What makes Sonya attractive? She is very well mannered, has a soothing voice and great vocabular and she's radiating mature femininity without the flashing neon light on top of her head screaming for attention. All in all, she's a lady!
Honestly a woman wearing a suit is not my cup of tea and a bespoke dress can also be a sartorial masterpiece. But this is just my personal opinion following my own taste. But there is something much more important to this video and this channel: did anybody notice that there are no hate comments in the comments section ? That is so very special on an internet platform. Which leads to only 1 conclusion: if the most important attribute of a gentleman (and a lady) is to make everybody in his enviroment feel comfortable and at ease - and I truly believe this is the No. 1 character - than Ms Sonya and Mr Hugo are simply epitomzing this in the most charming way.
Hardy: If you look at her suit, shirt specifically, the cut is very feminine. the fluffed tie. A take from the early woman's suffrage movement. So it's all about how you look at it.
This was such a pleasure to watch. Being a female that really enjoys wearing and learning about bespoke suits, I was so happy to hear and see another woman’s perspective. Thank you. I hope to do more videos as well about this topic
This is still one of my favorite videos from Sartorial Talks. Sonya does such a great job of explaining what a gentleman is and how he dresses. Well done. Please make more videos on this subject.
Hi,Sonya I can see in your eyes or persona how much this subject means to you thank you so much for sharing your perspective on the subject.I wish you much happiness in the profession outside the profession .Thanks Charles E.Huggins Jr.
Sonya's American English is absolutely lovely! As an Englishman its always a pleasure to listen to Americans speak. Sonya's floral delivery is pure Bach !
That's funny. I'm an American woman who always has had a weakness for listening to English guys speaking! It would be nice if a lot of English guys felt like you do. 😊 I had an Irish guy tell me once that Irish guys just loved American women.
Wonderful lady! Such a pleasure to hear her speak as everything she says is beautifully and eloquently put. Not to mention the fact her demeanour is, just like Hugo's, completely mesmerising. Thank you!
This channel is simply a jem in deep sea. I am really glad to come across this channel. plz continue creating such great content. I am 25 and I simply love this, all these conversations helps me build and refine my taste in clothing and suits. Thank You
I'm impressed with the generosity of talking about what those on a limited budget can do. This is really giving and supporting those still climbing their mountain of choice.
Solid advice and fantastic public speaking and presentation from a radiant and well informed woman. I am willing to bet she hails somewhere from the southern US. As many great personalities do.
I have only recently discovered this channel. Everything about these videos oozes sophistication and dedication to the subject. Sonya is a delight to listen to and her love of style shows through. She is obviously a very classy lady with a voice of pure silk. Additive videos. Well done.
It would be so cool if this channel would dedicate an episode on Spanish suiting style and men's clothes in general. The Spanish style, somewhere between British and American style is just as awesome but sadly not well known. remember that many famous designers (Balenciaga, Francisco Rabaneda aka "Paco Rabanne", Fortuny and many others)were "sastres" before becoming famous in France or Italy. these are the guys that invented the term "haute couture " (from the Spanish term "alta costura"...meaning the highest art form of sewing). I love your channel and i just subbed! What an awesome job you do!
Hey Gil and thanks for the comment. It's widely believed that London starting the entire sartorial movement for the simplified suit (with Beau Brummell), after which, other countries studied English crafting and eventually put their own spin on style elements of the suit. You're right though--it's high time we included information on how the Spanish interpret the suit. ~Sonya
Hi Gil, one of the most stylish men I ever met was out walking with his wife and young family in Playa D'Aro. He wore perfectly matching, superbly cut linen trousers, a yellow shirt and matching suede shoes. Casual but immaculate.
Haute couture is French for haute couture. It's French people that invented and spread the concept. That's why the name is in French and used in its French form worldwide. I'll be interested in Spanish sartorial style.
I would say the essence of being a gentleman is being lost, i.e., honoring your word, have integrity, be compassionate, etc. or in short, do the right thing.
Thank you so much for this video. My wife, who is of English heritage, has challenged me to refine my style. I found Sonya's perspective insightful and thought provoking. Tastefully done!
Thank you for leaving a comment. It helps to move forward when receiving such encouragement--and I wish you well as you begin the path to refine your own style! ~Sonya
I was touched this morning by your insights and gently passionate delivery. Finishing the last few minutes, this evening is a perfect capper to my day. Particularly, the overview of the geographical personalities of suits was the most helpful I've seen. Thanks ever so much, Sonya and Hugo.
As a round guy (300ish lbs 5ft 7) I find when wearing suits and more formal clothing I look and feel better in myself. Watching this video, and others in the series have been vital in moving from living in jeans and chinos with shirts to a more formal wardrobe. Thank you. One thing I would ask is have you considered a guide or video for gentlemen of my build?
Hello Adam. I enjoyed reading your response and am inspired by your resolve. I wrote an article on Parisian Gentleman entitled "12 Ways a Heavier Man can Look Thinner". Perhaps we will do a talk on the subject. Thank you for the suggestion and keep moving forward. ~Sonya
Simply wonderful. You are so right about getting lost in yourself, there is a thin line between taking pride in ones appearance and coming off as overly confident. If you just try to be yourself, that’s always a good balance in my view. A true gentlemen doesn’t need to work in overdrive all the time. It should be effortlessly natural.
