sir u r the best. first indian person who is telling the truth of life. no one admits the truth but always blaming each other, well explained in all of ur videos.i am so happy finally someone is saying the untold story of every household. just to prove themselves in society girls or sometimes boys are being blamed .u r dr who watched the time pulse. really proud of u. need people like you. kot kot thanks
Wow! So true! This also reminded me of a saying in haryanvi language that my senior told me which meant that "you should never interfere in between ppl of same blood. Coz sooner or later, they will reconcile but you will become a villian forever" I would be happy to know what that actual saying is in Haryanvi :)
This is so True. . . .My Husband cant become a son to my parents, he cant even make a call to my parents and he expects that i should serve his family, brother sister with whole heart.. This is such a pressure on girl shoulder... There is a big difference between Mother and Mother In Law. She cant become my mother. This is True. Sabko ek Caretaker chahiye bahu, bhabhi ke roop me bas Indian System me Bahu ke kandho pe zimmedari dal dete hai bs.
I faced this toxic behaviour and I always used to fell for it in the beginning but then i started to realise the hypocrisy after some time and it has become heartbreaking
Sir, You are a master in unravelling relationships. Great video. Bahu can never become a daughter. Nor can Damaad become a son. You have to maintain some distance, some formality, a little bit more respect. Very true.
Mujhe to Bahu chodo insaan bhi nhi samjha..meri bhi galti thi bahut mummyji daddyji kiya lekin hue wo apni betiyon ke..maine unhe maa baap samjha lekin wo saas sasur he Bane... very well said Sir... very true
Khud ke maa - baap bachpan me das bar bahar nikalte hain.. Tab bura nahi lagta.. Jab sasuraal me bahar nikalte hain to wo kitna kharab halat hota hai.. Aap bahot achhe gyan baat rahe ho Sir 🙏
Bhot frk h maa baap or sas sasur me, maa baap hme pal pos k bda krte h , hmari education, hmare health,kpde khane sbhi chizo ka khyal rkhte h ,lekin sas sasur 1% bi nhi kr skt iska , or maa baap galti p dat dete h , lekin sas bina galti k. Huge difference, koi comparison hi nhi ho skta in ka. I don't disrespect anyone's parents lekin truth is truth.
Hello Sir.....bilkul sahi hai bahu ko kabhi beti nahi samajha jata.......aur nahi ko beti banana bhi nahi chahiye........mujhe ye baat shaadi ke 12 saal baad samajh aai
Bilkul sahi baat hai.. Mujhe bhi bahu ko beti aur damad ko beta kehna bahut bura lagta hai.. Mere hisab se alag alag rishte ki alag alag maryada hai aur koi bhi rishta doosre se bada ya chota nahi hua.. Kisi ka ek doosre se koi comparison hai hi nahi aur ek ki tulna doosre se karna dono ka apmaan hai. MAG!
Jitnaarji duniya dekh aao.. social media consume kar lo.. jitna marji apni khayalo ki duniya bana lo.. sach yahi h... Right observation.. accept karne me hi peace h! 🙏
Absolutely true. Your efforts are appreciable. All the topics are very relatable. I suggest you one more topic to make a video. There are many middle class families where two children are NOT treated equally. One child is most favourite & parents have crated a divide in their upbringing. This bhed-bhaav goes to generation of those children & parents expect the ill treated & least favoured child to treat them as God. They have loved a child so badly & hated another too badly. Dono bahaviour extreme per. Aage chal ke yehi behaviour mata pita ko hi back fire karta hai. Extremely narcissistic attitude by parents. Kripya kar ke yeh topic bhi uthay. Why one son is more favourite than another. Hamare samaj ko yeh aaina bhi dikhana bahut zaroori hai. Thank you 🙏
Amit Ji, I recently started listening to you. Listening to all this type of dramatic talk from in-laws has been creating lots of emotions/ mental damage which is opposite to their actions and feelings. Thank you for sharing your experiences with the society. and find them extremely useful.
