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  • @studyiqofficial
    @studyiqofficial  11 месяцев назад +11

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  • @anurag6190
    @anurag6190 11 месяцев назад +74

    लोग क्या कहेंगे ????
    People like to criticize more than appreciate and no one wants to be at the receiving end.

    • @pramodpathak1317
      @pramodpathak1317 11 месяцев назад +5

      देख भाई ये सब चुटियापा है , हर किसी का अपना जीने का तरीका है समझा , अब आदमी कुछ मनोरंजन के लिए पैसा लगा रहा है इससे तुमलोगो को क्यों दिक्कत होता है , जिंदगी भर तो कुत्ता जैसा पैसा कमाना ही है

  • @mahanbharatiyasabhyata3834
    @mahanbharatiyasabhyata3834 11 месяцев назад +163

    Say no to big fat weddings😊. Because a relationship is not an event.

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +4

      Well said 👏👍

    • @mohdfarzankhan991
      @mohdfarzankhan991 10 месяцев назад +6

      Biggest scam in the world is relationships

    • @linkan_2362
      @linkan_2362 10 месяцев назад

      Bhai soch agar big fat wedding nahi hoge to kitna Sara employment chala jayega .

    • @Ch.Hemachander-03
      @Ch.Hemachander-03 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@linkan_2362Sahi baat!

    • @aniketmore5406
      @aniketmore5406 Месяц назад

      There is differnce between wedding and marriage

  • @nycto0
    @nycto0 11 месяцев назад +42

    Just do Shaadi in Mandir/Temple and give a small party to close relatives. That's all.
    Save the Money for your Future, not a one night party.

    • @drisya14
      @drisya14 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes😊🙏🏻

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +3

      You said it 👏 This is what was actually followed around 50 - 60 years and back.

  • @pratyushbhadra295
    @pratyushbhadra295 11 месяцев назад +116

    Mukesh Ambani spent the lowest amount in his daughter's wedding. 700 crore was just 0.13% of his net asset. Probably India's cheapest wedding expense so far.

    • @aws83599
      @aws83599 11 месяцев назад +17

      0.13% ham sat purush tak nahi dekha😂

    • @anshulsharma8138
      @anshulsharma8138 11 месяцев назад +13

      Net worth is not the money you have

    • @rinikhatun2845
      @rinikhatun2845 10 месяцев назад +1

      😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

    • @sunnysonker5380
      @sunnysonker5380 10 месяцев назад +1

      Net worth is diff and actual wealth is far diff from net worth

  • @Cuteberry9
    @Cuteberry9 11 месяцев назад +90

    Village marriage is better with average expenses,with various taste of food and with all villagers blessings.
    With this everything is complete whether it's about tradition or happiness!!😅

    • @damn7637
      @damn7637 11 месяцев назад +12

      Yes with that 10 lakh dowry😉 Village wedding is best

    • @Cuteberry9
      @Cuteberry9 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@damn7637 our doesn't have dowry

    • @manurvabhah
      @manurvabhah 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@damn7637lol. Cities doesn't have dowry stuffs. You livin' under a rock?!

    • @damn7637
      @damn7637 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@manurvabhah you just did a logical fallacy there...I didn't talk about cities in my comment...I replied to his Village centric marriage

    • @manurvabhah
      @manurvabhah 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@damn7637 "yes with 10 lakh dowry😉village wedding is best"
      You didn't mentioned cities,but it clearly states that cities doesn't have dowry system.

  • @sarita3843
    @sarita3843 10 месяцев назад +21

    The married life After is MORE IMPORTANT than THE Wedding itself

  • @PK.wary475
    @PK.wary475 11 месяцев назад +53

    Let's support #SayNoToBigFatWeddings

  • @Indian-er6li
    @Indian-er6li 10 месяцев назад +19

    Bollywood, social media is responsible for such showoff weddings for common people 😢😢

  • @Edu_Think.007
    @Edu_Think.007 11 месяцев назад +51

    Marriage & Divorce both are highly risky & expensive for Men in India. Be cautious Men!

    • @pramodpathak1317
      @pramodpathak1317 11 месяцев назад +4

      सुपारी भी विकल्प है ,

    • @Krishu-ec8vy
      @Krishu-ec8vy 11 месяцев назад +15

      men ke liye marriage risky ho skta hai bt expensive nhi, 95% wedding cost Bride side ko hi pay karna hota hai + dowry

    • @Edu_Think.007
      @Edu_Think.007 11 месяцев назад

      @@Krishu-ec8vy 95,% concept is very old. Duniya badal Gaya hai.
      Men become whole life ATM.....new trending. Alimony scam is trending. 498a is most attractive game to get money 😅😅😅

    • @MB-ux4bb
      @MB-ux4bb 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@pramodpathak1317 khud ki maa ko mar supari se....

