MC Lyte Talks Divorce from Husband: ‘It Doesn’t Mean You’re a Failure’

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @talisha5863
    @talisha5863 2 года назад +253

    MC Lyte looks like such an eloquent, sincere woman. I'm proud of her for knowing her worth and not staying in a bad marriage, but admitting that she would remarry if it felt right. She looks stunning 👸🏽

  • @janwoburn447
    @janwoburn447 2 года назад +257

    She has been in this entertainment industry for a minute and still a class act. no scandals and seems to have grounded mentality. Without a doubt, she would be amazing as a female trailblazer who've paved the way for others

    • @donnawilliams3872
      @donnawilliams3872 2 года назад +4

      She she be honored in these NAACP , Rappers etc awards. She s fine

    • @divine1642
      @divine1642 2 года назад +13

      She is a Legend she was rapping during the same time Queen Latifah was rapping MCLyfe was the 1st illest female rapper then Lauren Hill!!!❤🎱🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🎱❤

  • @niokascott6647
    @niokascott6647 2 года назад +805

    MC Lyte looks fabulous. Sometimes people enter our lives for just a season. When the season changes, the situations change. We must do what is best for our physical and mental wellness. I don't see divorce as a failure, but just a change in a season.

    • @maryluvsmusic9298
      @maryluvsmusic9298 2 года назад +24

      Nicely said 🤩!

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @hopejacks8366
      @hopejacks8366 2 года назад +8

      You are so correct and as Bishop T.D. Jakes said in one of his messages, we keep people for a season and the one that we let go was not supposed to be the season they was supposed to be the lifetime person.

    • @yvonnetaylor-bennett5658
      @yvonnetaylor-bennett5658 2 года назад +1

      Well said.

    • @BlueLatte-f3f
      @BlueLatte-f3f 2 года назад +2

      Jada and MC Lyte are good friends she reminds me of Jada

  • @empressh6960
    @empressh6960 2 года назад +439

    Going through a divorce myself, was such a roller coaster of emotions. I lost my only biological lil bro during that time. Plus, I was sick like a dog with 5 chronic illnesses. And much more. -- BRIGHT SIDE! I won my divorce case, moved out of state, into my 1st place EVER, and been out of the hospital for nearly 4 years and counting!’
    MORAL OF STORY-- YOU ARE WORTHY AND WILL MAKE IT THROUGH THE DIVORCE STORM!!

    • @ML-ni1tk
      @ML-ni1tk 2 года назад +17

      Amen! Happy for you❤

    • @islandgirl8914
      @islandgirl8914 2 года назад +14

      Blessings. 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🏆

    • @kat64470
      @kat64470 2 года назад +10

      Wow, it's super hard to divorce while you're sick. That's a touchy subject, b/c many think they need to stay together for the illness even if that makes it worse. My husband just passed away and we went through that issue.

    • @theheaddhunter9072
      @theheaddhunter9072 2 года назад +10

      I am so inspired by u and what u survived. I pray many more blessings upon u bcuz u have the spirit of a lion and the heart of a soldier!! It's wonderful to hear how far u have come from where u were, the best is YET to come for u my dear. God bless u💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

    • @empressh6960
      @empressh6960 2 года назад +10

      @@theheaddhunter9072 omgoodness!! This brought light to my heart. I can’t tell you how I appreciate your kind beautiful inspirational words. I sincerely appreciate you from the deepest parts of me. I send you nothing less than my gratitude, big hugs, and love. Even if I never get to meet you. ❤️❤️

  • @clashon4life843
    @clashon4life843 2 года назад +308

    It’s nice to see a woman of integrity, class And wisdom to do things the right way!

    • @inishametcalf7840
      @inishametcalf7840 2 года назад +14

      Yes. So refreshing & encouraging.

    • @msrevis1
      @msrevis1 2 года назад +13

      Yes shout out to MC Lyte for doing it the right way.

    • @SBryan-zh6mi
      @SBryan-zh6mi 2 года назад +4

      Tell me about it.
      Finally a class act.

  • @kaye-de-ann1942
    @kaye-de-ann1942 2 года назад +317

    Who is starting the petition to get MC Lyte a permanent host? I LOVE the energy she brings to the table ❤️

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 2 года назад +1

      Did Jenni quit?

    • @kaye-de-ann1942
      @kaye-de-ann1942 2 года назад +14

      @@Shae_3 she’s on maternity leave but they still have not full led Tamara’s spot, MC Lyte would be perfect for it.

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 2 года назад

      @@kaye-de-ann1942 Ohhh gotcha, I forgot about Tam spot still being open. I have to go back and watch her as a guest host. I clicked the video because I thought she was a guest. I wonder what they are looking for because her personal is the opposite of Tam. Do you see any clashes with Garcelle, Lonnie, and Lyte?

