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Muslim women today only focus on what the husband must provide for them and they all forget in return for this provision you must respect and obey him. But they want all the rights entitled to them without providing any to him
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Some women don't care about what islam says. They come up with different reasons to avoid intimacy by refusing or ignoring husband's requests or to fulfill the husbands needs...
Honestly if that happens, you are doing something very wrong as a husband. You are either not a kind, supportive husband, or You have let yourself go physically, or you are not pleasing her in the bedroom. I’m just being honest.
@@EB-gt1pq
lol you are wrong.i want it 4 times a week.i am talking in general not about myself...😂
@@EsHaQ2024 ignore that troll. It's a retarded feminist justifying all the actions that will take truckloads of women to hellfire. Most of the people of hell will be women.
@@EB-gt1pq you are a sexist fool that assumed it's the mans fault.
@@EB-gt1pq every comment, regardless of what it is, you are criticising men as if women are always right. Be realistic sister
God created men and women to be different, with unique roles, skills and responsibilities. These differences are not viewed as evidences of superiority or inferiority, but of specialisation. In Islam, the family is of central importance. The man is responsible for the financial well being of the family while the woman contributes to the family’s physical, educational and emotional well being. This encourages cooperation rather than competition. By fulfilling their mutual responsibilities, strong families are created and hence strong societies.
Also, emotionally, neither men nor women live a happy life without one another. Allah describes this beautifully by saying:
“They are clothing for you and you are clothing for them.”Qur’an 2:187
What about gay people?
So men can just work then sit around?
@@wouldyounot7971 Ofc not as a father and a husband it is his responsibility to get supplies,shelter and other needs for his family and he is tye one responsible to get his family out of hell(if you understand what mean)
Darwisy Solihin yeah idk y i wrote that i think i was irritated that day for some reason
@@wouldyounot7971 Its ok...even good ppl sometimes make decisions that they regrets...have a good day tho assamualaikum
May Allah grant us a good wife. In Europe it is very hard to find such a woman.
It’s difficult to find a good woman anywhere on planet earth today 😀
@@Quantum-1157 I agree , the best thing to do is wake up at the 3rd of The night pray and ask Allah to grant you a pious wife , never forget this life is a test , things don’t go the way we plan , Allah is always great tho facts
Then move back to the villlage Europeans don’t want you
@@money_1239 shukraan.
@@tcd807 in the caves in Europe? No way!!!
Do you wanna know what my husband did? He decided to leave me home alone with a child and a baby while he went out to have fun late at night. A woman seduced him and tried to have sex with him, and he brought me home an STD.
This is a man that prays, fasts, and has been to Hajj.
So are women supposed to obey their husbands no matter what??No absolutely not. I specifically told him not to go out at night, but he did not listen to me. I was in the right and he was in the wrong. So now I have to deal with an STD that could possibly turn into cancer.
So men, if your wives are not listening to you, you are probably making stupid decisions, as most men do. 🙄
STD doesn't turn into cancer,
only carcinogenic or radioactive substances cause cancer.
Do not despise men just because your husband disappointed you.
I hope you would recover soon.
@@dailydeen5742 HPV can cause cervical cancer
@@SonGoku-zr9ncI hope she isn't suffering from it.
Certain STDs do cause cancer. cervial cancer in women is because of one particular STD.
@@dailydeen5742 HPV is an std that causes cervical cancer
I can see one lunatic (most probably a Kaafir) keeps on commenting and using bad language. If he or she was a Muslim or good person then she or he wouldn't do this. Give it a rest!
Some people are thinking they are better off being single but some people see an opportunity to have a beautiful life and enter paradise.
asif saeed Exactly, these people only talk the talk
I think Muslim women are DEFINITELY better off single!
@@CathyKitson it's not obligatory to get married, but it's highly recommend. It has a greater reward more than u expected. U will loose it, if u prefer to be single.
@@mah9455 OK. But I do not see why any Muslim woman would want to get married. There's absolutely nothing in it for her except for slavery and being dominated. All the more reason to remain single.
@@CathyKitson thankfully your opinion doesn’t have any influence
My wife said to me I am too affectionate, that I am smothering her and I give her, her free space. She prefers to watch movies or TV shows than to spend time with me.
I try my best to give everything she wants and make her feel happy. But nothin, I don't even feel to be in a marriage.
Brother.. sometimes we might be too much loving and always behind wife. But it is better you give her space and you fill your time with something else. Or get married to another as well so your time will be split between two and let her have her time..
Women dont like men that are too loving. It makes them feel that they are too soft. And that you are too focused on women. Women feel that if you are too focused on them then you are not focused on life. Remember in the past men were focused on work and fighting in wars. That is how men are supposed to be. So they had less time and attention to put to their women. So stop paying too much attention to her. She has to feel the edge that you are busy with something else.
Make her work for your attention by not being with her too mcuh. Let he come to you. You focus on your goals in this duniya and Akhira, women like men that are like that.
I think you also let her walk over you. Women lose respect for men that let their women do this.
@@93boxing81 definitely brother you put it brilliantly mashallah
@@redman6790 thanks brother. We men need to realise this and constantly focus on deen and improving ourselves and not pedestalise women. Women lose respect for men that pedestalise them
vallahi every Day I need thus reminder
May Allah reward you with success in this life and the next. And may Allah make your husband feel the same way for you. Allahu akbar. Asalaamu ilakum ukti.
big p Amin ya rabb 😄
MashaAllah
My wife physically abuses me when she gets angry. I somehow control myself but it is affecting me.
