive and over dramatic” person. I always try to help others but when I don’t I start beating myself up about it. LITERALLY. I am also super indecisive. This channel is amazing because the art is so cute, and I get to think and learn about how I am feeling.
SAME except I feel like I’m an INFJ but I’m not gonna say I am cuz i haven’t taken a test to see
Xingqiu looks so adorable in that artstyle 😁
As an INFJ, I always felt like I wasn't understood by others, and this video was full of sentences that understood me from beginning to end. Thank you very much (special information: written with tears in mind)
Everyone is like ''trying'' to be the most rare personality. And then there's me who is trying to NOT be the rarest personality as it is. Rare doesn't mean that is something good only AAA
Infj aint the rarest personality type anymore. 🙂 And true, being rare doesn't mean ur above everyone else. 🥰
that reminds me as a shy person, or maybe im not shy and i’m just a nervous person, but, no, being shy is not cute, it feels like a social disability/hyp?
i honestly don’t think i’m an infj, my friend thinks i am one though, i’m more of an infp, atleast looking at the definitions of each word, but my friend says i act like an infj, so i don’t really know, especially because they get confused so easily.
You cant try to be something you're not. It just won't work. You'll have internal guilt monologues and ask yourself why you're doing this when the world will most probably accept you for who you are anyways...
But who's talking? Definitely me getting bored of almost every single INFJ overrated video on the internet extolling our values, even if we aren't the rarest personality type( I never cared about that anyways). Like, stop it, I don't want to be overrated! But this one is good because it tackles a variety of problems I can have :)
@@matthewyang7893 honestly, i wholeheartedly agree, this is one of the more honest statements i’ve seen on youtube.
Personality types are bullshit and will be exposed as bogus science soon so there's no reason to care.
I see a lot of INFJs fixating on the negative aspects of this personality, but I feel that the incredible abilities and harmony you bring to the world are even more powerful. Stay strong, friends. You can do incredible things.
Thisssssss!!!!!!!! Yes. It's all about perspective. Being an infj has enriched my life for the most part.
THIS OMFG. dude the first time I read the whole thing about my infj personality, the FIRST THING I said was : “this isn’t really that accurate..the only things I agree with are the weaknesses.”
This personality was a huge mistake to begin with, it should never exist in my opinion.
My crippling guilt had ruined relationships with Manny people I care deeply, hurting them in doing so
So what that you can help strangers if you even hurt the people you care about what is the point
@@spankiespank4573 You can't help people much if you need the help you're giving. It's ok, you don't need to help people to deserve to be here. You're amazing enough already :) When you're in a better mental state, that's when you can help the damaged
As an INFJ I'm always screaming in the inside while smiling on the outside. Or put on headphones and listen to music to drown my emotions so no one else sees them. I don't trust anyone with my emotions because it makes me vulnerable. And my thoughts...well only my diary knows about them. If I we're a super hero, I'd be batman lol...well batwoman.
Everything is me. I took the MBTI 16 personality types test 3 months ago, and my result came out as an INFJ. Ever since, I have constantly been watching videos to try and find out more information about my personality type. This video is the closest to what I am as a INFJ and everything is pretty spot on.
Especially the over thinking things I have said in the past. Like after I say something I start getting deeper into thought and then I find a better way I could have said what I said. Leading me to feel guilty, some things I start to think about happened years ago and than all the sudden I feel guilty for it. Another thing is that when I hangout in a crowd of people I do feel lonlier than I would be by myself. I tend to sympathize with people to much to a point where it does emotionally drain me. Everyone comes to me when they are going through something hard but it seems that people don't understand that even thought I have sympathy for them, it's a lot for me to handle. I put my needs off for to long, and others don't seem to understand my needs or my train of thought. I let other people choose what we should do because I am afraid that they would hate what I want to do. Even though what my friends want me to do, is something I don't want to do, its just that I don't want to disappoint them. All in all, INFJ'S understand everyone else, but no one understands us and we don't understand ourselves. One of the things that sucks the most about an INFJ.
