Keep doing the reviews pls! Love to hear your opinions ❤ don't always agree but it's good to hear different perspectives. I feel in Brazil we tend to judge women a lot harsher and we give men passes 'cause they're not mature or whatever, but it's getting better (Not in Ariela's case 'cause that was TOO much indeed). Regarding the hosts, they're both actors that did popular novelas in TV. Personally not my faves but yes, famous couple.
With all the men’s rights type arguing with us in the comments Im very inclined to believe all the people discussing judgement of women in Brazil. We’ll be back after taking a breather
omg, I love Ashley's mushroom mug! I think your reading of Ariela makes a lot of sense. I think you said during the honeymoons (just checked, it's ep 4) that she didn't seem to fit with either of the women friend groups and how even then they were being hostile to her choice of not being intimate/not wanting cameras around when she is intimate with her partner. Honestly, in her shoes, that alone would tell me I couldn't trust someone who mocked me for taking things slow with a partner.
I love discussing what I watch on TV and my partner doesn't watch reality with me, so these videos are my social outlet to discuss my LIB/Ultimatum obsession. Just know I pause the videos and reply to no one like a crazy woman. And occasionally leave a comment here and there.
I saw people minimizing Ariela's behavior and said something similar She treats people horribly. Evandro being a liar doesn't change how she disrespects and talks down on people
Thanks 4 reminding me that the new episodes have dropped. This series has been so triggering and caused so much anxiety. But thankfully the last episode was full of good anxiety, and I believe to be the best and most beautiful outcomes/weddings in the Love is Blind franchise.
I feel so sorry for Renatta....Ale is abusive ( psychologically and emotionally so far)...we saw the agression and yelling, which his business partner and roommate emphasized also. I saw, as you and her friends, Renata already loosing herself and self- confidence, and is too submissive and scared not to aggravate Ale . Unfortunately the narcissistic abuse is evident, and so early on 😢😢
In the credits of the show, they have a line for the word «psicóloga» in Portuguese, so I am guessing it means psychologist ? And therefore a psychologist was assign somehow to the show ?
Vanessa is me, I am drunk after one glass of anything with alcohol 😂. That’s why I don’t drink at all. About Ariela & Evandro I could feel that he was “acting” weird but it doesn’t change anything about her disgusting behavior towards everybody. About Marilia , I totally understand her in this episode and I love her in general BUT I think that she should listen to her guts more than listening to other people’s opinion.
You both have such a great read on this show, I can't wait until you watch the finale!! Also, the reunion is next week so hopefully we'll get some answers on this mess of a season lol
@@membriash I would truly not survive without AC and I applaud your commitment to doing chores, Id be lying on the couch covered in ice packs! Thanks for the update 😀
I'm pretty convinced the rumor floating around that Patrick wasn't there to really get married seem to be true. Also, I think he went on the show to get enough money to get hair transplants. I don't think he ever had any intention of leaving his past GF.
I'm here for the head-size talk! :D Love the theory that the head stays the same, but alas I'm 5'11 and can never find a nice girly hat my size, they're all too small!
I have a Master's in Psychology and while I cant diagnose anyone, Im specilating that Ariela has borderline personality disorder. Those individuals are terrified of being abandoned but end up alienating everyine because they cant regulate their emotions. They're usually attracted to chaotic relationships that mimic their childhood. She needs a lot of help.
I was thinking the same, and that is why I have so much compassion for Ariela ! Joga and sport is what she needs to best regulate the BPD, and to talk to a psychiatrist or psychologist, as well as the people around her to know how to approach her (when she is triggered or to avoid the triggering) ! Generally it is not treated with medications. It is a painful and hard life for them (the constant mood changes, the emotions unregulated and intensified *100, the constant pain and emptiness...) but there are a lot of positive characteristics of these people - they are usually very passionate and fanatic in everything they do - from their profession to taking care of people (they have a lot of love to give), loyalty and trust from people are very important to them. BPD is often developed in the child (scape goat) of a narcissistic parent.
