I'm going to stop being a B*tch // EP 13 - Pretty Lonesome

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2023
  • Madeline is joined by her dog Bugs for this episode as they ring in the New Year together. Madeline starts out by telling a scary story of how Bugs almost died recently by eating a candy cane off the Christmas tree. After it was lodged in his throat (plastic and all), Madeline rushed him to the vet where he was fed four courses of charcoal and seen by poison control. A large heap of money later, Bugs is thankfully now back to normal.
    Madeline also shares that she is against the idea of traditional New Year’s resolutions as she believes that resolutions are a toxic mindset. She thinks that you should instead have daily or monthly resolutions and goals that you should think about every day of the year rather than just once per year. Madeline’s first goal for 2024 is to start actually using her gym membership. She admits that the only reason she has gone to the gym this year was to use the gym shower while hers was broken.
    Madeline’s next few goals for the year include cooking for herself, writing in her diary again, and no longer lying to her therapist. Cheers to 2024 and another year of Pretty Lonesome!
    Follow and connect with all things @PrettyLonesome across Instagram, TikTok, and RUclips.

Комментарии • 179

  • @alexiavaccari4986
    @alexiavaccari4986 6 месяцев назад +225

    my new year’s resolutions are :
    • get in touch with my feminine energy
    • start therapy
    • take more care of myself ( in every aspect)
    • start going to the gym
    • put out my first song

    • @nikagantar2699
      @nikagantar2699 6 месяцев назад +17

      mine:
      -to not be so much in my head but more out of it
      -be again social
      -start therapy
      -have more actions than thoughts
      -and love myself unconditionly 💖

    • @mellowblueu
      @mellowblueu 4 месяца назад

      @@nikagantar2699my exact same resolutions

  • @MusteSR
    @MusteSR 6 месяцев назад +48

    She's about to go on a generational rant and I'm here for it lol

  • @alicebouraoui204
    @alicebouraoui204 6 месяцев назад +209

    I have to say Madeline, as an ADHDer I have recently realized your podcasts have been the absolute BEST cure to ADHD paralysis ! For some reason it feels like we’re body doubling and it’s amazingggg so thanks x

    • @JoaoFerreira-rz2tj
      @JoaoFerreira-rz2tj 6 месяцев назад +2

      How do people with ADHD work Jobs that require attention?

    • @Aredpoint
      @Aredpoint 6 месяцев назад +3

      She's just sitting there wdym body doubling? I thought if you want to get your of ur paralysis you need someone active with you

    • @user-pl6gv4bm8h
      @user-pl6gv4bm8h 6 месяцев назад

      @@JoaoFerreira-rz2tjjust something we have to work around, I’ve found taking breaks and breaking bigger jobs down to smaller more easy to tackle jobs has helped me tons

    • @shackles5850
      @shackles5850 6 месяцев назад +18

      @@JoaoFerreira-rz2tj we find jobs that fit our interests to keep our attention, or we get incredibly burnt out trying to force ourselves to work with something we're not interested in.

    • @kezziahhh
      @kezziahhh 6 месяцев назад

      @@JoaoFerreira-rz2tjmedication was the only way for me😭

  • @inzy13
    @inzy13 6 месяцев назад +31

    the more i watch you the more i feel like you're my friend, and literally like doing a facetime it's really sweet!

  • @elisazouza
    @elisazouza 6 месяцев назад +60

    We need an apartment tour!!! ❤ even your podcast area looks so good! So glad bugs is okay

  • @emiliaroos
    @emiliaroos 6 месяцев назад +6

    how have we never thought about new month resolutions before this ?? you are a genius fr

  • @elizc9179
    @elizc9179 4 месяца назад +4

    The way the dog sleeps at the end 😭😭

  • @bethhs9637
    @bethhs9637 6 месяцев назад +14

    I would’ve read the “oh!” As her being pleasantly surprised that you listened to her so much

  • @lillia.c
    @lillia.c 6 месяцев назад +69

    i can’t wait a whole year for this

    • @debbiefiuza
      @debbiefiuza 6 месяцев назад +1

      This needs more likes.