As an INFJ, I feel attacked with the accuracy of this. A big hug to all INFJs out there
I like how this comment section are full of genuine people. In other videos, some people are claiming to be an INFJ just because it was the rarest (now, no. 14 based on myers-briggs company research as of 2018). If only others knew how hard it is to be an INFJ. The struggle is real. It's hard to feel misunderstood most of the time. When you really care for others but they think you're too good to be true.
INFPs relate to those struggles though
And not only that some think that i have bad intentions for my kindness. It is hearbreaking to know.
I’m an INFJ and an ambivert (51% introvert specifically) so I get it. I’ve had to be alone for most of my life
even the smallest conversation with someone got you thinking for days even though you don't want to. you wonder if what you said is right😥😥
@@hannagracegonzales8576 So accurate!
as both an infj and a genshin player, this video is a whole package
I saw Xingqiu and I read INFJ and I clicked xd
I can agree! The full package.
@@miss.darkcandy475 Same XD! I saw Xinqiu and Psy2go and clicked .
Bro the inner guilt and feeling lonely in a group is the 2 things I relate so much
love to all INFJs out there. I hope you find someone with a complex enough mind to understand you and make you feel appreciated and loved for who you are.
I love you
thank youuu :>
thank you so much 😭
That hit me hard. I hope you have a good day knowing that you just made a of people touched.
❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like crying right now and not from sadness but from the fact someone actually gets me and they have never even met me. This whole video hit so close it invoked some serious emotion. I feel like I could be on Mars most days bc I feel so out of place. Thank you for this video it means more than one could know
I'm an INFJ myself, it's crazy how accurate all these signs were. Thank you for explaining a bit more though, I tend to confuse myself with what I'm feeling. 💙
you're not alone
Same here😂😂
same
Same here
I'm such a INFJ.
What I have found helpful is self love.
I'm the only one who can truly care for myself, and I make an effort to occasionally endulge myself to spa treatments, or binge watch a serie.
I let my introverted side come out to take care of me.
I do enjoy my partner and we have a great relationchip (culd not have found a more caring man)
But we are both carers and we have to let eacother to be carers. Neither one of us would be happy if we weren't allowed to live according to each others personality.
We know we have each others backs when needed.
Lol same here i'm an INFJ too, no one will ever care about me the way I can for myself, even as a guy I've realised the importance of self care, even doing something like getting a massage, getting pedicures, and spoiling myself helps regulate me, and brings out the best in me.
@@vincentalakija5515 the hardest thing is accepting that you are the main character in only your story but once it's done , the story becomes lit af
INFJs enjoy their time alone as much as they enjoy their time with friends, which is why I love gaming so much, it gives me the best of both worlds
- Watched this to have a better grasp of your own personality
- Understood it really well that you resonated with every points that are related to you
- Still drowning in your pit of self-criticsm thoughts and reluctant to open up..
Lol! Even during the video, "I think I sound like an INFJ...wow Jared don't be so vain." 😂 keep swimming my friend.
I did not even know of these personality types until a couple of years ago. Out of curiosity I did a couple of online tests and while instinctively I do not fully trust such things I was surprised with how the traits of an INFJ just kind of seemed normal to me.
It wasn’t until I paid more attention to those traits that I realised just how much of an impact they have had on my life, sadly to the point where they have really played a big part in how I lived my life and quite frankly shaped me into a person I am. Unfortunately, that has continually resulted in a failure to really connect with someone and do the ‘normal’ things like settling down and having a family.
I have a house, a nice car a steady job and seemingly should be happy, but ultimately I feel a little cheated by life and am basically lonely with no real sense of belonging to anything and have pretty much lost any motivation in trying to do so anymore. I am pretty sure many of you may relate to that. Don’t get me wrong I love my family and a few close friends, but despite wanting to help and please others I don’t really like people on the whole. I think that is largely because I typically always feel like an outsider in most situations.
