Secrets To A Successful Marriage - Message to Muslims from the Dark Side

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  • @majidkhan89
    @majidkhan89 2 года назад +515

    Allahu Akbar. Seriously sister. Real talk here!
    I feel like crying. and I am a man. I dont care what anyone says about not been masculine enough. I thank Allah for blessing me this mind set.
    I've only watched 20 mins of this video and I've come across some key points you mentioned -
    11:42 "A successful marriage is one in which spouses can help each other to gain Allah's pleasure and earn jannah"
    we have potential spouses and married ones who are too focussed on the dunya aspect. That they don't understand the meaning and blessing of marriage.
    12:44 "be intentional" - "verily actions are backed by intention". The spouses are an amanah for each other. Whatever good we do for our spouse, we should have the intention to please Allah.
    14:00 "forgetting this is part of my ibadah" - being kind to one spouse, talking in a polite manner, listening to one's spouse, helping around with family and household chores and many small acts are an act of ibadah.

    • @bewater6684
      @bewater6684 2 года назад +20

      @@bobbertyboyd2280 If a woman tells you to not cry or is visibly uncomfortable with you crying, most of the time it's because they never saw it before (shock) or they feel unprotected(scared something bad happened or is gonna happen since even u a man is crying).
      When i saw my father cry for the first time, i felt a insurmountable pain. because he never cried in front of me before, so something bad must have happened to him. It scared me to be honest.
      Crying from a pious heart is very positively received in Islam as our prophet Muhammad (pbuh) often cried and encouraged us to do so, as the tears are one of the most beloved signs of one's love and fear for Allah.

    • @majidkhan89
      @majidkhan89 2 года назад +19

      ​@King Sultan I didn't say I cried. I said I feel like crying.
      I guess the reason for my emotions are of 2 reasons.
      1. I was previously married in which it lasted a year. I would say that my intention for marriage was pure. To this day I believe I was a Just spouse who did not abuse my power of authority. I treated my spouse with respect, kindness and love. and alhamdulillah, I had and willl continue to have this mindset that whatever good I do for my spouse, is an act of reward from Allah SWT.
      Unfortunately my spouse did not have that mindset and was concerned about the dunya rather than the akhirah. Which makes me sad.
      2. similar to my ex, there are other Muslims out there who are like that. They're too concerned about their wordly life, which then brings a lot of high expectations from either one spouse or both. There are potential spouses who don't have the right intentions for marriage and or don't understand it. some don't even consider a marriage a blessing. it is unfortunately one of the problems with the ummah. We are too distracted by dunya. and that makes me sad and makes me want to cry.

    • @majidkhan89
      @majidkhan89 2 года назад +8

      @King Sultan I wish I could say that we were happy from the beginning. We were indeed new to marriage. I knew marriage has its ups and down, and I was prepared to make it work and at points go out of my comfort zone. The same can't be said about my spouse.
      Unfortunately after a year of no affection or intimacy at that, with no real connection or commitment from my other half, I ended our marriage. Alhamdulillah my divorce was smooth with no further issues. This was indeed a test by Allah SWT in how I dealt with, I believe a narcissist. Alhamdulillah Allah gave me patience, and did not lose my temper at any point. I reminded my self that she is not mine even though we were married. That she is one of the slaves of Allah, just like I am to him.

    • @majidkhan89
      @majidkhan89 2 года назад +3

      @King Sultan indeed brother. Divorce is a very sensitive subject. It's also very sensitive in how you can give divorce. That's why it is recommended for both spouse to go into a marriage with full commitment. That you don't give each other excuses for divorce.
      Yes after my divorce, her family just took her belonging and left without a word. I dont think they had anything to say or any blame to push towards me.

    • @majidkhan89
      @majidkhan89 2 года назад +8

      @King Sultan jakallahu khair for the duas. Really appreciate it. May Allah make it easy for everyone and bless them with righteous spouse. And for those who are married, may Allah shower them with mercy and love.

