Cesar Explains How To Fix Separation Anxiety With Your Dog

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  • Опубликовано: 16 май 2024
  • Have you been dealing with separation anxiety with your dog and are not sure how to deal with the problem? This is a major issue in 2020 especially with how many of us, if not all have been stuck at home, but soon will be out of the house more. What does this mean for our pets especially dogs?
    Watch this video on what this mean and how to fix separation anxiety with your dog explained by Cesar Millan. Cesar goes over the issues that may cause separation anxiety and how to fix it. Throughout the video, you will learn how to address this problem through visual training demos by Cesar.
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  • @xserena13x
    @xserena13x 3 года назад +8440

    My dog follows me inside the house nonstop but I guarantee you if I accidentally let go of his leash he’d run off to the sunset without a second thought 😅

    • @dogsareboss
      @dogsareboss 3 года назад +301

      So much for them "following you to the ends of the earth". X

    • @xserena13x
      @xserena13x 3 года назад +244

      @@dogsareboss that only applies when I’m inside the house apparently haha

    • @theweirdcrystalgirl2485
      @theweirdcrystalgirl2485 3 года назад +140

      Husky? Lol sounds like my husky

    • @xserena13x
      @xserena13x 3 года назад +61

      @@theweirdcrystalgirl2485 if it’s mine he’s a German shepherd/Labrador mix

    • @daniellecalvaresi8769
      @daniellecalvaresi8769 3 года назад +29

      Same 😂

  • @GinjaNinja88
    @GinjaNinja88 3 года назад +1887

    The moment when you realise Cesar Millan is now training millions more humans than dogs.......mind blown!

    • @danielrodriguez9778
      @danielrodriguez9778 3 года назад +42

      He always has

    • @princess_reaper
      @princess_reaper 3 года назад +50

      He's a dog behaviorist. He never trained dogs. He explains the dog's behavior to humans so they can understand how to communicate with them

    • @GinjaNinja88
      @GinjaNinja88 3 года назад +12

      Would you say the joke was partly or entirely lost on you? 😂

    • @precisionbrown6829
      @precisionbrown6829 3 года назад +10

      Sean Briggs finally someone opened humans eyes to the love and dedication dogs give us ❤️

    • @GreyPunkWolf
      @GreyPunkWolf 3 года назад +17

      @@princess_reaper He does train dogs. It's just not the core of his job, nor is it the core of any behaviorist. They are specialized in the human to animal relationship, but still are able to train or educate dogs. In a matter of hours actually. The humans are way longer to train and educate that's the issue most behaviourists face lmao

  • @user-rs4gi3lo5x
    @user-rs4gi3lo5x 2 месяца назад +141

    I'd like to see this done with a dog that is experiencing separation anxiety already, This dog appears well trained calm & not anxious one bit.

    • @danasaunders5997
      @danasaunders5997 2 месяца назад +20

      You are 100% right! This was a waste of time! Working with a trained dog to show what the end result should look like is fine for a minute or two. The bulk of this video should be training a dog and its owner that has anxiety issues!!! This was just "Showing Off" a well trained dog. No value!

    • @saragotze8466
      @saragotze8466 2 месяца назад +6

      Atom 123 RecaII

    • @saragotze8466
      @saragotze8466 2 месяца назад +6

      Google the phrase I posted above. It's an excellent post on how to keep your dog calm by using emotional control exercises. They work really well for separation anxiety.

    • @lhans1368
      @lhans1368 2 месяца назад

      ​@@saragotze8466 is there a link you can post? I googled the phrase but I couldn't find anything about dog training.

    • @tallassjasminee_
      @tallassjasminee_ Месяц назад

      Agreed

  • @jodidaane4592
    @jodidaane4592 3 года назад +1999

    I love how you explain WHY the dog does/feels what he does. It really helps to be more patient with them rather than getting annoyed.

    • @ElGaymer2001
      @ElGaymer2001 3 года назад +24

      Yeah.

    • @miamalone2398
      @miamalone2398 3 года назад +22

      Absolutely.

    • @precisionbrown6829
      @precisionbrown6829 3 года назад +23

      There’s many people that don’t have patience and just give up.
      That’s when you don’t get a pet
      Children? You need patience with kids. Same scenario

    • @meditationpure3985
      @meditationpure3985 3 года назад +2

      You can not for any reason in the world miss the video of this sweet kitten
      ruclips.net/video/GnXwszGIfKY/видео.html

    • @delaneythomas843
      @delaneythomas843 3 года назад +10

      @Nancy Bernard explain it then please

  • @janetfolkerts5827
    @janetfolkerts5827 3 года назад +529

    I'm a senior and have a little terrier, I take her with me shopping, and everywhere. 24/7 we are together. Last evening I had to attend a meeting that she was excluded from for approx. 2 hrs. for the first time in over 6 months we were separated. I came home she has scratched at my door and door frame to the point of damaging her paws, it broke my heart and it took me the rest of the evening to calm her down. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experience.

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 3 года назад +26

      So sorry you had this experience that was so upsetting and made you feel guilty for going out.

    • @KJtime123
      @KJtime123 3 года назад +14

      Stay strong with your dog ❤❤
      Its a sign he loves you

    • @sophiealice7999
      @sophiealice7999 3 года назад +11

      Hi Janet, I Hope you’re okay?! Just curious how have you been getting on with your little terrier I have a Jack Russell terrier too his 10 years old I’ve had him since he was eight weeks old and I’ve always lived at home with my family so there’s always been someone home now I’ve moved out and it’s just me and him when I go to work he cries and barks non-stop :( I have a doggy camera so I can see him he just doesn’t sit still!! I’ve tried leaving the radio on distracting him with toys and chews, tiring him out with walks first and tried to take it in stages leaving him five minutes at a time and nothing seems to work :’( xx

    • @jinnyhong5615
      @jinnyhong5615 3 года назад +7

      @@sophiealice7999 I actually have the same problem as you! I also have a Jack Russell terrier and he is 9 years old and cries when he is alone in the house when I look through the camera. I've also tried the radio, toys, and lots of exercise, tiring him out. I recently moved out too and my neighbors are starting to complain because of his cries. I live in a small apartment so I don't really have a lot of room to do this exercise with my dog :(

    • @iowagreen8932
      @iowagreen8932 3 года назад +7

      In the 80's -- i.e. before the internet -- I had a dog with separation anxiety, and I hit on the idea of letting her spend the days with a neighbor's young dog who also was unhappy being left alone. I confined them in my kitchen with plenty of water and newspapers on the floor. There was quite the mess to clean up but her big grin when I got home made it all worthwhile. Eventually the neighbor moved away but my dog was cured of her anxiety then so it worked out.