    • @cocoafemme47
      @cocoafemme47 2 года назад +10

      @@kaye-de-ann1942 : MC Lyte DOES bring more depth to the show, however, I still MISS. . .Amanda Seales.

    • @hotgritz4sho
      @hotgritz4sho 2 года назад +12

      @@cocoafemme47 IMO Amanda was far too real for The Real. I miss her too but she was giving us a whole lot of authentic self and dropping too much knowledge for that whole staff to handle.

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад +162

    Divorce is high because unhealthy marriages are high. Instead of criticizing divorce society has to work on glamorizing respect as appose to lying, cheating, and abuse.

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +7

      THIS!!

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +29

      @@shakurioguhebe8533 So is your issue that women are not staying and putting up with lies, cheating and abuse anymore?? Oh damn, how horrible of them🤣

    • @dawncullen0214
      @dawncullen0214 2 года назад +22

      Say that again! Bc ppl always wanna say half of marriages end in divorce but don't wanna admit the reason why is bc they just think they can treat you anyway once the ceremony is over. The lack of respect for partners is why marriages fail.

    • @jadesmith7983
      @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +4

      @@dawncullen0214 Exactly 💯

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 2 года назад +1

      Exactly. When you start looking at stats and breaking doen, there are certain types of marriages that are more prone to divorce.

  • @misstina7291
    @misstina7291 2 года назад +118

    I love MC Lyte as a guest host. I love how grounded she is in her values. She is so graceful and beautiful!

  • @A...LA...LA...A
    @A...LA...LA...A 2 года назад +214

    I love that Ms. Lyte likes to follow the rules and not desperate to move on.

  • @jayjanzee9059
    @jayjanzee9059 2 года назад +243

    I love how MC delivers her Christian values without being condescending, to which it is relatable. I am a Christian as well and oftentimes struggle on how to deliver my values in a rather progressive environment.

    • @ebonyrenna
      @ebonyrenna 2 года назад +7

      Same!

    • @singerspeak1
      @singerspeak1 2 года назад

      Same here

    • @ladybethisrael0792
      @ladybethisrael0792 2 года назад

      So called black people are NOT Christians! Neither are Mexicans & Hispanics! We are Israelites!! Christianity is a man made caucasian (white supremacy) religion!!

    • @lawrenceblack322
      @lawrenceblack322 2 года назад +1

      I would say just tell your message and talk to people like humans and on a human level and you'll be good. If you want someone to "feel" you see if there is a way to "feel" them. They say, "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."

    • @sthunda7132
      @sthunda7132 2 года назад

      @jay janzee If the word moves your spirit, there will be no struggle. Stop being a worldly Christian.

  • @shenquejames7598
    @shenquejames7598 2 года назад +91

    I love that MC Lyte is taking accountability for her own life. She is a breath of fresh air with a non defeated attitude. I also love the big shout out she gave to marriage. When it's right it's very Sexy!

  • @knoname1092
    @knoname1092 2 года назад +116

    MC Lyte hosting this week is wonderful to see. Loving her comments from a grown woman perspective.

  • @gwendolynbrown1355
    @gwendolynbrown1355 2 года назад +101

    Mc Lyte is a class act. She hasn't wavered from standards, integrity and standing her ground. #queen4real👑

  • @feleciathomas4245
    @feleciathomas4245 2 года назад +52

    She is absolutely GORGEOUS! I just had a conversation with a friend and I stated how much I LOVE seeing celebrities in my age group get older. I am loving seeing how BEAUTIFUL we are in our 50s.

    • @kendallrhodes
      @kendallrhodes 2 года назад

      If that husband Lyte's trying to get rid of sees her looking like this it's gonna make it that much harder for dude to walk away. She's stunning.

  • @td152
    @td152 2 года назад +77

    I ❤️ MC Lyte! She's gorgeous, talented and a champion for education...among so many other great qualities. Her honesty is appreciated. And I love to listen to her speak.

  • @Tywanda
    @Tywanda 2 года назад +42

    MC Lyte did a fabulous job on The Real. As I listened, she added a perspective to the culture different than the other ladies. She would be a great addition as a host. 👏🏾🤗🥰

  • @ladymissy5078
    @ladymissy5078 2 года назад +140

    MC Lyte is my kind of Sister. Commitment in a covenant is to be respected....EXCLUSIVITY IS SEXY!!!!

    • @ladymissy5078
      @ladymissy5078 2 года назад +11

      @@shakurioguhebe8533 You def missed my point. I specifically said EXCLUSIVITY IS SEXY in other words Monagamy. Just 2, whether you call it marriage or whatever.

