Class is in the makeup of people - can't be bought - it is just there. I remember an elderly father handing his daughter a little shawl as she was about to go out to dinner wearing a somewhat low cut dress. Instead of commenting. he simply said "take this as it gets chilly in the evening". That father was very careful with words and he lived a simple life. People loved being in his company. To me, that is class.
After buying super knockoffs to try them out and then starting to buy the originals exclusively, I can tell you that most people will never be able to tell the difference if you buy them here *unidups* . If it's a low-profile brand, most people won't even know who the designer is. Super knockoffs aren't cheap either if you want good quality imported leather, mirror image replicas, etc. They start at $200 and go up to $1000-2000 depending on what you buy (bags, jewelry, shoes, etc.). If you find a good craftsman, they can make a replica for you
Money doesn’t buy class. There was a time when I believed that surrounding myself with wealthy and elite individuals would improve my life. I assumed they were inherently better people-more kind, refined or good in nature. But I couldn’t have been more wrong. I’ve come to realize that success and wealth doesn’t make a person automatically a better person. Wealth and success often magnify a person’s true character, and sadly, many fall short when it comes to decency. Finding someone with both wealth and genuine class is a rare exception.
Excellent video! Wise words. I will definitely be watching/listening to this again and will continue to work on myself in what I choose to say and how to express myself. I am 79 years old and will always be open to learning how to be kind and have dignity.
Great advice! But once l needed a place to stay! My coworkers helped me out! I was very young at the time but l am glad l told them! I had a family that didn't care about me! I made 8 good friends that day! We have been friends for life as well! All about the circumstances! For a normal person all these are great tips! But there are exceptions to every rule!
I was close friends with a classmate that came from a hard working upper class family. She asked me how much money i had. We were 27. I told her because we sent each other business. She asked what i was going to do with. I said, “I don’t know.” “Can I borrow $7000? “ “For what?” “I wanna buy some jet skis. We would have a lot of fun.” “No. I want to buy a house eventually.” Omg, i thought she had some crazy illness. I am debt free and she…doing her own thing. I don’t need to care anymore
Stop using “classy” and “wealthy” interchangeably; they are not synonyms. Plenty of people of new and old wealth are mean gossips or just judgmental, rude and crude. Classy people do not behave that way, and are not always wealthy. This video seems written by a person who wants to promote a certain etiquette, but does not actually know wealthy people. It promotes a false narrative.
That is extremely funny that you say wealthy women aren’t passive aggressive or gossipy. Having grown up among them I can tell you those are 2 touchstones of old money upper class women. Both are bad habits, obviously, but the most well bread and wealthiest women engage in both like they are Olympic sports. And btw, it has been this way since the beginning of history.( ex: any female of the French court, or Capotes “ Swans”.)
Top wealthy don’t engage in any conversations at all with people below them, any not just about money or health … 😂 They have no interest to be even standing beside a regular person 😂 But in between them they are worse gossipers than any regular person 😂 and in their minds they can not stand anyone else even not the other wealthy with whom they gossip 😂 Am I right? 😂😂😂
I had a demanding nail client that freaked out about leaving her $200 Fendi scarf in the other manicurists pedicure chair. “It’s here.” I didn’t need to know the cost. I gave it to the owner (her close friend). She is 91 now, years before i did drive to her house to give her the sunglasses she left at my station. Best neighborhood, nice antique furniture, but pokes me in the arm like I’m her slave. My arms are always sore bcz of my job. 30+ years. Now i crochet and sew and still have sore arms
unfortunately you are confusing wealth with class and elegance. All the above characteristics apply to class and elegance that can be possessed by not so wealthy but cultured or even just naturally gracious people. Not only nouveau riche but also old wealth women have been known to engage in gossip and passive aggressiveness, if not obvious vulgarity....
I trust Tanner Leatherstein's knowledge of leather. Would I buy a bag designed by him? No. If I owned a *unidups* bag company, would I buy leather from him? Yes.
Wealth or poverty has little to do with it. True, wealthy people are unquestionably more likely to have more formal education, but who hasn’t heard filthy rich people using filthy language? Conversely, a blanket opinion that less wealthy people can be assumed to be ignorant and/or crude is unseemly and frankly cruel. Anyone can speak beautifully or in an unkind or even vulgar manner, irrespective of his/her wealth or lack thereof.
There is nothing wrong with being excited because let's face it being rich is not as a vast as some people would say or want to think and when you make it or say you saved enough money you get excited and there's nothing wrong with that embrace it but at the same time at knowledge that hey you've got something that not many people have despite the fact of the reality that not too much changes maybe a few things like your social life bank account stuff like that but besides..... 💌
class is what money? Buy logos to build someone else's pockets? FYI What is wealthy. Wealthy people know who is wealthy. they know who went to the private schools who belongs to the country club who their husbands or dads do for business with. So your walk and clothing to pretend to fit in? You know your real friends that's the place to be not trying to fit in that you don't do business in and you are not in the club. rich doesn't mean you are refined or have integrity
My cousin is very bougie & nouveau riche. She has rubbed it in my face on Thanksgiving & Christmas that I had to work the next day. She has never had a job in her life. She also rubs it in when she gets to travel around the world. I told her that it takes a bougie to flap her lips like she does. When I sold jewelry, I got bougie people bragging about what they had spent in the last cruise port & that I should have met them the day before & how unlucky I was that I did not get the sale. I told one couple that did that to me how funny i thought it was that there was another couple who left there $25,000 package and did not find that! I wonder what an old money woman would say to that!