Idk if this is a plavovian thing but now that i hear the can open on the intro i always feel the need to open a cold one thanks for the indoctrination i love it
15:59 this is a very interesting take and so on point! The sexism here doesn't expect women to be just submissive, but to take control FOR the man in many ways. but i don't think Ariela was right in the way she acted, I just think culturally we're very used to this happening and we tend to expect this behaviour (wich we shouldnt). Ingred even says this once “no one is crazy for no reason” and at the beginning Patrick says he wants a spoiled, angry girl. which sum up a lot of our common thinking, I guess. We even have this popular saying, generally coming from men, "fé nas malucas" which would be like "all faith to crazy women" lol.
Idk I can't connect with the people. Maybe it's a bad editing job. But i cant seem to really get into this one . And I love yall. And reactions to love is blind.
Oh no! I don't think it's yall! Cause I watch all your content . And love how they are put together! I think it's just this particular round of Brazil love is blind. It could be just the people themselves,subtitles ,storylines,the edit for this particular run on netflix side?it just falls flat to me. Compared to other seasons . But disclaimer!! I don't watch full episodes of any of these shows. No Netflix. I just watch reactions! Lol!
I get it, thanks for the clarification. We’re in the same boat by EP 8. A lot of people are getting frustrated by our opinions and we barely want to finish the season ourselves, lol
I reckon You cannot connect 'cause there aren't absolute villains or ultimate heros, but each person is portrayed with positive and negative traits, as we all mostly are in reality. That is why I liked the edit, I thought is progressively done, is more realistic and without provoking more internet hate on villain edits. But I'm thinking all non -American LIB are in-fact done in the same way - without the black & white image of characters and the cheap forced drama which can be addictive, and is certainly more easy to watch than the drama with Ariela - which is disturbing or watching Ale with Renata which can be triggering for survivors of narcissistic abuse.
I love how often you guys say “I like her/him” it’s so nice and breaks up how awful some of the other people are showing up on the show. It’s a good reminder that not everyone sucks on reality tv or specifically this show and season.
I feel hard to express that much negativity over Evandro with solely basing myself on the show (on Netflix) (the way it is edits). True, some episodes portray Evandro with words and actions that I do not agree with how he handles things. However, I feel a lot of Evandro's comments are related to what was say in the spoilers (as in comments) and it is fine to add more context with spoilers but I do feel that you have the right to react to the show (solely based on the episode and want to avoid being spoiled before even watching the episode) and then maybe do a recap which will discuss how the perception and thoughts have evolved with further information that are reveal outside the show. I sincerely hope this does not discourage or created an anxious feelings because of a few comments on episode 7.
We appreciate your thoughtful check ins. We were talking about this IRL and we’re currently being paid mostly in appreciation and the amount you empathize with us does mean a lot. Our biggest issue right is that one of the most questionable marriage decisions got spoiled in the comments. We’re not quite sure how to move forward. We love talking to people day to day but maybe going forward we’ll have to avoid comments until we’re caught up on released eps, which is always made hard because my phone gets alerted all the time, ha. Anyway, maybe we do a recap or something of the final two for people that enjoy hanging out and talking about this. For now were catching up on the mole but I imagine we’ll wrap this up somehow
I agree with Renata’s friends opinion on Ale because I have the same but I have to be fair, these women were openly rude. They were all talking at the same time and not in the nicest way.
@@KamandaHickeyYes, they were agressive, but her friends were completely right and clocked him immediately. Especialy the typical narcissistic trade and sentence when asked if they love their partner- "well, it's reciprocitical", so egotistical answer and telling... that' s why narc people love you, because you love them the most - that is the criteria and description of their love for you!
@@ivapetrovska9986I can’t disagree, they did clock him right away 😂. Renata is in a love story kinda mindset so she needed the wake up call (it was still pretty brutal though).