Yes Josh, this effortless elegance is also called nonchalance. Some people have it naturally (Gary Cooper being the epitome of nonchalance) and some people have to work hard to acquire it (Fred Astaire was anything but nonchalant, but ended being extremely elegant). Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
Loved listening to you, hope you do more on this channel. One suggestion is it would be nice if you did a cutaway to show some examples of the different region's suit types as you described them.
Excellently told, Sonya! I found myself identifying my style within the big picture you so eloquently articulated. Good luck with this wonderful series, to you and Hugo.
Dearest Sonya, How did you begin and continue in your knowledge in the art of Gentleman's Sartorial Elegance? You have opened my eyes. Kindest Regards.
I began in the surgical world of all places, learning about textile production. And after being trained in writing, I began producing pieces on male elegance. Thanks for asking and for your kindness. ~Sonya
I absolutely love and respect this lady. Her voice and demeanor not to mention her absolute knowledge of men’s fashion commands respect and admiration. And she looks absolutely devine in her suits.
Sonya, not sure if you practiced the tone, speed and pitch of your voice but even if you did you come across exceptionally well and undoubtedly are an influencer of mens style. Kudos!
Hello RSS, This was my first solo completely impromptu talk with no notes. I had no clue how it would go--so I truly appreciate your assessment. I had 10 minutes notice before the shoe talk & I was much more (obviously) nervous! Thanks from the heart, Sonya
As your inner beauty shines to form the beautiful person you are, my lady, I find the beauty from within that gets reflected on the facade of the person is what makes them appear in what we call "gentlemen and ladies". All what you truly mentioned I can summon up in "Honor", its the essential and most profound attribute that all the amazing attributes that forms what we describe as a "gentleman" are derived from. People have forgotten how to look honorable and dignified, the focus recently has been on how to look "hot and sexy", which in the vast majority comes across as vulgar. In my opinion: Honor is the source what drives people to "do the right thing", being proud yet humble, being courageous but not insane, being confidant but not vain. Behaving and looking honorable are things that the vast majority of people have forgotten this concept and way of life. All the beautiful facade we may see in a person, very rapidly fades away in our eyes the minute we discover that under all this beautiful exterior exists an ugly person. There is a term which is being used recently among youngsters to describe that, which I will refrain from using, however, the most amazing attire would be merely a decoration, if there is nothing under it to substantiation it. There is an old saying that goes like: "People receive you based on what you wear, and say goodbye to you based on your mind and heart". It is of paramount importance that our inner beauty is a reflected and complemented by what we wear, which also reflects whom we are. In the center of all of this, I remain myself mindful to the fact that there is also a financial element attached to getting the right attire that people with beautiful minds and hearts may not always be able to acquire, or those who are very focused in life on the things that they do and produce but not what they were because their minds are entirely focused on their mission. Hence, I always keep an open mind when meeting new people since it's the mind and the heart that are the main foundations for me to call someone a gentleman/ lady or a cad.
I'm late to the party watching this Sartorial Talk but I believe it's timeless. Very interesting perspective Sonya. Good ideas on how to define one's own style.
A very eye-opening video. I've always believed that you should wear what is you, as a form of open dialogue. But not being afraid to discover yourself in the form of experimenting with clothing can be fun and rewarding, instead of just stepping out of your comfort zone. Nicholson mentions the "pantsuit" from a feminine point of view. Notice that whilst she wears a pale green necktie, the collar is not actually "buttoned-up", so that a very subtle adjustment can be made - without making it seem so obvious. Very courageous, but also very classy.
Is there a possibility of an episode being dedicated to women? Perhaps even a book? Im having a difficult time finding shoes and clothing of a higher standard for the wife. Your reference of Walker Slater has been a great help. Best regards, David van Veen.
Omg. I just randomly clicked on this video and FINALLY saw a woman that dresses like this. So classy, elegant in a suit--not a dress. And thank you for the Carminas recommendation. Holy shit--you just changed my life.
You are a beautiful and elegant lady Sonya, Hugo is a lucky man. I agree completely with what you said. Thank you for your contribution on this. I think the "Gentleman" needs to make a comeback in this day and age.
Sonya epitomizes a more compelling argument in favor of bespoke suiting. Sonya is a woman of style and beauty, but I couldn’t help but notice how nicely her vest conformed to her bodice without looking stretched or draped. This is the compelling argument. No matter your shape, a quality tailor will be able to showcase the most attractive you and simultaneously mask any flaws; a “trompe l’oeil” effect. If you also appreciate the cut and fit of Sonya’s vest, you know of what I speak. Bravo!
You point is well taken about bespoke (thank you for that). Sometimes I hit the bespoke mark and other times I miss it, but absolutely savor the journey, and perhaps you can relate. I appreciate your comment very much! ~Sonya
One of the things I like most about finding an excellent vintage suit is it's story. Who owned it, what's it's been through, who created it, how long it's survived.... Even little markings of wear are interesting. Until I get to a place in my life where bespoke is a viable option. I'll always choose vintage for this reason. I could go MTM. it's just not nearly as interesting to me.
I got rid of my Hickey Freeman suits for just a couple of basic Isaia suits (navy and gray). I don’t have to wear suits anymore but these are last ones I will need and just go with fun patterned Isaia dress shirts to go with them.
