You are not breaking up because of religion. You are breaking up because you are no longer compatible. Does religion play a part in that yes but if you are no longer compatible it is better to just break up
@@sahil-qr6hn That's not what the commenter was talking about. Yes, their fights involve religion, but they're not fighting because of religion. They are fighting because she won't stop pushing his boundaries and trying to get him to do things he doesn't wanna do. He doesn't do that to her because he respects her and her boundaries/beliefs, but he also has different beliefs. If she wants to be with him, then she needs to respect his boundaries/beliefs as well.
There's actually some really bad blood between Islam and Hindu, due to the apartheids in the late forties early fifties, so it was actually really uniformed of her to ask someone who does, to a small extent, practice hindu to even consider it converting to it.
Stupidity. It is like LGBT activists protest with palestinians or USSR flags. The quality of education is very poor so people dont know and dont want to know what is hamas or ussr
This is exactly why when you start dating someone they share the same faith as you if you choose to practice one. It’s totally cool to be an atheist if you want, but if you’re staunchly one religion, your partner needs to be the same. Also, if she knew anything about Islam, she knows that her husband also has to be a Muslim as women aren’t allowed to marry outside of that faith this relationship is doomed
Nta. What you are describing is radicalization. You aren't breaking up with her because of her religion you are breaking up with her because her entire personality, behavior and belief system changed abruptly and she is trying to force it on you. Your girlfriend has been radicalized. This sounds more like the behavior of a person who has joined a cult than it does someone who changed religion.
Religion is a hard thing for some relationships, platonic and romantic. That's why it's often hard for religious and non-religous people to date each other, as both have different ideals and goals. Some make it work, but when it comes to some religions, that's just not possible as it's either their way or the highway. Islam, Mormon, Jehovah's Witness, Hinduism to some degree and a lot of the deeply religious (religious fanatic) Catholics. OP would not be the AH if he leaves his girlfriend bc of how she's acting. If they are not compatible, then nothing will make it work.
You would not be wrong to leave her she is trying to to push her beliefs onto you and she will continue to do so I think you should quit while you are ahead or it's gonna be an uphill battle
The only time I have ever seen this combination work out is when neither one of the parties involved was devout. Yeah they celebrated their major holidays like Divali and Eid but that was it. The downside was that their kids were a bit confused as to what religion they practiced. This was never gonna work out with OP and his girlfriend. They are incompatible and both the Pundit and the Iman will them so. The girlfriend wouldn't have stopped trying to convert him either
I was born into a Catholic family, but I'm an atheist now (for decades), I also don't care if someone else wants to believe in a deity. There are a few thousand religions on this planet. So do whatever makes you feel safe... But I do draw the line at people (meaning christians) trying to push their beliefs on me. It's always a you're going to hell kind of proclamation from them. Even their Jewish Jesus wasn't so pushy. If you believe the biblical stories... which I don’t.
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NTA OP was very respectful of other religions. OP didn’t hate on the religion or anything. It’s very important to be on the same page as your partner.
You are not breaking up because of religion. You are breaking up because you are no longer compatible. Does religion play a part in that yes but if you are no longer compatible it is better to just break up
This is not about her religion but about her wanting to force you to things you don't want to do
It is about a religion
Islam is like rabies buddy
@@sahil-qr6hn That's not what the commenter was talking about. Yes, their fights involve religion, but they're not fighting because of religion. They are fighting because she won't stop pushing his boundaries and trying to get him to do things he doesn't wanna do. He doesn't do that to her because he respects her and her boundaries/beliefs, but he also has different beliefs. If she wants to be with him, then she needs to respect his boundaries/beliefs as well.
Run Forrest run....
She is free to practice whatever religion she wishes. You are free to use whatever criteria you want to continue or end your relationships.
There's actually some really bad blood between Islam and Hindu, due to the apartheids in the late forties early fifties, so it was actually really uniformed of her to ask someone who does, to a small extent, practice hindu to even consider it converting to it.
There's bad blood with Islam and every one else
Of all the religions that exist, she had to choose one of those that treat women the worst, why are they like this?
Stupidity.
It is like LGBT activists protest with palestinians or USSR flags.
The quality of education is very poor so people dont know and dont want to know what is hamas or ussr
Your source?
@favorite_angel90 The... Sharia...?
OP dodged a huge red flag
This is exactly why when you start dating someone they share the same faith as you if you choose to practice one. It’s totally cool to be an atheist if you want, but if you’re staunchly one religion, your partner needs to be the same.
Also, if she knew anything about Islam, she knows that her husband also has to be a Muslim as women aren’t allowed to marry outside of that faith this relationship is doomed
NTA - if you feel you are too divided on that, i would go ahead and break it up.
Nta. What you are describing is radicalization. You aren't breaking up with her because of her religion you are breaking up with her because her entire personality, behavior and belief system changed abruptly and she is trying to force it on you. Your girlfriend has been radicalized. This sounds more like the behavior of a person who has joined a cult than it does someone who changed religion.
Definitely NTA this is nuts
0:55 the shorts
Shes becoming radicalized and doesnt respect you. Run.
Religion is a hard thing for some relationships, platonic and romantic. That's why it's often hard for religious and non-religous people to date each other, as both have different ideals and goals. Some make it work, but when it comes to some religions, that's just not possible as it's either their way or the highway. Islam, Mormon, Jehovah's Witness, Hinduism to some degree and a lot of the deeply religious (religious fanatic) Catholics. OP would not be the AH if he leaves his girlfriend bc of how she's acting. If they are not compatible, then nothing will make it work.
It's not even because of her religion, but her trying to force it on him. He can respect their differences, but she can't.
You would not be wrong to leave her she is trying to to push her beliefs onto you and she will continue to do so I think you should quit while you are ahead or it's gonna be an uphill battle
The only time I have ever seen this combination work out is when neither one of the parties involved was devout. Yeah they celebrated their major holidays like Divali and Eid but that was it. The downside was that their kids were a bit confused as to what religion they practiced. This was never gonna work out with OP and his girlfriend. They are incompatible and both the Pundit and the Iman will them so. The girlfriend wouldn't have stopped trying to convert him either
I was born into a Catholic family, but I'm an atheist now (for decades), I also don't care if someone else wants to believe in a deity. There are a few thousand religions on this planet. So do whatever makes you feel safe...
But I do draw the line at people (meaning christians) trying to push their beliefs on me. It's always a you're going to hell kind of proclamation from them.
Even their Jewish Jesus wasn't so pushy. If you believe the biblical stories... which I don’t.
NTA
SHE does not get to tell HIM anything. She is to obey him.