Lucy Hale Opens Up For The First Time About Eating Disorders, Relationships & Addiction | E224

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  • Опубликовано: 30 май 2024
  • Lucy Hale is an American actor and singer, she is best known for her role of Aria Montgomery in the TV series ‘Pretty Little Liars’. She has most recently appeared in the film, ‘The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry’.
    Topics:
    0:00 Intro
    02:46 Early context
    11:52 Acting was my way out
    19:09 Your grandmother
    21:50 Your mother
    25:38 Life between 16-19
    28:17 Your eating disorder
    42:42 Your addiction, getting sober
    54:18 Pretty Little Liars
    01:01:09 The darkest times
    01:03:37 Would you have been happier not acting?
    01:05:56 Relationships
    01:10:43 Life after Pretty Little Liars
    01:16:24 What are you still working on
    01:19:23 The next chapter of your life
    01:24:15 The last guest's question
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Комментарии • 1 тыс.

  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO  Год назад +1197

    Thank you Lucy for being so open, honest and sharing your story on here. If you liked this conversation could you do me a favour and hit the subscribe button, thats the clearest indication if you liked the episode and will determine who we bring on in the future 🙏 thank you all

    • @thomasthomasphilp4393
      @thomasthomasphilp4393 Год назад +7

      Would you invite the South Asian female icon, Sushmita Sen, former Miss Universe to your show? The whole Philippines and India love her like crazy

    • @khcorkery
      @khcorkery Год назад +2

      @@thomasthomasphilp4393 aaa

    • @sunvavachi
      @sunvavachi Год назад +4

      ​@@thomasthomasphilp4393 ya or even Deepika Padukone

    • @francismotionless393
      @francismotionless393 Год назад +4

      So many of us could thank Lucy we would, but thank you so much for interviewing her. Some of us get when she says she's a "pleaser!". AND HOW SHE JUST WANTED TO BE LIKED! I too have addictive ways and an addictive personality. WHICH SO MANY OF US DO. !

    • @TheRandoGal
      @TheRandoGal Год назад +2

      Lucy hale very well may be an INFJ. listening to her thoughts, it really sounds like a fellow infj💕

  • @itaiarvatz
    @itaiarvatz Год назад +2591

    16 minutes in and already seeing how bright Lucy is. "we can look at an experience and play victim, but you have to take ownership of your life". POWERFUL

    • @amazingdany
      @amazingdany Год назад +29

      We are all indeed our own architect of all our personal successes and failures. Glad she was able to control her drinking addiction.

    • @seniorarubia
      @seniorarubia Год назад +4

      Ohhhhyes that’s a comment for me 😅❤🎉

    • @GlossyHop
      @GlossyHop Год назад +7

      This really resonated with me too. So many members of my family, and so many people in general, live with victim mentality and never take accountability of their own actions. I’ve been through some heavy shit, had horrible things done to me as a child and I’ve never once considered myself a “victim”.

    • @juliannfloress3490
      @juliannfloress3490 Год назад +4

      ​@@GlossyHop i hope u re OK now..

    • @haikuoflife
      @haikuoflife Год назад +16

      @@GlossyHop It's a slippery slope because one can also become toxic and gaslight others by projecting this idea onto others. I've watched someone blame/shame someone else who was sharing a dark experience from their past and telling them they have victim mentality. Horrible! Everyone needs to find their own light. Some have better coping skills than others. ;)

  • @JavaDoodles
    @JavaDoodles Год назад +1506

    Always loved Lucy. Really admire her bravery in sharing her struggles and opening up like that. Sending so much love her way!

    • @samsong24
      @samsong24 Год назад +2

      She's awesome. Such a genuine soul.

  • @d.oertliche
    @d.oertliche Год назад +501

    This was an amazing listen. The calmness and the way that Lucy is just allowed to be still. The dynamics of this interview is just such a powerful thing it feels like the guests are just allowed to be present and not have to be rushed to the key points. It's an amazing interview skill 👏

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere Год назад

      To all who quick to name themselves “Christians”;
      Christian = saved soul who became new creature and who does daily the will of his Heavenly Father:
      keep
      preach
      watch
      expose
      You 100% you´re a Christian? There is a risk to be lukewarm Christian aka cast away.

    • @user-ls4rv3ix7u
      @user-ls4rv3ix7u 4 месяца назад

      Mashallah I see that too

  • @rachelann8275
    @rachelann8275 Год назад +790

    Wow. Just wow. I grew up watching Lucy and to hear her open up with her struggle with an ED during this time breaks my heart. I wish her all the best ❤

  • @Loanica
    @Loanica Год назад +302

    29:07 Wow, Lucy Hale is such an emotionally intelligent and brave person. She was about to say a lie. Then she thought about it for a moment and said, "Actually, that's a lie." It takes a brave person to say that because people constantly lie, without owning up to it!

