I noticed that too,,,, The Host,,,,, unfortunately was more,,, trying to get the husband to understand the feelings of a woman/wife,,,,,, then trying to get the wife to understand where her husbands physical and sexual needs are,,,,(men and women are totally),,,,, it is not only her duty but obligation to meet those needs,,,, just like she would expect her husband to meet the financial, financial burdens,,, of the home 🏡,,,,, unfortunately the hose comes off as,,,, more feminine. Then the (WIFE),,,,,,,, feminine men can't help real (MEN)🤔🤷💯
Never be offended when your spouse/partner says they want to be kissed,touched or intimate in a specific way I mean that’s the way they like it. So take heed to it and try to please them that shows them your interested and your willing to please them.
Yes! Don’t take it personal when we tell you what we want and need! My partner will ask me over and over, “do you like?” How do you feel?” We don’t have to play charades. I good friend of mine always ask when they want to talk about something, “ you know I love , you right?” then pause for the answer. Practice the four agreements decrease unnecessary suffering and misunderstandings. Number one, don’t take things personal. Number two, always do your best(at that time) Number three, be impeccable with your word, including how you talk about yourself and to yourself and number four, don’t make assumptions.
Men tend to pull away on intimacy when they get rejected too frequently. It's because they are in that moment getting aroused and if you don't let the fire burn out and douse it instead, it frustrates them. And honestly that's for anyone who has a high sexual nature. There needs to be a compromise in order for the marriage to work especially without adultery. This situation is common... I can relate.
Aww her excitement for this kiss really made me tear up. She GENUINELY has been silently hurting & feeling rejected. He hope he understands that maybe she wasn’t giving him any sex because he wasn’t even kissing her, like how do you even start intimacy without kissing your own wife ? They are a beautiful couple they & there is A LOT of love between them, I hope Karamo let them stay in their room for an extra night lol 😅🥰❤️🙏🏽
He said in the beginning he told her how he wanted to be kissed she got offended. That wasn't fair to him. He should be able to express himself without consequences. When he stopped coming on to her, she could have initiated
True! She’s not feeling his love-making. Now that the distance, attached with the lust is gone, the ‘real’ person is revealed. They can’t get over her fragile ego. Plus, she ain’t really attracted to him. She was just thirsty on her drought days, now he’s around too much. Those two things.
Sometimes, pride or being an introvert or just not wanting to talk about what's wrong will keep you from experiencing the next level of intimacy and in more ways than one. Communication is sooo important
She holds grudges honey like no other. He seems like a good man and like he genuinely loves her meanwhile she looks like she can’t be bothered. I’m looking at their chemistry. She came in, poked and tooted that thang out for the cameras and audience 😂🤭 then sat down on the couch….FAR AWAY from her man. Don’t take your good thing for granted because you’re mad about something in the past. They’ll be alright my fingers are crossed. They’re such a cute couple. ❤❤Girl give that man some good lovin! My husband is a captain pilot for FedEx and works away all week! I WISH I could love on him everyday and I work full time from home as an QA engineer in software with my kids and always trying to hold the fort down! I wish! 😩🙌🏽
I noticed this too! Immediately. She's still holding a grudge & it shows. Her distance & body language says it all. I hope they can get it together bc they're a beautiful couple! ❤
Same. A lil immature of her & very spiteful. I saw nothing wrong with him letting him know how he’d like to be kissed. Him wanting her and them being together at this age is so refreshing. I guess it’s always something.
@@opulence_prime exactly! I actually love when my partner tells me how they want to be loved. That's effective communication! She should've took that as a positive criticism instead of negative, especially if it's coming from your husband. You should go in already thinking your husband is going to love you no matter what.
Yep. She hugged Karamo longer than she hugged her husband and sat on the couch at a distance....like she was sitting by a platonic friend. Her body language doesn't suggest a strong attraction to him. She likes him more as a friend. If no improvement happens after the show, he needs to leave & find someone who's truly & fully into him.
