So true and children also learn this behaviour from their fathers and treat their mothers disrespectfully. Later they grow up and treat their future spouses like that. Sometimes words cut deeper than knives. May Allah SWT softens our hearts and purifies our tongues.
Then play victim in a situation they created. Then using the law against the target for speaking up and using children as a weapon is the biggest form of abuse too.
Alhamdulilah. The Deen of isalam is so beautiful and straightforward. Ya Allah grant us pious spouses for some us struggling with our marriages. Thank you Dr. Qadi❤
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whosoever eats food and at the end, says: اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ الَّذِيْ أَطْعَمَنِيْ هٰذَا ، وَرَزَقَنِيْهِ مِنْ غَيْرِ حَوْلٍ مِنِّيْ وَلَا قُوَّةٍ Praise be to Allah who has fed me this and provided me with it without any power and might from me. all his past sins will be forgiven.” (Abū Dāwūd 4023, Tirmidhī 3458, Ibn Mājah 3285)
This is so true I am going through this in my life right now,mental torture, abusing my family,my husband breaking all the showcase hurting himself I am fed up now, enough is enough
Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever
27 years of every type of abuse …. Divorced and it gets worse through using the children …. He has no fear of Allah , Death or accountability! Just hellbent on being an enemy…. Waiting for life to end feels comforting!
Each will get their reckoning. He will answer for every demeaning behaviour towards the one he has been given a trust to take care of. That Day will come , there is no doubt. But too often these hypocrites somehow don't fully believe thus. Otherwise they would not do this. That's why we have the Day of Judgement. They will be judged and given their due. You will get through it sister and be stronger for it. Cos those who commit these acts most certainly aren't. They would never behave like this with another man! Cowards !
Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever
Assalamu Alaykum hafiza Ayesha, hope you are doing fine with the grace of the Almighty. I am ayna, I am memorising the Quran and completed half of the Quran. Please pray for me that I have to complete the entire Quran in 2023 in sha allah.. Please add me in your prayers 🛐 I.a Jazakallahu khayr !
It was narrated from Hudhaifah that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to say between the two prostrations: “Rabbighfir li, Rabbighfir li (O Lord forgive me, O Lord forgive me).” [Sunan Ibn Majah Hadith 897]
Sadly and quite often it is the husband’s parents; usually his mother who emotionally abuses the daughter in law. It’s insidious and difficult to recognise and even more difficult to stand up to when the victim has been beaten down and has sunk into depression and anxiety.
Salam. Very important speech to help people in their marriage. Please could you make subtitles in Arabic, French and other languages. Thank you.بارك الله فيكم
Barak Allahu feek. We need much more Videos about spouse and parenting. We live in a time, where women are the enemy of men and the otherwise, but this is from shaitan and we have to be a team. We are a puzzle, the one needs the other. I often and more and more see and read about problems in spouse and about parenting in the Sunna way. It's become sooo difficult. And this problems make us so weak, this is one of the big reasons why we are depressed.
Assalamualaikum...I will pray for you sis .. Insha Allah everything will be fine.... Don't worry...Hope u r okay .. don't loose hope in Allah no matter what situation u r in . Allah will surely reward for your patience and ask Allah for a solution. Allah is All hearing . Allah would never ignore a dua.Allah is Rahman and Raheem ( kind and merciful) ....😊..
@@latinalife2458 no evil can do anything when you have Allah. Have courage and have trust in Allah . You have to seek help to protect yourself and the children. When you'll take some few steps surely Allah will make many ways to protect you. he is with you always. You don't have to care what anyone will say or do if you're the victim, you deserve help and justice. Inshallah everything will be good. May Allah protect you and give you peace.
Men being abused shouldn't be a side note. This is a serious issue. I know two men abused by their wives. They are living in a hell! May Allah have mercy on them.