    • @tarledamanley2832
      @tarledamanley2832 Год назад

      Actually liars constantly lie without owning up to it normal people do not

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Год назад +19

      It was not that she was “about to say a lie.” She had a thought then realized she had forgotten something, so she corrected herself. She did not set out to lie. She simply remembered more information.

  • @edi165
    @edi165 Год назад +342

    as someone in recovery from a decade of anorexia who also watched pretty little liars religiously growing up, I appreciate Lucy opening up so much as I remember would watch the 4 of them and think they were nothing but perfect. What an articulate and amazing woman she is!! We love you Lucy

    • @LauraPalmerD
      @LauraPalmerD Год назад +5

      Watching the show, it's pretty clear she was dealing with an ED throughout.

    • @feliciabianco3287
      @feliciabianco3287 Год назад +16

      @@LauraPalmerDSame with Troian Bellisario, and Ashley Benson said that she was told that she was too big for Hollywood. Poor girls. 💔

    • @daniellekennedy9897
      @daniellekennedy9897 Год назад +7

      Watching PPL growing up I felt so overweight because the girls looked so beautiful and were skinnier than me, it's interesting to see this and go back and realize that they were the ones struggling and I was actually healthy.

  • @iamchristyfierce
    @iamchristyfierce Год назад +87

    Going into my 30s, these are all things I’m struggling with: accepting myself, recovering from an eating disorder, going to therapy, soothing that inner child, getting over alcoholism and binge drinking. It feels reassuring to know that other people, even famous ones, go through the same things.

  • @adematti
    @adematti Год назад +770

    I’ve been a fan of Lucy’s ever since season 1 of PLL and over the years I’ve followed and supported her and her career however I can. It makes me so sad that she went through such hard times without any of us knowing, but I’m incredibly proud of her for getting through them and for allowing herself to open up and be vulnerable in this interview. I now love and admire her even more! ❤️

    • @pamengland7863
      @pamengland7863 Год назад +7

      Same. This shows how her strength & resilience has carried her to her true happiness.

    • @LUCE777
      @LUCE777 Год назад +1

      I like Lucy, but PLL was an awful show.

    • @adematti
      @adematti Год назад +4

      @@LUCE777 I’m sure if I watched it now it wouldn’t hold up near as well but my teenage self ate it up 😂

    • @LUCE777
      @LUCE777 Год назад +3

      @@adematti Yeah, I totally get that. The show was well in its 5th season and I was already 30 before I was like “lemme see what all the hype is about” and watched it. I watched quite a bit of the first season and just couldn’t get over how unrealistic the storyline was lol. Another show that is super hyped up yet so unrealistic is riverdale, but people seem to love it. I get it tho, I’m sure I had my fair share of awful shows I loved as a teenager haha

    • @jasonmoukala8909
      @jasonmoukala8909 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@LUCE777 no it wasn’t

  • @praiseakintola2678
    @praiseakintola2678 Год назад +198

    It's funny how we don't know how much people we admire go through. I'm grateful for this episode, gives me confidence to see someone I admire share their journey. Lucy's still on her journey and I'm grateful to her for sharing this. One day I'll share my journey as well.

  • @stangster94
    @stangster94 Год назад +161

    That pause at 1:22:54 is so deep. The eye contact and connection you make in those brief seconds is powerful. I can’t think of another podcast that allows people to get so deep into their emotions and feel safe doing it. Hands down the best podcast on the planet right now.

  • @DanielMazz
    @DanielMazz Год назад +347

    This is sad had no clue about her going through so much. She is so strong and amazing. Love her style and badass boots 👢

  • @MeghaneLex
    @MeghaneLex 9 месяцев назад +33

    lucy's mom telling her "i had a feeling it was all gonna work out" is the most beautiful thing a parent can say to their child 🖤

  • @Mushroompanda648
    @Mushroompanda648 Год назад +300

    Her experience with alcohol mirrors mine to a Tee. I’m so grateful to hear her story and know that I’m not alone in my journey. I’m also 33 and 1 year sober. Thank you Lucy for your story, and just like me, you too are not alone. 💕

    • @SuperWinnieB
      @SuperWinnieB Год назад +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @JordanaLevinee
      @JordanaLevinee Год назад +2

      You’re doing amazing. Proud of you

    • @thewritergrl
      @thewritergrl Год назад +1

      Well done

    • @RachelIlacqua14
      @RachelIlacqua14 Год назад +6

      Congrats on 1 year!!! 🥳🎉 I have a little over 90 days, let’s keep it up!!!!

