Why YOU Should Dress Modestly
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i’m all for modesty… but women shouldn’t dress modestly bc of men.. We should dress that way because that’s what we feel comfortable with
100% dress modestly for yourself. But are men in the wrong for appreciating that??
Don't get married to a man
It's not about men the point is the attitude when you're wearing the item and you're thinking I look sexy then that is not modest or this makes my whatever look good. That is what other people are going to think even males believe it or not. They are humans too. You dress for the attention you want if you think you look sexy in something, then others have more of a chance to think so. Hope this helps you understand just a bit more!!
I think the key here is what are you attracting. As a man I can say that some men are just pigs. Those are not the men you want. but dressing provacatively will attract those pigs more than not. If you are looking for a good guy, it may also warn them off if you are dressing provacativley as they are probably not looking for that type of girl.
Well, many might think that a good guy/gal shouldn't judge someone based on what they wear. It's character that matters after all. Assume nothing. Dont jump into conclusions. That's the logical thing to do.
People can wear whatever they want. I understand that the average person loves to negatively judge people's appearance, either consciously or not. But, it takes a introspective and thoughtful person to question this behavior and overcome that. It takes a strong mind to be aware and fight against their own biases. What's more beautiful than being a genuine person who can love someone unconditionally?
I agree. Whenever I see a girl dress provocatively, it is a telltale sign for me to stay away from engaging in a serious relationship with them.
Women dress and always do dress with intention, so they know exactly whether they’re getting attention or not. And from my experience, I rarely see good men courting a provocatively dressed woman because they know it’s not worth it
@@absolutechadd8895 I respectfully disagree. In fact, I disagree with you because you contradict yourself in your own argument. Unconditional love is what we’re all looking for in terms of a long term relationship. However, I, as a guy, can tell you that clothes are a large part of this. Oftentimes, if a woman dresses “modestly” (I hate this word but I guess I’ll use it for this) it shows guys that she believes her personality is her best trait, and she values it as such. That is an awesome thing to see for a guy who is looking for a long term relationship. Sometimes, when women show more skin, it makes that kind of guy worry about having a relationship built on attraction rather than real love, a kind of relationship that never goes the distance time wise. You can apply this logic to anything: excessive make up use, showing skin, inflection of the voice (valley girl voice), etc.
All of these things can be used to infer (not confirm, but infer) that that woman doesn’t see their personality as their best trait. Now, I know that my personality is my best trait (I’m trying to start working out) and I conduct myself as such. I don’t act like a f*ck boy or do one-night stands, because that isn’t me.
Thank you! Very well said!
I think the real issue here is assuming that girls want the attention. Most girls dress in a way that they like and feel comfortable in (unless they’re dressing in a way to impress) mostly ignoring what men think and just wanting to look nice. I’m the type of person to not really “dress up” unless there’s someone I’m interested in. Which makes people think I’m more a modest type, but I don’t do it to get men’s attention.
Thank you for saying that..
I was called a creep by another woman because i believe that women should be modest.
If a woman is choosing to not be modest, she's chosen to dress that way and is seeking to get attention from men, and unfortunately in the wrong manner.
Yes but where is the line? I hear this talked about all the time, but what is “modest”? Everyone always takes it to extremes one way or another.
Either you’re a nun or a stripper. Are my elbows or ankles immodest? Are thick strapped tank tops immodest? How short can my skirt be before I’m less than human? What about skinny jeans? Can women wear pants? A form fitting top? Can you show your hair? If you can, what about loud hair colors? Can makeup be immodest? High heels too high?
Who decides this? Because I feel like it should be up to the person who is dressing their own body and not everyone else.
This. But you know how conservatives are. Always stuck in the mud. They never consider different perspectives. I know women who have felt disgusted with their bodies because they were always pressured to hide their bodies so much. Just live and let live. Sheesh.
In my opinion, dressing to draw attention to our beautiful faces is modest. With the way clothes are designed now, it may take some creativity to think outside the box or world culture. Loose t-shirt over a tight fitting tank top or a tank top under a low cut shirt that will prevent showing cleavage, leggings under a shorter skirt, a long loose shirt with skinny jeans, a flowy long clover up over a too tight dress. These ways may flirt with modesty because it is such a challenge to make modesty happen now, but it can be done with a determined mindset.
