Personal Thoughts not all of us act like we are better than everybody. The ones that do forget they aren’t God they are human. So they have no right or place to judge people
Amen!!!!! Of course every woman wants to have a baby and it's a greatest feeling ever to be a mom... But I watched a video clip about a man and his wife, they couldn't get pregnant for a such long time and they prayed so much for a baby and once husband saw a dream and saw a little girl, and that man started to describe this little girl's appearance and then in a few day that man saw a dream again and God said this girl will be your daughter and then hubby and wife was thinking maybe they could adopted someone. And they decided to adopt a baby from pregnant woman (I mean from a woman that's pregnant but wants to sell her baby, u hope you understand what I mean) so they signed all paperwork and become parents for this baby but before the paperwork work when they only started talk to that pregnant woman they liked her so much and only then they got to know it's gonna be a baby girl and when this girl born the husband felt through Holly spirit that this is exactly that girl God had said will be their daughter. And when she grew up her appearance was the same that husband saw her in his dreams... Sorry for a long text, I hope I could explain all this correctly
She don't want children, she just had alot of liposuction done on her DOULBLE chin and her waiste ,Adrienne is all about Adrienne also lip fillers ,so no I don't think she wants kids
ECCENTRICITY for anyone who used to be an avid or current fan of The Real you will know Adrienne from the beginning of the show has voiced her desire for children. She lost weight naturally which she shared on her channel she looks great.
@@GreatRhyno why r u lying? SHE WANTS kids and said so. Watched past REAL shows. Stop spreading lies or rumors. Do your homework before lying. She lost weight naturally.
This show is so necessary and this episode is so powerful and relatable. I struggled for 3 years to have a child and it wasn’t until I said “God, I will love you even if you don’t give me a child” that the Lord blessed me with a beautiful, healthy baby boy! This experience actually brought me closer to God in a way that I never knew was possible. God is amazing.
Amara Chukwu my story ten years of barrenness and brokenness but my God it’s the closest I’ve been to God. Now ten years later two children blessed marriage. God took my Mess and now I have a Message. Hold on to everyone who has A dream continue to PUSH and press toward God. You will DELIVER
Congratulations!! That is so awesome. I have thought the same thing. I pray that He will bless me one day with that as well. It is one of my biggest fears, but I know loving God is such a peaceful feeling. No matter what happens I know He is real and I’ll be ok. ❤️🙏🏽
Aldijana Pajevic Hope your having a good day. I just want you to know Jesus loves you ❤️ and you are never alone even when you feel lonely. Jesus is amazing John 3:16 “ For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life” If you do believe it’s best to find a local church that believes Jesus as Lord and that Jesus has died for our sins and rose again and now sits at the right hand of the throne and attend it and also repent meaning turn away from your sins and confess them to Jesus sounds hard but God will make a way. Trust me and when you put God first everything else will fall into place! He is an amazing God. Also read the Bible and talk to Jesus you can start this conversation by “saying abba father...” lastly of course we’re not going to be perfect but we believe in the one who is perfect. Simply follow the will of God. Greatest commandment Mark 12:29 9 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[a] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[b] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[c] There is no commandment greater than these”
@Phdiva 0890 John 14:6 Jesus said I am the way and the truthand the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. He is the only way no one knows the Father which is God except for those whom the Son chooses to show Him to.
Nallah B ... Yet every comment on the shade room involving a white person is “sounds about white!!” Or “hahaha grey people” sounds like having hate in your heart to me
Adrienne needs to stop judging Christian's , regarding herself, the Bible says, by their fruit you will know them, having the young women in my family, watch her, listen to her follow her, does not inspire them to want to follow Jesus. Look at her behavior on the Real, and her life overall, charm is deceitful, beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
The part about if " l do something wrong God is gonna punish me" is soooo real! I too used to and still feel like that sometimes, but l was reminded that l was now relying on my own works instead of the grace of God. The self righteousness can be ugly because we start to become prideful and be like Pharisees who believed they followed all the rules, not realising that it is the revelation of God's love, and his grace that enables us to follow the rules. And that God loves us even when we miss the mark.
Yes!! So true. Its so easy to try to do this walk in God in our own strength and self righteousness. It ends up turning into legalism rather than the liberty He has given us.
Wow. Just wow. You ever listen to something at the exact right time that you need it? Something that speaks to you on such a raw and meaningful level that you are left speechless? This is where this conversation between these ladies left me at. Thank you 🖤🖤
I pretty much bawled through all of this because God put this in my path right when he knew I’m struggling inside and needed to hear it. All praise to the Glorious God!
Wow I needed this. My husband and I have been waiting on having a child for the past 5-6 years we’ve been through surgery, multiple rounds of IVF, etc and I wonder if it will ever happen for me. But I know God has me in his hands. 🙏🏽
AC not only does God have you in his hands but you’ve been blessed with a marriage that can withstand 5-6 years waiting on a child. Many marriages fall apart so this shows that you all are doing great to still be together through all of that!
Continue waiting on God his timing is perfect. He just came through for my own friend after 8 years and with a double portion. Twins! we cannot get over just how beautiful and perfect they are. Keep the faith. Prayers from Nairobi Kenya
I think it’s conversations like this I’ve been craving but just happened to be too rare in today’s world. I honestly felt joy, peace and more clarity after watching this. We need more of this. I need more of this. Amazing job guys, so proud of you guys.
