Detransitioning and Self Acceptance (ftm)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 дек 2024

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  • @radicalcartoons2766
    @radicalcartoons2766 Год назад +38

    Congratulations! I'm a tomboy and I'm now over 60. We need to reclaim Tomboy-ism! It's ok for all girls, not just Lesbians! Glad to hear that you had a mother who allowed you to express your non-girly side when you were young. I feel so sorry for todays kids, who are being forced back into 1950s style stereotypes of men and women. We thought the 60s and 70s had successfully moved us away from them, but no, here it all is, back again.

    • @seriously1184
      @seriously1184 Год назад +1

      And you can thank your fellow women for that and especially the feminists who started this whole mess with their toxic ideology which they expanded with intersectionality, critical race theory and the whole snow flake sensitivity etc etc etc

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 Год назад +1

      @@seriously1184 ​ Stop with the nonsense. Men snatched gender ideology and used it in a twisted, dark and perverted(literally!) way that it was never intended to be used, to benefit patriarchy and appropriate 'woman' and 'womanhood' for themselves.
      The heavy agenda and aggressive campaign to get children involved was to make something considered abnormal and totally against nature, the norm.
      The theory: crazies don't look crazy if everyone's being crazy, right? That allows freaky to be normal and out there, in comfort. Remember the pride celebrations? 50+ men walking publicly, literally naked in bondage gear and dog collars, twerking in front off children. Once upon a time they would have either been arrested for unlawful lewd behaviour or sectioned under the Mental Health Act. And they would have been shunned as a pervert. Now, anything goes. Transgenderism had the West literally in a chokehold, where people couldn't speak, let alone question the ethics and morality of what is taking place.
      The madness of the youth on Tik Tok, literally showing off the fact that they've had a double mastectomy (cut off and as Chloe Cole described it 'had her healthy breasts incinerated' - that got to me) and proudly showing off the scars and body mutilations. Boys being turned into castrated 'sissies'. The pervs must be loving Tik Tok. This is their dream come true.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 Год назад +2

      Heck yeah! My female best friend naturally has more masculine energy. She is SUCH a tomboy, but she absolutely loves men! She’s super straight! People think she’s a lesbian bc she’s such a tomboy. Society has so many stereotypes, sigh.

    • @ancientpolyethnic2898
      @ancientpolyethnic2898 Год назад

      Preach!

  • @aliceinwonderland1120
    @aliceinwonderland1120 Год назад +4

    I admire the clatiry of your self knowledge. “Why am I going to try to mimic someone that I am not….when at the end of the day I’m still here and I’m not a man. “. Accepting yourself for who you are and avoiding all the harm to your health caused by medical transition is a profound insight. Thanks for putting this out there.

  • @kokol8734
    @kokol8734 Год назад +6

    Androgyny in humans is a natural & a wonderful differentiation. Being an androgynous woman has given me a great life. It certainly has its benefits. Glad you're embracing your natural blueprint for yourself & are just being who you were born to be. All the best.

  • @MrKoenify
    @MrKoenify Год назад +3

    I'm glad you were able to come to these conclusions before doing anything medically. Also I really like what you said at 18:04. To stop caring how others perceive you and learning to accept yourself is a much better option than hormones and surgery. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @margaretcallen4275
    @margaretcallen4275 Год назад +3

    Great insight! Good for you! Self love and self acceptance is the only way. Be you! Your strong, smart and insightful! Hope you live a great life!

  • @ancientpolyethnic2898
    @ancientpolyethnic2898 Год назад +6

    I’m bisexual and when I started dating lesbians I realised that it was common for LGB to have various degrees of gender dysphoria which is why I think this push towards normalisation of transition as the only way to cope with gender dysphoria is dangerous for us.
    There has been a dramatic increase in females being referred to gender identity clinics so it appears that the “tomboy” is being erased by the new LGBT community and by gender identity clinics

  • @Aljobritt
    @Aljobritt Год назад +4

    You are so blessed to learn “being yourself” is the answer!!!! Enjoy your life!

  • @JewishKeto
    @JewishKeto Год назад +6

    Thanks for sharing your story… I was the other way. I thought I was a woman and lived as a woman for 2 years, was on hormones, I looked very much like a female but realized what I really was is lonely and I wanted attention. I detransitioned and love myself now. Sadly the estrogen did so much to me and I’m so self conscious about it.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +1

      I am sorry you went through that…Try not to feel too self conscious ( I know it’s easier said than done). We are all uniquely different and beautiful in our own way!
      I try to look on the positive side and know that what I went through has given me great insight into myself and life itself.
      Thank You for watching and the support!