    • @pramodpathak1317
      @pramodpathak1317 11 месяцев назад +7

      @@Krishu-ec8vy 😂😂😂 unemployed men ke liye toh marriage ka koi matlab hi nahi hota hai 😂😂😂suno 15-20 lakh rupaya dowry de ke 15-20 lakh ka annual income wala ladka se shadi hota hai men ke liye marriage risky ke saath saath financial loss bhi hota hai , jo aadmi Shafi se pahle ek room me aaram se Rah leta hai shadi ke baad Ghar banana padta hai, aur shadi me Jo ladki ko jwellery Diya jaata hai uska kya dowry ka 40% amount to ladki ke pass hi aa jata hai ab Etna bhi nahi kar skti ladki wale toh Shadi hi na kare

  • @shubhamsoni319
    @shubhamsoni319 11 месяцев назад +451

    Court Marriage + Reception(Max 100 guests) = Best

    • @Rohit24Kumar
      @Rohit24Kumar 11 месяцев назад +85

      End the culture and tradition. Problem is over spending not rituals

    • @shubhamsoni319
      @shubhamsoni319 11 месяцев назад +12

      Rituals 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Rohit24Kumar
      @Rohit24Kumar 11 месяцев назад +19

      @@shubhamsoni319 what is their to laugh? Why even court marriage and reception

    • @nycto0
      @nycto0 11 месяцев назад

      Rituals karolo Mandir mai, Bhot hai. 5-10k mai ho jaega.
      Faltu paise waste karne ki jarurat nahi hai. @@Rohit24Kumar

    • @khushidas8804
      @khushidas8804 11 месяцев назад +17

      But Unfortunately Tum Ya Nei Choose Karoge Jab Khud Ki Baari Aati Hai Tab Sadko Apni Marriage Special Hi Karana Hota Hai!!🎀😂

  • @nikhilbanjare19
    @nikhilbanjare19 11 месяцев назад +34

    I found this video very informative and unique in now days topic

  • @jayabanerjea2666
    @jayabanerjea2666 11 месяцев назад +69

    Wedding is a few days' event whereas marriage is for life. Focus on what is important is a personal choice. In the present age, when the bride & the groom have 'an independent opinion', then they have the obligation to 'foot the bill' on their own too. As for parents, they are most welcome to attend the event(s) & contribute as per their wish & ability. We got married 25 years ago & did just that. Our parents (both sides) were happy. As for us, the satisfaction was immense. Then & even today.

    • @user-nt4hc7ux3x
      @user-nt4hc7ux3x 10 месяцев назад

      Why do celebrities marry with limited number,many will be eager to see them

  • @advaya702
    @advaya702 11 месяцев назад +20

    Serious problem specially for girls side ! Sad really...

    • @pramodpathak1317
      @pramodpathak1317 11 месяцев назад

      Even working women can't marry unemployed man

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +3

      This is why simple marriages and functions have been promoted in our society. Our ancestors were farsighted truly 🙏 Both the Bride and Groom's matching of the heart is what really matters and the happiness behind living "Life" . Now - a - days, relations and Life is tossed out for glamor and status - unhealthy practice leading one to multiple issues mainly financial.

  • @musically3626
    @musically3626 11 месяцев назад +21

    Today's youth is truly more mature and courageous and rational than the previous generation.
    Thanks for the great info❤

  • @dhirajgawande007
    @dhirajgawande007 11 месяцев назад +15

    Ye status symbol ya flexing k chakkar me jo girte he, bohot lamba faste he😂

  • @swatipriya562
    @swatipriya562 11 месяцев назад +55

    It's better to say no to marriage, however even if one is marrying girls should not settle for huge expenses in weddings demanded by men and learn to say no , stop getting fooled by hollow family , parents status in society trend in name of marriage

    • @felinemonstrosity
      @felinemonstrosity 11 месяцев назад +6

      True

    • @SudhanshuDhanraj
      @SudhanshuDhanraj 11 месяцев назад

      @@Rishi7898 bachhe to tum lag rhe ho

    • @quizudita
      @quizudita 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Rishi7898
      Tumhe "ladki ka Pyaar paane ka" Mann krta h kya..???