  • @neheltyyeb864
    @neheltyyeb864 2 года назад +373

    5 keys to a better marriage
    1. To be intentional.
    2. To embrace gratitude
    3. To be Aakhirah focused
    4. To be realistic
    5. To remember death

  • @debbiedavids8533
    @debbiedavids8533 2 года назад +247

    I’m not a Muslim but I’m blessed by this message. Thanks

    • @nishitaserunkuma9388
      @nishitaserunkuma9388 2 года назад +11

      May Allah guide sister Ameen ❤

    • @maryamabdulrahman4499
      @maryamabdulrahman4499 2 года назад +8

      Allah guide u and save u amen 🥺💜

    • @mubarakchris6701
      @mubarakchris6701 2 года назад +3

      اللهم اهدينا ألي صراتك المستقيم

    • @junedahmed7153
      @junedahmed7153 2 года назад +3

      read about islam you will come to know in religion wise its perfects too

    • @farhiamohamed5853
      @farhiamohamed5853 2 года назад +1

      Sister you to know the reality Read Quran in English and Bible then compare. it may Allah guide you

  • @mzmyself9236
    @mzmyself9236 2 года назад +127

    I'm not a muslim but this was a message from a very wise woman. More people need to hear this message 💖

  • @nextupafrica9897
    @nextupafrica9897 2 года назад +142

    As a revert, Islam has helped me become a better person through the remembrance of death, something I dreaded daily. And thru the remembrance I have become a better wife , mother , friend , daughter and sister Alhamdhulilah. Thank you sister , May Allah bless you and continue to increase you, your message is absolutely amazing!

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 2 года назад +6

      Alhamdulillah, may Allah grant you Jannah. I feel the same way since practicing.

  • @faizaahmed7503
    @faizaahmed7503 2 года назад +93

    SubhanaAllah! What a touching sermon. Reminds me of my own story. Being a revert, marrying at a young age of 20, I was blessed with the best husband but he was taken away in a blink of an eye! Literally within 5 mins, he returned to his Maker - no illness, at fajr as we prepared suhoor, on Friday the 18th of Ramadhan 3 years ago. Life has never been the same. Raising our children alone, especially our younger daughters who were 3 & 7 then.... going through the most turbulent times and not having a shoulder to lean on, or just that special someone to talk to...
    Never take your loved one for granted. We really never know how much longer we have with each other.
    Jazakallahu khair sister for this beautiful talk. May Allah swt bless all couples with love, peace and understanding, and may He swt bless all those looking to marry with sabr, faith and ultimately the coolness of their eyes....aameen

    • @afrahahmad7393
      @afrahahmad7393 2 года назад +1

      Subhanallah I had yours too may the Almighty Allah rewards you here and here after

    • @camarasaran3888
      @camarasaran3888 2 года назад +1

      innailaye wa inalilaye raji'un 😭

    • @rahulshubh8103
      @rahulshubh8103 2 года назад

      Do u want to meet him in Jannah?

    • @namagandasharifah8781
      @namagandasharifah8781 2 года назад +1

      Amen Yarabi

    • @bintimurtado1035
      @bintimurtado1035 2 года назад

      May Allaah, make your affairs easy sis, and reward your patience with good, here and Aakhiraa

  • @im_095
    @im_095 Год назад +5

    Never been a fan of female Muslim speakers because they basically spew 'Muslim feminism/independence' but this sister really spoke from the heart and I know she will help thousands of couples. I pray that Allah rewards her for everything and also grant her sabr for the lifelong hurt she is enduring. Very moving, relatable and thought provoking video

  • @goodyahmed3009
    @goodyahmed3009 2 года назад +23

    very moving ..
    i call my mum today
    to tell her i love her
    and hug my children...

  • @rsh7933
    @rsh7933 2 года назад +24

    I’m a man. And I love you sister for the sake of Allah. You speak the truth and speak only good. These are testing times, the Shaytaan has infiltrated our houses using his many tools. His objective is to destroy the family unit so then chaos can ensue in the world.
    You are doing a service to humanity by holding strong to the Haq. A sister who is trying to guide others to the traditional teachings of our deen.
    May Allah reward you and use you to help guide our daughters sisters and mothers.

  • @Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount
    @Kofi_Mensahs_BurnerAccount Год назад +10

    Brothers and sisters, look at your spouses with mercy for if you don’t have mercy on your spouses, how can you expect the most merciful Allah to have mercy upon you!?