I really shy away from social gatherings or events because I feel really uncomfortable and out of place, ultimately so,e thing that should be enjoyable becomes a stressful situation to endure. I am sure most people must find it quite difficult to comprehend a feeling of loneliness in a crowded room!
Being so naturally intuitive can be useful, you can often be way ahead of everyone around you in really quickly analysing a situation or problem and come up with a number of possible solutions or outcomes before anyone around you has even really grasped the problem. I also find it a bit of a curse too - you can never really switch it off so you often find your mind going into overdrive with too many possible solutions to a point where it can be difficult to choose one and run with it, too much second guessing yourself.
It might seem quite nice to be a rare personality type, but ultimately being an INFJ can be quite isolating, if I had the choice I’m not sure I would continue being one….
Man, I get you. Really. It’s like we’re clones! (Maybe feel better now?)
Sometimes, things just be the way they are, but never lose hope! This is all you need. Trust your life, and carry on. I understand how it feels like a curse. Being rare also makes it hard to find someone like yourself. It's just....you cannot find people who understand you....they might say they are this, they are that, but they are something else in reality. Everyone has hidden secrets but INFJs have the most because they don't talk and try to keep talks at bay, and just keeping everything stored in your mind..... locking up your words......Not being able to say what you want to.....hiding that you are not okay......when you say that you're okay, in reality, you're not. The true INFJs only has pain in life. They find it awfully hard to have fun. Even laughs are rare, and you just try to become an invisible shadow in a room of crowd of people, just because you're scared to do something, because you think it might hurt someone, in just some way.
I get you as well and feel many of the same things you noted, and even though it is hard, I would still walk this life because of the many ways we are able to uniquely help others or be there to "say or do exactly what needs to be said or done" to help others that no one has been able to manage. That is the very best complement I've received (many times by many people) from loved ones and strangers alike when I am brave enough to put myself out there.
I can relate to so much of this, especially shying away from social gatherings. I wouldn't say I want to change myself, however, even despite the crap I've endured. It's who I am, everyone's personalities are different. I think I had my facebook penpal suddenly turn me down after 7 years because of my INFJ traits. Crazy huh?
I understand where you are. Keep pushing. You have to break through your own mental barriers. It takes persistence in confidence and strength. I cannot explain it, but as you mature it will become easier to break through these barriers and you will feel a lot more at ease with life and yourself. I also recommend to self-reflect on past circumstances and what lessons you can learn from the decisions you made, and apply them next time. Give it time friend. We all make the same journey, some have just walked it sooner than others. You are on the right path. Shed your cocoon and grow into the marvelous butterfly.
As an INFP, I can relate to these too, though I've learnt a few things throughout the years, like opening a bit more, being able to care for myself and that people who are close to me are actually interested in what I say.
I was looking for this comment i also find this relatable.
@@Venice_HayamiXx Intp here, I also find it relatable. Younger me would totally relate to the traits of an infj. As I grew up, I've learned and unlearned many things..
My personal INFJ Struggles:
1. It seems like I'm good at finding someone in need, or that it's hard for me to say no to requests. Saying no and the person will feel disappointed, saying yes and the person will make more and more requests. But it doesn't feel like I have any option but to accept, so I avoid answering at all. OUR REAL WEAKNESS are those opportunistic, pushy, and overly dramatic persons.
2. Although it seems that it's easier for me to understand the presence of my surroundings, I find it's REALLY HARD for people, even the closest one to me, to really understand me. Hence, I just keep it, till it's full. Then I run away somewhere, leaving all possible contacts behind and lost in my thoughts to heal. I FIND IT'S PEACEFUL to be in a crowded place, but no one recognizes me.
3. I kand of having a different opinion on being perfectionistic. I know that nobody's perfect and everyone will do mistakes at times and that's okay. But all I know is that when I choose a path to live, I will do the best I could and be fully responsible for the choice I made. I will go till the end line and will try my best not to stop midways.