JazaqaAllah khaira brother May Allah reward you abundandly Sometimes you think to take that decision but when you come to see Dont have any financial way and you have kids alhamdullilah so at the end of the day you just decide to sacrifice your self with this situation
JazakAllah Khairan for the Khutbah and sharing this. 👏 👏 I hope someone makes this as a “Bangla translation.” Would able to share with a relative who is often suffer from “ Emotional Abuse.” 💔
I think the only way to find them is to sincerely pray to Allah to make you found them then observe your surroundings. Not every Muslim men that appeared to be religious and understand the religion are not abusive so as some Muslim women. Appearance and social masks made it hard to segregate the abusive ones and the good ones. Some are so nice and gentle when there's another person,but when we are alone with them they'll say undermine things to us-I had found Muslim men and women like this. I hope you'll find him one day(if you are still looking for one.) and may Allah ease you in your journey.😊😊
Only for kids sake some people keep on hooking but all of the street and neighbours can smell the disgusting air radiating from their windows😢😢😢 the cries that poison the environment and the lethal impact it brings to their children - with extended families back home or parents being too old or deceased can’t be involved and it literally keep the hearts burning 🥵 like hell!!!!
Why are these guys having to be told this? Why some guys are slapping wives and emotional abusing their wives? My husband realized some of those guys were doing that and he was not happy. He told them you do not beat your horses; but you act in a poor manner with your wives ?! 🇺🇸🇸🇦🤷🏻♀️
You married a good man and he has the courage to speak up and tell others to stop MashaAllah - we need more men like him who speak up and tell abusive men to stop & hopefully change worldwide.
@@GingerNinja007 my mom is a covert Narcissists abused me and destroyed me and she has been into it for 35years of narcissists husband (he is basically an animal so i dont wanna use the word husband for him ever) because I know I don't need such father figure to be my anything along with backward religious abusers family who are narcissists as well
You have to speak up. And request a Personal Protection Orders. It last a year, you can renew it. At least it gives u time to relocate. That's why womens should have at least a part-time job in case you need to take care of yourself and children.
Allah (swt) repeatedly says in the Quran to show love, kindness and warns that they should not harm their wives even after divorce. Allah (swt) has even forbidden us to call each other by bad names and to humiliate. The abusive behavior does not reflect the kindness and love for their spouses.
Confronting him about lack of being at home . No contribution except paying bills. This will cause a fight. So how weid we stay together 20 years? Ignoring it . Accepting this. And me not being brave to take a step further . This is my life
What is the punishment of physical abusive husbands in islam ?? How to deal with physical abuse ,should wife hit him back ? Please someone answer this is genuine question ..
I’m on my deen & my husband is not he told me he was Muslim before we were married but we married legally & I never seen him pray he treats to nice then he acts like I don’t exist we been married for 13 years , I feel stuck , I don’t have enough money to rent a house … I separated myself to n another room so I won’t be around his weed use or alcoholic , I don’t know what to do how long do I supposed to wait for him to get on his deen ?
Take that first, difficult, almost impossible step, and leave the rest to Allah, He will most certainly help you if you rely solely on him and make that intention at least. Stay strong.
Been married For 20 years. Never heard the word I love you. Never got any hugs . Never any positive comment about how I look or how I dress. Never. Yes he brings me to restaurant 1x month. Yes he brings to holiday with kids. Once a year. Yes he pays bills. But he thinks this is his job. So whenever I try to tell him why he doesn’t do this or that he denies and says he does it. And when fight breaks out, hell breaks loose. He will say anything to hurt me. He always talks negative about my mom. Then he swears at me . Shows bad swear sign language to me. When I’m angry and scream he says I am a witch and bad woman. And then after the neglecting starts. No talking for days/weeks . If there was any feeling for him it’s finished. I have absolutely no feelings for intimacy anymore. I want to leave him. He says this is my house. You can go if you like. He knows I can’t go as I have my family abroad.
