If that would have happened in America the police would love to go handle some business and your dad would have a rough ride to the police station with the right officers and depending on the state but sadly to say you liberals have ruined Britain and now if a officer wasn't as big of a chump and a waste as that officer they still couldn't really do much but that's why the man in those cities need to get some Tommy Robinson about their self somebody has to stop being scared. It blows my mind how any white British person could have anything negative to say about Tommy and he's fighting for your children and that's coming from a black man from the States. But the truth is the truth. Mental gymnastics isn't going to stop that same group from raping the little white girls and oppressing and honor killing their own. And we can all play dumb about who is causing all of that trouble in your country 😔
And we wonder why gang rapes and honour killings keep happening? Police and communities not bothering to address these situations. Absolutely disgusting!
"I took all the time I needed to listen, over and over, going back to some details so I wouldn't miss anything of your story. I recognized so many things that also happened to me, but you and your story-I want to tell you-I've watched so many of them, but yours is the one that touched my heart. The pain that resonated, the words you used, I could almost see the images in my head. I want to tell you, I am so, so, so sorry that all of this happened to you. Your heart is so, so big, and you deserve so much love. I want to thank you for not letting the silence take over. Thank you for giving me even more strength to keep on fighting and sharing my story. Thank you for being you."
Her story made me cry, and I just couldn't understand how someone could do such things, especially the child parents! But your comment made me even cry more. That was very emotional and compassionate.
my childhood was like this and it affects you for the rest of your life. im 45 now and still cant look people in the face and say no. it's just so ingrained. i hope young people can find help nowadays. this woman is so strong for surviving this and being able to help others going through it.
She was able to crawl, walk and even sit down with a dislocated hip. She spoke to the taxi driver and the police with a broken jaw. She made it over a 6 foot wall with a dislocated hip, broken arm and jaw. And was still able to crawl and stand, wow. This woman is truly super human. I hope she finds peace. The human body and will to survive here are next level.
Yes! Because they didn't break every thing, they couldn't break her spirit! And I don't care what religion she is but I know Jesus is watching over her. I truly strongly believe this.
Nina, you are incredibly strong; and despite the hell you’ve been through repeatedly, it makes me happy that not only did you survive these horrific abuses, but you’re also fighting for others who are going through what you went through. Thank you!
There is a time and place for political correctness and respecting culture, a unique dish that seems odd but that's it's only sin is worth defending, abusive practices that the right defends with a passion are not. It's telling that when the right defends others cultures it's only for the worst practices and generally speaking the left defends the better parts. Liberals tend to be more right leaning while pretending to be with the left as long as it doesn't inconvenance them
This an incredibly uncomfortable reality that needs to see daylight. How many poor souls suffer the same treatment every single day that we don’t hear about?
Programs in the UK should cover these topics, rather than some OF girl bonking 100 men in a day and not saying how disgusting it is but empowering them. We need to bring this to the light of the UK people. I've never had so much rage listening to these stories as I have right now.
Nina, my heart goes out to You. It is awesome the work you are involved in. So sad that parents, brothers, uncles have gotten away with the abuse inflicted and or murder committed on their daughter, sister, niece etc. This must change.
This IS HEART BREAKING. How, this group and their culture is not been scrutinised by the government.A history of systemic abuse against girls by these men and families.
This young lady went through the fires of hell and yet managed to keep her humanity. Her father was an astute businessman but an ignorant cruel father. These parents (if they were normal) should be proud to have a daughter like her.
You were treated worse than an abused unwanted dog!! You MUST know you are a very precious lady and your angel saw everything you went through, the culture you were brought up in is so horrific. Jesus cried with you every time you were abused. You MUST continue to tell your story and what is happening to little girls who are treated so badly. This must stop and you are helping to do this. It is amazing you are still alive! God must have been with you through all your hell! I hope and pray you have healed from all this terrable abuse! Everyone who hert you both physically & mentally. Your parents should be in jail for life!!! I praise the fact you are helping others who suffered in the same way. you are a diamond in disguise.
I don't appreciate many Americans interviewing/documenting as they can be disrespectful or talk much more. This man is so respectful. May God bless him, her and everyone else reading this 🙏🏽 love from London UK x
It feels like sex trafficking commonly starts with their parents. I have watched so many survivor videos that their parents did it first. So incredibly sad that people who have children don’t love them. I’ll never be able to understand 😢
Thank you for posting a long form interview with Nina. I’ve watched a lot of her interviews but they don’t include all the tiny details that she describes here with you, and it was really nice to get a deeper sense of who Nina is in this way😇🤗
@TingTingalingy I never said that it was done just for her. I meant that other channels have shorter interviews than what this channel does, generally speaking.
This is one of the most horrific story I’ve ever heard. I’m crying while listening to this lady speaking. It’s hard to believe that this happened in the U.K.. 😢😢😢
I’ve been reading about honor killings for over twenty years. I am always surprised at how little others around me know about this cruel and barbaric practice. It’s heartbreaking and needs to stop.
I can’t believe the horrible life she had by her own family! The father was disgusting and the mother totally brainwashed to agree with him! Despite what she’s been through, she has survived and thrived! God bless this incredible and beautiful woman!