    • @sahilsarang6945
      @sahilsarang6945 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@Rishi7898Kharid hi lo itna kharcha 4 din mein kroge usse accha hai kharid lo sb bikta h bs Jeb mein paise hone chahiye 🙏

  • @Surya-23
    @Surya-23 10 месяцев назад +12

    Not rich or poor but wedding itself is killing Indians...🙏🙏🙏😊

  • @ativas7249
    @ativas7249 11 месяцев назад +56

    Everyone has a right to choose their own style of wedding as it is once in a lifetime thing (mostly 😅)….
    Paise se, jitni chadar hai utne pair phailaao…
    Traditional ho toh zyada achcha (my opinion, no to court marriage. Marry in temple with least expense that’s okay too)
    Blessings of people is most important thing in marriage 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Happiness__143
    @Happiness__143 11 месяцев назад +19

    Marriage should be heavy amount of love, trust, n less expense (showing).❤

  • @kshitijghadle1380
    @kshitijghadle1380 11 месяцев назад +134

    Ye toh acha hai ke mai brahmachaari hoon

    • @SanjeevKumar-uz7mf
      @SanjeevKumar-uz7mf 11 месяцев назад +21

      Kya tum brahmchari bye choice Ho ya brahmchari bye majboori ho

    • @SanjeevKumar-uz7mf
      @SanjeevKumar-uz7mf 11 месяцев назад +7

      Brahmchari bye choice ya brahmchari bye majboori ho

    • @sayantanbose504
      @sayantanbose504 11 месяцев назад +7

      Brahmachari raho khus raho

    • @pradeepkrkushwaha5170
      @pradeepkrkushwaha5170 11 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@jamepi6761ओर भि विकल्प है, जैसे हिन्दू है तो मंदिरों मे भी शादी हो सकता है ओर पहले होता भी था।

    • @jamepi6761
      @jamepi6761 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@pradeepkrkushwaha5170 Reject modernity Accept tradition

  • @karazakiakuno4645
    @karazakiakuno4645 11 месяцев назад +42

    Problem is Social media and Westernization. Nothing wrong with improving things around you as your monetary situation improves too, but your focus, priorities are wrong. Believe it or not, Many of us agree with this but won't voice it out, which ultimately makes it an agreeance instead, and firms it as the norm.

    • @neharaj8400
      @neharaj8400 11 месяцев назад +1

      Yes you're right.

    • @pnp77
      @pnp77 11 месяцев назад

      Bollywood is the biggest problem for fat marriages, over fashion, limelight mentality. And now yes social media , correct.

    • @maitreyeeghosh2905
      @maitreyeeghosh2905 10 месяцев назад

      Exactly

    • @dheerajkumarrohan7808
      @dheerajkumarrohan7808 8 месяцев назад

      What is westernisation in wedding???? It's never about it western weddings are so low costly

  • @vickyAlways
    @vickyAlways 10 месяцев назад +5

    Reason for DOWRY is LADKI n Uske gharwalo ka Govt job ya ameer ladke ke peeche bhaagne.

  • @TheB657
    @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +50

    This is a great point and question for Indians. Cheap and simple marriages have been encouraged by the Shankaracharyas of old as well. As per Vedic paramparas, the glamor of marriages is nowhere important to the spiritual or Adhyatmik part that is contained in the hymns and verses chanted especially during the Panigrahanam ritual. It is both simple, least costly and also encourages and provides more funds for those whom are practicing Vaidigas whom spend almost 13 - 16 years learning the Vedas, Shastras, Sampradayas etc. So please 🙏 These rich marriages are literally killing people due to the wants that come out of greed.

    • @pramodpathak1317
      @pramodpathak1317 11 месяцев назад +4

      देख हर किसी का जीने का अपना तरीका है जिंदगी भर तो कुत्ता जैसा पैसा कमाना ही है कुछ मनोरंजन के लिए कर रहा है तो तुमलोग को क्यों दिक्कत है

    • @pnp77
      @pnp77 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@pramodpathak1317ऐसा क्यों नहीं करना चाहिए? क्यों दिक्कत है?
      इसके लिए आपको कानून की नजर से, कुछ law fact aur law cases को पढना चाहिए, internet पे ढूंढिए 😄

    • @Mira-pm3ni
      @Mira-pm3ni 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@pramodpathak1317 तुम्हारे पास पैसा है तो धूमधाम से करो । वो उनके लिए कह रहा है जिनके पास पैसा नहीं है । लोन लेके शादी करते हैं फिर बाद में भुगते हैं ।

  • @dailymotivationquotesshort8341
    @dailymotivationquotesshort8341 10 месяцев назад +15

    If someone can afford a wedding without taking a loan, they should go for whatever they want

  • @rudranshumallick1364
    @rudranshumallick1364 11 месяцев назад +6

    Any one believe or not but simplicity is the best policy...