  • @kyrareneeLOA
    @kyrareneeLOA 3 месяца назад +58

    Please do more of these separation video. More with other dogs... not your dogs.

  • @nealeorinick1700
    @nealeorinick1700 Год назад +18

    My son’s lab had terrible separation anxiety so I took the easy way out. I bought a huge kennel and adopted him a friend. Now they hang out in the kennel together when we have to leave and he is calm, never tries to bust out or chew up the tray. Ha! Not a solution everyone can use, I know. Worked like magic, though.😅

  • @aguilarj89
    @aguilarj89 3 года назад +2507

    I don’t think my dogs has the anxiety separation, it’s me.

    • @MrNibac80
      @MrNibac80 3 года назад +24

      hahahahahahahaha

    • @kathyerb3134
      @kathyerb3134 3 года назад +72

      Your anxiety is transferred onto the dog, they can sense it

    • @maxkim7937
      @maxkim7937 3 года назад +25

      it's like boxing then, go to your corner and wait

    • @alllifematters
      @alllifematters 3 года назад +53

      It's me too. I love having my dog next to me. I worry about him when I'm not with him

    • @ToxicAfricanKing
      @ToxicAfricanKing 3 года назад +3

      Lol

  • @CesarMillanOfficial
    @CesarMillanOfficial  3 года назад +1784

    Thank you for watching! Let me know what you think of the video and what else you would like to learn. Wishing you a week of safe, peace, and love. ❤️

    • @ZP916
      @ZP916 3 года назад +34

      Cesar Millan something I would love help with is easing my dogs fear at the vet. It is the only place she becomes 'rock bottom' level of fearful. Thank you Cesar!!♥️

    • @amb_TV
      @amb_TV 3 года назад +22

      @@ZP916 I agree with you. We need some instruct on dealing with Vet visit anxiety.

    • @prinegonbevaris1788
      @prinegonbevaris1788 3 года назад +32

      @@ZP916 Have you ever tried visiting the vet, without her getting a treatment? Just go into the waiting room, give her a reward (or even better, if your vet agrees to give her a reward) and then leaving again? Breaking up the routine, that vet means unpleasantness should change their behaviour a lot.

    • @jadenlester7861
      @jadenlester7861 3 года назад +15

      Hi cesar my dog is an emergency case because he has some really bad behaviors that are really dangerous for others dogs and people can you please help me and I called your center and I never got a call back

    • @Panda-ud9su
      @Panda-ud9su 3 года назад +9

      so helpful, Mr. Millan!! we're going to back to our jobs so we'll leave our dog Morgan alone soon; thanks for training us! 👍🏻

  • @nanettemoseley293
    @nanettemoseley293 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you so much for sharing your great understanding of dogs with everyone. You are gifted and your shows are a blessing!

  • @toshannadaniels6120
    @toshannadaniels6120 Месяц назад +6

    Really needed this. Just started doing this with him and he’s catching on.

  • @jamedraa8472
    @jamedraa8472 3 года назад +353

    That Cesar pillow is everything.

    • @qdllc
      @qdllc 3 года назад +6

      But a little disturbing...who made it....?

    • @emsans5904
      @emsans5904 Месяц назад

      😂

  • @JoskiiWoskii
    @JoskiiWoskii 3 года назад +775

    This is why Cesar is the best. With people slowly transitioning back to their regular schedules, the timing of this video is amazing. Thanks so much!

    • @mcrapser6821
      @mcrapser6821 3 года назад +16

      Joseph Dizon it could not be in a better time frame could it! He is the best

    • @mcrapser6821
      @mcrapser6821 3 года назад +19

      Being so recent and understanding about social distancing and always being home with your dog, the time will come when we do have to go back to our regular lives and our dogs need to understand it better. I learned a lot today and I’ve had dogs my whole life

    • @Cranknfodder
      @Cranknfodder 3 года назад +8

      He’s great.

    • @beaceballos_
      @beaceballos_ 3 года назад +8

      True. My dog used to be calm when we left for work, now he stays crying a bit behind the door when we leave. 😢

  • @RogerMunoz-ci7it
    @RogerMunoz-ci7it 16 дней назад

    Thank you Cesar. The love of my life is a work of constant struggle. But, I leaning from you. I'm fallowing your advice too.

  • @icecold8974
    @icecold8974 Год назад +162

    This is why I set boundaries. My gf thinks I’m mean but she doesn’t understand. I make them sleep in their own beds, I don’t constantly cuddle them or allow them to follow me everywhere. They are very well behaved and friendly dogs.

    • @tommyt813
      @tommyt813 Год назад +59

      user name checks out

    • @heathermarie7030
      @heathermarie7030 Год назад +16

      @@tommyt813 😂 lol

    • @nathpolido9964
      @nathpolido9964 Год назад +10

      We have same situatuon.. My gf thought I was cruel with our beagle but I just want our dog to be developed and get out of separation anxiety

    • @icecold8974
      @icecold8974 Год назад +3

      @@nathpolido9964 well done, it’s important.

    • @samwdavis
      @samwdavis 11 месяцев назад +2

      Well done. Cesar is focused on being a TV star. He doesn't show the dirty part. By dirty part, I mean what seems inhumane to humans but means leadership that dogs are hungry for as dogs. He always shows things at a macro level after success rather than the daily work that goes in at a micro level. He is EXCELLENT at training dogs, but he really does a rather poor job of educating humans how to relate to their dogs. You have it right! I encourage you to delve into the world of TRUE balanced dog training. I think Cesar practices balanced dog training but presents more of a positive only approach to be popular, showing results without showing methods. You are definitely on the right track and your approach is definitely more compassionate and loving to dogs that those that criticize you for being cruel. Keep up the good work!