What Angelica said about weed is sooooooo true for many! Especially in the times we're living in. Many won't admit that they're addicted to weed. Love how truthful they all are about depression while having a relationship with Christ.
Stephanie, I saw you preach at One church and recognized your name but literally had to do a double take seeing you now. You look so different! Praying for you in this platform! You are so gifted.
This was such an AMAZING and necessary convo ladies! As a Christian woman I can relate to every one of the topics bought to the table and loved the authentic discussion about them all. Thank you all for this! 😊
I’m here crying about how this video came to me the right time,this video has resonated with my current situation and I’m thankful for such a great discussion
This interview had me crying in worship. I love when people can be honest. Real honesty helps people get delivered because it allows them to trust and be open an not judged. I really appreciate this interview and I will definitely share.
It's so refreshing to know that even other Christians struggle with the stuff I go through as a Christian myself. The walk with Christ is a journey, not an immediate destination.
What an incredible conversation, Its amazing how God make you listen to right things at the right time.. I needed to here this so bad... Love from South-Africa
You get “tired” because you’re trying to do everything in your own strength. We should be relying on God. Also striving for his approval WILL make you tired
Enjoyed this episode and she transparency that the ladies displayed. These types of conversations need to happen more often on our own circles so that we can learn and lean on each other.
I am soo glad I stumbled across this video. What she said about God being spiteful I am literally in that feeling right now. I got so many blessings i am ok without but the one thing i want feels fleeting. Thanks for this!
This was such a GREAT conversation. I feel like this is the season that God has me going through. I’ve been so sad and I guess depressed because it’s taking me longer to finish school and get to my plans but God is showing me that I need to just trust him and his timing. And it’s so true that the source of depression is unmet expectations. Especially when you keep pushing and trying your hardest but you don’t see your “plans” coming to life, it makes you question God a lot and whether he loves you. This video just confirmed to me that I need to trust God’s plans for my life and his timing. The waiting part is the worst, especially because it feels like he’s silent. But I know that God loves me and does not desire to see me fail.
mairbear100 love ur comment! I’m feeling the exact same way about something else going on in my life..but I realize that God is not giving me what I want when I want it because He is teaching me to be patient and to trust Him ..it’s very hard and some days are better than others but let’s hang in there and trust that He has a bigger and better plan for us than we have for ourselves and His timing is PERFECT timing! Be blessed and stay strong 🙏🏽
mairbear100 Girl same. I had to take 2 years off and now I’m taking 2 classes a semester + summer classes. Just keep going. NEVER GIVE UP! It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to get there. All that matters is that you graduate and get that degree. Keep Holding on and trust in the Lord. Phil 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”
This is exactly how I feel about school/life right now. Thank you for sharing, it makes me feel less alone. I know we will all see the goodness of God soon :)
Ladies, I don’t know if you will ever understand how helpful this is for me. We really do overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony. Keep sharing your story. This is church. This is God’s love. Thank you my sisters.🤗🤗🤗
wow. lovely conversation. "a desire is the evidence of what is, what God will bring..." Love this. It's all about aligning ourselves with the will of God. it's a constant process, but Jeremiah 29:11 tells that that His plans for us are of peace, not of evil. May God grant us the desire to seek Him and trust Him fully. Amen!
This blessed my soul. I’m right here in this place ... waiting on God in the midst of depression, disappointment and nothingness. I don’t even know how I ended up on this channel but this definitely was for me tonight. Thank you ❤️🙏🏽
As a pastor’s daughter, father now deceased, I now see the struggles and turmoil that sometimes affected my dad. He was not a mega church pastor but was such since his 20s. He went through struggles just like everyone else, my family included, but because of the pedestal that we were put on and the way Christians view the pastor and his family, it’s hard to be true to SELF first and just seek self care. My upbringing was great and I do not regret growing up in church, but I wish this healing and understanding that is becoming more discussed today was known then. We are not perfect, but when that is discovered in anyway, that doesn’t mean the whole person should be thrown out to pasture. Great conversation!
U have no idea how u have educated me on waiting for God's time and his will to be done in my life. I tap into the prayer cos am also expecting the fruit of the womb. Amen to the prayer.
Thank you ladies, this was awesome! I got some clarity on somethings, that I observed in my life. We have to be open to God, even when He already knows. Cause we building on a relationship with Him, as we begin to learn ourselves more and what’s in it belongs to Him, things do change for the better. We don’t have to feel so bad, when we don’t get the things we desire vs His will for our life... I take my relationship with Him over everything very serious. For the pass 2 or 3yrs, I’ve learned to put Him first in everything I do. My life experiences aren’t as hard as it use to in dealing with, whatever situation or circumstances that may come. Be blessed and God bless.. Thank you again 🙏🏽❤️
Adrienne is transparent and still on her journey. She is not fake just human and fallible like everyone else..God help Adrienne to grow into what your design is. Let her be brave and comfortable in you and let her go where others cannot
Every part of Angelica’s testimony that she shared in this video is either me rn or something Ive recently been delivered from. this video gave me more hope ❤️
I loved this Conversation! Having a True relationship with God takes work. It is nothing that is earned or gained. God looks for the pure in heart not the number of years that you are a believer. We must be transparent and honest so that God can use us. The disciples of Jesus were not perfect they were flawed but God still used them. We do not have to perfect when coming to Him we just have to be honest with Him and repent because He does already know us He created us. My God!!