💯 percent correct, sir. I am in 20 yrs of marriage and my those far in-laws who didn't give respect to me, I have cut off relations with them. I have gone through all this. Thanks for the nice video. Waiting for more such informative videos so that our generation can understand relationships better and cope well with our son and daughter-in-laws
Sir I am a big fan ❤️. Aap jaise logon ko aage aana bahut jaruri hai. I liked all your videos. You are an inspiration 🙏🏻. Aap k jaise contant pure RUclips me nahi hai "Brutal truth". 💞
MAG!!!! It's true.. I don't know where this treating bahu like beti is coming but in my locality people don't treat their bahu like beti ...they try to differentiate between the two.. It's true that bahu can't be like beti.. Sab apni jagah thick hai...
In majority of households this is not the case, mother-in-laws see beti-bahu differently. In fact the parents have one standards for their daughter and another set of standards for their bahus. They'll encourage their daughter to rebel against her in-laws and expect their own daughter-in-law to adjust with them.
Mag!! Sahi hain sir 😀😀sahi bolte hain aap😊 Aise bhi log hain jo beti se kaam karvate haain, woh to parayi hoti hain ..she is gonna be a part of other family ..uspe jada kharcha karne ke jarurat nahi ..bahu ko jadda ijjad do wohi sambhalegi budhape mein ..beti to fukat ka kharcha n responsibility hain..upar se damad ke kharcha aur khatirdari ..aur jamai garib ho to bhi problems ya jamai amir ho to jaamai beti humme nichha dikhayenge Agar binaa shadi ki beti ghar pe hain to kai bar usse bahu sein nichhe ka darja hota hain . usko unmarried honee ki bajah se nichcha dikhaya jaata hain esp festivals rituals mein married women ko imp hota hain aur unmarried daughters are treated like alaxmi . Many people also ill treat married daughters kids and give them secondary treatment . Some women get ill treated at both maika and sasuraal while some get good treatment at both places ...it also depends on that woman's ability to make people treat her properly , the family members ,her earning capacity or inheritance or her challak behaviour. Many times bahu won't do anything for sans but sans needs to keep good relationship with her else log kyan kahenge 😂 ingeneral only sons get d pure love of mother 😂 as he is her dulara pyara who has given d mother martial security in young years , social n financial security n social status n is her budhape ki lathi Thank u for us wonderful insights 😀
Sahi baat hai! Realised this after getting married. My mother had 2 sons and always pined for a daughter. Thought she would treat her daughter-in-law like the daughter she never had. Unfortunately, it never turns out that way. Feedback given by in-laws is not taken in the same vein as that by a mother, even if it's far less harsher or less 'conservative'. Resentments stay longer too. Not saying anyone is at fault here. Boys would behave the same.
25-30 years of relationship cannot be understood by your in-laws. However nice they are, they are not real parents. It's all happening through the husband. They will not stand up for you if the husband is to be blamed.
You are right there Amitji !! But in some houses Saas bahu do live like Mother n daughter .. like with me .. I can say anything to my Mom in-law to make for me .. any food .. Becos My husband is supporting , Looking after her and she is dependent on us ..
Sir how to manage being a bahu in a house where beti also lives because of bad marriage. She gets to get all the importance, no responsibility and gets to make decisions of the house and on the other hand I just get to serve all of them and no support. Literally have to rebel to make decisions related to me also. I'm no bechari bahu and have raised the discrimination happening a lot of time but living with them is such a pain as even after knowing everything they can't help but be that way always.
Hello sir... Please guide bf gf relationship...those who are getting married in future, how should we treat each other. What talks should i share with him and what not. Is there need to be any formalities in our relationship
Sir, MAJ, you are a gem. Can u also through some light on how the girls parents behave when they marry off their daughter and handling of emotions, the emptyness feeling.
