This is how I realistically romanticize my life 💕 (it will change your perspective!)

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • The key to romanticizing life is to see the beauty in your own life, instead of trying to make your life aesthetically perfect or comparing it to someone elses' seemingly perfect life.
    “But if you knew you might not be able to see it again tomorrow, everything would suddenly become special and precious, wouldn’t it?”
    ― Haruki Murakami
    TIMESTAMP
    00:00 intro
    01:49 create your own joy
    03:29 personal growth and fulfillment is the reward
    04:53 replicate that "first-time" feeling
    06:26 strive to be the best version of you
    07:40 komorebi: be present in your life
    C O M E S A Y H I
    Instagram: / malamalife
    Website: www.malama-life.com
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    Spotify (Audio of my videos): open.spotify.com/show/1P4wRl1...
    I N Q U I R I E S
    sophie.malamalife@gmail.com
    M U S I C
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    C A M E R A G E A R
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    #RomanticizeLife #LiveBeautifully #MindfulLiving

Комментарии • 153

  • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
    @HerCupOfSIMPLE 3 дня назад +53

    We are so used to see edited lives on social medias that we're forgetting that that's not real life.
    It's taking away the joy we can experienced in our tiny daily mundane moments 😊

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml День назад +1

      well said :)

  • @a.l.t.777
    @a.l.t.777 2 дня назад +23

    Dear Sophie, I’m the silent type of audience who love watching your videos without making comments. Yet this video inspires me so much to do so. Your message came at a perfect time when I’m hoping to make changes in some aspects of my life. While there is much to be grateful for, I noticed myself subtly looking at the lack or imperfections either in myself or in my environment based on the externalities projected by others. Thank you so much for bringing this message to clear light so that we could live the life true to our heart and soul. Love from Singapore 💕

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 дня назад +82

    The harder you fall, the higher you'll bounce back.

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  3 дня назад +6

      I'm going to remember that!

    • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
      @HerCupOfSIMPLE 3 дня назад +1

      ✨️

    • @tomlambert915
      @tomlambert915 2 дня назад

      I sure didn't feel that way when that kitchen chair collapsed under me the other day.🤣

    • @bollybelly
      @bollybelly 2 дня назад +1

      Thank you so much❤ that sentence spoke me to me today😊

  • @Kimmy-rh1ry
    @Kimmy-rh1ry 3 дня назад +32

    Please do more videos like this. I too love watching day in the life videos, morning routines, etc

  • @starshiptrooper4455
    @starshiptrooper4455 3 дня назад +27

    This really hit the spot today, thank you. Have been feeling pretty bummed out, because I want changes but currently have to accept what is. I think we all only look at the lives of others when we’re dissatisfied in some way. What I like about your videos is how much you remind us all of the power we have to curate each moment. Knowing the power to create is always with me just makes my soul melt. 💕💐 ps hope you feel better now. I’m recovering from an awful cold and wonder if it’s my body’s way of making me just take stock of the magic of having good health over anything else.

  • @sommermaxwell
    @sommermaxwell 3 дня назад +15

    I love the idea of treating more moments like “first times”. You’re right that going on a walk with a dog or a toddler, even if it is the same walk you take every day, is always exciting. There is this huge anticipation of finding a new leaf, a new scent, a new person, or a new experience that keeps them moving forward ready to explore. This idea also helps us all slow down and pay attention. Such an important reminder!

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml День назад

      totally agree!

  • @lacey-romero
    @lacey-romero 3 дня назад +7

    Would love an updated minimalist video on skincare,beauty, etc.
    the obsession with all these skincare and makeup products is what seems to suck me in to a black hole 😢

  • @KobusingyeAisha
    @KobusingyeAisha 3 дня назад +12

    Your the big sister everyone needs in life thanks for changing my life 🙏

  • @poyotski
    @poyotski 3 дня назад +4

    I started my minimalism/de-cluttering journey during the pandemic and was not even aware there was such a thing called "minimalism". However, seeing your videos inspire me more on living my life simply and intentionally. My life has changed so much since I have learned to detach myself from things (and even some people) and started to create a more meaningful life outside the culture of consumerism.

  • @lowwastehighmelanin
    @lowwastehighmelanin 2 дня назад +3

    I choose not to compare. When I feel myself comparing, I try to go do something else. It's REALLY hard not to it's so human to do that but honestly? Comparison is the thief of joy as they say. I'm a lot happier using social media less. I'm happier just enjoying the little things and feeling gratitude as much as possible. Life is hard but it could be SO MUCH WORSE. And HAS been for me specifically!