This entire channel is bs. It’s social climbing coaching to marry new money who thinks their new money friends will be impressed. That model would never pass among old money - who are wasps. They start riding at three or spend summers at sailing camp. How you gonna fake those skill sets? Or the schools, or the table manners? You don’t.
Let me guess: I’ll get the check. I just got lucky having affluent parents. No, I don’t find the working class a bunch of gullible peasants to be fleeced. I’d like to use my money and advantages to build a better world. ALL of these? Color me shocked. And the working class wins the certainty to be worked to death, suffer daily survival trauma, and be trod upon in general- yay!
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Class is in the makeup of people - can't be bought - it is just there. I remember an elderly father handing his daughter a little shawl as she was about to go out to dinner wearing a somewhat low cut dress. Instead of commenting. he simply said "take this as it gets chilly in the evening". That father was very careful with words and he lived a simple life. People loved being in his company. To me, that is class.
After buying super knockoffs to try them out and then starting to buy the originals exclusively, I can tell you that most people will never be able to tell the difference if you buy them here *unidups* . If it's a low-profile brand, most people won't even know who the designer is. Super knockoffs aren't cheap either if you want good quality imported leather, mirror image replicas, etc. They start at $200 and go up to $1000-2000 depending on what you buy (bags, jewelry, shoes, etc.). If you find a good craftsman, they can make a replica for you
@@MobilioDixieSo how is your comment relevant to the above comment? Are you trying to sell knockoff scarves? Just wondering.
Money doesn’t buy class. There was a time when I believed that surrounding myself with wealthy and elite individuals would improve my life. I assumed they were inherently better people-more kind, refined or good in nature. But I couldn’t have been more wrong. I’ve come to realize that success and wealth doesn’t make a person automatically a better person. Wealth and success often magnify a person’s true character, and sadly, many fall short when it comes to decency. Finding someone with both wealth and genuine class is a rare exception.
My mother was from the old school. She always said. Good taste can´t be bought for money. Either you have it or you don´t.
Didnt grow up wealthy or privilege, but am glad I have most of these traits..my mom raised me well.
As this is just manners. You do t need wealth to have etiquette
Excellent advice. Classy ladies are kind, gracious and thoughtful of others.
Thank you so much
Excellent video! Wise words. I will definitely be watching/listening to this again and will continue to work on myself in what I choose to say and how to express myself. I am 79 years old and will always be open to learning how to be kind and have dignity.
Great advice! But once l needed a place to stay! My coworkers helped me out! I was very young at the time but l am glad l told them! I had a family that didn't care about me! I made 8 good friends that day! We have been friends for life as well! All about the circumstances! For a normal person all these are great tips! But there are exceptions to every rule!
very,...very good points to work on yourself to become a considarate better person!!!
Yes I just saw a post by a woman saying "mention any Trump and you are off my feed."..huh? It was nothing about politics at all.
The women sounds ignorant.
In my humble Russian opinion this video is simply about good manners.
I was close friends with a classmate that came from a hard working upper class family.
She asked me how much money i had. We were 27. I told her because we sent each other business.
She asked what i was going to do with.
I said, “I don’t know.”
“Can I borrow $7000? “
“For what?”
“I wanna buy some jet skis. We would have a lot of fun.”
“No. I want to buy a house eventually.”
Omg, i thought she had some crazy illness.
I am debt free and she…doing her own thing. I don’t need to care anymore
I think it's tacky to ask to borrow more than $10 from anyone other than your close family regardless of how much money they have.
Love this ❤
Excellent advice.
I'm so sure the rules do not apply to all wealthy people, human nature and behavioral patterns do not discriminate.
👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏great great great advice !!! Much appreciated!!!👍👍👍
Stop using “classy” and “wealthy” interchangeably; they are not synonyms. Plenty of people of new and old wealth are mean gossips or just judgmental, rude and crude.
Classy people do not behave that way, and are not always wealthy.
This video seems written by a person who wants to promote a certain etiquette, but does not actually know wealthy people. It promotes a false narrative.
Money doesn’t always mean classy.
One thing it does mean that they avoid folks with less money since they cannot afford small (or large) niceties.
@@KR-xv3ko This !
This is trendy these days - one promotes something he / she has no clue about.
Nonsense propagators.
That is extremely funny that you say wealthy women aren’t passive aggressive or gossipy. Having grown up among them I can tell you those are 2 touchstones of old money upper class women. Both are bad habits, obviously, but the most well bread and wealthiest women engage in both like they are Olympic sports. And btw, it has been this way since the beginning of history.( ex: any female of the French court, or Capotes “ Swans”.)
