The Inner Child Explained | How to Love, Guide & Heal Your Inner Child
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- Опубликовано: 20 ноя 2024
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The inner child is a vital part of you that should be nurtured and treasured. We explain exactly what the inner child is, how it can impact your adult life choices and potential, and simple steps to work with and heal your inner child.
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This short video offers practical emotional and spiritual advice and tips from ordained Taoist monk and experienced inner child therapist, David James Lees.
In EPISODE #18 of our Walk the Wu Wei series, we demystify the inner child. You’ll learn how unresolved inner child issues can impact your physical and emotional wellbeing, and how to work with your inner child for greater health and happiness.
You’ll discover:
~ the powerful Taoist spiritual teaching on the inner child
~ why the inner child is NOT your enemy or separate from you
~ how childhood events can block, stagnate and ‘lock in’ the energy of your inner child, and how this can still profoundly affect you as an adult
~ how to spot when your blocked inner child is affecting your thoughts, actions and emotions
~ why doing inner child work is vital to your emotional and spiritual development
~ how to communicate with, guide and heal your inner child so that together you can become a formidable team
~ tips for practising compassionate self-discipline to help you educate and mature your inner child
Ordained Taoist master and therapist, David James Lees, and life-coach, Alexandra Lees, share their inspirational Wu Wei Wisdom on the real-life challenges faced by their clients and community members in their Walk the Wu Wei series.
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Healing the inner child is not about discipline in my opinion. Its about letting the suppressed emotions finally out and give your pain room. So I cry, laugh, i am angry. Parents often teach their children to suppress their emotions.. The child teaches the adult the lesson: please love me and hear me out.. You have been ignoring me for so long....
There is a huge difference between 'discipline' and 'compassionate self-discipline' - the latter is what we advocate. The inner-child must be listened to, allowed to express themselves and gently questioned so the root 'misunderstanding' or 'block' that they may be holding onto and struggling with can be found. The adult part of you can then respond and give them the loving support, reassurance and guidance they need. :-)
Thank you for your comments, I enjoyed reading them. I hope you continue to find our videos interesting and thought provoking. David
Thank you for the quick response. It sounds like listening with compassion. and helping to heal with gentle suggestion or even encouragement as to the positive movements, thoughts, actions they are taking.
Yes :-)
I’m lost when it comes to recognizing my inner child. When I am behaving contrary to what is healthy and green light, is this my inner child? How do I develop good “nanny” skills when I am almost scared of meddling with my own inner child for fear of a fit?
Oh my goodness I am crying right now because I didn’t know till now bout inner child the way you explained it I have been in deep depression , feeling unworthy, stupid ,ugly ,lonely since my childhood I have very difficult childhood I am 55 years this particular teaching an eye-opening ❤ Alex and David give me hope ❤ and I may add you are really really genuinely here to help people like me….. I am so grateful I found you ❤❤❤
Hello Meaza, Thank you for you continued support. Kind regards, David.
So that's why I feel stuck. I try explain to people and all i can say is i feel stuck or trapped. Trapped in my child's mind
We're glad the video has helped you Kirsty - have you watched our Inner Child reparenting videos yet? ruclips.net/video/SndWtblVf2U/видео.html ruclips.net/video/BYUxAQYpsKg/видео.html 🙏
I feel exactly the same way. I tried to explain it too. Sometimes feel stuck in the chest area.
I'm 41 and beginning my journey to heal. I've always heard of the inner child and not once did I ever dream that it'd apply to me. Here I am. Just finished crying my head off. Boy.. the familiar. I knew some of these things about myself and had clue that there's terminology for it all. Discussions for it all. Healing for all. I have found my purpose.
I think it’s around this age we can start dealing with this stuff
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When I was about 7-8 I heard my dad ask my mum why I couldn’t be more like my sister. Since that very moment, I was full of anger and thought I was a bad person. Literally, now, at the age of 39, I have spent my whole life thinking and believing (still do) that I am a bad person. I haven’t done anything particularly bad and I forgive others when they have hurt me but I can’t seem to extend that same forgiveness to myself. This video was eye-opening to me. Also, my dad accused me of doing something when I was 14 that I hadn’t done. I still remember the pain of that injustice now all these years later. The helplessness of not being believed. I can see a lot of my future issues stem from these experiences
Amazing! Many people think self-discipline is some kind of punishment when its actually one of the most loving thing you can do for yourself. You also find out the truth while doing it and trauma gets healed in the process. As a survivor from child abuse I had to teach my inner child that self discipline is not the same as abuse or punishment. but care. It was hard at first but after a while I began to enjoy it and wanted more.
