SIGNS YOU ARE DISRESPECTFUL TO YOUR HUSBAND

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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @InshasChoice
    @InshasChoice Год назад +41

    Just brainstorming what I've witnessed growing up.
    1. Talking badly about him to your parents / getting others involved in your problems and arguments (constantly)
    2. Sharing intimate details with your girls (thankfully, most muslim women are hush hush)
    3. Venting to him as soon as he comes back home from work. Not giving him time to unwind. Also, not asking him about how his day went
    4. Talking shit about his siblings and mom (constantly - no validity)
    5. Pinning the kids against him
    6. Provoking him
    7. Insulting him infront of others, disguised as joking
    8. No self awareness / not taking accountability for your faults & flaws
    9. Nitpicking everything he does
    10. Not showing appreciation + being passive aggressive

  • @aishalawal1113
    @aishalawal1113 Год назад +14

    This came at the right time! My husband consistently says I do not listen to him. Prephaps from your point of view , I now understand what he means. I’m not listening to process exactly what he is saying. Jazakumllah kharyan sis for this video.

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +8

      Waiyakum my sister. May Allah bless you for admitting you have some work to do. That takes a lot of strength and humility. May Allah bless your marriage

  • @karenwright8491
    @karenwright8491 Год назад +14

    This is valuable information and it’s important to understand and act on it. Being a wife is a privilege, bring all of your femininity to the marriage and if it’s not appreciated I agree, bounce. Leave rather than change into somebody you are not. Such good advice dear sister. Shukran ❤

  • @Atalima
    @Atalima Год назад +24

    I’m a firm believer Allah sometimes uses people to teach us certain lessons. Truly grateful He used you for that purpose. Totally needed this at this very moment. Jazaaki Allahu khayran sister. May Allah keep blessing all of our marriages and make them means to attain His pleasure ultimately ❤️

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +5

      I do too. As humans, the message may come through us but Allah sparks the inspiration to get his message across. May Allah help us all to become better. 🤲🏾

    • @naiaferrell4203
      @naiaferrell4203 Год назад

      Ameen 🤲🏼

  • @InshasChoice
    @InshasChoice Год назад +2

    Subhan'Allah, you're definitely a pearl 😭. I know men can be a piece of work, but I'd rather be self-aware and work on myself... it's very easy to project. I also find men rarely have a support system unlike us women... their emotions tend to get ignored. Correct me if I'm wrong?

  • @asimbalaasimbala7673
    @asimbalaasimbala7673 Год назад +2

    Maashaa Allah,we men are also learning.

  • @anisha.m.223
    @anisha.m.223 Год назад

    Jazak Allah Khair. Such valuable advice. Love from Fiji 🇫🇯

  • @naima1979
    @naima1979 Год назад +9

    Assalaamu alaykum warahmatulah sister, trust me when I say that Allah Azza Wajjal sent this message through you today Allahu Akbar! I appreciate your directness and insight as it's much needed in my marriage at the moment.
    Jazakillah khair 🌺

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +2

      Walaikumsalam warahmatulahi wabarakatu. Masha’Allah I’m so glad to hear that. Waiyakum

  • @nisreen1589
    @nisreen1589 Год назад +1

    JazakAllah Khair Sis. Can you do a video on how to repair relationships after some of this occurs? How to move forward after some of the damage has been done?

  • @ikranabib7919
    @ikranabib7919 Год назад

    Masha Allah tabaraka Allah
    Jazaka Allahu khayr sister beautiful advice ❤❤❤❤

  • @Ruffydiva
    @Ruffydiva Год назад +1

    Much needed video Masha’Allah. This is so relatable came at the Perfect time 👌🏾

  • @Limalima12Ahmed
    @Limalima12Ahmed Год назад +1

    Am not married yet but find your contents really useful as respect is important in any relationship. Thank you and May Allah bless you.

  • @nasska7054
    @nasska7054 Год назад

    Sis I'm loving your channel and find your content very beneficial masha Allah, jazak Allahu khairan

  • @maherelzaher
    @maherelzaher Год назад +1

    Thank you. May Allah bless your marriage and give you success in your works. Aaameen

  • @YR-jc5ur
    @YR-jc5ur Год назад +1

    Amazing beneficial content MashaAllah JazkaAllah Khair sister ❤

  • @MaryamAli-vd1xv
    @MaryamAli-vd1xv Год назад +1

    Loved your very helpful advice for our community. Your words are very appreciated sister. 🌹

  • @YoungRiaz
    @YoungRiaz Год назад +5

    I found this video very informative

  • @mariamaria5532
    @mariamaria5532 Год назад

    Sister the video was spot on Alhamdulillah and I love the new set it looks great and suits you so much ❤️

  • @susankoroma3870
    @susankoroma3870 Год назад +1

    Mash Allah sister may Allah continue to bless you for your good advice

  • @salehfarman9054
    @salehfarman9054 Год назад +1

    ALLAH bless u for your truthfulness...not easy to find a woman like you....

