And thoughts are NOT always wrong. If the man has done evil in the relationship like cheated, and I took you back but a year later I start seeing those same patterns again, means my thoughts are accurate. And energy doesn't lie. I am very adept at reading energy. I had an ex from 11 years ago who found me on FB and said God told him to find me and apologize to me. He admitted I wasn't crazy like he said at the time. I knew it. Ladies LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION.
Exactly, ladies and men should pay attention to their God given intuition and spiritual discernment. However, he keeps talking about women destroying romantic relationships because they say everything they're thinking. I wonder if that same advice applies to the men, also. Men don't have the right to criticize women without any regards to how those women might feel just because they're men. Everybody has FEELINGS, right or wrong, good or bad. Now, there are some things that are better left unsaid, but what happened to keeping the lines of communication open and discussing things before they become a bigger issue? Sometimes I believe men only think that their opinions and thoughts are the only ones that matter. Remember that old saying, "women are to be seen rather than heard."
I use to not say anything when I was younger but I did the revenge thing instead and told them afterwards. But these days, Im f**king speaking on it and don't care if he leaves. LEAVE! DF
You better know it. Because if he "cares about you" and "loves you", he'll Know how to deal w/that woman that Truly speaks what's on her mind. And Not be "irritated " because you said it Out 🔊 loud.
@@designhub360customapparel as a man I wish more women could communicate. I chose to be single because all the women I meet are quiet, emotionless, ice queens that are only interested in sIeeping with me and I'm not interested in women like that. I'm not wasting my time sIeeping with women who aren't fit to be a wife or mother. Anyway keep speaking your mind. Don't listen to men that tell you to be quiet.
You nailed this Brother Kirk..it’s important to unpack one’s thoughts..it makes all of the difference on what or how to share..it can require the help of a therapist to unlearn negative and unproductive thoughts 🙏🏾
He's right. A hard lesson to learn is don't tell them that sort of stuff, don't put that thought in their mind that they don't care about you or care enough UNLESS you're ready to lose them anyway, or leave them.
Words are spirit. Certain actions or words once done or spoken, cannot be undone or taken back. Here is why you have to remain calm even when there is the tendency to burst out of your emotions unintelligently, while neglecting the possible outcome. Controlling your feelings is your own life saver. Thanks a lot Kirk. This video is helpful!
I agree to thinking before talking is good however, do it for your own benefit like aligning feelings, thoughts and vibrations. Practicing self-control. Being self-aware in your whole expression for yourself and not for a man‘s liking or because you are afraid of loosing him if you act „wrong“. Because then he is not worth your words anyhow.
I disagree on this one, even though I love your videos and your message, but if a man doesn't respect your mind, he's not your man, because not every though is bad and we don't say everything we think, there's a lot and I mean a lot we ladies don't speak about
Oh my GOD , You are speaking the truth 🎉👍👍People should be very careful!! Thank you for this wonderful advice! You are doing a great job in people’s lives! GOD bless you! I have learned much much from you 👏👏
You are a very smart man!! Glad I found your channel, I just learned all of this at 36 and at 38 I am so far from mastering these lessons but I know now, so I must do better backsliding on this lessons are so uncomfortable for me now
I really really really enjoy this sequence of ideas. It's an exercise needed every second of Life it Self. I call those feelings based on thoughts, movies in our heads, vomiting. We need to analyse, meditate on those stressful emotions before saying anything. Peace brother ❤
This is a GREAT word of advice to be mindful of what we say especially for us over-thinkers. This is definitely something I struggle with and something that has and can cause a lot of unnecessary arguments and bickering in my ( any ) relationship. HOWEVER, at the same time, my partner is VERY understanding of the shit I've gone through and dealt with in past relationships, (&really my whole life). We've been together 3.5 years and he knows me EXTREMELY well. And if its something I have a LOGICAL explanation or suspicion for he's usually very good at soft checking me or addressing it before it gets out of hand or I start over thinking to much. And if a man really loves you and cares about making your relationship work ( & you're NOT being ridiculous or completley unreasonable) he won't mind putting your mind and your thoughts at ease about said problem. If he does, IMO he's probably a narcissist or a fuckboy up to some fuckshit. I said what I said 🤷♀️
This is 100 percent true. Women and men need to understand how much we self sabotage ourselves with wrong thinking. Just because we think it doesn't make it a fact or even real for that matter.
I am currently single because all the women I meet are quiet, emotionless, ice queens that think I can read her mind. Finding a woman who is willing to sIeep with me is easy. But finding a woman who is willing to talk is impossible. Which is why I chose to be single and don't have $ex. I'm not attracted to a woman who can't communicate.