Well done! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
When he said “it must be me” I could’ve cried or my inner child wanted to cry. Cuz that’s EXACTLY how I felt, being the middle child and my dad leaving. I was even told that my dad didn’t want anymore kids after my sister and always believed that I was the reason for my parents divorcing or the reason my dad couldn’t stay. But I’m slowly reassuring my inner child that what they went through had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them. Thank you for this ♥️
I’m so glad I’ve found your channel. I have a lot of hurt from my childhood which over this year I discovered is the root of my anxiety/depression, and have been trying to pick it apart and make sense of it. Your videos are really helping me with how to work through things and try and reframe things, and although it’s not been easy, I’m learning how to deal with it. I have a long way to go, but I finally feel like I’m starting to get somewhere.when you talk about the vow, about ‘there’s something wrong with me', that’s exactly how I feel about what happened, and that’s always how I’ve felt. I was bullied from ages 4-16 relentlessly, and the bullies voice became my own, and I’m learning to separate myself from what is actually me and how I feel about myself and what are the bullies words. I think people often think that bullying is something that you just brush away, but it’s had a very profound effect on my life and has coloured everything from relationships to employment. I’m 39 now and feel like I’m just learning how to live again.
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Thank you for this. I went through a lot of childhood abuse and then had to deal with homelessness at 16. To survive in those situations I supressed my emotions. I didn't have the feeling of safety as a child nor the love and care. The last few years I've learnt to cry, I've learnt how to accept and trust love from others and I'm starting to feel emotional depth and emotions I've never allowed myself to feel after years of suppression.
This makes a lot of sense to me. I do feel like my emotional intelligence took a dent as a child, I didn't learn how to deal with emotions because I had to suppress them. I still struggle with it now. Your part about tantrums made me laugh because I'm still like that. Especially the fairness part haha.
I wouldn't be where I am without my girlfriend who is willing to teach me how to feel emotions and learn how to deal with them.
Your video makes so much sense to me and I feel like this will help me further. Thank you!
I’ve been doing inner child work for years and this is a great discussion and many have no idea how powerful it is and what it takes... but having a sacred space to work is also important 🙌🏾😃
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Thank you for making this message possible for me and Lloyd.ienjoy this message.
the only answer is love. love is what it wants thats how you heal
Hi Louise you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
@@WuWeiWisdom Thanks for pointing out the Love & the Inner Child (FIND REAL LOVE: Inner Child, Mindset + Relationship Advice ) video. I was raised in a Catholic home. Thank you for helping me to see and disobey my upbringing and Love myself first.
Wow. The "vow" part is so impressive! It literally describes how I think about myself: It must be me. There must be something wrong with me.
Hi 劉芳瑜, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq Alex + David x
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I feel so released to have found this channel. I can see hope on my way. Thank you for your work, you both are awesome!
Awesome! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Hello, David James and Alexandra! I’ve spent the past few years doing my own inner child work, but I still felt like there was something I just wasn’t understanding. I had just finished an email discussion about the inner child today when I saw your self-love post on Facebook. I followed it to RUclips and caught sight of your inner child video instead. WOW! I think I finally “got it”! I realize now where all of my childish arrogance and “it’s not fair!” thinking/feeling comes from. The example of The Nanny television show was brilliant! Thank you for opening my eyes to the concept of compassionate self-discipline so I can help this child finally understand, trust, relax, and go to bed! :)
Inner Visions with Angela thanks for your comment... we're pleased this teaching has helped you!
Beautifully said.
Angela you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Angela we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on ‘Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing’ that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
I have done a lot of inner child work but still had issues that baffled me. This video gave me a breakthrough. I can now be the lovely mother that my inner child still craved. Difference - I am the adult. What peace, joy and fun. Last night I took my inner child to the gym, stood up for myself in a situation where I normally would stay quiet and went to bed early. I was ready wt super nanny strategies if the compulsion for sweets or wine came up. All was well. I realize it's a relationship for life. Thanks!
This is awesome! Healing the inner child is very important! God bless!
Thank you so much for this video. What you describe at 4:00 happened to me at the age of 8. I was completely overwhelmed with emotions that I couldn't cope with and I made the VOW against myself and believed this was the truth about myself and it's only now I know it wasn't the truth but just the only way I knew how to cope and "make sense" of what was happening to me back then. I'm 56 now andI I have lived my last 48 years hiding and protecting this inner secret vulnerability, emotional wound and shame - never letting anyone get close to me. It's only now I can finally let go of the VOW and realise that there NEVER EVER was anything "WRONG" with me in the first place! There NEVER EVER was anything "WRONG" with me! 4:00
8:15 Inner Child traits 8:45 reasons why the Inner child blowing up (this is me all over especially during bereavement) 11:50 you must be persistent like super nanny to over come the inner child blowing up
As a 55 year old man I feel this Childhood problems should not bother me. After the death of my Father all these feelings of being unloved or held for dumb have surfaced. Sometimes I always had the feeling that I had to please my Parents .
Love this. And I really like the 'red light emotion' description... to me that can be likened to triggers, which we all have. It's so vitally important to work with our inner children, and to work through our stuff. Unresolved trauma, I've found, almost becomes worse and worse as one ages. It starts affecting your mind and health in ways you can't imagine. Thank you both, you are amazing
I connected with my inner child recently she is extremely lonely. Also where she was bullied by children as a child I now retaliate and stand up for myself but against the wrong people sometimes my children. I have a lot of work to do but I also need to have fun xx
You two are so helpful to overcome emotional abuse. Thank you.
Hi @louisealomamacho2205,
Thank you for your kind words. We're grateful to know that our guidance is helping you overcome emotional abuse. Remember to always trust in your inner strength and Shen spirituality as you navigate through these challenges.
If you’d like to connect with others and share more about your experiences, please consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.