    • @JewishKeto
      @JewishKeto Год назад +1

      @@LMaack the main issue for me is I now have breasts that I try to hard to hide. I can’t take my shirt off at the beach, I very likely can’t father children now either. I wish I never went on HRT.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад

      @@JewishKeto I can never understand what you have gone through, and I’m sorry you have to experience these effects. I wish you the best of luck! And I apologize if I minimized anything you have gone through. I just want people to find positivity and hope!

    • @JewishKeto
      @JewishKeto Год назад +1

      @@LMaack I’m so angry with my doctor. I’m so angry with my therapist i was never broken to begin with but I feel so broken now

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +2

      @@JewishKeto yes the fact that these supposed professionals put you down this transition pipeline is sickening and angering. We need real reform in our medical system, because non of this is okay.
      I could understand how you would feel broken by this experience, but don’t let it define you! We all have been broken by life at some point, what counts it getting up and standing stronger.
      Sending love and positivity your way!

  • @carebear4554
    @carebear4554 Год назад +6

    I love that you've realized it's perfectly ok and normal to be a tomboy. Keep loving yourself and embracing your natural body.

  • @labitcoineragt3596
    @labitcoineragt3596 Год назад +4

    I just finished your video, you’re a true girl boss! You touched on so many great points. Great job being you and with your message helping others along as well! 💪🏼

  • @ElleKay4Life
    @ElleKay4Life Год назад +4

    Tom boy female here! I prefer sports bras and ripped jeans. I’m married to a man and have two children.

  • @apab9700
    @apab9700 Год назад +2

    I love your take on authenticity. So glad you shared.

  • @LMaack
    @LMaack  Год назад +5

    Thanks again to everyone for the support!

  • @annetaylor6386
    @annetaylor6386 Год назад +1

    Thankyou for sharing your Story 😮with us .... Truly inspiring , very wise❤

  • @MsLori62
    @MsLori62 Год назад +2

    Excellent! Thank you!

  • @tomallan9329
    @tomallan9329 Год назад +1

    Wonderful testimony. Enjoy your life as you.❤

  • @masterofwit339
    @masterofwit339 Год назад

    You are clearly very creative and artsy! I zoomed in to check out some of your aesthetic and loved every bit of it 🎭🎨 Happy to see/hear you on the path of acceptance and self love 🤍

  • @annramsey7907
    @annramsey7907 Год назад +3

    I am glad you are finding yourself. And I hope you find love. I believe you have taken the 1st step when you say i am gay. It is possible to find another female who is attracted to you as you are & as time goes by become a real thing that is lifetime best friends and lovers. I wish that for you.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +1

      Thank you for the kind words.

    • @annramsey7907
      @annramsey7907 Год назад +1

      @@LMaack I wish this for all people. But especially for those who have had a hard time finding themselves. Because finding yourself is the first step in finding someone who loves you for you.

  • @wolfhugs2221
    @wolfhugs2221 Год назад +1

    Thankyou for sharing. I wish the media would cover your story and the testimony of other people who've transitioned and then realised they didn't want to. It's such an important topic.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +2

      Thank you for watching!
      It most definitely is an important topic. I wish the mainstream media would show the truth of what is happening to adolescent boys and girls.

  • @madamedestcroix
    @madamedestcroix Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm sorry to see that you got some really weird people commenting but also glad to see lots of people being supportive. I'm really curious about the experience of seeing the trans character/actor on Euphoria. Was it that you connected with the individual or was it more the concept of being trans? How do you make sense of that experience now, in retrospect? You said it set you off researching - I wondered what you looked at. Do you think there is anything anyone could have said or done that would have been helpful before you got to crisis point?

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +1

      Thank You for watching!
      It was more the concept of being trans than the character itself. Seeing that show made me think into what trans meant. So I went done a transgender rabbit hole… I was watching a lot trans RUclipsrs at the time. Once I went into the research pipeline I don’t think there was much anyone could have said to deter me.

    • @madamedestcroix
      @madamedestcroix Год назад +1

      @@LMaack Thank you!!

  • @slippersmomma
    @slippersmomma Год назад +2

    I was a tomboy big time. I wore my brother's clothes and cologne. Even after I'd had 2 children, I still only had one dress, for funerals.
    Nobody said a word to me. Maybe that was the difference between my family and yours.
    Or maybe I was scary and they were afraid to say anything. (This was 50 years ago.)

