The Feminism is spreading globally. Therefore, we can see so many negative comments over this lecture. A wife has to be obedient, a husband has to be responsible towards his family. That is the way of jannah. No one is allowed to do whatever he/she desires. Wallahul musta'an
Please make dua for me to be obedient to my husband and the coolness of his eyes. Just got married and all we do (I do) is fight. Especially when it’s never that serious majority of the time subhan Allah. Please make dua for me 😢
JazaaK Allahu khayr for presenting the ahadeeth in such a good way. I used to read these hadeeth and find them abit difficult to reason. I am so glad you didn't sugar coat them as so many daees do these days.
A Muslim husband should not expect his wife to go out and work to provide and maintain the family, it is the role of the man, the husband, the father that Allah has entrusted with. But if she does work providing she works in a place where her expertise is required amongst only women or children, or in an only female work force and not infringing on her intial fundamental core role, responsibilities, duties as a mother, wife....then her money is hers and she does not supplement the husbands wages or contributes to the bills etc. unless she wants to. The husband should not expect that, unless she willing gives something. Likewise, the wife should not expect the husband to help out in the home. Carry out the responsibilities and duties of a wife, a mother. As that is her role Allah has entrusted her with. But if he does sometimes helps out from his own choice, that is good and is mutual cooperation to lighten some responsibility as and whenever. Each role complements each other, not competes and over powers or over burdens each other. This will bring about peace, harmony, respect in the Muslim home.
True..but these days..this is a fantasy! Feminism has entered our deen..the only thing a woman can offer a man is her body..nothing else. But the man provides everything else money emontiol surport and security! Best to be single. Its all a waste of time.. these days.
In the video by 11:16: "...if there was from the man's feet to the crown of his head an ulcer that was spilling out blood and puss and then she came and she faced him and she licked it off she would not have given him his right..." But Allah teaches us in the Quran that blood is forbidden to us: "He has only forbidden to you dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine..." (2:173) That teaching in the video contradicts the Quran and it is also disgusting.
The hadith about the pus covering the husband is considered weak or even very weak. I am very disappointed that you used it. Considering its apparent unreliability, I would submit that it is most unwise to mention it, especially as this very hadith is one which has driven many Muslims away from Islam altogether. In any case, I struggle to believe that my Prophet (saw) would use such disgusting language to make a point which has already been alluded to in far more respectable terms many times elsewhere in the hadith literature.
@@ZEE.N-m5l I truly do not believe that our beloved Prophet (saw) said this. It is simply irreconcilable with everything else he ever said. Such language is extremely vulgar and unnecessary, and I believe that it is an insult to our beloved Prophet to think of him as using such terms. As for marriage, don't let any man ever talk to you in such terms - if he does, then that's a pretty good sign that he's going to start oppressing you at some point. Run away from men who claim that you must be obedient to them. It doesn't need to be said if you both are on the path of Allah as it is. It is highly suspicious behavior from him to mention it.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not right for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were right for one human being to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands because of the great rights that they have over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a man were covered from head to foot with weeping sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil the rights he has over her.’” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 12153; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7725).
@@sherbannou I have already stated that the sentence discussing the pus is considered weak or very weak by many more scholars than Al-Albany (who is the one who 'authenticated' it), and a lot of scholars flat-out reject that it was ever even said on account of the oddity of the language used. In any case, Imam Ahmad's 'Musnad ' collection is not in fact fully authentic, and it even contains a not insignificant number of fabricated hadiths, and thus neither can Al-Albany's 'Sahih al-Jaami'' be authentic, since Al-Albany took this supposed hadith from Ahmad's compilation.
I'm trying my best to learn so my husband can be please with me inshAllah until we die Amin...
I love Aisha (radhiAllaahu anha)! I hope i will be in jannah with her and other beloved female companions . may Allaah make it easy
I pray Allah blesses me with being a good wife, obedient and peace for my husband. InshaAllah
The Feminism is spreading globally. Therefore, we can see so many negative comments over this lecture. A wife has to be obedient, a husband has to be responsible towards his family. That is the way of jannah. No one is allowed to do whatever he/she desires.
Wallahul musta'an
Please make dua for me to be obedient to my husband and the coolness of his eyes. Just got married and all we do (I do) is fight. Especially when it’s never that serious majority of the time subhan Allah. Please make dua for me 😢
what a great message and a reminder for todays generation to learn from
JazaaK Allahu khayr for presenting the ahadeeth in such a good way. I used to read these hadeeth and find them abit difficult to reason. I am so glad you didn't sugar coat them as so many daees do these days.