Pls make dua for me.
I haven't got any close family members.
May Allah make it easy for you
I understand ur feelings and subhanallah ur a strong man controlling urself.
Brother, your wife needs professional help. Find her a therapist ASAP. I used to suffer from these type of anger issues as well
Just divorce her brother. Find yourself a pious woman that you truly deserve. Read the story of prophet Abraham when he found out his son's wife was not respectful to his son. He told his son to immediately divorce her and replace her with a pious one. In which case his son did.
There's plenty fish in the sea. Why waste your life with the rotten one?
divorce man! asap
What about abusive husband who always shouts his wife after doing everything for him.He makes her cry daily. Complaining over food, complaining over everything?
@@EsHaQ2024 Have a serious conversation with her. And listen to her. Men don’t listen.
@@EB-gt1pq
everybody has different situations
This is a video about men's rights in Islam. Comment this on the women's right section.
This doesn’t refer to an abusive husband. A real man gives his wife her due rights and respects her and in return she obeys him and respects him.
they talk about husband things olny for women same scholar they women abusive olso
Is just sad and disturbing when men use Hadith against their wife just to force them on her like an animal.
Instead of the prophets way of love compassion and romance to get the wife in the mood to make love.
Hadiths are for the fool. It contradicts the Quran itself so that says a lot. Women are autonomous beings beings, not products. Respect should be a two way street.
@Xi Jinping You're committing shirk if you believe that nonsense.
LBR 1 .. no its not shirk lol
@@wouldyounot7971 7 dates a day to keep evil away? You're putting your trust in dates instead of god. If that's not shirk, then you're in denial...or very gullible.
LBR 1 ._. Ma boi. I am very scared for u. Im not putting my trust in dates. Obviously its a lot more than that.
How do u even pray? U realize the hadith shows us how to pray, not the quran
Obesity and gluttony is hated in our religion for men and women
How dare you accuse him of gluttony?
What do you know about his situation?
Or his body?
Or metabolism?
Reference or get lost
If a husband abusive verbally and non verbally , then slowly abuse her spiritual then slowly abuse her physical..and he ask her to come to bed .. how is it fair..!?
He is ignorant and hv to show beautiful character Islamic ref very keen and modest way else to seek the peace as Islam guides
@@delowerhossain3069 brother I could have left but the children we have , it's a difficult to leave without trying best of my ability front of Allah swt.
I understand what is going through. Try to hv peacefully two months complete isolation with your family shade as a experiment for his realization that I hv done for my elder sister and 70% worked out. All context is different though. I will pray for you.
A woman is answerable for refusing Only if she has no valid excuse. Abuse, I believe, would be a valid excuse.
Allah SWT is Never Unfair as one of His attributes is that He AWJ is Perfectly Just, Alhamdulillah! 🙏
@@salwalishis911k Sister, sit down with him and explain him.. if he is a practicing Muslim. If he does not do his basic duty towards you and just expects everything from you.. He doesn't deserve you. Have you looked around? There are many who would want an understanding practicing women. Life is just a journey.. so all you have to look is towards your end goal. You can just use whatever means suits you.. but you are answerable for the choices you make so choose wisely. Take some advice from a sheikh.
It’s unfair to the woman it’s better not get married and stay Islam rather than cursing your self.
Isnt marriage half the deen? I think you need to get control of your nafs.
@@principlemethods5281 It isn't necessary to get married. All this "half your deen" stuff is used ad nauseum.
@@principlemethods5281 These are liars and fake people. They pretend like they don't have sexual needs
Thats why hell is full of women because of ignorant women like you
@@Blackfracolin1 WOWWW if a woman doesn't want to marry she is going to hell. now you are assigned to tell whose going to hell.
I am currently being thrown out of my own house which I am paying for everything..I've never raised a hand to my wife and it's always her who will raise her voice and always start to shout vulgarities at me, though I will be quiet and when it becomes unbearable, I respectfully leave my home without slamming anything.. she will see me packing and she does nothing. Going back home will only show my acceptance to the way she treats me. May allah help me with this.
@Good morning She is a practicing muslim and a very good mother, however I do not understand why she becomes someone else when angry over trivial things
@Good morning thank you, may allah ease your affairs!
@@horologyenthusiast8523 Sit her down, make her open up to you. Hopefully it gets better for you one day.
May Allaah grant you better. And me also. Ameen
Dear brother, be steadfast in ur worship and take this havoc out of ur mind and ask Allaah swt for his mercy and blessings. May Allaah swt grant u Aafiyah. Aameen!
If the wife help husband every single but the husband doesn’t appreciate on top there advantages.. always wife have to obey husband and woman have to suffer more
no, you are totally wrong. wife have equal rights. dun use what you see around you to reply. Alot muslim man and woman are just wearing the word muslim but not practicing it.
kelvin tay no men and women don’t have equal rights in Islam. Their rights are different
kelvin tay practice Tradition
@@Btt8 You must be a disbeliever or a ignorant muslim
@@immigrationlaw1984
Hahaha fool u hv no brain
Subhanallah, amazing amazing reminder.
Religion also said men should stay health and exercise not obese and or overweight.