2000% best ki beti beti aur bahu bahu. Main apni marriage life mein yhi samajh k chali hu. Otherwise expectation badhti hai kyuki aap apne aapko unke bachcho se compare karne lagoge. Fir mann mein aur vicharo mein kalesh. Bhaiya saas aur sasur wahi rahenge humare mummy papa nhi bansakte. Same goes for bahu and damaad.
mujhe lagta hai ab ye shaadi waala system hi khatam ho jaaega apne desh se.....humlog abhi young hai....apni old age ka bandobast abhi se karna padega sir..
Guruji, I am a working person and my wife is also working. I work in the same city and has taken house in the same society in which my in law live. Ab , unko sabko lagta hai ki nahi mai damad hun. Meri individuality ,freedom khatam ho gayi. Woh sab ek taraf, aur mai akela pad jata hun. Koi upay batayen
Jo bhi bolte hi sab jhuth.bahu ko bahu samjha jata hi.itna mentally torcher Kiya jata hi usko.mai divorcy hun isliye bahu ki feelings samjh sakti hun.mere ko to n khane ko dete n bahot mentally paresaan krte the.jiske liye sab chodh ke jao galat dekhte hue bhi kuch n bolte.boys ko only saririk sukh chahiye aur baby chahiye Baki koi mtlb nahi female se.uske emotion uska career uski feelings uska uthna uska baithna uska baat krna uska Sona uska khana kuch nahi samjhte
@@anuragkehri3828 vo ladhka galat tha vahi to dikkat Hui.proof the pure jhuth se saadiya nahi chalti.trust break hota hi to phir kbhi us pr dobara trust nahi koyabja sakta I think jimmeradu n nibha paye koi bhi to usoonsaadi nahibkrni chahiye.koi ye kahe ki hum apni ma ke liye leke aaye hi humko tumme koi interested nahi hi.dunia ko dikhane ke liye saadi kre.aur gaaliya hi dete rahe humko mere ma baap ko kahe ki kuuch nahibdiya.to kuch action lene hi padhte hi life me.aur ladhki sahi hi to ladhke galat ho agar to unko sabak sikhana jaruri hi.khud to dubo lekin inko bhi nahi chodhna chahiye.kisiki beti ke saath galat karoge to uper Wala bhi sab dekhta hi.aapko sja milti hi.aaj us bnde ki shop close ho gyi arthik paresaani hi koi uski ma ko do roti bnane wala nahi hi.hum to sab krte the kbhi unko saas jaisa dekha nahi phir bhi docha kha jayegi torcher krne lge.kkitchrn me n Jane de 10 ke baad kuch apne pasand ka n bnane de personal room me sirf raat ko jao.kya phnna hi vo bhi unse pucho.parlor nahi Jane Dena aur mental harassment krna ma bhn ki gaaliya dena.jb virodh Kiya to haath utha Diya chip kyinnrahe tb hum..aee insan se accha akele raho Jo aapki feelings nnsamjh paye usse saath rrhkr bhi Kya karenge.aaj Mai akele bahot khush hun.jb bhi time milta hi acharyprasant KR video dekhti hun.samaj me bahot kuch galat ho rha hi.
@@anuragkehri3828 thanku.sabko apne karm aur ferj nibhane chahiye beta beti bahu saas sasur ya parents ho.bahu ho to apni jindgi ke saath khilwar Mt Karo khud ka carrier ke saath thodhi jimmedari bhi samjhni chahiye.same boy ko bhi krna chahiye.boy Bahar jakr ayashi krte hi yahan patni uska wait krti hi khana bnati hi.vo vhan affaiir chalate hi ye bhi bahot galat ho rha hi.jb bimar hote hi to patni khyal rakhti hi phir how is poosible ki usko cheat krte hi.ho RHA hi bahot kuch ho rha hi.but humko khud ko sudharne hi.aapka Kiya hua accha is jnm me n mile to n mile lekin agli yoni me jarur milega.
