this is my official Nick and Charlie 5-year update petition signature. 🖋 also, the way consent is handled in this show makes me so unbelievably happy! 💓💜💙
Regarding Isaac's storyline, I think one of the most poignant moments is one often overlooked because it's super subtle, but him saying he doesn't have a celebrity crush and Imogen immediately going "everyone does" hits me so hard. As someone who used to fake crushes growing up and now that I know the truth about myself as acearo, has a very different definition of what a celebrity crush is compared to my friends. The moment goes by so quickly and is overshadowed by the rest of the game, but it's one that has stuck with me deeply since seeing it.
I just LOVE the walk back to their hotel room at 16:57 - it is such a simple scene with no context needed for the plot, but it is so lovely seeing Nick carry Charlie back to their room. Reminded me of the London Pride 2022, when Kit and Joe re-created the illustration of Nick and Charlie at Pride, with Nick carrying Charlie.
I love the balcony scene, how Nick stares at Charly so in love and the "Not running away this time though" 🥰 at first I didn't pay attention to that line but it's so reassuring for Charlie. I love it! ❤
I completely agree. As a parent I make sure I never assume my children will 1) date some of the opposite sex. I say person if there is a discussion and 2) never assume they will date or love someone if that is not in the cards. This show (and books) has been very helpful with that.
This reminds me of how "involved" my daughter's dad is...he thinks he is father of the year and sees her maybe once a year at best growing up...she's an adult now so she moved out, and she knows better...but the damage is done...his loss truly because she's simply amazing 💖
This comment kinda makes me wanna cry 💔 I'm 31 and I stop trying a few years ago ... But for about 5 years I tried making plans with my dad and getting him involve in my life. I tried making him part of my life and the things I enjoy. I wanted him to hug me like when I was little and I even told him and he said "how am I gonna hug you? You are 31yo." I use to cry at nights. Then I realized it's not me the one that have to look for that love. I shouldn't (no one should) beg for love. You shouldn't have to look for the love and attention of a father ... I needed to talk about it, sorry about the long comment. But reading yours made me realized that it's him the one losing the gift of being parte of my life
@@conobravomolina8726 Absolutely! I know it hurts, and I know nothing will fill that void, but when you understand that the failing is utterly on his side and not on yours, that can be healing. You may be focused on the hugs you missed out on, but think of all the incredibly hurtful words he didn't have a chance to say to you because he kept you clear of his disastrous parenting skills. I hope you find your worth elsewhere, because he's not able to, nor is he worthy of, giving that to you. Here's a virtual hug from me!
@@conobravomolina8726I’m so sorry…trust me…it’s not easy to watch her, especially when she was little and he’d promise to see her and not show up and she’d cry asking why he didn’t want her…she is in therapy for his neglect and it’s helping thankfully, but she definitely shouldn’t have had to go into therapy if he had been a real dad
@@elisabethbauman6190 thanks for the kind words! 💛 I'm happy I still hace my sister, mom and friends to share my life too tbh ✨💛 thanks! Virtual hugs for you too 💛
@@loloonsunshine I haven't been on therapy bc of this, maybe I should. Hope she will be great one day, I know it must be hard for her. I don't really know if one day we will 100% "get over it" maybe it's always gonna be there. We'll see. Thanks for your kind words 💛
I hope everyone is having a good day/night! I just want you know you are loved. The last episodes of this season just wrecked me. I know it is only going to be worse next season.
The recharging line is my favorite as well, in the whole series. It just makes my heart happy. I loved Season 1 (was a bit obsessed with it) but I actually think I like this season even more. It’s more mature and the character growth is so well done.
I love that line, too, and it was filmed beautifully! I find it particularly impactful because I'm not a hugger and don't particularly enjoy contact, which has been a problem in my romantic relationships. I can see it now - I can see the appeal and how meaningful it is. It's been really illuminating to watch Nick expressing his love for Charlie through the love language of physical touch, which was obvious in the comics but has been brought to life so compellingly through Kit's performance.
I do find it interesting the contrast between Ben and Harry at the party, Ben sneaks in, doing what he wants without permission, Harry knocks, asks to come in and gives an apology, I really liked this contrast and I'm so here for Harry's growth. Also, completely agree Mr Farouk's actor is incredible and stand out. I'm obsessed with his facial expressions in his vulnerable moments. So much about him is the male version of me, I love his character so much.
Your comment about the happy birthday song made me laugh out loud. I come from a family of musicians, and when our extended family gets together, we sing. No shyness, 4-part harmony, sounds like a choir. Then I go to other people’s houses and experience the horrendous happy birthday song and want to crawl into a hole. How can so many people not even carry a tune?! 😅
Nick and Charlies hugs are my favorite this season!! the way he just buries his head into his shoulder is so cute! :) tysm for these videos!! I love seeing your pure reaction! :)
Nimah Talagheni is a fantastic actor. I saw him in a clip of some stage show he was in. I was hooked. I have been obsessed with him for 2 years or so. I think this might be his first big TV show thing.
That fantastic song you were singing was “As if we never said goodbye” From Sunset Boulevard. First time I was exposed to the beautiful song was Chris Folder’s performance of it in Glee.
This is my favorite episode. The scene with Nick and Charlie in their room was stunningly shot and was so tender and special. Really enjoyed your reaction. Better have tissues ready for the last two.