I came here because Minister Stephanie Ike. I do not watch the Shade Room, and had to double take to make sure THE SAME ROOM was attached to THE SHADE ROOM. However after looking at this I grew. God is building platforms where the unsaved, backsider's, doubters, lukewarm, and Christians can watch Him perform what He promise in order for relationships can be formed with Him. Ms Angelica Nwandu was so honest and transparent. I felt her,on so many levels. I always wanted to be a stay at home wife and mom, with the dog and goldfish. Who dropped off and picked up the clothes at the cleaners, attend PTA, cleaned the house, comb and cut the children hair and had the admiration of the family. I wanted all of that and more to the point I was creating my own loveless marriage and relationships with a child. Now 46 I am a single mom as a result of my way. Who until I heard Ms. Nwanda realized I have kept this one desire over and above what God's desire for me is.
I absolutely LOVE when there is a 3 person conversation and everyone is involved and included and it’s not just two ppl staring at each other when speaking! They got it right 💗
I need to introspect, be real with myself and lay it all down before the Lord. Allow myself to be vulnerable to myself and before him. Trust every broken piece & confusion to Him.
I watched this a year ago. It blessed me + spoke to where I was. A year and a rewatch later, it’s blessing me and speaking to where I am. God is so incredibly and beautifully articulate. I know that he is for me. I love that he is for us all.
It's amazing how God will bring you something when you need it the most. This week I was triggered and fell into a depressive state. I know I will be okay. Thank you for this!
I've felt this for years but didn't express how I was feeling due to judgement. I'm now at a place in my life to be more transparent so I'm sharing my experience with salvation and depression. Sharing a testimony just broke so much bondage people were under. Lord thank you for using me.
THANK YOU! God is so good. Wow.. girl, you just spoke my life. Weed smoker for ten years. It’s sooooo hard to stop but I feel extremely convicted over time since being saved, knowing we need to be “of sober mind” to see the devils antics.. damn this definitely spoke to me!!🙌🏼 Definitely quitting this time.
I NEEDED THIS MORE THAN YOU MAY KNOW. THANK YOU ! Thank to all the ladies Adrienne you’re a blessing and I can relate to you and all the ladies because you’re so authentic and compassionate. Even though you all went through unpleasant experiences I believe those challenges helped make you the compassionate women you are today . Gods bless you
Wow! this discussion has really helped. Being somewhat of a baby saint t(newly saved) myself, a lot of what they said really hit home for me. To know that I am not the only one that is saved and still struggling with certain things, is very encouraging to me. I know now that it does not mean that God has left me, but he is allowing my struggles to shape me into the Christian he want me to be.
This was a great interview, as a 42 year old women with no kids or husband that once had the desire for them it can be difficult to realize those things may not come but we still have to hold on to the fact that everything is working for our good 💪
This might sound vain ,but you having no kids or husband is a factor I see in women who look incredibly young and are youthful at heart .Some you win some you lose .If you will get these things in this life nothing by can stop it no age no time .God’s speed
I truly enjoyed tuning in. Every single one of you shared something beneficial to my walk in Christ Jesus. I will pray for you all to continue to share your testimonies. ❤️
Wow i came across this episode and needed to watch it. First of all, beautiful inspirational strong wisdom women. God bless you. I struggle with depression and i have a burnout, that is overworked, feeling exhausted, sometimes getting out of bed is so hard. I keep holding on to Jesus, praying and trying to stay at his feet. I had so much time during lockdown to figure out where these problems come from. And i figured it out, problems from like 22 years ago! I do not use medication, i need God. Pray to God that He releases you from this, it feels liberating to confess sins or the things you struggle with, get it out in the open, tell someone, and freedom will come from all these problems. Being honest, open up, confess, i feel so much freedom. I am recovering. God is putting me into the light, laying everything bare. He makes me new. God bless all of you, He will get us through this. I agree with Mrs. Nwandu, the lowest episodes in our life, give us so much wisdom, it teaches us about life and what is important. These seasons make us grow closer to God.
I’m going to ask for prayer request. I have multiple different chronic health conditions, to cause me to lose my job I also have a desire which I know I was placed on this earth to share my Christian gospel music with the world and help share my personal stories and how God has helped heal me from different things on a national level but right now I am going through the wilderness and it’s very challenging. I would really appreciate prayersBecause even though I know he hasn’t forgot about me I just feel very alone and keep on getting presented new issue after new issue I think you in advance I really like this podcast ✨🖤
I can relate to Adrienne in so many ways. If I would have thought with logic I wouldn’t have the amazing husband I have now. Gods thoughts are higher than our thoughts and his ways higher than our ways❤️
we need these type of platform. This is real conversations and authenticity . It would be nice to see this show air on BET on Sunday morning or TBN. Powerful discussions that can help and encourage Christians struggling to open up about there struggles. David was depressed and Moses was insecure.