Exactly 💯x💯 I’m confused about her reasons. She seems like she loves the audiences attention and the hosts attention, than her husband. She’s petty and privileged.
Everyone saying the couple's "chemistry is off" or "if you love someone, you can't get enough of them" need to grow up. This couple clearly love each other, and the fact that they are willing to communicate and hear each other out is a testament of their willingness to work things out and get back on track. Relationships/marriages change over time and it's about keeping channels of communication open and meeting the other person where they're at through compromise. The husband acknowledged that his expectations for intimacy every day was unrealistic and the wife acknowledged that punishing him for 2+ years was not right either. No one is perfect but it's all about learning and doing better.
People... please don't get offended when your partner tells you how to please them. It takes a lot of courage for someone to give that kind of direction because it is a sensitive topic, but it is necessary if both parties are truly to be completely satisfied in that relationship. You can bring old tricks into a new relationship expecting it to work out the same way. Great if others enjoyed it that one, but you've never done it with this person! You have to treat each relationship as brand new and humble yourself to learn directly from your new partner what they need and how they need it.
@@jccanteen I think it is more about being demanding instead of telling someone. That may have been the problem with the communication on how it came out
I feel like it's more to it. At her age there are many things going on, hormone changing, body changing , etc... There are a lot of things that even she can't explain. Beautiful couple, blessings.
They're a beautiful couple. Some people do get offended when they express to their partner what they want sexually, I believe ego is a big part of it, you should be able to express your needs
This couple is too cute 🥰 Intimacy is emotional security for most women. If a relationship starts with tons of sexual attention it’s not sustainable; However one of the persons involved will want that energy all the time. Love means different things to different people. Sex/Lust is purely physical we have to work at communicating in a lasting relationship.
Communication is extremely important in any relationship. People need to learn to listen to one another. People need to learn to support one another, encourage one another, and to change with times. People need to be willing to compromise and change because things don't remain the same. 😊
In relationships, it takes two to tango. If there is a shutdown, you have to look at the underline story for that breakdown and each party has to willingly do the work and put in the effort of acknowledging the disconnect and fixing it.
I look forward to the day my husband’s biggest complaint is that he can’t get enough of me. Bless you as a couple. Beautiful lady- Take constructive criticism and Handsome man- try putting yourself in her shoes. Y’all are a lovely couple.
This hits home too deep like it has ripped off the roof, but the other way. I've been broken in a way that I fight for my very sanity. I speak on this now in case there is a Beautiful spirit that is hurting, alone, lost, scared and just do not know what to do. My marriage of 30 year's is filled with pain, distraught, cheating, lying, deception absolutely no intimacy on any levels for 23 plus year's, he started doing this as a form of punishment because he is a Dark Triad Narc and started being mean and disrespectful as a way to conceal his cheating, manipulating, deceptive behaviour. Beautiful Queens if you are facing this, PLEASE CHOOSE YOU and make the best decision to SAVE YOURSELF 🙏
This is a beautiful couple!!! I appreciate how he was open and honest even about the kiss, i wish she was honest to him so that he couldve worked toward a resolution
Her accountability YASSSS I was acting like a brat. Imma buss it down DATS MY WIFE!! AND THEY MET ONLINE!!! There is hope Im loving them together! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
He should find someone else if she is willing to not kiss him for years because he communicated how he likes to be kissed. That’s not a healthy relationship.
Wow... I've seen this couple before. They have a RUclips channel where they discuss letters sent in from listeners with crazy things relationship questions! ❤ how they humbled themselves - they are definitely going to make it!
Intimacy don’t start just in the bedroom, what is he doing all day to get her to that point of wanting it more. It’s also the tone when expressing how you want to be intimate. They can make it
Her ego got in the way when it came to the kiss. He tried to show her how he prefers to be kissed and instead of having the desire please him, she was a “brat” and denied him. I wish them well!
Sounds like how my marriage was. Literally went years without a kiss or hug from my husband. He wanted sex constantly but there was no kissing, hugging, intimacy or fore play. If I tried to initiate any sort of physical touch he’d make up some excuse like I was mad about me about who knows what, but also complained that I never came on to him.