7:00 - Charlie would make a great politician - deep down he is very clever in manipulating - not in a bad way, but you can see he uses certain ways to defer attention from him and back to say Nick. This is a defensive technique which many young people use when they have been bullied and suffered from mental trauma. A sign that Charlie really needs to see a specialist
It’s interesting you say that, cause in the novels, I think it’s Tori that mentions that Charlie is the best liar she’s met. We so often see lying as a “bad quality” of someone or that it makes someone a bad person. But, like you said, it’s a defense mechanism for many. Doesn’t make it “good” or whatever, but people need to be more understanding about WHY people lie before they use it to judge their character.
16:40 - I read somewhere Kizzy had to keep in her mouth a mouthful of tinned soup so that at the right moment she could spit it out all over the best as vomit - totally disgusting, but we've all been there as teens, taking alcohol for the first time and your stomach can't cope.
As an older gay guy who is also on the ace spectrum, Isaac’s storyline has resonated with me more than I can express in words. High school me was basically the GenX US version of him. Also, is that girl with the buzz cut a shit-stirrer or what!? 😅
Your reactions are always heartfelt and thoughtful, but this one was really on another level. Seeing you experience such a range of emotions in response to this episode was deeply validating for all of us who see something of ourselves in these characters and who all wish our own experiences had been more like those of Nick, Charlie, and the gang. Thank you, JRL, for being you.
I'm crying all over again over Isaac. Sorry, I comment a lot. I have a lot of thoughts. As someone who recently figured out ( age 38) they were ACE, Isaac's storyline means the world to me. There was no one like him on TV for me to watch growing up.
@@FeeFiFoFumBalthazar you know the saddest part is, it was my friend who made me have that light bulb moment. We have known each other since we were 14 so she knows me very well. We were talking about relationships and stuff. I was telling her how a co-worker of mine who is in their 20's was asking about our sexuality and I was like well, I know I am attracted to me but honestly it is whatever for me. I have never put thought into it. That also lead to me having a conversation with my mother about intamcy and relationships I have had and I was like look I have never been presented with anything more than kissing but I also don't think I care. It doesn't interest me as much as other things. I am not even sure I like kissing that much. So, after telling my friend all that as we were eating Korean BbQ she was like," well did you ever consider that you're ace. That you might be asexual( I was already saying I was sapiosexual) just maybe that is why that doesn't matter. When she said that, I swear it was like the sky opened and I heard Angels sing. So now I am just trying to navigate in this world knowing what I know. I am so sure that if I had seen one character growing up in the late 90's early 2000's that was even a little like me I would figured this out sooner. But now I can watch Isacc or Blackbeard on Our Flag Means Death or even Azaraphale and Crowley and go," oh, I can love someone without all that pressure and if it goes forward it goes forward. If it doesn't that is OK." There are so many forms of intimacy and I just wish I learned that sooner. Sorry for the rambling.
13:22 Aw 💗 I’m so happy that my aro-ace identifying 12 yo child has this to watch he is so excited for season 3!! As a bi-pan queer mom in her mid-forties, I can only imagine having this series as a teen & how beautiful it would be 🎉
6:30 don't worryyy this is literally sooo relatable because I get really emotional about something little and I don't even know why I got SO😅 emotional 😅😅
It’s cool that you noticed Radio Silence and This Winter on the shelf, but go back and look again. On the right side of the bottom shelf are all four of the Heartstopper books!
Great reaction! Also, Youssef Farouk, the man you are ❤❤ I'm so sorry for anyone who may have seen any of my other comments on any other heartstopper video for being so predictable, but i can't help it, I love the teachers, they are great ❤❤❤❤
Always love your reactions and appreciate how emotionally vulnerable you get. I was also disappointed that the Harry apology scene was so short but it'll make sense in the next episode.
I agree with you on the point about Nick’s dad. I haven’t ever met my father either, but I think it’s sadder when someone knows who their father is (or mother for that matter), but he or she takes no interest in wanting to be a part of their child’s life.
that scene where Isaac was so lost going back to the party thinking he thought kissing James would end of his doubts/questions about himself but rather make feel more lost. but i’m excited for you to see where his character arcs goes (but i think you already know coz you’ve read the books..ha!).
There are dozens of moments in the series that draw tears from me, but one of the lesser ones -- still hugely powerful -- is the shot of Nick asleep on Charlie's shoulder on the bus home.
i get ridiculously emotional about music, films/tv, so i am right there with you! and i'm so happy that you have heartstopper portraying a character that you identify with so much, everyone should feel as seen as you feel watching these episodes. love your reactions, you have a new subscriber! can't wait for the final 2 episodes 😊
I remember in comic Charlie said many thing to Harry, and the word in here just “no” is good! And we know the thing became said to Ben in Ep7 I think it’s a good way to finish it!❤
I totally agree. I just turned 56. I only just realized I am ARO a few years ago. So many things in my life now make sense. I can only imagine if there was content like this when I was growing up that I wouldn't have had so many struggles with trying to figure out why I was so weird, so broken, so wrong.
Same. I'm 44, and I've had decades of my mother wringing her hands saying "you'd better get someone soon, or all the good ones are going to be taken!" and "If you just had a partner in your life to keep you grounded, then everything else would fall into place." I feel so lucky that I have a cohort of high school and college friends who have all managed to make it to my age without settling down and make me feel like I'm not broken if I value other things in life more than romance. Old books used to make us feel pity or scorn for spinsters, but I think they may have been living their best lives under everyone's radar.
Hi, you made a very interesting comment at around 4:45 - I am 38 years old, and I have seen this happen back growing up as a teenager in the late 90s early 00s. There were TV shows which had kids of 5, 6 or 7 years old and the host would always ask "do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?" and "will you get married when you are older?" - this obsession is down to the old fashioned ideal that marriage was the perfect thing for humans. Sadly it seems part of that obsession has remained even now in 2023.
