One of my dental abscess caused unbearable pain, screaming & writhing & clawing at my face, yet I'm not going to compare it to childbirth, because... literally why would I? Why would anyone?? That's weird.
@@DeathPetalArt honestly if someone told me that their tooth abscess hurt more than giving birth I would have no reason to doubt them. People experience pain differently, and there are a lot of factors that can make one experience particularly painful for a person. The reason I said I think this dude is lying is because he said the nurse told him tooth abscesses are worse than childbirth. It just seems like an obvious lie meant to disparage women. I've worked with a lot of nurses, they understand that pain is subjective and varies person to person.
bro i saw a tinder profile where it said something along the lines of "i want a girl in a wheelchair so she can't say no to sex" and i was like ???!!!?? never reported something so fast before
This has been said before but the logic of "If a woman has sex with lots of different guys it's scientifically a problem but if she has sex several times with only one person it's not the same" never ceases to make me laugh
No, women can have sex a total of 10-15 times. We also have teeth down there and can get pregnant by just holding hands with someone of the opposite genetalia
LITERALLY!! and the whole misconception that like bigger inner labia means they slept with too many people?? plus the whole bullshit about a vagina getting too loose from sex,, like honey, skin doesn't work like that. like sure to a degree, but a regular penis isn't going to do much "damage". like sometimes even a single finger hurts and i've fucked before, it doesn't work like that
Pair bonding hormones. Your hatred of men really makes you deny science and biology. You clearly have no idea how the world works. Feel offended be a victim and ramble more about men.
Like- No, your not mad because your worried about ladies wrecking their own bodies *(Which, even if in some crazy universe that actually happened, it's not your place do be condescendingly shaming women/ choosing your partners based off of that)* Your mad because you're insecure & jealous she got laid by someone who wasn't you.
Man I must not have been doing it right, I drank the hell out of water standing out in the sun working on my plants and that little bastard is still in there causing all kinds of havoc
Ikr! Wasn't omega often use when the alpha bro genre started too? I find it so funny when they use overlapping words. Didn't another guy in this video start talking about pair bonding or something too? Honestly hilarious when you keep thinking of the crossovers, and I will never not compare the 2 cuz I know the alphabros would hate that
Exactly what I was thinking lmao scrolled on tumblr and I would randomly see those alpha beta Omega tags and did some research about it and they sound so similar to those "alpha men are stronger and betas suck 💪💪💪"
Beyond all the obvious misogyny and terrifying indifference toward consent...the amount of asexual erasure in their "discourse" is both stark and exhausting. Good video
@@eldritchabomination9726 are we surprised? They can barely even see and believe lesbians are real and not just women who haven’t met “the one” yet… It’s sad but I’ve seriously lost almost all hope for straight cismen. Like i know there’s good ones out there but they’re so rare that I can’t even bother with them.
Yea, men have put women in a position where they will be shamed either way in regards to sex, and then wonder why women don't want to have sex with them..
Having slept with people before means you're a harlot! But also, if you do not sleep with me by the third date you are a piece of garbage who doesn't respect me!
It's so weird and contradictory... The uterus is a crazy powerful organ that can literally house and push out an entire fully developed infant... Why would it just randomly fall out from the slightest of things????
The Holy Trinity of That’s Not How Girls Work, Bad Women’s Anatomy and Pointlessly Gendered. Reddit is now a part of Gender Studies and I wish I used that information in my Masters. Imagine if we reviewed Reddit in class.
I got my bachelors a couple of years ago and in one of my research methods class we ABSOLUTELY went over Reddit and how to study it hahah the professor (younger, newly working graduate student) specifically used Reddit to study certain unpleasant behavior, it was amazing to see
To me, saying that women dont really like “nice guys”, in a way, perpetuates the idea that women get stuck in abusive relationships because they are asking for it. almost giving an excuse for treating women badly. As if men need more excuses for that.
women do like genuinely nice guys, just not Nice Guys (aka guys who aren't actually nice but wont stop whining about how nice they are and how unfair it is that being nice doesn't buy them sex)
Funny thing is it's usually the "nice guys" thay are the abusive partners. My ex was really good at playing nice for me at first, to the point I thought it was genuine. Then we moved in together and that facade fell apart, and I spent a majority of the relationship thinking that if I just behaved perfectly I'd get the nice version of him back.