@@boss-zv8qg thi but ab I m very happy my own life.aur iswar Jo krta hi acche ke liye krta hi.us samay bura lgta hi god ne aesa kyun Kiya baad me samjh aata hi ki Jo hua bahot accha hua.kisika mukhota tbhi samne aata hi jb aap usko leave dete krte ho ya uske against jate ho.aur galat n hote bhi aapko galat sabit Kiya jata hi aur tb aapka mooh to Khulna vajib hi.aaj Laxmi ko n pujne wale ki halat bahot kharab ho chuki hi isliye kbhi kisiki beti ko lakr usko taane n de galat n kahe.kyunki karma return hokr aapke paas aata hi hi.
Apki ideology is too good and somewhere it match with my. One Request, If you can make a video on two make saas and Bahu to understand and pull out their fear. Saas try to control son and on the other hand the wife. Both not able to understand one thing that : For Mother that her son will remain her son for ever. And for wife that her husband is her husband not going to become her son. Why to be fearful and jealous from each other. Well great video. Original perspective but not easy to understand by the people or may say Hippocrates. Sorry to use hard word.
MAZA agaya. Sir ek video single child syndrome pe bhi banao. Kyunki yeh trend araha hai mahengai bolke. But north mein especially gaon mein sirf wk ladka ho raha hai woh songle child.
sir, agreed..we are not beti...but then, are they( in laws) our parents?!?..if we are not beti, they are not our parents..it should be both ways..not applicable for bahus only..
MAJ....very true. This is a big hypocrisy to call bahu.... beti! and Damad... son!
sir u r the best. first indian person who is telling the truth of life. no one admits the truth but always blaming each other, well explained in all of ur videos.i am so happy finally someone is saying the untold story of every household. just to prove themselves in society girls or sometimes boys are being blamed .u r dr who watched the time pulse. really proud of u. need people like you. kot kot thanks
Wow! So true!
This also reminded me of a saying in haryanvi language that my senior told me which meant that "you should never interfere in between ppl of same blood. Coz sooner or later, they will reconcile but you will become a villian forever"
I would be happy to know what that actual saying is in Haryanvi :)
This is so True. . . .My Husband cant become a son to my parents, he cant even make a call to my parents and he expects that i should serve his family, brother sister with whole heart..
This is such a pressure on girl shoulder...
There is a big difference between Mother and Mother In Law.
She cant become my mother. This is True.
Sabko ek Caretaker chahiye bahu, bhabhi ke roop me bas
Indian System me Bahu ke kandho pe zimmedari dal dete hai bs.
I faced this toxic behaviour and I always used to fell for it in the beginning but then i started to realise the hypocrisy after some time and it has become heartbreaking
Sir, You are a master in unravelling relationships. Great video. Bahu can never become a daughter. Nor can Damaad become a son. You have to maintain some distance, some formality, a little bit more respect. Very true.
Mujhe to Bahu chodo insaan bhi nhi samjha..meri bhi galti thi bahut mummyji daddyji kiya lekin hue wo apni betiyon ke..maine unhe maa baap samjha lekin wo saas sasur he Bane... very well said Sir... very true
Ab rula dogi kya 😐? Good job
Khud ke maa - baap bachpan me das bar bahar nikalte hain..
Tab bura nahi lagta..
Jab sasuraal me bahar nikalte hain to wo kitna kharab halat hota hai..
Aap bahot achhe gyan baat rahe ho Sir 🙏
Bhot frk h maa baap or sas sasur me, maa baap hme pal pos k bda krte h , hmari education, hmare health,kpde khane sbhi chizo ka khyal rkhte h ,lekin sas sasur 1% bi nhi kr skt iska , or maa baap galti p dat dete h , lekin sas bina galti k.
Huge difference, koi comparison hi nhi ho skta in ka.
I don't disrespect anyone's parents lekin truth is truth.
Exactly Chai Pani wala dialogue mai deti hun logon ko . Bahu ko bs bahu manlo wahi kafi hai...
Hello Sir.....bilkul sahi hai bahu ko kabhi beti nahi samajha jata.......aur nahi ko beti banana bhi nahi chahiye........mujhe ye baat shaadi ke 12 saal baad samajh aai
Bilkul sahi baat hai..