  • @Pankaj9020
    @Pankaj9020 11 месяцев назад +9

    पहले की तुलना में तलाक भी बड़े है जितनी महंगी शादी उससे कही महेंगे तालक भी है वो भी सीरीज बनाओ।

  • @SonamSharma-tc5sy
    @SonamSharma-tc5sy 11 месяцев назад +10

    Traditional way of marriage wd close family relatives only then one reception is best! Wd no to dowry obviously! I directly said no to dowry to my FIL and he was so ❤pure soul, never demanded anything

  • @vandanaagrawal84
    @vandanaagrawal84 10 месяцев назад +2

    Sab film stars ko sekh dekh kar bigad gaye hai

  • @NM_1814
    @NM_1814 11 месяцев назад +5

    Mera vivah mandir mein matra 1100 mein hua tha.. meri beti bhi mandir mein hi vivah karne ki baat kahti hai..

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +2

      Great 🙏 Aapki beti bohot uttam baat keh rahi hai. Aapko iska samarthan Avashya dena chahiye.

  • @deshivibes15
    @deshivibes15 10 месяцев назад +2

    Start village type marriage..simple ...but beautiful...✴️

  • @divanshkartik9898
    @divanshkartik9898 11 месяцев назад +10

    Due to show off people are do the unnecessary things but bear the cost on their whole life.

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +1

      True. Well said 👏👍

  • @pavani589
    @pavani589 11 месяцев назад +14

    I think wedding also giving employment and work to few people. Mehndi artists, people who help constructing mandap & decorations, catering services etc they are earning money from weddings. It's okay to spend for weddings if you are able to afford.

  • @Rohit24Kumar
    @Rohit24Kumar 11 месяцев назад +13

    Follow your rituals and don't spend too much.

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад

      Beautifully said 🙏 Dhanyavad.

  • @borntoeat8245
    @borntoeat8245 10 месяцев назад +2

    Shivji ke Mandir me shaadi.. Bhoj for orphans and elderly.. Reception for closest people.

  • @anujkumarsaha0454
    @anujkumarsaha0454 11 месяцев назад +8

    At first, maximum Indians always want to show their status through such big budget wedding. Such big budget wedding is a major concern for the Bride's family and it will lead to a decrease in the sex ratio as people will treat the girls as burden as their wedding cost is so high. Although the wedding industry generate various new employment opportunities but people should be concern that it is not a competition to establish your supremacy. So everyone have their own liberty but as a responsible citizen we should concern more about the people who don't get available foods for rising inflation. At last my basic ideology is simple living, high thinking.

  • @sardaraasingh1694
    @sardaraasingh1694 11 месяцев назад +5

    It should very simple and cheap.saved money should be given to couple for their future.

  • @yashwithamanila6548
    @yashwithamanila6548 11 месяцев назад +6

    Very Simple treditional marriage is 👌 bedt

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад

      Correct 👍

  • @user-yp5ec3gs2c
    @user-yp5ec3gs2c 10 месяцев назад +17

    I personally prefer simple and intimate wedding

  • @sinthiya7186
    @sinthiya7186 10 месяцев назад +4

    In TN, especially kanyakumari nadar all expense of marriage is done by bride family alone. Groom family will get money from bride family for all expenses including dress of marriage couple and mangalsutra.

  • @AuguryOmen
    @AuguryOmen 11 месяцев назад +21

    Honeymoon bhe unhe ladkiyo ko swizerland chayea yea bhe batayo sir, papa ki pari ko shaadi me dahej nai dena lekin. Ladka sarkari chayea😊

    • @rosyyyrawat6309
      @rosyyyrawat6309 11 месяцев назад +8

      ladke ko unpaid maid mil rhih or kya chahiye

    • @MB-ux4bb
      @MB-ux4bb 11 месяцев назад +2

      Toh sarkari ladka sara jiban bina shadi kiye kyun nehi reh sakte...? Unko bhi shadi karna hai na? Aur dahej bhi mangna hai...

    • @AuguryOmen
      @AuguryOmen 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@MB-ux4bb shaadi ek achi cheez hai kyu usko aise badnaam kar rahe ho, dil dekh ke ladkiya kare shaadi tab he cheez sahi hogi

    • @MB-ux4bb
      @MB-ux4bb 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@AuguryOmen dil toh kuch din par badal jata hai dear... Paisa nehi hai toh sab suffer karta hai, family, bacha sab... Haa lemin logo ka nature janna jaruri hai shadi se pehle

    • @supposedlyhuman
      @supposedlyhuman 11 месяцев назад +3

      Aur yhi sarkari ladke jo exam m bada essay likhte h dowry p vahi apni market value k hisab d doery bhi lete hai. Aur free me unpaid maid jo mil jati h. Aur khud chahe hi jaisa ho soorat aur seerat me, ladki inko gori,patli aur har gun me neepun hi chahiye. Baki sab chodo, agr gori h to bas sab fix.