I find it hard to find the proper words to express how powerful I found this podcast for so many reasons. Gratitude to Nina is what comes to mind and heart first. I would love to meet her someday. My soul was touched with empathy, compassion and respect. So eloquent in her delivery and being so vulnerable, it has already helped me and I thank you, I came across this for a reason. Sending well wishes for the new year. Jennifer
It's the elephant in the room...but it needs said . Cultures which cannot assimilate into western values and practices should not be allowed en masse into liberal countries like the uk. Although there are cruel prople in every society, what is described here is not individual cruel actions, but institutional discrimination of every level. These barbaric attitudes towards women come out too en masse with the grooming gangs we see in the uk. I live in Hong Kong and the ONLY men staring at women lecherously on the street , aren't Chinese or caucasian, but the Pakistanis that live here. In HK Pakistanis are a tiny minority, but in the UK , the number of people who are anti-western values are so high, it's absolutely enough to polute English values and culture. Ive heard this lady speak before. She deserves happiness for the rest of her life to repay her suffering.
Totally agree. That was my argument about the Pakistani rape gangs in the Uk. If u tried to call it out you would always be given the 'well white people do it to' 🙄 Massive difference is it really isn't socially excepted that you join in with your family and friends going round around raping Pakistani girls! But clearly it's socially excepted the other way round! At least the sexual predators that were born in the Uk actually are dealt with by police and shunned by the rest of the community. For 40 years these men have been allowed to rape on mass working class girls with no punishment, for fear of racial tensions and also losing the Muslim vote! It's still going on now!
So you would prefer that Nina had just been left to be abused and die in India? You don't like abuse of women and children, so you'd rather isolate them overseas where you don't have to see it or think about it?
@halleyorion ..I did not say that at all. Seems like you'd benefit from learning to read. As for this lady, I have already expressed my absolute horror and sympathy. As for individual cases, of course bring them, give them a chance. My point was we don't want people like her dad and mum and uncles in the uk, the us or western countries where they clearly have 0 respect for western values. They therefore are negative to those societies. The local people have a right to say NO Keep out !
Nina, You have my utmost respect for using your voice for those who have none. To have the courage against such staggering oppression, opposition and cruelty is truly inspiring. After feeling like you were “leaving pieces of yourself behind“ when doing podcasts…I feel so fortunate to have seen your 100th. You give others hope. Thank you.
This hermana is so beautiful and strong . She has such spiritual courage. May Blessings abound for her. She has survived and shared her life with us with such deep calm and peace. Que Dios siga abrazándola!
Wow! I’m so sorry she went through all of that extreme and repeated abuse. May God bring complete healing, and blessings in the future. May she rescue many girls and women who are in similar circumstances.
This is one extremely sad, but incredible story that is superbly put together and presented, and needs to go around the world repeatedly, and then again and again and again. I don't know how I stumbled on it but I am glad I did..... I am shocked and saddened by the detail, but impressed by the strength of this lady and the compassion and expertise of the interviewer. I will give this story more legs so that your purpose, young lady, is achieved a little better. Well done for speaking out and teaching us what is going on out there. You are saving lives, and that's for sure.
Listening to Nina,I see coming to life what I have heard about and found hard to understand for many years.May her little sister be found.I suspect,that lately in the western countries something is changing.Nina,you are a hero.
Wow what a Strong & Beautiful Lady;,... Her name Nina means Grace & I can see why. I pray she lives another 50 yrs and teaches the World that " Honour Killings" Is Murder, no matter where it takes place.
She"ll always be that little girl and hopefully grow with her little angel God love and protect her She's an absolutely beautiful person Her strength is amazing She deseeves the best in life and leave these monsters in the darkness that consumes them Love to Nina and her future ❤
It's so hard to hear that this poor woman suffered for so long. She could have been free of it years ago if she had the courage to leave her partner years ago. Her family should be held accountable for the awful treatment she suffered.
her story is so sad, it is disgusting how her family and her ex partner did that to her. i am so glad she is out and happy now at the beautiful age of 53. jordan was very respectful to her, i loved that. he was so kind and so understanding. i wish the best for her and her sister- i hope her sister gets found one day and is healthy and happy. hopefully this stops one day, NO children or adult should go through this.
The calmness is shock and protects you from the pain and horror you were experiencing!! I am so very sorry for the evil experiences you suffered from by those who should have loved, cared and protected you. 💙 I send my love and Best Wishes for a loving and happy future.
I’ve watched a lot of videos of Nina and her life story and each time it gets me again. It’s utterly heartbreaking to think of what she has been through… and I cannot imagine how hard it is for her to speak out…
I’m a British Sikh woman and I cried throughout. I have never known any Sikh girl to be treated like this, either in India nor here in UK. Sikhism honours women, it’s the culture that makes women secondary. I am shocked. May God bless you dear Nina.
i hear a lot of horrible stuff, and i’ve kind of grown numb to a lot of things because i feel i’ve heard it all. but this right here had me absolutely sobbing. such a strong resilient beautiful human.
Awesome content as always. This was a harrowing episode. Thank you for bringing these stories to light. I had already listened to this on the podcast. That thumbnail looks weird. That tear looks humungous. If it's real, it's amazing. If it's photoshopped, well, I guess the editor needs a bit more practoce.
Why were the UK police not taking any action once they heard "honor killing?"That needs to change if it hasn't already. This is a remarkable woman who suffered horribly because of her demented family. The father who kidnapped his own little girl should have spent decades in prison with an offer of an early release if he disclosed where he brought his polish/Indian daughter.