Kind Regards,
David
My dad became a vegetable when I was 2 years old, and died 9 years later. My mom who was 24, fell apart… understandably one might say. I was raised partly by my grandmas, and partly by myself.
I had a home, I had food, but no guidance. Everything I know in life, I’ve learned by myself… I think I’m mostly “inner child” and finally I am beginning to identify a separate “me”
I will check out your other videos, seem very useful… plus I love Qigong, so I’m convinced
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Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you kindly for your reply, truly appreciate it.
I’m not on FB, or I would have certainly joined.
I will though check out the live event, and further explore the vast RUclips library you made available.
What a wonderful couple you are, with your inner children happy and secure. Such a brill explanation. Sooooooooooooo practical. TY. My inner child is going to bed at nine o’clock tonight! Period! We both say thank you!💚
Hi Jo - pleased you and your inner child enjoyed the teaching - you make a great team too! :-)
Hi Jo, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Jo we hope you are well and happy :) ...we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
4:50 Did you hear me shouting: "Yes, yes, that is it! Exactly so!" This is my vow, my experience when I was 8 and I felt so abandoned by my parents. I have never ever heard this explain so perfectly right! A lot of psychologist would say this happens before our 6th year, but in my own experience (and also from others I have talked to) it is somewhere around 7-8-9 years. I use The Work of Byron Katie and for me it is a wonderful and very helpful tool to inquire my inner child thoughts, but I felt the need to understand the whole process better. Thank you so much!
Hi Carmen,
Thanks for your comments, we are so pleased that the video teaching helped on your spiritual journey.
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Wow, the aura on that man is bright! Great video, thank you for helping me with my journey. ❤️🔥
You are so welcome
This is so extraordinary! It is the best concrete examples of how to validate & love our inner child becoming the inner parent to heal the inner child! This is beautiful! Thank you!
Yes! Thank you! Kind regards, David.
My good friend shared your channel with me. I’m so thankful they did so. Your theory on subjects that I’ve struggled with gives my life new meaning. I’m sure in saying there are others who have benefited as well. Thank you so much.
Thanks for sharing!! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much! I need to heal my inner child before I damage my children , if you would like to be my parenting coach you are welcome to do so!
Hi Danielle
You can be a great parent to your children, and this means learning to be a great parent to your own Inner Child too.
Please take time out to watch some of the videos on our Inner Child video playlist and this will help you on your journey: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq
If you'd like to work one to one with David on your self-parenting skills and Inner Child healing, please email Alex at : info@wuweiwisdom.com and she can send you more details about David's sessions.
If you enjoy our video teachings please feel free to subscribe to our RUclips Channel (we add new videos every Sunday!) ➜ ruclips.net/user/wuweiwisdom (click the 'notification bell’ when you subscribe and you’ll also get an email notification every time we add a new video).
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I have struggled my whole life with a deeply wounded inner child. ur teaching is the first I have seen that gives me DIRECT explanations and instructions.....it removes the deep sting because it is clear and direct...no mumbo jumbo! Thank you so much! Plus your mannerisms are so tender and loving.....and peaceful. I sense you have a genuine sincerity in wanting our lives to improve. I feel so blessed to have found you...I really needed this after this crazy covid time! May goodness return to you multiplied!
intuitively this just feels exactly like what I knew I never knew.
Thank you for your feedback - we're pleased to hear that our inner child teaching resonated with you. Wishing you well on your journey! Alex & David x
You may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
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I HAD A RUFF UP COMING AS A CHILD IM THE FIRST BORN , I BELIEVE around the age of 4 my neurosis happens my dad was the soccer team couch for every team I played on till the age of 9 (there is a reason why 9) according to my dad from the age of 4 till I was 6 my soccer skills had potential to make it professional soccer player. Ok so from age 4 to 6 I was aware that every time we lost a soccer game my dad made it clear due to my lack of helping the the team we lost . To make things worst from the age 7 til 9 I even notice every time that I will get on the soccer field I would not be able to do the most basic Antonyms movement I would be running to the other side of the field without no one next to me I would manage to trip on my on legs this was more then one soccer game seem like I would be aloof as once as I would get on the soccer field . At the age 7 my dad showed me home movies of the "GOLDEN ERA" when I would socre goals now you can't even do that and that my skill as a player are decreasing and getting over weight is what my dad told me .
So at the age of 9 my dad stop coaching at the park because we made another scenes which would be take out his frustrations on me from sidelines society being yelled at me to the point where I had enough and walk off the field then came as usual he fuck me up for getting off the field and he make me finish the game but unfortunately this time she went a little bit overboard Park rec had a word with him . Then a couple days later he would have a word with me and inform me "I'm going to stop coaching I see I make you nervous I believe you have gift and don't want you to lose enjoy in it because of me ". He made me play soccer till I was 15 .
My question is due to this event the problems I noticed I battle with is overthinking events to the points I have become a hermit I was terminated from my job last year unfortunately this cause has only renforce this thinking I get lost staring into abyss.