OMG. I can relate with this discussion. Am a Christian and I have gone through depression. It's so real. You put a smiling face in front of everyone but when you are alone you are so sad. Am learning to walk away from that and be grateful for every little thing I have. Am still in the process. Its not easy though
I love this!! We need more honest conversations in the Christian communities. I feel like we all battle with our faith everyday. We’re always being put to the test. As Christians some of us struggle because we feel like we HAVE to be perfect and then you have other people usually pointing at you and nitpicking at everything you do and sometimes that alone can be exhausting and put you in a depression as well and it’s a daily spiritual fight of trying to be just that. Some people walk away from God because of feeling that way . God knows our heart though and everyone’s relationship and where they are and are suppose to be with Christ is different . As a Christian you have to put in the work and at times you may fall or fail but God is right there picking you up. As Christians we should stand with other Christians and help to pick those who keep falling instead of judging and pointing fingers at what they’re doing and not doing . In the Christian communities and even outside of it think that you can’t be depressed or battle through mental health or suicide because if you have a relationship with Christ then you wouldn’t feel that way because his love is so big and pure and it is. But, at the end of the day we’re humans and we have everyday battles and demons and wars we have to fight . Stop pointing fingers and instead lift each other up to help them fight through . We’re not perfect , nor will we ever be. “God looks at a willing heart not a perfect heart”. I think that’s something important to remember. Beautiful conversation. We’re humans ,we go through things.
This was such a good conversation. People think Christian means perfect and it doesn’t. We’re human just like everybody else.
BritBrit Nicole yes!
Simply Animated this was so good
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Personal Thoughts not all of us act like we are better than everybody. The ones that do forget they aren’t God they are human. So they have no right or place to judge people
Tell that to the religious folks trying to tell others how to live their lives.
I pray Adrienne gets her baby. As a woman 39 without children I definitely understand how she feels. God anything is possible. Amen
Me too
Amen!!!!! Of course every woman wants to have a baby and it's a greatest feeling ever to be a mom... But I watched a video clip about a man and his wife, they couldn't get pregnant for a such long time and they prayed so much for a baby and once husband saw a dream and saw a little girl, and that man started to describe this little girl's appearance and then in a few day that man saw a dream again and God said this girl will be your daughter and then hubby and wife was thinking maybe they could adopted someone. And they decided to adopt a baby from pregnant woman (I mean from a woman that's pregnant but wants to sell her baby, u hope you understand what I mean) so they signed all paperwork and become parents for this baby but before the paperwork work when they only started talk to that pregnant woman they liked her so much and only then they got to know it's gonna be a baby girl and when this girl born the husband felt through Holly spirit that this is exactly that girl God had said will be their daughter. And when she grew up her appearance was the same that husband saw her in his dreams... Sorry for a long text, I hope I could explain all this correctly
She don't want children, she just had alot of liposuction done on her DOULBLE chin and her waiste ,Adrienne is all about Adrienne also lip fillers ,so no I don't think she wants kids
ECCENTRICITY for anyone who used to be an avid or current fan of The Real you will know Adrienne from the beginning of the show has voiced her desire for children.
She lost weight naturally which she shared on her channel she looks great.
@@GreatRhyno why r u lying? SHE WANTS kids and said so. Watched past REAL shows. Stop spreading lies or rumors. Do your homework before lying. She lost weight naturally.
This show is so necessary and this episode is so powerful and relatable. I struggled for 3 years to have a child and it wasn’t until I said “God, I will love you even if you don’t give me a child” that the Lord blessed me with a beautiful, healthy baby boy! This experience actually brought me closer to God in a way that I never knew was possible. God is amazing.
Amara Chukwu my story ten years of barrenness and brokenness but my God it’s the closest I’ve been to God. Now ten years later two children blessed marriage. God took my Mess and now I have a Message. Hold on to everyone who has A dream continue to PUSH and press toward God. You will DELIVER
Congratulations to you both, such amazing testimonies
Congrats to you both. Such beautiful testimonies ❤️
Congratulations!! That is so awesome. I have thought the same thing. I pray that He will bless me one day with that as well. It is one of my biggest fears, but I know loving God is such a peaceful feeling. No matter what happens I know He is real and I’ll be ok. ❤️🙏🏽
Wow!!!...love that, these women's stories are very necessary 🙏🏾
I’m muslim watching this, you can realize that theese lessons and struggles are all universal in different faiths. Love the show
Aldijana Pajevic Hope your having a good day. I just want you to know Jesus loves you ❤️ and you are never alone even when you feel lonely. Jesus is amazing John 3:16 “ For God so loved the world that he sent his one and only son that whoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have eternal life” If you do believe it’s best to find a local church that believes Jesus as Lord and that Jesus has died for our sins and rose again and now sits at the right hand of the throne and attend it and also repent meaning turn away from your sins and confess them to Jesus sounds hard but God will make a way. Trust me and when you put God first everything else will fall into place! He is an amazing God. Also read the Bible and talk to Jesus you can start this conversation by “saying abba father...” lastly of course we’re not going to be perfect but we believe in the one who is perfect. Simply follow the will of God. Greatest commandment Mark 12:29 9 “The most important one,” answered Jesus, “is this: ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.[a] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.’[b] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[c] There is no commandment greater than these”
This is awesome; it's good to remember that everyone faces hardship and that compassion for others is paramount.