  • @sv_subhashverma
    @sv_subhashverma 11 месяцев назад +4

    सादी में सिर्फ लड़के और लड़की का परिवार मिलकर मंदिर में सादा विवाह करो और संपूर्ण पैसा का उपयोग किसी व्यापार या वर्ल्ड टूर में उपयोग में लो। धन्यवाद।🎉

  • @jeetuasolia
    @jeetuasolia 11 месяцев назад +7

    हम लाखों खर्च करने को तैयार है पर लड़का उसके परिवार वाले और रिश्तेदार ऐसे हो जो बेटी को दर्द, ताने, दुख न देने के लिए तैयार हो। आखों में आसूं न आये इसकी जिम्मेदारी ले और हमेशा साथ देने का वादा करे, खुश रखने का पूरा प्रयास करे दोनों एक दूसरे को। एक दूसरे का सम्मान करें और पर्यावरण सुधार के लिए दैनिक कामों में प्रयास और प्रयोग करे। सांसारिक तरक्की के साथ आध्यात्मिक तरक्की का भी वायदा करे। नशे आदि से दूरी तो अनिवार्य है। 🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @jeetuasolia
      @jeetuasolia 11 месяцев назад +1

      जरूर करूंगी😊। आपका धन्यवाद 🙏🏻😊

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +2

      अगर लड़के के परिवार वाले आने वाले बहु को दुःख ही देने वाले हो तो वैसे लोगों क उप्पर जितना भी पैसा क्यों ना खर्च करें, परिणाम तो वही होगा | इससे तो अच्छा है की ऐसे परिवारों को समाज यह सिखा दें कि लड़की कोई वस्तु नहीं होती जो केवल दमकाने क लिए हो परन्तु वह एक घर की आन और शान होती है.वह 'शक्ति' है और 'लक्ष्मी' भी है | जय माँ भवानी, जय सियाराम जय अंजनेय।

    • @JEEmeBhaukaalHoga
      @JEEmeBhaukaalHoga 10 месяцев назад

      mata ji hum bhi yahi chate hai ek aachi ladki ho ek aacha ladka ho to koi dahej kuch nhi lenge kintu aajkal shadi ke baad talak me purusho ko apni aadhi sampatti ya phir apni patni ko mahine ke paise dene pdte hai agar vo kisi aur vyakti ke saath sambandh me ho phir bhi yhi dukh hota hai bas@@jeetuasolia

  • @somytony9713
    @somytony9713 11 месяцев назад +30

    It's not new. Other countries also do extravagant wedding. Wedding is very important, you have your choice to do as you want.

    • @aws83599
      @aws83599 11 месяцев назад +14

      Important hai lekin jarurat se jada kar na sahi nhi hai

    • @udayanpaul8042
      @udayanpaul8042 11 месяцев назад +8

      Wedding is important, but show off and over spending without sense is not. Choice is also to make better examples by making use of that over budget in a positive direction, that's makes all the difference, but you might be offended in that case.

    • @lovenaturevlogs
      @lovenaturevlogs 11 месяцев назад +8

      शादियां दो दिन नहीं चल रही है और इन्हें खर्च करना है करोड़ों का😂😂

    • @somytony9713
      @somytony9713 11 месяцев назад +1

      Are Bhai log ye Sab gyan batna sirf India mein hota Hai? Dubai main Jo marzi Karo , usa main bhi same., paiser haï to Ferrari kharido , Idhar Africa mein ghanta shaadi , Sab log wait karte haï kab Tou shadi karega aur parossi khane ke liye aega. Sab ke sab makhi chouce haï. Tumhara gift lega aur jitna Tou jaldi jae outna, ouska fayda. Shaadi wo ek param celebration haï , Indian Shaadi is the best. Je m'en fous de ce que vous pensez. Vous êtes les meilleurs

    • @somytony9713
      @somytony9713 11 месяцев назад +1

      BMW kharidna bhi zarout se zyada haï kyunki toyota bhi gadi haï. Phir bhi ispe sab chup.

  • @BalveerSingh-821
    @BalveerSingh-821 11 месяцев назад +5

    Absolutely right Sir

  • @MadaraUchiha_16
    @MadaraUchiha_16 11 месяцев назад +8

    Indian govt must take some action pn lavish weddings

    • @TheB657
      @TheB657 11 месяцев назад +1

      More than GOI the change must come from within Indian society.