I have been married since one and a half year. Ny husband stayed only less than two months with me.. In this time period we didnt develop any good bonding.. He used to blame me for several things and used to show inconvenience towards me... He went to abroad leaving me to his sister's home there i got no ri8s as a married women... N during this time period he used to blame me show his dislikeness against my love he used to abandon me and he used to torture me in several emotional ways.. My Father died and his behaviiur was still blaming i got angry and stayed with my brothers now its been 4 months several elders tried to resolve our matter first i said i dnt want to live in marriage where my husband always show hatred toward me n i refuse to live with his sisters who are married and have their own home kids... But now i wish i wont get divorced my husband is ready to divorce me n he said come and get your dowry 😢😢😢😢 uff i loved him soooo very much now i am feeling deaf inside plzzzz pray for me and advise me i am feeling alone and breaking i know Allah pak is with me whatever will happen it will be good for me but i am feeling sooo much pain em dying
Asalam alaykum sister, please stay strong, I have been in a similar situation, and what you’re feeling is rejection and abandonment and it’s ok to feel this, but please remember you are also Allahs creation, you are also someones daughter, respect his decision and take care of yourself. Allah is with the heartbroken. Put your trust in Allah, Allah tests the ones he loves and please be patient. Allah is fair, people are not. May allah ease your pain, and give you strength, ameen.
I went through a difficult time, connecting with so many English and westwern European females from School, College, Poly/University. Mother was simply homely Muslim person looking up to me from a family of underachievers so maybe this was the reason her wishes were fulfilled and I married a beautiful women from Pakistan although she could have been from UK. Sex was ok but not great as there was little education about pleasures and performing in bed. Then for unseen reasons my son had a very serious accident brain injury at 8 month, wife became a full time carer leaving full time employment. Moving on we separated approx 12 years ago due to the stress, when you suffer from psychological scars it affects the relationship physically and emotionally. For myself I am going through a sexual awakening after being dormant for so long going all the way back to 1991, going through a mental crisis coming to terms with life. We are independent thinkers going forward , ultimately what makes you happy is Relative and Subjective.
We have a daughter .. I'm still hoping he will realize all the wrong doings he doing to me.. so much pain in my chesttt I have no one to talk to .. I want to die help me
جزاكم الله خيرا. A very serious topic well handled by Brother Yasir as always. Now, I know there are men that are simply animalistic and tyrannical in how they are treat their wives, these men need to be beaten with a stick(A sheikh said this) the opposite also happens although it's rare... However, I fear some women might take this as a green light to go ahead and divorce their husbands or disrespect and disobey them for the smallest of reasons... e.g "my husband did this today, I think he's cheatin, or he did this maybe he is hiding something, should I divorce him?..." Everyone has their faults, and we all make mistakes, always have good thoughts about your muslim bretheren, as long as he is praying, and is JUST in what he does, and nothing was heard about him, Then be patient with him, same goes for the men.
yes but if your husband hits you and you see bruises you need a divorce. its very common for the men to hit instead of the women but it doesn't mean they don't do emotional abuse actually women are really good at it but still abuse is abuse no husband should lay hands on there wife and even the uran says strike them and people say with a miswak I think just striking alone or even touching her without conncent or bad intentions should not be allowed
What if children stop parent father from physical abuse to mother parent but could not help about verbal abuse when mother parent don't want to even part. children and mother parent suffering collective. 😢
It is also bad when the husband sits back and allows the mother and father in law to abuse the wife telling her to just suck it because it is his parents and then you will be rewarded later by Allah for having patience.
What if a woman has lots of kids and have no family or friends? How will she survive leaving abuser's home? Even women start distancing from such victims. No help man, no help.
@@Kekesfoodlab lol all you want: Zaid bin Haritha came to him complaining about (his wife). The Prophet said to him, “Keep your wife with you and fear Allah.” He said, the verse: “But (O Muhammad) you did hide in your heart that which Allah was about to make manifest” up to “We gave her into your marriage” (33.37) was revealed about Zainab.[11]
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I pray that all the women and men that are going through emotional abuse. May God grant you peace in your marriages and may he make it easy on you ❤
Aameen ✨
Ameen
Ameen
Amin yarabbülalemin🕋🇷🇺 may Allah SWT guide all us as well🇷🇺🇨🇳 🇺🇸on the straight path🕋🇷🇺 Amin yarabbülalemin🇷🇺🕋
Ameen
So true and children also learn this behaviour from their fathers and treat their mothers disrespectfully. Later they grow up and treat their future spouses like that. Sometimes words cut deeper than knives. May Allah SWT softens our hearts and purifies our tongues.