Everyone and no one decides what's modest, same with many culture dependent things. I don't like this argument. It's enough to look around at people and get a gist. Plus, healthy people have an innate sense of whether they look like a show off or not. Don't pretend we don't. And in a normal situation, when unsure if something is too sexy, people ask others and collectively come to a conclusion quite fast.
Modesty is about knowing you are a gift to be given to a special person. 😊
right because covering myself makes me more desirable but the point is to not draw attention or be desirable. My bodys a temple, or to put it more simply, its a temple but its also MY body.
@@user-db3mh3wj4b don't worry. Your personality will repel most people. c:
This is compatible with Islamic philosophy
i dont want to attract any men, and my purpose when going out is not to find someone to marry. i just want to wear something that doesnt give me heatstroke on a hot day
Shorts and dresses can still be modest 🤷♀️ Yall really reach for your arguments against her, it's fun to read the comments
@@bleechrcreechrr glad that this is fun for you but i don’t understand how my body is inherently sexual. just because im showing skin doesnt mean i am trying to get any mans attention
@@felicity1111 Apparently it's ok to view your body as inherently sexual because men are wired to sexualize women. It's the man's world after all!
It's one thing to be attracted, and another thing to see someone as a mere object, based on assumptions made from their appearance ALONE. It says a lot about one's personality.
U are the same person who wear sunscreen to protect ur skin from sun but u can't dress modestly to cover ur body from the sun
@@felicity1111 Feminist Liberal vibes.
Dress the way you like - leave others alone !
Ive noticed I was toxic and had a lot of misconceptions about love. I took a year to work on myself and become a better man for those who are in my life. Now I notice the tasteless women who lust after the material items I possess but can’t say hello and keep up an interesting conversation.
It's fun to dress the way you want without being judged by people who can't mind their own wardrobe. (On a side note, in Mozart's "classical" time, ladies dressed wearing lots of cleavage and without panties.)
Amount of cleavage exposed depended on the type of dress as high society had different dresses for different occasions and different times of day. and while they .ay nit have had what we call underwear, they most certainly work undergarments, so no idea what you're on about
@@bleechrcreechrr I'm on about that maybe people shouldn't be judgemental or puritan regarding the amount of skin a woman shows and that sexuality and indeed eroticism does not preclude class or elegance.
@@ludovico6890 Nothing she said was false. If you choose to dress promiscuous you're most likely not going to find someone who wants something long term. If you want hook ups that's good because that's all you'll get. And I'm not sure what planet you live on but on Earth, in just about every culture showing a lot of skin does in fact preclude you from being elegant and classy. And you have you're right to do that, it's just weird you want to claim it's something it's not
@@bleechrcreechrr You're piling up gross generalisations over arguments from ignorance. Different people have different criteria for finding long term partners. And showing skin does not even equal being sexually promiscuous. And I don't think "just about every culture" on earth considers lingerie trashy, but the burqa and the niqab classy. Maybe it's my Latin side talking (no, Latins don't come from another planet), but the very existence of lingerie pretty much disproves your claim. Heck, the Venus de Milo or any bloody painting or representation of the Greek goddess pretty much show that one can be nude and classy, with the right body. Every culture indeed! Jesus Christ at least be accurate when you spout platitudes!
@@ludovico6890 ....lingerie is worn in private lmao, that's the point. The majority of people would think it was trashy if anyone wore it in public. Same with promiscuous clothes. This whole convo is about what you do in public lmao lingerie is an awful example
“If you dress like a sex object be expected to be treated like one.” I’m sorry, what sex objects do you see women as? Plastic blow up toys? Handcuffs? Vibrators? If you see a woman embracing her sexuality as a healthy part of her and think “she’s a sex toy”, YOU are the problem not her.
This is coming from someone who dresses modestly and has been repeatedly told I dress like a forty year old despite being in my early 20s. I’ve just always preferred to dress that way. Doesn’t make me better than someone confident in their skin and wants to show it off. There is no reason to try and put other women down to make yourself seem superior. That’s being catty and the opposite of classy.
Edit: As I have repeatedly stated in this comment thread, I was sexually harassed at work while wearing a professional blouse, jeans, and tennis shoes by man old enough to be my grandfather. Per her logic, I should have been treated “like a person” and I wasn’t. Therefore, the blame doesn’t lie with what you wear, it lies with the person sexualizing you.
In case you haven’t noticed, there are plenty of men out there that have a problem with sex and objectifying women. If you dress a certain way, you will attract those men.
