How Has Social Media Changed Relationships

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  • Опубликовано: 7 июл 2024
  • How Has Social Media Changed Relationships? Some people tolerate social media, some hate it, and some are obsessed with it. Wherever you fall on that spectrum, it's clear that social media has impacted relationships, so in this video I'll address 5 ways social media is impacting relationships.
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Комментарии • 39

  • @fishstickbio594
    @fishstickbio594 Год назад +16

    As far as social media affecting marriages …….please make a video about porn addiction , dating apps , keeping in touch with past sexual partners , past females ……thank you .

  • @victormiller2475
    @victormiller2475 2 года назад +19

    I remember someone saying the more social media grows, people lack the skill to be social. Its happening daily. SAD 😥 but true.

  • @helenasaravia1382
    @helenasaravia1382 Год назад +16

    I have let social media dictate so much of my thinking and reasoning. It makes me sick to my stomach thinking about how obssessive I've been over partners and their exs or their possible romantic interests. The pics they like and the fact that they don't like mine. Its a roller coaster that didn't exist years ago. It's not to say these kind of problems in relationships didnt exist. Everyone has wondering eyes eventually but it's so much easier to do it online because everything is instant and public. It's harder to protect your intimacy in a relationship.

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  Год назад +3

      Absolutely. Social media has made it hard to protect all relationships. Partners, kids, etc

    • @chrissemenko628
      @chrissemenko628 10 месяцев назад +1

      This!

  • @pjpammyj4037
    @pjpammyj4037 Месяц назад +1

    Very informative. I agree that we must be aware of anything that comes to kill, steal, or destroy our relationships ❤. TY.

  • @majesticjourneys7080
    @majesticjourneys7080 Год назад +4

    I'm 33 now & for the past 2 years or so I have become less and less interested in using social media, it is soooo draining. I find myself much more productive and aware when I keep those apps deactivated. I don't even like using my phone, I miss the days off the good ole house phone. I don't want to be accessible Allll the time.

  • @user-rc1le1iu4y
    @user-rc1le1iu4y 3 месяца назад +2

    I am so glad I ran across your video, I can still relate. My LDR boyfriend posts, all kinds of stuff and gets a lot of likes and love emojis from other women. I’m really getting turned off.

  • @user-rc1le1iu4y
    @user-rc1le1iu4y 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thankful to run across your video. LDR adding woman while we’re in committed relationship and lied about it. Eye opener for sure!

  • @KingCoz.
    @KingCoz. 8 месяцев назад +4

    Social media ruined dating

  • @jdalexis
    @jdalexis 2 года назад +1

    Thanks, Eric! Great video!

  • @MisterT-uw2di
    @MisterT-uw2di 4 месяца назад +3

    Even I'm not in a relationship, I deleted all my toxic social media sites.🙃 💯

  • @TheInquisitionist
    @TheInquisitionist 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Eric for making this excellent video! I struggle with distractions especially on my phone but not from social media. When I took the red pill I purged my life of a certain narrative I was being fed by Hollywood and social media. I have a facebook because my family is on there and I have a brother who is out in the world and dropped contact with us. My girlfriend use to be on facebook all the time around me untill I couldnt take it and told her not to do it around me anymore. She is addicted and distracted. Please pray for her guys. Thanks again for the video I'm gonna share it with her. Great stuff!

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Год назад +1

    Very important information 👌

  • @gabrielatallent7576
    @gabrielatallent7576 2 года назад +3

    I think the main reason why I became distracted with social media is because I lacked that face-to-face intimate connection with people throughout my life and that was my way of trying to fill that connection. But I absolutely cannot stand people's inability to write full sentences or even full words. I get messages like WV instead of welcome back or GM instead of a good morning. I literally make people repeat what they said when they do something like that and when they actually write it out I tell them that's better. I also have a friend that I've known online for 14 years now and it's hard for me to form a real significant friendship with him after all these years because he keeps his messages and conversations so shallow most of the time. Every time I actually have the energy to talk to him I only get things like what are you doing? Then after we actually do a little bit of small talking he goes back to the very same question just a few minutes later. I honestly get so irritated that sometimes I don't even respond anymore.

  • @clarke9168
    @clarke9168 9 месяцев назад

    On point my friend.

  • @robin5176
    @robin5176 2 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot

  • @KoolT
    @KoolT 8 месяцев назад

    Amen

  • @ericbingham3738
    @ericbingham3738 2 года назад +1

    When you provide specific examples they mostly describe how the man falls short (ex. Men who can’t hold a conversation). Is that intentional?