Mujhe bhi bahu ko beti aur damad ko beta kehna bahut bura lagta hai..
Mere hisab se alag alag rishte ki alag alag maryada hai aur koi bhi rishta doosre se bada ya chota nahi hua..
Kisi ka ek doosre se koi comparison hai hi nahi aur ek ki tulna doosre se karna dono ka apmaan hai. MAG!
Jitnaarji duniya dekh aao.. social media consume kar lo.. jitna marji apni khayalo ki duniya bana lo.. sach yahi h... Right observation.. accept karne me hi peace h! 🙏
Maza aa gaya. I am so glad someone is talking about these issues, that too an Indian man.
If Bahu becomes beti she will shout at sasuma from her bed in the morning. "MUMMYYYY CHAI...!!!"
But she can't. 😂
It will be the worst day for her if she shout like "beti".
Mayri tow bhuain hain maray khyal main bhuoon say zayyada free na hoon kam bolain kam galtiyan hoti hain . Ap ki batain 100% right 👍
Absolutely true. Your efforts are appreciable. All the topics are very relatable. I suggest you one more topic to make a video. There are many middle class families where two children are NOT treated equally. One child is most favourite & parents have crated a divide in their upbringing. This bhed-bhaav goes to generation of those children & parents expect the ill treated & least favoured child to treat them as God. They have loved a child so badly & hated another too badly. Dono bahaviour extreme per. Aage chal ke yehi behaviour mata pita ko hi back fire karta hai. Extremely narcissistic attitude by parents. Kripya kar ke yeh topic bhi uthay. Why one son is more favourite than another. Hamare samaj ko yeh aaina bhi dikhana bahut zaroori hai. Thank you 🙏
Mag mag mag mag mag sir very true... Apne to Dil ki bat bol di 🙏🏻🙏🏻🥺
true sir. I hope every saas and Bahu watch this together 😄. You are doing great job sir .
Amit Ji,
I recently started listening to you. Listening to all this type of dramatic talk from in-laws has been creating lots of emotions/ mental damage which is opposite to their actions and feelings. Thank you for sharing your experiences with the society. and find them extremely useful.
बेटी अपना प्रोडक्शन हैं न ,,😍😍
💯 percent correct, sir. I am in 20 yrs of marriage and my those far in-laws who didn't give respect to me, I have cut off relations with them. I have gone through all this. Thanks for the nice video. Waiting for more such informative videos so that our generation can understand relationships better and cope well with our son and daughter-in-laws
Aapka beta hai?
Same here
Sahi h meri sas mere liye to bolti h ki nokari vali bahu nhi chahiye or meri nanad k liye bolti h bhagvan meri beti k jaldi nokari lag jaye😢
Every relationship is unique and should remain as such 🙏
Keep on spreading precious knowledge
Sir I am a big fan ❤️. Aap jaise logon ko aage aana bahut jaruri hai. I liked all your videos. You are an inspiration 🙏🏻. Aap k jaise contant pure RUclips me nahi hai "Brutal truth". 💞
MAG. You are amazing. I wait for your videos everyday and even share it with my parents n husband too🤗
Absolutely true sir...i always say that we can be what we are in relationship. This is making life difficult for both parties.
MAG!!!! It's true.. I don't know where this treating bahu like beti is coming but in my locality people don't treat their bahu like beti ...they try to differentiate between the two.. It's true that bahu can't be like beti.. Sab apni jagah thick hai...
Bilkul sahi Suravi ji.
In majority of households this is not the case, mother-in-laws see beti-bahu differently. In fact the parents have one standards for their daughter and another set of standards for their bahus. They'll encourage their daughter to rebel against her in-laws and expect their own daughter-in-law to adjust with them.
MAG...sir its brutal truth of relationships if someone accepts then its good. Keep the relation as they made why to create mess.
Very primary,very practical, instructive.