I accept the responsibility of being respectful, however why wouldn’t you think you had to adopt the responsibility of dressing appropriately? If you dress like a Harlot you are unfortunately inviting unwanted attention. That’s also your fault. Not everyone is as respectful. There are creepy perverse individuals out there. Keep that in mind before abdicating your responsibility of dressing modestly. Don’t tempt your fellow man.
@@MikeKaz02 I was sexually harassed at work by an old pastor when I was wearing a professional work blouse, jeans, and sneakers. I’ve had people turn and stare at my behind in grocery stores when I’m wearing the same level of non-revealing clothing, too. It does not matter what I’m wearing, that I’m plus sized, or that I’m young enough to be their granddaughter. I am living proof that what you wear does not change anything. If a man wants to sexualize me, he will. So that entire argument is invalid.
her argument isnt about thinking. men dont think, when they watch your deep clivage, your exposed thighs, or your tight fitting materials on your breast and ass.
The question is, do you want sex to be the first thing a man imagine when looking at you ? because thats what you get, including some crazy and dangerous men that you dont want to attract, while the men you want to attract might see you as a one night thing.
A lot of words to justify dressing like a harlot
Finally a women without judging or supporting stupid so called "alpha man" who keep complaining about woman for dresisng up to her taste she's being asking for it, actually tells even explains it rightly i mean she's the perfect example of modest and kind and intelligent woman, rather than complaining about not to dress sexy and all, she explains why she should be comfortable as she is and be proper person taking care of environment too
People are free to dress however they want, but please don't bash others who may not adhere to your version of modesty. At the end of the day, who defines modesty & why is it something that's mostly imposed upon women? Modesty may be perceived differently in different countries, cultures & individuals. You are conflating clothes with morals. Morals depend on the person's actions & thoughts, not on some fabric .
In France, sunbathing topless is the norm, while in Iran women must wear a hijab 24/7 in public. Some people might be wearing clothes which you may feel reveals a tad bit too much skin, but they don't have any intention to be immodest, they might just be feeling hot. I hope you are not as judgmental towards others 🙏.
She’s not Judging anybody, she’s just giving advice. You don’t like it, then don’t listen.
@@angelmarrero1360 I don't know if you have watched her full length videos of her where she called women who choose to not dress according to her sense of modesty as low value, sad, attention-seeking & promiscuous. Check out her video on Madonna vs Nancy Reagan.
@@angelmarrero1360 she is judgemental. have you not watch the full length of her videos? she implied that if a woman does not dress modest, she has no value.
im not dressing for a man, i dress for myself.
@@tanya7360 I’ve watched enough of her videos to know that she’s right. Men look at you a certain way by the way you dress. It’s Facts. if you don’t like it, why are you here?
@@tanya7360 Don’t be offended with her views or opinions as we are all allowed to express our different views and opinions.
You really need to make more modest fashion advice!! I'm 18 and I'm choosing to dress in a classic way, I could really use some fashion advice from a stylish woman like yourself.
If you want modest fashion maybe Abby is not your best bet dear. I watched one of her modest fashion videos and the beige Bermuda shorts she was showing were see through 😂😅 I am not a modest expert but see through trousers are trashy AF.
@@WitchPaper1 What’s trad-kink?
@@BioBioLove The feminist liberal programming runs deep, why can't women use a beautiful dress? Women used to wear them for hundreds of years up until 5 seconds ago
So true! Thank you! I know from experience that you are 100% telling the truth here! This is what I want to teach my daughter.
Well she is 100% not right because I used to dress more than she is dressed in this video and still got unwanted attention on buses and outside.
Extra layers of clothes doesn't mean protection against rapists.
No matter what you wear I want someone to respect me period
I dont think you understand the basics of respect. Respect can not be demanded. It’s EARNED
It used to be considered “inappropriate” to show ankles 😂. Appropriate clothing is arbitrary based on culture and time period. This woman feels she is superior to other women. She is pitting woman against women. Why not judge women on their character, not based on how they look? Certainly God would approve of that message wouldn’t he?
Men need to treat all women with respect no matter how they look. Don’t you dare make excuses for their bad behavior toward women. This is just another toxic example of victim blaming. Are men “hard wired” to cheat too? It must have been the woman’s fault huh? Because she was born with a body that’s too “tempting” ??