As a woman, I can confidently say that I do not like being stared at no matter where I am; I also HATE getting D picks and I immediately block the person I got it from and report them. So no, "Mr President" women as a whole actually don't like the stuff they complain about hence why we complain about it. Also yes, laughing always happens in the group chat 1000%
Bruh my ex kept sending me unsolicited d pics and I HATED it. I ended up getting very good at speed deleting messages before the pics could even load to my phone. That is not a skill I should need to have.
@Trinity M Yeah, there are situations where sending a D pic isn't like, the worst thing. Like sending nudes to your partner, sexting type situations you get a D pic, understandable. But it still isn't really appealing in that context, I don't know anyone who asks for them, I've gotten them in response to nudes from my husband and it's kinda just like, "what do I do with this?" Like when you're cat brings you a dead mouse, oh thank you for thinking of me, but I do not want this. I'd much rather get like, a posed nude, dick doesn't even need to be visible, face is definitely more important.
@Trinity M WTF As a guy, that is messed up like nobody wants to see that Even if they do want it that picture will NOT stay private bro horrible idea Those kind of images in general are a stupid idea
i love when they make up a new "biological" reason why women are RUINED if they sleep with 100 men and its always some shit that would also happen if she slept with the same guy 100 times. but they refuse to hear it
WHY WOULD HUMANS EVER EVOLVE THIS WAY? I know back then they didn't have the technology, BUT OH MY GOD THIS SHOULD BE OBVIOUS Imagine if people thought men's _balls_ collapsed under high pressure 😭😭😭
Just a reminder that not everyone is able to use menstrual cups! If you can't, that's totally okay! As long as you're switching them out regularly, pads and tampons are perfectly safe. If you're concerned about the environment, you can look into reusable pads or period underwear, and plenty of menstrual products nowadays are made with the environment in mind. Be kind to yourself and give your body what it needs.
I cannot use a cup because I have an IUD. Honestly, I hate all period products, as they’re all uncomfortable. I use tampons and panty liners. I haven’t found a pair of period panties yet that are comfortable. I tried the thinx target collab, but I HATE underwear that aren’t thongs and they felt damp and gross the whole time. Also, they were a bit too big. Im going to look into a different brand that does thongs and hopefully they’ll feel cleaner and fit tighter.
I grew up on those huge cardboard tampons that were super painful and cheap. Many times the string would come right off and I'd have to fish it out. I was an athlete so pads were out of the question on days I had practice. The pads would crumble up or fall to the sides.. especially in the front. I have to admit the pearls are the best imo. I've been using them for 20 years. But I know some women don't like them.
also the "putting i don't want sex in your bio it makes people think you hate sex" comes off alot like the "don't put 'i'm a lesbian' in your bio it really puts off men" imo 😭
back when I was on tinder, my bio was "looking for someone who's emotionally available and not filled with bees" and I met a lot of interesting and nice people with that lmao
I always put in that I'm just tryna meet people and wasn't looking for sex and whilst i did meet kinda nice people, i mostly didn't get the feeling many were actually reading the bio lol What does full of bees mean? Is it like some analogy for being horny all the time? (english isn't my first language)
I really can't wrap my mind about this scenario they always invent about "females" being "ugly" and rating themselves high but still having sex with more than 100 people and having anxiety meds and cats. I don't understand the correlation between all those events 🤣. We need to tell those "males " that people have anxiety regardless of gender or if they had sex or not before. People can be 40 and be attractive. People can have cats and kids and a partner at the same time. And last but not least maybe " females" know that the " rating" thing is complete bs and don't really take it that seriously, so they aren't " delusional" they just are content with themselves.
It also just doesn't make any sense. 10 out of 10 for who's beauty preferences? Mine? Yours? This culture's or that culture's?? Of course, I'm gonna rate myself a 10 or more. I ain't gonna put myself down for somebody else's tastes.
It always makes me laugh when men talk about this mythical age of 40. I’m 40 and get more attention now than I did in my 20s. Don’t let them scare you girls. 😘
Thanks for this. Im 30, and I'm more conventionally attractive now than I was in most of my 20s due to working on my weight and confidence. Sometimes I worry that I'm too close to my "expiration date" to enjoy it for long. I know it's silly, but those insecurities do come up, so thanks again for the reassurance.
literally i'm 23 and i absolutely died at "they ultimately reach 40" like ah probably around the time when i'm at my most attractive and have my shit together? i'm not throwing out my 20s but god i feel like 40 is just gonna be the start of my prime. i got all these friends turning 30 going "i'm so close to old" and i'm like "how old is your mom" "58" "is her life close to over is she ancient and decrepit" "no" "exactly. so you're 30 years younger than that, gonna go ahead and say you're Not Old"
Men can't tell age as easily as they say the do 🙄 You could be 50 and they would probably think your 35 .....I'm convinced by some of the comments I've seen.