Âmin Rabbülalemin 🕋🇷🇺
So true
Ameen 🤲🏻
So true .
A true gentleman is so rare !
i will never hit my wife ever
@@jackfloc0 Mashallah. May ALLAH protect you from the all evil.
@@jackfloc0 IN'CHĀ'ALLĀH !
ĀMEEN !
@@xpwarlord8829 ĀMEEN !
Shūkran Jazīlan !
@@jackfloc0 Good brother! But it's not just about not hitting your wife , you should also not disrespect or degrade her
Most abusers will never admit they are abuser.
Then play victim in a situation they created. Then using the law against the target for speaking up and using children as a weapon is the biggest form of abuse too.
True
Allah will tell Inshallah .Bcz Allah knows every disease of heart and brain
They never do, cowards!
😢😢😢😢 I am going through this right now
Some people never accept their mistakes and will always blame the other person 😢
S
Tru
Narcissistic
May Allah eradicate this hypocrisy within Man
How about within women???
Allah can't fix this Allah is useless
@@genejohnson8631 Stop deflecting.
And within women too. Aameen
This is great video . Emotional abuse is something I'm dealing with now .
May Allah make it easy for you and grant you with a door.
Alhamdulilah. The Deen of isalam is so beautiful and straightforward. Ya Allah grant us pious spouses for some us struggling with our marriages. Thank you Dr. Qadi❤
Allaah'humma Salli ala Sayidina Muhammad Salallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam
The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whosoever eats food and at the end, says:
اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰهِ الَّذِيْ أَطْعَمَنِيْ هٰذَا ، وَرَزَقَنِيْهِ مِنْ غَيْرِ حَوْلٍ مِنِّيْ وَلَا قُوَّةٍ
Praise be to Allah who has fed me this and provided me with it without any power and might from me. all his past sins will be forgiven.” (Abū Dāwūd 4023, Tirmidhī 3458, Ibn Mājah 3285)
This is so true I am going through this in my life right now,mental torture, abusing my family,my husband breaking all the showcase hurting himself I am fed up now, enough is enough
I am also sis,are you going to leave sis
Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever
Leave!!!! ❤
What a kind speaker so calming and reassuring
27 years of every type of abuse …. Divorced and it gets worse through using the children …. He has no fear of Allah , Death or accountability! Just hellbent on being an enemy…. Waiting for life to end feels comforting!
May Allah lessen your burden, sister. Ameen
Finish him off or get him taken off this earth
Each will get their reckoning. He will answer for every demeaning behaviour towards the one he has been given a trust to take care of. That Day will come , there is no doubt. But too often these hypocrites somehow don't fully believe thus. Otherwise they would not do this. That's why we have the Day of Judgement. They will be judged and given their due. You will get through it sister and be stronger for it. Cos those who commit these acts most certainly aren't. They would never behave like this with another man! Cowards !
Been through such since 9 years and felt I’m the only one dealing with such but hats off to your sabr MashaALLAH
Sister i want to talk to you im in same situation i want us sisters to talk with eachother and share our situations on any platform like insta or whatever
Thanks!
I am going through this for the past 19 years...make dua for me
Why are you still there?
بے شک میرا اللہ دعا سننے والا ہے
This is video very nice 🙂...I am from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
I think now in Bangladesh wives beats the husband. the women prime minister takes matters regarding women very seriously.
me too
It is nice…… I am from Pakistan 🇵🇰 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰
Barakallah,💖❤️ This video is very nice. I'm from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
Subhanallah
May Allah help us all Ameen
JazakaAllah kher for posting this. May Allah help and guide us all, ameen.