Take a look deep inside and ask yourself why you judge so harshly based on appearance. We are all born naked with beautiful bodies.
Agreed❤
Based opinion. You have the ability to look at the bigger picture.
The funny thing is that despite Abby dressing modestly, some men still sexualize her, which shows that dressing modestly doesn't really help.
@@spicewilliam9786 it does help some
@@ashmirecringe no it doesn't
Uh oh! “H0e’s mad!”
Fr, they tell men how men should not judge them from what they wear, while what they wear is exactly what they are😂
❤❤ I'm looking for a woman like you
Why do you care so much about what other women dress. If I a child sees a woman in a crop top I really don't care so theres no "protecting the children here" when children don't care how women and men dress
This is just an advice you take it or throw it away it is your choice
Naive.
It’s inspiring to see how much trash talk you put up with and still stick to your guns!
yeah and we are sticking to our guns too in the comment section. If she keeps yacking we will keep flacking. We will straight up force her to hire someone to remove all of our common sense that keeps leaking into and getting upvoted in every comment section of her videos. Or she could just keep getting obliterated for everyone to see, honestly it's funny either way.
Yet her entire channel is trash talking people who don’t live their lives like her. 🙄
@Rebecca Russell, that's true. I respect Abby for having the courage to defend her conservative views & ignore trolls who apparently live empty, unhappy lives 😔
@@lg6002 Me too!
I love how she assumes we are all straight and only care to please mem
Great words, great thinking.....👍👍👍
I love you and you’re brother. You guys are an living example!!!! Keep it up. Don’t let people bring you down.😍😍❤️❤️❤️
shes right you know
Totally agree with u 👍👍👍👍👍👊
It’s presumptuous to assume that we dress to attract men. We’re not all out here with our 1950’s mentality trying to catch a man. Some of us just don’t want to. Some of us don’t want to make it our whole personality to be married. Some women like their freedom. Being married these days is a joke for most. I know women married for 20+ years who’s men left them without indicating anything to be with their coworkers and others they’ve met while being just what you’re trying to promote. The world isn’t that way anymore and not shifting with the world is going to leave lots of unhappy women behind. Ladies, do what makes you fulfilled. You want that career? Work hard and go after it. You want a family? Go after it. Protect yourself and your finances. Make sure you have a cushion to land on if it doesn’t work out. If not being married fits you then that’s good too! Don’t listen to Internet personalities who have a one track mind and a very narrow view on the world. Some of these influencers don’t live in the same reality as the rest of us. They live in their own bubble.
I agree and disagree because though many people may feel like they have been put down by this women however, she has shown great examples and she showed this video for the first place as just an idea meaning it’s showing she is not applying any pressure to anyone so if you feel that you are being put down by this women well it’s not actually true and you are feeling a negative feeling for absolutely no reason also I would like to address to you why women for example Islam wear modestly for example a black man (I’m African so this isn’t racist) wears a bandana a balaclava puts his trousers down and is on a electric scooter keep in mind he’s doing this in a place of high security system because of the crime rate, later on this man get taken to the police for interrogation later ok his career/mum/dad calls him and asks what happened the person who calls is angry and asks if he’s trying to be foolish when he knows what has been happening in the past with all the crimes and all of the police would have been on the look out for anyone who may be a suspect of being in a gang etc why would that man do all of those things and knows he may get in trouble and he knows that something may happen yet he still does that that man is just like us women and the police are the man, if you treat you self with the right attitude and respect you need you will get it with a man who isn’t JUST looking for your face and body.
Me, me ,me. Don't worry, ladies. With that attitude you won't have to be worried about your husband leaving you. You'll never get one in the first place.
@@AS-yz2izlol so true. These ladies just dont get it
I wish i could genuinely sit down and discuss this topic with girls because i have serious Modesty and Morality dilemma issues
For those who have asked what is considered a modest garment, here are the basics. Shoulders and upper arms are covered as is the entire torso. The cleavage is covered, but you can wear a shallow v-neck or scoop neck. If you wear pants, the crotch should be covered. Dresses or skirts should come to the knee or below. Some communities have stricter standards. HTH. ❤
You are so right. Modesty is for everyone. I’m so happy God helped me with that. Thank you for you video
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i honestly really like to show off my arms and my legs because i’m quite muscular. i also run super hot and i sweat a lot so the less fabric, the better. it’s about the intent behind the clothing. i’m not trying to draw attention to myself in a sexual manner, i just want the hard work i’ve put into my body to be noticed while also not overheating.