MAG MAG...Infinite MAG sir G..aapka koi jawab nahi kasam se..🙏😇
Mag!! Sahi hain sir 😀😀sahi bolte hain aap😊
Aise bhi log hain jo beti se kaam karvate haain, woh to parayi hoti hain ..she is gonna be a part of other family ..uspe jada kharcha karne ke jarurat nahi ..bahu ko jadda ijjad do wohi sambhalegi budhape mein ..beti to fukat ka kharcha n responsibility hain..upar se damad ke kharcha aur khatirdari ..aur jamai garib ho to bhi problems ya jamai amir ho to jaamai beti humme nichha dikhayenge
Agar binaa shadi ki beti ghar pe hain to kai bar usse bahu sein nichhe ka darja hota hain . usko unmarried honee ki bajah se nichcha dikhaya jaata hain esp festivals rituals mein married women ko imp hota hain aur unmarried daughters are treated like alaxmi .
Many people also ill treat married daughters kids and give them secondary treatment .
Some women get ill treated at both maika and sasuraal while some get good treatment at both places ...it also depends on that woman's ability to make people treat her properly , the family members ,her earning capacity or inheritance or her challak behaviour.
Many times bahu won't do anything for sans but sans needs to keep good relationship with her else log kyan kahenge 😂
ingeneral only sons get d pure love of mother 😂 as he is her dulara pyara who has given d mother martial security in young years , social n financial security n social status n is her budhape ki lathi
Thank u for us wonderful insights 😀
Indian parents ko apna बेटा ही प्यारा होता है चाहे वह उनकी ijjat करे na करे
Very true
This is Indian Reality
Respected sir, you have depicted true picture prevailing in society in your videos. With regards
Truth, truth and only truth. Keep it up sir 👍👍
Well said sir !Maj !I am in both place beti and Bahu .liked your all videos
Thank you so much Sir for ur guidence....it's very true.
True sir... at the end of the day it's about feelings .. if feelings are genuine from both sides relationship flourish otherwise goes down the drain..
Absoutely correct sir there is thin line we should not cross in relationship
100×MAG.
I think you experienced or observed this in your life that's why one by one everything is correct 💯
Sahi baat hai! Realised this after getting married. My mother had 2 sons and always pined for a daughter. Thought she would treat her daughter-in-law like the daughter she never had. Unfortunately, it never turns out that way. Feedback given by in-laws is not taken in the same vein as that by a mother, even if it's far less harsher or less 'conservative'. Resentments stay longer too. Not saying anyone is at fault here. Boys would behave the same.
Exactly , Give that respect .... 🙏 MAG
MAG practical approach in the marriage to avoid conflicts, very nice Sir
25-30 years of relationship cannot be understood by your in-laws. However nice they are, they are not real parents. It's all happening through the husband. They will not stand up for you if the husband is to be blamed.
True, .
I fight alot for this, to my mil.
I told her, treat me like bahu, please
all your videos are stupendous and thought provoking.
Al always very straight n true point . Mag🙏
Sir, I watch your videos and whatever you say in those videos is absolutely correct 👍
MAG
What you said is 100% correct.
Bahurani ya naukrani......
Maza aa gya Sir Ji 😀 bhot bhot dhanyawaad aapka
Ur all videos are superb sir🙏 , its bitter truth bahu kitna bhi kuch kar le par usse koi jagh nahi milti nd beti ki jagh to koi le hi nahi sakta
Bahu ko ghar ki kaamwali se bhi niche samajh kar treat Kiya jata hai ...beti ke barabar to kya Insaan tak nahi samjha jata
Phir ap bhi kaam wali ban k treat KRO. Means chuti. ,Her phear ,etc😝
@@elvis-slippers aap boy so shayad samjh nahi paao baat ki gambhirta ko
Sahu baat....
Guru Ji 👏👍🏻 Main distance to avoid accident 😂😂
MAG sir
Ur topics are unique and true
आपकी बात से पूरी तरह सहमत हूं मैं
Sir, MAG very true .
Also make a video on ronewali sans bahu TV serial and our family behavior...
Very knowledgeable person 😊
Very true. Absolutely right.