  • @hinkeambe1738
    @hinkeambe1738 2 года назад +39

    I'm not a Moslem but this sister's counseling has blessed me. God bless you sister.

  • @taiwomusa9569
    @taiwomusa9569 2 года назад +57

    Salam alaikum. I wish every married men and women should be listening to this channel so that all the household will be in peace and harmony .

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      --ö----.Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @GlaDiary36
    @GlaDiary36 2 года назад +88

    Am not a Muslim but i got inspired as am learning about marriage

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      üä-....Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

    • @nishitaserunkuma9388
      @nishitaserunkuma9388 2 года назад +5

      May Allow guide sister

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      @@nishitaserunkuma9388 ö----......Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

    • @habibasalim3092
      @habibasalim3092 2 года назад +1

      May Allah bless you and guide you to the success religion Islam,,we muslims stay single for decades without Adultary fornication, because we control bu fasting frequently and du'a and spiritual ayas from Qur'an for removing desire

    • @BibiRojan-pf2lh
      @BibiRojan-pf2lh Год назад

      Very sad to hear your story if you was with your husband that night may be you could have save him you would have been there at the moment .because I have that experience with my father he was almost brain dead but alhandulillah I was there at the moment I took him to the hospital and he survived seven years he passed 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ 😢 💔 🙏 😔 💙 ❤️ when some one is sick don't wait ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 💔 ♥️ 😢 😄 🎶 😀 take them to the hospital you could save their lives .

  • @osamakamal3322
    @osamakamal3322 Год назад +4

    Praise be to God for the blessing of Islam and enough of a blessing

  • @Miriam5800
    @Miriam5800 Год назад +15

    We all need to hear this message from sister Naima subhanAllah. She woke me up. We live now in a time where the divorce rates are higher than ever! And these unrealistic expectations… ya Allah! You said it so beautifully sis! We are all not perfect we can’t expect to have spouses who don’t have flaws. May Allah forgive us, make us grateful and let us be from those who are focused on the Akhira, Ameen!

  • @sammu
    @sammu 2 года назад +16

    Sister, I am so sorry about your husband. Your story blew my mind. I am highly impressed by your strength and perseverance. May Allah continue to grant you wisdom and strength, ameen.

  • @nighataftab3878
    @nighataftab3878 2 года назад +80

    SubhanAllah been 12 mins into watching this but couldnt stop to comment. SubhanAllah so true this is an amanah. My husband passed away 5 months after my marriage he drowned at sea. But now after 26 years and getting married again you have inspired me so much in a different way. Alhamdulillah blessed with 5 children. May Allah swt reward you for all the work you do in this world and thebherafter. Amazed

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад +9

      Ameen! May Allah bless you in all your affairs.

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ---pp-----.Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @jibrildaudamuhammad3832
    @jibrildaudamuhammad3832 2 года назад +81

    Time stamp from the video, if there's any missing
    tip or point kindly add below
    _MESSAGE TO MUSLIMS_
    TIP 1- Be intentional 12:44
    TIP 2- Embrace gratitude 16:45
    TIP 3- Be akhira focused 23:25
    TIP 4- Be realistic 27:05
    TIP 5- Remember death 33:48
    "The gap between been realistic and expectation
    is where frustration lies"

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      -----.Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @happihijjabi9631
    @happihijjabi9631 2 года назад +24

    Alhamdullilah, Jzk for this talk sister Naima. I cried the whole way through but it was needed. Many points hit home for me. My main take away, *my husband is on a loan to me* and one day he will return to Allah swt, as will I.
    Life is so short Subhanah'allah, and that in itself we take for granted. My marriage is a blessing, sometimes I forget how long I searched, worked, prayed, and struggled to find my spouse. May Allah swt forgive us for our short comings and continue to guide us towards him, through eachother. Ameen

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад +3

      Alhamdulillah, I am so glad it resonated with you! Please do take care of your amanat and share the advice with others, insha Allah.

    • @lunazara8909
      @lunazara8909 2 года назад

      Amin. I also was crying my heart out. Especially when it came to protect the family and the kids.