i dress the way i feel pretty and powerful and i'm even a muslim
Your make-up looks natural & beautiful
Sparkly eyelids is considered natural looking? No hate to her, she can wear whatever she likes/prefers and it does look good, but I find that statement very surprising
@ Karina, I'm talking about the earth tones. The shade of her lipstick & blush are a soft color as well as the shade of her eyeshadow, even if it's glittery it's not a loud color. Stay blessed 🌷⚘
@@karinagutierrez7134 eye makeup can be extra. Hers looks good. But the rest of her makeup looks natural.
@@dookie7299 TLDR Edit: Make up users define natural makeup very differently from the other commenters in this thread. I never implied it looked bad or was too much, again, I wear very similar makeup to her when I decide to, but if you Google “natural makeup looks” you’ll see people who don’t really look like they’re wearing makeup, but you can see the beige, brown, and pink tones if you look closely. Brilliant sparkles do not make the cut. Nothing wrong with wearing sparkles, but that’s not what a “natural makeup look” is.
I originally commented half asleep and gave WAY too much detail so hopefully this helps.
@@karinagutierrez7134 idk what any of this shit means, but I think she looks good. Shes not wearing too much makeup, because she is already a beautiful woman.
Sorry Abigail, I don't dress as good as I do for the men, I dress for the women.
In turn you please men. Modesty is power.
@@factsactually They don't care about what men feel or think about them, lol.
@@factsactually no.
I dress for the women too. Cuz im gay
@@factsactuallythey aren’t sayin they don’t dress modestly, they are just saying that they are into women and not men like the video said lol
There are many perks when it comes to dressing modestly. Here are some I can name:
1. Age appropriate for all ages
2. You're more likely to attract the right crowd
3. Dressing sexy requires more creativity. It's easy to simply flaunt skin and breasts, but with a more modest outfit, you can focus on other aspects, such as shape and silhouette. Sometimes, the idea is more exciting than leaving little to the imagination.
This is so true! I absolutely love this.
I agree 💯
when you say that we should dress to leave stuff the imagination, you are implying that men are instantly imagining me naked. and that that is all they care about. is that what you think?
@@felicity1111 Read the first sentence in my 3rd point very, very slowly before you attempt to manipulate my argument.
@@aisling7540 why does it require more creativity? and i dont see how that links to what ive said
Has anyone ever mentioned to you that blind men exist? What's he gonna look at? The silhouette of your shadow and go "ah yes...my modest woman with whom I fell in love with for her sense of modest fashion."
He won’t fall in love of a slt who wants attention from random men either
I just don't see how you're unable to see the irony in saying all this while simultaneously wearing a face full of presumably expensive make up and having your hair done. You're still trying to make an impression based on looks over character, just as someone who might wear a low cut top would. Your goal is to look desirable and be noticed. And that's fine, it's your prerogative. But many people wouldn't consider you modest at all.
@@crazycavalier4821 She's wearing a ton of makeup and her hair is definitely done up. She literally makes makeup videos. Who are you deluding here?
There's a difference between looking attractive and looking provocative.
You can dress modest and still attract the wrong type of guy.
Abby is the best, and everyone used to know and understand this to be factual. But men have corrupted women to think that showing off your body is powerful 😂
Shouldn't you be able to tell if somone is a little bit interested in you as a person instead of just interested in your body? Dress however immodestly you want, the only thing that you need to do is get better at is recognizing if they actually are interested in you. This logic applies to all everyone regardless of their sex.
😂 Zero awareness of biology.
I was actually hoping you were going to show what dressing modestly as a woman looked like.
I think half the people commenting on here don’t have a clue as to how men think. Wait until they get some real experience in how men work, then they’ll get the point of what Abby’s saying…
Love this ❤️❤️
I wish my friend watched this.
As a man this has gotten out of control please if your a women long dresses skirts no yoga pants.
How about we just change the mindsets of those types of men 🙄
@crazycavalierWhere in biology does it say men are rapists?
It's a part of men that are rapists and perverts that have to be though a lesson with harsher punishments and worst imprisonment.
They type of men who are attracted to women? So you want them all to be gay?