    • @chicle001
      @chicle001 Год назад +2

      wow great job!!! every moment is a win!

  • @duynguyen1138
    @duynguyen1138 11 месяцев назад +48

    This CD has three separate relaxation/meditation sessions on it ruclips.net/user/postUgkxzpa8CIfZcihW4Z0F_ja0QF3W9KIatrsq guided by a very pleasant and direct male voice. Unlike so many other products of its type, this CD does not have bad synthesizer music, does not feature a phony or affected style of narration, and does not make any bogus claims to be subliminal or to re-train the brain or any of that balderdash. What you get is 1. a guided meditation for getting into a pleasantly relaxed state of body awareness while taking a stroll (superb for those easing back into a fitness routine slowly after an illness or injury) 2. A nice long breath-awareness relaxation session that if followed diligently can put you into very deep states of full-body relaxation and mental calmness, and 3. a buddhist-inspired meditation session designed to help you develop and maintain feelings of loving kindness toward not just yourself and your friends, but toward people you don't even like. The CD makes no claims to be designed for advanced meditators or for buddhists or hindus/yoga practitioners looking for very deep and esoteric stuff. It is geared more toward the average person who just wants to develop the habit of relaxation and stress relief through natural, healthy means. him, if you happen to be reading this, keep up the good work fella, and I love your accent. I would also like to note that I have never fallen asleep while listening to this product. I would like to kindly suggest to the reviewer who said this CD makes him fall asleep, that he might want to get checked to see if he has a sleep disorder, or if he is simply not setting aside ample time for restful sleep at night. A healthy person getting adequate rest at night should be able to go into deep states of mental relaxation without dozing off, if not all the time, then most of the time.

  • @KRZ___
    @KRZ___ Год назад +68

    There are no words.. I never realised how similarly we think about ourselves and the discussion of damaging coping mechanisms. This has been the biggest motivation to heal the relationship with myself 🥺

  • @samg7056
    @samg7056 Год назад +75

    1:13:20 was so powerful. To see someone who spent so long thinking they weren't enough being able to list out all of their strengths...inspiring

  • @prik4727
    @prik4727 Год назад +176

    She is just so captivating. I just tuned in casually as a fan of hers. But she made me feel every moment and emotion. From a fellow introvert Lucy - thank you for making me feel understood and empowered, like I’m not alone. I’ve saved this one for the ages.

    • @RiannaNicole
      @RiannaNicole Год назад +4

      I just did the same thing. And you aren’t alone, fellow introvert!

    • @ems8717
      @ems8717 9 месяцев назад

      I was actually listening to another one and this one accidentally popped on. Glad it did ❤

  • @MegCharla
    @MegCharla Год назад +74

    I really respect those that can come on such a public platform and be vulnerable.

  • @Gloryguidance
    @Gloryguidance Год назад +114

    Lucy Hale is lucky to have a supporting mother who encouraged her to follow her dream. Not everyone got that kind of parents.

    • @StudiousSu
      @StudiousSu Год назад +3

      Facts. My parents insisted I go to college ☹️

    • @spirituallysafe
      @spirituallysafe Год назад +1

      Her mother lead her to the Hollywood cesspit.

    • @belle8732
      @belle8732 Год назад +7

      @@StudiousSu at least you can go to college

  • @jamieharry7587
    @jamieharry7587 Год назад +57

    The way Lucy articulates her eating disorder is so coherent and I resonate so much with her experience

  • @fff5572
    @fff5572 Год назад +16

    It's unbelievable hearing her story with an eating disorder because it's so alike my own. It was also my Italian boyfriend who helped me overcome it. I had been extremely picky since I was a child and was guilt tripped and teased for it. My relationship with food became tremendously difficult as I came to associate it with failure, shame and self loathing. But seeing the way Italians celebrate food, take such good care as they prepare their meals and enjoy them so wholeheartedly was so healing for me. For the first time in my life food was simple, it was safe. I've since learned to cook and that boyfriend is now my husband. Together we prepare meals with our children and try our hardest to help them relate to food in a positive way. I'm happy to say that today food nourishes my soul and makes me happy ❤

  • @Ladiezmann-217
    @Ladiezmann-217 Год назад +27

    I started to cry at 17:00. I could really feel her soul here. Lucy really was about to open up about (maybe one of her) her darkest experience(s) and (even though indirectly) she nearly opened up, but when her tears came, she stopped, cause ig it was too tense for her… she is such a strong & pure human being. I really admire her and have the upmost respect for her opening up in this deep conversation.

  • @teephoui
    @teephoui Год назад +82

    Rushing home after school and coming into adulthood not quite knowing yourself is totally me. I cant believe I relate to someone I thought was so perfect like herself, really enjoyed this interview.