Aldijana Pajevic 💕
Same! AMEN to that, such a beautiful convo
@Phdiva 0890 John 14:6 Jesus said I am the way and the truthand the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
He is the only way no one knows the Father which is God except for those whom the Son chooses to show Him to.
“God looks at a willing heart, not a perfect heart.” & we should all do the same. 💜
Amen
Nallah B ... Yet every comment on the shade room involving a white person is “sounds about white!!” Or “hahaha grey people” sounds like having hate in your heart to me
Powerful statement!!!
Who decided that though?
Amen.
John 6:44 2 Timothy 2:24-25 Revelation 3:19
What Adrienne said about Christians and telling the truth and being robotic. Its really true. We gotta get the help we need. We gotta be real to heal!
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Yes! So real. Not seeking help keeps us in bondage and the enemy uses it until we decide to be real!
Adrienne needs to stop judging Christian's , regarding herself, the Bible says, by their fruit you will know them, having the young women in my family, watch her, listen to her follow her, does not inspire them to want to follow Jesus. Look at her behavior on the Real, and her life overall, charm is deceitful, beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised.
The part about if " l do something wrong God is gonna punish me" is soooo real! I too used to and still feel like that sometimes, but l was reminded that l was now relying on my own works instead of the grace of God. The self righteousness can be ugly because we start to become prideful and be like Pharisees who believed they followed all the rules, not realising that it is the revelation of God's love, and his grace that enables us to follow the rules. And that God loves us even when we miss the mark.
Yes!! So true. Its so easy to try to do this walk in God in our own strength and self righteousness. It ends up turning into legalism rather than the liberty He has given us.
@@reatha26 Preach it sis! May God help us all 💕
Very real! I thought I was the old person that felt this.
This conversation was so powerful like I can’t even believe how God shows up and gives u something u needed to hear. 🙏🏽
Tee Brooks amen!
Shout out to Angelica for expanding her brand, this is a positive show
“When you are at the lowest part of your life, you have the greatest wisdom to pass on” 💯💯👏🏻 FACTSSSS
Seeing her do closet tours and makeup tutorials are cute, but having Adrienne speak on issues like this is a blessing. So much depth, so much truth.
Sade Gardner Right!!!! It’s so good
“God: I want to give you everything. I just don’t want it to have you” ♥️
Stephanie is absolutely GORGEOUS AND STUNNING! her husband is going to be the luckiest man she is such a gift to me and I don't even know her !
Wow. Just wow. You ever listen to something at the exact right time that you need it? Something that speaks to you on such a raw and meaningful level that you are left speechless? This is where this conversation between these ladies left me at. Thank you 🖤🖤
Pegz AK yes I understand that can happen. God will speak to ya! Jesus is real
I pretty much bawled through all of this because God put this in my path right when he knew I’m struggling inside and needed to hear it. All praise to the Glorious God!
Amen! Yess 😭😭😭 and same crying and bawling rn but God is good
Wow I needed this. My husband and I have been waiting on having a child for the past 5-6 years we’ve been through surgery, multiple rounds of IVF, etc and I wonder if it will ever happen for me. But I know God has me in his hands. 🙏🏽
AC not only does God have you in his hands but you’ve been blessed with a marriage that can withstand 5-6 years waiting on a child. Many marriages fall apart so this shows that you all are doing great to still be together through all of that!
THIS-IS-MY-STORY thank you for this. Very true. Sometimes we get caught up in what we want and forget to be thankful for what we have.
Continue waiting on God his timing is perfect. He just came through for my own friend after 8 years and with a double portion. Twins! we cannot get over just how beautiful and perfect they are. Keep the faith. Prayers from Nairobi Kenya
The lord will show up for you in grand style. Just keep believing in his word...
Fiona Yiyah Thank you!
I think it’s conversations like this I’ve been craving but just happened to be too rare in today’s world. I honestly felt joy, peace and more clarity after watching this. We need more of this. I need more of this. Amazing job guys, so proud of you guys.
What Angelica said about weed is sooooooo true for many! Especially in the times we're living in. Many won't admit that they're addicted to weed. Love how truthful they all are about depression while having a relationship with Christ.
I’ll admit it ,and it’s a spiritual struggle big time
I am on my way to smoke a blunt. Its very hard.
The authenticity in this conversation is beautiful.💛💛💛
Stephanie, I saw you preach at One church and recognized your name but literally had to do a double take seeing you now. You look so different! Praying for you in this platform! You are so gifted.
Same same!
This was such an AMAZING and necessary convo ladies! As a Christian woman I can relate to every one of the topics bought to the table and loved the authentic discussion about them all. Thank you all for this! 😊
So powerful and true
I’m here crying about how this video came to me the right time,this video has resonated with my current situation and I’m thankful for such a great discussion
These women are AWESOME! The host is absolutely stunning! Her way of speaking, her voice & her wisdom=a wonderful vessel!💜✝️💙🙏🏼
"I'm using your desires to shape you." Bruh 😭🙌
I felt this.
STARRI BEAUTY Mind blowing🙏🏾
When I say i almost fell out...had to remember I was driving
Stephanieeeeeeee! You better speak your speech hunny wow! The way she can articulat her words about God is beautiful and so connecting
the holy spirit is in her amen!!