Loving the reactions! I completely agree with what you said about aro-ace representation and thank you for wanting to add to the representation online. I'm in my late 20s and still coming to terms with my aro-ace identity. I wish there had been more representation in the media I consumed when I was younger. It's difficult to get rid of that feeling that there is something wrong with you when no one in your immediate circle seems to understand what you are feeling. The amount of times I've heard people say- "you just haven't found the right person"... I know they mean well but it perpetuates this feeling that I am broken- that I can't feel something others seem to so easily. If I had had people who were able to explain asexuality to me and tell me that it wasn't anything to be ashamed or embarrassed of sooner- it would have saved me a lot of confusion, sadness and self loathing! Hopefully this show marks the start of a new wave of representation for aro-aces and we'll be the last generation to feel like undercover aliens!
I'm crying reading this. I really, really hope so. I feel like I have purpose now in representing the ace/aro community. We will be the last generation. I will die on that hill 😭😂
Yup, I've heard that countless times, too - "you just haven't found the right person." Even if you're not aro ace, it still makes you feel like you're not putting in the work to do what it takes to live your best life, like you shouldn't be spending all this time focusing on a career and stuff when your time would be better spent on an expedition to "find the right person." Fortunately, I have a much healthier attitude than I was raised with, and I'm happy to validate everyone on the sexuality spectrum! You're uniquely you, and that is all anyone must be to be worthy.
I totally get you getting so emotional in these episodes - I do too! As an older gay man (mid-60's), seeing this BEAUTIFUL representation of young gay love and exploration is absolutely thrilling and gratifying. It would have been incredible for me at that age to imagine anything like this being possible. As if that weren't enough, the execution of this is so perfect, so delicious in every way, that I am OBSESSED. All of these young actors are brilliant, but I have to give special props to Kit Connor, who strikes me as one of the most natural, genuine young actors I've ever seen. You can see every single conflicting emotion cross his face, without it ever feeling forced or "acted." I have deliberately avoided reading the books, so that the show would be completely fresh to me, and I'm so very happy to see how the story lines are expanding for some of the other characters, particularly Isaac (whose story line is breaking my heart), and Mr. Ajayi with Mr. Farouk. I agree with you that the actor playing him (Nima Taleghani) is absolutely wonderful. The way it's been written, at first he comes across as TERRIFYING, but as we get to know him, we're seeing more and more of the humor and the heart in him, and it's just so beautiful. This whole series has become one of my favorite shows of all time.
Agreed! I am also in awe of Kit's mastery of the craft, but it wasn't until this season that I was able to appreciate how masterful Joe is, too. His representation of someone with so much internal turmoil is spot on, and the way he delivers his lines when opening up about his mental health is uncannily accurate to me. Every hesitation, every glance away, every postural adjustment and fidget and dropped word feels utterly authentic. If Joe doesn't have personal experience to draw upon to bring this storyline to life, he is incredibly gifted. Of course, if he does have personal experience to draw upon, he's still fantastic in his ability to channel it. I'm going to keep an eye on his career, too!
D'awww - 'recharging' is the best! Also, you said you were a little bummed we didn't get the rest of the speech when Charlie told Harry he couldn't come in for Tara's party. If I'm remembering it right from the books, we kinda get it later in the season but not said to Harry.
I'm only as far as the intro, so I don't have anything to really comment on yet - but I guess I just... want my 10 points for recognizing the Andrew Lloyd Webber of it all 😂(It's late, I'm silly) Now... to settle in for another wonderful, beautiful reaction to this wonderful, beautiful story. 💞 Your reactions really are so lovely, Jackie, and your love for this show and these books and these characters (and these actors/creators) just never fails to make me feel, just...happy. 🥰
😵the fact that during comments of consensuality in a relationship, Charlie asks "Kissing's still ok though?" And Ccaptions wrote "Pissing's still ok though?" And I had a 🤯
I agree with the updates moving forward…even if it is a year in review graphic but honestly, I feel like this cast need to just act it out or even just have a party where we get snip it’s or flash backs of what has been going on in their lives!
A show I would recommend for Ace rep is Heartbreak High... it's a great show, very different feel to HS but also very good and VERY funny and a lot of good Gen Z representation in general. (Also has some of the best Autistic rep I've seen in a character called Quinni who's played by an Autistic actress). Won't say too much because it'll be a bit of a spoiler but there's an Ace character (not aro though) who tries to navigate his crush and budding relationship with another character (who's not ace) while also dealing with a ton of other stuff. They ended up being my fav couple and 2 of my fav characters in the show. So yeah highly recommend it if you haven't seen it.
Your beautiful singing was As if We Never Said Goodbye from Sunset Boulevard by Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber, you owe me 10 points 😊. Just a quick advanced warning you will need tissues handy for the very last scence from episode 8 it has some of the best acting I've ever seen, Kit and Joe really smash this one, move over Larry Olivier, Alec Guiness, Derek Jacobi these 2 20 year old lads are coming through.
I don't know why I'm so surprised so many people knew what song it was 😂 but thank you for describing it as beautiful. Its been a long time since I've had a compliment for my voice. But u couldn't agree more about the final scene. Can confirm I needed tissues. A lot of them.
I was impressed with your vocals as well, sir! Didn’t know the song as I’m nor familiar with Sunset Boulevard, but one day when I see it I’m going to think of this video.