  • @daniellegarcia9
    @daniellegarcia9 Год назад +34

    As I approach my 30s I’ve been steering away from reels and short content and craving meaningful debates/podcasts that make me feel I’m walking away with something 💕 so thanks for making this podcast

  • @FutureFendiFsnista
    @FutureFendiFsnista Год назад +34

    1:07:46
    That part. When people get too close and you are scared of them seeing the real you so you sabotage the relationship before they can. Summarizes my whole life story 🙃
    I am so thankful that this interview showed up in my suggested videos. I am 31 and still struggle with feeling worthy and having low self-worth. Though I have never struggled with alcoholism, I related so much to everything Lucy said. I'm happy that things have gotten better for her. It's nice seeing her happy and living her best life!

  • @P78229
    @P78229 Год назад +38

    the bits talking about her grandmother really got me. my grandma also passed when i was 15 and she was just how lucy described her grandmother. down to the breathing tube and the cigarettes. really got me.

    • @theawkwardashleyshow95
      @theawkwardashleyshow95 Год назад +3

      Me too!! I got chills when she was talking about her and I got emotional at the same time as her too. I think it got to me because grieving that young , I always felt alone and like I was grieving alone and to hear that other people have experienced almost the exact same thing is wild but also comforting. I hope it brought you some comfort too 💖

  • @lololololol1111
    @lololololol1111 Год назад +70

    I love the part where she talks about having someone in her life who truly appreciated and valued food that helped her break out of her eating disorder

  • @ryanrock1948
    @ryanrock1948 Год назад +61

    she’s been my favorite actress for years. she’s so real for this.

  • @anjalikang
    @anjalikang Год назад +44

    Being a huge fan of PLL since I was younger I was drawn to this episode, and I'm so glad I watched it. It was such a moving story and it just goes to show how much goes on behind the scenes when the camera isn't rolling. Thank you to Lucy and to Steven for such a great and inspiring podcast.

  • @anak2094
    @anak2094 Год назад +53

    I love this interview because it helps us connect with her and helps us appreciate her more and her work. Thank you Lucy for sharing your life with us.

  • @BrittPearceWatches
    @BrittPearceWatches Год назад +29

    Lucy is so captivating! She’s so real and honest and it felt like she was speaking to me. Loved this interview!

  • @belle8732
    @belle8732 Год назад +38

    i alway wanted to look like those girls in pll growing up. and i was anorexic for a while, it was extremely dangerous, and coming out of that finding out that the bodies that i idealized were unhealthy and the women i looked up to were struggling with the same thing, was a really fascinating revelation. i hope they know how much talking about their struggles helps us, helped me

  • @kathleendelmerico
    @kathleendelmerico Год назад +46

    Her authenticity is so inspiring, I haven’t really reflected on the degree that it impacts our everyday lives and interactions. A great thought for the day.

  • @maddyharvey7414
    @maddyharvey7414 Год назад +24

    I never knew anything about Lucy Hale, but wow did this interview speak to me. Being the introverted type who felt extreme emotions and lived in their imagination…to the substance abuse and crying because of joy after recovering.

  • @ashley5672
    @ashley5672 Год назад +33

    I’ve been a fan of Lucy ever since PLL started, she’s one of my favourite actresses. To hear her talk to openly and bravely about her struggles, has really gave me an entire new perspective into self worth. I’ve been similar in that i’ve never really liked myself and have similar issues and to hear her talk about how she’s in a much better place now, is really inspiring. Such a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you Lucy, we love you ❤️❤️

  • @user-uh3lr4bx8g
    @user-uh3lr4bx8g 11 месяцев назад +13

    At 49:41 Lucy beautifully explains what Gabor Mate says “the question isn’t why the addiction, the question is why the pain?!” An incredible interview. I don’t recall ever seeing anyone being this honest, reflective and unafraid to be vulnerable publicly. Would love to have the opportunity to compare notes on life with Lucy.
    I’ve never heard of this podcast but will check out more. Thank you.

  • @i123456987654
    @i123456987654 Год назад +9

    i'm so thankful for lucy being vulnerable and relatable...thank you for letting us learn more about lucy

  • @methusharavi5136
    @methusharavi5136 Год назад +39

    Also my fav part of this episode is when Lucy says she's always been curious about why people are the way they are and why she is the way she is. My mind is constantly buzzing with thoughts surrounding this same topic and it's nice to know i'm not alone.

  • @C64_Mat
    @C64_Mat Год назад +58

    She's so smart and self aware.