You are right there Amitji !!
But in some houses Saas bahu do live like Mother n daughter .. like with me ..
I can say anything to my Mom in-law to make for me .. any food ..
Becos My husband is supporting , Looking after her and she is dependent on us ..
Sir how to manage being a bahu in a house where beti also lives because of bad marriage.
She gets to get all the importance, no responsibility and gets to make decisions of the house and on the other hand I just get to serve all of them and no support. Literally have to rebel to make decisions related to me also.
I'm no bechari bahu and have raised the discrimination happening a lot of time but living with them is such a pain as even after knowing everything they can't help but be that way always.
Hello sir... Please guide bf gf relationship...those who are getting married in future, how should we treat each other. What talks should i share with him and what not. Is there need to be any formalities in our relationship
Sir to good u r always right 👍
Sir, MAJ, you are a gem. Can u also through some light on how the girls parents behave when they marry off their daughter and handling of emotions, the emptyness feeling.
MAJ absolutely true sir 🙏
MAG always you give practical information
Finally somebody said it! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ek dam correct brother
🙏🙏🙏
MAG!! Very true
2000% best ki beti beti aur bahu bahu.
Main apni marriage life mein yhi samajh k chali hu. Otherwise expectation badhti hai kyuki aap apne aapko unke bachcho se compare karne lagoge.
Fir mann mein aur vicharo mein kalesh.
Bhaiya saas aur sasur wahi rahenge humare mummy papa nhi bansakte.
Same goes for bahu and damaad.
mujhe lagta hai ab ye shaadi waala system hi khatam ho jaaega apne desh se.....humlog abhi young hai....apni old age ka bandobast abhi se karna padega sir..
Very true sir🙏🙏
Sir, mere husband ko hindi nahi aati...agar apke videos mein english subtitles ho toh bhala ho jayega mera
1000 percent true
Please create a video of SIL brainwashing MIL and spoiled the relationship between DIL and MIL
Maja AA gaya
Guruji, I am a working person and my wife is also working. I work in the same city and has taken house in the same society in which my in law live.
Ab , unko sabko lagta hai ki nahi mai damad hun. Meri individuality ,freedom khatam ho gayi. Woh sab ek taraf, aur mai akela pad jata hun.
Koi upay batayen
Mag. Thankyou very much.
Maza aa gya guruji
Mujhe toh do do bahuen hote bhi kaam karna padd raha hai....sukh hi nahi hai bahu kaa...this is so true
Maj
Sir again you are great
Sir ji apki video achi or gyan or jo samaj parivar ka sahi ayina dekha te h ji
Ek gujarish hogi ki thodi awqj kam aati h voice me
Totally agreed 👍,MAJ
Great Sir, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍😊
Sir audio low ho rha hai pichle kuch videos se, please adjust mic 🎤
Vry true sirji👌🥰
Jo bhi bolte hi sab jhuth.bahu ko bahu samjha jata hi.itna mentally torcher Kiya jata hi usko.mai divorcy hun isliye bahu ki feelings samjh sakti hun.mere ko to n khane ko dete n bahot mentally paresaan krte the.jiske liye sab chodh ke jao galat dekhte hue bhi kuch n bolte.boys ko only saririk sukh chahiye aur baby chahiye Baki koi mtlb nahi female se.uske emotion uska career uski feelings uska uthna uska baithna uska baat krna uska Sona uska khana kuch nahi samjhte
You are absolutely correct most of the husbands play diplomacy in the house leaving wife alone in front of cruel and shrewd in laws
Mostly log sirf dikhawa krte h same treat krne ka 👍
