Great video man. Appreciate the very clear delivery. What about a hat on an airplane? You paid to get in there.... You may eat... Seems private. But you are in motion.
A very good question! Planes and trains bend the "motion" rule to some extent, as they're typically conveyances used for much longer journeys. As another commenter pointed out below, a hat is fundamentally a piece of outerwear, much the same as an overcoat. So, if you'd find it comfortable to remove your coat on a plane or train trip, you could acceptably remove your hat in such circumstances, as well. Thanks for watching! - Preston
Gentleman's Gazette - Great video. I like the public/private space breakdown as you provided specific guidance for most common situations. However, for those who are ever unsure, no one would ever fault you erring on the side of caution and having strict policy of 1. Remove your hat off once indoors. 2. Remove hat when sharing of a meal while sitting. 3. Removing hat while In an enclosed means of transportation is optional. however it would be respectful to remove hat on a plane or share in a private cabin of train.
@@DavidLLambertmobile I might take it off in a plane, except if I want to sleep and offer my eyes a bit of shade ;) I am not sure traditional etiquette still applies in a day and age where wearing a hat is the exception rather than the rule. To me, deference is the key factor: when do you think a hat is appropriate or not depending on outdoor/indoor, public/private, but most importantly your social environment.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the modern equivalent of bowing or hat tipping is *the nod*. Nodding up at someone is a gesture of familiarity. Nodding downward is respect.
Thank you for this much needed video on proper hat etiquette. I would appreciate a follow up on how exactly and when to tip your hat to someone. There seems to not be any information on this lost custom. Regards,
Perfectly tall, slim, and handsome. Were it I, were such a model...I'd have more available, option. It's so nice, to dress up. And it's something so many of us, overlook!
Question: my daughter is getting married outdoors this summer, and of course, I'm giving the bride away. I am bald, so sun protection will be important. Hat on or off? Hat off for the procession and then on? Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
So what about a pub? (which quite literally is short for public house). I don't know if you have many pubs in the USA or mainly just bars, but you can't beat a proper English pub.
In the bar a hat is acceptable, particularly standing at the bar in the bar. In the lounge it is better to remove one's hat. I believe that this etiquette came about from the lower temperature of the bar compared with the lounge. Since the Second World War and universal central heating it's simpler, hats off indoors, on outdoors.
Exception to the hat etiquette of bars is enlisted soldier's bars on Australian military bases, or Returned Services League bar rooms. Wearing a hat in the latter is a huge faux pas, and in the former is punishable by having to shout everyone in the bar.
I have lived in Japan a long time, but love to wear classic hats. Here, whenever I "tip" my hat, the other person usually bows in reply. Surprisingly, even among quite young people, there is no confusion on this. However, the uniformed (and hatted) security guards at the universities where I work (usually rather older men) actually give me a military-style salute in return. Since I am a civilian, of course, I would never salute, hat or not. (I was military, decades ago, so I know better.)
Yes except for extremely esteemed soldiers (matter of choice) and per regulations any time a medal of honor recipitant is present and you salute the medal and recipient
Exactly. I was raised in the South by a military family and was on active duty when I was older. I HATE seeing men wearing their hats indoors and at the dinner table. Those were strictly off-limits. It would be nice to see men dress more stylish these days or act gentlemanly.
Excellent video. As a former Marine, learning the intricacies of when one wears his "cover" in boot camp is as important as learning how to lace one's boots or clean one's rifle. Recruit Training is about learning a whole new system of etiquette even more so than shooting or doing pushups. Here's a little something that may interest you: When a servicemember is indoors, he is required to remove his headcovering except if he is "under arms", which is to say, actively carrying a weapon (or a symbol of a weapon, i.e. a badge or a belt) in the execution of his duty.
I had no idea about the elevator one, but it makes sense; sending this to my father btw, as he is the hat wearer between he and I. One other rule on hat etiquette is to never mess with a another man's hat.
Preston, I may add: in public spaces, we also take off our hats when a funeral cortege passes as a sign of respect. And as a sign of veneration when the Blessed Sacrament is being carried, e.g. during a Corpus Christi procession or when a priest is bringing the communion of the sick.
In the old days when most gentlemen still wore hats, elevators often had a posted sign reading something like, "To conserve space, gentlemen are request not to remove their hats."
It's the one example I felt some disagreement to, myself. Though I'd suppose it comes down to the occupancy of the elevator at any given time. I'd feel like it's a misstep to doff the hat and take up more space in an already cramped enclosure and, as they said, it hearkens to a time where we had elevator attendants. Sans the attendant, I'd consider it as public as any tight hallway.
I was surprised to find out the origin of the hat tip and it's morphology as it were. In military school, we called your hat a "cover" and followed many of these guidelines. I always thought of tipping the hat as the civilian version of the salute. Cool vid and I guess I better step up my hat game!
I am not even an adult, but I am already attempting to build my formal wear collection. As of now, it consists of a black bowler hat, black paisley silk tie, black paisley handkerchief and cufflinks, black blazer and matching trousers, white cotton cufflink shirt, thick woolen sack overcoat and clarks leather shoes. Update: thankfully, my taste and my wardrobe have improved. All items in my closet are of natural materials and traditional styles, yet my wardrobe shall increase ever more.
Really enjoyed your video. The biggest issue for me is where to put the hat. Only having one free hand is a bit foreign if I'm walking through a museum for instance. I suppose it's just a bit I've got to get used to.
I think an area that's meant for you to remain moving like a museum could safely be considered public and therefore, hats on. I think I recall Preston saying something about keeping the hat on while moving.
If you're curious as to how to go about it, watch some old movies, and observe the way the men carry, hold, and treat their hats. It just may help... 🙂
“don’t mind what others say”: Always me when it comes to clothing, but all people say is compliments to my gloves, shades, hats, watches, and shoes (literally everything except my actual outfit).
Really well done video, this one. I've worn hats and caps for many years, and the way I have thought about it is that if it feels socially suitable to remove one's overcoat, it is also time to remove one's hat. This video does a really good job of clarifying those situations. I had never really thought about removing my hat when getting help from a shop employee, but it exactly the kind of thing I would instinctively do.
If in public space you should you remove your hat when a funeral cortege or Hearse passes? In England it is considered as a mark of respect regardless of who the person may have been... to remove your hat.....
Question... I keep my hair cut short and well groomed, however if I opt to wear a hat inevitably after a hour or so I get "hat hair" leaving me to look poorly put together. Do you have any advice to prevent "hat hair" other than not wearing a hat to begin with?