Isaia is one of our all time favorite ready to wear brands---adore the vegetable dyed fabrics and tight collar fit (cut at a bias to prevent most collar gaps). Cheers! ~Sonya
Dear G.W., Thank you for taking the time to tell us that the info and quality shines through. Feedback like yours really helps us to push forward. ~Sonya
If you were my engineering teacher I would never bunk my class at all. Your way of explaining things is on a another level. Much respect from my side! From - MUMBAI, INDIA
What you think about combining the styles? Let’s say English shoes and Italian suits. Just curious, where you grew up? Excellent suggestions and great video!
One of roles of a gentleman is being a father. Carrying your child around with pride sometimes leaves creases on jackets and shirts. Any tips on materials and care to stay looking clean and sharp the rest of the day?
Well said and respect to you for recognizing the importance of fatherhood. The most valuable thing I've learned when dealing with care of materials (in emergency situations) is the value of cold water. If I get a sudden stain and apply cold water liberally with a few minutes after the accident, the stain is handled almost every time. And, if I need to iron my shirt or trousers, but don't have an iron, I can take a moist washcloth and rub almost any wrinkle out---of course one must wait up to half an hour for the article to dry. I hope this information is of useful ! ~Sonya
Had to watch this after the 'Oxford' video, although interesting, had Sonya on standby most of the time. I watch these Sartorial Talks even though I'm a t-shirt & jeans guy. Sonya is a pleasure to watch and listen to.
Great comments. Challenge is exchanging and opening up for people like me who are introverts. I once had a person opened up to me that people thought I was snobbish because I kept to myself at social gatherings. Hurt badly because I am not a person who socializes easily with people I don’t know- quite unlike my wife. However I do believe in being in being properly dressed. As an American we have become very badly dressed. Recently I attended a funeral for friends mother. People showed up in jeans and collarless shirts. I was appalled- other than my friend and I not one suit. OBTW part of my background is Catholic school in the 60s. Coat and ties every day.
sonya is simply delightful. inspiring, enchanting, sophisticatedly warm and sparking, appeasing. yet sassy and modern with her hair and suit. plus, her skin inspired me to change my routine! i'd learn more in two cups of tea with her than in a finishing school.
When I wear structured clothing, I feel a sense of safety, purpose, and support - even if it’s not ‘comfortable’ in the ways most Americans mean when they use the word. Even if it’s genuinely restrictive. I actually enjoy a piece of clothing now and again that shapes the way I move in the world. It helps me orchestrate myself properly. And it’s something I remain intensely sensitive to, since most of my more feminine staples are full, flowing fabrics that provide that contrasting, freeing feeling.
Hi and I think Hugo could have written the same response in terms of placing a quality structured garment and respecting 'the purpose' of wearing a suit' over the simple issue of comfort. Thanks so much for commenting, ~Sonya
For me a gentleman is a cool and calm person...who waits for a person to act and react to it in a very calm way so it actually solves the problem... like James Bond
Have to admit I'm to much of a chameleon when it comes to my style.... thus I've quite a large wardrobe... and I don't really follow the supposed style rules that have been set out in life.... for gentlemen to follow... but this is just me and that is the way it is. But it is always good to see well dressed men out there. Especially when someone has made an effort for just to go to a local store for there groceries. I've always made it a habit to compliment especially the older retired generation of a well turned out appearance or even if they have a nice jacket or hat on, makes their day so often that someone has noticed them and the effort no matter how small that there put in to there appearance.... and I hope that when I'm shuffling around the local store in my more advance years that others will notice the effort I've put in as I'm shuffling around the local store getting my groceries..... Thankyou for this excellent video presentation....
I love these videos! Fashion is not something that I can easily find a mentor in, but these videos are fantastic! Much appreciation and respect! I want to dress well for the ladies and these videos are a HUGE help! :D
Attractive is an understatement… she holds the classic beauty of poise, grace, intelligence and appearance in one. You simply feel that there is also a great sense of humor that might burst-out at any moment. Sadly, I do not recall women of this stature when I was a younger man; perhaps they had yet to be created in those days.
I know what she is talking about ... I modelled myself as a gentleman from victorian ages ... it is a journey which is ongoing ... 17 years ago it started ... wearing EDP instead of EDT ... academic distinctions .... well read ... multiple talents ... and so on ... and yes not bothered about political correctness ... It is something which you grow into ... not something which you can deliberately impose upon yourself .... it is the confidence which you radiate ... belief system which you have .... all these things induced into your personality ...
You covered so much ground, and touched on so many facets of what's involved in becoming a better human. Thanks for putting your apt thoughts here. ~Sonya
J'aime vos observations sur le gentleman moderne. Je crains que beaucoup de personnes qui regardent ce film ne se sentent obligées de se fondre dans un moule ou de regarder des vidéos affreuses de personnalités sponsorisées par youtube. Vous avez des idées que je trouve absolument fascinantes et j'espère que plus de gens trouveront cette série de vidéos. Bonne chance!
There are common themes in this community, and I understand the familiarity you mention in regard to the sartorial journey. I'm glad you've joined us here. ~Sonya
Thanks for this. I think you should add a small side picture when you are describing anything. As an example I was trying to figure out what you meant when you were describing pocket handkerchief!
Good point, we will try to include more B roll. Thank you, ~Sonya PS: If you're motivated to do so, search "pocket square Calabrese" and click images to see nice examples.