  • @emilya.1743
    @emilya.1743 Год назад +10

    “I will get through it, sober and happy” ♥️ Lucy ♥️♥️♥️

  • @mariusantondotsch2883
    @mariusantondotsch2883 Год назад +43

    This is so heartwarming, her expresing herself and revealing her struggles and how how she is overcoming them, so Inspirational

    • @h11009
      @h11009 Год назад +2

      i relate A LOT to everything she expressed and i've never felt that before from a celebrity

  • @danasalehh
    @danasalehh Год назад +21

    I'm currently struggling with body dysmorphia and hearing lucy talk so openly about her experiences with an ed is truly inspiring and gives me hope for the future

    • @MaryElyneHeere
      @MaryElyneHeere 9 месяцев назад +2

      You deserve the best and you can do it! You’re not alone🥺❤️ sending huggies for someone who feels this comment

    • @marufgazi9025
      @marufgazi9025 8 месяцев назад

      Sameee🥺❤

    • @lorebalder
      @lorebalder 3 месяца назад

      Sameee ❤

  • @Smita-Says
    @Smita-Says Год назад +65

    Lucy was brilliant in PLL. It seems like the movie industry encourages a lot of negative things like eating disorders and addiction if you look at other child stars. I’m glad she is opening up, she is a brilliant actress & person ❤

    • @jocelynkatz9033
      @jocelynkatz9033 Год назад +2

      But she delt with an ED before PLL. She says it here. But PLL did exacerbate the ED

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 Год назад +1

      @@jocelynkatz9033 The OP knows that. They said “encourages.”

  • @miasaadon7495
    @miasaadon7495 Год назад +20

    This was an amazing conversation

  • @francieli099
    @francieli099 Год назад +30

    This was the best interview I’ve watched in a long time!!!

  • @NS.262
    @NS.262 Год назад +39

    Great podcast as always. Would love to see you interview Kat Graham, being the only woman of colour on vampire diaries and how she was mistreated by producers and some coworkers.

  • @jackyluvs
    @jackyluvs Год назад +11

    I love this show, seeing the guests being vulnerable is so liberating and I learn so much about human emotions and even traumas, this channel is my favorite ever

  • @suzannax
    @suzannax Год назад +24

    The love for her family really shines through, it's a beautiful thing

  • @mindovermatter4u377
    @mindovermatter4u377 Год назад +13

    Hi Steve. So much of what Lucy said resonated with me. I believe it's times of adversity that we find our greatest strength. Bruce Lee once said. Someone will always be younger than you. Someone will always be prettier than you. Nobody can actually be you. The point being everything starts with you.. This is what Lucy articulated so perfectly during this podcast. To solve a problem you first have to acknowledge that you have one. We all are products of our environment and our life experiences make us the person we are today. Good or bad . With addiction I think its like when we cut our finger we put a plaster on it to stem the bleeding put we don't treat the cut it self which is the root cause of the problem .it a joy to listen to this espoide. Lucy is self a aware and has a great perspective I wish for her everything she wishes for herself..God bless.

  • @jannasmith3275
    @jannasmith3275 Год назад +16

    I've been a fan of Lucy Hale since the very first episode of PLL like a lot of people. There was something about her that stood out among the others. They were all good but there was something so mysterious about her and to know she was actually struggling while also having the time of her life just goes to show that you can have everything in the world and life still not be perfect. I'm glad she's doing better and finding her true self. 💙

  • @julissa6715
    @julissa6715 Год назад +15

    His voice is so calming, patient, and understanding. I love this, keep doing what you're doing and helping people feel at peace with themselves.

  • @SteviieMariie
    @SteviieMariie Год назад +14

    I’m so happy that Lucy opened up about her eating disorder and addiction. It is 💯 true when she said it’s all I would think about 24/7. I could be in a deep conversation, listening and responding-yet I’m just uncomfortable and thinking about food, my body, weight etc. I’ve always wanted to know how she got through it all…bc I have a very addictive personality as well.
    I’m 35 and still deep in my own eating disorder from age 16. I have 2 dwi’s and drank-blackout-repeat. Honestly, the only reason I don’t drink as much now is bc of my low weight, and hangovers last 3 days. I’m beyond ready for this ED to be tamed-gone what have you and I still don’t see how it’s possible for recovery-yet I’ve worked so hard on my demons…so what is holding me back?