I think l maybe wrong but cultural/religion stuff tends to attract heavy push from the community/activist or retaliation and the political correctness too.
They’re too afraid of upsetting her ‘people’ (ethnic group). Too afraid that colonialism will be mentioned. (It happened. Can’t be changed) Get over all that! This abus is happening NOW!
You are Sooo Wonderful! Thank you for being who you are. You're amazing! I was abused but, after hearing your story, what I experienced is nothing compared to what you went through. Thank you again!!
Impressive to say the least, what a brave woman and what a horrific story, I just wish all the people that tortured her would be made accountable. May God continue to guide you in your mission to help others. Many blessings
Thank you for sharing your story. People need to know that these types of horrors still occur. My guess is that your mother showed no love or care because her ability to love was cut off by her own adverse childhood experiences. I do not say that to justify her behavior. It is horrific and untenable. However, understanding where it comes from can help the victim understand it is not her fault. Nina Aouilk, you are a strong, intelligent, competent, and caring person, which is remarkable considering where you came from.
This is so horrific. I'm 50 now but I had a friend called Nielam when I was 15 . She never allowed out because she had chores. She was terrified that her older brothers would see her with us walking home from school. She also told us that if she didn't do everything her younger brother asked , that her older brother's would beat her. She did all the cooking too. I wonder what happened to her 🥹
I am so sorry you had to endure this, you are such a brave soul speaking so candidly about your horrific childhood. I'm from Leicester, so just down the round from from where you lived. Sending all my best wishes xxx
I find this so horrific , thank you so much Nina for being so brave to bring awareness to the universe of what is happening. what a beautiful amazing person you are.😢
there is no such thing as one culture better than other. There are men who are aggressor's/ criminals' and protected by their peers. Until the 90's by law it was impossible for a husband to rape his wife in the UK, like mentioned in this video: child brides still are very much a thing in the USA and it includes Caucasians not just other races. So having this perspective that it is other cultures is placing more Women and Children at risk. Therefor your comment is not as benign as you may think and it undermines the humongous effort and risk Nina Aouilk is going trough. Let's have Respect for one another, no mater where all of us are from, unite and support real people with real import messages such as Nina's.
Same about religion s! When people behave badly culture is blamed but religion should be blamed! Some 99% are believer go to holy places read their religious book full of bs! No one ever will blame male chauvinist religions!
It's actually happening in the US, all over Europe and sometimes in the name of a god, even your god. In the US the most common child marriages and bigamism occurs in a supposedly christian setting and in sort of closed communities. You also see the same type of reaction or non reaction from authorities because it's seen as cultures within the culture. Same psychological phenomena. Pint is, it shouldn't matter whether its in India, The UK, US or Papua New Guinea, muslims, christians, sikh or atheists, it's wrong.
Her story is heartbreaking. I am also fascinated how even to this day she finds excuses for them - girl, your parents were evil, it is not because of the culture. The culture will contribute, but what she describes is not normal in any culture - I am so sorry girl, you simply pulled the short stick with those trashy parents.
Your story stays in my heart and mind all the time. Listened to your life story so many times and you inspire me and so many others. I am sending you so much love, so so much love.
I listened to many of Nina interviews. She is relaxed in this. Very intelligent women. The pain she described gave me physical pain in my body. Grooming gangs , honor killings are barbaric. Plotect our precious women please
I could not listen to this straight through. My very soul aches for what this beautiful woman has suffered. It also rejoices for the amazing human she has become. I would love to wrap my arms around her, and thank her for being such a needed light in such a dark world. May God bless her, and everything she touches for the rest of her days
My Dear God...This incredible woman is a Powerhouse!! You defiantly are a force for the good of all womenl and you have a gift and give strength and hope to people who have very little. Much love to you and your children Thank You ❤
I was alone too as a kid. When Nina said her dog was her best friend as a kid, i felt that. Unfortunately, my father knew that and tortured my dog in front of me. And at that time, as a kid, you believe its your fault. 💙 i pray for healing for all 🤍
The cutting off of newly wed brides from their birth families is extreme and as a Sikh I’ve never heard of this. My 89 yo old mother spent most of her time at her mothers house after marriage when my father left for England and stayed apart for 4 years.
This interview has took me a heck of a lot longer to watch than its stated time because I don't know how many times I've stopt it to take a breath, wipe my eyes & stop feiling sick. This is the most horrific life story I've ever heard. You know when you don't want to Listerine to or watch something that horric but you still Listerine or wtch because you need to because you want to try & understand why well that's the case here I keep covering my face but this poor woman's voice stll echos in my ears I could be sick. What a brave woman some people look up to famouse people as a role model because they are famouse I look up to this wonderfull person as a role model because of her strength, Morrals, dignity, & the Beautifull person she is in & out
Can I say, maybe you should just allow them to speak and guide lightly with questions. Some stories you share or interrupt in between is a bit insensitive even tho I know you aren’t meaning to be insensitive at all. She’s such a special guest. Thanks for having her on to share her very important story .
I'm frightened of myself that i am so desensitized that i only burst into tears when that man carried her into the police station. Its really horrific stories like these that i have parted ways with my anger and bitterness of losing my mother when i was 16. I had a hard childhood but nothing can compare to this. I was loved!
