How Much Longer Until She Comes Back? 7 Factors That Affect Duration of Separation [HHH Podcast #21]

Find an outline of the seven factors covered in this episode available on the show notes page for this episode. Link below:
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[@over-comer]

My mother in law convinced my wife not to reconcile, after I left.
They wanted full custody of the children so they used my attempts to reconcile as an excuse to get a protection order (they failed).
Unfortunately, she did get custody of the children, due to smacking.
My mistakes after leaving, was failing to recognise and acknowledge that I'd been controlling. And telling her I might as well remarry. Those majorly set us back.
She has no desire to reconcile. It feels pointless. But if there is any hope, I'm willing to do whatever it takes.

[@eastsiderider]

What if she’s wanting me to move out even though I’ve addressed my issues and have made big changes, which she was surprised by? She’s a stay at mom and we have 3 kids. I feel like she’s holding a lot of resentment over how I made her feel over the years. But I don’t want to move out and be away from my family

[@kathyglass2922]

Dude. Tell her that! Tell her that you are slowly walking to and realizing his much you need to learn. Then get yourself in therapy. Sounds like you took her for granted and acting entitled. No offense. Remember this. If you were able to support your wife on one salary, separating from you and working full time will be whatsoever to her. Don't think it will be too exciting.

[@estheragbo6153]

@@kathyglass2922
I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back through the heIp of mr ose who can also heIp you restore your relationship

[@estheragbo6153]

@@kathyglass2922
Wh'atsap him for heIp🙏

[@jimdemichele5479]

A divorce is on the table in the background where she filed in June…and I am in an apartment since July…the divorce word has not been mentioned…and our communication has been great…are these positive signs?

[@Originalman360]

I would say so…I’m in a similar situation

[@jimdemichele5479]

@@Originalman360 unfortunately it’s been a year, and I just received the final paperwork..oh well

[@kathyglass2922]

Sorry. I disagree. Make yourself look attractive. Listen to her . Look deep in her eyes when she talks. Praise her special attributes. Give her attention and praise for her new haircut, her new smelling perfume, the new dress, etc.

[@bubbabobodbrain]

How important is it if we are having sex regularly?

[@bubbabobodbrain]

Or is that not very important and just an indication of something else?

[@kathyglass2922]

@@bubbabobodbrain very!

[@bubbabobodbrain]

@@kathyglass2922 that's good to hear. Thanks

[@Originalman360]

Who gives a F is u disagree…u want men to simp when they should man up a bit and wait it out