    • @ladymissy5078
      @ladymissy5078 2 года назад +2

      @@shakurioguhebe8533 You're reading into this way too much. And now it's about a debate. I said what I said. You take how you may. Gnit luv. Enuff said on my part.

  • @heartstrings110
    @heartstrings110 2 года назад +76

    So great to hear the high integrity of MC Lyte. Refreshing. Don’t date until you are legally divorced.

    • @tashawnahamilton6558
      @tashawnahamilton6558 2 года назад +4

      I agree, I have someone telling me I can still date. Something about it just doesn’t sit right with me.

    • @tparker8370
      @tparker8370 2 года назад +1

      Don't date until the one you divorced is deceased other wise it's committing adultry according to scripture MATTHEW 5:31-32 and MARK 10:10-12 / 1 CORINTHIANS 7:39(👈🏽 free to marry after mate is deceased)

    • @heartstrings110
      @heartstrings110 2 года назад +2

      @@tparker8370 …actually, according to scripture, if your spouse leaves you or dies, you are free to marry again. Now, if YOU leave the marriage and marry another, you cause them to be in adultery.

    • @tashawnahamilton6558
      @tashawnahamilton6558 2 года назад +1

      @@heartstrings110 Thank you, that’s how I comprehend it.

  • @michelledyess138
    @michelledyess138 2 года назад +110

    Yass MC LYTE! I’m married and marriage is honorable and Im glad to see another woman value it as much as I do.. I find my husband super sexy because he’s my husband and we are committed to each other!!!❤️

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @Aquarius-216
      @Aquarius-216 2 года назад +1

      @@nirfatya9064 Girl Stop 🛑 Peddling Porn. Go To Porn Hub!

  • @darjohn9550
    @darjohn9550 2 года назад +198

    MC Lyte has always given off wholesome vibes and I've always loved that she's so graciously articulate. I dated a guy when I was 16 who said I look like her. Fastforward 30 years and a different guy said the exact same thing. I think not! I wish! Lol

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 2 года назад +35

      You better walk in your beauty. ❤ I adore MC Lyte; her confidence is stunningly beautiful.

    • @Foxxxtrottt64
      @Foxxxtrottt64 2 года назад +11

      You probably look like her, 2 different people cant be making this up.

    • @MrBjorn6
      @MrBjorn6 2 года назад +1

      I thought mc lyte was gay all these years 🤔

    • @purplebutterflykisses8004
      @purplebutterflykisses8004 2 года назад +1

      @Dar John wow I have a cousin that look like her as well.

    • @purplebutterflykisses8004
      @purplebutterflykisses8004 2 года назад +3

      @@MrBjorn6 I never heard that before. Some females can look and act very tomboyish but is more feminine when it comes down to their sexuality preferring men only. But I must say this much the Lyte has always acted feminine to me now Queen Latifah and Da Brat I knew they were hardcore Tomboys Lol

  • @colethe1yt342
    @colethe1yt342 2 года назад +58

    This wasn’t enough we need to see more of her.

  • @sherriegriffin7928
    @sherriegriffin7928 2 года назад +47

    I love how MC is still so positive about love and marriage regardless of her divorce circumstance. I just celebrated 8 years of marriage with my husband 2 days ago👑👑

  • @sequillarochelle4044
    @sequillarochelle4044 2 года назад +19

    I been divorced for 10 months and he still calling, and. HE is the one who left,I just simply said "ok"...I don't want him back and I don't feel the same..I simply am looking forward to everything God has for me..and what God does with just me

    • @LAGASGAL
      @LAGASGAL 2 года назад

      Awww I’m sure that’s hard!

  • @MyFavourites1
    @MyFavourites1 2 года назад +36

    Even her speaking voice is beautiful. Nice to see MC Lyte as a guest host she brings a great perspective and good mature vibes to the table.

  • @rudiannwildgoose-laing4629
    @rudiannwildgoose-laing4629 2 года назад +92

    I just love Mc Lyte even more in this interview.🤗

  • @Yaya_Just_Visiting
    @Yaya_Just_Visiting 2 года назад +32

    MCLYTE looks prosperous and happy. Always been an admirer of her and her accomplishments.

  • @nettakeys6193
    @nettakeys6193 2 года назад +42

    I love MC Lyte she's so very well spoken. She needs her own talk show.

    • @leroystover1062
      @leroystover1062 2 месяца назад

      She's from BROOKLYN THATS WHY 😊😅

  • @gochargers14
    @gochargers14 2 года назад +31

    Walking away from something that no longer makes you happy is a win to me 🤷🏾‍♀️ A lot of people just want to up keep that “perfect imagine”.