I don’t agree with this message, Because a lot of times it comes from a man’s actions that makes a woman need to understand what is up, what’s crazy is some of us aren’t mad upset or nothing just trying to understand, hell they think we have no right but your wrong we have a choice in our life as well as you
Meanwhile _every_ time that *I* havs _thought_ a thing; it was *true.* However, I know there are _psychos_ that simply _think_ things for _absolutely_ no reason at all. Yet with normal people that "thought" is called instincts.😅
I've noticed that my lust comes mid day and late night from subconsciously doing that when I was younger and when I became a mom because of that being the availability for me. I fight hard now to resist especially because I have not found the right person
But in other videos you say to trust your instinct/gut/feelings. What's the difference between that and this of how feelings shouldn't be expressed/believed?
And I truly hope you're not meaning to say that women should stay quiet more often about their feelings/issues they're having? Can you please clarify what you mean about not expressing feelings? Which ones to listen to or how to reflect or whatever.
Can you do a video on why men don’t like to support you when you tell them your problems I do it to see if they would support or give good advice but when I do that or talk about my back pain ect they ignore me online why no one want to show support that’s how u find out if they have potential to be there so now it’s you only talk about sex and what u can do for them ? I talk about my things to see if they deserve anymore attention
Kirk Hazell…putting me on blast and helping me become a better woman one video at a time 😂😂😂 ❤
Yes❗️
@@lindabutler793😂😂😂
❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾
You and me both sister ❤
Indeed cus i need it.
My deceased husband used to always preach, to think about what you're going to say before opening your mouth! TRUTH ❤
That's why we should be slow to speak
And thoughts are NOT always wrong. If the man has done evil in the relationship like cheated, and I took you back but a year later I start seeing those same patterns again, means my thoughts are accurate. And energy doesn't lie. I am very adept at reading energy. I had an ex from 11 years ago who found me on FB and said God told him to find me and apologize to me. He admitted I wasn't crazy like he said at the time. I knew it. Ladies LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION.
Exactly, ladies and men should pay attention to their God given intuition and spiritual discernment. However, he keeps talking about women destroying romantic relationships because they say everything they're thinking. I wonder if that same advice applies to the men, also. Men don't have the right to criticize women without any regards to how those women might feel just because they're men. Everybody has FEELINGS, right or wrong, good or bad. Now, there are some things that are better left unsaid, but what happened to keeping the lines of communication open and discussing things before they become a bigger issue? Sometimes I believe men only think that their opinions and thoughts are the only ones that matter. Remember that old saying, "women are to be seen rather than heard."
@@lindajohnson4999Exactly!!! Do not keep your feelings tucked inside. And if he runs away, he wasn't meant to be there.
I use to not say anything when I was younger but I did the revenge thing instead and told them afterwards. But these days, Im f**king speaking on it and don't care if he leaves. LEAVE! DF
You better know it. Because if he "cares about you" and "loves you", he'll Know how to deal w/that woman that Truly speaks what's on her mind. And Not be "irritated " because you said it Out 🔊 loud.
@@sharonbrown473 Exactly!!!
@@designhub360customapparel as a man I wish more women could communicate.
I chose to be single because all the women I meet are quiet, emotionless, ice queens that are only interested in sIeeping with me and I'm not interested in women like that.
I'm not wasting my time sIeeping with women who aren't fit to be a wife or mother.
Anyway keep speaking your mind. Don't listen to men that tell you to be quiet.
You nailed this Brother Kirk..it’s important to unpack one’s thoughts..it makes all of the difference on what or how to share..it can require the help of a therapist to unlearn negative and unproductive thoughts 🙏🏾
He's right. A hard lesson to learn is don't tell them that sort of stuff, don't put that thought in their mind that they don't care about you or care enough UNLESS you're ready to lose them anyway, or leave them.
*Sir this video was the perfect example of people speaking from a past place of hurt. Thank you.*
I know men who behave like this..... I left my ex because of this.....
The timing of this was toooo perfect, lard ahh mercy 🤣✨🔥💯
Lol
..and this is for men as well.
Exactly 👍
Words are spirit. Certain actions or words once done or spoken, cannot be undone or taken back. Here is why you have to remain calm even when there is the tendency to burst out of your emotions unintelligently, while neglecting the possible outcome. Controlling your feelings is your own life saver. Thanks a lot Kirk. This video is helpful!
We don't need to say everything that pops up in our mind. Im laughing and cringeing so hard. Im that woman who has done it. I needed this message 😁
My Pops used to tell me.
"You have more mouth than an elephant has azz😅"
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
The accuracy. Wow.❤
We get better with age.
We are females, different as a men, we are mothers.
Imagine men, without our delicate love.
I see your point.
But No…
I agree to thinking before talking is good however, do it for your own benefit like aligning feelings, thoughts and vibrations. Practicing self-control. Being self-aware in your whole expression for yourself and not for a man‘s liking or because you are afraid of loosing him if you act „wrong“.
Because then he is not worth your words anyhow.
We think that coz we thought that & gotta mention it 😅🤔...
I see your point.
Good revelation I Love it ❣️
🙏🏾🙏🏾
I really like the way you do videos. YOU GET STRAIGHT TO THE POINT
This is definitely me.