Over eating is a sin “sheikh”
Pique NY lmfaooooooo i am crying
Yeah men should look good for their wives..
I’m unable to sleep 😴 after reading your comment
@@delowerhossain3069 cut out the fat and grease food from your diet maybe you can sleep more peacefully.
Half food half water half empty stomachs for air is the sunnah way for eating
@@piqueny8872 so you are mocking him for saying the truth?
Is it a sin if only the women are disrespectful? 🤮 What about men?
When a man doesn't protect and provide it's the same sin like a woman who is disrespectful
@@SonGoku-zr9ncliterally, u guys are promoting that women should stay in abusive relationships.
@@frenzybuzz3703 No we are promoting that BOTH men and women should fulfill their islamic roles in a marriage. It's fminists like you who want women to be masculine, bossy, combative, unthankful, disrespectful, nagging and always complaining, wanting everything while giving nothing in return for the husband.
Well said @@SonGoku-zr9nc
@@frenzybuzz3703so providing and protecting is promoting that that wife should stay in an abusive marriage? Use your brain you donkey
You obviously don't fear Allah considering your beliefs in shirk aka hadiths. I am not a slave to my husband neither his toy. I have the full right to refuse anything that makes me feel bad.
youre a hadith denyer. meaning you deny what the prophet of allah said. youll be punished for that inshallah
You're the only woman he can have sex if you refuse then where he go. You can't deny your responsibility like men don't deny what obliged to them but women are like you mostly. If he provides you then you can't deny him. If you don't fear Allah you're the cursed women who belongs to hellfire.
You are a kaffir
My friend many non Muslim intellectuals and historians have admitted to all of these you asked even if some do not accept after understanding. Everything is available online, debates and in books. All your questions have been answered multiple ways. My friend you need to look with a fair mind and just heart. Look in the right place and be careful who you take knowledge from as warned by the beloved Prophet Mohammed Peace be upon Him
if a wife treats husband bad its the husband fault for putting up with it
as simple as simple minded
I am sorry but his way of delievering message is little bit tough... may Allah forgive me. Thx for your knowledge but if you deliever message toward women , it is better to do it softly.. because it is also a aspect of good character.. when Sahaba they even advised someone, they were very careful not to hurt them. If you say little bit softly, muslimas will absorb your lecture with more pleasure. Jazaka Allah khairan.
He is telling it how it is. Straightforward and straight to the point.
@@solomondavid7657 his tone , for me he is upset about somthing 😢
@@solomondavid7657 women is complicated.. we need soft tone.. I know what he says is true.
I understand what u mean & agree with u.
@@미민튜브 his tone is better because although it will hurt the womans feelings, she will realise it more and it will be in her head for the rest of her life what her responsibilities are.
no one should obey others unconditionally
that's not human
If I provide for you and your kids and protect you???!!! You don't
@@isaacelmallah8633 no we’re all are individual human beings
@@Nevebrownie fair enough ,she can sleep around and do whatever she pleases. If that what makes you happy sir/madam do it.
they should obesy unless it goes against Allah or the religion
If a woman doesnt obey the husband she doesnt deserve his provision or protection.
Muslimah when you called your husband "Baby" 🙂 be ready to bear the responsibility that follows , This is what's called submissive
Bruh what do you mean? I’m totally lost🚶🏽♀️
Negative thinking will always take ppl to negative lane.
And the Jews will not be pleased with you, nor the Christians until you follow their religion. Say; “Surely Allah's guidance, that is the (true) guidance”. And if you follow their desires after the knowledge that has come to you, you shall have no guardian from Allah, nor any helper (120).
So what if your husband is upset with his wife and he is wrong? Sometimes a man can yell at his wife for ruining dinner. Sometimes a man is man because of a misunderstanding.. So if he is mad for such things, not that she neglected him or his needs, then why should she be further punished or harmed for his anger if it is not correct.
That simple sentence will tell you that hadith is not from Allah, think about it🤔 a man called his wife to the bed um.. and she is not in the mood for sex, then she says babe I'm not in the mood I owe you 1 and he gets upset😣 then the Angels start cursing... cursing until the next morning for what? Just because your husband didn't get a cookie? What kind of Allah/God O mighty does that? Please muslim sisters, don't believe this nonsense made by lusted man to fulfill his sexual feelings.
@Adam It is important for the woman to fulfil the sexual pleasures of her husband just as it is the husband's duty to fulfil the sexual pleasures of his wife. Both have an obligation to one another.
@Tina, if the husband is not appreciative of your cooking etc. Despite your hard work and effort, then he isn't being a good husband. For this a woman won't be blamed InshaAllah, in fact he's in the wrong. Continue to treat him with kindness, but get in touch with local scholars who can help you resolves issues you may be having with your husband InshaAllah. A woman is cursed when she doesn't please her husband, as long as what is asked to please him is within reason. So if he wants you to do something which is Islamic and reasonable, then you shouldn't disobey him. However, if he is displeased with for silly things like there's to much salt in his meal despite you paying a great deal of time and effort to keep him happy, then know this sister you are not in the wrong or amongst the curse InshaAllah. Allah knows best. Don't listen to Adam, he doesn't know much about Islam.
It seems like you're facing some hardship sister, and may Allah make it easy on you. Your husband should be appreciative of your efforts, and the best man is the one the who is best towards his wives. Allah knows best. I pray your situation is resolved sister. Take care InshaAllah.