  • @janeking4059
    @janeking4059 2 года назад +40

    I used to love doing everything as a wife... taking care of me and my husband's relationship for 30 yrs. Put everything into it ..forgot who I was ..barely had time for me ...when it ended ..I felt so lost!😫😫😫

    • @drearoses1306
      @drearoses1306 2 года назад +2

      wow..i didnt wait that long..i left after 14 years..its hard but im in love with me now...found a new guy who understands boundaries and self love and it makes the transition a lot easier -- God bless your journey

    • @FleurRebelle
      @FleurRebelle 2 года назад +3

      Lol... bet you neglected your friends to and had to go back crying

    • @MaySun74
      @MaySun74 2 года назад

      @Jane King, you will find your way back to you. It takes time to grieve. I am going through a divorce now after 26 years so I understand how you feel. Sending love and light your way.

  • @inishametcalf7840
    @inishametcalf7840 2 года назад +44

    Love M.C. Lyte! I wish Adrienne would let people talk more.M.C. Lyte is a woman, who carries her self as such and one who speaks things differently from most women & men these days. She has morals & respect for herself. She realizes that she needs to be divorced BEFORE she begins dating again. She seems to have a greater understanding of marital union. Much success to you M.C. Lyte!

    • @Angelamar819
      @Angelamar819 2 года назад +5

      Agree she is so Annoying Adrienne ugh

    • @praises2
      @praises2 2 года назад

      @@Angelamar819 Agreed, she is annoying asf!!

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      @@Angelamar819 ikr she can be at times acting like somebody’s therapist or something like that lmaooo doing all the questions etc🥴🤨🤔😒👀

  • @ceciliarenteria7614
    @ceciliarenteria7614 2 года назад +36

    The weight of a marriage is mainly carried by the women, same as parenting. Until young men are taught how to be good partners divorce rates will keep on rising.

    • @joerhea9340
      @joerhea9340 Год назад

      I concede that it’s mainly women like you said, but many men suffer and go through these stages as well. It just destroyed me to not see my daughter everyday. It still hurts me 12 years later, every time i drop her off.

  • @christeec1918
    @christeec1918 2 года назад +39

    MC Lyte is iconic, beautiful & inspiring!

  • @Madisonchasefitness
    @Madisonchasefitness 2 года назад +8

    Divorcing is a death of a relationship. There are seven nonlinear stages of grief:
    1. Shock and denial. Feelings of shock and denial are unavoidable in nearly every situation, even if you could foresee it happening. ...
    2. Pain and guilt. ...
    3. Anger and bargaining. ...
    4. Depression, loneliness and reflection. ...
    5. Upward turn. ...
    6. Reconstruction. ...
    7. Acceptance and hope.
    They are non linear because there’s never a time line for any of us grieve the loss of anything ( marriage, relationships, friendship, children, children with alternative lifestyles, moving, jobs, pets, )At any phase during your process of grief you can be at any of the numbers regardless of time. Sending Lyte light love and prayers.

  • @BougieSuzy
    @BougieSuzy 2 года назад +20

    Love MC! Glad to see her in front of the screen and not just hear her voice overs for award shows/commercials

  • @Toi84Toi
    @Toi84Toi 2 года назад +16

    I'd love to see MC Lyte have her own talk show...so much wisdom, class, depth, and I'm sure she's seen a lot in the industry over the years.

  • @klove8726
    @klove8726 2 года назад +25

    MC LYTE HAS HARDLY AGED. JUST BEAUTIFUL

  • @HayGlowTV
    @HayGlowTV 2 года назад +15

    MC Lyte is a great addition, best guest host so far!!!

  • @judytanyae
    @judytanyae 2 года назад +35

    A word of encouragement during failure. Is worth more than an hour of praise after success. Let’s make today the day you inspire at least ONE person. ❤️❤️🌞

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @shantechavis2489
      @shantechavis2489 2 года назад +1

      👍🏾

  • @rashadhaughton22
    @rashadhaughton22 2 года назад +21

    Lyte looks beautiful & i hear her voice overs on plenty of shows, even the superbowl! 🔥

  • @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353
    @ourbreakthroughpodcast9353 2 года назад +7

    I LOVEEE Mc Lyte!! So classy, so timeless.I wish her all the best with everything she desires. I feel blessed to have met her and interviewed her. Blessings upon blessings.

  • @yzma6142
    @yzma6142 2 года назад +11

    MC Late just oozes class and grace. This show has made me a huge fan of her

  • @tiffanypatterson
    @tiffanypatterson 2 года назад +15

    I love that MC Lyte is on this show as a co-host. It's empowering to see her evolution as a woman.