What are some exercises that will help me overcome this please and thank you
Thank you so, so, much, Alex & David for this video! I found the inner child analogies super helpful and practical. I am a very sensitive person and was moved to tears twice while I listened to you both speak. The information, language, and scenarios you shared were so relatable. One of the biggest challenges I have faced through childhood, adolescence, and now in my adult life, is feeling something was wrong but being unable to explain or express it. I exhausted myself trying to overcompensate for what I thought I lacked by putting on a "together" exterior. Now, I am forced to face what I avoided facing. This video has equipped me with the knowledge and explanations about what the inner child is and how to approach working with it. I feel empowered to keep learning and I am grateful for the release of emotion I experienced from watching the video. It reaffirmed and inspired by the journey. My level of gratefulness is ineffable that you shared this. Thank you doesn't feel like enough.
Hi Sarah, thank you for your very kind feedback and for sharing your story! We are pleased to hear that this video has helped you on your journey :-)
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Have a great weekend... Alex & David x
Hi Sarah, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Sarah we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on ‘Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing’ that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
Love the video! Thank you. I think I'm finally ready to start my journey.
If I may, I just want to suggest to anyone who reads this to open up and connect deeply with others. It's frightening and will take you outside of your entire isolated universe you have crafted for yourself. What you will find might be the most painful thing. You will find deep love and affection and acceptance and care beyond anything you could possible imagine. Thats the painful part is it has always been there where you might have thought it never truly existed. This fantasy that you are alone, its just not true. I took the leap of faith and strangers and loved ones alike poured out their support in a tsunami of pure love that washed over me.
I'm just getting started on this journey of healing but this first step has rocked my world to the very center of my being. You are loved. We are all one. Open your hearts to others and your life will instantly start changing. Instantly. And its overwhelming at times and I want to run back occasionally but by this time, you very physically feel yourself turning away from light and back towards darkness and you don't want to go back at all. It's so powerful. It really does work. Bathe in the light and love of others. We don't wear clothes when we bathe, we shed these layers off to be fully cleaned. Shed your clothing, open up to others. I promise it works and its instant!
All my love to each and every one of you.
Hi Tim - thanks for taking the time to watch and comment! We're glad you enjoyed the video. Have you watched our Inner Child Reparenting videos yet? Here's some more videos that may help you on your journey:
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I really wonder why this channel aint going viral ..you guys are so much help
Our inner Child, is the Soul ! Truly it is.
The journey of Life, from the time we are born, until of today. Journey of the soul.
Hi Ursula you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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It can't be. The soul is unconditional love and bliss, it can't get sad or scared. The ego develops around the age of 3, therefore it remembers that early stage of love and joy that the soul has brought into the body at birth and gets sad and scared when it notices crappy things happening to it, it doesn't understand. The inner child is the young, developing ego. X
Hi Ursula we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
This is very helpful... I am a wonderful mother and I use the Super Nanny type methods (I always loved her and learned so much from her). I am just beginning to try to heal my injured inner child. I actually remember the age and place I was when I made my Oath to no longer be me - because who I was was too difficult for others to manage. I think this idea of being loving toward my inner child (instead of critical and harsh) is so helpful. I started this idea in a general way by telling myself to be a friend to myself...as I am a wonderful friend to others. Thank you!
Thank you for your kind feedback and for sharing your personal story. Listening to your inner child, questioning the child gently and offering guidance from a position of compassionate self-discipline can work wonders. We're glad to be part of your wonderful journey of self-healing. We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/ Alex & David x
Hi you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on ‘Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing’ that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
wow I hope all mothers in this world would do what you're doing!
Wow exactly, I was completely over protected. Yes this is basic information but I thought it was perfect for someone just getting into it (like me) I grew up sheltered, scared of people because my mother loved me but thought negative of others, people are bad, so now I'm teaching my inner child that it's ok to come out and be yourself. People aren't all that bad :)
It sounds like you are doing a great job! :-) Many people believe that inner child issues arise from neglect or abuse but as you say being overprotected and sheltered from reality can also be harmful. You now need to guide and emotionally educate your child so she knows she always has options, give her choices, room to grow and listen to her needs and answers. We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Good luck on your journey... Alex & David x
Yup. My mother was the exact same. Helicopter parenting and control, "out of love" they say, but not realizing the damage it does. I suppose you could go back to their parents but eventually you could just end up in an infinite regression. Someone has to break the chain.
@@iamripoff yes, absolutely. Take self-responsibility and the positive ripples of change extend out from you to everyone you touch and generations ahead of you :-)
Hi Priestess :) You may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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@@iamripoff you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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This explanation says so very much. I need to dive deep and restart and work hard at my inner child. I've been held down by me forever it seems and I'm over it. Thank you SO VERY MUCH for this video. I've always felt like two people and I've known why for awhile but this makes so much more sense. I will work on my "little me" as I've called her for some time now.
Hi Christina,
Thanks for your comments, we are pleased that the video has inspired you to address these important issues.
I know the "little you" is AWESOME! It just needs a little help and guidance.
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Soul fragmentation too. We lose parts of our soul essence too, to protect us from coping with traumatic childhoods otherwise we'd never be able to function. Trouble is we need to retrieve them back in adulthood to fully heal
I've always wanted to feel love in my heart. My heart has always been trampled upon when I was growing up, I didn't know how to deal with the pain in my heart except to cry, in order to cleanse & heal my heart. As children, we were never taught how to make ourselves feel right again! I had a mother who didn't care to help me heal my inner child. She was heartless because she pushed me aside and put me on the back burner as if I wasn't there. It's truly hurtful to be pushed aside to feel like I didn't matter to her at all. Many times she was just going through the motions of loving me as her child.