@@twobluestripes Thank you so much - it was my career and biggest passion for a long, long time before I suffered vocal damage. Since I released the Thank you, Alice Oseman video, however, it has started to come back which has been a pretty emotional experience.
I SOOOO wish I had this show growing up. I came. out to my sister first, and then my parents they were so very supportive and understanding. I am 41 years old, I have a BF and we've been together for ages, it took me so long to know that it was ok. I am a very emotional person, and I actually like that. I just wish I hadn't waited so long. It's very hard to be gay in Texas
Hearing about people who realised they were asexual (and/or aro) the thing that always comes up is how broken we felt and how much of a freak for not getting it. I only realised when I was 37 and I'm so so happy young queers now get that representation of aroace so if they feel that label matches them, they hopefully don't live years and years thinking there is something wrong with them and maybe pushing themselves to be "normal" (and breaking their own heart in the process over and over).
I’m 30 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship. And almost ever person in my life is putting pressure on me now. Related to that so much. I’m not even sure who I am yet….
I really love Nick and Charlie, and of course Kit and Joe. They are amazing! they are not acting being in love... they are in love. And I also think their acting is even better this season (I can't believe I am saying it - but this season is better than the first one... what a blasphemy)
Hi there! thank you for your content, I really enjoy it! From what I gather, the character of Todd in "BoJack Horseman" was an ace character well received by the aro/ace community! Stellar show, exceptional piece of television! (But it only truly picks up after a couple of episodes or so, you gotta trust it lol). So maybe give it a watch? I'd be curious of your reaction. Warning, though - it can be emotionally very heavy, cut very deep, as it deals with some dark themes, while at the same time being bloody hilarious!
Honestly, living in a part of Asia that is definitely not progressive, it can be quite frustrating how many people ask you "Have you been married? Have you got a girlfriend? When will you get married?". And it's somewhat worse in my workplace where a teacher was just found having a romantic relationship with a student. Now all teachers and staff members who have not married yet, including me, got that stare where they're being suspicious that we might do the same thing, unless we get married soon. My ace self just can't.
I have not read any of the books yet. They remain on my shelf because I wanted to walk into this series totally cold. I'll be able to compare Series to Books later. Season 2 just seems to get better and better. All of the acting is just brilliant. Everyone has grown into their characters so well. The moment that got to me was Isaac standing there with tears running down his face. (And YES to once every 5 years, getting a CHARLIE and NICK update movie....)
Based on where Darcy’s story goes and how she generally uses being LiVeLy AnD fUn to avoid things, I wonder if Darcy pouring Nick a full glass of vodka without asking and then being the first one to vomit is hinting at an alcohol abuse plotline in season three or four.
Ive only seen two other instances of an Ace storyline be mentioned in TV and that was in season 2 of Sex Education and in Emmerdale they had Aaron's sister be Ace and in typical soap fashion they were eventually killed off the show
I'm an Asian and my family is weird. I don't know if this is the case to others as well but I'm not really allowed to be into a relationship when I was in my teens. Yet when I got into my mid 20's they kept asking if I have a girlfriend lol.
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The only person that has had the correct reaction to the recharging moment thank you
Proud to hold that title ❤
this is my official Nick and Charlie 5-year update petition signature. 🖋
also, the way consent is handled in this show makes me so unbelievably happy! 💓💜💙
Do you mind if I place my signature here too? And I also love how the consent is handled ❤
Regarding Isaac's storyline, I think one of the most poignant moments is one often overlooked because it's super subtle, but him saying he doesn't have a celebrity crush and Imogen immediately going "everyone does" hits me so hard. As someone who used to fake crushes growing up and now that I know the truth about myself as acearo, has a very different definition of what a celebrity crush is compared to my friends. The moment goes by so quickly and is overshadowed by the rest of the game, but it's one that has stuck with me deeply since seeing it.
It stuck with me too and that's exactly why it was a nonnegotiable to not get cut from the RUclips edit of this video.
I just LOVE the walk back to their hotel room at 16:57 - it is such a simple scene with no context needed for the plot, but it is so lovely seeing Nick carry Charlie back to their room. Reminded me of the London Pride 2022, when Kit and Joe re-created the illustration of Nick and Charlie at Pride, with Nick carrying Charlie.
Agreed!
I love the balcony scene, how Nick stares at Charly so in love and the "Not running away this time though" 🥰 at first I didn't pay attention to that line but it's so reassuring for Charlie. I love it! ❤
I completely agree. As a parent I make sure I never assume my children will 1) date some of the opposite sex. I say person if there is a discussion and 2) never assume they will date or love someone if that is not in the cards. This show (and books) has been very helpful with that.
Thank you for this!!!
This reminds me of how "involved" my daughter's dad is...he thinks he is father of the year and sees her maybe once a year at best growing up...she's an adult now so she moved out, and she knows better...but the damage is done...his loss truly because she's simply amazing 💖
This comment kinda makes me wanna cry 💔 I'm 31 and I stop trying a few years ago ... But for about 5 years I tried making plans with my dad and getting him involve in my life. I tried making him part of my life and the things I enjoy. I wanted him to hug me like when I was little and I even told him and he said "how am I gonna hug you? You are 31yo." I use to cry at nights. Then I realized it's not me the one that have to look for that love. I shouldn't (no one should) beg for love. You shouldn't have to look for the love and attention of a father ... I needed to talk about it, sorry about the long comment. But reading yours made me realized that it's him the one losing the gift of being parte of my life
@@conobravomolina8726 Absolutely! I know it hurts, and I know nothing will fill that void, but when you understand that the failing is utterly on his side and not on yours, that can be healing. You may be focused on the hugs you missed out on, but think of all the incredibly hurtful words he didn't have a chance to say to you because he kept you clear of his disastrous parenting skills. I hope you find your worth elsewhere, because he's not able to, nor is he worthy of, giving that to you. Here's a virtual hug from me!