  • @24kchefkimmy43
    @24kchefkimmy43 2 года назад +16

    All I can say is divorce hurts, wether you were the one to decide to leave or not 🙏🏽

  • @soloist72
    @soloist72 2 года назад +11

    Mc Lyte looks fantastic! I was a fan back in her hip hop artist days and it’s so good to see her continuing to prosper professionally. She looks amazing!

  • @HuntsvilleHomeGirl
    @HuntsvilleHomeGirl 2 года назад +19

    I love Lyte! We need more of her in front of the camera!

  • @whitneytrinh4307
    @whitneytrinh4307 2 года назад +16

    I am going through divorce and this hits it right on the head on what I am going through and feeling.

  • @SicaDeero
    @SicaDeero 2 года назад +10

    I love MC Lyte!! Thank you for having her on! Loved her take on this topic ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @shoralho804
    @shoralho804 2 года назад +9

    Mc. Lyte is a true role model to so many women like myself ! Lord knows I've been through a horrible divorce in my life . And you couldn't pay me a million bucks to place myself in that situation ever again. Because the lord removed me and my son now 32 years old out of a toxic situation which I'm never looking back. Thank u you Jesus !!

  • @tamekawarren4198
    @tamekawarren4198 2 года назад +7

    MC light is a grown intelligent lady of wisdom. I like the fact that she understands boundaries, respects rules and is open to unity. There's a lot of strength in that

  • @junematthews8894
    @junematthews8894 2 года назад +12

    MC Lyte is a keeper! Hope The Real realizes this. Love her.

  • @lindsaydt66
    @lindsaydt66 2 года назад +8

    She is STILL so gorgeous and that voice is so clear and smooth. Yes, divorces are hard - no matter the process of going through it - bitter or no contest.

  • @yvettemarie9934
    @yvettemarie9934 2 года назад +5

    I love the realness of this show and the transparency of everyone! Relationships are difficult when it ends, especially when there are children involved. If there are children, I feel that if you focus on the message that you want your kids to receive and look within and be honest with YOU, it'll make it easier. Staying unhappy in a relationship or marriage for children is never a good message to send to them. There is light at the end of the tunnel and look for the positive in it, because it's ALWAYS a positive in every situation whether we see it right away or not. Be true to you, stay respectful, even if the other person isn't. Stay in character and move accordingly with lots of prayers, therapy and an awesome support system.

  • @Kirwina
    @Kirwina 2 года назад +8

    MC Lyte is beautiful, she is not aging and is so dam talented. I wish her nothing but the best in life

  • @Mzldy1shari
    @Mzldy1shari 2 года назад +30

    Had no clue McLyte was divorcing 😢
    Glad she seems to be doing well

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @dawncullen0214
      @dawncullen0214 2 года назад +1

      That's bc her husband is dragging the process out🤣

    • @MissVa-sb5gh
      @MissVa-sb5gh 2 года назад

      @@dawncullen0214 I never knew she was married.wow.

  • @misfitw9307
    @misfitw9307 2 года назад +17

    MC lyte is such a lady I love her and she has the dopest voice as a rapper

    • @el-Cu9432
      @el-Cu9432 2 года назад

      I loved her and Heather B.

  • @BRANDNEW715
    @BRANDNEW715 2 года назад +26

    I'm with Garcelle!!!

  • @jadesmith7983
    @jadesmith7983 2 года назад +8

    MC Lyte is looking GOODT! I'm feeling the vibrant glow..😍

  • @lynettemcduffie1682
    @lynettemcduffie1682 2 года назад +13

    I love MC Lyte and what she had to say about not dating until her marriage is completely done

    • @inishametcalf7840
      @inishametcalf7840 2 года назад +1

      Me too! So happy to hear someone say that.

    • @jacquelineperry4790
      @jacquelineperry4790 2 года назад +1

      She’s not a trashy woman she has class and still respects her marriage tilthe end

  • @lashandaallenredmon2109
    @lashandaallenredmon2109 2 года назад +14

    I love MC Lyte’s voice!

  • @mateobanda6808
    @mateobanda6808 2 года назад +24

    That's MC Lyte?!?!? She looks even more beautiful now than she did then.

    • @Sheraytv
      @Sheraytv 2 года назад +1

      Yep that’s her

    • @2sense110
      @2sense110 2 года назад +5

      That haircut fits her real nice and she comes off so feminine and classy as opposed to how I remembered her. Not to mention her voice, It's lovely and unique

  • @DatVideoDoe
    @DatVideoDoe 2 года назад +33

    I don’t know. Yeah, I get that both people have to consent and sign on to get married but I feel like there should be a different avenue with divorce. Needing both people to sign it means that if one person doesn’t, they can essentially blackmail the other person. Like, I’ll sign if you do this. Or they can just “hold you hostage” and never sign. I definitely feel like it shouldn’t have be both people. Maybe you can just sign an affidavit and testify infront of a judge for why you want a divorce and they make it official? I dunno but the current process WACK.
    Like, people forget marriage is a contract too. Which I feel is a part of the issue for my divorce is such a lengthy process.