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 Год назад

      @@nataliavorontsova5174🤔🤔

    • @tonyhoffman3309
      @tonyhoffman3309 Год назад

      Not always. Plenty of boys who played with dolls and pretended to be princesses grow up to be straight men. It's just the nature of children playing to act out fictional characters they see or mimic people they spend time with and play with the toys available to them. Lots of boys with sisters have this experience and yet grow up to be straight. It depends how the adults around them respond. Either way, what does it matter? Most gay men I know are not feminine at all. Femininity and masculinity do not determine ones sex nor who we re attracted to.

  • @doyouseethesesparklestoo281
    @doyouseethesesparklestoo281 Год назад

    I think you look really pretty ☺️ Thank you for sharing your story! Keep up the great work ✊🏻

  • @labitcoineragt3596
    @labitcoineragt3596 Год назад +1

    I can’t blame you, in fact I totally understand you. I grew up in the 80’a and I’m not sure if it was dysphoria but I couldn’t stand the social idea of how girls had to be. I was little and I wanted to do everything that boys did and I wanted to be tough like the boys etc. I thought everything girls did was boring and cliche. I hated dresses! Hated cute girly shoes, hates dolls, cooking sets, soap operas etc. I loved cars (I still do!) I loved boys conversations (I thought they were more fun) I loved wearing pants and still to this day I’m not overly girly. However as I grew up I started liking dressing up girly, but it’s like a once a week type of thing. But had I grown up nowadays I think I would have been lead to believe that I was trans. I’m not. I am straight, married to a manly man (who loves cars as much as I do, I fix cars with him, do handy jobs with him etc).
    Being a girly girl is social construct, girls can be non-girly and still be girls like me 😉

  • @xcape2usa
    @xcape2usa Год назад

    I'm so incredibly grateful i had my early childhood in the 70's and teen years in the 80's when a tomboy was a girl who simply was just that. A tomboy. A girl who simply liked running around barefoot in shorts and a t shirt. Playing in mud, pushing toy trucks and building make believe farms. Climbing trees and not playing with bar by dolls or playing princess. Happily married with 3 adult children and still a happy tomboy driving my tractor managing hay fields, shooting guns and riding motorcycles. Thank you for your video. Stay strong.

  • @stunningbrave3470
    @stunningbrave3470 Год назад +4

    Well done! It is really good that you have come to terms with being female. You are free to be as you want to be regardless of your sex.
    Regarding the people who supposedly mistake you for a male you can be quite sure that they are doing that intentionally in an effort to be "kind". It is perfectly obvious that you are female. You do not need to perform any kind or amount of femininity in order to be recognised as female, people already know at first sight.
    Regarding your voice: I don't think it is advisable to constantly speek at the extreme lower end of your register. You might want to consult a speech pathologist. Incidently, there is a detransitioner and speech pathologist on youtube (www.youtube.com/@Aisle_of_Ex) who might be of interest to you.

  • @gabrielraphael8084
    @gabrielraphael8084 Год назад

    More power to you! you are beautiful however you are and whatever you choose to do. I am struggling with the same thing on the male to female spectrum. It's super confusing as an experience in this world.

  • @AIRFGC
    @AIRFGC Год назад

    💙💙 thanks for sharing

  • @lacha608
    @lacha608 Год назад

    Right. Congratulations.

  • @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father
    @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father Год назад +1

    The blame game starts now.

  • @CaroLaPilote
    @CaroLaPilote Год назад +5

    There is no one way of being a man and there is no one way of being a woman. We are all different. Be true to yourself and be proud of who you are !

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад

      Thank you!

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere Год назад

      @@LMaack Sobering reminder:
      The only "transition" every soul needs is; transitioning from lies/darkness into the truth/light.
      From religions into reality.
      From being unsaved/wicked sinner into being saved.
      From being deceived into being HEALD.
      Therefore, souls, CRY OUT TO GOD and leave behind all masonic/satanic lies.
      As none is trans nor male nor female in heaven, same in hell, no soul is trans nor male nor female.
      FOREVER HUMAN SPIRIT.
      Mark 12:25
      For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven.
      Matthew 22:30
      For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven.
      Sinners shall have everlasting existence filled with agony.
      Matthew 25:46 - And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.
      John 5:29 - And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.
      Matthew 8:12 - But the children of the kingdom shall be cast out into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
      Revelation 21:8 - But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
      Saved shall have everlasting existence filled with LIFE:
      John 10:10
      The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.
      John 5:29 - And shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.
      FREE WILL is given to all of us to choose between 2:
      GOD OR MAMMON?
      EXISTENCE FILLED WITH LIFE, WHICH WE DO NOT DESERVE
      OR
      EXISTENCE FILLED WITH AGONY, WHICH WE DO DESERVE?