Top wealthy don’t engage in any conversations at all with people below them, any not just about money or health … 😂 They have no interest to be even standing beside a regular person 😂 But in between them they are worse gossipers than any regular person 😂 and in their minds they can not stand anyone else even not the other wealthy with whom they gossip 😂 Am I right? 😂😂😂
I like this one
I had a demanding nail client that freaked out about leaving her $200 Fendi scarf in the other manicurists pedicure chair. “It’s here.” I didn’t need to know the cost. I gave it to the owner (her close friend). She is 91 now, years before i did drive to her house to give her the sunglasses she left at my station. Best neighborhood, nice antique furniture, but pokes me in the arm like I’m her slave. My arms are always sore bcz of my job. 30+ years. Now i crochet and sew and still have sore arms
unfortunately you are confusing wealth with class and elegance. All the above characteristics apply to class and elegance that can be possessed by not so wealthy but cultured or even just naturally gracious people. Not only nouveau riche but also old wealth women have been known to engage in gossip and passive aggressiveness, if not obvious vulgarity....
The upper class swear like sailors, it’s the middle class that avoid swearing to be perceived as classy .
Sailors?
Must be new money 😅😅😅
@@roco3878 Yes, obviously a typo . Thanks
@@katniss4670lololol humans have personalities. It has nothing to do with their social class
It’s not class, it is how a person was raised.
#3: you may have confused “wealthy” with “classy”.
Elegant women don’t walk down the street holding drinks. More than half of your featured women are doing just that.
nor do they they color their hair purple...
I trust Tanner Leatherstein's knowledge of leather. Would I buy a bag designed by him? No. If I owned a *unidups* bag company, would I buy leather from him? Yes.
If less is more, then why don't they buy a $2 candle and a $20 handbag?
Taste is taste
@@graciousprazenhwekwete7279 Bravo!
Not necessarily less financially, they invest is good quality pieces that last beyond trends. Less is more in terms of logos e.g.
I know this is “tongue and cheek “,you can’t be actually serious
Where can one buy a candle for $ 2 these days ?
20 dollars handbags do not exist.
Oh ,wealthy women do all those things ,the only difference is that they are wealthy.You won’t believe the dirt that goes on in their lives
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Rich or poor, the world would be a kinder place if all people could practice these dynamics and simple considerations.
Yall need to stop going on the contrary all these points make perfect sense
Wealth or poverty has little to do with it. True, wealthy people are unquestionably more likely to have more formal education, but who hasn’t heard filthy rich people using filthy language? Conversely, a blanket opinion that less wealthy people can be assumed to be ignorant and/or crude is unseemly and frankly cruel. Anyone can speak beautifully or in an unkind or even vulgar manner, irrespective of his/her wealth or lack thereof.
There is nothing wrong with being excited because let's face it being rich is not as a vast as some people would say or want to think and when you make it or say you saved enough money you get excited and there's nothing wrong with that embrace it but at the same time at knowledge that hey you've got something that not many people have despite the fact of the reality that not too much changes maybe a few things like your social life bank account stuff like that but besides..... 💌
This is why theres such term as noveau riche
Nobody talks about money.
class is what money? Buy logos to build someone else's pockets? FYI What is wealthy. Wealthy people know who is wealthy. they know who went to the private schools who belongs to the country club who their husbands or dads do for business with. So your walk and clothing to pretend to fit in? You know your real friends that's the place to be not trying to fit in that you don't do business in and you are not in the club. rich doesn't mean you are refined or have integrity
This does not represent anything i experienced
My cousin is very bougie & nouveau riche. She has rubbed it in my face on Thanksgiving & Christmas that I had to work the next day. She has never had a job in her life. She also rubs it in when she gets to travel around the world. I told her that it takes a bougie to flap her lips like she does. When I sold jewelry, I got bougie people bragging about what they had spent in the last cruise port & that I should have met them the day before & how unlucky I was that I did not get the sale. I told one couple that did that to me how funny i thought it was that there was another couple who left there $25,000 package and did not find that! I wonder what an old money woman would say to that!
How much is it 😂
It's ethics, not wealth
This entire channel is bs. It’s social climbing coaching to marry new money who thinks their new money friends will be impressed. That model would never pass among old money - who are wasps. They start riding at three or spend summers at sailing camp. How you gonna fake those skill sets? Or the schools, or the table manners? You don’t.
Let me guess:
I’ll get the check. I just got lucky having affluent parents. No, I don’t find the working class a bunch of gullible peasants to be fleeced. I’d like to use my money and advantages to build a better world.
ALL of these? Color me shocked. And the working class wins the certainty to be worked to death, suffer daily survival trauma, and be trod upon in general- yay!
The rich also say rich and big money instead of the pretentious “wealthy”. Even the pretentious “wealthy” like a bit gossip
It’s learning to play the piano not learning piano
My brother picked up contacts wheeevee he gore hands out and asks for business cars
The rich don’t say wealth they say rich if they are avoiding being seen as nouveau riche
I never swear my parents didn’t if my brother or I said shut up we would get a quick slap on the cheek
I’ve never fallen could of any of the traps you mention. Tthat might be because my mother was elegant . I loathe vice unasked for. being give add