@@conobravomolina8726I’m so sorry…trust me…it’s not easy to watch her, especially when she was little and he’d promise to see her and not show up and she’d cry asking why he didn’t want her…she is in therapy for his neglect and it’s helping thankfully, but she definitely shouldn’t have had to go into therapy if he had been a real dad
@@elisabethbauman6190 thanks for the kind words! 💛 I'm happy I still hace my sister, mom and friends to share my life too tbh ✨💛 thanks! Virtual hugs for you too 💛
@@loloonsunshine I haven't been on therapy bc of this, maybe I should. Hope she will be great one day, I know it must be hard for her. I don't really know if one day we will 100% "get over it" maybe it's always gonna be there. We'll see. Thanks for your kind words 💛
I hope everyone is having a good day/night! I just want you know you are loved.
The last episodes of this season just wrecked me. I know it is only going to be worse next season.
I know that if I could barely hold back tears this season, I'm definitely going to break when season 3 comes out😭
The recharging line is my favorite as well, in the whole series. It just makes my heart happy. I loved Season 1 (was a bit obsessed with it) but I actually think I like this season even more. It’s more mature and the character growth is so well done.
I love that line, too, and it was filmed beautifully! I find it particularly impactful because I'm not a hugger and don't particularly enjoy contact, which has been a problem in my romantic relationships. I can see it now - I can see the appeal and how meaningful it is. It's been really illuminating to watch Nick expressing his love for Charlie through the love language of physical touch, which was obvious in the comics but has been brought to life so compellingly through Kit's performance.
I do find it interesting the contrast between Ben and Harry at the party, Ben sneaks in, doing what he wants without permission, Harry knocks, asks to come in and gives an apology, I really liked this contrast and I'm so here for Harry's growth.
Also, completely agree Mr Farouk's actor is incredible and stand out. I'm obsessed with his facial expressions in his vulnerable moments. So much about him is the male version of me, I love his character so much.
Your comment about the happy birthday song made me laugh out loud. I come from a family of musicians, and when our extended family gets together, we sing. No shyness, 4-part harmony, sounds like a choir. Then I go to other people’s houses and experience the horrendous happy birthday song and want to crawl into a hole. How can so many people not even carry a tune?! 😅
Can totally relate
I’m not usually an emotional person but this season has made me cry in one way or another every episode 😂
Nick and Charlies hugs are my favorite this season!! the way he just buries his head into his shoulder is so cute! :) tysm for these videos!! I love seeing your pure reaction! :)
Nimah Talagheni is a fantastic actor. I saw him in a clip of some stage show he was in. I was hooked. I have been obsessed with him for 2 years or so. I think this might be his first big TV show thing.
That fantastic song you were singing was “As if we never said goodbye”
From Sunset Boulevard. First time I was exposed to the beautiful song was Chris Folder’s performance of it in Glee.
This is my favorite episode. The scene with Nick and Charlie in their room was stunningly shot and was so tender and special. Really enjoyed your reaction. Better have tissues ready for the last two.
Same with the accuracy of a lot of the scenes, just perfect. Especially that vending machine scene ♡
OMG THE SONG AT THE BEGINNING!!!!!! ITS AS IF WE NEVER SAID GOODBYE AND THE LAST SENTENCE IS, “ We taught the world new ways to… Dream!!!! “
7:00 - Charlie would make a great politician - deep down he is very clever in manipulating - not in a bad way, but you can see he uses certain ways to defer attention from him and back to say Nick. This is a defensive technique which many young people use when they have been bullied and suffered from mental trauma. A sign that Charlie really needs to see a specialist
It’s interesting you say that, cause in the novels, I think it’s Tori that mentions that Charlie is the best liar she’s met. We so often see lying as a “bad quality” of someone or that it makes someone a bad person. But, like you said, it’s a defense mechanism for many. Doesn’t make it “good” or whatever, but people need to be more understanding about WHY people lie before they use it to judge their character.
16:40 - I read somewhere Kizzy had to keep in her mouth a mouthful of tinned soup so that at the right moment she could spit it out all over the best as vomit - totally disgusting, but we've all been there as teens, taking alcohol for the first time and your stomach can't cope.
As an older gay guy who is also on the ace spectrum, Isaac’s storyline has resonated with me more than I can express in words. High school me was basically the GenX US version of him.
Also, is that girl with the buzz cut a shit-stirrer or what!? 😅
Your reactions are always heartfelt and thoughtful, but this one was really on another level. Seeing you experience such a range of emotions in response to this episode was deeply validating for all of us who see something of ourselves in these characters and who all wish our own experiences had been more like those of Nick, Charlie, and the gang. Thank you, JRL, for being you.
Aaaaaaaand I'm crying 😭 thank you so, so much for such kind words.
I'm crying all over again over Isaac.
Sorry, I comment a lot. I have a lot of thoughts.
As someone who recently figured out ( age 38) they were ACE, Isaac's storyline means the world to me. There was no one like him on TV for me to watch growing up.