  • @kayc1357
    @kayc1357 6 месяцев назад +37

    Honestly love this woman

  • @Emstensonn1
    @Emstensonn1 6 месяцев назад +9

    “ I guess I’m just new here” 😅
    I have same problem coming off rude
    “Adjust your manners based on where you are “ so wise

  • @eustaquiozambrano2974
    @eustaquiozambrano2974 6 месяцев назад +1

    Merry chistmas and happy New year! You too. ☄🌟☃🎁🍷🍾👏👏👏👏👏👍
    Amazing English videos.
    Thank you so much

  • @dangerluvzzzz
    @dangerluvzzzz 5 месяцев назад

    i literally love this channel and podcast oh my god... the part where you were talking about your friends "Stinky" bf had me dying laughing. Never stop posting these madeline!! this is my ultimate comfort podcast i've never related so a person so much!

  • @Dreamer30190
    @Dreamer30190 6 месяцев назад +5

    New years is a fresh start ! Kinda like holidays it’s a dedicated day to set intention so I love new years ❤

  • @simayawaller4970
    @simayawaller4970 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love the fact I can keep up with your words & it’s only because you speak incredibly fast lol

  • @like.lauren
    @like.lauren 6 месяцев назад +38

    I have to wait until the new year?! 😭 So excited!!
    Happy holidays Madeline!

  • @Alicia_mcc
    @Alicia_mcc 6 месяцев назад +23

    I love how relatable you are seriously😂❤️

  • @danielt2738
    @danielt2738 6 месяцев назад +1

    Le meilleur thérapeute c'est vous-même, il n'existe pas de médicament pour vous soigner, vous êtes un médicament à vous seule. Tu es émotionnelle mais tu vis tout de toi. A force de voir on finit pas voir ce que tu veux dire mais ce n'est pas facile. Merci à toi Madelineargy. The best therapist is yourself, there is no medicine to cure you, you are your own medicine. You are emotional but you live everything about yourself. By dint of seeing we end up seeing what you mean but it's not easy. Thank you Madelineargy.

  • @GeorgaaJGarcia
    @GeorgaaJGarcia 6 месяцев назад +1

    The loop of dogs walk is very relatable.. get up to walk the dog then back to sit and rot

  • @lakecityransom
    @lakecityransom 6 месяцев назад +5

    Its kinda crazy how we end up mute for years from confusion and burnout. Same thing happened to me and now nobody would expect it.

  • @Chelsitaa
    @Chelsitaa 6 месяцев назад +2

    Ur anxiety’s like mine i relate on another level but I can’t change 😂

  • @yeahnah4303
    @yeahnah4303 6 месяцев назад +24

    What morbidly drew me in to your podcast was your crazy ex and mental health stories! Would love to hear more.

  • @user-jz5cm4rr2g
    @user-jz5cm4rr2g 6 месяцев назад

    Happy new year my princess 💐

  • @mikaylalove301
    @mikaylalove301 6 месяцев назад +7

    I am so particular with food, and it really annoys my partner, but I honestly would rather go without than eating something that's texture or taste I don't like. My eating habits make it so hard to eat out or get takeaway. 😭 I so feel you as well, sometimes it's just to much effort to try and make my own food, trying to motivate myself is just too hard 🤷‍♀️

    • @MargaretBelle
      @MargaretBelle 6 месяцев назад

      same but I would5say I'm picky eater 😌

  • @nycyg
    @nycyg 6 месяцев назад +1

    the saying hi part is so real omg

  • @ettiswafa24
    @ettiswafa24 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love her smmm 😭

  • @pmvale
    @pmvale 6 месяцев назад

    Love you, Madeline

  • @Jade-jx6jz
    @Jade-jx6jz 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love her too much

  • @user-jz5cm4rr2g
    @user-jz5cm4rr2g 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love you so much Madeline ❤❤❤❤

  • @imogeninnit
    @imogeninnit 6 месяцев назад +2

    Praying for bugs

  • @lk3517
    @lk3517 6 месяцев назад +1

    Being on ft with Madeline💕💕>>>>

  • @laurenastill01
    @laurenastill01 6 месяцев назад +6

    Pretty lonesome> therapy😅💕

  • @YOUTHIE.
    @YOUTHIE. 6 месяцев назад

    i freaking love your youtube channel

  • @amalaraj6177
    @amalaraj6177 6 месяцев назад +4

    As a dancer (and in no way an osteopath) the issue w your knees may be that your quads/leg muscles aren't strong enough yet to like support your body doing a leg workout so your knees took all the stress of it