REALLY
REALLY
good host
she ties the conversation well and summarises it so well
also keeps the topic on track so well
This interview had me crying in worship. I love when people can be honest. Real honesty helps people get delivered because it allows them to trust and be open an not judged. I really appreciate this interview and I will definitely share.
You hit the nail on the head, my prayer too
I'm in tears after watching this. Every thing they spoke I felt on such a deep level.
It's so refreshing to know that even other Christians struggle with the stuff I go through as a Christian myself. The walk with Christ is a journey, not an immediate destination.
So true say it louder!!!❤❤🙏🙏 blessings always from Kingston Jamaica.
This is a great show. Much needed content. Real deal and real and unexpected journeys and testimonies
I like the ‘in the name of JESUS....’ moment Adrienne’s mum had! That is so powerful, we need people like that in our lives
I think our mothers are sisters! Lol
I love these types of conversations.
This was a needed conversation. It’s so hard to wait for things you want.
Keyshaw30 for real
Hope deferred makes the heart sad 😢.
What an incredible conversation, Its amazing how God make you listen to right things at the right time.. I needed to here this so bad... Love from South-Africa
Same. Also South Africa
This has blessed me on so many levels, perfect timing, as usual with the Lord...Thank You for this !
Please please check out the Andrew Cutler protocol of you are struggling with mental illness, star bu googling andy cutler success stories
You get “tired” because you’re trying to do everything in your own strength. We should be relying on God. Also striving for his approval WILL make you tired
Your Local Paintshop yep
Amen!!!
Enjoyed this episode and she transparency that the ladies displayed. These types of conversations need to happen more often on our own circles so that we can learn and lean on each other.
I love Stephanie she is so amazing and God is truly blessing her, so much wisdom !! Praying for you Stephanie ❤️
"God is interested in our natural response" WOW!
Love Adrienne! One of my favourite co-host on The Real.
Zub H me too!
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Zub H mine too
Who are ur other favourites? Jeannie, loni and tamera? 🤣
Onur Bb 😎
SWEETIE...NONE INCLUDING ANDRI😜LOL😝
What a way to start! Looking forward to the conversations that will be happening in the Same Room.
Right? I feel so full of this conversation.
I am soo glad I stumbled across this video. What she said about God being spiteful I am literally in that feeling right now. I got so many blessings i am ok without but the one thing i want feels fleeting. Thanks for this!
Neeshpeesh1234 same here
This is certainly one of the best conversations I’ve seen online in our time... 👏🏾👏🏾
So true sis!
This was such a GREAT conversation. I feel like this is the season that God has me going through. I’ve been so sad and I guess depressed because it’s taking me longer to finish school and get to my plans but God is showing me that I need to just trust him and his timing. And it’s so true that the source of depression is unmet expectations. Especially when you keep pushing and trying your hardest but you don’t see your “plans” coming to life, it makes you question God a lot and whether he loves you. This video just confirmed to me that I need to trust God’s plans for my life and his timing. The waiting part is the worst, especially because it feels like he’s silent. But I know that God loves me and does not desire to see me fail.
mairbear100 love ur comment! I’m feeling the exact same way about something else going on in my life..but I realize that God is not giving me what I want when I want it because He is teaching me to be patient and to trust Him ..it’s very hard and some days are better than others but let’s hang in there and trust that He has a bigger and better plan for us than we have for ourselves and His timing is PERFECT timing! Be blessed and stay strong 🙏🏽
mairbear100 Girl same. I had to take 2 years off and now I’m taking 2 classes a semester + summer classes. Just keep going. NEVER GIVE UP! It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to get there. All that matters is that you graduate and get that degree. Keep Holding on and trust in the Lord.
Phil 4:13 “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me”
This is exactly how I feel about school/life right now. Thank you for sharing, it makes me feel less alone. I know we will all see the goodness of God soon :)
Great conversation. Millennials need to hear this.
Ladies, I don’t know if you will ever understand how helpful this is for me. We really do overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony. Keep sharing your story. This is church. This is God’s love. Thank you my sisters.🤗🤗🤗
wow. lovely conversation. "a desire is the evidence of what is, what God will bring..." Love this. It's all about aligning ourselves with the will of God. it's a constant process, but Jeremiah 29:11 tells that that His plans for us are of peace, not of evil. May God grant us the desire to seek Him and trust Him fully. Amen!
This blessed my soul. I’m right here in this place ... waiting on God in the midst of depression, disappointment and nothingness. I don’t even know how I ended up on this channel but this definitely was for me tonight. Thank you ❤️🙏🏽
As a pastor’s daughter, father now deceased, I now see the struggles and turmoil that sometimes affected my dad. He was not a mega church pastor but was such since his 20s. He went through struggles just like everyone else, my family included, but because of the pedestal that we were put on and the way Christians view the pastor and his family, it’s hard to be true to SELF first and just seek self care. My upbringing was great and I do not regret growing up in church, but I wish this healing and understanding that is becoming more discussed today was known then. We are not perfect, but when that is discovered in anyway, that doesn’t mean the whole person should be thrown out to pasture. Great conversation!