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  2 года назад +2

      That’s not my intention and obviously a generalization, but more often than not men tend to struggle with emotional connection and conversation more than women do

    • @ericbingham3738
      @ericbingham3738 2 года назад +2

      @@RelationShots thanks for the fast reply. Maybe this is just in my circles but I am starting to see a trend of women not taking it as a generalization believing that the man is the problem and failing to look at themselves since there are few examples to highlight them

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  2 года назад +1

      @@ericbingham3738 That’s probably valid. Sitcoms have been portraying husbands/dads as idiots for years as well

  • @mgm_ent_jayo3365
    @mgm_ent_jayo3365 Год назад +1

    Social media is really the word relationship because they have a 💯 percent relationship with social media facebook is number one because you have messager tht connected with it and they can video write seek sneak all day lie about who there talking to then u have facebook liking every picture comment of every saying means trust me I'm dealing with someone ad we speak specially with a age difference I'm 38 she's 29 so trying to run game on a og will never work I wnt them to charge ppl to use these apps cus ppl will really loose their minds but he'll they pay for Netflix sling HBO Amazon to watch these shows thts only gone run for a month but wat can we do but let's get back on track a hole day yall can b together 6 conversions in 12 hours on the road for a family vacation u find ur self asking the kids a million times yall ok yall sleep how's the movie yall ready to have some fun all because somebody 👃n 👀 all in on social media like I could have left u at home dang u can't even make a joke like no phones on the trip they b like yeah right n I b like I should had stayed n they b like u should had YES ITS KILLING OUR RELATIONSHIPS I dnt even have social media he'll I'm a 80s bby we didn't grow up wit it I tried it n shut it down I love my freedom n space but some ppl just love n need more attention from others but tht will n is coming to where they gone miss tht attention tht once had but didn't pay attention to and won't b able to get it back so ppl let's hope they one day b4 the end of time tht they realize the present of use N not the fiction of I really like he/she but they been in a relationship the hole time I've been liking there picture n how they look cus the devil comes in a shapes n forms

  • @jazzye_92
    @jazzye_92 2 года назад +3

    ...an actual conversation where noise comes out of your mouth... Lol it's sad that people actually have to be told that smh

  • @jaspergreen1652
    @jaspergreen1652 Год назад

    Caught my wife talking to another guy after he tagged her in a post said she was his ❤🌏 she replied back 🥰🥰even seen a picture of him on his page close to my car I asked her about it she said while we was going through stuff one of our friends hooked her up with him and she never had sex with him never kiss him but he did had her number I lost my mind I was broken so we decided we was gonna go to therapy and she would delete it found out again she changed her numbers etc but didn't delete the page changed the name of the tiktok profile and set to private changed the profile picture was broken now she doesn't wanna talk about it and goes around the question but still wants me to act like it's nothing and do what she ask and she hasn't changed anything

    • @chrissemenko628
      @chrissemenko628 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm sorry this is happening to you.😢

  • @callisto9149
    @callisto9149 Год назад +2

    There are a lot of people on social media who want fans and your likes but don't actually want a relationship with you. Don't waste your energy. They don't care about you.

  • @evasccl7846
    @evasccl7846 2 года назад +2

    Hi Eric!! I am so glad you tackled about how Social Media is affecting relationships overall.
    I crave the face to face, conversations that enrich the mind the heart and the soul, where we give each other undivided attention and where we are both intentional with what we pour into the relationship.
    In my opinion, social media has made people more disconnected than ever - from themselves firstly, and from others, secondly! -
    My dislike for it runs so deep... I don't think anyone could ever reach to that depth. I totally agree with the 5 points you mentioned, they are accurate and very realistic. People can no longer have and maintain a proper conversation with depth... I feel so discouraged with this, because everywhere you go, everyone is on their mobile phone!!
    Where is the eye to eye connection? and ability to read and interpret the body language in a conversation?
    I have Instagram only, mainly to follow businesses of interest and some friends that are away and have it too we are connected but we don't ever talk ... so i find it useless.
    Yes, we are to protect ourselves and our relationship, totally agree. I have a lot of people following me (i don't know why!) expecting me to follow back, which i don't do.
    I don't like texting, I prefere video calls or phone call, despite being more on the shy side, I go for it because I think about the other person too, and I know that it is healthy that way, to have a conversation.
    Hahahaha, I hope not to have been too grumpy, I am sure you got clear picture of how i feel about social media!
    Thanks again Eric.

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  2 года назад +1

      Hahaha. Loud and clear!! 🤣

    • @evasccl7846
      @evasccl7846 2 года назад +1

      @@RelationShots I used to tutor students of all ages, one to one and I loved it because I could learn how to help them progress and they found it safe to be themselves whilst learning... I could no longer do that via zoom. THAT is how powerful the in person experiences are!
      At least I made you laugh, haven't I Eric? hahahaha

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  2 года назад +1

      @@evasccl7846 It’s funny, I actually don’t feel like I miss anything counseling via zoom rather than in person…and it’s much more convenient for both parties

    • @evasccl7846
      @evasccl7846 2 года назад +1

      @@RelationShots We are different and that is perfectly okay. I believe it also depends on what is taught and the ages. In my case, it was foreign languages and it was mainly children, teens and young adults.
      Either way, I love it that we are all unique, and we can see, feel and deal with the same things differently and it is okay :)

    • @RelationShots
      @RelationShots  2 года назад

      @@evasccl7846 Yeah, children, teens and foreign language would all be much more difficult via zoom