  • @sn0wangel04
    @sn0wangel04 6 месяцев назад +26

    Tbh, it doesn't matter that people think you're rude. As someone who tries hard to be kind and naturally is so, i have decided to not be good.
    People are petty for calling u out on not saying hi. i never call people out on that cause i immediately assume that they r probably shy or awkward, or maybe they r not in a good mood
    Or going through something, so no, i don't think that you should change anything.
    U deserve someone who is going to understand you without you speaking. people feel so entitled about every single little thing about eachother it's just so stupid.
    As long as u know that u mean well then that's all u need, if all u do is mind your business then why worry?

    • @talitamedeiros6567
      @talitamedeiros6567 6 месяцев назад +3

      exactly. I'm always worried and anxious about not seeming rude because I'm very shy but now what I want is to accept it

    • @sn0wangel04
      @sn0wangel04 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@talitamedeiros6567 if people think that you're rude for no good reason then they're just insecure and initmidated, it's their problem not ours.

  • @faithharding8052
    @faithharding8052 6 месяцев назад +7

    okay slay queen have a good chrimbo x

  • @patchouli1500
    @patchouli1500 6 месяцев назад +14

    Found out i had adhd this time last year and started meds and it was the most easy balanced organized year of my life ✌️

  • @rajmathew6220
    @rajmathew6220 6 месяцев назад +2

    She left looking for another candy cane in the beginning

  • @mool7267
    @mool7267 6 месяцев назад +5

    YOU STARTED THE WORLD DIDNT END TREND????

  • @verkanntoderverwunschen
    @verkanntoderverwunschen 6 месяцев назад +3

    the lighting and colors in this setup are so beautiful!! so glad she's okay what a nightmare so good you caught that she ate it was fully expecting it to be overcaution not stuck in her throat 😨 those jump-ups really are so precious. love a weirdly specifically personal win feel like those really are the most important and can't always be intended for (feel like that's because often relationship dynamics play a part in this maybe). think it's so good to know we all have an inner bitch in a sense? i get kind of frustrated when people act above having their inner bitch slip out. think sometimes not knowing better is to some people like an encounter with ones inner bitch too but am also working on not "losing sleep" over where i wish i was more of my ideal but just wasn't and didn't have access to the perspective(s) necessary to be. also micromanaging quirks?? so destructive even if there may be troubling interpretations of those, is a big workaround issue for me right now this micro-behavior pick-apart shame?? such a waste of time and nerves but seems in too deep to be a "resolution" goal haha. that head-back sleepiness of bugs healed something in me i think 🫠

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 6 месяцев назад +3

    Well, we all have our own personal reasons for bitching around. Though we can always do something to improve our attitude and perspectives on life.

  • @terryootubeytube
    @terryootubeytube 6 месяцев назад +10

    You did keep a diary of this year with all your vlogs in your car! You could be your own therapist and take some time to watch your 2023 back like a last year recap and take notes but then again that would be like looking for a needle in a haystack as you try to extract some wisdom without going into meltdown from putting a microscope on yourself so in hope of finding those bits just write down now what you think they are and maybe the diary can be the important points you want to summarise from your vlogs and experiences.

  • @daynabrennan4259
    @daynabrennan4259 5 месяцев назад +2

    having someone talk about food ocd is so comforting because it’s so scary and debilitating and not talked about enough
    thank u madeline ❤️❤️

  • @flieya6957
    @flieya6957 6 месяцев назад +3

    no way you started the “my world didn’t end when i was …. “ trend😩😩. I love this trend so much omg thank you.. I wonder what people mean when they say this.. what do you guys mean?