She gave him a half hug and sitting so far away from him. Body language is everything.
I peeped that
Yep. Her body language is not matching with what she's saying.
But after sitting she faced him partially, it's cute & they are a lovly together.
That’s why they are on the show…they need help.
I noticed that too,,,, The Host,,,,, unfortunately was more,,, trying to get the husband to understand the feelings of a woman/wife,,,,,, then trying to get the wife to understand where her husbands physical and sexual needs are,,,,(men and women are totally),,,,, it is not only her duty but obligation to meet those needs,,,, just like she would expect her husband to meet the financial, financial burdens,,, of the home 🏡,,,,, unfortunately the hose comes off as,,,, more feminine. Then the (WIFE),,,,,,,, feminine men can't help real (MEN)🤔🤷💯
I love how he always compliments the guest style. 😁
So do I. This guest ate it up too. 😅
@@opulence_prime9 pp0
I just come across him and love his talking style....but pls remind me..which reality show was he on?
Me Too!! He So Cool & Fly Himself!!
@@SupernoJob he was on queer eye idk what else tho
She is a cutie pie. They are a nice looking couple.
People will forget what you say but will never forget how you made them feel.
Finally, someone who compliments Karamo too! This was the first time I heard him get a compliment back 😌💜
Oh snap 😮What an observation
FINALLY an episode where there isn’t any bickering crying or walking off 🙌🏾🙏🏾. I love this couple their sooo freakin cute 🥰
Really nice couple!
This is an awesome couple! I have no doubts that they will make it and be back on track in no time. Bless them.🙂
He took her breathe away with that kiss! And her reaction was so beautiful! ❤❤❤❤
Intimacy does not always have to be penetration, men need to understand it’s what you tell the woman between her ears.
Exactly ❣️
True!!
Bet when they first got together they were humping all the time
90% of them don't even make that intimate
Whatever
This was so comforting watching two humans communicate in a open forum being very transparent about their lives!
I love them together. I pray their marriage just grows and gets better. Here’s to a loving and blessed marriage!
I love how they still respect one another ❤It’s such a beautiful thing
That's what it's all about! A big PLUS.
It is ! 😭♥️
I prefer my man to tell me what he wants to work on instead of just to cheat. At least he communicating
So true❤
Well said
He didnt
@@elijah9965 that’s my point thanks
Thanks guys ❤️
The best guest!!! This was so healthy. They both heard, respected and seemed to be pretty receptive.. PLUS THEY FLY ASF! ❤ 💯
Never be offended when your spouse/partner says they want to be kissed,touched or intimate in a specific way I mean that’s the way they like it. So take heed to it and try to please them that shows them your interested and your willing to please them.
💯
Yes!
Yes! Don’t take it personal when we tell you what we want and need! My partner will ask me over and over, “do you like?” How do you feel?” We don’t have to play charades. I good friend of mine always ask when they want to talk about something, “ you know I love , you right?” then pause for the answer. Practice the four agreements decrease unnecessary suffering and misunderstandings. Number one, don’t take things personal. Number two, always do your best(at that time) Number three, be impeccable with your word, including how you talk about yourself and to yourself and number four, don’t make assumptions.
Oh he is flyyyy and she is jazzy!!! Patch this up and gone on!!! ❤❤
It’s the wife’s lil dance for me mamas was excited to get some sugar 😂😂
😂😂😂
Men tend to pull away on intimacy when they get rejected too frequently. It's because they are in that moment getting aroused and if you don't let the fire burn out and douse it instead, it frustrates them.
And honestly that's for anyone who has a high sexual nature. There needs to be a compromise in order for the marriage to work especially without adultery.
This situation is common... I can relate.
They are such a cute, stylish, and classy couple. They’ve encouraged me in my long-distance relationship.