@@AliAbbas-of2vq both have the same Obligation, but the man wont be cursed by Angels even if he refused to sleep with his wife why? Can you tell me please.
What if a wife is angry and upset from her husband? Does that even matter?
Leave Islam
@@shobhitgupta56 how do you say this to anyone are you that dumb?
@@fatoomlbq5679 You raised a question and there is no answer do for that in Islam. That's why I just suggested you to leave Islam
@@shobhitgupta56 you're just an idiot and I'm not going to have this conversation with you
@@fatoomlbq5679
He gave a reasonable answer to your concern. You either take from him or not but don't be disrespectful.
We all come from a women and we dont respect the women enought
I agree with you.
Women came from a man's rib...
Remember that
@@MilahMeia Adam was created first. You do not truly respect man enough. I don't know about others but i personally never disrespect a woman. In fact, I've had bad experiences and never once did I cross the line
Woman* , enough*
@@mohammednaqhid8706 truth yes is beautifully masallah
Lmao when ever woman are talked about in Muslim lectures about husband and a wife and the husband looks across the room smirking 😏 you hear that FATIMAH.
I think obedience is a form of respect and respect is earned not given husbands should equally be obedient to his woman
Ilyas Khalfi My ass relationship should be 50/50
Ilyas Khalfi lol little did you know that Aisha the rasools pbuh wife had many businesses and owned many markets and came on the back of a horse in those times to ask for Mohamed’s wife does that women seem obedient to her husband I mean she is but Mohamed pbuh was just as obedient loving and caring to her he did truly love her not like your arrogant ass I really do pray for your wife if you will ever get one
Hand ***
@@ilyaas01 prove it !
Ilyas Khalfi Brother these women are wasting your energy
All narcissistic husbands are watching this. If a husband treats wife right she will be like a angel for him.
If she refuses maybe he is not gentle and good with her.
Funny how he doesn't addresses it from other side.
This is one sided and its how men become abusive
Thats is not true stop actin like all women do no wrong cause it is false good men get treated poorly everyday anD then get blamed for it.
Lol
Religion sucks
"Funny how he doesn't addresses it from other side.
This is one sided and its how men become abusive" - This comment was also one-sided.
"If she refuses maybe he is not gentle and good with her." - Stop assuming its the men all the time. women aren't all angles themselves
"All narcissistic husbands are watching this" - No its all men that want to know their rights. I bet you spent some days learning about your own rights too.
I guess All narcissistic wives are on other videos. Going by your logic of course :)
Nope the hadith is clear follow it or disobey allah
Even your husband have two family and he is just supporting one family do you it’s still right it was mentioned in Quran and a pledge when you make marriage.
If husband not spend on wife she can rufuse to be intimate with him, she can even live his home and she can ask for annulation of marriage contract via judge. If husband tell the wife do something against sharia she is not obligatory to obey him.
Why not angles curse on such man??????
@@bismakhan5393 Allah knows well!
Bayt Al Hikmah
Wife doesn't have the right to 1) with hold sex 2) leave the house without husbands permission.
But she can apply for divorce provided she has valid reasons to do so..
Notice how he talks about hadith over Quran. Follow Quran first...that mentions how to treat women.
You treat her right there will be no problem. If there is look at yourself first.
Best comment on here!
If your wife is disobeying you or disrespecting you, what are you doing wrong as a man?
Typical fminists like you blame it all on men. Not all women are angels especially nowadays with the toxic fminist ideology that is unfortunately brainwshing most women.
@@EB-gt1pq Your comment assumes the wife can never be in the wrong. This is some feminist delusion. Are you even a Muslim?
So according to you women are perfect and if a husband treats her well then she will always treat him well? This is a lie. Stop coming here and pretending like women are innocent Angel's that dont have faults like every human do.
💀🤡
when if he's wrong ,a wife cannot disobey him or say her opinion. thinking that is falacy, sorry. and a woman when she ask a man in bed and he says No. what about the woman? some woman have a high libido too. And we have to fast after Ramadan obligatory, because of the period, is Obeying Allah or the husband must important. you are leaving many wholes on your argument. please I am curious.
A husband cannot say no to sex too.
@@musaib34 he should have stated it in the video
@@louisemalika This video was about a man rights over his wife.
women don't get to paradise through a husband, but thought good deeds. there for its called hijab and 3ikab?
sorry if I am wrong?
A woman can't enter Jannah with such mind a woman who is being okay to submissive to their husband will enter Jannah.
Indeed 👍
Do you think it's better for a man and woman to become one or one man and 4 women. Serious question
You will never ever find in this world what Allah says it’s really hard to find that kind woman even if a man been like an engle
Nowadays, certain women don't care about being cursed....it's the women's fault when Their husbands look for other women...Eventually, the wives will do the same thing. And the marriage is over..Must divorce happen because of women's NEGLIGENT Behavior
How about everyone treat everyone else the way they want to be treated. If you don't like being yelled at, don't yell. If you don't like being beaten don't hit. If you don't like abuse, don't abuse. Or you can just do what others tell you and waste your one and Only life being someone else's foot rest. Just a thought.🤔
This is not the nature of man
@Mi maybe talk it out as women seek emotional support
Treating others as you yourself wish to be treated is a Corner Stone of Islamic Khuluq {Manners}! ♥️
@@Btt8 and which is the nature of man???
