Intimacy-Something looked over but all too necessary.
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- Опубликовано: 23 мар 2021
- Learning video editing the best I can between everything else! Did some small edits just to start, hope you guys enjoy!
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Thx for this video.
As someone who struggles with this after abuse happening in my past it’s always a good gentle reminder to not miss the small intimate moment with someone
Been there man… intimacy is not just sex.. intimacy is intense and a real energy. So I truly understand what you mean. And when more people understand what you mean?! This world will be a better place.
Hmmm...as someone who's struggling with intimacy (usually with the receiving part of it), hearing your side is really interesting for me and makes it easier to understand the needs of others. Thank you for sharing your point of view 😊
This is such an important reminder, intimacy is apart of everyones foundation in any relationship.
Great video, your way of thinking is fascinating to me, given where I live, guys don’t express emotions and they’re assholes. You were brought up so well, and your consideration of women shows how good a person you are, keep making videos like this it's so nice to hear your opinion and views on such topics
I’ve been single for 5 years. I’m an empath too which has made dating hard. It’s difficult finding someone to be intimate with, without them immediately expecting “more”
Thank you for this video. I've tried to get friends to understand so much of this. Why I am this way. They are not used to the intimacy and it blows my mind.
Thank you for making this video. I desperately needed a lot of this, mostly just for validation that I'm not insane for wanting these things or doing these things with a FwB, and it's validating to see a man who values similar things actually exists, haha. Love your tiktoks, and so happy to see longer format content from you! Sending you all the love & positive vibes your way :)
There are just so many points I agreed with in this video. Yes, intimacy is so important. My marriage ended 3 years ago, and I haven't been in another relationship since. Something I was actually thinking about last night is that while I don't know that I miss the person I was with, what I do miss is that intimacy. Most of all I miss the simple things like hugs, and just basic human touch. Seriously, just being able to give someone a long hug and hold them is healing, and I miss it more than anything. I also miss having someone to come home too and to talk too, and having that person who is a best friend that you can be there for each other.
I also get how you feel about the gym. I've been struggling with depression for a long while now. Then my sister wanted me to join a gym with her so that we could lose weight. At first I was very hesitant about going to a gym, but now that I have been going for a while I am really enjoying it, and for reason I didn't expect. I feel like working out at the gym is helping with my depression. I can be feeling really down and just not wanting to do anything, and then feel so much if better after I go work out.
That TikTok video you were talking about was the first video of yours that I ever saw, and I really liked it. Been following you ever since. Anyways, I know this is a long comment, but thank you for all your videos, I really connect to them and find encouragement. 🙂
You should do more of this! 💕 💕 Love hearing you and what you want to say. The world need more love like this, unconditional 🥰
Would you consider? Turning the volume up. Please.
So much of this really hit home and helped me gain so much perspective on my own personal experiences especially recently. I needed this. Thank you
I have issues with intimacy, so I'm a little envious of people who know their love language. Your insight is amazing.
You’re seriously such an amazing person. You help a lot of people and you are so inspiring. I love your open mind and your humble demeanor. Thanks for taking the time to talk about these topics. Imma fan 💕💕💕💕
I hope all works out for you. I retried a short time ago so I am at the other and of life which is comforting to me.It has been fun but I hope to be a much older man. Life gives me a great life.I am glad you are making your own life
Would love to see more videos talking about polyamory informationally. My last two exes introduced me to it but the first didn’t talk much about it and the second left me feeling pretty messed up even though I tried to do my research, communicate, and learn more for him... I think they were both probably just using it as an excuse, but I can tell there’s a lot more to it than that and I don’t want to judge or distrust it because of them.
I’m new to your page & I’m coming from your TikTok profile. I would just like to say that your vision about life, intimacy & relationships is such a relief! I thought there was something wrong with me about how I look into intimacy & jumping into relationships.. I’ve always been criticised by potential relationship material as being too cautious & waiting.. But I just like to get to know the man as a person before I make the assessment if I want to spend the rest of my life potentially with him..
So thank you for this video. It’s really elevating to know there are people likeminded 🥰👍🏻 regards from Belgium 🇧🇪 and I’m already looking forward to your next video!
ur vids r interesting and i'm glad they exist. ❤️
Intimacy is terrifying, at least for me. The last person I had true Intimacy with (it was real on my end at least) used it against me to keep me under his thumb. Currently in therapy for it but also very very single for that reason
This may sound corny, but as an older person, I think that it's rare to fall in love with someone and have them reciprocate that love, plus be compatible and have similar values with that person. I don't understand why people don't appreciate that anymore. Or do they cut off that feeling because they are afraid of it?
I think you are an introvert as much as you are an empath.
Thankyu for sharing. Love to see small intimate moments can be shared in and outside of a relationship/situationship without being weird. I’m hoping to explore this myself and knowing you ALSO have all 5 love languages makes me feel so seen! Who knows, mayhaps I’ll slip and slide into your insta dms when that opens up (don’t think you’ll know it’s me now that I realize I never updated my YT pfp 😂) look out for a Bunnie 👀
You have an extraordinary emotional IQ - are you a July kid? When you talk, you carry a message to men who are bi or gay also, certainly a part of a polyamourous set, sexually and emotionally. I think achieving intimacy (maybe even related to fun?) can be a real struggle, but without it, the transience and lack of emotional grounding will just suck the life out of you. I also think you're brilliant for expressing this as a boundary issue, and that you need to say clearly what you need and how you need it. That's not in my programming.
I am a November (Sagittarius baby). I was just taught alot when I was younger about being open and emotionally aware. I was taught that it's okay to feel and it's okay to talk about how you feel. I can of course tune my emotional depth to the situation at hand but there are some things that take the best of me. It is what it is at that point.
@@BrendonQueue It's an excellent is. I had a disturbing experience with someone who came to visit and hook up with me at a hotel. In the time we spent together he kept asking me constantly why I was being so nice to him, and why I was treating him so well. I was pretty horrified, because I couldn't imagine how he was being treated by other people. Being civil, exercising basic compassion, having a little fun, expecting safety and some degree of intimacy: these are the basic minimums. People need to expect more of each other.
@@johncollinge619 I think human evolution has helped alot with this but the world only a take for a long time. The give and take was so minimal in time before the 21st century. I just started seeing a woman and she is kind of shell shocked at how kind hearted and open communicative that I am. She is a wonderful person though and appreciates all my efforts.
In alot of ways, it feels like I'm love bombing but I'm not. I just have an abundance of love to give is all and we have been talking about boundaries and such too. It's honestly been really refreshing and even more refreshing to have a woman ask me if things are okay instead of assuming. She doesn't watch my content on Tik Tok anymore out of respect for wanting to genuinely know me and not the amplified person online. It's still me but I have a role now as any creator does online. When she told me that, it made me feel really secure with her and being around her. We're both poly too so that is a huge change.
So in short; Yes, basic human decency is hard to come by. People wanting you for you and not just some physical trait is hard to come by even if its only for a short time. I've had some pretty gross people come in and out of my life but I suppose thats part of the experience of living now. Figuring out who is who.
Been there man… intimacy is not just sex.. intimacy is intense and a real energy. So I truly understand what you mean. And when more people understand what you mean?! This world will be a better place.