As other commenters are pointing out, carrying a comb is the simplest solution (and one that I use, myself). On that note, you can take a look at our article & video on Everyday Carry (EDC) Essentials, here: www.gentlemansgazette.com/everyday-carry-edc-essentials/? Thanks for watching! - Preston
Yep, two solutions that are mutually exclusive: 1. Carry a small comb and use it after taking off your hat 2. Use a strong enough hair product, so that the hat doesn't affect the hair
Just to add my own two cents worth: I find that the comb/hair product tips don't work for me because the comb causes my hair to become frizzy and puff out in all the wrong places, but whenever I put in enough gel to prevent this, it makes my hair look really thin. The best solution I've found to prevent "hat hair" is to ask my barber to cut my hair just a bit shorter so that it isn't long enough for the hat to dishevel; not a buzz cut by any means, but short enough that after brushing it in the morning nothing short of a noogie would displace it. All the best!
Great vid. I personally tip my hat/cap very often, and I've noticed youngsters sometimes are a bit puzzled, but it hardly ever provokes an awkward "moment", so to speak. Of course, me being an old chap helps: I guess they very quickly understand (intuitively maybe), but it's indeed to be done as unaffectedly as possible: otherwise, yes, skip it.
Skip the tip!? My dear sir, you never skip the tip. Nothing is more enjoyable whilst on a walk and someone looks at me from a stopped vehicle and you tip your hat.
The biggest surprise for me was that you didn't mention hat etiquette for men meeting or talking to a lady, indoors or out. In my lifetime in England, that has probably been the only hat etiquette I've ever witnessed.
Hats are also great in public if you have to place it on your lap to conceal the monsterous wood you got when the barista flirted with you at the counter. Why do you think top hats were so popular during the Victorian era?
I enjoyed this review of civilian hat etiquette. It's interesting to compare the etiquette with the rules for military hat wear. Mostly they match with some exceptions. When under arms (wearing a sidearm while on watch for instance) you remain covered no matter where you are. When passing through a dinning area, or eating, you remove your hat, aka cover. When entering a military club, esp the bar, you remove your cover. If you don't you may find yourself buying a round for the room. If you place your cover on the bar you own everyone seated at the bar a drink. When on an active flight deck you remove your normal cover and if appropriate put on head and hearing protection. (Hats in engine intakes are not good for the engine.) During the national anthem, or that of other countries, when outdoors you leave the cover on, and salute. Boy can your arm get tired if several countries are represented in the same location. Thanks for the review, David
I'm retired AF and grew up in the South. Many of the rules my mom instructed my brother were the same as those we were taught in the military (I guess that makes sense as my father was a Ret Brig Gen). I'm still bothered by men wearing their hats indoors and at the dining table; it drives me bonkers! 😊
As an exception to the "in motion"-rule, I'd say airplanes should be considered private spaces, since you're being served by attendants and being seated. Though the airport should be considered a public space, except for some lounges, restaurants, etc.
Though, as a practical matter, when squeezing oneself through the cabin, and your, and everyone’s carryon bags…it is more practical to get to your seat, with your hat on. imo.
I’m surprised the ‘in-motion’ rule applies to cars, as implied. I always remove my hat on most enclosed transport, because of the headrest. Please don’t kick me out!
I think that hats should be taken off on public transport when space is limited. I would take off a broad-brimmed hat on a bus or train to make it easier for others when we have to move close to each other. (this is a woman writing)
Your public / private designation helped solve a quandary I found myself in a few years ago. Although there are still some questions. On a cruise ship, what is considered indoors and outdoors? Public and Private are a better rule, although since you pay for the cruise, I suppose one could argue the entire ship is private.
Great and informative video, as usual! Just a couple of questions, though... I've always believed that keeping your hat on while you're driving a car without an open top is a big no-no, while you said you always wear your hat when moving. I'm Italian BTW, maybe it's a cultural difference or something like that? Another curiosity is when you remove your hat at the restaurant and such, where/how do you put it (if there isn't an obvious hanging space available, of course)? I mean, when I sit at the table I remove my hat, granted, but then there's the awkward moment of "where do I put it?"
As a regular fedora wearer, if the roof of the car allows you to wear it, do so, if not, not. I think this rule applies more to flat caps, ball caps, ski caps. etc. I never tried wearing a fedora in a convertible, but I think the risk of losing the hat makes it a bad risk. The more upscale the restaurant, the more likely that they have accommodation for hats and overcoats. I seldom patronize those establishments, so I look for an empty chair nearby, or if worst comes to worst, I will place the hat on my right knee during the meal - not a perfect solution, but I think it is acceptable.
Enjoyed the video. Have worn hats a long time using the indoor/outdoor concept. Just in the past few years have I been introduced to the public/private idea. Well done.
I second that. Doesn't show any intelligence either. Sometimes the classiest thing to say is nothing. Everything does not require an explanation or exist for the comfort of the listener.
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The military does a good job of teaching this. With some notable exception. Also some people's jobs in the military change the experience. The ones that come to mind are Military Police and aviation. Really though if you move around a lot on the post you will see many specific rules regarding your hat and get very comfortable taking it on and off without thinking.
If you are "under arms" or carrying-wearing firearms, you can wear headgear. There are no hard or fast rules indoors but most soldiers remove headgear indoors.
" Wear a hat in public places, remove a hat in private spaces'. This has been the most applicable and helpful rule Ive learned here. I commonly wear hats, and this etiquette has served me well in hat-questionable situations. Thanks Preston and Gentleman's Gazette!
Anybody ever see the movie "The Philadelphia Story" with Katherine Hepburn, Cary Grant, and Jimmy Stewart? Jimmy Stewart is a newspaper man and he's there as a sort of spy on the family for a gossip type newspaper. Jimmy Stewart asks Cary Grant what Katherine Hepburn's likes and dislikes are while indoors at Katherine's palatial family home and he's wearing a hat. Cary Grant answers "she has a horror of men who wear their hats indoors." Funny scene and Jimmy Stewart immediately takes his hat off.
I have a question: when we remove the hat, how should we keep it when we are talking to a person? and when moving, for istance, inside a private space?
I would have many things to ask about the hat etiquette: If there is no place to hang your hat on at a restaurant - or even a house for that matter - where do you put it? On a chair? upside down? etc... Supposedly no one should mess or touch your hat; do you let a waiter or host take your hat to a proper place? How do you carry it when seated at a waiting room: put it on your lap, always on your hand? What if you don't get to be seated because of insufficient chairs or crowded space? If you are in motion from one office to the next do you wear it? -Let's say from a job interview to another with a different company officer or would be boss-. Is wearing a hat to a job interview even acceptable? I guess in funerals its hats off at all times? Would you take one to these events? How about when playing pool or billiard? How about taking class as a student or impartng a class as a teacher at school? Oops that was may be too much...!
Would you say that it is inappropriate for an 19 year old to wear a fedora? I would really like to wear one but many people say it is for a older man. Thank you for response!
