How to Use Toxic People to Your Advantage (Biblically)
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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Nono no we’re NOT expecting any hope other than what your Title say !
If we try to manipulate those that are manipulative, then haven't we just lowered ourselves to their level of toxicity
Amen. Praise God for the space, to be able to focus on Godliness. I love your biblical application, to dealing appropriately with toxic people!!
How I can get this book? 😊
Respected! I said about theolocal education
Misery loves company. I`d rather be lonely than miserable.
Yes! GOD bless you Burt….✝🕎🛡⚔🪔⚖🩸🔥👑👑👑🕊
Me too..thats why i went no contact ..and 90 % in isolation.
Lonely? Or alone? “Be careful where you hang your hope!” Alone is often good for your soul, time to reflect, pray and work toward your goals.
Difficult or dangerous? Watch out and get out of a dangerous relationship.
If someone loves you, they would NOT intentionally do things to hurt you, trigger you, they would not try to set you up for failure, and they would not put you or set you up in scenarios to provoke and instigate negative reactions from you. They will love you, encourage you....
Amen 🙏
Exactly. My “mother.”
Then that is no love
Just started watching on utube. I’m sure the Lord directed. Great teaching and insight. Raised by narcissists parents. I’m 72 and just now being healed by God of my triggers. Praise God. Thank you Kris
Amen! I’m 64….same! Hi Kay…😜✝🕎🤭
Will be 71 in July. Had a narcissistic father with quite a few character traits, a Mother who was empathetic as a healer, cook, clairvoyant and intuitive woman. Both had a very high IQ, but my father was raised by a Bible thumping Mother, while my Mother was raised by her Aunt & Uncle, after her Mother died days after her birth of preeclampsia toxic state, common in those early 1900’s but prevented today. Father’s father died of toxic lead poisoning in the hospital where he got pneumonia on top of it, which caused his inability to recover. Penicillin had not been invented yet… Father blamed God, for taking his Father, and could never believe in any “Word” in the Bible. He had a hardened heart towards God. He was only 10 when this happened. He learned to be very charming and charismatic which became his power, other than the fact that he had deep sea blue eyes and was very attractive to women. He married 3 times with 2 divorces. His 1st wife proposed to him, and they had 3 children, after their divorce, he slept with 1 woman who had a child from him without his knowing, as he decided instead to marry my mother as his second wife. My mother had 1 son, from her prior marriage and wouldn’t cheat on him, like his prior wife had or the other woman who he knew had slept with another man too.
The other woman married a man who thought he was the father of their son and they had a 2nd son.
Father had 9 children, total. With my mother, he had a 1st born that died as a baby and they buried him then moved to a different State, south of his prior home, where we would visit later. Next he had twins, then myself. We lost our home in a flood, so moved higher up on a hill, to start over. My mother decided they needed counseling but that doesn’t work with a narcissist. He smear campaigned her and told his truth, and provided an attorney for her that full of lies about her situation in court, divorced my mother with his best attorney and one of his twins lies about our Mother. Pride was the ways of my father and his sons. They took me away from my mother at age 10, where I was put in my mother’s position to be head of the household. My mother would never want to see his face again, had further trauma with her job, another man, and loss of her children through further manipulation. Life is hard and trauma can beat down children to where they lack a controlled environment as well. In the end, only the golden child, his youngest daughter from 1st marriage thrived with that last wife. She was narcissistic too. All three of my half siblings suffer in their own ways, except that middle golden girl, born on “Daddy’s” birthday, but the favored 1st Son took advantage of that 3rd wife, financially so was axed from his life. The 1st born daughter had long before separated from her father for remarrying and got removed with her brother and put into care by Grandmother, when they moved away.
Narcissist do not recognize boundaries. They get fuel from overstepping others boundaries. There is a lifetime full of education about toxic people. Just Pray that you will never be like them, get out and stay out. If you return, like I did, you will find that this personality never changed. There is hope for children who were removed while they were young enough.
Amen. Praise The Lord! Im 51 and still struggling with my my Mother... BUT i know Our God is working on me. Its a struggle with a toxic parent
Amen and praise God
This was so incredibly helpful and confirmed what God has shown me as well. The Lord is growing me, healing me, changing me and restoring me. It is impossibly hard but worth it.
I am convinced we put the focus on how others "make us feel" because we care way too much about how they think about us. It doesn't matter what they think about us, it only matters what God thinks of us.