  • @ToxicAfricanKing
    @ToxicAfricanKing 3 года назад +583

    Cesar is simply the best. I could listen to him talk about dogs all day.

  • @mayis3070
    @mayis3070 3 года назад +177

    The tips are amazing, but I’m distracted by how much I like that gorgeous home.

    • @pinklacelady
      @pinklacelady 3 года назад +4

      Love the dark green sofa!

    • @fusion451
      @fusion451 2 года назад

      it would take an army to keep it clean

  • @Sacredsaucemusic
    @Sacredsaucemusic 24 дня назад +3

    I don't do single dogs anymore. I get so much more out of my dog's love for each other and watching them play. I can leave knowing they are content in each other's company and I return to such a calm, content energy. I'd never go back to having a single dog.

  • @julietaylor1663
    @julietaylor1663 Месяц назад +4

    This is one of the most informative and instructive videos I've seen on this issue. I have referred back to it many times, and I've passed it along to pet parents I've been training, as well. Thanks for taking the time to play this out for us so we can gain a knowledge of how to successfully treat separation anxiety - and, just as important - what the thought process is that the dog is going through. Very thorough and helpful.

  • @jimmorales9796
    @jimmorales9796 3 года назад +188

    my favorite dog trainer in the world

    • @EdieBrown
      @EdieBrown 3 года назад +9

      Dog psychologist. The first...the only.

    • @MunchieMix25
      @MunchieMix25 3 года назад +5

      Same!!! Or as he would say "Dog walker and human trainer" haha

    • @genesiskravitz8621
      @genesiskravitz8621 3 года назад

      Edie Brown, PhD yes!! I agree with you

    • @devdonedidit
      @devdonedidit 3 года назад +2

      he doesn't train dogs, he trains people. Literally says it in the first few minutes lol

    • @jimmorales9796
      @jimmorales9796 3 года назад

      @@devdonedidit i know that but his title is the best dog trainer in the world and he also said that. it's his dream and he made it now. what can you say

  • @Blitznstitch2
    @Blitznstitch2 3 года назад +975

    My dog with separation anxiety is the one I had to chase down the street to come back.

    • @annaaiko868
      @annaaiko868 3 года назад +46

      Exactly. Literally did it 10 minutes ago. 😂🤣

    • @lost8257
      @lost8257 3 года назад +13

      Same

    • @fabm4252
      @fabm4252 3 года назад +10

      Happen to me today. 😂

    • @katiesteele6181
      @katiesteele6181 3 года назад +3

      😂😂

    • @AbundantlyHappyLisa
      @AbundantlyHappyLisa 3 года назад +59

      according to Caesar in a different video, the dogs that BOLT out the door, away from you, are the ones that don't get enough exercise and they think this is their only moment so they take it and run!

  • @Capped-virus
    @Capped-virus Месяц назад +1

    Been a long time since I’ve watched Cesar as 12yrs ago I found his techniques too harsh and without enough praise when the dogs do the right thing. Found this video very helpful and I’m happy to see he’s learnt better balance himself.

  • @mandisolk
    @mandisolk Месяц назад +1

    Brilliant. Thank you so much 🙏❤️

  • @marvinaviles2593
    @marvinaviles2593 3 года назад +198

    So I watched this for the lesson, I will watch again and again to admire and take design ideas from his home

    • @BekindRewind71
      @BekindRewind71 3 года назад +3

      That's funny! We were just saying the same thing! Not super keen on the green couch though.

    • @redsloane879
      @redsloane879 3 года назад +3

      His home is so beautiful!!

    • @TheDavedevil619
      @TheDavedevil619 3 года назад +2

      Flex 😂😂

    • @marthapalermo1914
      @marthapalermo1914 2 месяца назад

      I have one of those too. Can't catch her and won't come to anyone. She'll come home but won't come Inside until she's ready.

  • @nateontiveros2953
    @nateontiveros2953 3 года назад +56

    Holy cow!! It actually worked. My dog has been suffering with separation anxiety for the last few months. She always is chewing on things she’s not supposed to and we have to put her in the crate when we leave. Today we left her out and did your tricks. And for the first time she did nothing! She was laying down on her bed where we left her. Gone for two hours. Thank you so much I appreciate it!!

    • @messenger144000
      @messenger144000 3 года назад +1

      That is wonderful!

    • @kevinprime6795
      @kevinprime6795 3 года назад +3

      Very encouraging news! I'm so proud of you buddy!!
      I am a new dog owner.. but have been taking care of dogs with my family. I currently live on my own and it's been super lonely without anyone... So I decided to get a dog.
      This is day 2 and I'm trying to crate train and everything... The separation anxiety is a hefty battle.. :/ hope I can have the success you do! :)

    • @kingkongkoda
      @kingkongkoda 3 года назад +2

      @@kevinprime6795 youre doing great! You’ll get it one day. All about consistency! Don’t give up ☺️

  • @dianahenderson6049
    @dianahenderson6049 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you you have given me so much valuable information for her new puppy.🐾🐾

  • @auridavis6332
    @auridavis6332 Месяц назад +1

    This helped so much thank you ❤i cant wait to work on it

  • @donvandenberg5301
    @donvandenberg5301 2 года назад +297

    My dog was abandoned out in the middle of nowhere, near my workplace. He was sitting on the side of the road, and my daughter and I eventually got him to come to us. We didnt have a place to send him, so he hung out with me in my loader and latched on to me. Now I can't even leave him home with my wife. He sits and whines and howls all day until i get home. He has to go to work with me every day. Luckily I work somewhere that is cool with it. The guys at work love him and the daughter of the owner of the company actually went out and bought him his own safety vest with the company logo on it.