  • @UmmetiMuhammedSAW
    @UmmetiMuhammedSAW 2 года назад +25

    Jazakillah khayr this was a great lecture and I really needed to hear it. My marriage is much better now since I think my mindset has changed - stopped fantasizing about divorce, being more positive, working on my marriage and lots of dua.

  • @mistermaykul
    @mistermaykul 2 года назад +218

    Am I the only one who could listen to this sister talk all day?

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад +12

      BarakAllahu feekum!

    • @TheLeaDersTeaCher
      @TheLeaDersTeaCher 2 года назад +1

      No it is not only you me too
      Ma sha Allah

    • @satran5779
      @satran5779 2 года назад +2

      Not at all🥺❤️

    • @eslmaster
      @eslmaster 2 года назад +4

      An absolute gift to the ummah, mashaAlllah. May Allah reward her and grant her and us all the best of both worlds. Ameen, ya Rab

    • @salmaabdulle9150
      @salmaabdulle9150 2 года назад

      ماشاءالله even me 💕💕i like her 😍

  • @syadmustafa
    @syadmustafa 2 года назад +46

    This can apply to all relationships. Jazak Allah Khairun for the great advice

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      l.lo...Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @baraji4653
    @baraji4653 2 года назад +28

    Thank you sis. The concept of doing things for the sake of Allaah is a deal breaker. Massive!

  • @malicksidibe4984
    @malicksidibe4984 2 года назад +14

    A very strong sister delivering a very powerful speech we all can learn something from, muslims and non-muslims alike.
    May Allah SWT make you and your family among the dwellers of Jannah.

  • @maddybbboy
    @maddybbboy 2 года назад +25

    May Allah grant him jannah. It was emotional to listen to this. We are a young new family and I have a 2.5 year old son and a lovely wife and I can feel the pain of yours and the other sister who's child had died. SubhanAllah

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      -öp---.Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @naeemaabubakr9598
    @naeemaabubakr9598 2 года назад +56

    Yaaaa salaaaam! I needed to hear all of it and honestly, I didn’t want your lesson to end. Mashaa Allah. May Allah grant you endless reward for this. Jazaakallahu khayran!

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад +2

      JazakAllahu khairan!

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ......Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @85-86
    @85-86 2 года назад +5

    Heart touching reminder
    I would recommend to all Muslim brother and sister to listen this

  • @AsmaaJasat
    @AsmaaJasat Год назад +1

    Alhamdulillah sis na'ima I am so glad u a Muslim my sis ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mariyamsameer144
    @mariyamsameer144 2 года назад +12

    Mad me cried.May Allah bless you for your patience.May Allah keep you and family safe , happy and grant you demised husband Jannathul Firdhous.Aameen.
    Jazakillah khairan for the good deed.Aameen.

  • @Mohalshabz
    @Mohalshabz 2 года назад +8

    NGL That opening speech hit home really hard! JazakaAllah khairan sister for the reminder.

  • @marsparkle9477
    @marsparkle9477 2 года назад +7

    Thank you so much sister,I'm a married woman and you don't know how much you have helped me...jazakakallah khair

  • @harrisray1400
    @harrisray1400 2 года назад +5

    SubhanAllah this Message! Made my day! My life been miserable with my husband! But I been praying to Allah give me courage and patience! I been praying and doing Sujod! May Allah ease everyone!

  • @zainab7492
    @zainab7492 2 года назад +19

    Glory to Al-Mighty who guide me to watch this ♥️

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      .lllo......Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @LoveAndLoyalty9884
    @LoveAndLoyalty9884 2 года назад +9

    I listened to the message some days back, and I find it truly amazing...really learnt alot...may ALLAH honey you sister

  • @frenchvibeacademy
    @frenchvibeacademy 8 месяцев назад +3

    You made me cry, thank you sister, Alhamdulillah for everything

  • @cucinasi
    @cucinasi 2 года назад +9

    Wau. so i copied the transcript and put it into my notes because i need to read them and remind myself everyday🥲 its very helpful, and to think that i found sister Naima from another youtube channel and came here out of 'pure coincidence'. It's qadha. Thank you Allah. thank you sister. may Allah bless you Jannah. May Allah bless my little family.