Definitely for me! I've been in a 46 year marriage and have decided to get a divorce. Thank You, Lord for freeing me!
Check the scripture before you make that decision.
Good for you. I got out after 30 years of mental and emotional hell. Thought I was losing my mind. God never intended for us to live with abusers of any kind
@@DJH97 Exactly!
@@tatie7604 You don't know what you don't know.
Congratulations ✌️ 👍 🙏 😎 🐝 🌻
You can’t explode without explosive material, so their constant triggering doesn’t set you off 🤯. What a giant pearl of wisdom here, truly.
You just helped me beyond belief! It’s 2 of my kids so it’s been heartbreaking but I just take them to prayer. My heart has been crushed and I’ve blamed myself but now I get it all! God is doing work in my heart and mind so I can only handle myself and not try to change them. You are so smart and thank you!
A true women of God pray. This is one of the most powerful messages I've ever heard in my life at 39. Thank you ❤..
My Parish Priest did say in his homily "you cannot it alone, you have to call upon the Holy Spirit."
Amen I’m excited about how to use people as tools instead of victimizing myself and avoidance
Yes I definitely felt used
Working daily with TOXIC person
She is pure evil
She needs the change. Gossiper, evil doer. Praying for her daily
Pray and stay way back!
Yes I take accountability
Yes I Thank God for the lessons
I've become the person God can use any time and any place.
Their behavior have pushed me closer to my Lord, Jesus, whom I always wanted to be close to from my youth.
May God bless you abundantly!! I never saw toxic people as a gift from God. To help us pull out what is not great in us and to purify us.
So true Kris I suffered for 47 years not knowing he was a toxic man. He fits in 100 per cent. I finally chased him out.
Thank you Kris for giving me the tools to make changes in my own life. I need to examine myself so that I can grow as a person. Not to be a better wife but to be a better child of God for His glory.
How Blessed I am to have found you!!!!!!
....be careful where you hang your hope...
Hallelujah!!
I Love The Way You Use The Bible ! 🙏🏼♥️✝️♥️🙏🏼
I agree with all you are sharing and thank you for this great video! There are some circumstances however where there is abuse, very abusive family members that we need to walk away from..too much toxicity can contaminate anyone... maybe that is why the Word of God tells us to be careful to not be around angry people or the immoral lest they corrupt us. God bless you!
God is going to bring more people to this lady she got the gift by God to help his children who’s been suffer for long time from narcissistic people 🙏🙏
Thank the lord I found you. I was enmeshed with my mother and I’ve gone from one toxic relationship to another.
I had to look at what part I played in the relationships. Thank you for your precious knowledge.
This is so comprehensive, practical and yet also soooo Scripturally based…quite possibly the best advice I’ve ever heard!!!!! 👌🏾
The absolute best video for me out of hundreds that I have listened to across the board on dealing with narcissism!!!
I was led to your platform right after another toxic conversation with my son's father and I couldn't feel more inspired and hopeful. I am implementing and taking action amd notes to finally work my way out of this and not be controlled by my emotions. 🙏🏻
Thank you for this message. It is timely information as I move closer to divorce from a toxic person and this information is helping me look forward to the future that God has planned for me. I have been healed from depression and finally see my life clearly
Feel misunderstood, hurt and unloved
Extremely helpful!! Thank you!!!
My Step Son is still living in his Dads Divorce, after 23 Yrs really, I have noticed a lot about me, an what I want from life, just stumped as How to Not feel guilty, or guilted into Doing things for Ungrateful people 🥺
This was very helpful and eye opening. Thank you for this video.
This is definitely a blessed information topic that was spoken sister. Sharing this and pray that Father in Jesus name help many people who are going through this.
After 50 years of praying for narcissistic parents and them "changing" for a moment. Prayer is all I got. Just waiting on God to tell me where and when to go. Being used and discarded several times because I was supposed to "honor them" I'm so grateful for those who are shedding light on those horrible "abuse of power"
Yes yes yes yes they're definitely god-sent I would have been stuck in my people-pleasing for how many more years had not God stop and put me into a painful situation that I had to study myself out of I am now seeing God's hand at work his arm is Never Too Short
Thank you Kris I need to hear this. Yes I am tracking with you.