May Allah spread Subra in our hearts Amin 🤲🏼💚
Amin yarabbülalemin🕋🇷🇺
i am hafeza ayasha ❤️❤️
I love allah i love muhammad❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Assalamu Alaykum hafiza Ayesha, hope you are doing fine with the grace of the Almighty.
I am ayna, I am memorising the Quran and completed half of the Quran. Please pray for me that I have to complete the entire Quran in 2023 in sha allah.. Please add me in your prayers 🛐 I.a
Jazakallahu khayr !
Very very good video Marshallah,please bring more like these videos!Thank you very much may Almighty Allah reward you!
Allah'uma aameen
May Allah SWT reward you for this message
It was narrated from Hudhaifah that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to say between the two prostrations:
“Rabbighfir li, Rabbighfir li (O Lord forgive me, O Lord forgive me).”
[Sunan Ibn Majah Hadith 897]
Sadly and quite often it is the husband’s parents; usually his mother who emotionally abuses the daughter in law. It’s insidious and difficult to recognise and even more difficult to stand up to when the victim has been beaten down and has sunk into depression and anxiety.
Salam. Very important speech to help people in their marriage. Please could you make subtitles in Arabic, French and other languages. Thank you.بارك الله فيكم
Alhumduallah
Barak Allahu feek. We need much more Videos about spouse and parenting. We live in a time, where women are the enemy of men and the otherwise, but this is from shaitan and we have to be a team. We are a puzzle, the one needs the other. I often and more and more see and read about problems in spouse and about parenting in the Sunna way. It's become sooo difficult. And this problems make us so weak, this is one of the big reasons why we are depressed.
17 years dealing with this
As you can see from the video that our Islam forbids it so end it. help yourself and Allah will protect you.
Assalamualaikum...I will pray for you sis .. Insha Allah everything will be fine.... Don't worry...Hope u r okay .. don't loose hope in Allah no matter what situation u r in . Allah will surely reward for your patience and ask Allah for a solution. Allah is All hearing . Allah would never ignore a dua.Allah is Rahman and Raheem ( kind and merciful) ....😊..
@@shabnam.ansari_the_queenyeahhhh...
@@shabnam.ansari_the_queen I am dealing with a real evil, I can’t even say exactly .
Plz brothers and sisters ask allah for me and my kids.
@@latinalife2458 no evil can do anything when you have Allah. Have courage and have trust in Allah . You have to seek help to protect yourself and the children. When you'll take some few steps surely Allah will make many ways to protect you. he is with you always. You don't have to care what anyone will say or do
if you're the victim, you deserve help and justice. Inshallah everything will be good. May Allah protect you and give you peace.
11:19 to 11:23 > Ameen 🤲🏼!
Men being abused shouldn't be a side note. This is a serious issue. I know two men abused by their wives. They are living in a hell! May Allah have mercy on them.
Stop deflecting
@@canonaler are you ok?
@PCM77Thick sometimes im okay, sometimes not, why ?
More women get abused than men
@@rukshanaali4958💯
jazakAllah khair 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you à lot for this video 😢❤❤❤❤ for this very important message.
It’s important to inform men of this primordial value in Islam.
Ameen 🤲🏻❤
As a young child I shall remember what u said in this video.
Amin.
Aameen ya Rabbul’alameen jazakallahukhair brother
JazaqaAllah khaira brother
May Allah reward you abundandly
Sometimes you think to take that decision but when you come to see Dont have any financial way and you have kids alhamdullilah so at the end of the day you just decide to sacrifice your self with this situation
thank you for posting this ♥️
My husband abused me and my children for more than 40 years now I am not living with him your vlog is very helpful thank-you
Alhamdulillah you're not living with him. Can i please ask, how did you leave?