  • @rvzilly
    @rvzilly Год назад +16

    I’m so incredibly grateful for how brave Lucy was to be so open in this interview and also for being so articulate in reflecting on her struggles. I haven’t even known how to put my struggles with addiction, relationships and self worth into words and Lucy was able to so eloquently.
    It has motivated me to seek therapy so maybe I will also be able to get to a place where I am happy with the place I am in and can be confident in saying “I am who I am, and I don’t care what others think”.
    Thankyou for this amazing podcast ❤

  • @sday040888
    @sday040888 Год назад +64

    I needed this today. 8 weeks sober for me. I've also never not known drink or how to cope with any part of life without it. Lucy is such a beautiful strong woman I'm so happy she has come out the other side and feels happy in her own skin now. ❤

    • @TheDiaryOfACEO
      @TheDiaryOfACEO  Год назад +13

      🙌🏽🙏🏽🤍

    • @fabulouslyfit54
      @fabulouslyfit54 Год назад +14

      One year sober as of February 10th. It only gets better. Best decision I’ve ever made. Just wish I did it sooner. I’m 52 years old. Good luck ☺️

    • @sday040888
      @sday040888 Год назад +2

      @@fabulouslyfit54 amazing well done!!!! Keep going ❤❤❤

    • @d.p.2680
      @d.p.2680 Год назад +6

      I'm 54, this year i'm sober for 20 years, it didn't make any miracles, but life as sober is a lot easier, and life is fucking fantastic

    • @rebeccasedam9997
      @rebeccasedam9997 Год назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @janel2403
    @janel2403 Год назад +49

    It's a good reminder that everyone has their own struggles (I wanted to "be her" when I was a teen!!) just shows everyone has their battles and we should live less by assumptions & be kind

  • @inspirationbyannakhan
    @inspirationbyannakhan Год назад +2

    Love this! Thank you for interviewing Lucy. She's amazing!

  • @amandakoppes9021
    @amandakoppes9021 Год назад +38

    Amazing that Lucy was so open and honest about such personal and still unfortunately, taboo topics. I’m sure her story will help a lot of people struggling with similar issues ❤

  • @Kiroui
    @Kiroui Год назад +18

    I grew up loving Lucy (tweeted about Privileged coming out in the UK 😂) and I love her being able to share her true self. Does anyone else see ADHD symptoms coming out in this - the not being able to remember childhood memories, addictions (eating, alcohol, relationships) and able to be open and "overshare"?

    • @angeliquemariel2916
      @angeliquemariel2916 Год назад +6

      I definitely see ADHD symptoms in Lucy she also said that her brain never shuts off which is another ADHD symptom.

    • @ashlopez1947
      @ashlopez1947 8 месяцев назад

      I was thinking that too but what really made me think that she could be neurodivergent is taht she alway felt different. My whole life I’ve felt that way and ik it. It’s because my brain works differently than ithers

  • @jeissycespedes8477
    @jeissycespedes8477 Год назад +22

    Took me days to be able to be able to finish the whole thing but it was amazing, I honestly know nothing about Lucy, not even her name up until now, which I think allowed me to see through her words and through her eyes much more easier and I am so grateful with everyone involved in creating this for us. This is the 1st podcast of yours Ive found and I dont think I am leaving anytime soon.:)

  • @smrithisondur9873
    @smrithisondur9873 6 месяцев назад +4

    I feel like we can all relate to this on a universal level. Especially when she said she was a solitary person who was introverted and "on the outside looking in" so many celebrities seem like they are the complete opposite, so relatable.

  • @kavinamistry
    @kavinamistry Год назад +40

    You are such a talented interviewer. I've been binge watching your podcast during my mat leave and I was so excited when the bell notification popped up with this one! Very excited, I'm a very big fan of Lucy's- the wide variety of guests is so exciting! 💖

    • @TheDiaryOfACEO
      @TheDiaryOfACEO  Год назад +4

      Thank you Kavina ❤️ Glad you enjoyed this episode too!

  • @Destinyirus278
    @Destinyirus278 Год назад +11

    I’ve always been a fan of Lucy.. now I realize how much she’s a relatable person she is.. she’s so extremely strong & powerful. Her words are relatable & honest, I learned a lot from this video that I can add into my life.. we have to take a look in the mirror as to why were are masking our emotions. I’m still struggling w/ that.. but I have so much respect for Lucy & her healing journey 🫶🏾

  • @decafinated09
    @decafinated09 Год назад +9

    Gosh Lucy. This makes my heart smile WIDE. You are healed. You are whole. You are beautiful. It makes me proud to see the journey, the ownership you've taken, the resilience you've maintained. You are worthy and deserving of all the good life has to offer. I am so proud to see people growing to this extent, thank you for setting a brave and courageous example for others as they begin this journey of growth, sobriety, healing and wholeness. Litearlly brought tears to my eyes.