    • @LAKSHMIANGELES
      @LAKSHMIANGELES 2 года назад +26

      WOW LUCKY YOU, HOW NICE!
      BUT STILL IT WOULD B WISE TO START TRAINING HIM SLOWLY BEC U NEVER KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN TO U AND THEN HE WOULD SUFFER EVEN MORE.
      ✌️💚☮️💟

    • @Mikrokozma33
      @Mikrokozma33 2 года назад +11

      Same. I have my own company, so I can take him with me in office, but when I have meetings, or when I travel, I leave him at my parents, where both of us lived for few years. He is OK with that, but he suffer a lot, and when I came back from vacation he is mad for few days. 🙄😭

    • @jgdesigner
      @jgdesigner 2 года назад +10

      Beautiful story! I did rescue a pet from the streets with my daughter too. My daughter was 5 years old and told me: Daddy, this dog has not family, we have to take care of her.
      Long story short, after 7 years, this dog is the most loyal and lovely pet ever.

    • @benflores3936
      @benflores3936 2 года назад +4

      Bless owners who treat his workers this way 👍

    • @1down4up78
      @1down4up78 2 года назад +1

      I love this! How much treats per hour is he paid? Good job, hope you both live a happy life sharing each other’s companionship.
      Stay safe!

  • @IIblackwidowII
    @IIblackwidowII 3 года назад +10

    Exactly what I need! My dog barks a lot whenever we are out from the house after we’ve been on lockdown for 3 months!

  • @aaronwatchestuff
    @aaronwatchestuff Год назад +7

    Cesar is the absolute best!

  • @user-ct4qb6bp9s
    @user-ct4qb6bp9s 20 дней назад

    Thank you Caesar for all your good work and and training people really good

  • @Stoney_Eagle
    @Stoney_Eagle 3 года назад +164

    I am ALWAYS telling my dog "I'm going grocery shopping" or "I am going to visit a friend"
    She KNOWS, and she just goes on the couch on her own.

    • @weewoox
      @weewoox 3 года назад +22

      Aww you're dog is so smart. For my dog, all I do is say bye and he gives me puppy eyes so I dont leave

    • @merichamarais9539
      @merichamarais9539 3 года назад +8

      Nobody should be alone. Its cruel in my eyes

    • @Stoney_Eagle
      @Stoney_Eagle 3 года назад +10

      @@merichamarais9539 I know right... But sometimes life happens. I still believe my dog rather likes having breakfast and dinner than me being with her at all times 😂😉

    • @ralphkbauer
      @ralphkbauer 3 года назад +4

      Luckywise more and more companies allow to bring the dog to work

    • @sanjogh777
      @sanjogh777 3 года назад +3

      My dad told me that when I was a child. I have never seen him since then.

  • @Hootyhoo-jq9vq
    @Hootyhoo-jq9vq 3 года назад +46

    Cesar has done so much teaching people how to treat dogs. Dogs are sentient beings. Love them.

  • @lauraduffy6177
    @lauraduffy6177 День назад

    Thank you Caesar for another wonderful video. You rock. ❤❤❤

  • @JBO-qg3op
    @JBO-qg3op 19 дней назад

    Thank you for your expertise!!!

  • @beautifulwolves
    @beautifulwolves 3 года назад +3

    Cesar!! You did it! You helped me to train my dog!! I love you! Thank you! ❤️

  • @andrewhuskey5889
    @andrewhuskey5889 3 года назад +15

    This was a perfect explanation of how the dog understands being alone!

  • @jarrah2007
    @jarrah2007 2 года назад +148

    Around 5:15 he starts to talk more about how to start training for separation anxiety. In case if no one wanted to see the intro

  • @GoodmorningStarshine.
    @GoodmorningStarshine. Год назад +66

    I just tell my dog that I have to go to work and he instantly goes into chill mode. We're kind of inseparable otherwise...he's crazy intuitive, loyal and trusting. Can't express my gratitude enough for him. ❤

    • @ericalewis1084
      @ericalewis1084 Год назад +7

      How did you do that?... I'm trying to get my dog to be cool when I'm away at work. I'm a new dog mom.

    • @tommyt813
      @tommyt813 Год назад +5

      I do DoorDash. So, it’s not regular hours. Sometimes I may be gone from 8 to even 12 hours at a time. And other times I’m back at the house between every order.
      As much as I know he doesn’t like being locked up, if I said, ok, I’ve gotta go, he’d go straight for his cage. And then he started to differentiate between the body language of me getting ready to leave, as opposed to getting ready to take him outside. Then it eventually got to the point, if he heard the alert from the DoorDash app, he would run to his cage.

    • @lauraraines4140
      @lauraraines4140 Год назад +1

      I do the same thing ❤

  • @BobMinelli
    @BobMinelli 3 года назад +5

    MUCH LOVE from Wisconsin my brother.

  • @dancingnancie423
    @dancingnancie423 3 года назад +4

    Gorgeous house and invaluable advice.

  • @chelseajason
    @chelseajason 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is so helpful! Cesar, you're a true animal healer, probably human healer too!

  • @crystalsfordays
    @crystalsfordays 2 года назад

    Came for advice and loved seeing all the beautiful crystals!!! 🥰

  • @brainofkjf
    @brainofkjf 3 года назад +4

    Thank you. I always learn something new.

  • @niamhwatson
    @niamhwatson 3 года назад +97

    and THIS is why I like Cesar, I've watched other dog trainers and they go in circles with their explanation like trying to avoid sharing their "secrets" of how to train a dog, while Cesar explains it step by step.

    • @hebronbain9034
      @hebronbain9034 3 года назад +4

      cause hes making up for all the dogs he got put down due to his pass training methods, hes killed more dogs than hes helped.

    • @user-jb7yx7nc4j
      @user-jb7yx7nc4j 3 года назад +1

      Omg foreal?

    • @HristinaNicole
      @HristinaNicole 2 года назад +5

      @@hebronbain9034 yeah u clearly don't even know what you're talking about

    • @toprap88
      @toprap88 2 года назад

      Its because they dont why it works

  • @catbuthuman
    @catbuthuman 5 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for the advice! I very recently adopted a puppy who is a very clingy boy so I’m hoping this helps us out early on before it becomes a major issue and causes him a ton of stress.

  • @jg5755
    @jg5755 18 дней назад

    This will help me so much with our new rescue dog who sticks like glue to me.