wish i was 40, body count in the triple digits, 3 kids, no husband, obese, popping anti anxiety and depression meds like skittles candy and 8 cats for companionship 😔😔😔
The idea that women release oxytocin everytime they have sex and it runs out overtime (!) sounds a lot like "if you have too much sex you get loose", which if true means even women in relationships shouldn't be having sex. Something tells me these guys wouldn't like a sexless relationship
Especially considering all the other things your body uses oxytocin for: Going to the gym, cuddling, eating things you enjoy, childbirth, etc. You're telling me I should use up all my oxytocin to sleep with you, when I have all these other things I'd like to use my oxytocin for?
I remember learning in school that some hormone can stop being produce by the body but ocytoxin is one of those that will always be produce it could lower or be higher but its not gonna stop it doesnt have a limit
I drink water like my pit bull drinks water: via high intensity bursts straight from the hose aimed at my face. And yes, I go "BLARGHLE BLARGHLE GROWL BLAGH" while snapping my jaw repeatedly as I do so.
Oxytocin is also produced during labor to induce contractions. Synthetic Oxytocin is called pitocin, and it's used to induce labor ( for various reasons). Pitocin, from personal experience, is HORRIFICALLY PAINFUL. It is also produced during breastfeeding.
Can confirm - pitocin is the devil and surely doesnt feel like the love hormone when its pumped into you at ever increasing levels without your consent 😂 (love my babe but damn, that synthetic certainly didn't feel therapeutic to me)
Just learned about pitocin this week! Taking a childbirth class so I have some idea what to expect lol. She went over the fact that pitocin is not served out by the brain so it can cause issues (while oxytocin is made, then administered by the brain so you can get the right amounts for what's going on.)
@@alicine-sims8988 I wish I had studied it more before being induced with pitocin. All my birth preferences went out the window. I ceased to even have contractions and after about 2 hours of pitocin it was just constant, unceasing, horrific pain. I remember the nurse saying "I guess you are having an intense reaction to it" and I wanted to claw her eyes out. I was induced due to hypertension and ended up having pre-eclampsia twice after giving birth, plus passing a kidney stone in between each incident of pre-eclampsia. Baby and I spent 6 days in the hospital. She has severely low blood sugar and severe jaundice. I If I could back and do it over, I would not have been induced at 37 weeks. I would have waited to give birth on my own.
The difference between this one and bad women's anatomy is that this one also covers generalizations about women and girls unrelated to anatomy. Like "all girls think X" or "every woman will leave you if you show emotions"
I’m a lesbian who also identified as bi for years, and in my experience it’s as if men just cannot help themselves with the junk pics. Like bro, if I wanted to see a bunch of mini-meat I’d go to a New Year’s party and slam some cocktail weiners.
The ONLY thing I’ve been told is worse than childbirth, according to some of my moms friends, is kidney stones. It is important to note that, after telling me this, they immediately followed it up with, “but you shouldn’t compare pain like that, they’re different kinds of pain, and its not really a contest. They both hurt, that’s what matters.” I didn’t see why they felt they needed to tell me that at the time. But now, hearing the dude in this video, I think they were just making sure I didn’t get the wrong idea and end up like him. I’m gonna thank them next time I see them.
Makes sense. It’s pushing big things out of smaller holes, they’d prob be fairly comparable. And at least with childbirth it’s something that’s meant to be happening, and Babies usually aren’t rocks covered with tiny spikes
So people who have given birth and had kidney stones have generally agreed that they are very similar on the pain scale except contractions are more of a tight squeezing pain whereas kidney stones tend to be more sharp or sudden then a dull throb. So similar in actual pain levels but different in feel. The majority of women I’ve heard have said that they’d prefer kidney stones to giving birth because their labour lasted longer than the kidney stone pain, with kidney stones they were offered better and more effective pain relief options and they didn’t have associated back pain, neck pain, bloating or other pregnancy symptoms at the same time to deal with.
i'm definitely a homesteader as much as it's possible for me. i do it mostly to save money. i bake my own bread, i cook and bake a ton, i try to grow veggies on my balcony and i absolutely love cleaning. nothing funnier than having an incel fawn over me as a "tradwife" and then destroying their illusions because i would never waste my homemaking skills on a toxic manbaby.