  • @racheltaylor2549
    @racheltaylor2549 Год назад +17

    What an incredible brave young woman to not only go through such an amazing journey of self discovery but to be able to articulate it so genuinely is so inspirational.
    And to Steve, I love the safe space you provide to enable your guests to open up without judgement or being rushed through conversations. You acknowledge their presence, their thoughts and allow them to express themselves and you sit with them in those moments of self reflection.
    In general I don't like social media as it can be a very negative place, but this channel is definately proof that sharing within a safe community can be such a positive empowering experience.
    Well done Steve.
    *and not to forget you guys at Huel, I love your shakes too, vanilla is my favourite! *

  • @catwink13
    @catwink13 Год назад +5

    Such a beautiful conversation to have the privilege of watching. Thank you so much, and thank you to Lucy for being so open and authentic.

  • @Destinyirus278
    @Destinyirus278 Год назад +10

    Ouch this hit close to home.. I’ve always struggled w: masking emotions & caring about wether people like me or hate me.. I’m my own worst enemy, this interview was extremely powerful & Lucy’s healing journey is motivational 🫶🏾

  • @yennimaldonado123
    @yennimaldonado123 Год назад +13

    After watching this interview, I’ve realized how much alike I am from Lucy. Listening to her healing journey has opened up a portal for myself where I am now more self aware. Thank you for this. A start of a new chapter for me🌱

  • @taniarodriguez9801
    @taniarodriguez9801 Год назад +4

    I LOVE how Lucy spoke about who she is now! SO SO HAPPY FOR HER ❤

  • @AnjuliMack
    @AnjuliMack Год назад +6

    The talent and skill you have to bring people on that feel comfortable in sharing their most vulnerable selves with you is amazing ❤ Thank you Lucy for opening up and sharing this.

  • @JulilyBet
    @JulilyBet 8 месяцев назад +7

    Hearing someone I have grown up admiring open up about alcohol is so important and necessary. It helps for people to hear so thank you, Lucy so much. I am fighting it everyday and still struggling to defeat it. Everyday waking up saying "today is the day, I'm confident" and then you just instinctually go to the liquor store and cry the entire way. Even when you want to be rid of it, it feels like you can't. Praying for everyone else that is fighting it.

    • @ashleighshaven
      @ashleighshaven 7 месяцев назад

      I totally agree! That "crying all the way to the liquor store" feeling hit me hard. I'm definitely having some struggles.. but it helps to know we're never alone. ❤

  • @jenbrownbeauty
    @jenbrownbeauty Год назад +7

    Katy Keene was one of my favorite shows! Still very sad that it got cancelled. I appreciate Lucy’s honesty ❤ love seeing her on screen

  • @Lucy.232
    @Lucy.232 Год назад +1

    By far my favourite episode! Thank you for sharing your story, Lucy ❤️

  • @mamasgun21
    @mamasgun21 Год назад +5

    I’ve always loved Lucy Hale. I always sensed a kindred spirit with her. So wish her well and happy that she is in such a better place

  • @palomazacca
    @palomazacca Год назад +13

    This interview touched me in many ways. Very relatable even though our paths are different. And like Lucy said you created such a safe place for people to be vulnerable and share some of their darkest times that yet leads to such a beautiful place. The journey to inner peace is so beautifully different for everyone yet it bonds us as humans and it sheds light for others on their paths.

  • @ZachPincince
    @ZachPincince Год назад +3

    This was a really fantastic interview 🙌

  • @rachaelfry7780
    @rachaelfry7780 Год назад +6

    Loveeed this podcast! So much of what Lucy said really hit me, as I relate so much to those feelings of no self worth or self love. I’m so glad she’s at a place where she is more at peace and accepting towards herself! So much respect to her! Thank you lucy for sharing this!

  • @Genesis2091
    @Genesis2091 Год назад +8

    I’m only 15 minutes in but I adore her so much. I relate to her feelings and thoughts as a kid, feeling things deeply, taking on the responsibility of others feelings, being very empathic, and growing up feeling like where she was wasn’t where she belonged, always in her head, and the reason she was attracted to acting. I’m almost 32 and still feeling like there has to be more to life, I still feel like I don’t know where I belong, not really having friends or having a hard time making them, really valuing my solitude but wishing I could be more outgoing because there’s a love for acting because it allows you to be more of the ways you’re too scared to show others. I feel like so many people experience this, and everyone always thinks it’s just them. This is already really powerful and beautiful. I’m so glad she decided to do this and be so vulnerable. Love the calmness and that you allow her to speak fully without interrupting. 🥹

  • @SuccubusSahara
    @SuccubusSahara Год назад +24

    Not even a third of the way through this, but it is so relatable in many ways. Whenever celebrities come out to open up about their own life experiences and traumas they are helping SO many young girls and women who look up to them and see them as the ideal of “perfection.” Being able to be transparent and sit in front of a camera, exposing your raw, authentic self, knowing that what you are going to say is going to hold so much power and responsibility is such a beautiful thing. Being transparent about how they have felt growing up in the public eye, being an icon and a prototype of what beauty can mean in Hollywood and to all us outsiders looking in. Thank you for opening up to us, Lucy. Also gave you guys a like and subscribe. :)

  • @bri-bristhoughts9616
    @bri-bristhoughts9616 Год назад +3

    Thank you for sharing! Thank you Lucy. I can feel everything you are saying.