    • @nouanni
      @nouanni 6 месяцев назад

      for me I thought it was about feeling hopeless and probably very pessimistic at 17 and sometimes assuming your life will always stay that way and then getting older and (happily) realizing you were wrong

    • @flieya6957
      @flieya6957 5 месяцев назад

      yes same :)@@nouanni

  • @Lol_amber22
    @Lol_amber22 6 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @kristinmiller4264
    @kristinmiller4264 6 месяцев назад

    You should get a personal assistant to help fill out forms, walk the dog, cook, etc.

  • @owenkato956
    @owenkato956 6 месяцев назад +2

    think that's a Cancer sign thing. Being of those crabs, I have to work on it, too--like talking back to people and engaging instead of mass aloofness/shyness.

  • @johnweichel4238
    @johnweichel4238 6 месяцев назад +1

    Happy new year

  • @zooowie.mamma333
    @zooowie.mamma333 6 месяцев назад

    Bugs at the end 😭

  • @whatkeepsmeupatnight5636
    @whatkeepsmeupatnight5636 6 месяцев назад +1

    🤣 you‘re hilarious

  • @Moominteapot
    @Moominteapot 6 месяцев назад

    Isnt it ironic with adhd , they expect us to fill so many forms, constantly updatinf with blood pressure, weight, having to log in websites with 60 hoops security passwords to jump through, i xan only just about brush my teeth, couldnt do it and fhr medication just triggered my health anxiety soooo bad

  • @ouss
    @ouss 6 месяцев назад +10

    When Central Cee coming on the pod?

  • @ravenn532
    @ravenn532 6 месяцев назад +3

    You should try swimming! Very low stress on the bones and actually quite difficult it gives you possibly the best workout

  • @akamper8140
    @akamper8140 6 месяцев назад +3

    Where is your sweatshirt from? Sending lots of love x

  • @robertmueller2023
    @robertmueller2023 5 месяцев назад

    Family Reunion 2022 in Star Wars Town? Lots to share.

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk 2 месяца назад

    Sure! “ Let’s Pack ZHalf The Suitcase Each, And Share Lumpin It

  • @jadeocallaghan
    @jadeocallaghan 6 месяцев назад +2

    my goals are: make more friends. go to the gym. get better clothes. get a job. get an apartment. get my drivers licence. learn to do makeup

  • @user-rt2fk3ck2d
    @user-rt2fk3ck2d 6 месяцев назад +2

    Have you checked the possibility that you have social anxiety? Because I have and you describe exactly how I feel in social situations

  • @themischa
    @themischa 6 месяцев назад +4

    She’s so ENFP

  • @kaekae385
    @kaekae385 6 месяцев назад +1

    omg i can so relate with selective mutism as a child

  • @carlozmrc
    @carlozmrc 6 месяцев назад +237

    8 days bruv you’ve got to be mad

  • @rajmathew6220
    @rajmathew6220 6 месяцев назад +4

    Come to NYC and go on a date with me if you're still single

  • @JP-zk7ye
    @JP-zk7ye 6 месяцев назад

    Ohh Maddy

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk 2 месяца назад

    Yep, Mandy, Zellick’s In

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk 2 месяца назад

    Rise Above it And Fly Maddie

  • @Farhaan_Enigmatic
    @Farhaan_Enigmatic 6 месяцев назад

    2024 🎉

  • @alanahjade27
    @alanahjade27 6 месяцев назад

    9:55 stop i relate so deeply i seriouslt suspect i have adhd

  • @bynumwilson1755
    @bynumwilson1755 6 месяцев назад

    I love youuuuuuuuuuu!.

  • @cinnamonrollss
    @cinnamonrollss 6 месяцев назад

    Mai Pham hoodie yessssss ❤

  • @Sunrise-Horizon
    @Sunrise-Horizon 6 месяцев назад +1

    Lol, I didn’t know you were. 😂

  • @BiancaEliza-bonks
    @BiancaEliza-bonks 6 месяцев назад +3

    😭 8 ? Blaah the waiting game is cruel

  • @tindraakerlind9748
    @tindraakerlind9748 6 месяцев назад +2

    does anyone know where the hoodie is from? x

    • @littlerose1122
      @littlerose1122 6 месяцев назад

      it's Alchemai but this was one that wasn't sold

  • @mariewitzke9689
    @mariewitzke9689 6 месяцев назад

    Anyone know where to find her hoodie??