Hi Christine,
That you for sharing your childhood experiences. I would suggest watching our other inner child videos so that you can understand the situation from different perceptions. Which may inspire you to make the changes in your thoughts and beliefs that is needed.
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This is the second time I've watched your inner child video. I've learned more from it than the first time. Now I understand even more about what you mean by the term. And your analogies are so relatable, so easy to understand. I want to love and learn more about this (that wont go to bed) and help her to understand what happened to her, forgive and love herself as a divine child of the Universe. How helpful. Please do more inner child videos.
Hi Mildred - thanks again for your feedback. We're pleased to hear that our approach to the Inner Child is helpful for you. We will definitely be doing more video teachings on the Inner Child in the future as this is such an important topic. Alex & David x
Hi Mildred, we hope you are well and happy :) ...we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
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Thank you for this info i found this out the hard way exactly what you said about spiritual growing.Its impossible to grow if you are not healing youre wounded innerchild.He didnt let me pass i met my child and he did told me firmly you have to give me youre attention first to go on.I didnt believe in the innerchild until i met him myself through meditation i thank god it happend to me because now i know whats been holding me back all those years and it was right in front of me im now giving him my love an attention but its a hard road full with pain and fear.
But he did show me the true love up the road ahead beatiful love
Thanks for your comment Rudisbashar and for sharing your personal insights. We're pleased to hear that you and your inner child are working together as a harmonious and formidable team now. Wishing you well on your journey... Alex & David
Hi Rudishashar you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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Hi Rudisbashar we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
Its the expression of the child’s natural, authentic and true self and his or her primary needs.
enjoyed the video, Personally i failed in my final exam when i was young and now that am in college when i fail or get a grade that i didn't expect that feeling of failure from my chidhood comes back, but i have learned to embrace and listen to my inner child instead of running or surpressing the feelings
Hi Peninah
Thanks for watching our video and sharing your own story - it's sound like you have made great progress and are working well with your Inner Child!
Have you seen our Inner Child Reparenting videos yet? part 1: ruclips.net/video/SndWtblVf2U/видео.html / part 2: ruclips.net/video/BYUxAQYpsKg/видео.html
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I love your teaching on the inner child. I am sharing this video for others to hear this powerful and helpful message. Great work. Blessings to you both.
Thanks for sharing!! and Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.
Absolutely 💯 This is a very important topic to me. I love your teaching.
Wow! This was VERY informative! Compassionate self discipline is the way! Thank you so much from myself and my inner child! ❤
This is one of the best explained videos on the topic. You both are so knowledgeable. Sir I have a kind request though- will be great if you let the kind lady complete her sentences.
What a great channel! Amazing Wisdom!
I learnt this back in 1979, in a course based on a book “I’m OK, You’re OK” about Transactional Analysis. We have inner Parent -Adult -Child.
Inner Child could be the Natural Child, the Adapted Child and the Little Professor. Parent was Critical Parent or Nurturing Parent.
In my view, adjusting and educating the ideas of the Adapted Child, brought out best of the Natural child and the Little Professor, which is like our intuitive genius. This meant adapting the Critical Parent to be more realistic in that if overly criticizing and down on everything, to become a more useful critic, seeing both sides -adjusting and adapting with the wisdom of the Adult. So critic no longer overbearing bully but a wise and compassionate guide who points out when you are “off course” (like a compass) or there’s a better way to do whatever that is a truer expression of YOU. (e.g. not making this an essay!). Also watch out for an overdose of nurturing e.g. too much chocolate!
Most important I feel is our emotions often like a 5 year old, so owning and acknowledging them very important. If in a situation where you can’t, i.e. at work, do it mentally -our mind can rapidly imagine “throwing a tantrum” or “cry our heart out” in seconds and we can process it later if needed (visit bathroom). I found this all most helpful as my abandoned, battered and isolated inner child continued to survive and search for a better way (that bright elusive butterfly of love! -self love!). I jumped out of frying pan into the fire a few times, until I became a parent and sought help to change. Years went by, then I realized I was always “trying to fix myself” and decided I wasn’t broken! Still on the journey and I continue evolving.
I assume when our complex “inner family ” are working as a team you achieve Maslow’s “self actualization”.
Hi Deeraria,
I enjoyed reading your personal experiences.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble for watching and commenting on our videos we appreciate your support.
David
Thank you both....very helpful. I'm 55 and truly struggling, and it's time to fix it once and for all! My mother was sick most of my life with breast cancer, you mentioned it most likely started between the ages of 6 and 9 well she was diagnosed when I was 6 and passed away when I was 11. Leaving us (myself and 4 sisters still in the home)with Attila the Hun my father. I have been with a similar version of my father for 38 years and covered everything up until my mini me started acting out what I guess most people would call mid life crisis...I now see it as a call for healing the inner child, Its a work in progess and one of the most painful things I've ever done❤
Wow ...thank you Janet,
that's great insight!