It's totally ok to wear hats even at young age. Just make sure that the rest of your outfit is nice enough so it doesn't look odd if you have a hat on. Wear your hat with confidence and you'll be amazed how people treat you differently when you do the things you love and don't care what others might think.
I started wearing a fedora when I was like 15. The older you get the less you care what people think about certain things. If you want to wear one, just make sure you get a quality one and rock it.
I was surprised by the suggestion of doffing the hat while at a large indoor sports arena. I consider that a public space whether indoors or out. I also have mixed feelings about public elevators, I usually leave my hat on, but feel guilty when there's an older lady or two on board. I've tipped my hat on occasion, but feel the gesture is lost on the other party.
I was surprised by that, also. I have my father’s US Army Officer’s Guide from about 1961, and it has a section on when to remove one’s hat and when to leave it on. It mentioned specifically that it was proper to leave one’s hat on in an indoor sporting arena. On the flip side, legendary football coach Tom Landry always removed his hat when the Dallas Cowboys were playing in an entirely indoor stadium.
I love this channel and these videos. They cover all of the rules of being a gentleman that were common knowledge "in the old country" lol. The 1960's era killed all of this, and to have this resource today is invaluable. Thank you Gentleman's Gazette for your generous contribution to bringing back a more polite and honorable society.
Although the frames of your glasses suit your face well, I would suggest using contact lenses for youtube videos considering your right eye appearing tilted
I am a US Navy veteran. And I tip /remove my cover when it's prudent. My brother sometimes pissis Me off ...he will wear his cover during a. mealtime. Some ppl wouldn't last a week (med days) on intake or some that gets out in first week or two in Great Lakes or 10 minutes in the woods. People ... take your hat off when your indoors !!! Oh boy.......
My hat is perfect and clean. I HATE HANDLING IT. I may be inside a church or a restaurant for a long time with no place provided to place or hang my hat. But honestly, just holding it for an hour isn't something I want to do nor is it good for the hat. I'd like to see some examples of the best way to deal with this situation.
Are there not exceptions? A football helmet is worn where tickets are sold. Hats can be part of a Uniform, like a Bell Hop, and is usually not removed when on duty. Religious Hats are seldom removed.
This private/public space might be accurate in the past, but nowadays doesn't fit and is overly complicated. I always take my hat off if i would take my jacket off or if I talk to people in closed rooms and in religious places in general.
I always feel comfortable wearing a hat inside a food market, but I remove my hat when I interact with the cashier. It's interesting how some of the etiquette laws are passed on subconsciously. It feels similar to removing my sunglasses or removing my hood whilst wearing a hooded sweatshirt when I'm speaking to people. I suppose the entire concept of "dressing good for the benefit of others" and gentlemanly endeavors of the same ilk collectively function in the vain of reverence for one's fellow man or woman. Tip of the hat indeed.
Interesting points! In a food market, I keep my fedora on, even while checking out with a cashier (although I normally offer a hat tip and a friendly greeting). While checking out, both hands are normally occupied with moving groceries to and from the cart or dealing with a wallet and cash, cards, receipts, etc. Keeping the hat on the head leaves both hands free to more efficiently take care of business. While it is important to show courtesy to the person with whom you are interacting, it is just as important not to interfere with a smooth flow of business, particularly as someone behind you could be in a hurry. Unnecessary juggling would only be a distraction.
It’s interesting, for religious Jews the culture is the opposite. Wearing a hat is a sign of humility deference and respect, taking a hat off in the presence of someone honorable would be considered the opposite of respectful. Keeping a head uncovered isn’t considered a sign of respect, just the opposite. We specifically put on a hat when in the presence of a king or a place of prayer.
Men take off their hats in private spaces, but ladies keep their hats on if it is daytime or if they can be seen by the public. So while visiting a private home during a morning visit, the gentleman would remove his hat but the lady usually wouldn't.
Well I consider hat tipping a proper behavior fir gentleman. If one thinks it’s dated, well skip gentlemen styles, because most people think of that as a bit anachronistic.
My hat etiquette is lacking. I rarely take mine off other than when visiting a home. A hat is one of the first things I put on in the morning. I've worn hats for so long, I feel uncomfortable when I need to take it off. 🤣🤣
Hats are ironically worn today. I try not to be "that guy". If I'm not around 80% of men dressed in coats and ties, no fedora. I invested $120 at Meyer the Hatter in New Orleans. Never buy a cheap men's hat because everyone will acknowledge that you are apart of that lifestyle and you appear pretentious.
@@guylewis7418 yes i agree. "Douche" frat boys and simple nice guys that weren't taught properly don't know. We can dress elegant and not look like try hards, insta bespoke models, or disingenuous. We can wear a fedora and not tip the brim. Ugh disgusting! So cheesy....makes me nauseous seeing it done in the video. It doesn't look cool. Just smile...
Might be a sensitive question to ask and you don't need to answer it: Are you in some way injured on one leg or is it just the drape of the trousers which is a little unnatural? Anyway, if there's something wrong I wish you all the best in curing it.
@@tobyey9134 No problem. Preston addresses it down in the comments at this video here: ruclips.net/video/icqbMCvhebU/видео.html Just scroll down a bit to a similar question, which he answers.
Just wanted to share my hat story from Italy which took place some 10 years ago - as a student, I was in Verona with my friends& colleagues, and me and one of my friends went to a walk and then decided to enter a hat store named "Borsalino" basically just for fun, to try some expensive hats and make a few pictures with them on if we can. The salesman, one experienced older man, didn't let us go out of his sight like he knew what we are up to so soon we decided to leave. Then he asked me if I'd rather buy a hat for 20€ and make a picture with it whenever I want instead of trying to do that in the closet of a hat store. I was kinda ashamed and I agreed and told him I'll pay with a credit card (owned by my parents, first time I had a credit card in my hands in my life) and when we exited I noticed on paper he billed me 200 €, not 20€. When we came back he was pretending we didn't understand him and there was a language barrier, and didn't wanted to cancel payment. I want back home, had some problems with my parents, tried to wear that hat at least a couple times a year, but I think last year "Borsalino" bankrupted and for that series of hats you can take like 500€ on e-bay. I don't need money right now at all, but as it turned out I will be the one laughing in the end after all those years if I sell it for like 300€ more than I originally payed.
Outside - hat goes on. Inside - hat goes off. Also I think some commentary about different climates is relevant. From the polar to the equatorial, wearing a hat can be a life-saver.