@@wolvie1618 Ok that would kind of make sense if that existed LMAO Like character tropes based off their blood types? I don’t know if I am descending into madness or if thats not something that sounds like it’s a real fanfiction
@@kenos911 I’m pretty sure that’s sort of a thing in Japan? My Japanese teacher’s wife (who he met in Japan) accurately guessed his blood type based on his personality, so I do imagine that it is a thing.
Gonna say this as a man who was raised with a lot of misinformation about women that I learnt from men; these kinds of videos are so validating to my efforts to get things right when it came to the other end of the gender spectrum.
As a guy who almost fell into a rabbit hole of misogyny and misinformation, I feel you, I still have the random, terrible thoughts like the ones where my brain tries to reason with these incels who clearly just hate women. I’m glad you’ve also realized how harmful that rhetoric is and are working to change!
Can we pls start making men feel like their weewees will get smaller if they do the dirty omg pleaseeeee Also we should stop saying that girls friend zone guys and start saying that guys hookup zone girls. Cuz that’s what’s really happening
man the whole idea that nice guys dont get sex or girls is so stupid. my boyfriend is the nicest guy i know, and i can barely keep my hands off him - everything about him is attractive to me, even though I know that buy these guys' standards, he is too short, too thin, doesn't have a strong enough jawline, the list would go on. but i look at him and im very attracted to AND love him.
The thing is these people think that "nice guy" means a guy that does good things just to get something out of it They don't consider that some people are actually nice just because they're nice, and aren't expecting to be rewarded for it
It comes down to semantics, and the underlying meaning of "nice". Your person sounds respectful. Being "nice" means you act passively, and hide the truth behind white lies. Nice guys can't muster up the courage to be direct and thus put the onus of everything on the woman they're lusting over.
@EchoDev oh, fair enough. I'm operating not on that whole Nice Guy idea but instead on the literal definition of niceness. because going off the beliefs that these alpha male types like to peddle - that you need to be alpha and essentially a pos towards women and need to be controlling or othwrwise abusive in order to keep her - is the only way to get sex. they like to say women arent attracted to nice betas and will choose them after having a ton of sex with alphas or whatever else, but completely ignore the many "betas" who arent what they think women go for who are actually getting consistent good sex AND a partner who cares for their best interest.
@Zephyr I disagree. You can be nice and diplomatic, which doesnt mean you're engaging in white lies. eg he can and has said "it hurt me when you said/did xyz" as opposed to "you were acting like a bitch" - both convey similarly that i didnt act kindly to him but one is more diplomatic and allows the relationship to repair instead of adding fuel to the flames. On top of that, voicing this IS still showing kindness and a desire to sustain the relationship, as opposed to staying silent and not saying anything because hes too passive or scared. This would make a relationship doomed to fail. I also disagree with the idea that niceness is inherently passive. If someone drops something and you go out of your way to help pick it up or if you hold a door open for as long as it takes someone to reach you, that is an active choice and a deliberate action that you go out of your way to do because it's a nice thing to do. being passive is often being apathetic to those around you. being nice is being deliberate and thoughtful of others' feelings enough to act in ways that are nice or to minimize damage where possible (eg in the example above, where he has to give feedback relating to others' actions in order to preserve the relationship).
I hate always having to tape it up when travelling. One time it fell out and I wouldn't have noticed and would've just carried on if it weren't for a kind stranger who pointed it out. I could've accidentally left it in another country!
this is the perfect day - i'm doing a rocks and minerals puzzle, watching my current favorite commentary youtuber, while eating a frozen pizza (it's not frozen anymore). this is the life.
18:00 one time in high school, a guy that i was really good friends with sat me down and told me he was in love with me and had been since we first met. i was nervous about turning him down because i didn't want to lose him as a friend, so i told him that, and he said "it's ok that you don't feel the same way, i may want more with you but i care about you as a person and don't want to lose you. i'd rather stay your friend and still have you in my life than get angry about you rejecting me and lose you forever." we just celebrated our one year wedding anniversary.
The thing about unsolicited di*k pics is the unsolicited part is the issue. If someone is cool with it that’s fine. Don’t just send them. That’s hella weird. I wonder if you could do a video on AITA specifically the relationship ones. I recently saw one from a guy that made a super inappropriate joke about a woman that got a c-section and his gf left the dinner. I’d like to hear your opinion on this stuff.
my mom is a gyno and she can confirm that drinking water while you stand up will break your uterus! please be safe Annamarie and only drink water in a horizontal position as to not put pressure on your reproductive system
I bet that one guy just said that women "ran low on oxytocin" because they actually fell out of love with him over time, there can't really be another explanation 🙈
18:28 I love (hate) how this guy says that putting that in your bio is pointless when he then a IMMEDIATELY goes on to say that men are only interested in sex. Dude, you’re basically proving that there IS a need to put that in your bio.