Pretty interesting point of view. It is a pleasure to learn a bit more every day. If you allow me a suggestion, I would appreciate a more in-depth discussion about the psychology of a gentleman (especially with a lady with such a magnetic presence). Greetings from Spain.
Thank you for your assessment in regard to a "magnetic presence"! Can you be more specific, so I understand what you would like to see explored? Specifically, could you offer an example of your own sartorial path of dressing a certain way, and the pscyhological affect(s) you notice? Thanks again, ~Sonya
I think the discussion is on the right way; the willing to do the right thing, giving more than taking, self-respect and the respect for others... Values that are being lost. It seems correlative to good education, but I believe that there is more. Not sure if you know what I mean. By the way, in the video you mention some spanish shoe brands. I would add Berwick (some people consider it better than Meermin).
I do sense what you mean when you say "I believe there is more", and will wait on a better understanding of what the "more" encompasses--and try to relay what I come to understand. Thank you so much, Sonya
Sonya is so elegant. Hugo is a lucky man, and together they are a wonderful couple :)
Dear PZA, Thanks for this heartwarming note. ~Sonya
What makes Sonya attractive? She is very well mannered, has a soothing voice and great vocabular and she's radiating mature femininity without the flashing neon light on top of her head screaming for attention. All in all, she's a lady!
You know how to infuse wonderful energy around you, as is the case with me and I'm grateful for what you wrote. Thank you, Sonya
You are most welcome!
We call that "class" my friend.
Well said!☺
FEMININITY!!!!!
Honestly a woman wearing a suit is not my cup of tea and a bespoke dress can also be a sartorial masterpiece. But this is just my personal opinion following my own taste. But there is something much more important to this video and this channel: did anybody notice that there are no hate comments in the comments section ? That is so very special on an internet platform. Which leads to only 1 conclusion: if the most important attribute of a gentleman (and a lady) is to make everybody in his enviroment feel comfortable and at ease - and I truly believe this is the No. 1 character - than Ms Sonya and Mr Hugo are simply epitomzing this in the most charming way.
Thank you so much Hardy for this beautiful comment and sorry for the delay in answering, but we've been a little overwhelmed recently. Hugo & Sonya
Hardy: If you look at her suit, shirt specifically, the cut is very feminine. the fluffed tie. A take from the early woman's suffrage movement. So it's all about how you look at it.
You make a great point.
Aha! So true. I was admiring their word choice and how they advanced their view in a respectful manner.
Wonderfully said. I agree with you 100%. God bless the kind and courteous.
This was such a pleasure to watch. Being a female that really enjoys wearing and learning about bespoke suits, I was so happy to hear and see another woman’s perspective. Thank you. I hope to do more videos as well about this topic
Hi Kyra, I appreciate your perspective as a woman and am so glad you watched and commented. ~Sonya
Thank you for saying what you did about being 30, trying to craft a style, all while supporting a family. It was something I needed to hear.
Thanks for taking the time to let me know this was meaningful for you. ~Sonya
I don't know why but, I find this woman extremely attractive, in an odd sort of way.
I'm definitely odd, so thank you, I think. ~Sonya
Ah, thanks! ~Sonya
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You mean she are honest, have knowledge and are real. Everything TV is not.
She's elegant.
I appreciate this perspective, compared to television. ~Sonya
This is still one of my favorite videos from Sartorial Talks. Sonya does such a great job of explaining what a gentleman is and how he dresses. Well done. Please make more videos on this subject.
I am delighted to read your impressions. Thank you so much. Sonya
My goodness that voice is angelical.
She makes me wanna be a gentleman.
Precious comment. Thank you, ~Sonya
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Hi,Sonya I can see in your eyes or persona how much this subject means to you thank you so much for sharing your perspective on the subject.I wish you much happiness in the profession outside the profession .Thanks Charles E.Huggins Jr.
Hello Charles, Thank you for tapping into the intention of the talk--which is in itself a quality of a gentleman. Happy New Year, ~Sonya
What a pleasure to ear a woman speak about suits, that show a different vision and perception of it.
I'm really happy to know your thoughts, Jo Chris. Thanks for commenting. ~Sonya
Sonya's American English is absolutely lovely! As an Englishman its always a pleasure to listen to Americans speak. Sonya's floral delivery is pure Bach !
That's funny. I'm an American woman who always has had a weakness for listening to English guys speaking! It would be nice if a lot of English guys felt like you do. 😊 I had an Irish guy tell me once that Irish guys just loved American women.
Wonderful lady! Such a pleasure to hear her speak as everything she says is beautifully and eloquently put. Not to mention the fact her demeanour is, just like Hugo's, completely mesmerising. Thank you!
This channel is simply a jem in deep sea. I am really glad to come across this channel. plz continue creating such great content. I am 25 and I simply love this, all these conversations helps me build and refine my taste in clothing and suits.
Thank You
It may sound cliché, but it is encouraging to know it's possible for us to make a positive difference. Thank you. ~Sonya
I'm impressed with the generosity of talking about what those on a limited budget can do. This is really giving and supporting those still climbing their mountain of choice.
Bravo Sonya, beautifully expressed and inspiring.
Thank you Michael. Sonya
Thanks, Michael. Hope it works out to include some of your compositions later on. ~Sonya
It's said Brava, she's a girl not a man
Solid advice and fantastic public speaking and presentation from a radiant and well informed woman. I am willing to bet she hails somewhere from the southern US. As many great personalities do.