@@FeeFiFoFumBalthazar you know the saddest part is, it was my friend who made me have that light bulb moment. We have known each other since we were 14 so she knows me very well. We were talking about relationships and stuff. I was telling her how a co-worker of mine who is in their 20's was asking about our sexuality and I was like well, I know I am attracted to me but honestly it is whatever for me. I have never put thought into it. That also lead to me having a conversation with my mother about intamcy and relationships I have had and I was like look I have never been presented with anything more than kissing but I also don't think I care. It doesn't interest me as much as other things. I am not even sure I like kissing that much. So, after telling my friend all that as we were eating Korean BbQ she was like," well did you ever consider that you're ace. That you might be asexual( I was already saying I was sapiosexual) just maybe that is why that doesn't matter.
When she said that, I swear it was like the sky opened and I heard Angels sing.
So now I am just trying to navigate in this world knowing what I know. I am so sure that if I had seen one character growing up in the late 90's early 2000's that was even a little like me I would figured this out sooner. But now I can watch Isacc or Blackbeard on Our Flag Means Death or even Azaraphale and Crowley and go," oh, I can love someone without all that pressure and if it goes forward it goes forward. If it doesn't that is OK." There are so many forms of intimacy and I just wish I learned that sooner.
Sorry for the rambling.
13:22 Aw 💗 I’m so happy that my aro-ace identifying 12 yo child has this to watch he is so excited for season 3!! As a bi-pan queer mom in her mid-forties, I can only imagine having this series as a teen & how beautiful it would be 🎉
6:30 don't worryyy this is literally sooo relatable because I get really emotional about something little and I don't even know why I got SO😅 emotional 😅😅
Your tender emotional responses help me experience this show in a whole new way. Thank you!
It’s cool that you noticed Radio Silence and This Winter on the shelf, but go back and look again. On the right side of the bottom shelf are all four of the Heartstopper books!
I'm almost certain that Loveless is in the stack of books that Isaac is carrying near the end of the bookshop scene.
Great reaction!
Also, Youssef Farouk, the man you are ❤❤
I'm so sorry for anyone who may have seen any of my other comments on any other heartstopper video for being so predictable, but i can't help it, I love the teachers, they are great ❤❤❤❤
Always love your reactions and appreciate how emotionally vulnerable you get.
I was also disappointed that the Harry apology scene was so short but it'll make sense in the next episode.
I agree with you on the point about Nick’s dad. I haven’t ever met my father either, but I think it’s sadder when someone knows who their father is (or mother for that matter), but he or she takes no interest in wanting to be a part of their child’s life.
Norma Desmond, Sunset Boulevard! Well done. Been enjoying your reaction videos! Thanks for sharing.
Song at beginning: As if we never said goodbye from Sunset Boulevard….😍😍😍
that scene where Isaac was so lost going back to the party thinking he thought kissing James would end of his doubts/questions about himself but rather make feel more lost. but i’m excited for you to see where his character arcs goes (but i think you already know coz you’ve read the books..ha!).
There are dozens of moments in the series that draw tears from me, but one of the lesser ones -- still hugely powerful -- is the shot of Nick asleep on Charlie's shoulder on the bus home.
It’s from Sunset Blvd. the musical! 🎶👏🏽
i get ridiculously emotional about music, films/tv, so i am right there with you! and i'm so happy that you have heartstopper portraying a character that you identify with so much, everyone should feel as seen as you feel watching these episodes. love your reactions, you have a new subscriber! can't wait for the final 2 episodes 😊
Yes I agree I need a update after 5 yrs. Love your response to this episode
Thanks for another wonderful reaction and sharing your thoughts.
Great reaction as always! I'm so embarrassed at my self coz I might have watched this episode 20 times by now...WHERE CAN I SIGN THE PETITION?? 😂
As soon as it's edited into a RUclips short we need to share it far and wide!
I remember in comic Charlie said many thing to Harry, and the word in here just “no” is good!
And we know the thing became said to Ben in Ep7
I think it’s a good way to finish it!❤
“As If We Never Said Goodbye” from Sunset Boulevard I believe (know the song more than the show)
Edit: LOL two other people already got it
Was not expecting sunset boulevard lol
Look, with my channel I can promise variety! 😂
this is my official petition signature also love your reaction
💯 on point wrt singing Happy Birthday as a singer.
Bless you. Just.....bless you.
I totally agree. I just turned 56. I only just realized I am ARO a few years ago. So many things in my life now make sense. I can only imagine if there was content like this when I was growing up that I wouldn't have had so many struggles with trying to figure out why I was so weird, so broken, so wrong.
Same. I'm 44, and I've had decades of my mother wringing her hands saying "you'd better get someone soon, or all the good ones are going to be taken!" and "If you just had a partner in your life to keep you grounded, then everything else would fall into place." I feel so lucky that I have a cohort of high school and college friends who have all managed to make it to my age without settling down and make me feel like I'm not broken if I value other things in life more than romance. Old books used to make us feel pity or scorn for spinsters, but I think they may have been living their best lives under everyone's radar.
This was a great episode and your reactions were lovely to watch
Hi, you made a very interesting comment at around 4:45 - I am 38 years old, and I have seen this happen back growing up as a teenager in the late 90s early 00s. There were TV shows which had kids of 5, 6 or 7 years old and the host would always ask "do you have a girlfriend/boyfriend?" and "will you get married when you are older?" - this obsession is down to the old fashioned ideal that marriage was the perfect thing for humans. Sadly it seems part of that obsession has remained even now in 2023.