The 2nd point is really very much true
The third point is me in a nutshell.
@@5-starmichelin760 it's like self sabotaging. I set high expectation for myself, but I never set high to other people, because I understand that I can't expect anything out of them LOL
@@5-starmichelin760 it's better to avoid getting disappointed at all cost. That way, I don't need to cope up with all the drawbacks 🤣
@@asmimondal944 ikr. It's just really hard to express our thoughts (which are full of layers and knots) in a way that people understand. Again, for me, I don't want to bother others with my problems, especially if I can find the solution myself. Then, it'll be painful if you tell your problems to people but no matter how hard you try, they don't understand.
🌌Timestamps🌌
1. 0:54 INFJS always care°
2. 1:32 Feeling lonely in a group°
3. 2:14 Self-sabotage
4. 3:55 Easy to get emotionally drained by others°
5. 4:34 Rarely opening up or feeling like you revealed too much°
6. 5:21 Inner guilt°
🌌have a great day/night, and happy late, or early birthday to my fellow Libras 🌌
what are Libras?
@@lyonidus3073 a zodiac sign
So scary how accurate this is. I thought that I was alone in most of these things that I feel (which I’ve been calling issues in my head), but now I realize I’m not alone. It’s also so surprising to think that only 1% of the population is also an INFJ, and that our personality type really is THAT rare.
Thank you so much. I can see things clearer now.
You thought you were alone because we don't talk, and when we do, no one understands.
52 yo INFJ here. I think I'm finally beginning to understand just how important healthy boundaries are for me. I honestly don't think I would have had nearly so many problems in life if I had learned to stand up and think for myself sooner.
Still in denial that I am an INFJ but every article, every video I read or watch about INFJs is friggin relatable on so many levels. It's like the narrator is narrating my everyday life. I've been denying it because I feel more lonely, knowing that I am part of the 1% and it makes me feel more left out. Like I'll go through adulthood knowing that only a few can understand who I am
Same here! When doing the personality tests, I either get ISFJ or INFJ; I’ve been getting into MBTIs quite a bit, and it’s so cool and amazing. I thought I was an ISFJ, and relate to both, ISFJ on some things, and INFJs on others. But after watching this video, it’s making me rethink lots of things
As you get older, (closer to your 40’s) you learn to put up boundaries and are more comfortable saying no! Getting older defiantly has its advantages.😊
I also learn to feel more comfortable asking for help.
as an INFJ I can totally relate to this
I hate being infj bc I’m a guy so it’s like 3x weird. Like not having any male friends I can hug or show affection for sucks. And with girls if I show affection it’s usually perceived as creepy so like m :,)
@@thebiggestbruhmoment6540 aw i would be your friend i have no one to show affection to too
Having instant change of mood seeing someone at the grave is so relatable. Understanding others makes me shut down myself from expressing or revealing things about myself, not only because I think everyone has enough on their plate to deal with but also because it makes me overthink and make assumptions. Should I have said/done something better? What do they think? Did I reveal too much? Should I have put it in a different way? These type of thoughts are so disturbing that I feel like not expressing is a solution to avoid these thoughts. Then I make excuses like for my guilt. It's extremely draining, sometimes I wish I could not care about things or people.
I couldn't agree more with being alone in a group and rarely opening up myself with other people. Haha.
I have my journal with me always, and I somehow make it as my, you know, companion. I share my thoughts to it, tell stories, and enumerate how my day went through, to that journal. It's because some people don't understand my sentiments and I might as well jot my musings all down in my beloved journal.
I can live with my journal, my art materials, my books, and my guitar, let alone a social media-less phone. :)
hii i wanna ask u something, considering that u do journal i wanted to ask u how did u bring urself to start writing it? i've been wanting to journal for so long so that i can just put my thoughts out on paper which would feel nice knowing that i don't share it w anyone else but it just feels so hard writing down something as simple as 'how my day went' i rly cannot bring myself to do it :( i just want to get over w this obstacle that i have so i can journal and feel at peace.