@@fatimanoorahmad8720 man is often violent and oppressive. Sometimes wars need to be fought.
feminists muslimas are by far the worst wife you could get wal 3iyadubiLLAH
A wife must obey Allah by obeying her husband and love her husband for the sake of Allah swt
everything she does must be for the sake of Allah to get a special connection to her lord and to please him
There is a saying: People want paradise but they don't wanna die" they want the benefits without giving the efforts. Those very efforts become easy when you do it willingly for the sake of Allah subhannahu wa ta'ala
My husband lied cheated and used intimacy to control and emotionally bully me.
In the end I stopped caring for him.
Allah knows best.
Devil uses religion to cause harm too.
Listening to this guy I can tell he is Not a good Muslim.
The sheikh is talking about the men who does all the basic duties towards his wife.. not for the men in your description. Then man you described is deserved to be divorced. You have a choice sister. Why would any sane person needs to be in a relationship like this.. Allah says he will give you better than what you had.
Get a divorce instead of disobeying him and going to hell with him 🤦♂️
You think the sheikh is not a good muslim just because he did not pander to your little feelings and emotions ? You definitely need some therapy for your past relationship failure, and move on from that without being a crybaby talking about your personal/mental problems. This sheikh is 1000 times more knowledgeable than you will ever be.
Shk, can u please send me the Hadith about these females came and asked about the rewards of male going praying in masjid and giving charity and females can’t do that, so how do they get such rewards
Equal to the men doing all these things. Pleasing the husband is pleasing to Allah AWJ which is why a lady whose husband is pleased with her when he or she dies Is Guaranteed Jannah and she may choose to enter thru Any of its gates. A Muslim man has No such "easy" avenue! 😝
@@goranomarbockman806 true but we will be with our spouses in the end
May Allah guide all
I never had this chance.
I wish my wife was o bidets please make dua for me
Before wishing that, one has to ensure that they follow all the basic duties towards their spouse. Then expect for their wives to reciprocate. As men are given a degree above women, let's be kind and cut some slack for the women.
Divorce
*Maa sha Allaah*
*JazaakAllaahu Khair Sheikh*
It is good to leave the husband. Janna will be get easily.
Are you sick?
@@farisqneibi2371
U r sick...he/she is right
Amna sarif So she can fullfill her desires in haram ways?! Thats permissible?
Amna sarif Thats what I thought
@@farisqneibi2371 I think you are not only sick but also a fool who don't understand Islamic teach. Stupid where you get woman can't live without husband. These stupid man destroyed the world as well as Islam.
And the last hadith.. she will be cursed until the morning , right?
MashaaAllaah.....no doubt there are many rights of wife. He is here talking in general. Islam gave wives rights 100s of years prior to the modern civilization. In UK when did they give them rights if inheritance or right of opinions? Islam gave them this when they were busy using and abusing ladies.
Some Munaafiqah will not like this speech. There are some who only like themselves or think they are the most knowledgeable.
Get out of you box before it is too late.
Jazaakallaah Khairan Shaykh
Yes, but we're talking about now, not hundreds of years ago.
But Islam is now far behind to the rest of the world sadly
Thunderous one, you have no knowledge of understanding and Islam. I will. Ot debate with an ignorant person. You listed things which has been explained for manh years and for these we have seen in reality women got more. We have seen the reasons for these have more than satisfactory reasons
No Islam is not far behind. It will always be ahead. We Muslims are not acting upon the principles of Quran and we are to be blamed. Islam has shown golden ages and intellectual people are still praising the Islamic way to be the best and most just.
@@CathyKitson now modern women are deluded so much that they believe they deserve the same rights as the ban without the same responsibilities as a man.
I have done a very bad thing
in anger I hit my husband
what should I do know
he's not picking my calls
You are like my wife, I will advise you if you want your husband to keep on cherishing you don’t disrespect him
Today, many women would still deny these facts.
Today they deny it even more because of fminist ideology brainwshing them
They should accept obedience to a husband!!! In everything
Fax
What if a man is bad to his wife?
Salam to you. My wife doesn't respect me, my wife doesn't respect me, my wife doesn't care me, one time my wife told me DOG. Ya Allah my wife said me DOG, she doesn't respect me. She follows her mother and pains my heart. Today I am not happy with my wife because she pained my heart, she disrespect me, she disrespect my words in front of people. I am undergoing pains that I get from my wife.
Same thing just chill
The question is… What are you doing wrong? There are two sides to every story. What would she say about you?
@@EB-gt1pq one thing I want to say is that, there is no value of speaking truth when lies are honoured and respected.
Get a divorce and watch red pill videos stop being a simp all you need to say is talaq such woman is uselsss
@@EB-gt1pqsome woman are just bad
Maasah'Allah tabarakallah.
What if you are the one whose providing everything to home even you are a woman and he want you to obey him?
what didnt you understand with the video?
Thats the equivalent of saying what if i am the one providing everything at home for my father, do i still have to obey him?