  • @hnnhml
    @hnnhml День назад +1

    your energy is so incredibly calming, it amazes me every time

  • @Evegi4400
    @Evegi4400 3 дня назад +6

    Needed this sm, thank u ❤

  • @bekah9344
    @bekah9344 2 дня назад +3

    I save my favorite podcast for my big cleaning day. Cleaning has gone from a chore to something I look forward too:)

  • @ronnygg3255
    @ronnygg3255 3 дня назад +8

    love your hair, so long and thick

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 2 дня назад +1

    One of my favorite videos you’ve posted! I just loved this and I had a little aha shift moment
    where I saw a new perspective on something I’m dealing with.
    Thank you.

  • @milesjenkins3687
    @milesjenkins3687 3 дня назад +2

    I, too have been sick for the last 2 weeks and finally feeling better now. So happy your video popped up today. Your loveliness warms my day.

  • @user-xy6hs4tw9p
    @user-xy6hs4tw9p 3 дня назад +1

    You are so insightful. Your videos always make us slow down, think about our perspectives, and feel centered. You are a gifted communicator 🌸.

  • @jackg4226
    @jackg4226 3 дня назад +3

    I needed this today thank you ❤

  • @Lollyzinspirationz
    @Lollyzinspirationz 2 дня назад +1

    This is a beautiful message. Thanks malama❤

  • @darbybeckett8776
    @darbybeckett8776 3 дня назад +4

    I truly loved this video.. thank you💕

  • @marywall5262
    @marywall5262 2 дня назад

    Thank you for this! I can really relate to the message. I hope you are feeling better 😊

  • @HappyCookiee
    @HappyCookiee День назад

    Thank you for this, really needed this. And, you are glowing Sophia! :)

  • @shamshadsora6360
    @shamshadsora6360 3 дня назад +2

    Thank you sophie 🤗love your work ❤❤❤❤.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 3 дня назад +5

    Thank you Sophie

  • @jenniferkay7876
    @jenniferkay7876 3 дня назад +4

    I really needed this today! I just compared myself to others this afternoon. Thank you 😊❤️

  • @BeTruYu
    @BeTruYu 2 дня назад

    This video was best way to start my day! You summed up well what I have been feeling recently. Just woke up and now excited to get up! Lots of love from Finland. Thank you ☺️❤️

  • @pippas5808
    @pippas5808 День назад

    Your video reminded me of one of my favourite quotes. "If the stars should appear one night in a thousand years, how would men believe and adore; and preserve for many generations the remembrance of the city of God which had been shown." It always reminds me to appreciate the beauty around us with that childlike wonder, instead of taking it for granted!

  • @noelleromberger2582
    @noelleromberger2582 3 дня назад +8

    I really appreciate your perspective and the calm I find when I watch your beautiful videos. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

  • @sschulz0801
    @sschulz0801 День назад

    As always... great message, thank you❤

  • @empope188
    @empope188 3 дня назад

    such a beautiful and powerful video Sophie, just what I needed today also the music you used along side your video made me tear up. You are a gifted and special being. Sending you so much love

  • @tweakedsam
    @tweakedsam 2 дня назад

    I needed this today. ❤

  • @celinaigelhorst5906
    @celinaigelhorst5906 2 дня назад +1

    That was so so beautiful 🧡

  • @CitrouilleCitron
    @CitrouilleCitron 2 дня назад

    Thanks Sophie for these sweet videos.
    Love from France ❤

  • @mhkllyndsy
    @mhkllyndsy 2 дня назад

    I really enjoy watching your videos,Sophie! Your words inspires me to look life in better perspective.I’ve always been listening to your videos just like how I listen to some podcast while doing things,and it really help me stay productive and motivated.Wishing you all great things in life!💗

  • @momsheegc4499
    @momsheegc4499 3 дня назад

    Thank you so much for this video Sophie. I really need it right now as sometimes I oversee my blessings by looking at others achievements. Thank you for your constant reminders through your vlogs. ❤

  • @rosedoenz5721
    @rosedoenz5721 3 дня назад

    I love the reminder to treat everyday as if it’s your first or perhaps your last! Thank you Sophie for another beautiful video! 💖😘💖

  • @elaitupaz5858
    @elaitupaz5858 2 дня назад

    What a beautiful message and very timely.😍

  • @GuizelleM
    @GuizelleM 2 дня назад

    Your videos always make me feel calm and reassured.