If I may, I think the key point is what you mentioned at 6:45, i.e. that uncovering yourself is a sign of deference and respect to your peers, and might be the main (if not only) rule of hat etiquette, especially nowadays where hats are not commonly worn by gentlemen. For instance, if you are in a public yet casual environment where very few people wear hats or any other classic garment, the presence of a hat can seem differentiating, and it could make sense to take off your hat even in public place, especially indoors. In that sense, I am not sure if the public/private space is still relevant nowadays.
This comment section probably will be full of fedora memes soon. It would not be a meme if people were wearing it properly. Think about it - most of those cringy photos are taken indoors, with cheap hat being worn with casual clothes.
Over thirty years of teaching, I occasionally had the male student who wore a baseball cap in the classroom. I would never call him on this, but it did affect my impression of him. As for the elevator, I would disagree with you. If there are several people in the elevator, taking off a hat and holding it at your side or in front of you may have you occupying more space than is practicable or polite. Common sense should prevail at this point. What about the railway car? You are in motion, but if you're on a long distance trip, I should think you'd want your hat off. Same with a plane.
The short answer: because most of them are vintage pieces, so the same models won't be commonly available. With that said, stay tuned for some upcoming videos on advice for buying vintage and some of our favorite vintage finds! - Preston
Great video! There is one point where there are exceptions. When looking through old photos and movies of indoor sporting events, such as the very popular boxing matches, men were wearing hats. I've found many photos of indoor boxing matches with men sporting all types of hats and military, such as sailors who did not remove their sailor hats. I think a place like Madison Square Garden would still be considered public, at least to the 1930s-40s gent.
These days most of these rules have been thrown out the window. I've seen plenty of people wearing hats in restaurants, theaters, dwellings, offices, occasionally even in church! With the exception of some houses, most buildings in the United States no longer have cloakrooms, hat and coat posts acks, and other places to store hats and coats while the owners are indoors, and it's usually not very convenient to carry your hat everywhere within a building and put it on your lap.
Follow the trend set by the people in the ceremony. If they have their covers on, then it is treated as an outdoor ceremony and you should wear your hat. If their covers are off, follow their lead. If they play the national anthem or recite the pledge of allegiance, you should remove your cover and hold it over your heart. However, if you are a veteran, you are allowed to keep your cover on and render a salute.
Please share this on Facebook, guys so all the peasants would stop sitting through a 3 course meal in a restaurant with their bloody hats(bball caps even, sic!) on.
did i hurt your feefees, mate? having proper table manners doesn't make me a troglodyte. feel free to correct my English, i'm always up to honing my skills, as it's my second language.
So, quick question. I know most knit hooded sweaters are seen as quite informal in most circles, but would the rules for removing hats in private areas apply to garment hoods as well? The reason why I ask is that I've instructed my nephews to " remove their jacket hoods when they enter establishments, for it's proper ettiquette to do so." and want to set a good example for them.
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Great video man. Appreciate the very clear delivery. What about a hat on an airplane? You paid to get in there.... You may eat... Seems private. But you are in motion.
Thanks for the heart.... But what was the answer?
A very good question! Planes and trains bend the "motion" rule to some extent, as they're typically conveyances used for much longer journeys. As another commenter pointed out below, a hat is fundamentally a piece of outerwear, much the same as an overcoat. So, if you'd find it comfortable to remove your coat on a plane or train trip, you could acceptably remove your hat in such circumstances, as well. Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Gentleman's Gazette - Great video. I like the public/private space breakdown as you provided specific guidance for most common situations. However, for those who are ever unsure, no one would ever fault you erring on the side of caution and having strict policy of 1. Remove your hat off once indoors. 2. Remove hat when sharing of a meal while sitting. 3. Removing hat while In an enclosed means of transportation is optional. however it would be respectful to remove hat on a plane or share in a private cabin of train.
I'd wear a hat or cap on a plane. Unless you are sleeping, I'd keep it on.
@@DavidLLambertmobile I might take it off in a plane, except if I want to sleep and offer my eyes a bit of shade ;) I am not sure traditional etiquette still applies in a day and age where wearing a hat is the exception rather than the rule. To me, deference is the key factor: when do you think a hat is appropriate or not depending on outdoor/indoor, public/private, but most importantly your social environment.
*Being male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. But being a gentleman is a matter of choice. - Vin Diesel*
couldn't agree more, some men want to be boys, and never grow up.
I’m going to use that one.
When did Vin diesel say it?
Vin Diesel? Haha
Vin Diesel? really?
I love seeing men take off their hat, shows respect.😎
Different for women etiquette though.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the modern equivalent of bowing or hat tipping is *the nod*. Nodding up at someone is a gesture of familiarity. Nodding downward is respect.
Cody Smith I couldn’t agree more
Thank you for this much needed video on proper hat etiquette. I would appreciate a follow up on how exactly and when to tip your hat to someone. There seems to not be any information on this lost custom. Regards,
Perfectly tall, slim, and handsome. Were it I, were such a model...I'd have more available, option. It's so nice, to dress up. And it's something so many of us, overlook!
What’s should one do when flying?
I was surprised to learn that wearing a hat while in motion applies to all forms of transportation, including my car. Thanks.
Is the place where you're at in the video considered public ?
No, but we thought it was only appropriate that I be wearing a hat for the duration of this series. :) Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Question: my daughter is getting married outdoors this summer, and of course, I'm giving the bride away. I am bald, so sun protection will be important. Hat on or off? Hat off for the procession and then on? Any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
So what about a pub? (which quite literally is short for public house). I don't know if you have many pubs in the USA or mainly just bars, but you can't beat a proper English pub.
In the bar a hat is acceptable, particularly standing at the bar in the bar. In the lounge it is better to remove one's hat. I believe that this etiquette came about from the lower temperature of the bar compared with the lounge. Since the Second World War and universal central heating it's simpler, hats off indoors, on outdoors.
Exception to the hat etiquette of bars is enlisted soldier's bars on Australian military bases, or Returned Services League bar rooms. Wearing a hat in the latter is a huge faux pas, and in the former is punishable by having to shout everyone in the bar.
I have lived in Japan a long time, but love to wear classic hats. Here, whenever I "tip" my hat, the other person usually bows in reply. Surprisingly, even among quite young people, there is no confusion on this. However, the uniformed (and hatted) security guards at the universities where I work (usually rather older men) actually give me a military-style salute in return. Since I am a civilian, of course, I would never salute, hat or not. (I was military, decades ago, so I know better.)
Yes except for extremely esteemed soldiers (matter of choice) and per regulations any time a medal of honor recipitant is present and you salute the medal and recipient
@@wesleybarrett9502 . . yes, sir - that part!
I'm a woman but I'm still watching this. I love it. Gentlemen are really rare nowadays. I really appreciate it. ❤️
Exactly. I was raised in the South by a military family and was on active duty when I was older. I HATE seeing men wearing their hats indoors and at the dinner table. Those were strictly off-limits. It would be nice to see men dress more stylish these days or act gentlemanly.