I'm pleased that our videos have helped on your journey.
I have no doubt now that now you are aware you can take control of your life and flourish and live to your true potential.
Now you can really see how awesome you are! This releasing work may be the most painful time you have done, but the result are so amazing!!
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I love this. I need to help my inner child. She is not making me sleep. I have unresolved emotions or no emotions. I use to have reactive emotions but most of the time I had none. I could stuff my emotions so far down that I have no reactions when poked. I have a long way to go because I tried already and it was so much to deal but I'm finding that I can't get out of my head.
Hi Rosie Wills, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ruclips.net/p/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq Alex + David x
Wu Wei Wisdom...firstly Thankyou for the video. Recently my word has fallen apart and i have realised i am a narcissist..a covert. I have managed to hurt EVERYONE in my life...do you think narcissists are because of a default of the inner child? Or are they just pure evil and really are worthless,as seems to be the common thought on the internet. I literally seem to be wired wrong..and as long as i can remember have had deep shame about who i am. The worse is the anger was only at the people i loved most..with friends i was fine.
nice people trying to help. I personally believe the spiritual way is the only way beyond mind and technique,but if one is identified by the mind or of who they are as a person these videos are invaluable and in my view be ultimately a stepping stone to enlightenment or "being". may i add in my opinion everybodys inner child has had abuse, like school systems etc and people might spend and do spend many years getting over the traumas of the inner child
Hi John,
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@@WuWeiWisdom your welcome
Thank you for this messages amen I love,believed this is ❤️😍, soothing comforting to talk about it.
You are so welcome, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.
Awesome thanks I have just began my reparenting journey and you have given me a helpful understanding of what I am in for,Love your work!
Hi Rob - We're pleased to hear that our inner child teaching has stuck a chord with you. Good luck on your journey! Alex & David x
Hi Rob, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Rob we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
I am so thankful to find Wu Wei Wisdom. Thank you so much for doing these videos. The teachings are explained so well and so clear. Just amazing clarity and done with care and consideration.
Hi MissAir222 , thanks for your kind feedback!
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If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/
I read the power of now...When I try to heal through pain I gaslight myself because I feel as though I'm behaving life a small child would..of course I am!
It's a small child in me that's hurting...I'll tell myself..it's OK to feel like a child as I allow this pain to be felt
thanks for explaining this in such simple terms, when i was 10 my great nan died, my parents split up and i changed schools, not having the security of parents - one weekend it would be mums but she would send me to my dads again anyway left me so confused, angry, violent and i was always being forced to do things that i remember running from house to house, how do i start to unravel this belief and restrictive mindset, i'm 30 now and i'm still allowing my parents to put labels of shame onto me and its holding me back
Thanks for your comment - we're pleased to hear the video helped you. We're sorry to read about your childhood situation. This is now your time to take control of your life and to guide and emotionally educate your confused and angry inner child with compassionate self-discipline. You no longer need to be held back or defined by your past. These are exciting times for you and we wish you well on your journey. We also run a free Facebook Group where we share daily Wu Wei Wisdom and answer supporter questions - you would be welcome to join the group ➜ facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Alex & David x
Hi K, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi K we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
the only answer is love. love is really what it wants thats it. it doesnt have to be complicated
Hi Louise, thanks for sharing your thoughts on the inner child... we're glad you enjoyed this video teaching! Love and compassionate guidance of the inner child is the key to emotional freedom. :-)
You are probably right, but for me I was over 25 before I was able to open up to receiving love. I learnt it goes in a cycle of giving and receiving, and trust?
I have noticed the mind will go to very early childhood and I become SO miserable, dark, achy in the body, feel helpless, unloveable and unworthy. I can recall this pattern bothering me all the time for decades and now I am older I'm really suffering and am determined to let go of it as a permanent identity I believe I am.
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Keep up the good work it sounds as though you're doing an excellent job! Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I am so happy I’ve found this video
So much of healing that's happening.thank you ❤️ thank you for such awareness ❤️❤️
I love the teaching chemistry between the two of you. Muy Perfecto 🎯💘💃
it doesnt have to be locked in, especially if it is a common message , that can be acknowledged and accepted!
your wounded inner child can be considered your enemy, who needs to be acknowledged and accepted with loving kindness and thus your enemy, your wounded inner child transforms into healing into your friend, by the love and acceptance imparted to them
Hi @stevemiller8895,
You’re absolutely right. Transforming our relationship with our wounded inner child through acknowledgment and acceptance is key. By embracing our inner child with loving kindness, we turn past pain into a source of strength and understanding.
Kind Regards,
David
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you David,
for your channel, look at the story of Buddha and Mara ( extending love and acceptance and hospitality, this is the model ) as well as look up the Beatitudes in Matt.5 Jesus speaking of loving your enemies and agreeing with your adversary while you are on the way applying it to your wounded inner child. And transformation. Bc of the power of love and acceptance.
So helpful. Good bless. Lights. Love from Iran 🇮🇷
Hi Hanna - glad you enjoyed the video teaching and thanks for your kind feedback!