  • @ramatouliekonateh7427
    @ramatouliekonateh7427 Год назад

    Nafisa you’re sooo beautiful Masha Allah and your skin looks amazing😍😍 please share your skincare products ☺️☺️☺️

  • @YoungRiaz
    @YoungRiaz Год назад +2

    I shared the video on community wall

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +2

      Jazaka’Allahu khairan

    • @YoungRiaz
      @YoungRiaz Год назад +2

      @@NafisasPearlz thanks nafisa I appreciate it alot and may Allah bless you too

    • @aminamahmoud8899
      @aminamahmoud8899 Год назад

      ​@@NafisasPearlz Assalamu alaykum pls how do I get to u, I want to talk pls

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад

      @@aminamahmoud8899 go to website the link is in the description box or type in the name as it appears at the introduction to the video then on the menu section, choose contact and you can contact me there insha’Allah. Alternatively use my email linked in the description box.

  • @leilasaid8816
    @leilasaid8816 Год назад

    Love your content, Sis I would love to see you on Bitter truth podcast by Ali Dawah

  • @saphireattire1
    @saphireattire1 Год назад +2

    My father says.. if u want to go ur husband's home than never come here again if anything happens with u in future.. My husband is Mama's boy he do what ever his parents say's.. so im confused that wht should i do.. my husband also speak lie.. he never share with me anything.. my age is 25

    • @MC-vd5kp
      @MC-vd5kp 6 месяцев назад +2

      So your father has barred you from ever returning to your parents' house if you marry? Doesn't sound like a good father AT ALL.

    • @saphireattire1
      @saphireattire1 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@MC-vd5kp seems like that and now I'm not talking with my father what ever the situation is I'm depressed and stress i never share with my parents...

  • @saphireattire1
    @saphireattire1 Год назад +1

    Mam can u please guide me.? My husband is drug addict and he also smoke much.. so now my parents wanted that i should finished my relationship with my husband and my husband is also a mamma's boy.. he is caring me and my children but his parents force him to dont treat her wife well.. so anytime we fight with small reasons... I have 2 kids and i live with my parents since 2 years.. now my parents abuse my 3 year of children and nowadays she is so extra ordinary angry with everyone.. and she says i want to go with my father... Im very disappointed of my family behavior towards my childs.. please give a right suggestions what should i do..? Should i live with my husband or my parents?? Wait for your answer 😢😢😢

  • @ThomasinaSpencer-kv4kf
    @ThomasinaSpencer-kv4kf 10 месяцев назад

    No women should be disrespectful by her husband! Too much and too many times! Damn him!

  • @weebo45
    @weebo45 Год назад

    Beautiful advice MashAllah

  • @ginapetonito
    @ginapetonito Год назад

    Very nice video. Ma Shaa Allah.

  • @icedollar1391
    @icedollar1391 Год назад

    Thank you ma

  • @UmmD93
    @UmmD93 Год назад

    What if hes asking you to do things that are unreasonable, or just trying to be controlling.

    • @sarahnovella4971
      @sarahnovella4971 Год назад

      that requires professional help. i recommend you to go counseling/seek professional help..
      May Allah make it easy for you.

  • @n.n9035
    @n.n9035 Год назад +2

    Who else noticed all these things your husband does to you not you to him 😅

  • @amyhussain3173
    @amyhussain3173 Год назад

    MashAllah, very good content

  • @ThomasinaSpencer-kv4kf
    @ThomasinaSpencer-kv4kf 10 месяцев назад

    Very disrespectful what should I do!

  • @saphireattire1
    @saphireattire1 Год назад

    Im just worried about my 2 child😢😢😢

  • @madinahalakoozi1065
    @madinahalakoozi1065 Год назад

    May aAah swt reward you immensely

  • @muritalaakande69
    @muritalaakande69 Год назад

    more wisdom and knowledge.

  • @Fatima-bb8vc
    @Fatima-bb8vc Год назад

    Salam aley kum sister Nafiza ! I don'tb know why but the sound of this video is not clear

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +1

      I’m not getting that from my side.

    • @Fatima-bb8vc
      @Fatima-bb8vc Год назад

      @@NafisasPearlz it must be on my end then, sorry.

  • @nadirajames4267
    @nadirajames4267 Год назад +1

    Subhanallah!!!! Sis I Thank Allah ta’Ala for you!!! Ma shaa Allah TabarakAllah you’re always sharing such amazing reminders and advice Allahu Akbar 🤲🏾🤲🏾❤️🌹

  • @mariaawad1956
    @mariaawad1956 Год назад +2

    Asslam alaikum sister. I
    Understand the fact that the man is the provider and the maintainer of the house and that he goes out and provides for the wife and children, but what about men that don’t work and provide, do they deserve the same respect ? A women would respect a man more and the fact that he provides she would emulate that respect 100 more times, but what about a man who doesn’t do his Islamic duties ?

    • @NafisasPearlz
      @NafisasPearlz  Год назад +4

      Walaikumsalam. In this case the crucial question is, is he choosing not to provide or is he in a situation where he can’t provide? The other thing I would say is try to respect him as much as you are able despite his behaviour but if you feel you can not then don’t make each others life a misery by staying together. If you stay, do the right thing.

    • @ProfDrabusufian
      @ProfDrabusufian Год назад

      Don't advice for separation

  • @YoungRiaz
    @YoungRiaz Год назад +1

    Subhanallah

  • @miruyusi
    @miruyusi Год назад

    .neglected &my kids...😢..

  • @rolaalmasri5857
    @rolaalmasri5857 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @robertghazarian3075
    @robertghazarian3075 Год назад

    Your hypergamous nature doesn’t allow you to coach others in relationships,