Where can I find the full lecture? barak Allah feekum
Salam Alaikym! I believe it is this khutbah you were asking for. ruclips.net/video/10yIceea5H0/видео.html
JazakAllah Khairan for the Khutbah and sharing this. 👏 👏
I hope someone makes this as a “Bangla translation.” Would able to share with a relative who is often suffer from “ Emotional Abuse.” 💔
Salaam Al lukum...Al hamidualla... I loved this. I want to ask, Where are these good Muslim men???
I think the only way to find them is to sincerely pray to Allah to make you found them then observe your surroundings.
Not every Muslim men that appeared to be religious and understand the religion are not abusive so as some Muslim women.
Appearance and social masks made it hard to segregate the abusive ones and the good ones.
Some are so nice and gentle when there's another person,but when we are alone with them they'll say undermine things to us-I had found Muslim men and women like this.
I hope you'll find him one day(if you are still looking for one.) and may Allah ease you in your journey.😊😊
Please translate this video in urdu and hindi.... Asian families really need to watch this...!
THANK YOU 😊
Only for kids sake some people keep on hooking but all of the street and neighbours can smell the disgusting air radiating from their windows😢😢😢 the cries that poison the environment and the lethal impact it brings to their children - with extended families back home or parents being too old or deceased can’t be involved and it literally keep the hearts burning 🥵 like hell!!!!
What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹
how can someone abuse his wife i could never
May Allah protect any one man or woman from abusive relationship
@@dw4690 Ameen
Ur wife should say if you are good
Why are these guys having to be told this? Why some guys are slapping wives and emotional abusing their wives? My husband realized some of those guys were doing that and he was not happy. He told them you do not beat your horses; but you act in a poor manner with your wives ?! 🇺🇸🇸🇦🤷🏻♀️
You married a good man and he has the courage to speak up and tell others to stop MashaAllah - we need more men like him who speak up and tell abusive men to stop & hopefully change worldwide.
Thank you shaikh
I'm suffering now yah Allah 🙏 why am I letting him keep hurting me .. help me 😢 I can't take it anymore but I don't have choice ya Allah 🙏
Same here... Been only a month of nikah (engagement).
Just leave
Alot Of Women Do Dis 2Men!!🤘🏽❄️💯
Stop lying
@@SC-sn3xs Ong no lies sadly💩 Das y Most Men Commit Suicide Cos Of 'women' B❄️
Then you should.marry carefully.
Where are all the good men gone ?
Ameen
25 years I’m trying to get back on my deen
❤❤❤
Am facing the same problem twenty years of marriage no happiness and am still leaving in a single room with six children who are now grown
@@GingerNinja007 my mom is a covert Narcissists abused me and destroyed me and she has been into it for 35years of narcissists husband (he is basically an animal so i dont wanna use the word husband for him ever) because I know I don't need such father figure to be my anything
along with backward religious abusers family who are narcissists as well
Leave and get away from toxic people wallah u deserve better
How is this emotional abuse! Did he stop you from leaving? Fear Allah and dont be ungreatful to your husband!
@@genejohnson8631 you are not her, she has experienced it all!
And you stayed for 20yrs? For what?
INFORMATIVE, THANKS
I am married to a covert narcissist. Mental..emotional..financial abuse. I am married for 44yrs. At age 64 i am going to ask for a Fashk..😢😢😢
Same sister. I commented up earlier if you wanna help make a support group for us. I left my email above.
Please open more shelters for women with children. And cops don't care about emotional abuse.
Thats how muslims are, they dont have feelings
You have to speak up. And request a Personal Protection Orders. It last a year, you can renew it. At least it gives u time to relocate. That's why womens should have at least a part-time job in case you need to take care of yourself and children.
Allah (swt) repeatedly says in the Quran to show love, kindness and warns that they should not harm their wives even after divorce. Allah (swt) has even forbidden us to call each other by bad names and to humiliate. The abusive behavior does not reflect the kindness and love for their spouses.
Confronting him about lack of being at home . No contribution except paying bills. This will cause a fight. So how weid we stay together 20 years? Ignoring it . Accepting this. And me not being brave to take a step further . This is my life
Fear Allah when it comes to Women. Nikaah is a covenant.