@crazycavalierexactly. Thank youz
Don’t change yourself. At least that way good men won’t choose you
The thing that bugs me the most about the conservative mind is the lack of nuance. Having respect for yourself and others is about way more than how you dress. "Modesty" isn't actually about how much skin you show. I wear a flattering one-piece suit to the beach and no one would accuse me of being immodest, but if I wore that suit to a funeral imagine the fall out. I live in a modest home. What does that mean? My house is not flashy or showy, but is warm and welcoming. Are you kind? Do you take an interest in others? Do you have manners? Are you polite? Those attributes say a lot more about you than what you're wearing.
So you run around in basically naked on beach. lol you ain’t modest
Your body is going to be on the forefront of his mind anyway. It’s not even a choice but I get what you’re saying.
You're absolutely right
I agree!
I agree wholeheartedly. On another note, your glitter eye shadow is so pretty.
I dress the way that makes me feel good. I don't care what anyone looking at me thinks.
Whatever cope makes you sleep at night
If it made you feel good would you wear a bikini to a job interview? Who cares what people think, right?
@@Sbock86at work, I get paid for my time. My employer says the rules for the people they pay.
When I'm not at work, my time is my own, and I dress however I want. The other day, I answered the door wearing a T-shirt and panties because that's what I was wearing at home. I wasn't going to put on extra clothes just to answer the door.
I don't wear a bra except to work. If you have a problem with seeing me on a tank top and shorts at the grocery store, that's a you problem.
@@Sbock86 the skimpy clothes doesn't make them feel good. The attention because of skimpy clothes make them feel good. It's in female nature to be ignorant and lie. We all know the truth but still lie to ourselves by thinking "ah but what if what she says is true and she's not a attention ho". She is a ho, clothes do define you
My daughter 12 wants to wear shorts and sleeveless (which she never liked before) due to peer pressure. Can you please give any suggestions on how to tell her she doesn’t need to do that. We are kind of mildly modest people.
What then is modesty according to the Bible. Because I'm sick of people telling me ‘dress like this’, ‘dress like that’ and so on. Show me from the Scriptures the attire for a Christian.
Biology is destiny, choose whose words you listen. Wear what flatters you, is comfortable, and that you can afford. Plenty of people, so luck to all love seekers.
What bothers me here is that Abby implies that if you don't dress in a way that she approves of, you are less worth to here. Typical high horse aristocrat behaviour.
i dont really get that vibe. i just think she's giving advice from her persepective. whether you choose to act on that opinion and advice is entirely your choice.
@@spaceranger7674 she'll just sneer at you if you don't
@@spicewilliam9786 have you seen her do that in real life?
Someone's projecting.
@@AS-yz2iz i don't judge people based on what they wear.
Very good! So well stated. I didn't understand this nor follow it until recently. Whats really interesting (and sad) is that it's so common that women dress provocatively, that it's very noticeable when a women is dressed in a feminine, modest way.
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Never thought I’d agree with her but I do agree, Modesty is beautiful
But so is freedom of expression so of course everyone should dress how they feel authentic to themselves (within reason)
my style is kinda boho chic PLUS modest 💟🙌.
You're literally js supporting men who blame women for their clothes after assaulting them
No, this is talking about the advantage of dressing modesty it doesn't matter wether you dress modesty or reveling you can get assaulted. As I said in the start this about the advantage when you dress reveling your going to get attention even if your not looking for it your for it you're sill going to get it, when you dress reveling it attractive people you don't want because (example) if you dress goth who are are you going to attractive goth people(example end) also bass on how you dress is how people going to perceive you they going to guess your personality and how you act when you dress reveling people are thinking your personality and how you act it's the same for modesty, people who are looking for a one night stand who do you think they go to. You can dress how you want to but you must remember the risk comes with it, it is the same for modesty just remember the things I write in this comment and what she said in the video might seem like we are pushing down women down who where reveling clothes but it is not the case it is an advice an advice you can take or throw it away
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How does a type of clothing determine how much respect you have for your body? The more skin/revealing, the less respect you're showing your body? If God gave you a body to be proud and not be ashamed of, why not? What if being notice and desired is what makes a woman happy?
God also told Adam and Eve to cover their nakedess. If you want to cheapen your body by showing it off to everyone, don't expect anyone to think it's anything special, since you don't.
Sadly alot of women don't know this
There is so much truth to this.