Excellent video.
As a former Marine, learning the intricacies of when one wears his "cover" in boot camp is as important as learning how to lace one's boots or clean one's rifle. Recruit Training is about learning a whole new system of etiquette even more so than shooting or doing pushups.
Here's a little something that may interest you: When a servicemember is indoors, he is required to remove his headcovering except if he is "under arms", which is to say, actively carrying a weapon (or a symbol of a weapon, i.e. a badge or a belt) in the execution of his duty.
I had no idea about the elevator one, but it makes sense; sending this to my father btw, as he is the hat wearer between he and I. One other rule on hat etiquette is to never mess with a another man's hat.
Between him and me. Prepositions that precede require the use of pronouns in their objective case.
@Nigel Cam True. I always was taught that a man can wear a hat in an elevator but if a lady walks in, he should remove it.
@Nigel Cam the channel is called the Gentlemen's Gazette not the people's gazette
It is considered, bad manners to wear a hat indoors, or has my father says, it don't rain indoors, so take it of
Yes, my Dad told me you don't touch another bloke's hat.
Preston, I may add: in public spaces, we also take off our hats when a funeral cortege passes as a sign of respect. And as a sign of veneration when the Blessed Sacrament is being carried, e.g. during a Corpus Christi procession or when a priest is bringing the communion of the sick.
My daddy taught me at a young age to remove my hat when I go into a house.
In Roman Catholic churches the normal etiquette is that all men must remove their hats. Maybe the exception is if the mass is held outdoors.
In the old days when most gentlemen still wore hats, elevators often had a posted sign reading something like, "To conserve space, gentlemen are request not to remove their hats."
It's the one example I felt some disagreement to, myself. Though I'd suppose it comes down to the occupancy of the elevator at any given time. I'd feel like it's a misstep to doff the hat and take up more space in an already cramped enclosure and, as they said, it hearkens to a time where we had elevator attendants. Sans the attendant, I'd consider it as public as any tight hallway.
as a rule, I remove my hat when women enter the elevator and leave it on if its just men (unless its impractical).
Thank you. Welsh rabbit, sir
Makes no sense. 10 guys wearing hats will take up less space in an elevator than 10 guys holding their hats.
@@rogerp4612 that is why men were requested not to take off their hats. :do not take off your hat"
I was surprised to find out the origin of the hat tip and it's morphology as it were. In military school, we called your hat a "cover" and followed many of these guidelines. I always thought of tipping the hat as the civilian version of the salute. Cool vid and I guess I better step up my hat game!
I am not even an adult, but I am already attempting to build my formal wear collection. As of now, it consists of a black bowler hat, black paisley silk tie, black paisley handkerchief and cufflinks, black blazer and matching trousers, white cotton cufflink shirt, thick woolen sack overcoat and clarks leather shoes.
Update: thankfully, my taste and my wardrobe have improved. All items in my closet are of natural materials and traditional styles, yet my wardrobe shall increase ever more.
I once worked at Clarks.
Nice shoes.
Really enjoyed your video. The biggest issue for me is where to put the hat. Only having one free hand is a bit foreign if I'm walking through a museum for instance. I suppose it's just a bit I've got to get used to.
I agree.
When I'm stealing artifacts from museums, i too prefer both hands free.
I think an area that's meant for you to remain moving like a museum could safely be considered public and therefore, hats on. I think I recall Preston saying something about keeping the hat on while moving.
If you're curious as to how to go about it, watch some old movies, and observe the way the men carry, hold, and treat their hats. It just may help... 🙂
@@tootsownhorn5874while heisting a museum, proper etiquette is to keep your gloves and headwear on, particularly if it conceals your face.
Very nice outfit and a great hat.
Great video, I like this gentleman don’t mind what others say.
“don’t mind what others say”: Always me when it comes to clothing, but all people say is compliments to my gloves, shades, hats, watches, and shoes (literally everything except my actual outfit).
Is it just me or does he kind of look like a doll
Look at those plain white manequins. The similarity is indeed quite spooky.
Lol he does. He also looks like Private Joker from Full Metal Jacket 😂
Too many rules... I’ll go hatless. However, I do wear a flat cap on the golf course.
Really well done video, this one. I've worn hats and caps for many years, and the way I have thought about it is that if it feels socially suitable to remove one's overcoat, it is also time to remove one's hat. This video does a really good job of clarifying those situations. I had never really thought about removing my hat when getting help from a shop employee, but it exactly the kind of thing I would instinctively do.
The overcoat parallel is an effective one, yes. Thanks for watching!
- Preston
If in public space you should you remove your hat when a funeral cortege or Hearse passes? In England it is considered as a mark of respect regardless of who the person may have been... to remove your hat.....
Good practice.
It’s a piece of fabric on your head. The fact that people think it’s disrespectful is mind boggling
@@joedellaccio4657 Probably because you have no class.
Question...
I keep my hair cut short and well groomed, however if I opt to wear a hat inevitably after a hour or so I get "hat hair" leaving me to look poorly put together. Do you have any advice to prevent "hat hair" other than not wearing a hat to begin with?
When I had glorious hair I carried a comb.
you might use a hair comb, a small one will do the trick
As other commenters are pointing out, carrying a comb is the simplest solution (and one that I use, myself). On that note, you can take a look at our article & video on Everyday Carry (EDC) Essentials, here:
www.gentlemansgazette.com/everyday-carry-edc-essentials/?
Thanks for watching!
- Preston
Yep, two solutions that are mutually exclusive:
1. Carry a small comb and use it after taking off your hat
2. Use a strong enough hair product, so that the hat doesn't affect the hair
Just to add my own two cents worth:
I find that the comb/hair product tips don't work for me because the comb causes my hair to become frizzy and puff out in all the wrong places, but whenever I put in enough gel to prevent this, it makes my hair look really thin. The best solution I've found to prevent "hat hair" is to ask my barber to cut my hair just a bit shorter so that it isn't long enough for the hat to dishevel; not a buzz cut by any means, but short enough that after brushing it in the morning nothing short of a noogie would displace it. All the best!
What happened to Raphael? I enjoyed his accent and his delivery.
his family enlarged +1. hence he is now a bit bit bit occupied with daddy duties, i guess.
Great vid. I personally tip my hat/cap very often, and I've noticed youngsters sometimes are a bit puzzled, but it hardly ever provokes an awkward "moment", so to speak. Of course, me being an old chap helps: I guess they very quickly understand (intuitively maybe), but it's indeed to be done as unaffectedly as possible: otherwise, yes, skip it.
Skip the tip!? My dear sir, you never skip the tip. Nothing is more enjoyable whilst on a walk and someone looks at me from a stopped vehicle and you tip your hat.