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @lynne709
      @lynne709 2 года назад +2

      There are legal options available when one spouse is resistant to the divorce. You’ll probably need a lawyer to guide you through it but there are options.

    • @bremd2018
      @bremd2018 2 года назад +4

      @@lynne709 You definitely will need a attorney in most states to get the ball rolling. But they are $1,500 - $10,000 to retain, and $200-$500 an hr after that. In my opinion marriage is overrated, and if you add kids to the equation custody battles can come at any time after the divorce. I’m dealing with that now, and it’s been on going for two years due to Covid 19. And the whole time attorney fees just rack up! I’m happily single and can’t wait for this to be over and have my life back.

    • @Aquarius-216
      @Aquarius-216 2 года назад

      @@nirfatya9064 Girl Stop 🛑 Being A Stalker On Other People’s Pages. We Don’t Want You Peddling Porn Sites Under Each Comment. Grow Up & Build Your Business On Your Own Page Or Ask The Content Creator If You Can Pay To Advertise In A Commercial!!!

  • @gfaison5500
    @gfaison5500 2 года назад +3

    Love this clip. Many friends told me you should just get over because it was my choice. It was my choice for my health and peace. Thanks for confirming my rollercoaster of emotions I went through in 2021 was part of the healing process.

  • @misslove7698
    @misslove7698 2 года назад +8

    MC Lyte. has always been such a wonderful person

  • @klewiis009
    @klewiis009 2 года назад +4

    My divorce cost me $7 in 2018. My ex signed the decree 2x but dodged me for months. He said to me, B*tch I’ll show you that you don’t run sh*t. Little did he know, him abandoning the process allowed me to file a publication for divorce. I filed a poverty affidavit & the judge approved. After running an ad in the newspaper for 4wks, he contacted me. I told him what I did & the court date. He attended but left disgruntled because the judge didn’t appreciate his attempts to stall the process. I don’t wish that anguish on anyone. 🙏🏾

  • @J.Evans_Official
    @J.Evans_Official 2 года назад +5

    Some people think divorce is sad or hard it can be but it's a power in letting go. Having the strength to end a situation and move forward is a beautiful thing. I'm grateful everyday that I'm divorced from my ex husband and never have to wake up to his face

    • @fernseay7821
      @fernseay7821 2 года назад +1

      I was told during my divorce that it hurts to let go, but it hurts even more to hold on !!! So true that is!!

  • @arethahill6249
    @arethahill6249 2 года назад +12

    Amen Mc Lyte!! Marriage is honorable to God and it is sexy!!😊❤️

    • @d.c.4706
      @d.c.4706 2 года назад

      YES!!!!!! ❤

  • @trublkbelle
    @trublkbelle 2 года назад +25

    MC Lyte looks great! She needs to be on a show as a cohost

    • @el-Cu9432
      @el-Cu9432 2 года назад

      Not this show. Adrienne talks too much, trying to come off as an expert.

    • @alexandraanderson3988
      @alexandraanderson3988 2 года назад

      @@el-Cu9432 Right lmaoo like just stop Adrienne just stop 🥴👀😐🤭 & shut up lmaooo no offense to her just saying🥴☺️🤭😅 acting like she’s some kind of therapist something like that ☺️👁😒😐🤔😏

  • @Nanbebe7
    @Nanbebe7 2 года назад +5

    Once the grieving ends There’s peace joy and happiness on the other side. Extend Grace to yourself. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @tc_is_me
    @tc_is_me 2 года назад +10

    This was a great conversation…and how is MC Lyte more fine now than back in the day ???!!

  • @ELLE-bz3sf
    @ELLE-bz3sf 2 года назад +6

    This women ages so well! I can hardly take it ! ❤

  • @katyp5914
    @katyp5914 2 года назад +9

    Love MC Lyte! Her voice, diction, and enunciation are on point!!🎯💯❤

  • @isaiahshowell8841
    @isaiahshowell8841 2 года назад +5

    MC Lyte spoke and I loved everything she said and I agree marriage is sexy!

  • @kathleenweinberg6442
    @kathleenweinberg6442 2 года назад +11

    MC lyte she's right about it's time married couples grow apart sometimes it's for the best

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

  • @kat64470
    @kat64470 2 года назад +13

    MC Lyte looks so gorgeous and feminine. She is aging backwards? And wearing her own hair! Thank God, these wigs are getting old and played out. Our real hair is beautiful too.