Abdulaziz Fareh yes and fear Allah
Right
You're right, now the man should be fair and be submissive to the wife. Well, isn't this the same reason islam says women should be
N wht if a husband disrespect his wife
It's the same like asking "what if the wife doesn't protect and provide?" I am sure you know the answer on this question so you also have the answer for your question ;-)
@@SonGoku-zr9ncif the wife is fulfilling his conjugal rights and gave him children and providing him love and affection then wife shouldn't be disrespected as well. Women are people too, u can't hurt them.
@@frenzybuzz3703 The wife should be provided and protected. Respect is the obligation of the wife not of the husband. But sure if she is very submissive, feminine, always pleases and obeys her husband then the husband also will be gentle with her.
@@SonGoku-zr9nc through this obey authority a husband could even make a woman's life hell. I have seen that in my own house. If he's emotionally abusing her by restricting her then that's already not so called protection but abuse which could make a woman mentally ill, lol.
@@frenzybuzz3703 look the thing is you fminists will always complain about your role but you never see one single man complaining about protecting his wife and children with his life and providing for them by working 60h per week like a sl,ave. You women even have the easier job and yet you still complain.
The abu,se thing you mentioned can be said about men too, do you think a man wants to risk his life by protecting you and be a sl,ave everyday to provide for you!? It's hard but we men don't complain with our islamic role and you women also shouldn't be complaining at all.
What a narrow minded explanation of our beautiful religion. Marriage is based on mutual love and respect... If we have to resort to Islamic law to run the marriage than it's not a marriage..it's a transaction
If you want everything to be mutual, then finances should be mutual too. Both should earn and spend the same no matter what.
@@toorkhan9898 see this one? Men like you give bad name to islam and marriage! Woman is working at home harder than you do! Shes cleaning cooking taking care of the ids taking care of you washing ironing taking care of children education and many other things! And most importantly shes a mother! And a mother is always respected the most! So stop talking rubbish! You think that only the one who is making money have value and respect! You r very stupid! Rubbish! Shame on you and your foolish mindset! Is better you never marry! Non sense!
Fatima Noor Ahmad
You mentioned nothing Islamic but your own opinion. The husband has a status higher than wife's own father. Sorry to say, just like its absurd to say father should respect his daughter it's equally absurd to say husbands should respect wives.
@@hanzalaomar3234 we should all respect each other! And im talking on an absolutely islamic perspective! If you think that you should not respect your wife the im sorry for you!
Fatima Noor Ahmad
It's absurd what you're saying. Husband and wife have different rights and responsibilities. Do you say your father should respect you? Now think about someone with a higher status than father..
Wat happen to a woman that live her husbands house to her family for a pregnancy issue between them?
The ‘religion of peace’ is exhausting. If hubby is upset, perhaps he ought to be a real man and not take it out on his wife... also communication wouldn’t go amiss either...
Everything he said is regarding a righteous man, the Quran says if he is not righteous to his wife he deserves nothing therefore ur comment is irrelevant
@@aris8461 this is why I’m glad I’m not involved in any of this
@@LadyNajaGirl good then dont comment on things you don’t understand
@@aris8461 it must anger you enormously knowing that I can do whatever the hell I like 😆
@@LadyNajaGirl you see you’re probably dying for me to be angry so you’d have an excuse to say my religion is toxic or whatever, but no I actually couldn’t care less, u doing whatever u want doesn’t effect my day to day life or afterlife
Assalamualaikum
Don't just take extractions and sayings of our Beloved Prophet SAW and put them in your speechs without full and impartial information to both males and females
Jazak ALLAH
Shaitaans whisper
sam h
please correct the brother so we can all benefit from you
So if a woman doesn't want to be cursed she has to obay the husband even if in her heart she doesn't want to? So it's as though she has no choice..No woman should be expected to do with the husband against her will,that makes it non consensual which is a form of rape.
Saying she'll be cursed if she refuses is scare mongering to cause her to be afraid to refuse.
This is about Obedience, not so much to the Husband, as it is to Allah AWJ. We are all free to follow or to Reject the commandments of our Lord, but rejecting them has consequences for the Akhira.
This is NO Different than any other command ; do as you please. Just be aware of the possible consequences Sister.
Rape?? These are stupid ideas put into by Western society. If it doesn't work? If you don't want to obey Allah? Don't be a sinner.. just leave that relationship it's better for you..
Just like the husband has a repsnsbility to provide and protect whether he likes it or not, the wife has the repsnsbility to obey and offer intimacy whether she likes it or not. If she doesnt want to fine, but she isnt entitled to the mans provision and protection and the man is entitled for a divorce.
This is what is call supplication! Need to keep our nafs.
You lost the point to be a muslima spouse for the sake of Allah
Are you really willing to earn your place to Jannah or you think you're entitled to if you say "I'm muslim, I pray, I fast etc but I do not seek the rewards to fulfilled my role as a spouse to please my husband?
How about a man ?
TURN TO JESUS CHRIST!!!
✝Ephesians 5:25
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
Thats why christian men are disrespected
GOD said, "Husband Love your wife
" There's no beating a wife verse in the Bible
but you can shave off her hair if she doesnt cover it - source bible.
Salalaahu alaihi wasalam
A women stays at home or works has no responsibilities of outdoor or household bills or dealing with the world.
A man faces - dogs, liars, landlords, electric, gas, water work, income, family comforts ------ who for ? For his wife for his children, for his family, disgusting is the wife who does not realise what a man has to go through on a daily basis.
A man is tortured everyday with problems but does he moan, complain or cry,
A man normally only tells the good to his wife and hides the problems and torture.