U have no idea how u have educated me on waiting for God's time and his will to be done in my life. I tap into the prayer cos am also expecting the fruit of the womb. Amen to the prayer.
Thank you ladies, this was awesome! I got some clarity on somethings, that I observed in my life. We have to be open to God, even when He already knows. Cause we building on a relationship with Him, as we begin to learn ourselves more and what’s in it belongs to Him, things do change for the better. We don’t have to feel so bad, when we don’t get the things we desire vs His will for our life... I take my relationship with Him over everything very serious. For the pass 2 or 3yrs, I’ve learned to put Him first in everything I do. My life experiences aren’t as hard as it use to in dealing with, whatever situation or circumstances that may come. Be blessed and God bless.. Thank you again 🙏🏽❤️
So glad this showed up on my feed. I needed this entire convo 🙌🏾
We all need an Adrienne. So genuine and such a sweetheart 💜💜💜
You mean she appears to be genuine only GOD knows our hearts and if we're truly genuine!!!!
@@wandaprather1960 I totally agree with you, discernment will show you many things, Adrienne is fake.
Love me some Adrienne! Always.
Adrienne is transparent and still on her journey. She is not fake just human and fallible like everyone else..God help Adrienne to grow into what your design is. Let her be brave and comfortable in you and let her go where others cannot
You never come across things by chance. I believe god bought this to my hearing at the right time. Thank you.
Every part of Angelica’s testimony that she shared in this video is either me rn or something Ive recently been delivered from. this video gave me more hope ❤️
I loved this Conversation! Having a True relationship with God takes work. It is nothing that is earned or gained. God looks for the pure in heart not the number of years that you are a believer. We must be transparent and honest so that God can use us. The disciples of Jesus were not perfect they were flawed but God still used them. We do not have to perfect when coming to Him we just have to be honest with Him and repent because He does already know us He created us. My God!!
I'm here because of Adrienne ❤👍
CoCo exactly
Same
CoCo word because the other chick whole platform is trash
I thought all christian's have a platform regardless.
The most inspiring conversation ever. The best video I have ever watched on RUclips.
This was so beautiful! These conversations are 100% needed.
I came here because Minister Stephanie Ike. I do not watch the Shade Room, and had to double take to make sure THE SAME ROOM was attached to THE SHADE ROOM.
However after looking at this I grew. God is building platforms where the unsaved, backsider's, doubters, lukewarm, and Christians can watch Him perform what He promise in order for relationships can be formed with Him. Ms Angelica Nwandu was so honest and transparent. I felt her,on so many levels. I always wanted to be a stay at home wife and mom, with the dog and goldfish. Who dropped off and picked up the clothes at the cleaners, attend PTA, cleaned the house, comb and cut the children hair and had the admiration of the family. I wanted all of that and more to the point I was creating my own loveless marriage and relationships with a child. Now 46 I am a single mom as a result of my way. Who until I heard Ms. Nwanda realized I have kept this one desire over and above what God's desire for me is.
I am so proud of the Church! Keep it going ladies, you guys rock!
Love how they all have similar hair colors and it looks good on all there skin tones!!!!
The things people notice
Lol! Well it does all look good on camera. That wasn’t the only thing I noticed but I did notice! Great convo
I absolutely LOVE when there is a 3 person conversation and everyone is involved and included and it’s not just two ppl staring at each other when speaking! They got it right 💗
I need to introspect, be real with myself and lay it all down before the Lord. Allow myself to be vulnerable to myself and before him. Trust every broken piece & confusion to Him.
I watched this a year ago. It blessed me + spoke to where I was. A year and a rewatch later, it’s blessing me and speaking to where I am. God is so incredibly and beautifully articulate. I know that he is for me. I love that he is for us all.
This touched me on so many levels. I can relate to so many of the experiences they've had. This was very much needed and therapeutic. Excellent talk
It's amazing how God will bring you something when you need it the most. This week I was triggered and fell into a depressive state. I know I will be okay. Thank you for this!
I've felt this for years but didn't express how I was feeling due to judgement. I'm now at a place in my life to be more transparent so I'm sharing my experience with salvation and depression. Sharing a testimony just broke so much bondage people were under. Lord thank you for using me.
THANK YOU! God is so good. Wow.. girl, you just spoke my life. Weed smoker for ten years. It’s sooooo hard to stop but I feel extremely convicted over time since being saved, knowing we need to be “of sober mind” to see the devils antics.. damn this definitely spoke to me!!🙌🏼 Definitely quitting this time.
I watched this 3 years ago and always come back to it from time to time 💕❤️ love listening to these beautiful ladies
“That’s that glow, that no highlight can give you!” ✨🌈🙏🏽
I totally loved Angelica testimony how God showed her how she was medicating on weed
Such an amazing and insightful conversation. That prayer brought tears to my eyes. Thank You Jesus!
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This conversation is so NECESSARY for Christian women. Thank you ladies for sharing!!!
So much wisdom from you ladies. Thank you for having the conversation. God bless you all!
I like Adrienne she is open, honest, and God can use her.
I NEEDED THIS MORE THAN YOU MAY KNOW. THANK YOU ! Thank to all the ladies Adrienne you’re a blessing and I can relate to you and all the ladies because you’re so authentic and compassionate. Even though you all went through unpleasant experiences I believe those challenges helped make you the compassionate women you are today . Gods bless you
Stephanie is my big sis in my brain! Yes!!