I have always been of this mindset since I have been sexually active, men that demand or pressure women to have anal need to be willing to experience it the same way; I mean the exact same way they are trying to get the women to have anal with them. So if they're not trying to prep, if they're not doing any foreplay, if they're not trying to relax a woman and really get them comfortable with it. If they don't, they should be okay with having anal the exact same way even if it's just with a toy. If you don't, if you aren't willing to do that then you need to leave them alone and stop asking for it and stop complaining about the fact that women are saying it hurts.
Pro tip: if the guy asks and you agree and then they immediately back off about anal: they like that you don't want to do anal. When you enthusiastically agree to anal it takes away that implied lack of consent that some men like.
Honestly I would love to see someone confront those guys with that. See how eager they are to get pegged lmao. They'll throw a hissy fit so fast they'll relapse back into being a toddler.
10000% it's like they all lack empathy, brains etc. Men: ''mine is a one-way only!'', mine too!!!! So many also claim to be freaky and hot in the bedroom: but what they mean is they love to DO THOSE GROSS THINGS TO SOMEOEN ELSE, never to experience them. They are in fact, so fragile and shallow.
I’m a nurse and I can’t imagine telling someone their rotten tooth is more painful than childbirth, so I’m really doubting his story. I’ve told my patients that apologize for crying or “acting like a baby” that broken bones are apparently some of the worst pain imaginable, (because that info is included in my trauma education) but I’ve never tried to invalidate someone else’s pain or compare it to a completely different experience. Not to mention, pain is subjective. I can have an 80 year old granny who asks for Tylenol for a broken hip and a 23 year old man hysterically crying over a broken toe. We just treat pain based on what they report.
Dudes seem to really want to play down childbirth pain like it will make people want to carry a kid. Or they want to make it seem like it’s not as bad as people say because they want to feel tough by comparison? Or make others seem weak? Thing is with a tooth abscess you don’t have months of growing and carrying a mass inside your body and the risk to develop 100 different health complications beforehand, during, and after giving birth. You experience less risk of death, and afterwards the healing is probably a lot less hard on you when you don’t have to juggle keeping a new human alive while your insides repair themselves. Give people who agree to give birth credit - because it’s not a walk in the park even if there’s the potential for reduced pain levels during labour.
I mean but think about it: It has worked. Most of our society sees pregnancy and childbirth as not a big deal. They've successfully made people ignore or forget that it's stupidly dangerous and has a significant chance for death. It's getting spoken about better now.
3:07 I am always trying to "normalize", menstruating. I'm currently on my fourth day of menstruating and have told strangers and my one friend that I am. If it's relevant to the conversation, I don't hold back. Like, I feel so drained right now and want everyone to know that I can't be my "normal", self right now. The heat outside has made me feel even worse. I don't get my period all to often because of thyroid issues, but when I do get it, it is awful. And I especially hate when you wake up and think the bleeding has slowed or stopped, but then you try and go about your day and it's like "whoosh".
The idea that drinking water standing up will cause some sort of grand canyon style erosion to the uterus is wild. Like I want someone to ask this man to draw what he thinks human organs are like, it'd be hilarious in a depressing sort of way.
I love how we're expected to do self care, hair, makeup, nails etc. for hours so we are the prettiest version of ourselves, but we can't admire our beauty when we are our "best self" and feeling confident?
They really forget that appearance is a subjective perception. I could find someone ugly while someone else could find the same person as very attractive. Like??? Do people not realise that we all see things differently?
Honestly, after having given birth without any drugs, the uterus being weakened by drinking water makes me almost outraged haha the uterus is so fucking strong! I am like offended on behalf of uteruses because of that comment XD
Everybody likes nice. If someone tells you „you are too nice for me“, the are often saying „you are devoid of any personality and just agree with everything I do or say and have no opinions, suggestions, interests, hopes, dreams of your own“ in a nice way.
16:50 as someone who has eaten lots of doughnuts, I can guarantee that the bottom doughnut will be better. The sugar icing shell detracts from the simplicity of the doughnut. Some people call the bottom version "Plain", but I prefer "Real Doughnut".
Friendly neighborhood queer nurse practitioner here to say that yes, can confirm, your esophagus goes directly to your uterus and that is absolutely how bodies work. (No. This is factually untrue. Please. My blood pressure.) also thank you our alpha sinner for bringing us such rad content.