The biggest surprise for me was that you didn't mention hat etiquette for men meeting or talking to a lady, indoors or out. In my lifetime in England, that has probably been the only hat etiquette I've ever witnessed.
Hats are also great in public if you have to place it on your lap to conceal the monsterous wood you got when the barista flirted with you at the counter. Why do you think top hats were so popular during the Victorian era?
In the US, often I find no place to put your hat!
I enjoyed this review of civilian hat etiquette. It's interesting to compare the etiquette with the rules for military hat wear. Mostly they match with some exceptions. When under arms (wearing a sidearm while on watch for instance) you remain covered no matter where you are. When passing through a dinning area, or eating, you remove your hat, aka cover. When entering a military club, esp the bar, you remove your cover. If you don't you may find yourself buying a round for the room. If you place your cover on the bar you own everyone seated at the bar a drink. When on an active flight deck you remove your normal cover and if appropriate put on head and hearing protection. (Hats in engine intakes are not good for the engine.) During the national anthem, or that of other countries, when outdoors you leave the cover on, and salute. Boy can your arm get tired if several countries are represented in the same location.
Thanks for the review,
David
I'm retired AF and grew up in the South. Many of the rules my mom instructed my brother were the same as those we were taught in the military (I guess that makes sense as my father was a Ret Brig Gen). I'm still bothered by men wearing their hats indoors and at the dining table; it drives me bonkers! 😊
I don’t view wearing a hat is rude no matter where you are; formality is the only consideration.
Except prayer and reciting the pledge of allegiance
As an exception to the "in motion"-rule, I'd say airplanes should be considered private spaces, since you're being served by attendants and being seated. Though the airport should be considered a public space, except for some lounges, restaurants, etc.
you are also serviced on a train and seated but the rule on the train is to keep the hat on
Also, according to the video, a gentleman should keep his hat on while seated in a car… that can be awkward with a low roof and high headrest.
Though, as a practical matter, when squeezing oneself through the cabin, and your, and everyone’s carryon bags…it is more practical to get to your seat, with your hat on. imo.
I’m surprised the ‘in-motion’ rule applies to cars, as implied. I always remove my hat on most enclosed transport, because of the headrest. Please don’t kick me out!
I think that hats should be taken off on public transport when space is limited. I would take off a broad-brimmed hat on a bus or train to make it easier for others when we have to move close to each other. (this is a woman writing)
As far as hats in cars goes, you'd have to remove it because cars have so little headroom these days that you'll knock it off your head just entering.
Yep, I have to take it off for both headroom (I'm 6'2") and head rest interference. There's literally no choice.
What should a gentleman do with his hat when in a restaurant and there is no place to put his hat while dining?
Some restaraunts have hat hooks and coat hooks on beams or along the wall. Plus you could set your hat on an empty seat or set it on your knee.
Also, what if his hands are tied taped or cuffed behind his back?
Also, what if his hands are tied taped or cuffed behind his back?
Enjoyed the video, but based on a trip to traffic court I think reminding people to remove their hats in court may be an important addition.
Your public / private designation helped solve a quandary I found myself in a few years ago. Although there are still some questions. On a cruise ship, what is considered indoors and outdoors? Public and Private are a better rule, although since you pay for the cruise, I suppose one could argue the entire ship is private.
Great and informative video, as usual!
Just a couple of questions, though... I've always believed that keeping your hat on while you're driving a car without an open top is a big no-no, while you said you always wear your hat when moving. I'm Italian BTW, maybe it's a cultural difference or something like that?
Another curiosity is when you remove your hat at the restaurant and such, where/how do you put it (if there isn't an obvious hanging space available, of course)? I mean, when I sit at the table I remove my hat, granted, but then there's the awkward moment of "where do I put it?"
As a regular fedora wearer, if the roof of the car allows you to wear it, do so, if not, not. I think this rule applies more to flat caps, ball caps, ski caps. etc. I never tried wearing a fedora in a convertible, but I think the risk of losing the hat makes it a bad risk.
The more upscale the restaurant, the more likely that they have accommodation for hats and overcoats. I seldom patronize those establishments, so I look for an empty chair nearby, or if worst comes to worst, I will place the hat on my right knee during the meal - not a perfect solution, but I think it is acceptable.
Enjoyed the video. Have worn hats a long time using the indoor/outdoor concept. Just in the past few years have I been introduced to the public/private idea. Well done.
Why can't people stop doing nasty comments? If you don't like it then you don't have to watch it.
I second that.
Doesn't show any intelligence either.
Sometimes the classiest thing to say is nothing. Everything does not require an explanation or exist for the comfort of the listener.
Agreed. No need to be nasty or mean about these videos. I enjoy them very much.
Trolls. They are an unfortunate consequence of the Internet, where insecure societal misfits and bullies with no social skills, hide behind their keyboards in mommy's basement and inflame to get attention. Feeding of the trolls by responding only encourages this behavior. Channels should simply drop the 'ban hammer' on these low-lifes with a vengeance.
Place of worship?!
*TIPS FEDORA*
Mmm... a smooth looking guy. Great video. Appreciated!
The military does a good job of teaching this. With some notable exception. Also some people's jobs in the military change the experience. The ones that come to mind are Military Police and aviation. Really though if you move around a lot on the post you will see many specific rules regarding your hat and get very comfortable taking it on and off without thinking.
If you are "under arms" or carrying-wearing firearms, you can wear headgear. There are no hard or fast rules indoors but most soldiers remove headgear indoors.
In the navy hats indoors is prohibited, and saluting uncovered is prohibited. Every branch is different
@@jas9friend Very good points.
" Wear a hat in public places, remove a hat in private spaces'. This has been the most applicable and helpful rule Ive learned here. I commonly wear hats, and this etiquette has served me well in hat-questionable situations. Thanks Preston and Gentleman's Gazette!
Anybody ever see the movie "The Philadelphia Story" with Katherine Hepburn, Cary Grant, and Jimmy Stewart? Jimmy Stewart is a newspaper man and he's there as a sort of spy on the family for a gossip type newspaper. Jimmy Stewart asks Cary Grant what Katherine Hepburn's likes and dislikes are while indoors at Katherine's palatial family home and he's wearing a hat. Cary Grant answers "she has a horror of men who wear their hats indoors." Funny scene and Jimmy Stewart immediately takes his hat off.
I have a question: when we remove the hat, how should we keep it when we are talking to a person? and when moving, for istance, inside a private space?
I really enjoyed watching this video.
Would one apply the same with sunglasses ?
we need more hat racks in private areas so that our hats are not suspected to being damaged.