  • @mariaflorenciasabado7689
    @mariaflorenciasabado7689 2 дня назад

    Thank you so much for making these beautiful videos , and to talk about these subejcts that are so important in life , and to remember often . I enjoy your videos very much and I want to congatulate you for your four years doing them . Thank you ! sending love from Argentina

  • @divyaa3543
    @divyaa3543 3 дня назад +1

    thank you for making these videos

  • @ankeael7644
    @ankeael7644 2 дня назад

    I needed this reminder today. Thank you so much. ❤

  • @rianihlim
    @rianihlim День назад

    thank you for the kind message

  • @ruxandramarquardt1466
    @ruxandramarquardt1466 3 дня назад

    Lovely video, beautiful worded and healing ideas! Thank you for bringing up all these great ideas! 💐

  • @mommysobusy
    @mommysobusy 2 дня назад

    You are so right. I love this video so much

  • @jenniferpearce777
    @jenniferpearce777 3 дня назад

    Loved this video Sophie x going through a hard time at the moment look forward to your videos they lift me up if only for a short time x just trying to get my life back together a bit at a time ❤ love from the uk 🇬🇧

  • @shashinimarasinghe7223
    @shashinimarasinghe7223 День назад

    Dear Sophi...
    I got the initiative of being a minimalist from you
    I am really happy with the life I have created for my self since then
    Thankyou so much
    Wish you all the happiness on Earth

  • @Erl_Jimenez
    @Erl_Jimenez 3 дня назад

    Have a wonderful morning Ms.Sophie❤❤❤love all your videos so inspiring❤

  • @chandracriswell7154
    @chandracriswell7154 2 дня назад

    Definitely enjoyed and look forward to the next ❤

  • @bforbalance683
    @bforbalance683 3 дня назад

    words cannot and won’t justify how much was this content a blessing from the sky today (and often of course
    😂) THANK YOU!

  • @JG-di8oi
    @JG-di8oi День назад

    Breath of fresh air. Thank you.

  • @dyidyistudio
    @dyidyistudio 2 дня назад

    hello sophie I admire you a lot and you're one of the reasons I started to document my life in my youtube channel. I missed you so much and I still remember the time you replied to mu comment ❤

  • @Kalonlifestyle
    @Kalonlifestyle 3 дня назад +1

    Always such beautiful videos that you make ❤

  • @sakshivaidya8701
    @sakshivaidya8701 2 дня назад

    this video just made me so calm and content ❤

  • @lexi8854
    @lexi8854 3 дня назад

    Love the day in the life part!😍🥰🥰💕✨💕

  • @fatmaalzahraa9141
    @fatmaalzahraa9141 День назад

    whenever I feel lost or hopeless your videos give me inspiration thank you🤍

  • @christinaoikonomou4320
    @christinaoikonomou4320 День назад

    Komorebi..what a beautiful word! Thank you!

  • @canopus0898
    @canopus0898 3 дня назад

    Hi thete, Sophie!!!
    Amazing & awesome vid as always.
    What a coincide that just last night I was thinking about that content.
    Beautiful landscapes you have in Hawaii... Greetings from Chile. 🇨🇱

  • @khadeeshasingh-mccollin7352
    @khadeeshasingh-mccollin7352 3 дня назад

    Im really encouraged by this video

  • @chandrareaux6700
    @chandrareaux6700 3 дня назад

    Beautiful beautiful video! I loved it

  • @nainamishra3155
    @nainamishra3155 2 дня назад

    I love such videos of yours sophie..please bring more.

  • @MeditationMeg
    @MeditationMeg 2 дня назад

    beautiful video and message! 💜As a newer youtuber, I'm leaning into more "unedited", real content w/ a version of myself shining through- the real me. That, as you said is the light- we each have our own glow, and it's not worth comparing to one another b/c we're unique and authentic in our own ways! blessings to you!

  • @sorrellwilliams4014
    @sorrellwilliams4014 2 дня назад

    Perfect timing ❤

  • @anndwyer6398
    @anndwyer6398 2 дня назад

    Your very wise
    Wishing you good health and happiness x

  • @chloesammi
    @chloesammi 2 дня назад

    I loved this!

  • @lornamackenzie2694
    @lornamackenzie2694 3 дня назад

    I absolutely love your dogs ❤

  • @vhiaamoro4392
    @vhiaamoro4392 2 дня назад

    You are glowing 😍😍😍

  • @colleenwestbrook8848
    @colleenwestbrook8848 2 дня назад

    Loved this❤

  • @Merel64
    @Merel64 2 дня назад +1

    Oh my, so good to hear you also need a lot of time to wake up: so do I. And I have resisted and have beaten up about it thoughout my life! No more!!! I indulge now in my slow mornings... After that I am all yours 😂😂😂

    • @MalamaLife
      @MalamaLife  2 дня назад

      Yesss ❤️ exactly how I feel

  • @kla2757
    @kla2757 День назад

    Love this 😊

  • @dre_nusha
    @dre_nusha 3 дня назад

    Such a good video🥰 thank you🙏🏼 would you please share the brands of your floral mist and the body butter? 🧡

  • @canchopachondo
    @canchopachondo 3 дня назад

    Wonderful inspiration to take into the weekend😊 And that kimono/robe is beautiful, may I ask where you got it? Thanks!💕

  • @allthingsmarianne
    @allthingsmarianne 2 дня назад

    I love ur videos ✨ 🤗

  • @Skyskysky666
    @Skyskysky666 3 дня назад

    So beautifully captured

  • @someonedifferent22
    @someonedifferent22 2 дня назад

    I have never thought to make a salad with orzo, it looks delicious!