In the piercing/consent thing the guy’s missing the whole point of why they’re willing to go through the pain of waxing or piercing because they get something out of it. If we think of it as an analogy an*l would be like getting waxed and the esthetician that waxed you ends up with smooth legs with no pain
There are 3 important things, for EVERY part of life that people need to adhere to. First one is whether or not you chose to be there/do this. Whether that be at the pedicure, the snackbar, in bed or at the dentist. Second, whether you have controll, if you can stop them or change and influence things. Can you decide the design at the hairdresser, can you stop the doctor when it hurts, can you ask for no ketchup at the snackbar? And last, whether the person in general, cares about you and shows genuine caring. Once one of those 3 is missing, even getting a few groceries can end up terrifying. Imagine being at the hairdresser against your will. Or having to buy flipflops in the store that are not even your size, but you are forced to. All three points need to be respected, everywhere.
you just scared the life out of me because I was just washing my menstrual cup and you just told me the exact one I had and I was definitely ready for you to walk into my bathroom for a chat, breaking the 4th wall 😭😭😭
Humans also release oxytocin when interacting with dogs too. I spend all day every day with my dog, and cuddle her at night, so i should've run out about a good 6 years ago. Gotta buy more
As an Ace that plainly puts “not looking for sex” It’s not true that it doesn’t repel men. For some reason it becomes a competition to change my mind :(
Bruh I had a giant abscess in my foot and a bunch of small ones on my sciatic nerve and it was the worst pain I had ever experienced. However...pain It's so different for everybody what could hurt for one person might not her at all for another. Some people have had very easy child births and some really terrible like ew. I hate when people compare their pain anyway and try to invalidate another person's pain because they believe that there's as worse but that 1 really ticked me off
As a 43 yo woman who has been menstruating since I was 10, hearing Annamarie say "half my life" and realizing I've been menstruating for over 30 years, about made me fall out of my chair. 😩
When you get a little older and wiser, it becomes funny. I understand why they think it works, because they target younger women where that kind of negging could produce results. But the few times I've had it tried on me in recent years has been truly laughable.
15:28 this reminds me of another tweet where it’s like “women will say their periods hurt but will never know this pain” and it was a picture of rolling your ankle
The ad began with “you need to listen to this simple FACT. Women are always on their phones-“ and then I simply could not continue any further. Please find out where this man got his discount whole sale audacity so I can restock my own
As some one who has experienced both labor and delivery and an absest tooth they are different pain by tooth made me want to unlive my self and labor I wanted to unalive everyone else and throw myself off a bridge after I got the tooth removed I was instantly relived with a couple days of soreness but after delivery will I had my beautiful baby I was still in pain for weeks. With little relief as I was breastfeeding, so no painkillers like after having a tooth removed. Edit:And what's worse is needing a tooth removed while pregnant. Guess what they won't touch it you just have to deal with the pain until the pregnancy has come to a natural end. So imagine being in the hospital in labor and your in pain tip and bottom.
Not directly about your video but I'm a childfree person who's been getting nothing but pampers ads, having those pop up with this video is hilarious. The timing has been impeccable. 😂
for the tattoos, piercings, and waxing; there is usually prep for that. numbing cream and cleaning the area. if the an-l is painful, prep is NOT being done right or at all.
I was working out at the gym not too long ago and saw a guy there with a shirt that said 'I [heart] hot moms'. Yeah, I no longer felt comfortable working out in front of him, or at all really. That just makes a really uncomfortable environment to be in because all I want to focus on is, you know, working out.
As someone who has given birth twice and also had to have $20K worth of dental work done (largely due to mineral depletion from the pregnancies XD) I can promise you that labor and childbirth is leagues and miles and kilometers and tons out of the sphere of even touching on dental pain. I’ll have my entire mouth ripped out and replaced before I push another human through my cervix.
The "you are a libra man, you are a walking red flag" got me especially as a queer femme libra who has weirdly had either relationships/situationships with mostly libra men lmao
The rating thing reminds me of a subreddit I heard about where they ban basically anyone who rates a girl above like a 6 because there's no way that ONE girl is the 1:10,000 or 1:100,000 that actually fits the hippocritical qualifiers for it.