  • @thereseember2800
    @thereseember2800 2 года назад +47

    One time I was housesitting where there was a German shepherd & a house cat that slept downstairs. After I went to sleep upstairs, at 3 am, the dog tapped on the outside of my door with her paw. When I followed her downstairs, she led me to the cat who wanted more dry cat food in her bowl.

    • @cattysplat
      @cattysplat Год назад +19

      Cat trains dog to demand food from owner in middle of the night. Evil genious cat.

    • @basedkaren51
      @basedkaren51 Год назад +4

      Good doggo

  • @xxhayziexx
    @xxhayziexx 3 года назад +108

    I love how she wasn’t really at all worried about what the camera man was up to, and whenever she saw Cesar she greeted him with a tail wag but it wasn’t too much energy

    • @monkeynuts1806
      @monkeynuts1806 Год назад +1

      Of course she wasn't worried about the cameraman - she is a fully well-trained dog - not a psychological mess like mine! I challenge Cesar to sort my dog out. That would be difficult as I live in the UK

  • @crypton_8l87
    @crypton_8l87 2 года назад +2

    This was an amazing session and so clearly explained Cesar thankyou for everything you do!! 👏 👌

  • @teresathompson235
    @teresathompson235 2 года назад +3

    Well explained. I love your information videos.

  • @patricksalcedo8565
    @patricksalcedo8565 3 года назад +10

    This really helped me understand why my puppies are so needy with me. It’s just LOVE

  • @joanfischer1819
    @joanfischer1819 3 года назад +5

    Thank you Cesar, I’ve learned so much from you over the years.

    • @maryannperea5613
      @maryannperea5613 3 года назад +1

      Great video! Also wondering what breed the dog in the video is? I rescued a small dog that had the same features in the ears, tail and fur. But mine is much smaller and quite long! I just thought she was a long hair dachshund mix but now I’m rethinking

  • @andreabellini6796
    @andreabellini6796 Год назад +144

    My Boston has horrible separation anxiety. What I just started this week is giving her a big hollowed out bone with a little peanut butter inside right before I leave and telling her, “ I have to go to work” before I go, so now she’s understanding she gets treat because I’m leaving. I haven’t heard her yelping and barking when I’m outside so I’m hoping she will start understanding.

    • @brycewillis6628
      @brycewillis6628 Год назад +14

      How long did it take for them to stop whining and bark, my dog starts whining when I leave the room if he’s in his create

    • @andreabellini6796
      @andreabellini6796 Год назад +15

      @@brycewillis6628 I don’t crate my dog. I don’t believe in that

    • @kyliegirl1976
      @kyliegirl1976 Год назад +22

      I just wanted to say that putting a dog in a crate isn’t a bad thing. Dogs are naturally den animals. Hence, if you give them a treat they really relish, they will often take it back to their bed (den). Dogs will often feel anxious if they are left in a large amount of space because they feel they have to protect it. The smallest amount of space they are in,(as long as they can stretch out and stand up without any restriction), makes them actually feel safer. It’s also much easier when it comes to puppy training. Dogs won’t naturally soil their own bed, so the smaller you make the space, the less likely they are to pee in the bed. (den). We have used crates all our 3 dogs over the last 22 years and each one of them has been happy and healthy. This is the first dog we have had one that has really suffered from separation anxiety (he’s only 14 weeks old). I just didn’t want crate training to be demonised as something that is cruel to dogs, actually it is something that makes them feel a lot more secure.
      Thank you, Caesar, for such a great video, we have already started implementing this technique, our dog is a cocker spaniel, so he’s a quick learner! We are trying to make the “designated space” the threshold of a room, and his bed (eventually it will be his bed permanently, but like you having multiple tables around, we are using the threshold of a room to create the separation gradually, as Reuben wants to be with my husband constantly, literally, touching! So the fact that we have managed to get him to stay at the threshold of a room and then reward him calmly with affection and reassurance that he is a “good boy“ is a massive achievement. 🙏🤞🐾❤️

    • @mbach003
      @mbach003 Год назад +3

      My dog is not treat motivated. Treats do nothing when he feels anxious.

    • @guesswhosgoing2jail2nite78
      @guesswhosgoing2jail2nite78 Год назад +4

      @@kyliegirl1976exactly. One trainer was saying how one of the worse things new puppy owners make is giving their pups/dogs too much unsupervised freedom.
      A crate should be a pups/dogs safe space anyway. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with crate training so long as it’s no used as a form of punishment. If I can’t physically keep eyes on my pup, I know she’s going to be safe in her crate, which prevents toileting accidents and her getting into something she shouldn’t be.

  • @zimrianispresent8123
    @zimrianispresent8123 Год назад +13

    I really enjoy hearing you teach. It helps me understand dogs. I have been a fan for over a decade and I have read all of your books. Now I help people and their dogs! I recommend you to everyone that asks me about dog behavior (I am a dog groomer btw not even a dog trainer) lol sorry for the long comment. Stay calm

  • @BHill-cm2xr
    @BHill-cm2xr 3 года назад +15

    Cesar you have inspired me to be a great dog whisper and I can’t thank you enough my dog is now a dog should be and I’m now a pack leader thank you again to be how I am know I want to be just like you! 🥰

  • @gailcullinan349
    @gailcullinan349 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Cesar. You are the world authority

  • @ChillisaSpeedruns
    @ChillisaSpeedruns Год назад +70

    This video helped me SO MUCH with my dogs separation anxiety. We started to do Point of Interest training around the house throughout the day and incorporated that with what we were doing before (leaving the house, coming back in and rewarding if she is calm and stays put). BOOM! HUGE difference! Now we can leave the house for 40min and she is relaxed, stress free and calm. Working up to 1 hour and then multiple hours! Thank you Cesar!!

    • @Revi674
      @Revi674 Год назад +3

      How is the progress? 1h passed, 2h passed?

    • @ChillisaSpeedruns
      @ChillisaSpeedruns Год назад +1

      @@Revi674 She's completely calm for over 1 hour now! Slowly working up because we want to set her up for success not failure!