  • @Jazzsmith10
    @Jazzsmith10 2 дня назад

    Well-done! 👏👏👏

  • @justynasienkiewicz6754
    @justynasienkiewicz6754 2 дня назад

    Thank you for sharing your day with us :) Komorebi is beautifully portrayed in a movie titled Perfect Days.

  • @mimmili5593
    @mimmili5593 2 дня назад

    🥰💚 so true

  • @rebekahdavidhudson1934
    @rebekahdavidhudson1934 2 дня назад

    Dear Sophie - I have been following you for over three years, and I think this is one of my all time favorite videos of yours. SO well done! I loved it and it spoke to my heart. Also, question, I’ve been looking everywhere for a soft, light, full length kimono robe like the one you were wearing in this video. Would you be willing to let me know where you got it?

  • @philaqhawithaphila
    @philaqhawithaphila 2 дня назад

    Hey Sophie good to always catch up with your relaxing videos. With what you said that's why in the commandments of God it says we must not envy anyone's life because in real sense we don't know how they got or had to do to get all those things. Some had to work hard and honest passing through difficult challenges to get there and some had to do things related to the dark side to get there. Although it's not easy not to envy but we try. Well said find the personal reason to keep going. And for me what one thing that would bring joy is to be grounded in Christ because He surely brings stability in this chaotic life.

  • @hydeyoungg17
    @hydeyoungg17 3 дня назад +1

    Hi. Great video. Thank you.

  • @ayyyyyu1988
    @ayyyyyu1988 День назад

    Sophie, you are so beautiful... thanks for helping me become more beautiful too 💕

  • @SteffTevesVlog
    @SteffTevesVlog 2 дня назад

    Happiness within . ❤

  • @lindajackson6959
    @lindajackson6959 День назад

    So true❤

  • @ManifestingGoodinlife
    @ManifestingGoodinlife 2 дня назад +1

    Plzz do more vlogs like these
    Even if it is the same daily❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    I love such calming vlogs
    Especially yours❤

  • @Iinfiniteknowing
    @Iinfiniteknowing 2 дня назад

    Absolutely.ppl usually just post the good times......

  • @seekeroftheultimatetruth6188
    @seekeroftheultimatetruth6188 2 дня назад

    Thankyou 😊

  • @romansoehuazelei1925
    @romansoehuazelei1925 3 дня назад +5

    First. Powerful and beautiful. Thank you.

  • @Janebarlisan
    @Janebarlisan День назад

    "kinikilig" thats what I feel whenever I watch your vid. subscriber since 2021 I guess wahaha. Im so inlove with your voice.

  • @anettesinn280
    @anettesinn280 3 дня назад +1

    Sophie, I would like to know was it rice or pasta you mixed with your greens and pesto? I have never seen before, but it lookes very delicious. Thanke You 🙂

  • @deepthyjacob2119
    @deepthyjacob2119 3 дня назад +1

    Beautiful ✨

  • @thelostwanderer2519
    @thelostwanderer2519 2 дня назад

    Your videos always makes me feel better✨ love from India 🩷🤍

  • @MsChilli18
    @MsChilli18 2 дня назад

    I love your Videos

  • @2s7mh3
    @2s7mh3 День назад

    I always enjoy your beautiful video and learn a lot from your perspective. I like how you perceive and find Japanese culture. I am Japanese and people from other countries find the beauties in it, more than we do. It is like people can't see their own eyelashes. I appreciate you share a lot of your thoughts, phylosophy of your life and show how to enjoy life.

  • @Abby-ll5yw
    @Abby-ll5yw 3 дня назад +3

    Hi Sophie 😊 May I ask where you found your white pants with the split side hem?

  • @delilah_la
    @delilah_la 3 дня назад +2

    You're so beautiful 😍

  • @user-yc4rw3hj1j
    @user-yc4rw3hj1j 2 дня назад

    where did you get your skirt?! it's so cute!!

  • @anilasaleem2158
    @anilasaleem2158 3 дня назад

    Yeah comparisons while everyone seems to be having the time of their lives aka traveling while u r sat at home bumming around the whole day... sometimes listlessness hits like ro k bottom, Maybe some of us are meant to be watchers while others the travelers, maybe u r Right, accepting is the key❤

  • @greensky9005
    @greensky9005 3 дня назад

    I love the word ‘ komorebi’ . Did you happen to watch the movie Perfect days? I love your videos. Thank you!

  • @mansoor3159
    @mansoor3159 3 дня назад +3

    Imagine getting a heart comment and reply my comment from my favourite youtuber Sophie and I've been waiting for this video you are my truly truly inspiration😭😭♥️♥️

  • @kyledang4063
    @kyledang4063 3 дня назад +1

    Like this video!