  • @cherrysoda2219
    @cherrysoda2219 Год назад +1

    Jesus loves you so much and his door is always open

  • @diannafelton6534
    @diannafelton6534 Год назад +4

    The "tomboy", is also attractive female. Be what God made you. You do not have to be "fem". Arizona USA.

  • @Crechan
    @Crechan Год назад

    I expected her voice would be as deep as mine,but i was wrong

  • @MsTattygrass
    @MsTattygrass Год назад +1

    #SaveTheTomboys

  • @ep5005
    @ep5005 Год назад

  • @lpeacelovefaith9566
    @lpeacelovefaith9566 Год назад

    Thank you for your video ❤
    I wish you could talk to my son.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +1

      Of course, I want to spread hope!

    • @lpeacelovefaith9566
      @lpeacelovefaith9566 Год назад

      @@LMaack he is barely talking to me right now, and I miss him, and I’m deathly afraid that if I forward your video to him he will not talk to me at all. He came out as transgender to me in December, said he’s felt that way since the beginning of the school year. He left my home to live with his dad after I attempted to have a conversation with him about the dangers of medically transitioning. He is now 18 and just moved into his college dorm, and I was unable to be a part of that. I wish I could somehow have him talk to you, but I fear more alienation.

    • @tonyhoffman3309
      @tonyhoffman3309 Год назад

      You might want to check out Sasha Ayer and Stella O'Malley. Also genspect they have resources for parents

  • @hlyangel1
    @hlyangel1 Год назад +3

    You are still somewhat controlled by some of the circles of logic and terminology of your indoctrination. Rebuke the ideology totally and reclaim your natural self. There are so many flavors of women and men. So many do not fall into the stereotypical personality and stature and that IS the natural you. In our teens we naturally crave identity and usually acceptance from it.
    Our elders in most cases were raised and taught a considerably different a view of biology. Imagine how disturbing and concerning it is for them to see what is biologically natural to be scoffed and discarded. Don’t judge them for that. Understand and respect their life’s experience and where they come from.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад

      I totally agree. I have since gotten over the way my family reacted to me when I was a younger. I have a greater understanding as to why people reacted to me the way they did. As for indoctrination, I have accepted my biology and am much more comfortable with myself now ( even since this video). I just am who I am!
      I am no longer trying to pander to anyone type of stereotype of what a “man” or “woman” acts like.
      Thank you for your comment and input!

  • @Okkal464
    @Okkal464 Год назад

    Do you like having breasts? Im afab and intersex and bind regularly to feel better and I wish i could accept them but i also dont have to 💰🤑. No hormones ever. Full beard. Top surgery in 6 days. Im 31 years old btw, not a child

  • @RobertStiles
    @RobertStiles Год назад +1

    When you say you didn't "medically transition", clearly your voice has dropped from testosterone. This is a permanent change and I'm sorry that you went through this experience.

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +3

      Thank you for the support; however, I never took testosterone… I just trained my voice to get to a lower register when I was going through puberty i.e my voice was changing. This did have a permanent effect on how high/ low my voice is. I have come to accept my voice for what it is and am no longer trying to sound “manly” or force a deep voice.

    • @RobertStiles
      @RobertStiles Год назад

      @@LMaack Wow...ok. You might be a vocal tenor when singing.

  • @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father
    @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father Год назад

    These people so lost, so so lost. Now , they sound like between a cow and a goat.
    May Jesus be with all these lost souls.

  • @eastkidd2563
    @eastkidd2563 Год назад

    LMAO YOU DID NOT DETRANSITION

    • @LMaack
      @LMaack  Год назад +1

      I believe I actually did transition, but that’s okay as you’re entitled to your opinion.

    • @eastkidd2563
      @eastkidd2563 Год назад

      you factually did not transition but whatever guess gets you views i guess@@LMaack

    • @hellkat71
      @hellkat71 Год назад +4

      She socially transitioned, and therefore she also socially detransitioned

    • @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father
      @Jesus-The-Everlasting-Father Год назад

      I know, he sounds more of a male than Mike Tyson.

    • @tonyhoffman3309
      @tonyhoffman3309 Год назад +1

      No one actually transitions. Cosmetically usemail of hormones and surgery doesn't change what anyone actually is.

  • @britniemonet_3693
    @britniemonet_3693 Год назад +1

    Damn life is a spectrum so is gender grow up get educated then decide boo, you’re hot confident keep your head high and don’t change yourself for acceptance. Just accept and love yourself 💕