  • @sayemasamreen8551
    @sayemasamreen8551 Год назад +8

    One of the best speeches I've ever heard 😊😊.... I am so glad that I clicked on this video alhamdulillah.😅😅.. Ur way of delivering the message is exactly what is needed for this young generation to be heard ❤❤..... May Allah grant you and your family, your beloved husband the best of both worlds....
    It is so very empowering and emotional at the same time ...
    We really need reminders sometimes.....Ur story gave me goosebumps 😢 I can't even imagine what pain you people have to go through... I really want to send you good wishes and good health through my prayers 🤗💗💗... U kept me glued throughout the video ❤❤ alhamdulillah

  • @faryaarshad9846
    @faryaarshad9846 2 года назад +5

    This is the most realistic advise regarding marriage that I have listened to

  • @Peace4TheWorld
    @Peace4TheWorld 2 года назад +15

    ma sha Allah tabarakaallah. jazakillah kheyran sister for the advice. our Deen is Naseeha. everyone who comes here learns something. May Allah grant us the goodness of this life and the hereafter. ameen

  • @arlicewhite1674
    @arlicewhite1674 2 года назад +11

    As Salaamu Alaikum Sister, Jazak’Allah Khair for this message. I seriously needed to hear this being married for 3 months which is my 3rd marriage.
    Alhumduillah, Masha’Allah

  • @princeadeyemi8413
    @princeadeyemi8413 2 года назад +10

    Sister, this is a great message to everyone, I cried while listening and watching your video, Masha Allah! May Almighty Allah bless you and your entire family and grant you Aljannah Fidaus on the judgment day! Barak Allah fikun Sister!

  • @RukhShariq
    @RukhShariq Год назад +4

    Watching it again after months. Needed to get motivated and forgiving. JazakAllah khair. May Allah bless you and your kids. Ameen

  • @muhammadchoudhury2046
    @muhammadchoudhury2046 2 года назад +9

    Asalamualikumwrwb Jazakillahu Khair for sharing your story. My mother recently went thru the same thing and isn't the same. She had a brain stroke. I was just with her the night before speaking to her and by Fajr, our lives changed. May Allah SWT grant her Shifaaun Kaamilah with 3afiyah. Thank you again.

  • @rabiatunekwu4917
    @rabiatunekwu4917 2 года назад +10

    SubhanAllah. This is quite inspiring. Jazakillahu khairan. May Allah bless our marriages and make us more intentional from now on.

  • @petal21
    @petal21 2 года назад +10

    Sister, you have indeed shared a gift. May Allah reward you for sharing this and may Allah reward us all for implementing it into our marriage and life. Ameen!!

  • @adeshe22
    @adeshe22 2 года назад +9

    So much wisdom in this talk. Thank you sister. May Allah bless you

  • @Mounira-M
    @Mounira-M 2 года назад +7

    It is great to open the door to talking about these issues. Thank you, Sister Naima, may God grant you strength.

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      -pp-----.Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @HawaMuslimah7
    @HawaMuslimah7 Год назад +2

    Jazarakal Allahu khairan.
    May Allah preserve our sister in islam. And grant her husband Jannahtul fridaws ❤

  • @naisasm
    @naisasm 2 года назад +8

    You words change my life

  • @maryamdauda-iw5oi
    @maryamdauda-iw5oi 7 месяцев назад +4

    I never thought your husband is no more , sister may ALLAH preserved you , honour u for been truthful, jazakhillahu janna

  • @nadael-hajibrahim2003
    @nadael-hajibrahim2003 Год назад +6

    Assalamu alaikum sister, I just want to thank you immensely for this reminder. I can't tell you how much I needed to hear this! Jazaki Allahu khayran ❤️

  • @khadeejahmuhammad1738
    @khadeejahmuhammad1738 2 года назад +5

    May Allah bless u sis. Permit me to share this video far and wide as I can especially to the youth.

  • @hawanyanzi1074
    @hawanyanzi1074 2 года назад +3

    Barack Allahufik sister,i really needed to hear these words.May Allah SWT grant us the ability to bring this in to our lives.