    • @cheryldamico6210
      @cheryldamico6210 Год назад +5

      I have a seven month old Moyenne poodle; I was hoping watching Cesar address this problem, as my dog has severe, separation anxiety.; she has frantically tried to dig her self from behind the door; I do not trust her yet to be alone in the whole house; too many danger factors for her. Yes, I have tried to think of anything she might get into and put them extremely high, put them in containers; but she still is able to get what she wants.Factors that probably contribute or that it is only the dog and I. I got her to train her as a service dog, but I am having doubts that will be possible with the destructive separation anxiety she has. I.e. she had been crated before and was very anxious. I mistakenly thought, giving her a bigger room would help. Put the crate in the room for her to have all her comfort things along with items with my scent. I cannot count how many times she follows menow. She has figured out a please in the house, where she can keep an ion me at all times, and lays there, if she hears me move, she jumps right up and comes to my side. Her eyes follow me constantly while she is eating. If I am out of sight, she will stop eating and look for me. I have tried the technique of going inch by inch away from her, if she sit/stays and comes on command she is rewarded. She nose bumps the frame of my wheelchair as if she is checking "yes she still here". She is good with other dogs; gets too excitable and jumps with people. My wheelchair has been out of order since December 2022, so it very much interrupted training and not able to give her proper exercise. Caesars cute dog in the clip, to me, does not actually have separation anxiety, so it is difficult to really see he works with a dog with severe separation anxiety.

    • @ChillisaSpeedruns
      @ChillisaSpeedruns Год назад +2

      @@cheryldamico6210 One thing I noticed in your comment is the "if she sit/stays and comes on command she is rewarded" Cesar says in this video NOT to recall your dog from the place you are trying to get them to stay at because you are rewarding your dog for leaving that place and coming towards you, which is the opposite of what you want. You want to tell your dog to stay in one place while you move away from them. If they are able to stay in that place you go back to them and reward them. You just keep on doing this and you'll be able to go further away from your dog for longer periods of time. Remember, don't call your dog from these places because it's a fun game your doing where your dog is challenged to stay in that place until you come back! Hope this helps!!

    • @ChillisaSpeedruns
      @ChillisaSpeedruns Год назад +1

      @@Revi674 We just recently did 2+ hours and she was completely fine, sleeping even! 😂 I think she will be fine even for 4-5 hours which I'll try soon. I can visibly see a difference in her when we leave, she is so much more relaxed and calm, this video literally saved us.

  • @pipeknockoout7640
    @pipeknockoout7640 2 месяца назад

    Thx a lot for the info i will put it to action

  • @CatMomAmanda
    @CatMomAmanda 3 года назад +186

    This video is invaluable.
    I’d also love to see this with a dog who is not yet this well trained, so I can see this skill begin to form from the beginning ♥️

    • @colleenlazoruk9305
      @colleenlazoruk9305 2 года назад +8

      Me too! CESAR COME TO NORTHERN ALBERTA CANADA PLEASE!,!

    • @CatMomAmanda
      @CatMomAmanda 2 года назад +13

      @andrew andrew thanks so much for your comment, it’s super helpful!

    • @jomitchell6711
      @jomitchell6711 2 года назад +5

      I would also like to see from the beginning. It might take 2 seconds for a dog to learn, but much longer for a puppy to learn.

    • @jomitchell6711
      @jomitchell6711 2 года назад +4

      Yes, I understand how to train the dog,@andrew andrew . What I meant was that it takes longer than 2 seconds. Might take a day for a quick learner or a few weeks with a slow one. I seem to have got a slow learner this time around. Doesn't help when I have another family member undoing my good work.

    • @sedoniadragotta8323
      @sedoniadragotta8323 2 года назад +1

      I'd like see hi. Train my big ass dog who I adopted damaged already.

  • @elizabethheckathorn6317
    @elizabethheckathorn6317 3 года назад +6

    This was an amazing video and NEEDED! We need a house tour! Also, I feel like he lives by Jenna marbles!!!!

  • @kaydewinter3588
    @kaydewinter3588 2 года назад

    Cesar is brilliant .

  • @Babylon94499
    @Babylon94499 2 года назад +16

    I’ve been practicing this for a few days and I can say my dog is getting better. Now I’m leaving her alone on purpose, everyday for a bit longer, and she is not barking anymore. Thanks for the video!

  • @jennypham3699
    @jennypham3699 3 года назад +14

    Cesar, I am so in love with your communicative teaching style!! Thank you for sharing such a wonderful passion with us!! 🐕🐕🐕

  • @triciabrookes8721
    @triciabrookes8721 3 года назад +5

    Whatever Cesar speaks about, he is assured, uses clear examples and makes it all seems so simple and common sense. What a great trainer he is?😀❤️

  • @joanneg7646
    @joanneg7646 5 месяцев назад +3

    Definitely worked..thank you Cesar

  • @janiceraymond2117
    @janiceraymond2117 2 года назад +10

    You are the best Cesar!

  • @dissatisfiedconvert5100
    @dissatisfiedconvert5100 3 года назад +54

    Great info. You are consistent and impactful. I trust Caesar Milan! How hard is it to trust someone these days?! Keep up the great work Sir!

  • @ShariBarnes
    @ShariBarnes 3 года назад +6

    Thank you so much for this! We got a puppy during the pandemic and she definitely has separation anxiety now when we leave the house. We will start this training today!

  • @mariannedawson2742
    @mariannedawson2742 2 месяца назад +1

    I worked in rescue years ago and fostered dogs. I had one of the sweetest dogs with severe separation anxiety. She was with me for a few weeks because my elderly mother lived with me and was home 24/7. The dog was placed in several homes but went crazy, was extremely destructive when left alone. I don't know what happened, but I never forgot her. I am forwarding this video to my grandchildren in college. I know they will have pets throughout their lives and want them to know how dogs think and how to help them. You are so knowledgeable. Thanks for caring and sharing.
    Do you have any books or videos that cover training a puppy from day one? Not just for one issue but everything.

  • @arianereyes4964
    @arianereyes4964 Год назад +5

    I like this guy!!! He gives you so much confidence.

