As an ENTJ (commander), I just wanted to day that the people I admire the most are ESTJs. That includes my mom, & some of my bestest friends. Thank you ESTJ for existing
Love the fact that you did a video on the ESTJ. Please make more videos about other personalities as well. I'd love to know about each type. You could do ENTJ, ESTP, ISTP, ENFP, ENTP, ISTJ, etc. However, please do ENTJ next. Thankyou!
Very cool. Explains a whole lot! LOL. I took this test about 5 yeara ago and have added it to my resume since. I’ve never listened to RUclips videos about it until now though. To confirm, I AM an accounting/audit manager currently and have been for 16 years now and have thought about going back to school for criminal justice. Maybe forensic accounting too.
As an ENTJ, the avatar on this video's thumbnail looks exactly like my AP Economics teacher (she's an ESTJ). I asked her why she wanted to teach the class a while ago and she said that, "Sometimes life just makes us end up in places." Clearly the job isn't fulfilling to her haha
Dear Lord! No wonder so many ESTJs are expressing being upset over the way they are represented by most. "Live and let live" is very much what people who live their life in service of others are going to understand and that's one thing ESTJs are known for! How dare you!
Tell that to my sister. I'm INFP, she's ESTJ. She still can't get over my opinion about Covid and it's almost 4 years later. She told our Mom that we can get along, but shouldn't be in the same room. Live and let live? Don't think so...😒
I was in same, I’m INFJ with ESTJ, my advice- get out before it will be too late. I’m in full recovery ❤️🩹 from complex trauma, they don’t care about you but what is there from you to them!
@@Coolcatguy92 yes, in very beginning! He was very obsessed with me too and I thought that angel felt out of the sky and sweep me off my feet but now I have a trouble to get on them again! Be very careful, we are gentle souls.
@@ivanaveltmeyer6373 Can you please tell me what caused so many issues? How did it unfold? I really appreciate your help. Because I seem very sure of this person.
@@Coolcatguy92 ok, first started with small talk ( as usual), we didn’t know each other. Then bigger talk started to unfold and he understood that I’m not a type for one night stand and he respected that. We were meeting regularly and was chatting and he was really mirror me and assessed my character, back then I didn’t know that I was INFJ or anything about MBTI. However, back then i didn’t know what to watch for and spotting red flags 🚩. He was a bit reluctant to talk about his childhood and he didn’t admit the long trail of failed relationships. I’m a nurse and dietician and all he saw was $$$, but was perfectly capable to hide it. He was very nice and supportive and I could talk about anything, and you would know that INFJ’s are attracted to talk about abstract concepts. He was admiring me for my intellect and ability to look at one thing from many perspectives. Anything I like, he liked too. They love bombing is intoxicating! He respected and gave me time and not pushing me to be intimate! The mirroring is the huge one, he was very good listener to really find information and me, my likes and dislikes and guess what- they have very similar feelings, but you find later that is bs. They are absolute parasites and we absorb energy. All they want to know that you are good appliance, who will be loyal and bring money, witch later they will make them their. Works like “ what is ours is ours and what is yours is mine!” But they are patient and extremely attentive in the beginning, the love bombing is absolutely intoxicating, especially for INFJ! Than he will book a trip to the best destination witch you mentioned maybe while ago, that you would like to see, as INFJ’s probably simple escape to nature with fire place and simplicity in the middle of nowhere. If you INFJ we love and connect very hard and that is in my case dangerous. Once you ready for intimacy that is mind blowing sex. You are deeply in love. They will hug you all night, so so attentive. And then things will go very slowly and gradually wrong!
I am an INFJ, watching this video to see how different ESTJ's are from us. They are totally opposite to INFJ's and hence, the compatibility between INFJ and ESTJ is 0. Due to difference in perspectives 😢
Well if you base it on stereotypes, I'd agree.... I know ESTJs who get along with INFJs pretty well. I think we shouldn't use this system to say who is compatible with someone, but rather to understand how other types work and how you could approach them to communicate with them the right way.
I've seen videos by Nathan (Love Who?) and Cognitive Personality Theory that have vastly different, more rational perspectives on ESTJs. I suggest you watch those, instead.
As an fellow INFJ I agree completely. My ex boyfriend was ESTJ and while ESTJ do have some extraordinary good traits, it’s the worst combination possible. He constantly tried to change me, draw me into sport activities and effectiveness, but all of it was done in a controlling and extremely shaming way. He tried to shame me out of my creativity, tendency for seeking patterns and symbols, deep intuition, love for literature, writing, art and philosophy. He acted as if all of these were genuinely bad, morally inappropriate and shameful interests. Being a deep freethinker one should truly never settle for such a rigid person. Oh, and he would often devalued me with the sarcastic phrase “I am 14 and deep”.
@@5sunniva5 This is interesting. I'm an INFJ that gets along really well with an ESTJ but only because we both put in the work. We understand where we differ and choose to communicate rather than assume things. It takes being self aware and choosing the hard path for relationships to work. I'm sorry you had to deal with that from him. I have had other personalities like an ENFP that is meant to work well with my personality type, treat me just like your boyfriend did. These personality groupings should be used to help one understand themselves better to develop not used as the law that you have to abide by.