We must understand that third world people are very different from Westerners, culturally and politically. These people are still living in a feudal society. It will take generations for this culture to transform
I’m in my 60s, my Pakistani friend was taken out of school at 15, no one ever saw her again . We were told by teachers her parents had sent her to Pakistan 😢. Thank you for sharing this podcast, even though it had me in tears. It’s unbelievable that authorities have turned a blind eye to atrocities like this. Nina is a beautiful strong lady much love and respect to her ❤️❤️
So glad you escaped. Have seen a lot of eerie honor violence myself. It's more understated in the US. Lost friends to it who slowly deteriorated. Plans on starting a jams biz to help out in this area. Escaping honor culture myself, currently. Love your vids
How many ninas are out there? Why isn't it clear to everyone that our laws call this criminal acts 🙄 and as they are this way....there are consequences. I think this should be more often made very clear.
What an absolutely incredible woman. Nina you are testament to the profound beauty and resilience of the human spirit. Thank you for sharing your story and with compassion and love
Nina, you are an amazing person, i cant even begin to think how you survived all this crazy abuse, as so many others like you. God bless you for what you are doing to help and enlighten others.
Does anyone know what the documentary is called that she speaks of at the end? This was truly an amazing story of the will power to live and keep going. Sad for those that never had the chance to
What was said about teenage girls leaving school and the UK, was one of my first thoughts last week when the news about the most recent gro0ming scandal emerged. My concern is that after all the politics involved, teachers might be scared to report suspected child forced marriages because of being deemed racists. When I worked in education it was something we would talk about even with friends of the girls in order to protect them and offer support. I worked in the Woking area which has a big Pakistani community but fortunately I never encountered any of this.
I just saw a half hour BBC program about an initiative to make an orphanage for 'unwanted' baby girls. The the midwives in rural India would sometimes give the baby girl to the orphange. The British journalist interviewed the midwife who showed how she murdered the newborn girls. Grisly. Thanking the Almighty I was born in USA into a Jewish family.
Thank you for being such a wonderful beautiful brave woman sharing this horrendous tragic life you lived at the hands of the very people who are to love care and protect you , I hope you live the rest of your life with love peace all the care and happiness life has to offer ❤
This woman is incredible wow what a miracle. She deserves a medal for surviving the life she had to endure. What a beautiful soul to spend the rest of her years trying to help as many as she can. Such a wonderful woman!! God bless her❤
I never heard somebody speak of being treated so horribly bad. She is an incredibly strong woman.
I think she went trough a lot of theraphy to be able to share it💔much power to her❤
@@andreeamorimoto2060if you believe her. She's a Sikh, not a religion known for this stuff.
You must live in a cave.
This is still quietly happening in the United States in certain areas as well. Buy many cultures. Some of them are very small children
If that would have happened in America the police would love to go handle some business and your dad would have a rough ride to the police station with the right officers and depending on the state but sadly to say you liberals have ruined Britain and now if a officer wasn't as big of a chump and a waste as that officer they still couldn't really do much but that's why the man in those cities need to get some Tommy Robinson about their self somebody has to stop being scared. It blows my mind how any white British person could have anything negative to say about Tommy and he's fighting for your children and that's coming from a black man from the States. But the truth is the truth. Mental gymnastics isn't going to stop that same group from raping the little white girls and oppressing and honor killing their own. And we can all play dumb about who is causing all of that trouble in your country 😔
And we wonder why gang rapes and honour killings keep happening? Police and communities not bothering to address these situations. Absolutely disgusting!
They move out of their country and think they can keep doing whatever they want
"I took all the time I needed to listen, over and over, going back to some details so I wouldn't miss anything of your story. I recognized so many things that also happened to me, but you and your story-I want to tell you-I've watched so many of them, but yours is the one that touched my heart. The pain that resonated, the words you used, I could almost see the images in my head. I want to tell you, I am so, so, so sorry that all of this happened to you. Your heart is so, so big, and you deserve so much love. I want to thank you for not letting the silence take over. Thank you for giving me even more strength to keep on fighting and sharing my story. Thank you for being you."
Her story made me cry, and I just couldn't understand how someone could do such things, especially the child parents! But your comment made me even cry more. That was very emotional and compassionate.
my childhood was like this and it affects you for the rest of your life. im 45 now and still cant look people in the face and say no. it's just so ingrained. i hope young people can find help nowadays. this woman is so strong for surviving this and being able to help others going through it.
She was able to crawl, walk and even sit down with a dislocated hip. She spoke to the taxi driver and the police with a broken jaw. She made it over a 6 foot wall with a dislocated hip, broken arm and jaw. And was still able to crawl and stand, wow. This woman is truly super human. I hope she finds peace. The human body and will to survive here are next level.
Yes! Because they didn't break every thing, they couldn't break her spirit! And I don't care what religion she is but I know Jesus is watching over her. I truly strongly believe this.
Nina, you are incredibly strong; and despite the hell you’ve been through repeatedly, it makes me happy that not only did you survive these horrific abuses, but you’re also fighting for others who are going through what you went through. Thank you!
Grew up in UK but parents bring their evil beliefs with them
I am half Middle Eastern and I have had enough of this ridiculous political correctness: cultures and beliefs are not all good and equal.
You believe political correctness is preventing UK police from investigating so called honor killings? I cannot understand why they look th other way.