I’m learning so much from you Kirk. I’m guilty of doing this and I admit it
Yes, very true. I had a reality check myself about this not too long ago.
So true! I do it all the bloody time. I can't help myself 🙈😂
😂😂
This is such good advice about that inner voice that only supports whatever emotions you're having at a given time. ❤
Love your teaching and your shirt brother-King, blessings 👑🖤🕊️🙌🏾👑
Bang on! I'm learning 😊
Thank you for the reminder! It was much needed. ❤❤❤
I disagree on this one, even though I love your videos and your message, but if a man doesn't respect your mind, he's not your man, because not every though is bad and we don't say everything we think, there's a lot and I mean a lot we ladies don't speak about
Exactly! Speak up cause that man will when it comes to you.
🙌🏽
Oh my GOD , You are speaking the truth 🎉👍👍People should be very careful!! Thank you for this wonderful advice! You are doing a great job in people’s lives! GOD bless you! I have learned much much from you 👏👏
You are a very smart man!! Glad I found your channel, I just learned all of this at 36 and at 38 I am so far from mastering these lessons but I know now, so I must do better backsliding on this lessons are so uncomfortable for me now
I really really really enjoy this sequence of ideas. It's an exercise needed every second of Life it Self. I call those feelings based on thoughts, movies in our heads, vomiting. We need to analyse, meditate on those stressful emotions before saying anything. Peace brother ❤
This is a GREAT word of advice to be mindful of what we say especially for us over-thinkers. This is definitely something I struggle with and something that has and can cause a lot of unnecessary arguments and bickering in my ( any ) relationship. HOWEVER, at the same time, my partner is VERY understanding of the shit I've gone through and dealt with in past relationships, (&really my whole life). We've been together 3.5 years and he knows me EXTREMELY well. And if its something I have a LOGICAL explanation or suspicion for he's usually very good at soft checking me or addressing it before it gets out of hand or I start over thinking to much. And if a man really loves you and cares about making your relationship work ( & you're NOT being ridiculous or completley unreasonable) he won't mind putting your mind and your thoughts at ease about said problem. If he does, IMO he's probably a narcissist or a fuckboy up to some fuckshit. I said what I said 🤷♀️
I am listening, not over thinking right now.🙏🏿
You are soooo on point.
Excellent info here. 👍🏼
I love your shirt Kirk. ❤️
Love this,....say less.....understood!
Your so rite ❤
Running mouth syndrome is very dangerous 😅😅
Learning How to Control Emotions = Emotional Intelligence ❤
This is 100 percent true. Women and men need to understand how much we self sabotage ourselves with wrong thinking. Just because we think it doesn't make it a fact or even real for that matter.
I am currently single because all the women I meet are quiet, emotionless, ice queens that think I can read her mind.
Finding a woman who is willing to sIeep with me is easy.
But finding a woman who is willing to talk is impossible.
Which is why I chose to be single and don't have $ex. I'm not attracted to a woman who can't communicate.
Yes I agree 💯
I was like that as well , I am learning not be like that anymore
Some women can get away with that and men love it versus a woman like myself...nope
Why not you?
That’s me all the way
Well it was I’ve been working on me alot for months now
I don’t agree with this message, Because a lot of times it comes from a man’s actions that makes a woman need to understand what is up, what’s crazy is some of us aren’t mad upset or nothing just trying to understand, hell they think we have no right but your wrong we have a choice in our life as well as you
Thank you
Self-regulation.
Amen 💯
lol, throughout my life it’s always men that do this
Meanwhile _every_ time that *I* havs _thought_ a thing; it was *true.* However, I know there are _psychos_ that simply _think_ things for _absolutely_ no reason at all.
Yet with normal people that "thought" is called instincts.😅
Exactly
Yes the first thing God spoke into existence words are powerful
I've noticed that my lust comes mid day and late night from subconsciously doing that when I was younger and when I became a mom because of that being the availability for me. I fight hard now to resist especially because I have not found the right person
Facts over feelings
Cousin!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 🙇♀️
Ladies should be seen & Not Heard 👂 Silence 🤫 is Sweet 🍭
I'm curious how does that work in a relationship that requires healthy communication. It's supposed to be key 🔑 right?
Bs
👏👏👏
Because u can't tack back❤
Gets it out can't hold it inside gotta say it
Black is ❤ love
But in other videos you say to trust your instinct/gut/feelings. What's the difference between that and this of how feelings shouldn't be expressed/believed?
And I truly hope you're not meaning to say that women should stay quiet more often about their feelings/issues they're having? Can you please clarify what you mean about not expressing feelings? Which ones to listen to or how to reflect or whatever.
Can you do a video on why men don’t like to support you when you tell them your problems I do it to see if they would support or give good advice but when I do that or talk about my back pain ect they ignore me online why no one want to show support that’s how u find out if they have potential to be there so now it’s you only talk about sex and what u can do for them ? I talk about my things to see if they deserve anymore attention