  • @eliaaugustin1731
    @eliaaugustin1731 3 года назад +89

    why is every video so incredibly educational and perfect❤️i love you!

    • @CesarMillanOfficial
      @CesarMillanOfficial  3 года назад +17

      Thanks for watching 😊

    • @susansimon8390
      @susansimon8390 3 года назад +3

      Hello Cesar could you please set RUclips so that I can see a German subtitle from you? My English is not so good and you speak very quickly, unfortunately I don't understand everything. Greetings Susan. 🌺

    • @cynthialmedina9947
      @cynthialmedina9947 3 года назад +2

      @@CesarMillanOfficial nice answer

    • @gabyramos7722
      @gabyramos7722 3 года назад +2

      @@CesarMillanOfficial Muchas Gracias por toditos sus videos! He aprendido mucho. Cómo le hago con mi beagle(con mucha energía) para que no se desespere cuando no me vea? Que juguetes me recomienda para comprarle? Gracias y cuídese

    • @spankey88
      @spankey88 3 года назад +2

      Every show too. Years and years of info from the best

  • @kiraKX_
    @kiraKX_ 3 года назад +9

    Surprised that I have been already doing a lot of it on our own. Just need to polish it up and practice!

  • @puracomounlirio
    @puracomounlirio 2 года назад +3

    I love u, thanks for sharing your knowledge and passion.

  • @naturegirllover
    @naturegirllover Год назад +1

    You are the Dog and People Whisperer. Thank you for such valuable info. 💗And for all the dog's lives you have saved 🌹🌹

  • @genesiskravitz8621
    @genesiskravitz8621 3 года назад +16

    Cesar, my nephew was born yesterday and we named him after you!

  • @marleesp7476
    @marleesp7476 3 года назад +81

    I have to watch this again because I was distracted by that gorgeous house! Love the jewel tone accents!

    • @lauradunzweiler6044
      @lauradunzweiler6044 3 года назад +3

      Marlee SP Agreed!! I was especially taken with the green VELVET sofa!! Gorgeous!!

    • @JillDavis26
      @JillDavis26 3 года назад +1

      I was literally just about to say the same!!😂😂 where is this Cape Cod stunner!?💜💜

    • @anakondaxxx85
      @anakondaxxx85 3 года назад +1

      Gorgeous house very airy and calming and reflects Cezar personality

    • @who2774
      @who2774 3 года назад

      Me too 😂. Beautiful home! Cesar works hard for it. Thank you Cesar for sharing your knowledge and love for animals.

  • @gy8651
    @gy8651 Год назад +51

    This is soooo helpful! I’ve been wondering why my dog is so attached to me. I’ve been teaching him that getting off is point of reference and coming to me is a good thing when I should not be doing that. So grateful for this!

  • @sapofish
    @sapofish 2 года назад +4

    I love you Cesar! so amazing! your relationship of trust, love, and understanding with your dogs!! I also appreciate that you're not loading your dog up with treats every single second! It seems like all the animal trainers nowadays are doing that. At one puppy class, I gave treats whenever instructed, but had to leave the class before it was even over because I had used a WHOLE BAG of treats! this cannot be good! they call it "positive reinforcement training."

  • @juliebrown4087
    @juliebrown4087 3 года назад +11

    Every other video on this topic is exactly the same, but he gave a completely different strategy! I love it! I have been battling separation anxiety with my dog- and one of my big questions was this exactly: shouldn't I be modifying his behavior when I am home first? No one else had addressed this!

  • @ctgeblue17
    @ctgeblue17 3 года назад +5

    the stuff toys are too cute! I LOL when he took them out. Great tips as always! now I just need to find that point of reference for my doggie.

  • @michaelrourke9830
    @michaelrourke9830 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for teaching me this!

  • @AurianLunaLou
    @AurianLunaLou Год назад +12

    I’m at 9:57 and when he did the pinning sound example and his dog immediately looked up at him and then leaned into him and rubbed his head off him to show him comfort… that was the sweetest thing 🥺…Cuteness overload! I’ve already learned so much already from this video. I remember when I use to watch his tv programme years ago all the time.

  • @samanthahu4803
    @samanthahu4803 3 года назад +78

    Your cesar and dog dolls are so hilarious!! I want them! 😂

    • @devilskinn
      @devilskinn 3 года назад +2

      I was thinking the same. So cute!!

  • @user-co9du9xd4k
    @user-co9du9xd4k 3 года назад +11

    Educating people about dogs is basically more important than educating a dog ...👍👍👍

  • @ritasanchezsolis3701
    @ritasanchezsolis3701 11 месяцев назад +2

    Absolutely a fan, I’ve learned so much from your videos, Cesar. Thank you!

  • @christierobinson7707
    @christierobinson7707 2 года назад +1

    Thanks very much! Ready to try these methods, they were very clear details

  • @debbiehodgeon8084
    @debbiehodgeon8084 2 года назад +61

    I don't have a dog but I brought my child up with cesar's mindset of calm assertive energy hehehe (no am not joking, my son is well balanced IT WORKS!!) 😂 🤣 💕 I can listen to cesar alllllll day xx

    • @beesinhives
      @beesinhives 2 года назад +3

      Hahahaha 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

    • @Backfromthestorm
      @Backfromthestorm 2 года назад +2

      You should watch the Cesar Milan South Park episode 😃. Hilarious.

    • @DarkenAngel8
      @DarkenAngel8 2 года назад

      I was literally trying to figure out how I could apply this to my children

    • @Backfromthestorm
      @Backfromthestorm 2 года назад

      @@DarkenAngel8 Tsst

    • @mn7164
      @mn7164 2 года назад +1

      Your not wrong, I find in general how you handle situations with your energy/behaviour. Reflects alot on how people or dogs react.

  • @mikewcomer
    @mikewcomer 3 года назад +19

    Thank you for this amazing insight in a dogs world. Our dog has separation anxiety bad. Has literally chewed a hole in the wall trying to leave.

    • @foxywhitetip7387
      @foxywhitetip7387 3 года назад +2

      I got an impact crate for my Pittie Zahra

    • @FiveOClockTea
      @FiveOClockTea 3 года назад +2

      American houses are a mystery to me :-O

  • @christinegivens9048
    @christinegivens9048 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant. Thank you!