You may also like our latest video on the inner child: ruclips.net/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/видео.html
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Sending positive Qi to you in Iran :-)
Alex & David x
Hi Hanna you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Hanna we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
Thank you so much .... God Bless you guys
Thank you for addressing this subject. I highly recommend Inner Bonding: Becoming A Loving Adult To Your Inner Child by Margaret Paul.
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you for this life lesson. I really enjoy your inner child videos.
This man seems knowledgeable on this topic
How do we hear what our inner child has to say?
Thank you ! You couldn' t explain it in a better way. Now everything make sense to me
Thanks for your kind feedback Marika!
We have produced several videos on the Inner Child that you may enjoy, here's a few...
• Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) ➜ ruclips.net/video/SndWtblVf2U/видео.html
• Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 2) ➜ ruclips.net/video/BYUxAQYpsKg/видео.html
• Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency & Codependent Relationships ➜ ruclips.net/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/видео.html
• Let Go Of The Past & Heal Your Inner Child ➜ ruclips.net/video/jxmMKS9qyCs/видео.html
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Your channel is wonderful, it has such an astonishing lovely content which is a necessity to be human or you can say self-awared human, your channel deserve much more subscribers
A very good read is Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw and cpstd by Pete Walker
This was extremely helpful!! Thank you. Blessings!
"it must be me", for example experienced violence and madness from parents, leads to attacking or total closure to save myself from pain in adulthood....need to give back the responsibility for violence and madness to the parents and let go of the strategies
Everyone told me that I'm not okay the way I am and I belived it.
Thanks for you comment and for watching our video.
Now is the time for you to take self-responsibility for loving yourself, and to question what others said to you.
You are awesome!
We wish you well on your journey :)
Great video guys! So informative and so right to point. For me it answered a questions about jealousy. I just failed a relationship because if jealousy and it was huge problem to deal with it, especially when the other side refused to cooperate or give in.
Hi Petya, thanks for your kind feedback!
You may also find this video helpful:
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If you'd like to learn more about our unique approach to the Inner Child, we also have a full-length mp3 teaching album on this subject (includes a guided Inner Child meditation): 'Oneness ~ Loving & Healing Your Inner Child' - available here ➜ www.wuweiwisdom.com/shop/
@@WuWeiWisdom Wow thank you guys, that is very helpful indeed. I will check all of the sources. My ex actually sent me two articles where I recognized myself and got really upset, since they both sounded as very heavy diagnosis, and I could actually see myself as an observer from a distance and what I am causing to the other person :(. Here is one of them, the other is unfortunately not in English. After reading the articles I actually experienced shame. I really don't know how to deal with this inner child right now. She's upset and so am I, but I'm ready to give her a lot of love. Here is one of the articles:
www.unstuck.com/advice/6-steps-to-defuse-a-drama-queen-and-get-your-life/?fbclid=IwAR3lX2cKCbVUdFTdvkw78063sIYBn2BodiWQ6h67OerBEYumnjiZiUMf7Fwwww.unstuck.com/advice/6-steps-to-defuse-a-drama-queen-and-get-your-life/?fbclid=IwAR3lX2cKCbVUdFTdvkw78063sIYBn2BodiWQ6h67OerBEYumnjiZiUMf7Fw
Such a question occurred to me when reading both articles: when you stop using your cognitive methods to judge a person from the perspective of your inner child , i.e, putting forward your demands instead of doing your inner job and acknowledging the other, how can a person judge after that if they are choosing the correct partner for them and not just putting up with some insensitive prick?
Petya Anguelova thank you for your comments, we are pleased that enjoyed the video.
You are correct, it is even more challenging to discover and maintain a relationship with someone else when you have NOT done it for yourself.
Have a look at other videos when we discuss this situation in more detail, for example: ruclips.net/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/видео.html
David
@@petyaanguelova7048 you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Petya we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
Ah. I love the accent. I can understand clearly even Im not an English speaker. Thank you for the good explanation
You're welcome 😊 Kind regards, David.
I find myself saying "it's not fair" the justice of a situation... & feeling trapped, cornered, and misunderstood. I am constantly having these childish fits with my partner who is sick and tired of it. I don't even feel like myself when I get into the fits. I talk to myself afterwards, it is SO HARD to disable my inner child when I am already in a fit for justice while in confrontation with my partner. it feels impossible to walk away in a heated moment.. I want to get my point across and feel understood. I get hot, irritated, and cry.. I feel like I'm like 4 years old. it is horrible and I am trying to break this.. but I get stuck in fight or flight.... that "carousel" you speak about in your other video. it is sick. I am so sick of this child. SEND HELP. lol
David, I'm wondering about the role of hormone imbalances and brain chemical imbalances. Can this be a piece of the puzzle of the difficulty of thinking and believing the truth about oneself?
Thank you for your analysis of the IC. My hithertofore understanding was based upon a social media presentation which was shallow,useless and childish.
Hi Ken,
Thank you for your feedback! I'm glad you found our analysis of the Inner Child insightful. It’s important to explore these teachings deeply to appreciate their full value and wisdom. If you ever want to discuss further or share insights, feel free to join our Wu Wei Wisdom community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. We'd love to hear more about your journey and understanding.