Loving the reactions! I completely agree with what you said about aro-ace representation and thank you for wanting to add to the representation online. I'm in my late 20s and still coming to terms with my aro-ace identity. I wish there had been more representation in the media I consumed when I was younger. It's difficult to get rid of that feeling that there is something wrong with you when no one in your immediate circle seems to understand what you are feeling. The amount of times I've heard people say- "you just haven't found the right person"... I know they mean well but it perpetuates this feeling that I am broken- that I can't feel something others seem to so easily. If I had had people who were able to explain asexuality to me and tell me that it wasn't anything to be ashamed or embarrassed of sooner- it would have saved me a lot of confusion, sadness and self loathing! Hopefully this show marks the start of a new wave of representation for aro-aces and we'll be the last generation to feel like undercover aliens!
I'm crying reading this. I really, really hope so. I feel like I have purpose now in representing the ace/aro community. We will be the last generation. I will die on that hill 😭😂
Yup, I've heard that countless times, too - "you just haven't found the right person." Even if you're not aro ace, it still makes you feel like you're not putting in the work to do what it takes to live your best life, like you shouldn't be spending all this time focusing on a career and stuff when your time would be better spent on an expedition to "find the right person." Fortunately, I have a much healthier attitude than I was raised with, and I'm happy to validate everyone on the sexuality spectrum! You're uniquely you, and that is all anyone must be to be worthy.
I totally get you getting so emotional in these episodes - I do too! As an older gay man (mid-60's), seeing this BEAUTIFUL representation of young gay love and exploration is absolutely thrilling and gratifying. It would have been incredible for me at that age to imagine anything like this being possible. As if that weren't enough, the execution of this is so perfect, so delicious in every way, that I am OBSESSED. All of these young actors are brilliant, but I have to give special props to Kit Connor, who strikes me as one of the most natural, genuine young actors I've ever seen. You can see every single conflicting emotion cross his face, without it ever feeling forced or "acted." I have deliberately avoided reading the books, so that the show would be completely fresh to me, and I'm so very happy to see how the story lines are expanding for some of the other characters, particularly Isaac (whose story line is breaking my heart), and Mr. Ajayi with Mr. Farouk. I agree with you that the actor playing him (Nima Taleghani) is absolutely wonderful. The way it's been written, at first he comes across as TERRIFYING, but as we get to know him, we're seeing more and more of the humor and the heart in him, and it's just so beautiful. This whole series has become one of my favorite shows of all time.
Agreed! I am also in awe of Kit's mastery of the craft, but it wasn't until this season that I was able to appreciate how masterful Joe is, too. His representation of someone with so much internal turmoil is spot on, and the way he delivers his lines when opening up about his mental health is uncannily accurate to me. Every hesitation, every glance away, every postural adjustment and fidget and dropped word feels utterly authentic. If Joe doesn't have personal experience to draw upon to bring this storyline to life, he is incredibly gifted. Of course, if he does have personal experience to draw upon, he's still fantastic in his ability to channel it. I'm going to keep an eye on his career, too!
It's from Sunset Boulevard, of course.
Loved they gave a closeup to the cover of Alan Hollinghurst’s brilliant novel, “The Swimming Pool Library.”
Am Inthe only one that notices that Nick and Charlie's clothes always match in some way? It is so subtle but so cute.
J’excuse!!!? As if we never said goodbye!! SUNSET BOULEVARD
What s brilliant reaction video. Loved it xxx
D'awww - 'recharging' is the best!
Also, you said you were a little bummed we didn't get the rest of the speech when Charlie told Harry he couldn't come in for Tara's party. If I'm remembering it right from the books, we kinda get it later in the season but not said to Harry.
Lol. At 10:32, I just didn't think you were going to get through this!
As if we never said goodbye ;))
Omg I got Heart Stopper comic books to 1,2,3 nice. I love reading them so much.
oh my goooood please SIIIIING MORE. love your voice
Thank you 😭 people complained about it on RUclips so I normally cut it out from the RUclips edits. I sing before most Patreon videos though xx
@@JackieRossLavender than i have to become a patreon. There is no way around it. 😁
@@digitalerfrieden9391 you won't regret it :P
I'm only as far as the intro, so I don't have anything to really comment on yet - but I guess I just... want my 10 points for recognizing the Andrew Lloyd Webber of it all 😂(It's late, I'm silly)
Now... to settle in for another wonderful, beautiful reaction to this wonderful, beautiful story. 💞 Your reactions really are so lovely, Jackie, and your love for this show and these books and these characters (and these actors/creators) just never fails to make me feel, just...happy. 🥰
I love your reaction so much. I love heart Stopper. I love your videos so much.❤
Loved your reaction great vid
😵the fact that during comments of consensuality in a relationship, Charlie asks "Kissing's still ok though?" And Ccaptions wrote "Pissing's still ok though?" And I had a 🤯
yay youtube 🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
I will sign the petition!!
love ur reactions so much....and i´m in for ur petition !
I agree with the updates moving forward…even if it is a year in review graphic but honestly, I feel like this cast need to just act it out or even just have a party where we get snip it’s or flash backs of what has been going on in their lives!
Emotional wreck is how I describe this season as we get to the end
A show I would recommend for Ace rep is Heartbreak High... it's a great show, very different feel to HS but also very good and VERY funny and a lot of good Gen Z representation in general. (Also has some of the best Autistic rep I've seen in a character called Quinni who's played by an Autistic actress). Won't say too much because it'll be a bit of a spoiler but there's an Ace character (not aro though) who tries to navigate his crush and budding relationship with another character (who's not ace) while also dealing with a ton of other stuff. They ended up being my fav couple and 2 of my fav characters in the show. So yeah highly recommend it if you haven't seen it.
I love Quinni! She’s my favorite on HBH.