@@javeria6822 Hi! I started journaling last year when I started to withdraw from my phone because of a major situation that I went through. Basically, I had no gadget that time (it had to be that way for me to better heal and focus myself on the more important things like my relationship with the Lord). Only my books and my journal were my "friends" for months, and that was how I brought myself to writing / journaling. I just poured whatever I was feeling and was honest with it, and in that way, I became more honest with myself.
Writing helped me to track my thoughts and my progress better, rather than letting my thoughts pass day by day. Even now, I am still doing it. Also, I do it because it'll be fun to read your sentiments and thoughts years after writing it :)
For you to write better on your journal, I suggest you to lessen your screen time so that you'll be more attentive to your thoughts. And take time to listen and process to what you have in mind.
Hope this helps you, and God bless on your journaling!
@@SydneyAdrianne08 thank u for such a detailed reply! i hope i can start journaling as well
@@javeria6822 no worries, dear! And if you have questions about journaling, or in any matters as well, just comment here in this thread and i'll be so happy to help you! God bless you again in your journaling! 🌻
2:04 - 2:14 that's by far the most relatable thing I've heard as an infj and being able to hear that was very comforting. I can never explain what goes on in my head, I can't even put it into words. I've tried looking for other ways to express and explain it but never found one. I just want someone to understand.
My mom is an INFJ. This helped me understand her better😁
Aww that's cute☺️
I'm glad this video helped!
Question is...does she understand u better 🙃
Great video, I'm an INFJ, and I self sabotage, a LOT !!!!! and I have an extremely hard time getting over certain things, I dwell, and obsess over them, for hours, sometimes days, it's hard letting go of things, thank you for this video 💯🙏🏼❤️
I feel like this video is legit just me in life, especially the part about never opening up, like- I know so much about so many people's lives, but the only person who even knows what I was like more than 2 years ago is my girlfriend... And well, she knows everything, because as was said in the video, I started talking about how my life was, and didn't stop, then felt shitty about it because she was sad for me and I really don't want her to be sad
I’m telling you being a young adult male with this personality is the loneliest shit I’ve experienced. Praying to find others like me 🙏🏼
Hi carter, I relate at how you feel, it feels lonely and having hard time making social interactions....
Through my school years I feel like outsider or probably worse, I grow up with depression and anxiety....
Try to put yourself out there carter, people probably gonna reject you, but there are other people who want to befriend with you, I make mistake for not ever trying to put myself out back then
Don't give up, people gonna like you as who you are
@@Peanuts76 I appreciate the kind words and advice!! Stay blessed 🙏🏼
I swear...
It's this loneliness and guilt that drove me to suicide
Not being able to relate to anyone, always feeling like a burden, pushing past limits to help others then feeling incredibly drained to the point of wanting to hibernate for an entire month just feels so... Horrible
@@prosamis Hi there. Please seek out a therapist to help you with your suicidal thoughts. Therapists can be extremely helpful. Also, remember that God loves you and wants a relationship with you. I also feel really lonely, but even if others around me never can understand me, I know that God understands me better than I understand myself. And the same is true for you. God knows you better than you do. He's always ready to listen to what you have to say. Please seek out a nearby church that teaches about Jesus Christ being the only way to salvation and read the Bible book called John. When you're on God's side, you have access to God's resources of strength. And I know I need His strength! If you'd like more info, please let me know! I'm praying for you.