How can a wife then torture him too.
Thankyou Sheikh for informing people.
Brother you are forgetting most women work! Then they come home and cook and clean and take care of kids. Many husbands come home and do nothing and expect the wife to do everything. Wives do way way more than husbands.
@@EB-gt1pq say all that until you actually work,
My dad has being doing taxi and building for 23 years he's been married,
We live in luxury including my mother who at times brags about how she does chores at times
I often do help
But when my dad comes home he has back pains
Dads go through alot FOR HIS FAMILY
I'm not discrediting mother, but my mom gets quiet after my dad talks about how his back is hurt from sitting in a car for long periods and building
Excellent
What is the sin for a wife who used such a word " if I sleep with you (hosband) is like sleeoing with my father"
That's dhihaar
May Allah curse her
She has broken Zihar. That is a sin and she is no more lawful to have any conjugal relationship with you. To clear this, she has to give kiffarah. Fasting 2 months or feeding 60 poor people. If this is not done.. You will just be in great sin for continuing the relationship.
What about if your husband is very irresponsible
What do you mean by irresponsible husband?
Lara Star if he does not give you your rights, you can forfeit yours
Then you should not watch this video lol
Very hard for you to judge.
Give concret examples instead of making general hypothetical claims.
Is wife allowed to get divorce and marry a man who is practicing Muslim
yes, but why the divorce there is rules to it. islam allows divorce if it is unbearable
Woman have right for khula ( annulment of marriage contract) if she have a valid reason. Talaq (divorce) its right of the husband. If women have valid reason she can ask for khula by give her mahr back to husband, if husband agree is free from him. Waiting period one months, husband can't take her back. If he want her back he have to make new marriage contract. In case of khula she have no any rights for maintenance any more. If husband not agree give her khula the she can go to judge and apply for khula.
Tauhid The Oneness of Allaah 4 month waiting period
@@kelvintay2878 True
Word!
my stepmothr always fights with my father verbal abuse and physical abuse she always hurts him
my ex was like that. I treated her like a queen but then I realized that i was wrong to allow that relationship in the first place
Then he should either divorce her or hit her back when she hits him.
Ur stepmother???
Ur father is enjoying polygamy?????
bisma khan that is none of your business really
@@farisqneibi2371 i asked her the question bcz in relationship this matters alot.
Islam has given right to cheat on ur wife.there is no sin to hurt ur old wife's feelings and bring a new young wife for urself.Islam has allowed men to play with wife's feelings.and this may be the reason her step mom keeps fighting with her husband.so again my advice will be to leave ur husband,dont fight with him.some time it gets very hard to please ur husband.like in case of polygamy.how can u be obediant to a man who is constantly hurting u.if u cant be obediant.better option is to get divorce,the only way to get rid of hell fire.
I will not get married then
I’m thinking to get into heaven ladies, don’t get married bc most husbands will never be pleased with you even if you kill yourself for them. Just get your dream man when you go to heaven bc these worldly men can’t compare.
That is absolut bushit what he speaks people dont believe everythig sheykhs and muslims and also non-muslims say about islam, I researched that topic and there is absolutly nothing like that!! Stay away from that sheykh he is one of the men who use religion to upress women as men do since humanity exists! Marriage is supposed to be beautiful and nor Allah nor his religion are unmerciful and strict!!!
Post your research if you are truthful.
I got married in December my wife disobeyed me spoke to her sister about our private relations this was spread to her brother inlaw making fitnah causing an argument due to her obedients to her brother inlaw and sister and not me. I divorce her once then been sufi are claiming it's a divorce when it is not i am not allowed to speak to the wife because the brother inlaw and guy called sajjad has told my wife and his family to block me on whatapp.
no woman should ever "obey" her husband. The problem is with you.
Have patience, Allah will provide u with another. Nowadays culture is taking to another level, while Islamic law is being stamped on
brain washed animal
You are right she shouldnt mention your private affairs, and if you divorce her once you can still take her back.
You are right to get upset if she is sharing private things, however i must say, you dont seem to have much commitment to her or forgiveness towards her. I can say without doubt. I am sure you have done wrong if not with your wife, you have made wrong decisions in life as well. That is where we all must have compassion and forgiveness towards one another.. By the way, you too made a mistake. You are to speak to your wife about what she has doje wrong, if she continues to disrespect you and not listen or act poorly, then you are to go to her family, if that dont work, then you are not to have private relations with her.. Then you have the option to do divorce. But only after you have tried all other options available.. So you have made this mistake too if you jumped to divorce out of anger. Guess what, she is human, no matter how much she loves and respects you, shes gonna make mistakes. She gonna anger you.. Forgiveness and loyalty..
Pathetic Weak hadeeths...nowhere in thr quran does Allah says a woman must obey her husband,verse (4:34) Allah says the obedient wife guards in her husbands absence what Allah has asked her to guard(and in this verse it means her chastity) and that if she is found guilty with 4 witnesses to then strike her .......obey your husband to what Allah has commanded that is why in islam a woman doea not even have to cook and clean if her husband says she must because Allah didny say she has to.
Are all these ahadiths about the husbands who Fear Allah and fulfil their duties to their wives or for all kinds of husbands
Don't be arrogant
This what prophet told and women like you are disagreeing with it and just end up in hellfire.