  • @WanderlustButterfly
    @WanderlustButterfly Год назад +3

    Finally a real and honest interview! So refreshing! Thank you both!

  • @nenaquarry9751
    @nenaquarry9751 Год назад +2

    wow this episode is incredible. i love lucy so much and relate to her on so many of her struggles.

  • @gabrielakcedeno
    @gabrielakcedeno Год назад +3

    I’ve always loved Lucy. I relate to her on so so so many levels… from not feeling like I truly belong to battling an eating disorder. These things are so heavy and take so much strength and self compassion to unpack and begin healing. I’m so proud of her ❤

  • @Zantemakeup
    @Zantemakeup Год назад +42

    I’m not familiar with her work but I’m so proud of her for pulling through and giving encouragement to others.

  • @wordswrittenbyme2109
    @wordswrittenbyme2109 Год назад +3

    I have been a fan of Lucy's since pll. So I'm so glad and thankful to have found this and see her open up.

  • @johannahelena
    @johannahelena Год назад +9

    I love this woman. Inspiring and down to earth. Thanks for your videos and how you interview people, letting them speak and share their experiences and thoughts. It definitely helps to grow and give hope.

  • @sarasilva9599
    @sarasilva9599 Год назад +13

    This was a great conversation. The way Lucy's open about her struggles and the way she can word it all so well!

  • @solosalvo.5444
    @solosalvo.5444 Год назад +10

    you're doing great work, I love these warm, deep and meaningful conversations about life, a fresh prospective and chill background. keep on killing it, love from italy

  • @samjones7038
    @samjones7038 Год назад +6

    Lucy was by far my fave actor on PLL she is an amazing person too, to overcome all this and be humble and kind, love her

  • @hannahm2144
    @hannahm2144 Год назад +12

    This podcast was so interesting, we definitely need more education around alcohol especially in the UK. I’m also 1 year sober and 33 so her story really resonated in many ways. I think binge drinking culture and the fact we associate so many occasions good and bad with alcohol is a recipe for disaster. It’s really helpful I think for people to see examples like this and know they have a choice. Alcohol doesn’t have to define every social occasion or be used as a tool in replacement of actually working through emotions.

  • @madisonrose1893
    @madisonrose1893 Год назад +4

    I teared up so many times, what an amazing episode and wonderful human being that is Lucy Hale 🤍✨ Wishing her all the best and all the love 💖

  • @jayjaydaily3932
    @jayjaydaily3932 Год назад +4

    I love that she shared her story it all resonates so much. I give her so much credit!!

  • @rhondafamous56
    @rhondafamous56 Год назад +3

    Amazing episode! Just subscribed. So proud of Lucy! ❤❤

  • @SP-kz6ti
    @SP-kz6ti Год назад +8

    I’m 23 now and dealing with the exact same issues and coping mechanisms. I cried because I understand it so much. Thank you Lucy for your honesty and beautiful words. I hope that in ten years I can be like you too and talk about it all of it the same way. ❤

    • @dmgo
      @dmgo Год назад

      Same here .. I wish you good luck!

  • @estynaty2002
    @estynaty2002 Год назад +14

    She is definitely a HIGHLY SENSITIVE person, it would help her a lot to look into this, there are lots of books written about this and would make her understand so much of what she was and still is going thru , it puts everything in perspective.

  • @camivegakk
    @camivegakk Год назад +5

    Im so happy for Lucy. She's so brave. Im sure she's helping someone by speaking about her. I love her more now.

  • @theallergyathlete
    @theallergyathlete Год назад +4

    This is easily the best podcast on the internet. 18 mins in and couldn’t wait till the end to say this. Thank you 🙏🏽Keep up the incredible work

  • @youknowwhatimsaying9228
    @youknowwhatimsaying9228 Год назад +6

    I’m so glad that Lucy shared her life story with us and even more happy that she here today❤️

  • @breannaalbiero1421
    @breannaalbiero1421 Год назад +8

    I love her so much. She has such a beautiful energy & the person she’s became/becoming is so reflective, authentic & aware. She truly is beautiful inside and out.

  • @stellaborges
    @stellaborges Год назад +5

    So much love for her ❤