@@Cassie-xx5fb I appreciate the message❤
I have been trying therapy for a while but to no avail, therapists drain me more than they help
I am confident I can stop myself from committing suicide no matter how horrible things get (hopefully I don't reach that point to begin with), I've went through several dark periods in my life, all of which I was pushed so close to the edge, but I still managed to hold on
God has blessed me with many a miracle for me to be alive right now, and that's a pillar I cling onto everytime I get suicidal thoughts
There's always a time that I can no longer carry the burden in me and went out to my friend to rant about it and they understand me and started to relate their stories to me, giving some examples about their life and then I ended up symphatizing with them and giving them advices until I realize I was the one who is already comforting them instead me being comforted. And then I said to my self "okay, it's okay it's better to be a greater person. I can divert my problems into other's problems. It's better to advise than receiving advice". It makes me feel good when helping and makes me forget my problem. I often tend to overshare when I share but sometimes too lazy to do so. The point is I can compromise always for other people.
Why is everything spot on? 😭 Finding my personality type is a kind of relieving feeling. It's like finally getting a explanation to why I am this way. We strive to be perfect but our efforts and thoughts go unnoticed many a times. These personality type videos feel like someone is noticing every detail of you and appreciating. This is a good feeling especially when there's a need for reassurance and longing for someone to look into your soul.
I have an INFJ friend I’ve known for 10 years (we’ve talked off and on) and just barely this last year I’ve finally come around to understand her and how she works (I’m an ESFJ). I think it just took me learning a lot of patience because it’s very hard to understand an INFJ, in my experience, at least.
That's cool to hear. I am INFJ and my mom is ESFJ and we couldn't find the common ground in most of things for a long time
Just one little thing you forgot - INFJs and ISFJs are pretty similar, even tho by far not the same. So I, an ISFJ, live with the things you've mentioned in this video. (which was super great by the way)
I would like to thank the creator/s of this channel. As an INFJ, I used to think that I am different in a negative way. But this channel help me embraced my uniqueness. I now understand myself better and love myself more. Thank you!
My breath was completely taken away by the time you got to all the points... I -
I feel like you described all my feelings and thoughts better than I could ever express it myself. I am and INFJ and this was scary accurate, but in the best way, because now I can reflect on each of them! Thank you so so much for this, and the quality you always bring to us!
I prefer to be alone, yes, because even if I don't understand myfelf, I understand myself better than anyone could understand me. This probably also boilds down to not opening up to anyone...And the overthinking, inner guilt... This video came to me the best time, I reaallly needed this, thank you again
To be honest, this video described my high school life pretty accurately. I have grown out of taking things too personally since then. I wasn't even too embarrassed when I was de-pantsed in gym class, I calmly pulled up my pants and continued on. Not caring what others think of me has helped a lot.
It’s scary how spot on this is! Just watching this video put so many things in my life into perspective (never wanting to be late, always waiting for someone to ask me to do something first, being god awful at opening up or displaying emotions, then spilling everything when given the chance, always feel like I’m bothering someone etc).
Out of complete honesty, I saw Genshin and I clicked 😅
Loves y’all videos btw
That’s what l call good marketing strategy
Took the MBTI test a few months ago and results is I'm INFJ. This is so relatable. Thank you for this.
as a INFJ i can easily relate on how people take advantage of our helping nature, im only 19 and i definitely know if i keep this up and not say 'no,im sorry ' , i will have to sacrifice a lot of things in future. i now do turn down things that i think they themselves can do but still , that makes me guilty . still sometimes i end up helping too...
infjs actually aren't the rarest anymore, as the poll was taken years ago and recently updated! I watched a RUclips vid Abt it
100% relate and yes, I do help my friends and others a lot and even sacrifice my time for them, I have thoughts of guilt and prefer to be alone to reflect my life and choices, and lastly I have my own feelings bottled up inside whenever I talk to others about it. Like when I have feel sad or miserable or afraid.