I literally said the same thing . I love this
What a HANDSOME couple!! They seem like such a good, well balanced couple. Wishing them nothing but the best
This is a beautiful couple definitely not aging anytime soon
Facts!!!!
Aww her excitement for this kiss really made me tear up. She GENUINELY has been silently hurting & feeling rejected. He hope he understands that maybe she wasn’t giving him any sex because he wasn’t even kissing her, like how do you even start intimacy without kissing your own wife ? They are a beautiful couple they & there is A LOT of love between them, I hope Karamo let them stay in their room for an extra night lol 😅🥰❤️🙏🏽
He said in the beginning he told her how he wanted to be kissed she got offended. That wasn't fair to him. He should be able to express himself without consequences. When he stopped coming on to her, she could have initiated
Loving this 💑
She got offended because he told her how he wanted to be kissed and haven't kissed him in a few years. As women we know that's asking for trouble.
This was a difficult conversation, but they were so respectful and cute, I just love this couple ❤
They're such a cute couple! I loved her happiness after she got a kiss from her husband ❤️
Their issues are deeper than a kiss.
Yes ,,, and I know from experience. I can tell from the comments here, most people don't understand that.
It seems that way.....maybe orgasms aren't happening
He's not romancing her
True! She’s not feeling his love-making. Now that the distance, attached with the lust is gone, the ‘real’ person is revealed. They can’t get over her fragile ego. Plus, she ain’t really attracted to him. She was just thirsty on her drought days, now he’s around too much. Those two things.
@@k_roc200-32 Typical female answer
They have the chemistry the issue is they both feel rejected and are both stubborn enough to let this go on all this time
Their's nothing worse than feeling not wanted in a relationship
Sometimes, pride or being an introvert or just not wanting to talk about what's wrong will keep you from experiencing the next level of intimacy and in more ways than one. Communication is sooo important
What a beautiful couple. I don't know if I could go two years without kissing someone I love.
Both of them are fabulous. Loving their chemistry. God bless them both. ❤❤❤❤
I just love them and I hope they're together forever.
She holds grudges honey like no other. He seems like a good man and like he genuinely loves her meanwhile she looks like she can’t be bothered. I’m looking at their chemistry. She came in, poked and tooted that thang out for the cameras and audience 😂🤭 then sat down on the couch….FAR AWAY from her man. Don’t take your good thing for granted because you’re mad about something in the past. They’ll be alright my fingers are crossed. They’re such a cute couple. ❤❤Girl give that man some good lovin! My husband is a captain pilot for FedEx and works away all week! I WISH I could love on him everyday and I work full time from home as an QA engineer in software with my kids and always trying to hold the fort down! I wish! 😩🙌🏽
I noticed this too! Immediately. She's still holding a grudge & it shows. Her distance & body language says it all. I hope they can get it together bc they're a beautiful couple! ❤
Same. A lil immature of her & very spiteful. I saw nothing wrong with him letting him know how he’d like to be kissed. Him wanting her and them being together at this age is so refreshing. I guess it’s always something.
@@opulence_prime exactly! I actually love when my partner tells me how they want to be loved. That's effective communication! She should've took that as a positive criticism instead of negative, especially if it's coming from your husband. You should go in already thinking your husband is going to love you no matter what.
Yep. She hugged Karamo longer than she hugged her husband and sat on the couch at a distance....like she was sitting by a platonic friend. Her body language doesn't suggest a strong attraction to him. She likes him more as a friend. If no improvement happens after the show, he needs to leave & find someone who's truly & fully into him.
Exactly 💯x💯 I’m confused about her reasons. She seems like she loves the audiences attention and the hosts attention, than her husband. She’s petty and privileged.
They were a cute couple! You're an amazing host Karamo! You always look so sharp and you make your guests feel beautiful!