I'm half middle eastern as well and I agree
There is a time and place for political correctness and respecting culture, a unique dish that seems odd but that's it's only sin is worth defending, abusive practices that the right defends with a passion are not. It's telling that when the right defends others cultures it's only for the worst practices and generally speaking the left defends the better parts. Liberals tend to be more right leaning while pretending to be with the left as long as it doesn't inconvenance them
Did someone say that?
Yea idk why she mentioned this. People of all races and cultures do this evil BS.
This an incredibly uncomfortable reality that needs to see daylight. How many poor souls suffer the same treatment every single day that we don’t hear about?
I hope ur pro life then as its abortions also keeping these horror stories covered up...
Also, what I don’t understand, is that police turned a blind eye!
This lady is very special.
The elites are involved
Programs in the UK should cover these topics, rather than some OF girl bonking 100 men in a day and not saying how disgusting it is but empowering them.
We need to bring this to the light of the UK people.
I've never had so much rage listening to these stories as I have right now.
Nina, my heart goes out to You. It is awesome the work you are involved in. So sad that parents, brothers, uncles have gotten away with the abuse inflicted and or murder committed on their daughter, sister, niece etc. This must change.
This IS HEART BREAKING. How, this group and their culture is not been scrutinised by the government.A history of systemic abuse against girls by these men and families.
This young lady went through the fires of hell and yet managed to keep her humanity. Her father was an astute businessman but an ignorant cruel father. These parents (if they were normal) should be proud to have a daughter like her.
She survived becos her guardian angel was there. Those men will get there day at judgements.
Her parents should be in JAIL!!!
You were treated worse than an abused unwanted dog!! You MUST know you are a very precious lady and your angel saw everything you went through, the culture you were brought up in is so horrific. Jesus cried with you every time you were abused. You MUST continue to tell your story and what is happening to little girls who are treated so badly. This must stop and you are helping to do this. It is amazing you are still alive! God must have been with you through all your hell! I hope and pray you have healed from all this terrable abuse! Everyone who hert you both physically & mentally. Your parents should be in jail for life!!! I praise the fact you are helping others who suffered in the same way. you are a diamond in disguise.
I don't appreciate many Americans interviewing/documenting as they can be disrespectful or talk much more. This man is so respectful. May God bless him, her and everyone else reading this 🙏🏽 love from London UK x
It feels like sex trafficking commonly starts with their parents. I have watched so many survivor videos that their parents did it first. So incredibly sad that people who have children don’t love them. I’ll never be able to understand 😢
Crooked Cultures based on Money and land..kids sold as Barter..
Thank you for posting a long form interview with Nina. I’ve watched a lot of her interviews but they don’t include all the tiny details that she describes here with you, and it was really nice to get a deeper sense of who Nina is in this way😇🤗
It was nothing special for her, he only does long form interviews. Weird you think it was done specifically for her & her highly embellished story.
@TingTingalingy I never said that it was done just for her. I meant that other channels have shorter interviews than what this channel does, generally speaking.
@@TingTingalingyHer story isn’t embellished. It is what it is. Look into your soul to figure out why you would say such a horrible thing.
@@carolmcln5028 oh, you know of Sikhs that do this? You don't even know any Sikhs, I actually do. This is not apart of their culture
@@TingTingalingy Imagine defending murderous grapists & disgusting parents/family members...
This is one of the most horrific story I’ve ever heard.
I’m crying while listening to this lady speaking.
It’s hard to believe that this happened in the U.K..
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I’ve been reading about honor killings for over twenty years. I am always surprised at how little others around me know about this cruel and barbaric practice. It’s heartbreaking and needs to stop.
This is the first time I’ve heard beautiful Nina’s story and the contemptuous lack of love and care from her parents. God bless her
She's an incredibly Angelic Lady..l admire her so!! May God give her all the love. she's ever missed
I read an autobiography she wrote. Horrible life…that she has turned out so well is amazing.
God, I just feel hatred welling up in me.We are not animals. We have free will as parents. Don't have children if you can't love nurture and guide.
I can’t believe the horrible life she had by her own family! The father was disgusting and the mother totally brainwashed to agree with him! Despite what she’s been through, she has survived and thrived! God bless this incredible and beautiful woman!
After seeing this again my heart feels so much pain for this beautiful lady ‘ I’m 64 and I pray that her voice is heard loud 🙏
I appreciate you posting this long video. It’s heartbreaking to know that once a little girl went through this.😢
I find it hard to find the proper words to express how powerful I found this podcast for so many reasons.
Gratitude to Nina is what comes to mind and heart first.
I would love to meet her someday. My soul was touched with empathy, compassion and respect.
So eloquent in her delivery and being so vulnerable, it has already helped me and I thank you, I came across this for a reason.
Sending well wishes for the new year.
Jennifer
It's the elephant in the room...but it needs said . Cultures which cannot assimilate into western values and practices should not be allowed en masse into liberal countries like the uk. Although there are cruel prople in every society, what is described here is not individual cruel actions, but institutional discrimination of every level. These barbaric attitudes towards women come out too en masse with the grooming gangs we see in the uk. I live in Hong Kong and the ONLY men staring at women lecherously on the street , aren't Chinese or caucasian, but the Pakistanis that live here. In HK Pakistanis are a tiny minority, but in the UK , the number of people who are anti-western values are so high, it's absolutely enough to polute English values and culture. Ive heard this lady speak before. She deserves happiness for the rest of her life to repay her suffering.