Jazzak Allah
What is the last name of this sheikhk?
Shady
Analog,really???!!I knw u re a muslim,needless asking though bt pls open ur eyes to d truth ok
also guards her chastity
What does the Quran says.. you only have quoted the Hadiths
The Quran says women have to be obidient. Hadith is also important part of Islam.
الرجال قوامون على النساء until the end of thr verse
The only one of those things that I am a little bigger and better than the last night and
to hear this.this hadis remain woman single.
gulshan mukhtar Do you know how to form a proper sentence?
@@farisqneibi2371 yes I know but you don't understand the meaning. Sad.
@@farisqneibi2371 I don't see the comment you wrote. Just now I see your comment and understand why Islamic society are destroying. This is only for man like you who don't have knowledge ideology and seance. Husband are caretaker not boss .You like to follow your wrong interpretations because it is easy to bossing over wife otherwise you don't have any quality.
gulshan mukhtar Are you a woman or man? From what I understood is that women should stay single because of this hadith
@@farisqneibi2371 I am a woman.if you know Islamic history the famous woman scholar rabeya Boris and many women sahabi were single. There is no rule in Islam that a woman can't stay single. In Islam husband can tech his family how to live in Islamic life and mashallah today's woman practice these nicely more than a man.wife only follow what hadis and Quran said.if a husband want to be boss and think wife must follow wrong thing it is wrong. Islam allow woman to divorce and without marriage living. So don't be go wrong if you don't respect you will not get respect because wife is a gift for man not slave. Now a day woman are more qualified than man.it is another thing you can't understand the main thing.
God said man and woman are to have 1 partner and the 2 are to become one and that anything other is considered fornication and an abomination to His eyes
Really? The Angels of Allah cursing the women for not pleasuring the husband?? That's man made hadith.No women in her right mind will accept this nonsense.
@CATHY B your Muslim friend is wrong. Aanal is Haram
is it true (even i really don't like that) but angels will curse her only if husband is angry i think it is said if a women is rightful she will come to bed and if the husband is rightful he would understand that her wife has her reasons and doesn't force her
Brother seems like she didn't deserve you or she wasn't up to your level of understanding or definitely she must have been having mental sickness or might have been having affair..
i dont listen to you talk women right olso
Very disappointed until 3:39... life is a test. remember that.
This is sad
Disobeyed haram
Judaism teaches the opposite. Woman is man's primary channel to G-d. Wife's happiness is what determines blessing for the man. Happy wife, happy life. Don't see how the Rabbis can make that up.
World needs a reality check.
I dont know what judaism says but what i know is that if the husband is not happy the wife will not be happy and if the wife is not happy the husband will also not be happy! If there's no respect and understanding from both sides marriage cannot work no matter what! Im talking from experience! But i will agree with one thing you said! Happy wife happy life!!! I may add happy couple happy life! 😊😊😊 Allah (swt) knows best! He doesnt reveal some things cause he expects us to go deeply and understand them! For example He (swt) mentioned that a wife should be obedient to her husband! Some people will just take the sentence thinking that they can behave to women anyhow and women have to obey them even if they behave bad to them! But a sensible person and a good muslim will understand that what should i do in order to make my wife respect me and obey me? I should provide for her and protect her dignity! I should fulfill her marital needs and wishes! I should be gentle and have understanding towards her! Etc... so same goes for the wife! Allah (swt) mentioned that me are the providers but if a much difficult time come the woman can also help small! But many women dont think like this! They think that hes the provider so he have to do everything alone even begging if is needed! But a woman that have understanding will think that what can i do to ease my husbands financial burden even small? Even if a woman doesnt want to work outside she can still work from house online! What im trying to say is that every married couple must respect understand and love each other! It cannot be by one side! And Allah knows best!
@@fatimanoorahmad8720Beautiful way of thinking my dear sister. JazakAllah Khair for sharing your wise words
judaism is a false religion
Too man awful women today
because of men like you
@@an-nd8uy because of awful women like you
@@yaseenmuhammad6696Phuck off butthurt misogynist
Sheikh needs to stop eating bread and rice .
This is incredibly stupid. No woman should "obey" her husband. No idea why people say Islam is the best religion for women.
Rabeelah Khan its disobey and not obey pls
Ridwan Ahmad there is no difference at all.
Rabeelah Khan u need to stop listening to d media to know Islam, go and study d quran yrself, then u will realise how women are to b treated as queens in islam
Ridwan Ahmad is this sheikh representing western media? No he is representing Islam.
Yeah haha "queens". Nice joke.
Rabeelah Khan so what is wrong with what he said?
Or do u have anything better?
Hello Islam this is 2018, get out of your caves and get educated.
How dare you! Islam was great religion of its time in the 7th century but many of its concepts are outdated in 2018. e.g Slavery, Having sex with non Muslim female prisoners of war even without marriage, Wife beating and Child girl marriage. So you can reject all backward and outdated concepts in Islam, not openly of course, and still claim to be a Muslim. Who cares.
Yes this is 2018 where moat women run out having random sex with any man, or woman, willing to have sex. Make child after child out of wedlock, of course, with all differnet men and deprive the kids of a stabke father figure and were the ones who need help!
He must focus on loosing weight because he clearly doesnt understand islam
You are insulting a brother, I don't see what hadith he referenced was wrong