  • @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498
    @beautifullyblessedpatricia9498 2 года назад +12

    I'm sorry y'all, but Adrienne really gets on my nerves 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️! She doesn't give everyone an opportunity to speak and she often interrupts.... 😡

    • @TamikaBelton
      @TamikaBelton 2 года назад +2

      Bc the spotlight MUST be on her at ALL TIMES!!!
      She gets on my nerves🙄

    • @inishametcalf7840
      @inishametcalf7840 2 года назад +1

      She gets on mine as well. She interrupts too much and I barely watch this show.

  • @ObedienceOrSacrifice
    @ObedienceOrSacrifice 2 года назад +8

    Does McLyte age, wow she looks amazing and I always thought she was a talented actress so glad to see her back at it. I pray you are free to live your life again soon. I don't know the details and don't need to know but usually it's the one who caused most of the issues that then don't want to let you go and that sucks.

  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 года назад +3

    He never signed the paperwork but after a period of time ,which wasn't long for me, the Judge gave me an Uncontested divorce. I filed and I should have done so many yrs before I did. You can't stay in a dead thing for anyone else. When you know and you really tried to get them to work on it with you and it's still not working, it's time to let it go. But you can't hold a relationship or marriage together alone. Blessings and Love ✌🏾💕

  • @simplyalon
    @simplyalon Год назад

    One year my senior, MC Lyte remains my sHero from 1988. Thankful for her contributions which are numerous. Unapologetic from day one. Trailblazer. Pioneer. Big ups. 🎉

  • @lailamohamed848
    @lailamohamed848 2 года назад +7

    You MC Lyte looks absolutely beautiful!!! We as women of color age so gracefully.

  • @ozdaniels2051
    @ozdaniels2051 2 года назад +12

    Great conversation 👌🏾

  • @mekakoop9777
    @mekakoop9777 2 года назад +29

    First, I love LOVE MC Lyte! Second, I agree with Garcelle, "it's sexier to have a partner than to be married." Especially after a divorce. It seems to be much easier, more peaceful and fun to date vs being married again.

    • @dawncullen0214
      @dawncullen0214 2 года назад +1

      So commitment issues are the reason why you believe ppl make these statements? Bc I don't understand why ppl who have not gone through a terrible break up use this line of thinking every chance they get. Like hun you just experienced a regular relationship, you didn't go through a whole divorce process & come to that conclusion.

    • @kawiramucheke
      @kawiramucheke 2 года назад +2

      The problem is that time is not static.
      You 'll grow older and even elderly after which you'll find dating being hectic and draining.
      Life in the first lane will obviously slow down.
      Your partner may not understand this and so you won't enjoy the relationship.
      Again,there is that inner fear that he could leave unceremoniously and catch you unaware.
      Like,youren't sure about his next move.
      This leaves the best option as that of being in a loving marriage,however long it takes to come.
      It is the most secure and caters for all needs;
      good or bad🤗🤗

    • @mekakoop9777
      @mekakoop9777 2 года назад

      @@kawiramucheke I respect this comment. Thanks for sharing your perspective.

    • @kawiramucheke
      @kawiramucheke 2 года назад

      @@mekakoop9777
      🙏🙏

  • @freethought1953
    @freethought1953 2 года назад +5

    I Love MC Lyte's Energy...so Hopeful.

  • @akindabili4449
    @akindabili4449 2 года назад +12

    MC Lyte you are gorgeous 😍💖❤
    And I pray and hope to God that a good responsible and wealthy Man is lucky to find you and you settle down maritaly and love happiness and you grow old together. ❤Marriage is good and since you desire you will find it.

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

  • @marleneram3526
    @marleneram3526 2 года назад +14

    Happiness is temporary though. Everything is temporary. I don’t understand why people divorce because of that. The struggle will ALWAYS be there you just have to choose who you want to struggle with

    • @mrsbdubc2174
      @mrsbdubc2174 2 года назад +1

      Nothing but the truth. People get married to be happy and when they are not they want to get a divorced. No one is happy all the time.

  • @justjanetng
    @justjanetng 2 года назад +16

    how am I looking older than her
    she looks so healthy and amazing

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

    • @Hakuuna_Matatah
      @Hakuuna_Matatah 2 года назад

      I don't know how old you are, but keep in mind they have the time and money to do what it takes to keep their age from showing. Most celebrities are paying quite a fortune to remain youthful looking. I just saw comparison pics of Jennifer Lopez 10 yrs ago compared to today, she looks a lot younger now. Even my favorite gospel singing family they all look much younger now than they did 20 years ago. Yes, they all look good and healthy; but, I know it's not all natural.