Also , I work pay my own bills & but my own food & clothes
Brother I think it would be 11 Blessed Wives of Rasul( s a w)..... ????
What is the punishment of physical abusive husbands in islam ?? How to deal with physical abuse ,should wife hit him back ? Please someone answer this is genuine question ..
Emotional damage
Didn't the prophet have 12 wives? Also awesome video and it really touched my heart
I’m on my deen & my husband is not he told me he was Muslim before we were married but we married legally & I never seen him pray he treats to nice then he acts like I don’t exist we been married for 13 years , I feel stuck , I don’t have enough money to rent a house … I separated myself to n another room so I won’t be around his weed use or alcoholic , I don’t know what to do how long do I supposed to wait for him to get on his deen ?
Take that first, difficult, almost impossible step, and leave the rest to Allah, He will most certainly help you if you rely solely on him and make that intention at least. Stay strong.
Been married
For 20 years. Never heard the word I love you. Never got any hugs . Never any positive comment about how I look or how I dress. Never. Yes he brings me to restaurant 1x month. Yes he brings to holiday with kids. Once a year. Yes he pays bills. But he thinks this is his job. So whenever I try to tell him why he doesn’t do this or that he denies and says he does it. And when fight breaks out, hell breaks loose. He will say anything to hurt me. He always talks negative about my mom. Then he swears at me . Shows bad swear sign language to me. When I’m angry and scream he says I am a witch and bad woman. And then after the neglecting starts. No talking for days/weeks . If there was any feeling for him it’s finished. I have absolutely no feelings for intimacy anymore. I want to leave him. He says this is my house. You can go if you like. He knows I can’t go as I have my family abroad.
Bringing religion and Quran and Hadith makes more anger and extended families only tell to stay in this relationship 😢
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How about wives who abuses their husband ? Can you pls post a video regarding this.
He would not because it will go against the grain.
Because more men abuse than women
@@genejohnson8631 Your comment is evidence that you didn’t watch the full lecture. Listen learn improve.
Please make a generalised videos it's not always about husband and wife
Who is the speaker?
I have been married since one and a half year. Ny husband stayed only less than two months with me.. In this time period we didnt develop any good bonding.. He used to blame me for several things and used to show inconvenience towards me... He went to abroad leaving me to his sister's home there i got no ri8s as a married women... N during this time period he used to blame me show his dislikeness against my love he used to abandon me and he used to torture me in several emotional ways.. My Father died and his behaviiur was still blaming i got angry and stayed with my brothers now its been 4 months several elders tried to resolve our matter first i said i dnt want to live in marriage where my husband always show hatred toward me n i refuse to live with his sisters who are married and have their own home kids... But now i wish i wont get divorced my husband is ready to divorce me n he said come and get your dowry 😢😢😢😢 uff i loved him soooo very much now i am feeling deaf inside plzzzz pray for me and advise me i am feeling alone and breaking i know Allah pak is with me whatever will happen it will be good for me but i am feeling sooo much pain em dying
Asalam alaykum sister, please stay strong, I have been in a similar situation, and what you’re feeling is rejection and abandonment and it’s ok to feel this, but please remember you are also Allahs creation, you are also someones daughter, respect his decision and take care of yourself. Allah is with the heartbroken. Put your trust in Allah, Allah tests the ones he loves and please be patient. Allah is fair, people are not. May allah ease your pain, and give you strength, ameen.
Assalamualaikum sister,don’t worry allah will show u a way..
@@LK-sk2wv ameen thanks for consoling me I wish the same for u dear sister
@@touseefshaukat98Jazakhallah sister.