Mama bussed it down as soon as they got back to the hotel room 😂😂 I love it
Everyone saying the couple's "chemistry is off" or "if you love someone, you can't get enough of them" need to grow up. This couple clearly love each other, and the fact that they are willing to communicate and hear each other out is a testament of their willingness to work things out and get back on track. Relationships/marriages change over time and it's about keeping channels of communication open and meeting the other person where they're at through compromise. The husband acknowledged that his expectations for intimacy every day was unrealistic and the wife acknowledged that punishing him for 2+ years was not right either. No one is perfect but it's all about learning and doing better.
I love this show. He is always respectful and complimentary to the guess. Genuine
Such a great show and couple. I love to see black love and these two are definitely the definition of it.
This is grown folks here!!! Communication is Key!!! They gonna be just fine!!! 😊😊😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
People... please don't get offended when your partner tells you how to please them. It takes a lot of courage for someone to give that kind of direction because it is a sensitive topic, but it is necessary if both parties are truly to be completely satisfied in that relationship. You can bring old tricks into a new relationship expecting it to work out the same way. Great if others enjoyed it that one, but you've never done it with this person! You have to treat each relationship as brand new and humble yourself to learn directly from your new partner what they need and how they need it.
@@jccanteen I think it is more about being demanding instead of telling someone. That may have been the problem with the communication on how it came out
I feel like it's more to it. At her age there are many things going on, hormone changing, body changing , etc... There are a lot of things that even she can't explain. Beautiful couple, blessings.
Whenever you love someone you can't get enough
📌
I love this statement. True.
True but every day is unreasonable.
Not true LOL
Yep
They're a beautiful couple.
Some people do get offended when they express to their partner what they want sexually, I believe ego is a big part of it, you should be able to express your needs
I love their chemistry and they definitely will get back on track and will be kissing /intimate all day everyday.❤️❤️
This was a good one! I enjoyed this couple! And they were FLY as hell!❤
Yessss they are FLY!!!!!
Sex every day with a man that age is unrealistic and not always enjoyable.
This couple is too cute 🥰 Intimacy is emotional security for most women. If a relationship starts with tons of sexual attention it’s not sustainable; However one of the persons involved will want that energy all the time. Love means different things to different people. Sex/Lust is purely physical we have to work at communicating in a lasting relationship.
This is how u communicate in a relationship❤
Poor communication is the key to all breakups and toxic r/ship
Communication is extremely important in any relationship. People need to learn to listen to one another. People need to learn to support one another, encourage one another, and to change with times. People need to be willing to compromise and change because things don't remain the same. 😊
In relationships, it takes two to tango. If there is a shutdown, you have to look at the underline story for that breakdown and each party has to willingly do the work and put in the effort of acknowledging the disconnect and fixing it.
She looked at the sky 🌌 when that last message was felt ❤
I look forward to the day my husband’s biggest complaint is that he can’t get enough of me. Bless you as a couple. Beautiful lady- Take constructive criticism and Handsome man- try putting yourself in her shoes. Y’all are a lovely couple.
This was such a healthy and positive conversation. Love this beautiful couple! Big props to you Karamo🤜🏽🤛🏽
This show got me hooked! I am hear for every episode!!!! I gotta see what this episode is about !!!
This hits home too deep like it has ripped off the roof, but the other way. I've been broken in a way that I fight for my very sanity. I speak on this now in case there is a Beautiful spirit that is hurting, alone, lost, scared and just do not know what to do. My marriage of 30 year's is filled with pain, distraught, cheating, lying, deception absolutely no intimacy on any levels for 23 plus year's, he started doing this as a form of punishment because he is a Dark Triad Narc and started being mean and disrespectful as a way to conceal his cheating, manipulating, deceptive behaviour. Beautiful Queens if you are facing this, PLEASE CHOOSE YOU and make the best decision to SAVE YOURSELF 🙏
This is a beautiful couple!!! I appreciate how he was open and honest even about the kiss, i wish she was honest to him so that he couldve worked toward a resolution
I love these two. Relationship goals.
"Relationship goals" is a strong descriptor for a sexless marriage.