  • @raclark2369
    @raclark2369 2 года назад +79

    My dog follows me once. From the time I get up till the time I go to bed.

  • @rebeccaclement99
    @rebeccaclement99 3 года назад +14

    My dog actually had a hard time with the quarantine. Her stomach got really upset and has a difficult time adjusting. It was so strange! I definitely am worried about how she will adjust once the quarantine had lifted.

  • @melindasalinas1821
    @melindasalinas1821 3 года назад +21

    Omg, thank you Cesar! I was already dreading having my Sophie barking when I have to leave for work as a teacher in August. I will begin practicing this asap.😁👍💗

  • @davem5588
    @davem5588 Год назад +27

    I reset my relationship with my husky who had separation anxiety after my alpha dog died. Aside from her needs, i Ignored her for 2 weeks and kept her outside my office while I worked. She cried for 2 weeks, but then stopped and I reintroduced myself as her friend while being cautious not to baby her too much so as to have a repeat of behaviour. It worked.

    • @PamelaWildman-Williams
      @PamelaWildman-Williams 6 месяцев назад

      I just wonder if she would feel like a human might feel - and die a little bit inside. Does that sound daft?

    • @davem5588
      @davem5588 6 месяцев назад

      @@PamelaWildman-Williams dogs like humans, need to learn how to self soothe. If you always rescue them
      When they desire an emotion then they become dependent on you for said needs and never learn on their own. You actually do a tremendous disservice to them. Dogs need to learn how to be alone sometimes because it’s going to happen at some point or another.

    • @PamelaWildman-Williams
      @PamelaWildman-Williams 6 месяцев назад

      @@davem5588 I understand your point and wonder about empathy. I just hope you’re not in the caring or helping professions. No offence intended but I am and see from a different perspective. The ability to Self-soothe comes from a foundation of security. To be honest, the term ‘ a little knowledge can be a dangerous thing’. I sincerely feel concerned about your cold heartedness and absence of empathy. You could be a dangerous person to know.

    • @davem5588
      @davem5588 6 месяцев назад

      @@PamelaWildman-WilliamsNo, clearly you don’t understand. You obviously put your own needs before that of your dog. This is typical and often the case with clients in dog training. You seek to cater to your own emotions, thinking you’re helping the dog, but your over sensitivity to your needy emotions blind you from the actual needs of a canine (and child as the psychology is quite similar).
      Honestly, you’re absurd and ignorant with regard to basic child/dog psychology. Good luck with that. The rest of your armchair analysis is laughable and far removed from the truth.

    • @PamelaWildman-Williams
      @PamelaWildman-Williams 3 месяца назад

      Hi Dave, Yes… she goes forward after the trauma. I don’t like to think you are a cold unfeeling person who does not have the capacity for empathy - no - I’m sure you are a good and decent person who simply is on life’s learning curve and who cares about humans and animals. People and certainly animals, are vulnerable to us and people can accidentally bully the weaker … not because they are mean but because they don’t realise. Bless you Dave for being so open and I hope you are encouraged. I wish you every good thing 😀

  • @user-ki2bt5ic1t
    @user-ki2bt5ic1t Год назад +13

    Hi Cesar ! You eased so much pain with this video, thank you very much !

  • @pav5971
    @pav5971 3 года назад +69

    He makes everything look easy. His understanding of dogs is top notch.what an amazing person

    • @HristinaNicole
      @HristinaNicole 2 года назад +2

      That's always how gifted people make things seem to be so simple but when you attempt it's hard

    • @MrYouTubeNation
      @MrYouTubeNation 2 года назад +1

      The way he calms down dogs when they go BERSERK is amazing

  • @melc.8146
    @melc.8146 3 года назад +22

    Gonna start doing this with my dog. She always barks and cries super loud whenever I get home, I started turning my back to her and not giving her any attention or contact until she settles down. So far it’s been working little by little but patience is the key.

    • @pegjardin1954
      @pegjardin1954 3 года назад

      My littermates were very vocal when I would return. I greet them with a carrot each, encouraging them to calm down and they can have their carrot. It works for my boys!

    • @lippyandkittymsp6449
      @lippyandkittymsp6449 2 года назад

      hey- how did it work out?

    • @melc.8146
      @melc.8146 2 года назад

      @@lippyandkittymsp6449 actually she has gotten better! She will just jump on me and wait for me to pet her but she doesn’t scream loud anymore! Lol

  • @drsandhyathumsikumar4479
    @drsandhyathumsikumar4479 2 года назад +6

    Thanks Ceaser ..your wisdom of both human and animal behavior has helped me a lot !
    More power to u and your good work 👏

  • @kitsunak
    @kitsunak Год назад +13

    People don't understand that this video is to understand the Why is happening, What make this happen, Where this happening, Why this is happening and how to correct. This video is to make you understand your dog and how to work with it. That why (i think) he choose a dog with no séparation anxiety to help you visual what to expect. you will be distract with a dog with anxiety in this video. my dog have separation anxiety and i couldn't understand him. this video help me alot to understand what is happening in this doggo mind. the key is to work together with your dog, compromise and learn each other.
    Thank you very much! this video really help open my views and i will do my best to work with my doggo to have a heathly separation.

  • @EdieBrown
    @EdieBrown 3 года назад +461

    I'll watch the commercials so Cesar gets paid.

    • @jackiehammond705
      @jackiehammond705 3 года назад +5

      Really ?

    • @jackiehammond705
      @jackiehammond705 3 года назад +5

      Some of those adds are long, however I watched them all !

    • @thedogmagician
      @thedogmagician 3 года назад +5

      Does it really work that way? Cesar doesn’t get paid if you don’t watch the ad?

    • @AidanChinSungLing
      @AidanChinSungLing 3 года назад +5

      Trish Mitchell the Dog Magician yes. If you skip it in 5 mins, creators wont get paid.

    • @marceld6061
      @marceld6061 3 года назад +5

      you only have to let the commercials play 30 seconds. You don't have to watch the entire commercial.