Islam even can't fix Muslims what a useless religion
I went through a difficult time, connecting with so many English and westwern European females from School, College, Poly/University. Mother was simply homely Muslim person looking up to me from a family of underachievers so maybe this was the reason her wishes were fulfilled and I married a beautiful women from Pakistan although she could have been from UK. Sex was ok but not great as there was little education about pleasures and performing in bed. Then for unseen reasons my son had a very serious accident brain injury at 8 month, wife became a full time carer leaving full time employment. Moving on we separated approx 12 years ago due to the stress, when you suffer from psychological scars it affects the relationship physically and emotionally. For myself I am going through a sexual awakening after being dormant for so long going all the way back to 1991, going through a mental crisis coming to terms with life. We are independent thinkers going forward , ultimately what makes you happy is Relative and Subjective.
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What is this man is name
Yasir Qadhi, he is very good MashaAllah
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We have a daughter .. I'm still hoping he will realize all the wrong doings he doing to me.. so much pain in my chesttt I have no one to talk to .. I want to die help me
Please don't think this way,you are brave enough for your child,may Allah make a path for you
جزاكم الله خيرا.
A very serious topic well handled by Brother Yasir as always.
Now, I know there are men that are simply animalistic and tyrannical in how they are treat their wives, these men need to be beaten with a stick(A sheikh said this) the opposite also happens although it's rare...
However, I fear some women might take this as a green light to go ahead and divorce their husbands or disrespect and disobey them for the smallest of reasons...
e.g "my husband did this today, I think he's cheatin, or he did this maybe he is hiding something, should I divorce him?..."
Everyone has their faults, and we all make mistakes, always have good thoughts about your muslim bretheren, as long as he is praying, and is JUST in what he does, and nothing was heard about him, Then be patient with him, same goes for the men.
yes but if your husband hits you and you see bruises you need a divorce. its very common for the men to hit instead of the women but it doesn't mean they don't do emotional abuse actually women are really good at it but still abuse is abuse no husband should lay hands on there wife and even the uran says strike them and people say with a miswak I think just striking alone or even touching her without conncent or bad intentions should not be allowed
When its parents and not husband. When its right from childhood, and has become a part of your life.
And compromise
And brothers can be abusive
As-Salaam Alaikum
Physical abuse too....i left him...
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What if children stop parent father from physical abuse to mother parent but could not help about verbal abuse when mother parent don't want to even part. children and mother parent suffering collective. 😢
We should think Allah for good husband
Please some one transfer this to tamil language
It is also bad when the husband sits back and allows the mother and father in law to abuse the wife telling her to just suck it because it is his parents and then you will be rewarded later by Allah for having patience.
What if a woman has lots of kids and have no family or friends? How will she survive leaving abuser's home? Even women start distancing from such victims. No help man, no help.
Allah and His Angels are with you always, literally. You're never alone. Make that stride and rely on Allah to provide and He will.
Make a dua to Allah to grant you ease
Contact your local charities and citizens advice for help. There’s always a way.
I am staying single marriage is slavary
Mohamed had 16 wife's. One was sixteen years . Also sixteen. That is sad
Out of the 9 wives, why did Zainab say he killed her father and that’s why she was poisoning him? Puzzling
lol Zaynab wasn’t the wife of the prophet SAW. She was a jewess. May Allah SWT guide us all, Aameen 🤲🏾
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lol all you want:
Zaid bin Haritha came to him complaining about (his wife). The Prophet said to him, “Keep your wife with you and fear Allah.” He said, the verse: “But (O Muhammad) you did hide in your heart that which Allah was about to make manifest” up to “We gave her into your marriage” (33.37) was revealed about Zainab.[11]
SubhanAllah if he would have a little taqwa he would have a shame and wouldn't be an abuser. What are you saying brother, it's common sense.
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Don’t hit her on the face? But it’s ok to hit on the body??? Someone please explain
I have to ask you a question first. Are you genuine or a troll?
no it’s not okay, but it’s worse to hit on face
Light tapping not hitting. It's like tapping on shoulders. Even 1 year old child hits you more hard than that.
If she steps out of line or is rude then a slight body shot to the stomach or ribs is better then striking the face 😅
What a shitty minded religion right ? 💩
These men have many women . That is a sin. It is Adultery . Such hypocrites.