I do see that my relationship with my husband who has shown vulnerable, covert and grandiose narcissistic traits, has brought me closer to God. I found out almost 3 yrs ago that I have Spontaneous Coronary Artery Dissection, which is triggered by stress and hormones. My husband has got worse because I cannot afford to get upset. I have moved out of the bedroom..and am in sleeping in another room, to maintain some form of sanity. I just don't know where to set boundaries and what's ok or not ok...I love this though. It's just such a fine line, one mis-step can cause a bomb to go off.
My friend I pray that you will start focusing on take good care of yourself. Those toxic people can cause your good health to get bad.
Open up the door to this demonic person as well that the truth be told. I had a part in this as well trying to be such a pleaser all my life I got it down. Now.
Oh yes, I was abused by my mother. She hurt me physically which caused lifelong stomach problems. Then I spent six years with a toxic narcissist. He left me the day before I hand a wrist surgery. I could go on but it has gone on and on.
make toxic people irrelevant. if these are your employer and bosses, just walk away and never return even if they post jobs that you were looking for, know snake once showed you who it is- that poison 8s still there... don't make mistake assuming snake will not kill you just because they are temporarily being nice to you.
Here we are. Sooo excited
AWESOME TEACHING! THANK YOU! THANK YOU JESUS!❤❤❤
Brilliant! Bold! Beautiful! Blessed! Bulletproof! Bravamissimo!
Yes, sister preach preach
Thank you this helped me more than my therapist 🙏🏾✨️ Real Talk
I've tried to bring him close to God, he told me to stop religion on him. At the beginning he even faked it by praying, coming to church with him. Now he's said I don't believe in the invisible old man in the skies. I've given up, no contact, trying to heal from 3 years of abuse, depressed, suicidal. U r right, only God can change them, I've given up praying for him. I LIKE ME, THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH ME - were his words. I'm done😢
As I was looking at the comments, the first one reminded me of how I acted. She said that people wouldn't believe her because he was nice to others. That used to hurt my feelings so much that I begged him to just treat me the way he treated strangers. I also begged him to tell me why he couldn't be nicer to me. He actually started to make a list. I am thankful to God for giving me the answers I needed. He is a covert narcissist. I want to thank you for helping me see the biblical understanding. I had begun the process of not letting the triggers upset me. It's been a difficult journey of being married for 54 years. I know what you are telling me is helping me to find a way to go forward! Thank you so much❤
You are right about that I have seen them everywhere in my relationship.
Amen 🙏 thankful for your wise words
‘Be careful where you hang your hope’ … aptly put.
Hope deferred makes the heart sick-Proverbs 13:12 😊
You are absolutely right I’ve had extremely toxic people and now that I look back on matter and I told them all they did was may me see my faults and things I need to get right with god and I am still learning but you are right ! Thank god for the people’s that is toxic to you because all it done was make you a better person and more holy in god eyes !
Thank you
Wonderful help to me
I am going to keep this and Learn..
Have a safe and happy day
Thanks!
When "dealing and struggling with feelings and challenges" would it be transforming for our minds and hearts not to place blame on ourselves only, but to be drenched by God's Truth, His Standard, His Best for us that we may walk in it: His Word? Let us have His profoundly transforming power found in His Word go deeply into our souls as we meditate on it, and seek His amazing presence that fills us with His abundant peace!
Thank you,
This is helpful! Thank you and God bless you!
I’ve always been made to be the problem. I am always to blame.
What did God say?
I love u for this talk. This is 100 EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR. I NEVER SEEN UR CHANEL OR U.. I BELIEVE NOW GOD SENT U FOR ME TO OPEN MY EYES 🙏🙏🙏 27 YEARS SINCE I MET HIM AT 28 NOW 43.. UP DOWNS HAPPY COMPLETE MISERY . I BEEN THRU IT ALL WITH HIM.. MY LAST DRAW WAS CHURCH WE REMARRIED IN CATHOLIC CHURCH 3 YEARS AGO .. AND ITS ACTUALLY WORSE. I KEEP HOLING ON AND ITS HURTING ME MORE THAT I STAY AND THINK THIS WAS GOD SENT HIM AND WE CAN HEAL TOGETHER .U MADE ME RELIZE IM TURNING INTO WHAT HE WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF RELATIONSHIP. IKE HE TRAINED ME TO BE WORSE OF MYSELF.. I NEED TO BE AUTHENTIC MYSELF AND THIS IS NOT ME.. IM HIDING IN BASMENT TO NOT DEAL WITH HIM I AM LITTERALLY ANXIETY 30 MINUTES BEFORE HE GETS HOME KNOWING HIS ENERGY IS GOING TO SHAKE ME TO CORE.. I APPRECIATE U SO MUCH
.ALL CHANNELS IV NEEN WATCHING TRYING YO GET DOME RELIEF OF TRUTH.. THIS IS IT BLESS U GOD BLESS MYSELF AND UR A ANGEL
Yes I work with a toxic narcissist, over a barring person.