I have only recently discovered this channel. Everything about these videos oozes sophistication and dedication to the subject. Sonya is a delight to listen to and her love of style shows through. She is obviously a very classy lady with a voice of pure silk. Additive videos. Well done.
It would be so cool if this channel would dedicate an episode on Spanish suiting style and men's clothes in general. The Spanish style, somewhere between British and American style is just as awesome but sadly not well known. remember that many famous designers (Balenciaga, Francisco Rabaneda aka "Paco Rabanne", Fortuny and many others)were "sastres" before becoming famous in France or Italy. these are the guys that invented the term "haute couture " (from the Spanish term "alta costura"...meaning the highest art form of sewing). I love your channel and i just subbed! What an awesome job you do!
Hey Gil and thanks for the comment. It's widely believed that London starting the entire sartorial movement for the simplified suit (with Beau Brummell), after which, other countries studied English crafting and eventually put their own spin on style elements of the suit. You're right though--it's high time we included information on how the Spanish interpret the suit. ~Sonya
Hi Gil, one of the most stylish men I ever met was out walking with his wife and young family in Playa D'Aro. He wore perfectly matching, superbly cut linen trousers, a yellow shirt and matching suede shoes. Casual but immaculate.
Haute couture is French for haute couture. It's French people that invented and spread the concept. That's why the name is in French and used in its French form worldwide.
I'll be interested in Spanish sartorial style.
I would say the essence of being a gentleman is being lost, i.e., honoring your word, have integrity, be compassionate, etc. or in short, do the right thing.
Thank you so much for this video. My wife, who is of English heritage, has challenged me to refine my style. I found Sonya's perspective insightful and thought provoking. Tastefully done!
Thank you for leaving a comment. It helps to move forward when receiving such encouragement--and I wish you well as you begin the path to refine your own style! ~Sonya
Did she leave yet?
I love this video from a female perspective. She’s lovely and she has great style. You both compliment each other. Thank you, I love your content!😊❤️
Hi Kristin, I adore that you watched and commented like this. Thank you! ~Sonya
This is class.
Thank you. ~Sonya
👍Great commentary. As a woman, I just love and appreciate you and your style. Thanks for sharing your point of view and info.💞
Thank you so much for your energy here. Cheers! ~Sonya
I was touched this morning by your insights and gently passionate delivery. Finishing the last few minutes, this evening is a perfect capper to my day. Particularly, the overview of the geographical personalities of suits was the most helpful I've seen. Thanks ever so much, Sonya and Hugo.
Such a lovely comment and helpful to know the geographical examples worked. Thank you! ~Sonya
You're so welcome. Please keep up the hard work.
As a round guy (300ish lbs 5ft 7) I find when wearing suits and more formal clothing I look and feel better in myself. Watching this video, and others in the series have been vital in moving from living in jeans and chinos with shirts to a more formal wardrobe. Thank you. One thing I would ask is have you considered a guide or video for gentlemen of my build?
Hello Adam. I enjoyed reading your response and am inspired by your resolve. I wrote an article on Parisian Gentleman entitled "12 Ways a Heavier Man can Look Thinner". Perhaps we will do a talk on the subject. Thank you for the suggestion and keep moving forward. ~Sonya
Simply wonderful. You are so right about getting lost in yourself, there is a thin line between taking pride in ones appearance and coming off as overly confident. If you just try to be yourself, that’s always a good balance in my view. A true gentlemen doesn’t need to work in overdrive all the time. It should be effortlessly natural.
Yes Josh, this effortless elegance is also called nonchalance. Some people have it naturally (Gary Cooper being the epitome of nonchalance) and some people have to work hard to acquire it (Fred Astaire was anything but nonchalant, but ended being extremely elegant). Cheers, Hugo & Sonya
Loved listening to you, hope you do more on this channel. One suggestion is it would be nice if you did a cutaway to show some examples of the different region's suit types as you described them.
Great feedback, and I agree and will attempt to remedy in the future. Thank you for your words. ~Sonya
Very good idea. I would love to see all these different suits and accessories. Thanks
Very educational. Thank you. I want to see and learn more. Keep up the great work.
The feedback and encouragement is very helpful. Many thanks. ~Sonya
Excellently told, Sonya! I found myself identifying my style within the big picture you so eloquently articulated. Good luck with this wonderful series, to you and Hugo.
Thank you so much for your encouragements. Sonya
Thanks, LT. It helps to know the words resonate. I really appreciate the comment. ~Sonya
Dearest Sonya, How did you begin and continue in your knowledge in the art of Gentleman's Sartorial Elegance? You have opened my eyes. Kindest Regards.
I began in the surgical world of all places, learning about textile production. And after being trained in writing, I began producing pieces on male elegance. Thanks for asking and for your kindness. ~Sonya
Very pleasant to watch this video! And Sonya's style is breathtaking !
Hey wow, thank you so much! ~Sonya
I absolutely love and respect this lady. Her voice and demeanor not to mention her absolute knowledge of men’s fashion commands respect and admiration. And she looks absolutely devine in her suits.
Hi Jose, What a wonderful message--I so appreciate your words. ~Sonya
Thank you for your kind remarks.
You are soo cool.....the way you communicate n share the knowledge.....sweet , soft and precise......
Sonya, not sure if you practiced the tone, speed and pitch of your voice but even if you did you come across exceptionally well and undoubtedly are an influencer of mens style. Kudos!