WASSALAM FUCK-ISLAM .
Jazaak Allahul kheir brother. May Allah Azza wajaal grant you Jannatul firdaus.
I can't find the video for the obligation of the husband. Please could you share this as its equally important.
See the part five of this series named ideal husband
Ih’dinas swiraatal mustaqiim, ya Rabbal Alaamiin.
A Muslim husband should not expect his wife to go out and work to provide and maintain the family, it is the role of the man, the husband, the father that Allah has entrusted with. But if she does work providing she works in a place where her expertise is required amongst only women or children, or in an only female work force and not infringing on her intial fundamental core role, responsibilities, duties as a mother, wife....then her money is hers and she does not supplement the husbands wages or contributes to the bills etc. unless she wants to. The husband should not expect that, unless she willing gives something.
Likewise, the wife should not expect the husband to help out in the home. Carry out the responsibilities and duties of a wife, a mother. As that is her role Allah has entrusted her with. But if he does sometimes helps out from his own choice, that is good and is mutual cooperation to lighten some responsibility as and whenever. Each role complements each other, not competes and over powers or over burdens each other. This will bring about peace, harmony, respect in the Muslim home.
True..but these days..this is a fantasy! Feminism has entered our deen..the only thing a woman can offer a man is her body..nothing else. But the man provides everything else money emontiol surport and security! Best to be single. Its all a waste of time.. these days.
Jameel Subhan Thank you, ,Im not a Muslim,but I respect the teaching.Great explanation
I would love to cook and look after my husband and my kids. But I won't do the same for his family. Take it or leave it.
Where is the lecture on The obligations of a husband I can’t seem to find it
See the fifth part of this series the ideal husband. This one is part 13 if I am not mistaken. Part of husband came way before
Can anyone help me by telling me the name of the nasheed thats at the beginning of this video
Jazak Allahoe ghair ❤️
SORRY I DON'T SPEAK CAMEL !! WASSALAM FUCK-ISLAM .
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
Is there any means to reach out to Ustaz Tim Humble via phone or email address to discuss our issues?
Beautiful
In the video by 11:16: "...if there was from the man's feet to the crown of his head an ulcer that was spilling out blood and puss and then she came and she faced him and she licked it off she would not have given him his right..."
But Allah teaches us in the Quran that blood is forbidden to us: "He has only forbidden to you dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine..." (2:173)
That teaching in the video contradicts the Quran and it is also disgusting.
The video is not working for me after about five minutes something goes wrong
MashaAllah
FUCK BULLSHIT ALLAH .
The hadith about the pus covering the husband is considered weak or even very weak. I am very disappointed that you used it. Considering its apparent unreliability, I would submit that it is most unwise to mention it, especially as this very hadith is one which has driven many Muslims away from Islam altogether. In any case, I struggle to believe that my Prophet (saw) would use such disgusting language to make a point which has already been alluded to in far more respectable terms many times elsewhere in the hadith literature.
I was scared to get married because of this hadith. 😅
@@ZEE.N-m5l I truly do not believe that our beloved Prophet (saw) said this. It is simply irreconcilable with everything else he ever said. Such language is extremely vulgar and unnecessary, and I believe that it is an insult to our beloved Prophet to think of him as using such terms.
As for marriage, don't let any man ever talk to you in such terms - if he does, then that's a pretty good sign that he's going to start oppressing you at some point. Run away from men who claim that you must be obedient to them. It doesn't need to be said if you both are on the path of Allah as it is. It is highly suspicious behavior from him to mention it.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not right for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were right for one human being to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands because of the great rights that they have over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a man were covered from head to foot with weeping sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil the rights he has over her.’” (Reported by Imaam Ahmad, 12153; Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7725).
@@sherbannou I have already stated that the sentence discussing the pus is considered weak or very weak by many more scholars than Al-Albany (who is the one who 'authenticated' it), and a lot of scholars flat-out reject that it was ever even said on account of the oddity of the language used. In any case, Imam Ahmad's 'Musnad ' collection is not in fact fully authentic, and it even contains a not insignificant number of fabricated hadiths, and thus neither can Al-Albany's 'Sahih al-Jaami'' be authentic, since Al-Albany took this supposed hadith from Ahmad's compilation.
You cannot just say many scholars said such and such, you must bring your proofs.
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