@lynnhettrick7588 yes!!! it's Quinni and Darren for me and their friendship is the cutest 😍
It's actually probably going to be the next show we react to on Patreon!
Please post your reactions to it on youtube! No one reacts to it :( ❤️
@beatricemcgarvey1198 it'll be on RUclips don't worry x
Love your reactions! 💗🤩✨
Thank you!! 😁
Your beautiful singing was As if We Never Said Goodbye from Sunset Boulevard by Sir Andrew Lloyd Webber, you owe me 10 points 😊. Just a quick advanced warning you will need tissues handy for the very last scence from episode 8 it has some of the best acting I've ever seen, Kit and Joe really smash this one, move over Larry Olivier, Alec Guiness, Derek Jacobi these 2 20 year old lads are coming through.
I don't know why I'm so surprised so many people knew what song it was 😂 but thank you for describing it as beautiful. Its been a long time since I've had a compliment for my voice. But u couldn't agree more about the final scene. Can confirm I needed tissues. A lot of them.
I was impressed with your vocals as well, sir! Didn’t know the song as I’m nor familiar with Sunset Boulevard, but one day when I see it I’m going to think of this video.
@@twobluestripes Thank you so much - it was my career and biggest passion for a long, long time before I suffered vocal damage. Since I released the Thank you, Alice Oseman video, however, it has started to come back which has been a pretty emotional experience.
Does he say kit at 8:17
Had the same reaction to harrys "redemption" scene...so cant wait for ur Episode 7 reaction ❤
Sunset Boulevard
10 points to me: Sunset Boulevard! First time I heard that song was sung by Barbara Streisand though. Start every video with musical name that tune!
pahahaha okay this could be fun!
The song is As If We Never Said Goodbye from the show Sunset Blvd. by Andrew Lloyd Webber 10 points to the theater nerd
I love James ❤️
I SOOOO wish I had this show growing up. I came. out to my sister first, and then my parents they were so very supportive and understanding. I am 41 years old, I have a BF and we've been together for ages, it took me so long to know that it was ok. I am a very emotional person, and I actually like that. I just wish I hadn't waited so long. It's very hard to be gay in Texas
Great reaction
Love your reactions
Hearing about people who realised they were asexual (and/or aro) the thing that always comes up is how broken we felt and how much of a freak for not getting it. I only realised when I was 37 and I'm so so happy young queers now get that representation of aroace so if they feel that label matches them, they hopefully don't live years and years thinking there is something wrong with them and maybe pushing themselves to be "normal" (and breaking their own heart in the process over and over).
I’m 30 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship. And almost ever person in my life is putting pressure on me now. Related to that so much. I’m not even sure who I am yet….
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I really love Nick and Charlie, and of course Kit and Joe. They are amazing! they are not acting being in love... they are in love.
And I also think their acting is even better this season (I can't believe I am saying it - but this season is better than the first one... what a blasphemy)
So excited
Hi there! thank you for your content, I really enjoy it! From what I gather, the character of Todd in "BoJack Horseman" was an ace character well received by the aro/ace community! Stellar show, exceptional piece of television! (But it only truly picks up after a couple of episodes or so, you gotta trust it lol). So maybe give it a watch? I'd be curious of your reaction. Warning, though - it can be emotionally very heavy, cut very deep, as it deals with some dark themes, while at the same time being bloody hilarious!
channeling Kurt Hummel at the beginning i see you
Cannot wait
Once Per year on the second month anniversary Nick and Charlie update Petition Signature
Honestly, living in a part of Asia that is definitely not progressive, it can be quite frustrating how many people ask you "Have you been married? Have you got a girlfriend? When will you get married?".
And it's somewhat worse in my workplace where a teacher was just found having a romantic relationship with a student. Now all teachers and staff members who have not married yet, including me, got that stare where they're being suspicious that we might do the same thing, unless we get married soon. My ace self just can't.
I have not read any of the books yet. They remain on my shelf because I wanted to walk into this series totally cold. I'll be able to compare Series to Books later. Season 2 just seems to get better and better. All of the acting is just brilliant. Everyone has grown into their characters so well. The moment that got to me was Isaac standing there with tears running down his face. (And YES to once every 5 years, getting a CHARLIE and NICK update movie....)
Good day 😊
Based on where Darcy’s story goes and how she generally uses being LiVeLy AnD fUn to avoid things, I wonder if Darcy pouring Nick a full glass of vodka without asking and then being the first one to vomit is hinting at an alcohol abuse plotline in season three or four.
Sunset Blvd
Once again Jackie, another wonderful reaction. Can I just recommend tissues for the last two. I honestly think you’ll need them. I know I did!
Can confirm I did need them. Still dehydrated from all the crying.
Ive only seen two other instances of an Ace storyline be mentioned in TV and that was in season 2 of Sex Education and in Emmerdale they had Aaron's sister be Ace and in typical soap fashion they were eventually killed off the show
hi jackie i just wounding when u going to do final episode on patreon i watch ep 7 and just wounding when ep8 be avabile to watch on patreon
Hi Lisa - in the patreon update last week i explained it would be up over the weekend.
@@JackieRossLavender ok thankyou sweetie u need a lot of tissussi see u over there soon iam sorry to ask i cant read very good thanks again
Lol I feel seen .. I always lip sync the birthday song, as well. Obviously, it's for different reasons. I have a HORRIBLE singing voice.
I'm an Asian and my family is weird. I don't know if this is the case to others as well but I'm not really allowed to be into a relationship when I was in my teens. Yet when I got into my mid 20's they kept asking if I have a girlfriend lol.