Ok I'm a cis guy and just looked up how a menstrual cup works and wow... How do you not spill it? Im guessing you choose a very particular moment to remove it. Keep your chins up god's strongest warriors
Well, generally you pull it out by the end, depending on the cup pushing a side of the cup with a finger to get rid of the vacuum type thing that keeps it stuck needs to be done too. Since you pull it down the cup should stay up right and generally a cup shouldn't be overflowing, than you should change it more often, so once out it is actually pretty easy to dispose and clean without causing a mess. Thank you for educating yourself on these things even if it doesn't technically concern you directly, wish that was more common.
To answer your question: you take them out when you’re sitting on the toilet, so you’re going to tip them out anyway. They’re also decently deep so if you take them out every X hours like the box suggests you shouldn’t have to worry about it being overfilled or easy to spill. I believe they’re best for certain flows as well.
@@mewt5358 it’s no worries! We all got bodies that have to carry out certain functions - so it’s always better to know as much as possible about them to keep them healthy and make them less shameful and embarrassing.
7:10 For anyone seeing this, if you get an unsolicited sausage in your dm's, reply with: "That small?" "🔍🧐" A bratwurst of your own if you have one And/or block them
I'd just threaten to send it to everyone in their Facebook friends list 😂😂😂 go ahead and block me, I'll just get on my fiance's page and do it that way. Men need to get out of the habit of doing that. As a woman who finds men attractive, those aren't fun to look at 😂😂😂
also: if they're a minor, delete the picture AND DONT SEND IT AROUND!! that would be possession/sharing of child🌽, but the minor who sent it to you can be charged with child 🌽 production.
first: love the little explanation of imprinting, but all that was running through my mind when you said that was; "YOU IMPRINTED ON MY DAUGHTER!?" "AND NICKNAMED HER AFTER A SEA MONSTER!?!" sorry not sorry for the bella jumpscare I love the little "that was too warm for my liking" AS AN AUTISTIC WOMAN I AGREE SO MUCH I CAN ONLY DRINK COLD WATER THATS OVERFILLED WITH ICE IN MY 2 YEAR OLD PLASTIC WATERBOTTLE COVERED WITH STICKERS, OR I WILL NOT DRINK THE ENTIRE DAY thanks for coming to my ted talk
spaghetti
why do you have to be so political?
how could you say something so brave yet so controversial
I can’t believe ur ✨indoctrinating my child✨
Imtooaceforallofthismydude-Leigh time for Church
Spragerbi
garlic bread
I've given birth twice, and I've also had an abscessed tooth. Childbirth was WAY WORSE, so I'm calling cap on that dude's story.
you are so real for that.
Having your hips physically dislocate as you push a watermelon sized being out of a quarter-sized hole? Nah, my hurty toothie is worse
@@wetsockfullofhotmeat fr, I'm never gonna be able to pee normally again... but F in chat for this man's teefies I guess
One of my dental abscess caused unbearable pain, screaming & writhing & clawing at my face, yet I'm not going to compare it to childbirth, because... literally why would I? Why would anyone?? That's weird.
@@DeathPetalArt honestly if someone told me that their tooth abscess hurt more than giving birth I would have no reason to doubt them. People experience pain differently, and there are a lot of factors that can make one experience particularly painful for a person.
The reason I said I think this dude is lying is because he said the nurse told him tooth abscesses are worse than childbirth. It just seems like an obvious lie meant to disparage women. I've worked with a lot of nurses, they understand that pain is subjective and varies person to person.
Honestly, as a woman, I didn't know we existed
You don't, girls are a conspiracy created by tampon companies to sell more tampons
Saaaaaaaaame man I’ve been questioning my gender so long I have no idea what’s what
Real like what the hell is a woman
i'm a fellow girl and i don't know what a girl is
@@zaraiigachasame!
After hearing about "imprinting" I have realized that the manosphere is dangerously close to accidentally recreating the Omegaverse.
right??? they are getting so close
Half the time I can’t tell which one they mean anymore
Trust it'll happen one day
REAL
I'm waiting for the day one of those "sigma/alpha male" influencers call women omegas 😨
bro i saw a tinder profile where it said something along the lines of "i want a girl in a wheelchair so she can't say no to sex" and i was like ???!!!?? never reported something so fast before
😳😳
Holy crap that's terrifying
@@ek0dev right? and those are the kind of guys who ask why they get no matches/why don’t women like them
Why tf do men still exist ??
WHAT THE FUCK???