Hello RSS, This was my first solo completely impromptu talk with no notes. I had no clue how it would go--so I truly appreciate your assessment. I had 10 minutes notice before the shoe talk & I was much more (obviously) nervous! Thanks from the heart, Sonya
As your inner beauty shines to form the beautiful person you are, my lady, I find the beauty from within that gets reflected on the facade of the person is what makes them appear in what we call "gentlemen and ladies". All what you truly mentioned I can summon up in "Honor", its the essential and most profound attribute that all the amazing attributes that forms what we describe as a "gentleman" are derived from. People have forgotten how to look honorable and dignified, the focus recently has been on how to look "hot and sexy", which in the vast majority comes across as vulgar.
In my opinion: Honor is the source what drives people to "do the right thing", being proud yet humble, being courageous but not insane, being confidant but not vain. Behaving and looking honorable are things that the vast majority of people have forgotten this concept and way of life.
All the beautiful facade we may see in a person, very rapidly fades away in our eyes the minute we discover that under all this beautiful exterior exists an ugly person. There is a term which is being used recently among youngsters to describe that, which I will refrain from using, however, the most amazing attire would be merely a decoration, if there is nothing under it to substantiation it.
There is an old saying that goes like: "People receive you based on what you wear, and say goodbye to you based on your mind and heart". It is of paramount importance that our inner beauty is a reflected and complemented by what we wear, which also reflects whom we are.
In the center of all of this, I remain myself mindful to the fact that there is also a financial element attached to getting the right attire that people with beautiful minds and hearts may not always be able to acquire, or those who are very focused in life on the things that they do and produce but not what they were because their minds are entirely focused on their mission. Hence, I always keep an open mind when meeting new people since it's the mind and the heart that are the main foundations for me to call someone a gentleman/ lady or a cad.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You are bringing a lot of inspiration!
Hello and so happy to know! ~Sonya
It's refreshing to hear a lady speak without exuding anger, neediness, or shrillness.
I'm late to the party watching this Sartorial Talk but I believe it's timeless. Very interesting perspective Sonya. Good ideas on how to define one's own style.
She speaks elegant yet not pretentiously which is not easy to do. Very easily explained!
This is a wonderful assessment and is very much appreciated. Cheers! ~Sonya
A very eye-opening video.
I've always believed that you should wear what is you, as a form of open dialogue. But not being afraid to discover yourself in the form of experimenting with clothing can be fun and rewarding, instead of just stepping out of your comfort zone.
Nicholson mentions the "pantsuit" from a feminine point of view. Notice that whilst she wears a pale green necktie, the collar is not actually "buttoned-up", so that a very subtle adjustment can be made - without making it seem so obvious. Very courageous, but also very classy.
Is there a possibility of an episode being dedicated to women? Perhaps even a book? Im having a difficult time finding shoes and clothing of a higher standard for the wife. Your reference of Walker Slater has been a great help.
Best regards,
David van Veen.
It's the motive that matters the most. She's absolutely right. Very well put, ma'am.Then again, it takes a lady to define a gentleman 😊 . 🙏
She is right I agree ! Hugo
Omg. I just randomly clicked on this video and FINALLY saw a woman that dresses like this. So classy, elegant in a suit--not a dress. And thank you for the Carminas recommendation. Holy shit--you just changed my life.
You are a beautiful and elegant lady Sonya, Hugo is a lucky man. I agree completely with what you said. Thank you for your contribution on this. I think the "Gentleman" needs to make a comeback in this day and age.
Such great information. I enjoyed every second of this!
Sonya epitomizes a more compelling argument in favor of bespoke suiting. Sonya is a woman of style and beauty, but I couldn’t help but notice how nicely her vest conformed to her bodice without looking stretched or draped. This is the compelling argument. No matter your shape, a quality tailor will be able to showcase the most attractive you and simultaneously mask any flaws; a “trompe l’oeil” effect. If you also appreciate the cut and fit of Sonya’s vest, you know of what I speak. Bravo!
You point is well taken about bespoke (thank you for that). Sometimes I hit the bespoke mark and other times I miss it, but absolutely savor the journey, and perhaps you can relate. I appreciate your comment very much! ~Sonya
i luv this woman,she has this aura i cnt describe,she is amzing....
Thank you, Joseph! ~Sonya
You are most welcome....whn i grow up i want to be a gentleman~Joseph
Totally agree!
mam i really inspired the way you talk. you are the best professor. thank you
One of the things I like most about finding an excellent vintage suit is it's story. Who owned it, what's it's been through, who created it, how long it's survived.... Even little markings of wear are interesting. Until I get to a place in my life where bespoke is a viable option. I'll always choose vintage for this reason. I could go MTM. it's just not nearly as interesting to me.
Very elegant and informative. Thank you.
You're welcome and I appreciate this feedback very much. ~Sonya
I got rid of my Hickey Freeman suits for just a couple of basic Isaia suits (navy and gray). I don’t have to wear suits anymore but these are last ones I will need and just go with fun patterned Isaia dress shirts to go with them.
Isaia is one of our all time favorite ready to wear brands---adore the vegetable dyed fabrics and tight collar fit (cut at a bias to prevent most collar gaps). Cheers! ~Sonya
This is an amazing video. The information is realy good. The quality is amazing. Thanks for the effort that you do.