These women's stories are right on time...much needed content, thank you!!!🙏🏾
Wow this is so amazing. This conversation was so much confirmation for me
This was a much needed conversation. Thank you for the transparency. 🙏🏽
Wow! this discussion has really helped. Being somewhat of a baby saint t(newly saved) myself, a lot of what they said really hit home for me. To know that I am not the only one that is saved and still struggling with certain things, is very encouraging to me. I know now that it does not mean that God has left me, but he is allowing my struggles to shape me into the Christian he want me to be.
This was a great interview, as a 42 year old women with no kids or husband that once had the desire for them it can be difficult to realize those things may not come but we still have to hold on to the fact that everything is working for our good 💪
This might sound vain ,but you having no kids or husband is a factor I see in women who look incredibly young and are youthful at heart .Some you win some you lose .If you will get these things in this life nothing by can stop it no age no time .God’s speed
Kimone Xoxo thank you!!
Such a beautiful conversation. I really enjoyed this. Thanks Ladies 💛🙌🏾✨
Definitely could relate. Great show ladies.
So deep, so real, so relevant... God bless you all.
I truly enjoyed tuning in. Every single one of you shared something beneficial to my walk in Christ Jesus. I will pray for you all to continue to share your testimonies. ❤️
This is a good conversation that needed to be held.
Wow i came across this episode and needed to watch it. First of all, beautiful inspirational strong wisdom women. God bless you. I struggle with depression and i have a burnout, that is overworked, feeling exhausted, sometimes getting out of bed is so hard. I keep holding on to Jesus, praying and trying to stay at his feet. I had so much time during lockdown to figure out where these problems come from. And i figured it out, problems from like 22 years ago! I do not use medication, i need God. Pray to God that He releases you from this, it feels liberating to confess sins or the things you struggle with, get it out in the open, tell someone, and freedom will come from all these problems. Being honest, open up, confess, i feel so much freedom. I am recovering. God is putting me into the light, laying everything bare. He makes me new. God bless all of you, He will get us through this. I agree with Mrs. Nwandu, the lowest episodes in our life, give us so much wisdom, it teaches us about life and what is important. These seasons make us grow closer to God.
This convo was amazing! I can't wait for more. You're doing amazing Stephanie🙌🏾
I’m going to ask for prayer request. I have multiple different chronic health conditions, to cause me to lose my job
I also have a desire which I know I was placed on this earth to share my Christian gospel music with the world and help share my personal stories and how God has helped heal me from different things on a national level but right now I am going through the wilderness and it’s very challenging. I would really appreciate prayersBecause even though I know he hasn’t forgot about me I just feel very alone and keep on getting presented new issue after new issue I think you in advance I really like this podcast ✨🖤
I will be praying for you! :)
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May God restore your health in Jesus name.
Thankful to have come across this! The love and encouragement you ladies displayed is beautiful!
I can relate to Adrienne in so many ways. If I would have thought with logic I wouldn’t have the amazing husband I have now. Gods thoughts are higher than our thoughts and his ways higher than our ways❤️
we need these type of platform. This is real conversations and authenticity . It would be nice to see this show air on BET on Sunday morning or TBN. Powerful discussions that can help and encourage Christians struggling to open up about there struggles. David was depressed and Moses was insecure.
Great host, such a beautiful spirit. Great conversation.
These women's words bless my soul. God bless them. Humbled. 💓
OMG. I can relate with this discussion. Am a Christian and I have gone through depression. It's so real. You put a smiling face in front of everyone but when you are alone you are so sad. Am learning to walk away from that and be grateful for every little thing I have. Am still in the process. Its not easy though
Honesty Is So Needed In This World ❤
I love this!! We need more honest conversations in the Christian communities. I feel like we all battle with our faith everyday. We’re always being put to the test. As Christians some of us struggle because we feel like we HAVE to be perfect and then you have other people usually pointing at you and nitpicking at everything you do and sometimes that alone can be exhausting and put you in a depression as well and it’s a daily spiritual fight of trying to be just that. Some people walk away from God because of feeling that way . God knows our heart though and everyone’s relationship and where they are and are suppose to be with Christ is different . As a Christian you have to put in the work and at times you may fall or fail but God is right there picking you up. As Christians we should stand with other Christians and help to pick those who keep falling instead of judging and pointing fingers at what they’re doing and not doing . In the Christian communities and even outside of it think that you can’t be depressed or battle through mental health or suicide because if you have a relationship with Christ then you wouldn’t feel that way because his love is so big and pure and it is. But, at the end of the day we’re humans and we have everyday battles and demons and wars we have to fight . Stop pointing fingers and instead lift each other up to help them fight through . We’re not perfect , nor will we ever be. “God looks at a willing heart not a perfect heart”. I think that’s something important to remember. Beautiful conversation. We’re humans ,we go through things.
Girl!!! I have literally been there after giving the little bear 😩😂 waiting for the big Bear. But the journey is Jesus is the big Bear
Sarah Franks girl you better preach. this is so fire and i so needed to hear this.
Thank you all for your honesty! 🙌