Thank You so much. God has put you in my life to Make me understand where I should be doing Thank you so much
Thank you for this video! It was very eye opening!!!
Good morning, thank you for your Inspiration my name is Shirley from Los Angeles
Kris I have been in the Deliverance teaching and councelling for 45 years and this is so precious your teaching and councelling teaching is so needed for today and your courses are so wonderful and just saying thank you your videos will be helping me to help others.
You are a great teacher..Wonderful advices...I'm glad I scape on time..I do not miss him at all..He is the one that has been chasing me even though he has a partner...
Amen and God Bless!
Yes and amen you r so right what's going on in us
Thank you for this!
My favorite line to my verbally abusive husband is just because I say I am sorry and that I was wrong does not mean you are right.
❤❤❤ thank you so much. This is so helpful.
Yes tracking with you!
This is one of the best teachings I have heard this far!!! 💯 Dead on.
Yes this has really been helpful
This is sooooo powerful! 🔥🔥🔥 Definitely gave me a different perspective on relationships and their purpose.
Very helpful indeed
@9.42: Thank you for distinguishing between danger and difficult.
Yes, this video for me❤
This word is such a blessing and eye-opener! Thank you so much! You are truly a Woman of GOD!
You have awaken me to myself in many ways this morning! Thank you
AMEN !!!!! Yes Lord.
💯 tracking with you Kris ❤
Yes great message 🙂
Thank You 🙏🌻 Also A Lot of Toxic Narcissistic Christians and Pretend Christians Hurt Me Really Bad!!! 😢
Thank you this is helpful in getting further not been stuck in life.
To all of you who say that you have multiple toxic relationships in your life, be careful. I know of someone like this. Everyone is mistreating and using this person. Everyone is always mean and disrespectful: co-workers, family, extended family, acquaintances, former friends... Guess what, she is the toxic one - no one else. Examine yourself first and do not be deceived.
Yes I hear you
Just went to breakfast with my neighbor and she triggered me big-time as she always does and I always have a need to try to explain myself and try to tell her the truth because I'm more Godly I'm more smarter on more Spirit driven blah blah blah bingo bingo bingo, I'm working on this and already I see my part but I go over to the other side way too often but I'm getting quicker to come back to me the rewards are amazing already thank you
This is for me!!!
My spouse has taken advantage of me for years and the emotional and verbal abuse towards me has has caused so much havoc in my family.
When i first met the toxic person, Jesus told me it was temporary and my life would get better. And it did pretty fast!! I wont have the problem any more with toxic ppl!!! but....i give only God the glory because hes the one who did it!!! Hes the one who knows everything. That person had no idea what was going to happen!! so i dont agree with everything you say. I do believe strongly in honesty.
This is foe ME!
This video is gold! Thank you so much mighty woman of God for creating these amazing teachings for us who are out here still suffering. I need to escape, idk how. I have an infant and I'm disabled and I can't leave my child behind. I don't trust him alone with my baby and it would destroy me to have to hand over my baby to an unsafe environment, alone when he can't fend for himself. I would LOVE to speak to you privately. How can I find where and how to book some of your time? Thank you Kris. You are a blessing.
I've observed recently certain relationship. If I'm happy they are not
If I am than they r happy. Just digesting all of this been talked ng tosanirber friend recently about this and then low and behold heare is your teaching
Thanks Amen❤
Thank you. This was very helpful and informative. May GOD bless you mightily❤
I am work wth therepist for traumatic stress n a psychiatrist just started cymbalta
Lifesaving!!!❤
yes amen thankyou
So good!
Love this!❤🎉
I met my second husband when I was in a very bad broken emotional state...he really helped me at the time...I'm now married and he's a totally different person..I feel he's just using me...I pay all the bills and buy all that we need...when he gets money..he keeps most of it for himself...he doesn't give me any attention...it's not love it's using me...wat do I do now...he is very abusive verbally when he drinks as well...
I was able to receive so much insight from this message.🙏🏽
Can God still have a plan and purpose for a 61 year old INFJ Empath, still locked into a Narcissistic marriage? GOD I PRAY SO