Man preston looks like a 1950s news reporter
I learned about donning and doffing hats from my old man, in case I forgot I'd get one upside the head. Raised old school.
Thanks for the video much appreciated I had a question and I was wondering if your leg is alright? I was concerned.
Stylish sorry to hear that
I would have many things to ask about the hat etiquette:
If there is no place to hang your hat on at a restaurant - or even a house for that matter - where do you put it? On a chair? upside down? etc...
Supposedly no one should mess or touch your hat; do you let a waiter or host take your hat to a proper place?
How do you carry it when seated at a waiting room: put it on your lap, always on your hand? What if you don't get to be seated because of insufficient chairs or crowded space?
If you are in motion from one office to the next do you wear it? -Let's say from a job interview to another with a different company officer or would be boss-.
Is wearing a hat to a job interview even acceptable?
I guess in funerals its hats off at all times? Would you take one to these events?
How about when playing pool or billiard?
How about taking class as a student or impartng a class as a teacher at school?
Oops that was may be too much...!
Hatted Sven walking on your front porch be like "sorry man, public space".
Would you say that it is inappropriate for an 19 year old to wear a fedora? I would really like to wear one but many people say it is for a older man. Thank you for response!
Yes it is. But, you can wear it like at a beach (the straw one) or matched to a funk style.
You can wear one on Halloween (look up 'Freddy Krueger').
It's totally ok to wear hats even at young age. Just make sure that the rest of your outfit is nice enough so it doesn't look odd if you have a hat on. Wear your hat with confidence and you'll be amazed how people treat you differently when you do the things you love and don't care what others might think.
Eidam, I encourage you to wear a hat, the sooner you stop caring what other people think, the better life will be for you.
I started wearing a fedora when I was like 15. The older you get the less you care what people think about certain things. If you want to wear one, just make sure you get a quality one and rock it.
I was surprised by the suggestion of doffing the hat while at a large indoor sports arena. I consider that a public space whether indoors or out. I also have mixed feelings about public elevators, I usually leave my hat on, but feel guilty when there's an older lady or two on board. I've tipped my hat on occasion, but feel the gesture is lost on the other party.
I was surprised by that, also. I have my father’s US Army Officer’s Guide from about 1961, and it has a section on when to remove one’s hat and when to leave it on. It mentioned specifically that it was proper to leave one’s hat on in an indoor sporting arena. On the flip side, legendary football coach Tom Landry always removed his hat when the Dallas Cowboys were playing in an entirely indoor stadium.
I love this channel and these videos. They cover all of the rules of being a gentleman that were common knowledge "in the old country" lol.
The 1960's era killed all of this, and to have this resource today is invaluable. Thank you Gentleman's Gazette for your generous contribution to bringing back a more polite and honorable society.
Confused by all the arbitrariness of specific rules that are either outdated or seem contradictory?
Solution: don't wear a hat. :P
Although the frames of your glasses suit your face well, I would suggest using contact lenses for youtube videos considering your right eye appearing tilted
I am a US Navy veteran. And I tip /remove my cover when it's prudent. My brother sometimes pissis Me off ...he will wear his cover during a. mealtime. Some ppl wouldn't last a week (med days) on intake or some that gets out in first week or two in Great Lakes or 10 minutes in the woods. People ... take your hat off when your indoors !!! Oh boy.......
My hat is perfect and clean. I HATE HANDLING IT. I may be inside a church or a restaurant for a long time with no place provided to place or hang my hat. But honestly, just holding it for an hour isn't something I want to do nor is it good for the hat.
I'd like to see some examples of the best way to deal with this situation.
Are there not exceptions? A football helmet is worn where tickets are sold. Hats can be part of a Uniform, like a Bell Hop, and is usually not removed when on duty. Religious Hats are seldom removed.
This private/public space might be accurate in the past, but nowadays doesn't fit and is overly complicated. I always take my hat off if i would take my jacket off or if I talk to people in closed rooms and in religious places in general.
So what’s the line between tipping the hat and doffing it?
I always feel comfortable wearing a hat inside a food market, but I remove my hat when I interact with the cashier. It's interesting how some of the etiquette laws are passed on subconsciously. It feels similar to removing my sunglasses or removing my hood whilst wearing a hooded sweatshirt when I'm speaking to people. I suppose the entire concept of "dressing good for the benefit of others" and gentlemanly endeavors of the same ilk collectively function in the vain of reverence for one's fellow man or woman. Tip of the hat indeed.
The same "ilk."
Interesting points! In a food market, I keep my fedora on, even while checking out with a cashier (although I normally offer a hat tip and a friendly greeting). While checking out, both hands are normally occupied with moving groceries to and from the cart or dealing with a wallet and cash, cards, receipts, etc. Keeping the hat on the head leaves both hands free to more efficiently take care of business. While it is important to show courtesy to the person with whom you are interacting, it is just as important not to interfere with a smooth flow of business, particularly as someone behind you could be in a hurry. Unnecessary juggling would only be a distraction.
It’s interesting, for religious Jews the culture is the opposite. Wearing a hat is a sign of humility deference and respect, taking a hat off in the presence of someone honorable would be considered the opposite of respectful. Keeping a head uncovered isn’t considered a sign of respect, just the opposite. We specifically put on a hat when in the presence of a king or a place of prayer.
Once again, great job Preston!
Men take off their hats in private spaces, but ladies keep their hats on if it is daytime or if they can be seen by the public. So while visiting a private home during a morning visit, the gentleman would remove his hat but the lady usually wouldn't.
Well I consider hat tipping a proper behavior fir gentleman. If one thinks it’s dated, well skip gentlemen styles, because most people think of that as a bit anachronistic.
Gestapo minion! 😠
😂😂😂 With that jawbone and a leather trench coat, Preston can totally pull off that look.
My hat etiquette is lacking. I rarely take mine off other than when visiting a home. A hat is one of the first things I put on in the morning. I've worn hats for so long, I feel uncomfortable when I need to take it off. 🤣🤣
What about flag ceremony? Or presentaation of flag? When flag is moviing? Lowerering or raising flag?
Question: how about outdoor restaurants or al fresco meals? Hat or no hat?
In general, keep it on.
It can depend on the weather. Hats are functional, which can override etiquette.
“A hats not a hat, till it’s tilted”
Loved the video by the way
Hats are ironically worn today. I try not to be "that guy". If I'm not around 80% of men dressed in coats and ties, no fedora. I invested $120 at Meyer the Hatter in New Orleans. Never buy a cheap men's hat because everyone will acknowledge that you are apart of that lifestyle and you appear pretentious.
SayGeizi, don't you like the $10 hats you can buy at Target or Walmart? Lol! Seriously, a good hat is going to cost $100+.