They are not couple goals 🙄
The fact that you live with someone two years that's your husband without kissing him is insane
Her accountability YASSSS I was acting like a brat. Imma buss it down DATS MY WIFE!! AND THEY MET ONLINE!!! There is hope Im loving them together! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Okay i understood when she walked out. She is FINE
He should find someone else if she is willing to not kiss him for years because he communicated how he likes to be kissed.
That’s not a healthy relationship.
its karamo geeked abt him being sssshhhhaaarrrrppp😂😂😂😂
@ 7:09 - "aye, buss down buss down" and the little dance he did 🤣 I laughed so much
I'm at the age where stimulate my mind and the body will follow. If you spend the day talking smack to me I won't be in the mood later that night.
I hope they stay together and get through this. The distance on the couch speaks volumes.
She is very shapely and cute and her man still loves all of it! I hope they can work it out. They are truly a cute couple! ❤
They are a lovely couple.
Hang in there you two.
Love you two and the open communication to save and strengthen your marriage. I pray the blessings of the Lord upon you both❤
What a beautiful couple. Open to loving better and working it out. So good to see.
What a beautiful couple. Talk about class!!!!
Wow... I've seen this couple before. They have a RUclips channel where they discuss letters sent in from listeners with crazy things relationship questions! ❤ how they humbled themselves - they are definitely going to make it!
They are one of the most cutest couples ❤
I’m binge watching rn I love this channel and seeing positive outcomes like this thanks so much!❤
Karamo top tier. I love the exchange of positive compliments ❤
she’s so cute ! i’m glad they were both understanding
Something healthy, realistic and relatable 😊love this.
These two are goals, I don't care what problems they're having. They have it going on. And they both have the most amazing skin!
Intimacy don’t start just in the bedroom, what is he doing all day to get her to that point of wanting it more. It’s also the tone when expressing how you want to be intimate. They can make it
As a women our bodies go through changes. The older you get things are not the same
That kiss look like a fight 😅 I wish them the best though.
They are a beautiful couple just bring her flowers 🌹 or money she will give you the cat every second. 😂😂😂😂😂😂❤
Love this couple… they’re fabulous.
They do make a good looking couple ! ❤ bless them I hope the spark comes back for them
Keep doing your thing Karamo, I love you and your show❤😊
Her ego got in the way when it came to the kiss. He tried to show her how he prefers to be kissed and instead of having the desire please him, she was a “brat” and denied him. I wish them well!
Sounds like how my marriage was. Literally went years without a kiss or hug from my husband. He wanted sex constantly but there was no kissing, hugging, intimacy or fore play. If I tried to initiate any sort of physical touch he’d make up some excuse like I was mad about me about who knows what, but also complained that I never came on to him.
And what happened? Y’all still together?
Did y’all divorce?
And......?
That wasn't a marriage...
What’s the conclusion to this story?
😍That was such a beautiful couple. They are going to be just fine. 🙏🏾
This episode hit home me and my gf can relate
What a darling couple..❤❤
Karamo's energy be everything!
The hug she gave her husband verses how she hugged the host😮
They so cute I hope their relationship continue to grow strong and progress!
They’re a cute couple. She said “Imma buss down”😂
Communication Is Totally Everything ❤❤
I enjoyed the comments from viewers. They are genuine and positive. Best and respectful couple.
From Gaborone, Botswana
Beautiful, fly couple! I wish you both a happy, intimacy-filled love life!❤
I stumbled across your show on RUclips and I was thinking 'is it black enough for me' love it continued success
They truly love each other... they are not ready to let go of each other ❤
Beautiful couple ❤his wife is so pretty, sad that this happens in marriages😢communication is definitely 🔑 key
The late Pastor Myles Munroe said that in a lot of his teachings about marriage. He was SOOOO on point when it came to marriage!!!
You are so right! I learn from him a lot! R.I.P Myles Munroe
Wifey is gorgeous honey!!! I appreciate how they communicate with each other. Praying the best for them 🙏🏾♥️♥️
This is a beautiful black love
Communication is key!!!! Ok I want to know where did she get her attire from!!!! Omg I absolutely love it!!!