  • @Randomcommentsonly
    @Randomcommentsonly 11 месяцев назад +20

    In Bharat Nowadays wedding had become a social indicator because generally weddings settle after The boy Is well settled so Obviously girl's parents also spend money in getting their Sister Married to A well settled guy and
    Morever its a way for parents to show their Status in society in front of many people

  • @Quninzl
    @Quninzl 11 месяцев назад +2

    10k par month salery hai
    Or 2 saal baad shadi karni ha Kam se kam 6 lakh rupees ki shaadi karni ha
    Isse Kam me hogi hi nahi

  • @Surya-23
    @Surya-23 10 месяцев назад +3

    But no one is questioning why wedding is necessary or compulsory 🤔🤔🤔 Is it just a tradition or culture or something else??? Are we having something mysterious on behalf of wedding which if done without wedding is a criminal offense...🙏🙏🙏😊

  • @SharkFishSF
    @SharkFishSF 11 месяцев назад +27

    Shaadi is a sacred ceremony for Indians, stop degrading it by comparing useless biased hunger reports.... Our govt feeds the largest population of the world via food security act. Sab parivar keliye ration card hai aur gehu chawal muft paa sakte hai......

    • @user-kt3jn7wx5f
      @user-kt3jn7wx5f 11 месяцев назад +3

      ✌️🙏

    • @acclimatized8838
      @acclimatized8838 11 месяцев назад

      Lawda sacred ceremony. Just look at divorce trends. Marriage will be dead institute within next decades especially will biased laws against men

    • @Rohit24Kumar
      @Rohit24Kumar 11 месяцев назад +5

      Finally someone made sense

    • @anshuanurag6660
      @anshuanurag6660 11 месяцев назад +9

      Shaadi is sacred,food wastage isn't.

    • @pratikmandal1350
      @pratikmandal1350 11 месяцев назад +11

      Yes, weddings are sacred. But the amount of food wastage, the extent of noise pollution, the amount of financial complications it is bringing in the present day can't be ignored. Do not turn a blind eye to these things. You and I sit here full bellied. Yes, many people have ration cards. But many else do not. Yes, people eat food, but barely enough. The problem lies not in weddings, but the over-exaggeration of such a sacred ritual.

  • @Myneescorner
    @Myneescorner 11 месяцев назад +5

    In Assam bride always wear white silk mekhela chador in marriage rituals,Opsokun nahi mana jata hamari society me

    • @Krishu-ec8vy
      @Krishu-ec8vy 11 месяцев назад +3

      Assam is more open minded about many things that's why i like North East India
      Love from Maharashtra

  • @anm13682
    @anm13682 11 месяцев назад +4

    If someone called you for their wedding you have to call them back 😢. I think rich people should celebrate then only money will flow and poor should not take loan for marriage. Now parents will think love marriage is best or corona marriage 😅

  • @payelsbridaljunction5291
    @payelsbridaljunction5291 10 месяцев назад +1

    One day compact wedding program, including all the rituals in a summary form, and reception & registration in the evening with only close ones.

  • @Muskan_2308
    @Muskan_2308 11 месяцев назад +3

    No the MUA package goes upto 2-3 lakhs nd more

  • @AnjulikaShukla
    @AnjulikaShukla 11 месяцев назад +2

    Very nice day and very good news by you thanks ❤❤namaste 👍 🙏 Jai Shri Ram ❤

  • @Brand_Babu5151
    @Brand_Babu5151 5 месяцев назад +1

    Simple Temple Marriage ✨

  • @saswatypriyadarshinisahoo1867
    @saswatypriyadarshinisahoo1867 10 месяцев назад +2

    Its the relationship thay sud matter rather than these expensive big fat weddings rituals ... or else it wont matter if the marriage is ephemeral

  • @ashokkamila8029
    @ashokkamila8029 11 месяцев назад +6

    Bharat ki har taraki sadhi ek mohotsav he...i love BHARATIYA Culture...🇮🇳❤️

  • @dhunuofficial9035
    @dhunuofficial9035 5 месяцев назад

    Very well described

  • @WBSchoolOfMaths
    @WBSchoolOfMaths 11 месяцев назад +2

    I am requesting all of you just use one month salary in your marriage.
    This is the best solution

    • @tinachamoli
      @tinachamoli 10 месяцев назад

      Itna kam kharch ajkal below poverty line wale bhi nhi karte.. 😅 isse kahi jada k to normal clothes or artificial jewellery ayegi. Sasural walo k kapde bhi nhi ayenge

  • @sarita3843
    @sarita3843 10 месяцев назад +1

    Big fat Weddings & than...big fat divorce !!!

  • @myworlduk2506
    @myworlduk2506 11 месяцев назад +2

    Sab dekha dekhi hai ek dusre ki

  • @Snowi1891
    @Snowi1891 10 месяцев назад +1

    Shaadi ❌ Barbaadi ✅😄✌️

  • @nibi535
    @nibi535 11 месяцев назад +2

    I already tell my family that i will not celebrate, i will only complete the marriage registration and later a little party for family.