Never mind assimilation, to abide local law would be enough. And for local law to do their bit.
Totally agree. That was my argument about the Pakistani rape gangs in the Uk. If u tried to call it out you would always be given the 'well white people do it to' 🙄
Massive difference is it really isn't socially excepted that you join in with your family and friends going round around raping Pakistani girls! But clearly it's socially excepted the other way round! At least the sexual predators that were born in the Uk actually are dealt with by police and shunned by the rest of the community. For 40 years these men have been allowed to rape on mass working class girls with no punishment, for fear of racial tensions and also losing the Muslim vote! It's still going on now!
So you would prefer that Nina had just been left to be abused and die in India? You don't like abuse of women and children, so you'd rather isolate them overseas where you don't have to see it or think about it?
@halleyorion ..I did not say that at all. Seems like you'd benefit from learning to read. As for this lady, I have already expressed my absolute horror and sympathy. As for individual cases, of course bring them, give them a chance. My point was we don't want people like her dad and mum and uncles in the uk, the us or western countries where they clearly have 0 respect for western values. They therefore are negative to those societies. The local people have a right to say NO Keep out !
I agree - some cultures aren’t compatible to western ideas and want to enforce their warped ideas, instead of integrating.
Pure evil Monsters... this was heartbreaking 💔... hope u find peace and do the noble brave work u are doing ... love from India
What an incredible story - shame on those people who treated you so badly 😢
SHAME?! God's wrath! ..May she be blessed every day forth XOXO
Shame, Ha ha, No shame is not strong enough a consequence for those evil actions.
thank you for giving me the vocabulary. I appreciate you sharing your story. May you heal and know joy. Overcoming the programming ...
Nina, You have my utmost respect for using your voice for those who have none. To have the courage against such staggering oppression, opposition and cruelty is truly inspiring. After feeling like you were “leaving pieces of yourself behind“ when doing podcasts…I feel so fortunate to have seen your 100th.
You give others hope. Thank you.
This hermana is so beautiful and strong . She has such spiritual courage. May Blessings abound for her. She has survived and shared her life with us with such deep calm and peace.
Que Dios siga abrazándola!
Wow! I’m so sorry she went through all of that extreme and repeated abuse. May God bring complete healing, and blessings in the future. May she rescue many girls and women who are in similar circumstances.
Why should she apologize for being beaten These monsters should apologize to her The ugliest thing I heard Hell is waiting for them .
This is one extremely sad, but incredible story that is superbly put together and presented, and needs to go around the world repeatedly, and then again and again and again. I don't know how I stumbled on it but I am glad I did..... I am shocked and saddened by the detail, but impressed by the strength of this lady and the compassion and expertise of the interviewer. I will give this story more legs so that your purpose, young lady, is achieved a little better. Well done for speaking out and teaching us what is going on out there. You are saving lives, and that's for sure.
Listening to Nina,I see coming to life what I have heard about and found hard to understand for many years.May her little sister be found.I suspect,that lately in the western countries something is changing.Nina,you are a hero.
Wow what a Strong & Beautiful Lady;,... Her name Nina means Grace & I can see why. I pray she lives another 50 yrs and teaches the World that " Honour Killings" Is Murder, no matter where it takes place.
100%
enjoyed this interview and glad your guest is brave enough to speak out and change laws to protect other women! from Canada with love.
She"ll always be that little girl and hopefully grow with her little angel God love and protect her She's an absolutely beautiful person Her strength is amazing She deseeves the best in life and leave these monsters in the darkness that consumes them Love to Nina and her future ❤
My heart is hurting for the beautiful loving child in this account. Your beautiful heart is helping others now 😢😢😢😢😢😢
It's so hard to hear that this poor woman suffered for so long. She could have been free of it years ago if she had the courage to leave her partner years ago. Her family should be held accountable for the awful treatment she suffered.
her story is so sad, it is disgusting how her family and her ex partner did that to her. i am so glad she is out and happy now at the beautiful age of 53. jordan was very respectful to her, i loved that. he was so kind and so understanding. i wish the best for her and her sister- i hope her sister gets found one day and is healthy and happy. hopefully this stops one day, NO children or adult should go through this.
The calmness is shock and protects you from the pain and horror you were experiencing!!
I am so very sorry for the evil experiences you suffered from by those who should have loved, cared and protected you. 💙
I send my love and Best Wishes for a loving and happy future.
I’ve watched a lot of videos of Nina and her life story and each time it gets me again. It’s utterly heartbreaking to think of what she has been through… and I cannot imagine how hard it is for her to speak out…
I see a podcast a year ago with this amazing lady’ iv never stopped thinking about her🙏🙏
I’m a British Sikh woman and I cried throughout. I have never known any Sikh girl to be treated like this, either in India nor here in UK. Sikhism honours women, it’s the culture that makes women secondary. I am shocked. May God bless you dear Nina.
i hear a lot of horrible stuff, and i’ve kind of grown numb to a lot of things because i feel i’ve heard it all. but this right here had me absolutely sobbing. such a strong resilient beautiful human.
why is this scumbag father walking free ?