  • @livewithmeinegypt307
    @livewithmeinegypt307 2 года назад +5

    What a blessing from Allah.. may alkah reward her. We should pass on this vid to everyone we know for real. X

  • @aishaseid2813
    @aishaseid2813 2 года назад +4

    Jazakhaillahu khairen ya ukhiti may Allah bless you from 🇪🇹🇪🇹🇪🇹

  • @sleepy1760
    @sleepy1760 Год назад +11

    I’m not a Muslim but this was deep Thanks Sister

  • @sufus1948
    @sufus1948 2 года назад +4

    Subhanallah my sis. I am praying so much for you. You have been blessed by the Almighty to explain so beautifully. I really appreciate your advice x

  • @nimotalahibintmustopha9523
    @nimotalahibintmustopha9523 2 года назад +6

    I'll listen to this beautiful naseeha again and again and again to make I get all the messages. Ma Shaa Allaah your naseeha is very valuable. Jazaakallaahu khoyran sister 💙

  • @mufunyiibrahim3655
    @mufunyiibrahim3655 2 года назад +38

    This is a good lecture .the crisis in marriage is because of bad foundation. A marriage that's not Islamic, doesn't have Allah as the key aspect is bound for failure in a matter of time. Social media, movies, feminism etc have invaded our homes.

    • @the8thchurch461
      @the8thchurch461 2 года назад +2

      Thank goodness for feminism. Women put up with a lot in the past but no more. Men now need to step up if they want to keep a woman.

    • @mufunyiibrahim3655
      @mufunyiibrahim3655 2 года назад +1

      @@the8thchurch461 that's what your belief system has lied to women.

    • @the8thchurch461
      @the8thchurch461 2 года назад

      @@mufunyiibrahim3655 My belief system? I don't believe in any higher being

    • @mufunyiibrahim3655
      @mufunyiibrahim3655 2 года назад +2

      @@the8thchurch461 we follow Islam not people's feelings, opinions or emotions

    • @the8thchurch461
      @the8thchurch461 2 года назад

      @@mufunyiibrahim3655 So?

  • @adewalezaynab22
    @adewalezaynab22 2 года назад +4

    Ma Sha Allah! Very insightful speech, all the points got me, walahi! May Allah forgive and amend us all.

  • @umarrabani8795
    @umarrabani8795 2 года назад +186

    I am a dad with 4 girls i love my daughter's a lot but my wife does not want to follow the Quran and teaching .please pray for me and my family 👪 as I have my 4 daughter's with me . 🤲💯

    • @truecomment3650
      @truecomment3650 2 года назад +24

      May Allah guide your wife and bless all your family amin. Make dua brother for your wife and daughters in the middle of the night, Allah will accept you for sure. amin.🤲🤲

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ,l.........bc Quran is from shaytan would you give your little ones to an old man to get raped ? Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

    • @ajasawaneh
      @ajasawaneh 2 года назад +10

      May Allah bless her with imaan

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      @@ajasawaneh ,,...,,,,Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

    • @hereist4nd140
      @hereist4nd140 Год назад +9

      Understand that you can not force somebody to follow somethings it's haram little steps and try to be steadfast.
      Be a good rolemodle treat her well it's us Muslims that make a example.
      May Allah guide your family to the straight path ameen.

  • @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557
    @aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 2 года назад +15

    سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
    May Allah Guide and Bless you us all.
    It came to my Mind ..
    When My Mother died I spontaneous made Sudjud Shokr
    She Embraced Islam ☪️ over 70 years of age in Norway 🇳🇴..
    We were Blessed with her living with us 10 years in Egypt 🇪🇬
    She died as a Muslima ..
    Was washed Ghusl and prayed upon and that's a Divine Blessing 🙌

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      k,Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

    • @saniidris1945
      @saniidris1945 2 года назад

      Mashaa Allah

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      @@saniidris1945 jL::..Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @rwandanangel
    @rwandanangel 2 года назад +7

    A so much need discussion Subhanallah. I benefited a lot from it and I needed to hear this in my actual situation. May Allah accept this as sadaqat Al jari’a

    • @rabiatuissaka904
      @rabiatuissaka904 2 года назад

      Aameen🤲

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      0----Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @jackietjohnson2924
    @jackietjohnson2924 2 года назад +8

    As a Christian believes God will for us all is exactly what you're speaking thanks for this message

  • @bilanbabdulahi8442
    @bilanbabdulahi8442 2 года назад +7

    Wow, her story really touched me, in a away I didn't even think of it. Alahu Akbar.