  • @renuka1483
    @renuka1483 10 месяцев назад +1

    Its not much in southindia

  • @user-is4xq7ch5g
    @user-is4xq7ch5g 7 месяцев назад

    Personal openion: if i have ample 20 lakh ruppes for my wedding in safe side ..i will be married within 10 lakh at anyhow and i prefer charity over expensive marriage......

  • @karunagoswami4828
    @karunagoswami4828 11 месяцев назад +2

    Average wedding 30 lakh in our area

  • @priyashajaiswal2590
    @priyashajaiswal2590 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sab moh maya hai 😂.. jitna jaldi in sab se nikloge utne fayde me rahoge

  • @AuguryOmen
    @AuguryOmen 11 месяцев назад +3

    Mere beti ki shaadi hai and i will give her fortuner in gift, its my money who are they to comment. I have earned tor my whole life for my daughter

    • @AuguryOmen
      @AuguryOmen 11 месяцев назад +1

      @amitkumarmajumdar675 har aadmi ghista hai life me apni apni jagha, struggle sabka hai. Mai respect karta hu sabki but aap samjho ki shaadi daily thodi hogi . Gaadi vo khud bhe khardegi he

    • @meghanarora4136
      @meghanarora4136 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@AuguryOmenhonestly better ye h ki shaadi k kuch mahine baad ap apni marzi se gifts do, inheritance me hissa do, ya puri wealth hi uske naam krdo. Pr pehle ladke k parivar ko smjhna bohot zaroori h aj kl

  • @user-ju1ll9jl5d
    @user-ju1ll9jl5d 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this information

  • @user-is4xq7ch5g
    @user-is4xq7ch5g 7 месяцев назад

    My personal openion Wake up go in temple with ur bride with her parents along with urs parents and some relatives total count should not be excced more than 50 or 100 ... take blessings from god and start ur life again u have child to spend u have health to spend u have humanity to spend ,u have retirement plan to spend than why to spend such stuff like wedding

  • @saptorshibiswas2802
    @saptorshibiswas2802 11 месяцев назад +5

    I support lavish wedding. Cz it is good for economy.

  • @subhashreepradhan4680
    @subhashreepradhan4680 10 месяцев назад

    Wonderful video.....keep it up😊😊🎉🎉

  • @Letsgobuddy007
    @Letsgobuddy007 11 месяцев назад +5

    Bihar main bahot Jada hota hai dowry case..
    Mere dost Kolkata main rayke Bihar me sadi Kiya dowry k liye..
    Or uske bahen ka Sadi Kolkata main Kiya take dowry na Dena ho .
    Bihari bhaiyon se request hain khud ko mat becho.... bhik mat mango Jo chaiye use kamao bhik mat mango Sadi ke name pe

    • @guppyd69
      @guppyd69 10 месяцев назад

      Ya haal har biahri ka h bhai

  • @rajpriyanka6096
    @rajpriyanka6096 10 месяцев назад

    Best hai humari COVID m hui
    Apni personal choice hai kitna kharch Karna hai ya nhi
    Lekin - Value of money 💸 ko dhyan m rakhte hue
    Or most important - value of happiness and hard work of parents
    Not status ......

  • @MadaraUchiha_16
    @MadaraUchiha_16 11 месяцев назад +6

    dont marry be happy

    • @drisya14
      @drisya14 11 месяцев назад +3

      Yes😌
      Stay single stay safe 🙏🏻😌🙏🏻😉

    • @meghanarora4136
      @meghanarora4136 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@drisya14i agree especially for women. They are much safer single and maybe outside this country

    • @sgofficial9220
      @sgofficial9220 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@meghanarora4136 sabse jyada women ko hi problem hogi agar boy Shadi ko mna krne lge toh

  • @bhakti-sangam793
    @bhakti-sangam793 11 месяцев назад +1

    Life aise hi boring rahne do.....Wedding pe sab log saath aate hai and celebrate karte hai.

  • @suronjonajana1992
    @suronjonajana1992 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank god I was an exception

  • @user-nt4hc7ux3x
    @user-nt4hc7ux3x 10 месяцев назад

    Because it shows their creativity

  • @sunitahota2413
    @sunitahota2413 10 месяцев назад +1

    Aur after some years divorce. Total waste of money so save money.

  • @aniketmore5406
    @aniketmore5406 Месяц назад

    If rituals are to be performed they can performed in simple manner in the temple and reception should be arranged.. As such people come only to eat anf still find some flaws in it.