You didn’t. Nobody changes their core personality in their adult state. However, poor test algorithm, lacking awareness or mental issues could greatly affect your test results. You should test from your baseline. God bless you. 🌻
Ukw im an infp and i had a theory that my partner and I are like north and south poles (i.e opposites) hence reversing the letters of my personality type i thought of trying to investigate on her 🗿💀🤫
Sheldon Cooper from The Big Bang Theory, a genius ESTJ with Asperger Syndrome. Heartless for the most part. As an INFP I should be more forgiving. Still waiting for a very close relative ESTJ to just TALK TO ME!
Why would you want to write estj or any other character? I mean why not wrote the character as you inagine him (like he is this and that, he does this and that) witjoit spedifically lnowing what 4 letter type he is? I do not understand why wouod you need to say "i need estj character" instead of " i need a character who acts like this has this interests and so on"
Hey I wanna know what type I am.. someone can help me... I like too do the things by myself because I think if I do it by myself I can do it better I don't like when something is loud is make me feeling anxious... I feel like my way is the right way I like too controlling everything people do around me.. I don't listen to others too much and I love simple.. I like when everything looks like how it is in my brain I like too stay alone sometimes but need love too. I don't think too deep when I do something because I am always feel sure about myself and the things I do.. I like too stay at home and have a simple day. I like too planing everything and I am always early when I meet my friend.. when I have something on my head I can't sleep until is done. And then new ideas comes in my brain.. I only can do 1 things per time because I need to full focus.. that a bit about me.. what you guys think I am ???
Hello ESTJ friends.Very nice to see you guys.
Hi, how are you
Are you ESTJ?
@@sweetbeep I'm
I'm ISTJ, just came here to see our extraverted counterpart 😅
As an ENTJ (commander), I just wanted to day that the people I admire the most are ESTJs. That includes my mom, & some of my bestest friends. Thank you ESTJ for existing
I am INFP which is opposite of ESTJ. It's good to learn your opposite traits since they are usually suppressed into your shadow. God bless
This describes me so well it’s pretty scary.
Love the fact that you did a video on the ESTJ. Please make more videos about other personalities as well. I'd love to know about each type. You could do ENTJ, ESTP, ISTP, ENFP, ENTP, ISTJ, etc. However, please do ENTJ next. Thankyou!
You are welcome!
Very cool. Explains a whole lot! LOL. I took this test about 5 yeara ago and have added it to my resume since. I’ve never listened to RUclips videos about it until now though. To confirm, I AM an accounting/audit manager currently and have been for 16 years now and have thought about going back to school for criminal justice. Maybe forensic accounting too.
As an ENTJ, the avatar on this video's thumbnail looks exactly like my AP Economics teacher (she's an ESTJ). I asked her why she wanted to teach the class a while ago and she said that, "Sometimes life just makes us end up in places." Clearly the job isn't fulfilling to her haha
;)
Dear Lord! No wonder so many ESTJs are expressing being upset over the way they are represented by most. "Live and let live" is very much what people who live their life in service of others are going to understand and that's one thing ESTJs are known for! How dare you!
Tell that to my sister. I'm INFP, she's ESTJ. She still can't get over my opinion about Covid and it's almost 4 years later. She told our Mom that we can get along, but shouldn't be in the same room. Live and let live? Don't think so...😒
As an Intp who grew up with two sisters entj and estj. I’m deathly scared of these types but also more compatible for some reason haha
Studying this personality helped me on the job market as an INFP.
Thank you for doing this vid ! I remember asking for it 🤩
Pleasure ;)
I’m an ENTJ with an ESTJ best friend. This fits her to a T.
I'm an INFJ into an ESTJ let's see how it goes
I was in same, I’m INFJ with ESTJ, my advice- get out before it will be too late. I’m in full recovery ❤️🩹 from complex trauma, they don’t care about you but what is there from you to them!
@@ivanaveltmeyer6373 really? That's interesting. This one is COMPLETELY obsessed with me. Did that happen to you in the beginning?
@@Coolcatguy92 yes, in very beginning! He was very obsessed with me too and I thought that angel felt out of the sky and sweep me off my feet but now I have a trouble to get on them again! Be very careful, we are gentle souls.
@@ivanaveltmeyer6373 Can you please tell me what caused so many issues? How did it unfold?
I really appreciate your help. Because I seem very sure of this person.