Dear G.W., Thank you for taking the time to tell us that the info and quality shines through. Feedback like yours really helps us to push forward. ~Sonya
If you were my engineering teacher I would never bunk my class at all.
Your way of explaining things is on a another level.
Much respect from my side!
From - MUMBAI, INDIA
Fantastic level of information. Much appreciated!
Thank you so much. ~Sonya
What you think about combining the styles? Let’s say English shoes and Italian suits.
Just curious, where you grew up?
Excellent suggestions and great video!
Once you understand basic tailoring concepts, set yourself free and combine your knowledge with your intuition. Cheers! ~Sonya
That is a very distinguished lady! The interview was very informative and very nice to listen to!
I'm really grateful for your comment and thanks for saying so. ~Sonya
Her enchanting, out of the ordinary looks made me subscribed her channel! Very intriguing personality!!!
I'm so glad to know it. Thank you, ~Sonya
Bravo. Sonya and Hugo are true professionals, artists, and good people (as we say in the south).
Glad to have you here, Alan, and many thanks. ~Sonya
Thank you for sharing your knowledge very good presentation
You're welcome CG, and I appreciate your kind comment. ~Sonya
Such an interesting and thoughtful accounting of male clothing style.
You really have charisma. Thank you for this video.
Ah, thanks for saying so ! ~Sonya
I believe this in this human approach to being a gentleman. It is true freedom, everyone should be welcome to experience it.
Absolutely every man with the intent and heart to do so, can be a gentleman. ~Sonya
Thank you for your knowledge! I enjoyed listening!😁😁😁
Wonderful inspiring talk ! Congratulations (and happy new year !)
Thank you so much, G.M. Happy New Year to You! ~Sonya
One of roles of a gentleman is being a father. Carrying your child around with pride sometimes leaves creases on jackets and shirts. Any tips on materials and care to stay looking clean and sharp the rest of the day?
Well said and respect to you for recognizing the importance of fatherhood. The most valuable thing I've learned when dealing with care of materials (in emergency situations) is the value of cold water. If I get a sudden stain and apply cold water liberally with a few minutes after the accident, the stain is handled almost every time. And, if I need to iron my shirt or trousers, but don't have an iron, I can take a moist washcloth and rub almost any wrinkle out---of course one must wait up to half an hour for the article to dry.
I hope this information is of useful ! ~Sonya
Love ur lessons, both of u. God bless
Much appreciated and thank you Abdul. ~Sonya (and Hugo)
Merry Christmas and a happy and prosperous new year to everyone who provides and watches this cannel. M.
I love it!!! Thank you so much for this brilliantly exquisite explanation!!!
I appreciate your enthusiasm so much. Thanks! ~Sonya
She is a very,very beautiful lady.
Hi Henry (one of my favorite names), thank you so very much. Cheers! ~Sonya
That was excellent. I was disappointed to see you don't have any content on your channel! Would love to see more videos w/ you talking about style.
Words like these help so much. Much appreciation. ~Sonya
Had to watch this after the 'Oxford' video, although interesting, had Sonya on standby most of the time. I watch these Sartorial Talks even though I'm a t-shirt & jeans guy. Sonya is a pleasure to watch and listen to.
We are glad to read this. Thank you, Sonya and Hugo
she is a very attractive and smart woman. she can make the man the best he can be. a woman like this is .... wow.
I didn't want the video to end. Very charming
Thank you so much. ~Sonya
I promise you that when word gets out you guys will have 1million plus subscribers!Bravo
Such a wonderful sentiment. Thank you so much. ~Sonya
Thank you so much Guy. Hugo
So Classy Woman. Actually i´m learning english and this is a very good form to learn many interesting things at a time.
This is wonderful to know. Thank you for commenting. ~Sonya
I love it Sonya! so inspiring.
lots of love ..
Thank you darling. I love you. Sonya
Another great video! Great input from Sonya and a really interesting insight..Keep up the good work!
Thank you Tomaz. Sonya
Glad you found it of interest. It's my first attempt speak solo for a complete show, so your words are really helpful. ~Sonya
I wish captivating talking as all these people I have seen from this channel would come with clothes. But that is priceless, no one can buy. 😌
Great comments. Challenge is exchanging and opening up for people like me who are introverts. I once had a person opened up to me that people thought I was snobbish because I kept to myself at social gatherings. Hurt badly because I am not a person who socializes easily with people I don’t know- quite unlike my wife. However I do believe in being in being properly dressed. As an American we have become very badly dressed. Recently I attended a funeral for friends mother. People showed up in jeans and collarless shirts. I was appalled- other than my friend and I not one suit. OBTW part of my background is Catholic school in the 60s. Coat and ties every day.
sonya is simply delightful. inspiring, enchanting, sophisticatedly warm and sparking, appeasing. yet sassy and modern with her hair and suit. plus, her skin inspired me to change my routine! i'd learn more in two cups of tea with her than in a finishing school.
When I wear structured clothing, I feel a sense of safety, purpose, and support - even if it’s not ‘comfortable’ in the ways most Americans mean when they use the word. Even if it’s genuinely restrictive. I actually enjoy a piece of clothing now and again that shapes the way I move in the world. It helps me orchestrate myself properly. And it’s something I remain intensely sensitive to, since most of my more feminine staples are full, flowing fabrics that provide that contrasting, freeing feeling.