What do you mean the guys are sus? Are you guys scared that saying anything about the women being terrible too is gonna get you cancelled? I hate the one sided mentality. It’s not just the men. The caption of this video sucks I’m not gonna lie.
We have repeatedly said Ariela is ruthlessly mean, and went in on Renata for trashing Patrick and his hair. Right now 3/5 men are sus. Im not worried about being cancelled lol.
Alright then why wasn’t it “some of the men AND women are kinda suss” 🤷♀️ also there’s just so many men feminists on this site n I’m like……. You don’t hafta be overly nice, like you’re not gonna hurt our feelings 😆 anyway, that’s just my input.
I came across your channel a few weeks ago and i absolutely love your reactions and reviews ❤
Keep doing the reviews pls! Love to hear your opinions ❤ don't always agree but it's good to hear different perspectives. I feel in Brazil we tend to judge women a lot harsher and we give men passes 'cause they're not mature or whatever, but it's getting better (Not in Ariela's case 'cause that was TOO much indeed).
Regarding the hosts, they're both actors that did popular novelas in TV. Personally not my faves but yes, famous couple.
With all the men’s rights type arguing with us in the comments Im very inclined to believe all the people discussing judgement of women in Brazil. We’ll be back after taking a breather
omg, I love Ashley's mushroom mug!
I think your reading of Ariela makes a lot of sense. I think you said during the honeymoons (just checked, it's ep 4) that she didn't seem to fit with either of the women friend groups and how even then they were being hostile to her choice of not being intimate/not wanting cameras around when she is intimate with her partner. Honestly, in her shoes, that alone would tell me I couldn't trust someone who mocked me for taking things slow with a partner.
I love discussing what I watch on TV and my partner doesn't watch reality with me, so these videos are my social outlet to discuss my LIB/Ultimatum obsession. Just know I pause the videos and reply to no one like a crazy woman. And occasionally leave a comment here and there.
Shingles is no joke I had it before and I was hospitalized because the pain was so intense. No fun and I also battle a rare autoimmune 😕😩😩😕
I saw people minimizing Ariela's behavior and said something similar She treats people horribly. Evandro being a liar doesn't change how she disrespects and talks down on people
What is happening to that poor rabbit on your t-shirt?!? Scissors on his head??
Lol. Its an Us reference. A Jordan Peele horror movie reference
@@membriashlove this❤
Por favor, es una camisa 🙄.
Thanks 4 reminding me that the new episodes have dropped. This series has been so triggering and caused so much anxiety. But thankfully the last episode was full of good anxiety, and I believe to be the best and most beautiful outcomes/weddings in the Love is Blind franchise.
I feel so sorry for Renatta....Ale is abusive ( psychologically and emotionally so far)...we saw the agression and yelling, which his business partner and roommate emphasized also.
I saw, as you and her friends, Renata already loosing herself and self- confidence, and is too submissive and scared not to aggravate Ale .
Unfortunately the narcissistic abuse is evident, and so early on 😢😢
In the credits of the show, they have a line for the word «psicóloga» in Portuguese, so I am guessing it means psychologist ? And therefore a psychologist was assign somehow to the show ?
Vanessa is me, I am drunk after one glass of anything with alcohol 😂. That’s why I don’t drink at all. About Ariela & Evandro I could feel that he was “acting” weird but it doesn’t change anything about her disgusting behavior towards everybody. About Marilia , I totally understand her in this episode and I love her in general BUT I think that she should listen to her guts more than listening to other people’s opinion.