  • @jackienal9998
    @jackienal9998 2 года назад +6

    Thank you so much sister,have came across this video but it has really added value to me and containing a proper mindset about marriage.

  • @sidrazubair7163
    @sidrazubair7163 2 года назад +5

    MashAllah MashAllah I Don't know what to say. I'm speechless how this sister explains everything. We should follow every advice to bring peace in our home. Ameen

  • @SyedAhmed-wk9pw
    @SyedAhmed-wk9pw 2 года назад +7

    Alhamdulliah I came across this video and it bought so much emotion with the reminders and the beautiful advice , Alhamdulliah such beautiful example.
    I am in a extremely difficult situation in my marriage and I ask all the brothers and sisters to pray for me and my family.
    May Allah give strength and wisdom guide every husband wife the solution to their problems - Ameen

    • @SyedAhmed-wk9pw
      @SyedAhmed-wk9pw 2 года назад

      Sister do you do marriage counselling? If so please forward me your email
      Thank you

  • @Ummaeshah7544
    @Ummaeshah7544 2 года назад +6

    May Allah continue providing you with such wonderful information for the ummah

  • @NurseAda2022
    @NurseAda2022 Год назад +6

    Masha Allah sister your lectures is really awesome I feel the urge to get married may Allah bless me with a good spouse. Ameena Ya Arabi Jazakallhu khair. ❤

  • @fatimahabdurrazzaqoyekan6112
    @fatimahabdurrazzaqoyekan6112 2 года назад +1

    Thanks

  • @TrendsTraders
    @TrendsTraders 2 года назад +6

    JazakiAllah Khayran, sister for this amazing lecture. May Allah bless you and your loved ones. Thank you !

  • @kastriotkaraxha5598
    @kastriotkaraxha5598 2 года назад +4

    An eye opening speech
    Allahumma barik
    May Allah grant us ease, and hasanat in dunya&akhirah

  • @shamila2008
    @shamila2008 2 года назад +11

    Through the mercy of Allah, i was drawn to this video and alhamdulillah for your beautiful advice sisters. Even though everything you mentioned, i already know it hit home. We get so sucked up in this dunya bubble and forget why we are here! I realised how much i am truly grateful for! May Allah set grant us all ease in our difficulties and remind us that this dunya is just a test and if we have sabr and reliance on Allah, nothing is difficult.

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @inspioneers9527
    @inspioneers9527 3 месяца назад

    Allahumma Barik, this was very insightful and eye opening. I wish that every Muslim gets to understand this, we really need to work hard to keep peace in our homes. May Allah make it easy for all of us

  • @rabeelB
    @rabeelB 2 года назад +9

    I have a group of what’s up where we share knowledge of true Islam this lecture is really beneficial I share in my group so all of my sisters can get benefit for there married life jazakallah

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад +1

      Certainly! Bismillah

    • @salmanh9778
      @salmanh9778 2 года назад

      Ma shaa Allah can I get the WhatsApp group number

  • @hadizaumar3071
    @hadizaumar3071 2 года назад +13

    Jazakallahu khair sister! May Allah give us the wisdom to sincerely apply all you said. We all enjoyed the talk, but the real question is how many of us will go ahead to work with it. May Allah make it easy for us

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ,ik,Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @Amal-y5o
    @Amal-y5o 3 месяца назад

    This is one of the most beautiful speech I've ever heard ❤

  • @wahidabegum9545
    @wahidabegum9545 2 года назад +4

    I really needed this reminder, JazakAllah Khairan, beautiful reminder.

  • @nath3271
    @nath3271 2 года назад +4

    Subhana’Allah this is deep very deep. Changed my perspective

  • @mrsmunajj1439
    @mrsmunajj1439 2 года назад +1

    Thanks!