Awesome content as always. This was a harrowing episode. Thank you for bringing these stories to light. I had already listened to this on the podcast. That thumbnail looks weird. That tear looks humungous. If it's real, it's amazing. If it's photoshopped, well, I guess the editor needs a bit more practoce.
Why were the UK police not taking any action once they heard "honor killing?"That needs to change if it hasn't already. This is a remarkable woman who suffered horribly because of her demented family. The father who kidnapped his own little girl should have spent decades in prison with an offer of an early release if he disclosed where he brought his polish/Indian daughter.
I think l maybe wrong but cultural/religion stuff tends to attract heavy push from the community/activist or retaliation and the political correctness too.
Exactly
@@Me-xoxoz True. It's insanity...
It is so painful to listen to........ where is the government? What are they doing to stop this abuse....😢😢😢😢😢😢
They’re too afraid of upsetting her ‘people’ (ethnic group). Too afraid that colonialism will be mentioned. (It happened. Can’t be changed) Get over all that! This abus is happening NOW!
I know it is happening now... you are right.... they are afraid...... it is a taboo...
The mother had all her luxury so she was just a selfish person, she was also a girl so why did she allow her daughter to be treated like that.
Mother was evil
Because if she spoke out she could be killed.
You are Sooo Wonderful! Thank you for being who you are. You're amazing! I was abused but, after hearing your story, what I experienced is nothing compared to what you went through. Thank you again!!
This is unbelievable evil...
Oh Nina 😢😢😢 I sobbed my heart out hearing your story. What a beautiful, brave woman you are.
Impressive to say the least, what a brave woman and what a horrific story, I just wish all the people that tortured her would be made accountable. May God continue to guide you in your mission to help others. Many blessings
Thank you for sharing your story. People need to know that these types of horrors still occur. My guess is that your mother showed no love or care because her ability to love was cut off by her own adverse childhood experiences. I do not say that to justify her behavior. It is horrific and untenable. However, understanding where it comes from can help the victim understand it is not her fault. Nina Aouilk, you are a strong, intelligent, competent, and caring person, which is remarkable considering where you came from.
Remember, we're horrified over this one lady's experience, but in reality, there are many, many more still living like this.
This incredibly courageous lady deserves our support to make this abhorrent cultural abuse a national and global scandal.
You finally can speak and well! Thank u for sharing! Truly disheartening and blessing with lessons!
This is so horrific. I'm 50 now but I had a friend called Nielam when I was 15 . She never allowed out because she had chores. She was terrified that her older brothers would see her with us walking home from school. She also told us that if she didn't do everything her younger brother asked , that her older brother's would beat her. She did all the cooking too. I wonder what happened to her 🥹
You are a very brave woman (a huge understatement). I would love to offer you loads of tea. Keep up the good work.
I love the calmness and peace in her voice and the way she speaks, i saw her before in a couple of videos.
Beautiful and strong lady ❤
God bless you Sister. I’m sorry for the horrible things you’ve experienced and may God protect you while you stand for truth ❤
I am so sorry you had to endure this, you are such a brave soul speaking so candidly about your horrific childhood. I'm from Leicester, so just down the round from from where you lived. Sending all my best wishes xxx
I find this so horrific , thank you so much Nina for being so brave to bring awareness to the universe of what is happening. what a beautiful amazing person you are.😢
So very brave of her in sharing the horror that goes on within certain cultures. This was by far the best podcast I've ever seen.
Some cultures are better than others. This is why.
It's certainly an example
there is no such thing as one culture better than other. There are men who are aggressor's/ criminals' and protected by their peers. Until the 90's by law it was impossible for a husband to rape his wife in the UK, like mentioned in this video: child brides still are very much a thing in the USA and it includes Caucasians not just other races. So having this perspective that it is other cultures is placing more Women and Children at risk. Therefor your comment is not as benign as you may think and it undermines the humongous effort and risk Nina Aouilk is going trough. Let's have Respect for one another, no mater where all of us are from, unite and support real people with real import messages such as Nina's.
Same about religion s! When people behave badly culture is blamed but religion should be blamed! Some 99% are believer go to holy places read their religious book full of bs! No one ever will blame male chauvinist religions!
It's actually happening in the US, all over Europe and sometimes in the name of a god, even your god. In the US the most common child marriages and bigamism occurs in a supposedly christian setting and in sort of closed communities. You also see the same type of reaction or non reaction from authorities because it's seen as cultures within the culture. Same psychological phenomena. Pint is, it shouldn't matter whether its in India, The UK, US or Papua New Guinea, muslims, christians, sikh or atheists, it's wrong.
@mikesheth5370 This lady isn't muslim
Her story is heartbreaking. I am also fascinated how even to this day she finds excuses for them - girl, your parents were evil, it is not because of the culture. The culture will contribute, but what she describes is not normal in any culture - I am so sorry girl, you simply pulled the short stick with those trashy parents.
Your story stays in my heart and mind all the time. Listened to your life story so many times and you inspire me and so many others. I am sending you so much love, so so much love.
I listened to many of Nina interviews. She is relaxed in this. Very intelligent women. The pain she described gave me physical pain in my body. Grooming gangs , honor killings are barbaric. Plotect our precious women please
We let these cultures in our country and sit back while this still happens here.
So informative. We have no idea, Do we. Thankyou for bringing historic to the forefront
I'm crying, this is just so sad. Hope your happy now .