  • @desreenjackson7638
    @desreenjackson7638 2 года назад +2

    MC Lyte...good to see you, I enjoyed this segment. Her honesty and transparency 👍🏾.

  • @aliceghans5659
    @aliceghans5659 2 года назад +13

    MC Lyte is stunning..wow i tap into ageing gracefully

    • @nirfatya9064
      @nirfatya9064 2 года назад

      Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
      tricks I do not know
      Megan: "Hotter"
      Hopi: "Sweeter"
      Joonie: "Cooler"
      Yoongi: "Butter
      So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
      Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
      Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
      Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
      Dene: '' Muzdak ''
      Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
      Aç köz arstan
      Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
      Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
      Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
      They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
      💗❤️💌💘

  • @lasoniamcfadden4951
    @lasoniamcfadden4951 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for this topic. I find this helpful as I'm going through a divorce. I didn't want the divorce at first but as i looked at the situation my husband was already gone from the marriage. I find it hard to understand at times. Then i find times that i am happy and strong. It is very emotional for me but I know God make no mistakes. MC LYTE thank you I am a big fan from day one. I agree with you I find it amazing being in a marriage. We have to do what works for us I rather be a wife than a life long partner. Love all the Ladies of THE REAL you all Rock 💖💖💖💖praying for all those going through divorces

  • @JennieCapri
    @JennieCapri 2 года назад +10

    The real always have the “convenient” topics when certain guests come just to have them talk about their situation.

  • @sonyadrake5704
    @sonyadrake5704 2 года назад +2

    MC Lyte is "ROCKING" the Short Hair, it Compliments Her Beautifully, FLAWLESS!
    She's Very Well Spoken in her thought process.

  • @nadirajames4267
    @nadirajames4267 2 года назад +4

    Well said Lyte I like what you just said about the marriage

  • @victor_dakota7986
    @victor_dakota7986 2 года назад +1

    MC LYTE IS BEYOND BEAUTIFUL!!! Very candid and beautiful conversation!!!! Thanks for sharing.

  • @shantechavis2489
    @shantechavis2489 2 года назад +13

    I love me some MC Lyte... sad her marriage didnt work out. Praying for her strength during this process 😢💔🙏🏽💚

    • @tenmusicpage
      @tenmusicpage 2 года назад +3

      I think she wants to be with a woman but is afraid to come out becuz of the generation she comes from. Obviously she has the same vibe as queen Latifa l, missy and raven Simon! Hope she stays True to herself and just live truth not a lie! 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @ayana188
      @ayana188 2 года назад

      I’m surprised she married a man…. Come on out lyte 😳

  • @MSMAUTIKA
    @MSMAUTIKA 2 года назад +1

    In 2008 I buried my only son. I often refer to his passing as being similar to divorces because you have to give up on your hopes, dreams, and expectations.

  • @jacostleyable
    @jacostleyable 2 года назад +7

    Something it does seem like all of sudden. My ex told me on Christmas we are going to work on our marriage after he spent 18 months locked up and on New Years I want a divorce. That was very hard.

    • @cynthiabrown50
      @cynthiabrown50 2 года назад +3

      that was not all of a sudden. he had been thinking about it. he found a better option ( in his mind)

  • @adrienneflowersscott9290
    @adrienneflowersscott9290 2 года назад +1

    Love MC Lyte. One of my favorite rap artists. So happy for her and her accomplishments. Wishing her well. Keep shining Queen.

  • @km4336
    @km4336 2 года назад +10

    MC Lyte is gorgeous 💛

  • @kawiramucheke
    @kawiramucheke 2 года назад +2

    Garcelle:You go first...😂😂
    A cute,articulate,bold and honest girl in the name of Mc Lyte.
    She really speaks her deep truth,regardless, which is so admirable.
    Says she still feels marriage is sexy...
    I think were it not for the not-so-good experiences that Garcelle went through,she'd also want to be married if she'd be assured of its stability.
    I'd rather she goes for full commitment without fear, coz this partnership thing has no full attachment even if it works,compared to a successful marriage.
    Trial partnerships also do hurt and even if you can leave faster than in a marriage,you're still bruised.
    Let's claim our rights to happiness and pray for Lasting Love❤❤

  • @madisonmcdowell4071
    @madisonmcdowell4071 2 года назад +4

    I actually always thought you had to be legally separated before the divorce. I learned something new today!

    • @rooseveltwilliams1073
      @rooseveltwilliams1073 2 года назад

      Not in FL. It only took 2 months for my divorce process. Filed the day after New Years. He was served on Feb. 14th and the divorce was finalized the end of February. No attorneys involved.

  • @nicoledukes9563
    @nicoledukes9563 2 года назад +1

    I love MC Lyte's answer ♥!!! That was a saved answer 👏 blessings to you as you heal!!!!