@@guylewis7418 yes i agree. "Douche" frat boys and simple nice guys that weren't taught properly don't know. We can dress elegant and not look like try hards, insta bespoke models, or disingenuous. We can wear a fedora and not tip the brim. Ugh disgusting! So cheesy....makes me nauseous seeing it done in the video. It doesn't look cool. Just smile...
It's wonderful to see you. Thank you for all your advice.
Might be a sensitive question to ask and you don't need to answer it: Are you in some way injured on one leg or is it just the drape of the trousers which is a little unnatural? Anyway, if there's something wrong I wish you all the best in curing it.
Yes, Raphael said in comment last week that Preston has a disability.
@@jamierife7789 okay, thanks for the info, wishing you all the best Preston!
@@tobyey9134 No problem. Preston addresses it down in the comments at this video here: ruclips.net/video/icqbMCvhebU/видео.html Just scroll down a bit to a similar question, which he answers.
How is it at the bank? I know its public but when you go to the teller it becomes private am I correct?
Just wanted to share my hat story from Italy which took place some 10 years ago - as a student, I was in Verona with my friends& colleagues, and me and one of my friends went to a walk and then decided to enter a hat store named "Borsalino" basically just for fun, to try some expensive hats and make a few pictures with them on if we can.
The salesman, one experienced older man, didn't let us go out of his sight like he knew what we are up to so soon we decided to leave. Then he asked me if I'd rather buy a hat for 20€ and make a picture with it whenever I want instead of trying to do that in the closet of a hat store.
I was kinda ashamed and I agreed and told him I'll pay with a credit card (owned by my parents, first time I had a credit card in my hands in my life) and when we exited I noticed on paper he billed me 200 €, not 20€.
When we came back he was pretending we didn't understand him and there was a language barrier, and didn't wanted to cancel payment.
I want back home, had some problems with my parents, tried to wear that hat at least a couple times a year, but I think last year "Borsalino" bankrupted and for that series of hats you can take like 500€ on e-bay.
I don't need money right now at all, but as it turned out I will be the one laughing in the end after all those years if I sell it for like 300€ more than I originally payed.
I have a question, should a taxi driver keep his hat on while driving with a fare?
Outside - hat goes on. Inside - hat goes off. Also I think some commentary about different climates is relevant. From the polar to the equatorial, wearing a hat can be a life-saver.
If I may, I think the key point is what you mentioned at 6:45, i.e. that uncovering yourself is a sign of deference and respect to your peers, and might be the main (if not only) rule of hat etiquette, especially nowadays where hats are not commonly worn by gentlemen. For instance, if you are in a public yet casual environment where very few people wear hats or any other classic garment, the presence of a hat can seem differentiating, and it could make sense to take off your hat even in public place, especially indoors. In that sense, I am not sure if the public/private space is still relevant nowadays.
This comment section probably will be full of fedora memes soon. It would not be a meme if people were wearing it properly. Think about it - most of those cringy photos are taken indoors, with cheap hat being worn with casual clothes.
yeah but those people really put a bad stain on fedoras and classic menswear in general.
listen to Sabaton??
@@alvinprettyman1802 just polish
there is a great song called the Winged Hussars I liked the song well I did research on them very interesting.
I knew the band before this song and before I made this account. I like them and I like the idea of lyrics inspired by history.
"Go ahead and skip the tip" haven't heard that joke since highschool
Over thirty years of teaching, I occasionally had the male student who wore a baseball cap in the classroom. I would never call him on this, but it did affect my impression of him.
As for the elevator, I would disagree with you. If there are several people in the elevator, taking off a hat and holding it at your side or in front of you may have you occupying more space than is practicable or polite. Common sense should prevail at this point.
What about the railway car? You are in motion, but if you're on a long distance trip, I should think you'd want your hat off. Same with a plane.
Why not put where you get the hats you have in the video?
The short answer: because most of them are vintage pieces, so the same models won't be commonly available. With that said, stay tuned for some upcoming videos on advice for buying vintage and some of our favorite vintage finds!
- Preston
I buy my hats from Christie’s London. I highly recommend!
Great video! There is one point where there are exceptions. When looking through old photos and movies of indoor sporting events, such as the very popular boxing matches, men were wearing hats. I've found many photos of indoor boxing matches with men sporting all types of hats and military, such as sailors who did not remove their sailor hats. I think a place like Madison Square Garden would still be considered public, at least to the 1930s-40s gent.
Of course, there were exceptions to the no wearing hats indoors rule, like in corridors, lobbies, etc.
These days most of these rules have been thrown out the window. I've seen plenty of people wearing hats in restaurants, theaters, dwellings, offices, occasionally even in church! With the exception of some houses, most buildings in the United States no longer have cloakrooms, hat and coat posts
acks, and other places to store hats and coats while the owners are indoors, and it's usually not very convenient to carry your hat everywhere within a building and put it on your lap.
As a civilian (non uniform) what etiquette do i follow during military, police, fire dept, flag ceremonies?
Follow the trend set by the people in the ceremony. If they have their covers on, then it is treated as an outdoor ceremony and you should wear your hat. If their covers are off, follow their lead.
If they play the national anthem or recite the pledge of allegiance, you should remove your cover and hold it over your heart. However, if you are a veteran, you are allowed to keep your cover on and render a salute.
Please share this on Facebook, guys so all the peasants would stop sitting through a 3 course meal in a restaurant with their bloody hats(bball caps even, sic!) on.
@patrick henry their dads to give them a slap every now and then would be nice...
Disparaging remarks about class are so 19th century.
People took your comment way too seriously. Bleating plebians!
did i hurt your feefees, mate? having proper table manners doesn't make me a troglodyte. feel free to correct my English, i'm always up to honing my skills, as it's my second language.
What's wrong with being a peasant? I am proud to be one!
I don't give a rat about that rule. Wear when you feel like it.
@Gentleman'sGazette can you do a video on odd coloured shoes such as blue, green or burgandy?
@Steven Crane I quite like burgandy shoes, they're just not black captoe oxfords or brown double monks, they are a little more flashy
@@dandiehm8414 I mean unusual in this circumstance, while odd may mean not matching, its more about them being less common
@@dandiehm8414 Okay, thank you?
Ivy or flat cap is best I find , not to fancy and strikes a balance .
Like they trained me in the army. If outside, hat on. If inside, hat off. Simple! Thank you !
My dad always just said "Always take your hat off indoors". Good thing you educated me so now I don't have to freeze in the supermarket or in my car.
So, quick question. I know most knit hooded sweaters are seen as quite informal in most circles, but would the rules for removing hats in private areas apply to garment hoods as well? The reason why I ask is that I've instructed my nephews to " remove their jacket hoods when they enter establishments, for it's proper ettiquette to do so." and want to set a good example for them.