I could not listen to this straight through. My very soul aches for what this beautiful woman has suffered. It also rejoices for the amazing human she has become. I would love to wrap my arms around her, and thank her for being such a needed light in such a dark world. May God bless her, and everything she touches for the rest of her days
My Dear God...This incredible woman is a Powerhouse!! You defiantly are a force for the good of all womenl and you have a gift and give strength and hope to people who have very little. Much love to you and your children
Thank You ❤
What a heart wrenching story. You brought tears to my eyes. May you future be blessed you so deserve it.
I was alone too as a kid. When Nina said her dog was her best friend as a kid, i felt that. Unfortunately, my father knew that and tortured my dog in front of me. And at that time, as a kid, you believe its your fault. 💙 i pray for healing for all 🤍
The cutting off of newly wed brides from their birth families is extreme and as a Sikh I’ve never heard of this. My 89 yo old mother spent most of her time at her mothers house after marriage when my father left for England and stayed apart for 4 years.
This interview has took me a heck of a lot longer to watch than its stated time because I don't know how many times I've stopt it to take a breath, wipe my eyes & stop feiling sick. This is the most horrific life story I've ever heard. You know when you don't want to Listerine to or watch something that horric but you still Listerine or wtch because you need to because you want to try & understand why well that's the case here I keep covering my face but this poor woman's voice stll echos in my ears I could be sick. What a brave woman some people look up to famouse people as a role model because they are famouse I look up to this wonderfull person as a role model because of her strength, Morrals, dignity, & the Beautifull person she is in & out
Great words. I felt very similar.
This woman is an Angel
She was saved to do all the good and to save other little angels.
God Bless Her❤
She has such a beautiful soul after all of that evil done to her ❤
Can I say, maybe you should just allow them to speak and guide lightly with questions.
Some stories you share or interrupt in between is a bit insensitive even tho I know you aren’t meaning to be insensitive at all.
She’s such a special guest. Thanks for having her on to share her very important story .
I'm frightened of myself that i am so desensitized that i only burst into tears when that man carried her into the police station. Its really horrific stories like these that i have parted ways with my anger and bitterness of losing my mother when i was 16. I had a hard childhood but nothing can compare to this. I was loved!
We must understand that third world people are very different from Westerners, culturally and politically. These people are still living in a feudal society. It will take generations for this culture to transform
The average IQ in india is 76
I’m in my 60s, my Pakistani friend was taken out of school at 15, no one ever saw her again . We were told by teachers her parents had sent her to Pakistan 😢. Thank you for sharing this podcast, even though it had me in tears. It’s unbelievable that authorities have turned a blind eye to atrocities like this. Nina is a beautiful strong lady much love and respect to her ❤️❤️
This woman is inspirational beyond words. Deep respect
So glad you escaped. Have seen a lot of eerie honor violence myself. It's more understated in the US. Lost friends to it who slowly deteriorated. Plans on starting a jams biz to help out in this area. Escaping honor culture myself, currently. Love your vids
How many ninas are out there?
Why isn't it clear to everyone that our laws call this criminal acts 🙄 and as they are this way....there are consequences.
I think this should be more often made very clear.
I can barely listen to this...horrific...
What an absolutely incredible woman. Nina you are testament to the profound beauty and resilience of the human spirit. Thank you for sharing your story and with compassion and love
Nina, you are an amazing person, i cant even begin to think how you survived all this crazy abuse, as so many others like you. God bless you for what you are doing to help and enlighten others.
So sad, so sad! Absolutely horrific what happened to this woman!!!😢😢😢
Does anyone know what the documentary is called that she speaks of at the end?
This was truly an amazing story of the will power to live and keep going. Sad for those that never had the chance to
What was said about teenage girls leaving school and the UK, was one of my first thoughts last week when the news about the most recent gro0ming scandal emerged. My concern is that after all the politics involved, teachers might be scared to report suspected child forced marriages because of being deemed racists. When I worked in education it was something we would talk about even with friends of the girls in order to protect them and offer support. I worked in the Woking area which has a big Pakistani community but fortunately I never encountered any of this.
All children should have parents, but not all parents should have children.
I just saw a half hour BBC program about an initiative to make an orphanage for 'unwanted' baby girls. The the midwives in rural India would sometimes give the baby girl to the orphange. The British journalist interviewed the midwife who showed how she murdered the newborn girls. Grisly. Thanking the Almighty I was born in USA into a Jewish family.
Thank you for being such a wonderful beautiful brave woman sharing this horrendous tragic life you lived at the hands of the very people who are to love care and protect you , I hope you live the rest of your life with love peace all the care and happiness life has to offer ❤
Dear Nina, I am sorry for what you went through.
You are a strong woman
What a strong women! My heart breaks for you and I hope everyone sees this testimony.
That poor woman she has been through so much. I wish her all things good.
I can't understand how a whole family can just join in, not once did any of them think 'this is wrong, we shouldn't be doing this'.
This woman is incredible wow what a miracle. She deserves a medal for surviving the life she had to endure. What a beautiful soul to spend the rest of her years trying to help as many as she can. Such a wonderful woman!! God bless her❤
Thank you for sharing your story and I’m so sorry you went through this. Very proud of who you are now! ❤👏👏👏
God bless this brave woman. She is a hero.