  • @bamangpupu7993
    @bamangpupu7993 6 месяцев назад

    What was bugs eating around 3:50 , looked like a Rope to me

  • @pamelahernandez9986
    @pamelahernandez9986 6 месяцев назад

    Alchemai !!!!

  • @user-cm9xt4ru2f
    @user-cm9xt4ru2f 6 месяцев назад

    Madelineargy Happy New Year! I want to be true to myself.

  • @lilasayers9298
    @lilasayers9298 5 месяцев назад

    where is your hoodie from madz

  • @ghostingclay
    @ghostingclay 6 месяцев назад +5

    is this implying that this is the next video we re getting 😭😭😭

  • @emilyelizabethlol
    @emilyelizabethlol 6 месяцев назад

    real asf

  • @may6569
    @may6569 6 месяцев назад

    standoffish... i get that way sometimes too.

  • @LeslieMartinez-pz2un
    @LeslieMartinez-pz2un 6 месяцев назад

    OMG REAL ME TOO

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk Месяц назад

    Shall we continue The Tripoli’s?😂❤

  • @thijsjong
    @thijsjong 3 месяца назад

    Find someone who takes you through the proces of getting ADHD medication.
    And also maybe a friend wants to cook with you. Cook for several days at a time.
    Put meals in frost and microwave resistent containers and put tuem in the freezer.
    So you can cook every 4 or 5 days.
    You need to have a manager to get through every day life.
    Executive function is my worst problem.
    All the chores, organising, tidying up cleaning
    Alll the tedious boring tasks. Ugh.
    I can only use Welbutrin due to heart rythm operation. It will take a while to kick in.

  • @foreverjustice33
    @foreverjustice33 6 месяцев назад

    Girl workout at home !! I have the same issue I watch RUclips videos for Pilates ❤️ you don’t want bad bones when your older my GMA had them

    • @XxpopstarXx1
      @XxpopstarXx1 4 месяца назад

      I have bad bones do you have any vid recommendations for very out shape beginners ?💕

  • @jessiejcnes
    @jessiejcnes 6 месяцев назад +1

    THE AMERICAN ACCENT SCARED ME

  • @jorlliee
    @jorlliee 6 месяцев назад

    i heard weight lifting is suggested to ppl w arthritis but i've always been skinny so i'd avoid it..BUT if you ever get into it goodluck

  • @gabi-kd8nv
    @gabi-kd8nv 6 месяцев назад

    why did gracie just say oh😭

  • @user-sv8xi5cy1k
    @user-sv8xi5cy1k 6 месяцев назад

    I miss that authenticity in your's Video!

  • @victoriavessells
    @victoriavessells 6 месяцев назад

    I just uploaded my first RUclips video inspired by you! Except it’s not as good… and I’m new at this… but yea!

  • @jaelynmckenzie7852
    @jaelynmckenzie7852 6 месяцев назад

    1k god damn that’s cheap for America my moms dog cost 4K for one night and she didn’t even swallow anything we just found out she had diabetes 😂

  • @noodle3851
    @noodle3851 6 месяцев назад

    dawg why are people on tiktok saying you don’t shower😭😭

  • @amberbees9257
    @amberbees9257 6 месяцев назад

    ✨2024 the plot ✨

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk Месяц назад

    Tripeosis Successful , Madeline

  • @chickenabulas4673
    @chickenabulas4673 6 месяцев назад

    omg 6:18 meeeeee

  • @jrcs0866
    @jrcs0866 6 месяцев назад

    u should do more vlogss

  • @C_hud
    @C_hud 6 месяцев назад +5

    Video is coming next year and 7 people are waiting wft

  • @lylah6697
    @lylah6697 6 месяцев назад

    Mads ur faded af in this 😝

  • @StephenBelcher-sr3zk
    @StephenBelcher-sr3zk Месяц назад

    Tripeosis Successful Madeline

  • @lucygogoliuk
    @lucygogoliuk 6 месяцев назад +2

    Maybe you are high masking autistic like me xxx I relate to all of this 💕

  • @Arolynn
    @Arolynn 6 месяцев назад

    On new year??😭🥲