  • @comeToDubai007
    @comeToDubai007 10 месяцев назад

    The worst food is the food of a wedding in which rich are invited and poor are ignored :-
    Islamic Hadith

  • @unboxlaw2300
    @unboxlaw2300 10 месяцев назад +1

    There shud be fines and jail for doing expensive marriage

  • @all_in_one_study216
    @all_in_one_study216 11 месяцев назад +3

    भारत सरकार को कानून बनाकर दहेज को गैर ज़मानती अपराध माना जाए
    सरकार चाहें तो क्या नही कर सकती
    दहेज की वजह से कितने लोग परेशान 😢 हैं
    बाकी सब लोग जानते है 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @deeplinanath3520
    @deeplinanath3520 11 месяцев назад +7

    I want to feed poor little girl and every possible person in my wedding who really knows the worth of food as they know what hunger is.. maybe there blessings are more precious then every well off family.

  • @Indian-er6li
    @Indian-er6li 10 месяцев назад +1

    Best go for marriage with only 20 ppl

  • @shivanisinghrajput5407
    @shivanisinghrajput5407 11 месяцев назад +35

    The special occasion is cherished only once in a lifetime mostly, so the bride and groom want it to be celebrated in a memorable way.

    • @Randomcommentsonly
      @Randomcommentsonly 11 месяцев назад +12

      And It is a one pleasurable moment for family to get their Children married before their death ... eventually they have earned their money for their kids so they obviously spend it in it

    • @rajatkumar6503
      @rajatkumar6503 11 месяцев назад +24

      🥱🥱 most stupid paralogic in the world...

    • @fifiifidkddsjajaaa
      @fifiifidkddsjajaaa 11 месяцев назад +25

      memorable by making the rest of your life miserable?Should we start celebrating deaths too?

    • @armstrong2450
      @armstrong2450 11 месяцев назад +10

      @@fifiifidkddsjajaaa if spending 12-15L will make your life miserable then you should look for a meaningful job/career

    • @temptation8897
      @temptation8897 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@fifiifidkddsjajaaa durso ka dekke mat jalo

  • @ratneshdubey503
    @ratneshdubey503 11 месяцев назад +2

    If you want to be permanent or temporary, if it's temporary then anything is fine.
    You can't celebrate your first rites,
    You can not celebrate your last rites
    That's why celebrate yours.....

  • @savesavesave27u3---
    @savesavesave27u3--- 11 месяцев назад +2

    Sab ladke ek baar jara shadi na krne ka decision toh leke dekhe...sab ladkiyo ki security pe baat aa jayegi.. dekhte h ladki k maa baap kitna ladki ko apne sath rakhte h phir....arey ladki hi nahi jati uske sath jimmedari bhi jati h Jo ladke ko uthani h....madam keval daal roti mango gi toh ladka de dega par tumhe chahiye luxurious life...or nahi milegi toh honge roj ki fights...toh ladkiyo dowry nahi deni chahiye baat sahi h par kal ko ladke ki property me haq bhi mat mangna 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @missdiamondrose
    @missdiamondrose 10 месяцев назад +2

    It's a personal choice. Here in UK 🇬🇧 people are trending in smaller weddings as everything has gone so expensive. I did my sons wedding 2 weeks ago but only invited friends and relatives who are actually happy with the wedding and happy for my son. The brides side did a Grand reception and spent £100000s thats their wish gor their daughter. It was beautiful ❤ but even so they only invited guests who were happy for the couple. I'm not going to lie but prefer small weddings and give the money to your kids for their future

  • @evelynmaragbui5922
    @evelynmaragbui5922 10 месяцев назад

    मैने कोर्ट मैरिज किया 3000 में/2010 में
    क्युकी खर्च का कोई अंत नही
    आप जितना करो कम

  • @be_your_own_kind
    @be_your_own_kind 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for making

  • @rachnaanand6348
    @rachnaanand6348 10 месяцев назад

    Weddings should be small and compact to serve the purpose

  • @MikeB-qn3gd
    @MikeB-qn3gd 11 месяцев назад +1

    It’s good for the local economy…

  • @Pikachu-ib8ly
    @Pikachu-ib8ly 10 месяцев назад

    I think now a days both girl and boys are independent if they can choose their life partner according to their choice...so they have to handle all expenses in thier own why need a parents halp .. parsent will definitely give you gifts

  • @paromadattamajumder2007
    @paromadattamajumder2007 11 месяцев назад +1

    Marriage should be Strictly abolished from society .

  • @priyasri7522
    @priyasri7522 10 месяцев назад

    Marriage at temple and reception is my choice.

  • @utkarshsingh1450
    @utkarshsingh1450 11 месяцев назад +3

    Abh samjh aya kua job chiey marriage karne ke liye

  • @SinghSujeet303
    @SinghSujeet303 10 месяцев назад

    Rich weeding is not killing but it is providing more employment, instead of killing it creating employment this all about economic prospective but socially it is creating disturbance for lower classes

  • @mayakrushali8971
    @mayakrushali8971 11 месяцев назад

    I recommend you all recommend shrinivas kalyanam movie which picturized how marriage should be done !