    • @NaimaBRobertTV
      @NaimaBRobertTV  2 года назад

      JazakAllahu khairan for the superchat! My first one, I believe :)

  • @fatimahbryant2375
    @fatimahbryant2375 2 года назад +7

    Beneficial on so many different levels, Alhamdulillah !

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ,,.....Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @BaconGurl4
    @BaconGurl4 2 года назад +6

    Alhamdulilla sister May Allah bless you for this eye opening message
    I am going through tough times in my family life and your words made me rethink...
    Jazakkallahkahir❤️❤️❤️

  • @fatmatasangarie4423
    @fatmatasangarie4423 2 года назад +2

    Alhamdullilai for this platform. Thanks Sister 😊.
    Watching from Sierra Leone. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @mellorinaaamal2639
    @mellorinaaamal2639 2 года назад +4

    Recently found you and I love you for the sake of Allah ❤️

  • @نعيشمعالقرآنالكريم
    @نعيشمعالقرآنالكريم 2 года назад +2

    May Almighty Allah bless your endeavors and grant you Jannah.

  • @Shinewithmoojaahid
    @Shinewithmoojaahid 2 года назад +8

    You are so on point with everything ukhti MaashaaAllah tabaarakallah but the part about it being hard out here for single Muslims to find good spouses is real! It’s not how it was 20-30 years ago. So many people are leaving and abandoning the Sunnah only to replace it with Western culture! Allahu musta’ayn!

  • @anjumara7768
    @anjumara7768 2 года назад +5

    MashaAllah.... Allah bless you sister. Motivational and very impressive speech.

  • @wonderfullifevlogs3356
    @wonderfullifevlogs3356 Год назад +1

    This lecture made me cry and realized that akhirah is more important not dunya😢

  • @haleemabb4846
    @haleemabb4846 2 года назад +4

    Maa shaa Allah tabarak...
    AlhamduLILLAHI, I listened carefully, noted down and I pray to Allah to make it easy bo imbibe all learnt.

  • @AMIASSHEIKH
    @AMIASSHEIKH 2 года назад +2

    SubhanaAllah. This was so amazing ❤️. Bless you sister

  • @ammijaan5449
    @ammijaan5449 2 года назад +2

    Mashallah May Allah SWT gives you the best in both worlds. Ameen

  • @hassanbaseme7579
    @hassanbaseme7579 2 года назад +1

    Jazzakallahu khaira dear sister.i wish you should come to Burundi and make a such conversation to women muslims here.
    It's my first time to listen to you,and from now i'd like to be listening to you as i'm used to listen to @MuftiMenk in sha Allah. Wallahi I'm so touched with the message.(From Burundi ,Ngozi province).

  • @RojiAishat
    @RojiAishat Год назад

    JazakumuLlahu khairan Sister, I ask Allah to preserve you upon khayr.

  • @radiantly_fatime
    @radiantly_fatime Год назад

    May Allah reward you abundantly sis.

  • @casieyow8277
    @casieyow8277 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sister I really needed this ❤❤❤❤May Allah award u greatly Ameen

  • @johanna2940
    @johanna2940 2 года назад +6

    Subhanallah! May Allah reward you my dear sister ❤️

    • @SheikhAlladeen
      @SheikhAlladeen 2 года назад

      ,k,,,,,,Allah allows sxx with prepubescent children no shame ruclips.net/video/OfYbUsNMlng/видео.html

  • @arlinazhuri6595
    @arlinazhuri6595 2 года назад +10

    Ya Allah what a beautiful talk. Ma shā Allāh Tabārak Allāh! I had to immediately share just after a few minutes of listening to our beloved sister. Allah accept her and raise her! 🫶🏻❤️

  • @bettystallworth8853
    @bettystallworth8853 6 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you on this message. There was no lie you told. I am not Muslim but I agree 100%

  • @sharunajally5090
    @sharunajally5090 10 месяцев назад

    Ma Sha Allah sis Na'ima, Allahuma Barik. As I prepare to marry, Allah has made me to watch this before subhanallah. May Allah preserve you for this ummah.