Yea i never understood why a lady would act mad when she gets stared at while wearing the shortest shorts available lol. Plus not to mention the amount of ladies online, who are with someone, that still post more than tasteful things. Theres no way all those dudes are cool with it. Then again in todays world, you never know i guess lol.
Excellent, Abby 🫶 (you look fantastic btw! 😌)
I actually agree with her on this, but it’s not the woman’s fault if she dresses “sexy” and a man thinks of her as a sex object. Dress how you want, ladies. If you’ve got a great body, wear that bikini to the beach and know we’re all jealous. If a gross man stares, that’s not your problem.
You missed her entire point.
say it louder for the ignorant conservatives!!
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@@afluffypinecone3577 She is stating her opinion, nothing else, and I get it. I just don’t agree completely
@@afluffypinecone3577 that was her point. she's saying that women have no value if they dress immodest and thats wrong. a value of a woman/man comes from the heart. not what is on the outward appearance. even if a woman is fully clothed, a man can still rape her. thats how it is.
this woman told no lie
People get mad at her but my self defense teacher told us the exact same thing.
But keep in mind that sexual assault is a serious problem in nursing homes.
Thank you, ma’am, for putting such thoughts out.
THANK YOU!!!!!
You are so right Abby!!!
Imagine being this frigid lol
Wearing appropriate clothes is now frigid? Lol.
Preach! 🫶
She’s definitely doing a good job of preaching the trad-kink! 👍
i dress to make myself happy,
Why are you here telling anyone how they should dress!? Ladies, let’s dress however the fuck we want to. How about that
How bout THAT?!
Hoe mentality
It is an advice an advice you can take or throw away it is your choice
@@kim-cxxxA useless advice since I get attention no matter how dressed I am and so do other girls.
Society focus on blaming women for rape because society was run by men, so instead of changing for others society has to focus on enforcing law by giving harsher punishments such as life sentences for such crimes.
Rapes is worst than murder and you have to live with the thought of how it physically felt to be forced to take someone's thing in you and how it all happened. And some even get infected with STDs and impregnated on purpose.
An extra layer of clothes won't save a woman or girl that can't defend herself from a pervert who's intention is to rape her no matter how she's dressed. So let's stop with this ideology of covered up means safety from rapists, it doesn't.
How incredibly mature of you.
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Wisdom 💯
It’s true. ❤ Modesty is beautiful.
Maybe YOU should let people dress how they want?
She said a really good thing, and you are immediately saying that she is forcing people how to dress. Unbelievable
Maybe there should be regulations because dressing like a prostitute in a public area where there are children is immoral.
Doesn't matter how modest you dress. We still love you on Reddit. Your brother, not so much.
I love this. There is so much power in respecting yourself and not giving it all away by wearing little clothes! She's right.
Same video done by men......and see all feminist get triggered
True
im not dressing like a sex object by showing my body. my body is not inherently sexual.
Thank you!!
How naive are you?
Well go watch a youtube video on why men are attracted to breasts sexually. So now you guys are going to fight biology too?
Ur thinking about immodest women wayyy too much my man, kinda gay
Wish all women were like this. Also fuck the haters.
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It’s pathetic how women feel empowered by showing off their bodies…seriously? And then they go on about being treated like objects….
Abby,
If you were ever being chased by a pack of gougers I would throw myself in front of them so you can have the chance to run away and survive
Amen :)
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Thank you for putting this information out there!
Yeah see they're not gonna hear your point, all they're gonna hear is "its all men's fault I should be able to dress like a stripper and attract giga chad"
most men that behave like this are manlets like shapiro not even remotely handsome and likeable.
Exactly babes
dress for yourself don't listen to this woman lmao wth
Yesssss
Shes right, you know.
She’s right though, if you walk up with a crop top and booty shorts you may think people actually care what you say but they don’t. They only care about your body
@@exchiBut it's not our fault, I'm not going to change the way I dress, people have to EDUCATE themselves and respect what others wear, period.
@@mariamariiu You can't change a man's nature with education, men are biologically wired to seek sexual satisfaction, and what better way to do that than visually with scantily clad women out in public? When it comes to marriage however, I want to marry someone who is modest, a lady who knows her value and self-worth and keeps her clothes on.
This woman is based. Good values the same way as her brother. God bless them and their family.
Yeah- like those spanks/yoga/leggings that are all the rage with girls these days are really about dressing ‘modestly’ too. 😂😂😂
Amen!