@@Coolcatguy92 ok, first started with small talk ( as usual), we didn’t know each other. Then bigger talk started to unfold and he understood that I’m not a type for one night stand and he respected that. We were meeting regularly and was chatting and he was really mirror me and assessed my character, back then I didn’t know that I was INFJ or anything about MBTI. However, back then i didn’t know what to watch for and spotting red flags 🚩. He was a bit reluctant to talk about his childhood and he didn’t admit the long trail of failed relationships. I’m a nurse and dietician and all he saw was $$$, but was perfectly capable to hide it. He was very nice and supportive and I could talk about anything, and you would know that INFJ’s are attracted to talk about abstract concepts. He was admiring me for my intellect and ability to look at one thing from many perspectives. Anything I like, he liked too. They love bombing is intoxicating! He respected and gave me time and not pushing me to be intimate! The mirroring is the huge one, he was very good listener to really find information and me, my likes and dislikes and guess what- they have very similar feelings, but you find later that is bs. They are absolute parasites and we absorb energy. All they want to know that you are good appliance, who will be loyal and bring money, witch later they will make them their. Works like “ what is ours is ours and what is yours is mine!” But they are patient and extremely attentive in the beginning, the love bombing is absolutely intoxicating, especially for INFJ! Than he will book a trip to the best destination witch you mentioned maybe while ago, that you would like to see, as INFJ’s probably simple escape to nature with fire place and simplicity in the middle of nowhere. If you INFJ we love and connect very hard and that is in my case dangerous. Once you ready for intimacy that is mind blowing sex. You are deeply in love. They will hug you all night, so so attentive. And then things will go very slowly and gradually wrong!
I am an INFJ, watching this video to see how different ESTJ's are from us. They are totally opposite to INFJ's and hence, the compatibility between INFJ and ESTJ is 0.
Due to difference in perspectives 😢
;)
Well if you base it on stereotypes, I'd agree.... I know ESTJs who get along with INFJs pretty well. I think we shouldn't use this system to say who is compatible with someone, but rather to understand how other types work and how you could approach them to communicate with them the right way.
I've seen videos by Nathan (Love Who?) and Cognitive Personality Theory that have vastly different, more rational perspectives on ESTJs. I suggest you watch those, instead.
As an fellow INFJ I agree completely. My ex boyfriend was ESTJ and while ESTJ do have some extraordinary good traits, it’s the worst combination possible. He constantly tried to change me, draw me into sport activities and effectiveness, but all of it was done in a controlling and extremely shaming way. He tried to shame me out of my creativity, tendency for seeking patterns and symbols, deep intuition, love for literature, writing, art and philosophy. He acted as if all of these were genuinely bad, morally inappropriate and shameful interests. Being a deep freethinker one should truly never settle for such a rigid person. Oh, and he would often
devalued me with the sarcastic phrase “I am 14 and deep”.
@@5sunniva5 This is interesting. I'm an INFJ that gets along really well with an ESTJ but only because we both put in the work. We understand where we differ and choose to communicate rather than assume things. It takes being self aware and choosing the hard path for relationships to work.
I'm sorry you had to deal with that from him. I have had other personalities like an ENFP that is meant to work well with my personality type, treat me just like your boyfriend did.
These personality groupings should be used to help one understand themselves better to develop not used as the law that you have to abide by.
How’d I go from being an ENTJ to an ESTJ 😂 I’m so confused
Learn the personality's cognitive function, entj is Te Ni Se Fi, and estj is Te Si Ne Fi.
U can search it on google to understand more of it
You didn’t. Nobody changes their core personality in their adult state. However, poor test algorithm, lacking awareness or mental issues could greatly affect your test results. You should test from your baseline. God bless you. 🌻
I am ESTJ
Ukw im an infp and i had a theory that my partner and I are like north and south poles (i.e opposites) hence reversing the letters of my personality type i thought of trying to investigate on her 🗿💀🤫
I want to write an estj character, so this video helps me a lot
Good luck!
This is a terrible video. Granted some ESTJs can be jerks, because any type can be, but this is so not the usual kind of ESTJ.
Sheldon Cooper from The Big Bang Theory, a genius ESTJ with Asperger Syndrome. Heartless for the most part. As an INFP I should be more forgiving. Still waiting for a very close relative ESTJ to just TALK TO ME!
@@arlettasloan6453funny, describes someone extremely close to me perfectly. If only that person would just talk to me😢
Why would you want to write estj or any other character? I mean why not wrote the character as you inagine him (like he is this and that, he does this and that) witjoit spedifically lnowing what 4 letter type he is?
I do not understand why wouod you need to say "i need estj character" instead of " i need a character who acts like this has this interests and so on"
Electrician. Very suitable for us.
Hey I wanna know what type I am.. someone can help me... I like too do the things by myself because I think if I do it by myself I can do it better I don't like when something is loud is make me feeling anxious... I feel like my way is the right way I like too controlling everything people do around me.. I don't listen to others too much and I love simple.. I like when everything looks like how it is in my brain I like too stay alone sometimes but need love too. I don't think too deep when I do something because I am always feel sure about myself and the things I do.. I like too stay at home and have a simple day. I like too planing everything and I am always early when I meet my friend.. when I have something on my head I can't sleep until is done. And then new ideas comes in my brain.. I only can do 1 things per time because I need to full focus.. that a bit about me.. what you guys think I am ???
Te si!!!!!!!!!!! Ne fi!!!!!!!
Do estp next!
Soon!
This is me! 😅
100% 🎯
Do all ESTJ’s carry everything in their car? My ESTJ always brings double of everything.
Sounds like a man. Respect.
🫡👍
Estj is the Typical judgmental conservative, got it
ahahahahahaha😭
And proud of it! We’re all created uniquely and it’s wonderful.
What type is the judgmental liberal? 🤔