@@anuragkehri3828 vo ladhka galat tha vahi to dikkat Hui.proof the pure jhuth se saadiya nahi chalti.trust break hota hi to phir kbhi us pr dobara trust nahi koyabja sakta I think jimmeradu n nibha paye koi bhi to usoonsaadi nahibkrni chahiye.koi ye kahe ki hum apni ma ke liye leke aaye hi humko tumme koi interested nahi hi.dunia ko dikhane ke liye saadi kre.aur gaaliya hi dete rahe humko mere ma baap ko kahe ki kuuch nahibdiya.to kuch action lene hi padhte hi life me.aur ladhki sahi hi to ladhke galat ho agar to unko sabak sikhana jaruri hi.khud to dubo lekin inko bhi nahi chodhna chahiye.kisiki beti ke saath galat karoge to uper Wala bhi sab dekhta hi.aapko sja milti hi.aaj us bnde ki shop close ho gyi arthik paresaani hi koi uski ma ko do roti bnane wala nahi hi.hum to sab krte the kbhi unko saas jaisa dekha nahi phir bhi docha kha jayegi torcher krne lge.kkitchrn me n Jane de 10 ke baad kuch apne pasand ka n bnane de personal room me sirf raat ko jao.kya phnna hi vo bhi unse pucho.parlor nahi Jane Dena aur mental harassment krna ma bhn ki gaaliya dena.jb virodh Kiya to haath utha Diya chip kyinnrahe tb hum..aee insan se accha akele raho Jo aapki feelings nnsamjh paye usse saath rrhkr bhi Kya karenge.aaj Mai akele bahot khush hun.jb bhi time milta hi acharyprasant KR video dekhti hun.samaj me bahot kuch galat ho rha hi.
@@anuragkehri3828 thanku.sabko apne karm aur ferj nibhane chahiye beta beti bahu saas sasur ya parents ho.bahu ho to apni jindgi ke saath khilwar Mt Karo khud ka carrier ke saath thodhi jimmedari bhi samjhni chahiye.same boy ko bhi krna chahiye.boy Bahar jakr ayashi krte hi yahan patni uska wait krti hi khana bnati hi.vo vhan affaiir chalate hi ye bhi bahot galat ho rha hi.jb bimar hote hi to patni khyal rakhti hi phir how is poosible ki usko cheat krte hi.ho RHA hi bahot kuch ho rha hi.but humko khud ko sudharne hi.aapka Kiya hua accha is jnm me n mile to n mile lekin agli yoni me jarur milega.
@@boss-zv8qg thi but ab I m very happy my own life.aur iswar Jo krta hi acche ke liye krta hi.us samay bura lgta hi god ne aesa kyun Kiya baad me samjh aata hi ki Jo hua bahot accha hua.kisika mukhota tbhi samne aata hi jb aap usko leave dete krte ho ya uske against jate ho.aur galat n hote bhi aapko galat sabit Kiya jata hi aur tb aapka mooh to Khulna vajib hi.aaj Laxmi ko n pujne wale ki halat bahot kharab ho chuki hi isliye kbhi kisiki beti ko lakr usko taane n de galat n kahe.kyunki karma return hokr aapke paas aata hi hi.
Sir make video on whether it is good decision to settle abroad ... Pros and cons considering family and kids future
Well said 👏 👌
MAG jabardast.....
Sir aap bhot ache margadarshi hain
Apki ideology is too good and somewhere it match with my.
One Request, If you can make a video on two make saas and Bahu to understand and pull out their fear.
Saas try to control son and on the other hand the wife.
Both not able to understand one thing that :
For Mother that her son will remain her son for ever. And for wife that her husband is her husband not going to become her son.
Why to be fearful and jealous from each other.
Well great video. Original perspective but not easy to understand by the people or may say Hippocrates.
Sorry to use hard word.
MAG...sir ji 👍🏻😊
Mai
Wow so interesting 🤣🤣 topic
MAZA agaya.
Sir ek video single child syndrome pe bhi banao. Kyunki yeh trend araha hai mahengai bolke.
But north mein especially gaon mein sirf wk ladka ho raha hai woh songle child.
Truely said Mag
hariyanvi dialog wow👌👌
sir, agreed..we are not beti...but then, are they( in laws) our parents?!?..if we are not beti, they are not our parents..it should be both ways..not applicable for bahus only..
Great videos maj
MAG very very keep it On