Kind Regards,
David
If we can parent the inner child, then the inner child becomes the inner adult. If so, that means that some people have an inner child and some people don't. I prefer to think of everyone as having an inner child for better or worse. A nurtured inner child could be responsible for positive child-like reactions in adults e.g. wonder, creativity, awe, trust, experimentation, dreaming, etc.
Hi Paul,
Thanks very much for your comments.
What we are trying to achieve with the label of the Inner Child is to identify that part of your mind that is stuck or 'frozen' on a past Life Lesson and creating a duality.
The aim is to merge your mind and belief system into a oneness.
Hope that helps your meditations.
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David
Namaste love light and Healing prayers ...from all the empaths
Louise Hay says that our connection with our inner child is the most important relationship we have of all. I'm thinking because our inner child is our vitality our playful, happy part and energy, and it makes us live by our inspiration, is it actually connected to our higher self, is it actually our higher self or is it a channel to our higher self? Also, the inner child is in the realm of the subconscious which also directs me to that way of thinking. On the other hand, the sweet inner child is very emotional which is a human trait, as the soul, from what I've read, lacks those kinds of emotions. So, what exactly is our inner child - a psychological part of the mind or a more spiritual entity?
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Wow, this is so insightful and true🙌🏽🤞🏽
john 12:24 Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.
Thank you very much for such a clear explanation. You have opened my eyes.
Thanks for your feedback Chris - we appreciate it! We're glad you found the teaching helpful.
Hi Chris, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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I hope someday you or other people can help to put the english subtitle. It would be very helpful for us non english native speaker to understand better.
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Thank you so much for the insight, the messages and information you two give is priceless and has changed my life so much. It made be able to see what core beliefs I have and how some of them are not the right ways to think. The whole filter analogy really gave me the ability to view things in a different way and be able to clean my filter so I can see more clearly.
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Thanks for taking the time to watch and comment on our video. We're glad it had helped you!
You may also find our videos on Inner Child helpful:
• Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency + Codependent Relationships ➜ ruclips.net/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/видео.html
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• Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) ➜ ruclips.net/video/SndWtblVf2U/видео.html
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How often should you do an inner child meditation? I was thinking could you do it each moon cycle.. almost like a release of emotion and reprogramming through each cycle :)
Hi Avie,
You can do any meditation as often as you like. Let your intuition guide you on this :) ...
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Thank you for this! This is really informative and practical! I’m incredibly thankful for this work!
Hi Gustavo, thanks for your kind feedback!
You may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
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Hi Gustavo we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
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the yin and yang actually demonstrates both the duality in the 3D and the Oneness in the 5D
Hi @stevemiller8895,
That's a profound observation. The yin and yang indeed represent the harmony of duality and the interconnectedness of all things, reflecting both the balance in our tangible world and the unity in higher dimensions.
Kind Regards,
David
Thank you so much for your podcasts with great productive insights. I was wondering what the next step looks like after you have made friends with your inner child. Thanks again, L
Hi Lab thanks for your question.
When you have taken time to reconnect with that part of your mind we are calling the ‘Inner Child’ you have to address the original “lesson” or ‘Shen Ke’ that created the trauma.
This takes love and compassion. You will find lots of support during this process in our Facebook community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
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Hi Lab we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
Thankyou sir and ma'am this was helpful ❤❤
Hi Sree,
Thank you for your kind words! We're happy to hear that you found the video helpful.
Kind Regards,
David
Are there any videos for detailed instruction of applying the golden thread technique? Technique for identifying the experience that established the harmful core belief ?
Love this video..learnt so much n can relate to this
My abandoned inner child was trigged and came out for 2 months due to a recent shoulder injury. All my insecurities and extreme fear of the future have come out. Coupled with my midlife crisis at 47. How to reach out to my inner child that he is safe and we can grow old together without depending on others? My inner child is so stubbornly fear of the future and all.
Hi we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
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Sheer Awesomeness!!! 👏👏👏Such an in depth explanation and was so helpful 😊
Hi Cookie - thanks for watching, we're glad you enjoyed the video!
If you are interested in the topic of the inner child you may also find value in these videos:
• Inner Child Healing for Love Addiction, Codependency + Codependent Relationships ➜ ruclips.net/video/J1olSZ1wyz0/видео.html
• The Self Love Secret: How to Begin Loving Yourself ➜ ruclips.net/video/-IRP62paGZE/видео.html
• How to Stop Caring What Others Think of You ➜ ruclips.net/video/KvR1lVbQ1K0/видео.html
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Hi Cookie, you may also find our latest video on the topic of *Love & the Inner Child* helpful:
ruclips.net/video/E_2BLQrmb-I/видео.html - let us know what you think!
Hi Cookie :) ...we’ve just published a powerful new full-length video on *Childhood Trauma Recovery & Inner Child Healing* that you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/yBYnJSsHrAw/видео.html
Wishing you a peaceful and abundant 2019!
Alex & David x
How do you RE parent your inner child from the recurring feelings of rejection. They are clearly a deep rooted issue it seems considering how intense they are in comparison to the situations where they arise.
Amen about this messages amen thank you for this messages I love this messages 😊❤❤😊😊😊❤❤😢😢😅😅😮😮🎉🎉🎉
Hello Judy, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
This is absolutely brilliant, thank you 🙏🏽🌈