You both have such a great read on this show, I can't wait until you watch the finale!! Also, the reunion is next week so hopefully we'll get some answers on this mess of a season lol
this is just a gentle nudge that I'm eagerly awaiting your reaction to the last episode of LIB Brazil.... 😂❤
Lol. Halfway done with the edit! Our AC went out last night and I had to prioritize a few chores before it becomes unbearable
@@membriash I would truly not survive without AC and I applaud your commitment to doing chores, Id be lying on the couch covered in ice packs! Thanks for the update 😀
Love Mitch's height based phrenology in this episode 😂
Yeah, it turns out its mostly proportional to height and then determined by familial genetics 🤷🏼♂️
I'm pretty convinced the rumor floating around that Patrick wasn't there to really get married seem to be true. Also, I think he went on the show to get enough money to get hair transplants. I don't think he ever had any intention of leaving his past GF.
I'm here for the head-size talk! :D
Love the theory that the head stays the same, but alas I'm 5'11 and can never find a nice girly hat my size, they're all too small!
Lol. Im totally off base. Ashley also struggles with hats. Im always trying to get her to find one but it never works out
I have a Master's in Psychology and while I cant diagnose anyone, Im specilating that Ariela has borderline personality disorder. Those individuals are terrified of being abandoned but end up alienating everyine because they cant regulate their emotions. They're usually attracted to chaotic relationships that mimic their childhood. She needs a lot of help.
I was thinking the same, and that is why I have so much compassion for Ariela !
Joga and sport is what she needs to best regulate the BPD, and to talk to a psychiatrist or psychologist, as well as the people around her to know how to approach her (when she is triggered or to avoid the triggering) !
Generally it is not treated with medications.
It is a painful and hard life for them (the constant mood changes, the emotions unregulated and intensified *100, the constant pain and emptiness...)
but there are a lot of positive characteristics of these people - they are usually very passionate and fanatic in everything they do - from their profession to taking care of people (they have a lot of love to give), loyalty and trust from people are very important to them.
BPD is often developed in the child (scape goat) of a narcissistic parent.
@@ivapetrovska9986 it can also be parents who are not emotionally tuned in to the child due to addictions, depression or other illnesses.
@@oksanaml9279 you' re right !
Eagerly waiting for your love is blind Brazil reviewsss 😢❤
Soon. Im editing as I type!
Idk if this is a plavovian thing but now that i hear the can open on the intro i always feel the need to open a cold one thanks for the indoctrination i love it
15:59 this is a very interesting take and so on point! The sexism here doesn't expect women to be just submissive, but to take control FOR the man in many ways. but i don't think Ariela was right in the way she acted, I just think culturally we're very used to this happening and we tend to expect this behaviour (wich we shouldnt). Ingred even says this once “no one is crazy for no reason” and at the beginning Patrick says he wants a spoiled, angry girl. which sum up a lot of our common thinking, I guess. We even have this popular saying, generally coming from men, "fé nas malucas" which would be like "all faith to crazy women" lol.
Just wanna say I love the orange cardigan!!
As of right now... I am only rooting for Ingrid/Leandro and Vanessa/Leonardo they all seem suited as couples to take the marriage step. 💒💍👰
Totally agree
@@membriash This version at least as some really nice couples.
is Ingrid really 33, she has a 21 yr old daughter.
@@Skarr30 its her cousin she adopted apparently. Or something like that
@@membriash Thank you for the clarification, i missed that part.
Idk I can't connect with the people. Maybe it's a bad editing job. But i cant seem to really get into this one . And I love yall. And reactions to love is blind.
Thank you for letting us know. Is it our edit youre referring to or the original show with dubbing? Just for future reference
Oh no! I don't think it's yall! Cause I watch all your content . And love how they are put together! I think it's just this particular round of Brazil love is blind. It could be just the people themselves,subtitles ,storylines,the edit for this particular run on netflix side?it just falls flat to me. Compared to other seasons . But disclaimer!! I don't watch full episodes of any of these shows. No Netflix. I just watch reactions! Lol!
I get it, thanks for the clarification. We’re in the same boat by EP 8. A lot of people are getting frustrated by our opinions and we barely want to finish the season ourselves, lol
I reckon You cannot connect 'cause there aren't absolute villains or ultimate heros, but each person is portrayed with positive and negative traits, as we all mostly are in reality.