Hi and I think Hugo could have written the same response in terms of placing a quality structured garment and respecting 'the purpose' of wearing a suit' over the simple issue of comfort. Thanks so much for commenting, ~Sonya
For me a gentleman is a cool and calm person...who waits for a person to act and react to it in a very calm way so it actually solves the problem... like James Bond
Have to admit I'm to much of a chameleon when it comes to my style.... thus I've quite a large wardrobe... and I don't really follow the supposed style rules that have been set out in life.... for gentlemen to follow... but this is just me and that is the way it is. But it is always good to see well dressed men out there. Especially when someone has made an effort for just to go to a local store for there groceries. I've always made it a habit to compliment especially the older retired generation of a well turned out appearance or even if they have a nice jacket or hat on, makes their day so often that someone has noticed them and the effort no matter how small that there put in to there appearance.... and I hope that when I'm shuffling around the local store in my more advance years that others will notice the effort I've put in as I'm shuffling around the local store getting my groceries.....
Thankyou for this excellent video presentation....
Love this video. Never thought of using a postcard to fold a pocket square. I could probably do that with a drink coaster.
Indeed. Great idea! Cheers! ~Sonya
I like the Northern Italian style clothing, thanks Sonya. Greetings from Amsterdam
Hello Amsterdam, The Northern Italian style is an elegant choice indeed. Greetings from France. ~Sonya
Thank you, Sonya, most inspirational. Good lessons to take away...
Thank you so much for your words. ~Sonya
I love to hear this woman talking with so much simplicity for men's clothing. Congratulations
I appreciate your encouraging words. ~Sonya
I love these videos! Fashion is not something that I can easily find a mentor in, but these videos are fantastic! Much appreciation and respect! I want to dress well for the ladies and these videos are a HUGE help! :D
Again, thank you! ~S
Very beautiful woman, but I could not stop looking at the tie. I absolutely love the color. I don't know what the color is called but I love it.
The clearest sign that this channel is succeding is the complete lack of vitriol and bile in the comments. Thank you to all the commentors!
Attractive is an understatement… she holds the classic beauty of poise, grace, intelligence and appearance in one. You simply feel that there is also a great sense of humor that might burst-out at any moment. Sadly, I do not recall women of this stature when I was a younger man; perhaps they had yet to be created in those days.
This may be the loveliest comment yet. I really don't know what to say except a heartfelt "thank you". With gratitude, ~Sonya
Pleasure... kind regards. TC
Lovely words, lovely voice.
I really appreciate knowing your perceptions, Peter. Thank you. ~Sonya
The way she talks is just so powerful. Just that alone makes her one in infinity ♾. Hugo is a lucky guy to have such an amazing elegant fine women.
I know what she is talking about ... I modelled myself as a gentleman from victorian ages ... it is a journey which is ongoing ... 17 years ago it started ... wearing EDP instead of EDT ... academic distinctions .... well read ... multiple talents ... and so on ... and yes not bothered about political correctness ... It is something which you grow into ... not something which you can deliberately impose upon yourself .... it is the confidence which you radiate ... belief system which you have .... all these things induced into your personality ...
You covered so much ground, and touched on so many facets of what's involved in becoming a better human. Thanks for putting your apt thoughts here. ~Sonya
Sonya, a beautiful gentlewoman to be desired.
Thanks a lot! ~Sonya
J'aime vos observations sur le gentleman moderne. Je crains que beaucoup de personnes qui regardent ce film ne se sentent obligées de se fondre dans un moule ou de regarder des vidéos affreuses de personnalités sponsorisées par youtube. Vous avez des idées que je trouve absolument fascinantes et j'espère que plus de gens trouveront cette série de vidéos. Bonne chance!
J'espère que plus de gens trouveront cette série de vidéos aussi :):) Quel commentaire encourageant ! Merci bcp, ~Sonya
Glad I found this channel. Very pleasant to listen to you all presenting. Some of it reminded me of when I just got into menswear. =)
There are common themes in this community, and I understand the familiarity you mention in regard to the sartorial journey. I'm glad you've joined us here. ~Sonya
Thankyou for helping us to be a little more better . Please name of the back ground Music; last one and last but second too.
Thanks for this. I think you should add a small side picture when you are describing anything. As an example I was trying to figure out what you meant when you were describing pocket handkerchief!
Good point, we will try to include more B roll. Thank you, ~Sonya PS: If you're motivated to do so, search "pocket square Calabrese" and click images to see nice examples.
Pretty interesting point of view. It is a pleasure to learn a bit more every day.
If you allow me a suggestion, I would appreciate a more in-depth discussion about the psychology of a gentleman (especially with a lady with such a magnetic presence).
Greetings from Spain.
Thank you for your assessment in regard to a "magnetic presence"! Can you be more specific, so I understand what you would like to see explored? Specifically, could you offer an example of your own sartorial path of dressing a certain way, and the pscyhological affect(s) you notice? Thanks again, ~Sonya
I think the discussion is on the right way; the willing to do the right thing, giving more than taking, self-respect and the respect for others... Values that are being lost. It seems correlative to good education, but I believe that there is more. Not sure if you know what I mean.
By the way, in the video you mention some spanish shoe brands. I would add Berwick (some people consider it better than Meermin).
I do sense what you mean when you say "I believe there is more", and will wait on a better understanding of what the "more" encompasses--and try to relay what I come to understand. Thank you so much, Sonya