I didn’t feel like being targeted so hard, thank you for sharing this! It really helped me feel I’m not alone. Sending you good vibes to all the INFJs out there!🌻
send a hug to you too ~
I had started to doubt myself to be an INFJ anymore or not... And this video brought me back. I am an INFJ. Thank you so much, for always being there for us, giving us support and helping us realize ourselves for the better. Really, thanks a lot!! ❤️♥️
Can you please do videos on other types? All personality type videos are on INFJ's just cause they are the rarest type it seems (even though they aren't even close to being the rarest type anymore. They take up 2-3% of the population. NOT 1%.). I'd love videos on other types, such as my type the INTJ. But I still wouldn't want much on those, cause I feel like the INTJ is another of the more common ones for videos cause we are also very rare, and strange to say the least.
I agree. Every mbti videos are about INFJ. I don't know right now what personality type I am, my mind is confused. But for other types it is sad. I have an INFJ friend (maybe me too, I am not sure right know) and she has such a beutiful heart. But not just INFJ have it. Please make videos for other types too if you make video about INFJ. That's just a request. Please don't understand it other way, and if I made mistake in language sorry cause my English is a little. I tried to be kind as I can, sometimes language isn't enough for this😅.
I am INFJ and I related to all of these, you really guessed everything! It's nice to know there are some people like you in the world :)
I could relate to a lot of these, especially the inner guilt. I even stopped talking to my friends group for months because I thought i was being annoying or talked way too much.
Before, I hated myself that Im an INFJ. I tried to change myself, but I only ended having so much psychological stress. I occasionally have panic attacks.
Personality tests are bullshit
I really feel the being overwhelmed by other people's emotions one. Especially when I'm already feeling anxious/moody. It's like sensory overload except with the emotional energy in the room. And at home, I have to make sure the people around me are okay or I won't be. It's exhausting sometimes
Nice use of noted INFJ Xingqiu from Genshin. Im INFJ and my partner is ISFJ like Chongyun, so i guess i know which genshin ship were most like 😅
We don’t get enough Xingqiu in Genshin anymore. We’ll need a hangout event with him sooner or later.
That’s a pretty nice story.
1 : used to but now I'm overly selfish . But still when it's a person I love I end up doing too much for them.
2 . I'm used to it, for this I have to be more clear and assertive, takes a lot of time . But I don't wanna be understood ,someone trying to understand me is enough for me.
3. Holy shi , that's so relatable . For this I just think if I'm harming anyone by achieving something, and if I'm not then I'm good to go.
4. I get sad easily when someone else is sad but it's hard to be happy when someone else is happy . I try and turn off my brain . Because I want people to feel better but I'm always drained or in a blank phase.
5. Yeah I don't wanna budern people , I wanna say it all but I don't want them to be worried about me, I just want them to give me an advice of they could .
6 : Again I don't wanna hurt others whilst getting what I want . Just because I say this doesn't mean I'm a good person , I have hurt others when I couldn't keep my calm .
That video described me and my life better than I could do I'm in tears
This is so relatable. Everything about this video was so accurate. I love the MBTI system because it helps me to understand who I am and why I am like this
I'm an INFJ boy, this is really relatable in my life. It's really hard to be an open person, even my parents told me to be an open person. But i just can't... i found my self really hard to believe others people, because i think they will never understand me. And i'm scared they will think that i'm weird. But, i really get comfortable to being an open person in social media, idk why.
Anyway, keep healthy guys. your health is so priceless!
same
Maybe not open but try to be more direct with others. I dated an INFJ woman as an ENTJ man myself. Everything was working fine but she would rarely communicate her desires and she broke up with me after saying she likes me a lot without telling me why.
I’ve watched many of your videos on INFJ’s and I’ve always seemed to relate to the different traits you have presented, and even writing this now I can feel myself questioning it. Thank you so much for all that you do, I likely would have never really understood why I do all of these things if it weren’t for you guys and I wish you all a merry Christmas
I took a personality test and I got infj-A and then decided to watch this video and I relate to almost all of this 😌
These videos really helped me opening up, and make me feel so much more understood. I only know one other person who‘s an INFJ, but still is he a long distance friend. I really saw my own reflections in those situations, and they made me know, that all INFJ‘s out there are having the same kind of feelings, and that I’m not alone. Thanks