That is why I liked the edit, I thought is progressively done, is more realistic and without provoking more internet hate on villain edits.
But I'm thinking all non -American LIB are in-fact done in the same way - without the black & white image of characters and the cheap forced drama which can be addictive, and is certainly more easy to watch than the drama with Ariela - which is disturbing or watching Ale with Renata which can be triggering for survivors of narcissistic abuse.
I love how often you guys say “I like her/him” it’s so nice and breaks up how awful some of the other people are showing up on the show. It’s a good reminder that not everyone sucks on reality tv or specifically this show and season.
Cant wait to see the weddings
Patrick sleeping a lot during the day is odd. What is the explanation??
I think the implication is hes a party boy. Old habits die hard methinks?
I feel hard to express that much negativity over Evandro with solely basing myself on the show (on Netflix) (the way it is edits). True, some episodes portray Evandro with words and actions that I do not agree with how he handles things. However, I feel a lot of Evandro's comments are related to what was say in the spoilers (as in comments) and it is fine to add more context with spoilers but I do feel that you have the right to react to the show (solely based on the episode and want to avoid being spoiled before even watching the episode) and then maybe do a recap which will discuss how the perception and thoughts have evolved with further information that are reveal outside the show.
I sincerely hope this does not discourage or created an anxious feelings because of a few comments on episode 7.
We appreciate your thoughtful check ins. We were talking about this IRL and we’re currently being paid mostly in appreciation and the amount you empathize with us does mean a lot. Our biggest issue right is that one of the most questionable marriage decisions got spoiled in the comments. We’re not quite sure how to move forward. We love talking to people day to day but maybe going forward we’ll have to avoid comments until we’re caught up on released eps, which is always made hard because my phone gets alerted all the time, ha. Anyway, maybe we do a recap or something of the final two for people that enjoy hanging out and talking about this. For now were catching up on the mole but I imagine we’ll wrap this up somehow
I think patrick doenst enjoy the fisical appearence of Marília. Thats my tought! And Ariela seems to have a crush on Alexandre.
She's not rich enough for lazy, broke Patrick.
Not yall defending Ale. I disagree with ya'll about Ale and meeting with her friends. I'm happy they read Ale for the jerk he is.
We did agree with them that hes a dick, and we think hes a liar. The only thing we agree with him on is his kid is important. No love for Ale here
I agree with Renata’s friends opinion on Ale because I have the same but I have to be fair, these women were openly rude. They were all talking at the same time and not in the nicest way.
@@KamandaHickeyYes, they were agressive, but her friends were completely right and clocked him immediately. Especialy the typical narcissistic trade and sentence when asked if they love their partner- "well, it's reciprocitical", so egotistical answer and telling... that' s why narc people love you, because you love them the most - that is the criteria and description of their love for you!
@@ivapetrovska9986I can’t disagree, they did clock him right away 😂. Renata is in a love story kinda mindset so she needed the wake up call (it was still pretty brutal though).
Where is 9, 10?
Theyll be out today
What do you mean the guys are sus? Are you guys scared that saying anything about the women being terrible too is gonna get you cancelled? I hate the one sided mentality. It’s not just the men. The caption of this video sucks I’m not gonna lie.
We have repeatedly said Ariela is ruthlessly mean, and went in on Renata for trashing Patrick and his hair. Right now 3/5 men are sus. Im not worried about being cancelled lol.
But they have continuously criticized the women for their poor egregious behavior
Are you watching the same video and paying attention? Loud and wrong.
They literally trash Ariela in all the videos, even though she was being gaslit by everyone, if anything they are way HARDER on the women.
Alright then why wasn’t it “some of the men AND women are kinda suss” 🤷♀️ also there’s just so many men feminists on this site n I’m like……. You don’t hafta be overly nice, like you’re not gonna hurt our feelings 😆 anyway, that’s just my input.