This has been said before but the logic of "If a woman has sex with lots of different guys it's scientifically a problem but if she has sex several times with only one person it's not the same" never ceases to make me laugh
No, women can have sex a total of 10-15 times. We also have teeth down there and can get pregnant by just holding hands with someone of the opposite genetalia
LITERALLY!!
and the whole misconception that like bigger inner labia means they slept with too many people?? plus the whole bullshit about a vagina getting too loose from sex,, like honey, skin doesn't work like that. like sure to a degree, but a regular penis isn't going to do much "damage". like sometimes even a single finger hurts and i've fucked before, it doesn't work like that
Pair bonding hormones. Your hatred of men really makes you deny science and biology. You clearly have no idea how the world works. Feel offended be a victim and ramble more about men.
Like- No, your not mad because your worried about ladies wrecking their own bodies *(Which, even if in some crazy universe that actually happened, it's not your place do be condescendingly shaming women/ choosing your partners based off of that)*
Your mad because you're insecure & jealous she got laid by someone who wasn't you.
Or like "the bigger the titties the bigger the whore" it's shocking how many times I've seen that I just pray it's a joke
wait so you're telling me i don't have to get a hysterectomy? i can just drink water from a bottle while standing up and she'll go away?
it's that easy!
Man I must not have been doing it right, I drank the hell out of water standing out in the sun working on my plants and that little bastard is still in there causing all kinds of havoc
Shoot I didn't know I could just wash that bs out, damn
these new diy channels are getting real
@@kimmel636 5 minute crafts, surgical edition
the way they talk about "alpha" and "beta" males makes me think that they're all just massive omegaverse fans
👀 interesting
Ikr! Wasn't omega often use when the alpha bro genre started too? I find it so funny when they use overlapping words. Didn't another guy in this video start talking about pair bonding or something too? Honestly hilarious when you keep thinking of the crossovers, and I will never not compare the 2 cuz I know the alphabros would hate that
That's the movie about the cartoon wolves, right?
Exactly what I was thinking lmao scrolled on tumblr and I would randomly see those alpha beta Omega tags and did some research about it and they sound so similar to those "alpha men are stronger and betas suck 💪💪💪"
@@Sabrina-vc9yt Would incels be into mpreg?
Beyond all the obvious misogyny and terrifying indifference toward consent...the amount of asexual erasure in their "discourse" is both stark and exhausting. Good video
Exactly! I was thinking that too!
Wdym, asexual people don't exist, especially asexual women, the men need it or else their poor pps will die :(( /j
me, an ace lesbian, sobbing in agreement
Little known fact, cishet men cannot actually see aces/j
@@eldritchabomination9726 are we surprised? They can barely even see and believe lesbians are real and not just women who haven’t met “the one” yet…
It’s sad but I’ve seriously lost almost all hope for straight cismen. Like i know there’s good ones out there but they’re so rare that I can’t even bother with them.
being 40, getting laid often, having no kids and 8 cats honestly sounds pretty nice
Imagine that! Lol
I love the duality of sleeping around being bad and shameful but also if you put no hookups in your bio your a prude who hates sex
Yea, men have put women in a position where they will be shamed either way in regards to sex, and then wonder why women don't want to have sex with them..
Having slept with people before means you're a harlot! But also, if you do not sleep with me by the third date you are a piece of garbage who doesn't respect me!
I love the expectation of men that want a virgin or as close to as possible but also want someone who is sexually skilled. 🙄
we cant do anything without men getting after us for it
@@snooganslestat2030 men r weird
there was a time in history where men genuinely thought women´s uteruses could fall off from doing physical activity or even THINKING too much
It’s so weird because how many times has anyone seen or even heard of a uterus just falling out of someone??
@@sunnyandthechlo happened to my buddy Eric once
@@renatobonito1521 RIP Eric's uterus. So that makes one time.
It's so weird and contradictory... The uterus is a crazy powerful organ that can literally house and push out an entire fully developed infant... Why would it just randomly fall out from the slightest of things????
Weren't they also scared when they built the first trains that if women were on one, the speed of it would fling their uterus out of their bodies?
every single time they talk about 'pair bonds', 'imprint' or whatever I KEEP THINKING ABOUT THE OMEGAVERSE PLS
PLS
MAKE THEM STOP
Someone needs to tell them about it
They'd simply implode
I'm so glad I'm not the only one.
And I will proudly continue to keep comparing alphabros to the omegaverse because I know they'd hate that so hard
no no, let them keep going. i want to see the day they find out theyve accidently recreated a genre mostly associated with gay smut.
@@aminishnamedvaatiseriously, it's so similar lmao
@@ek0dev we also need to tell them that the matrix was made by trans people
Thank you for teaching us how girls work-as a transmasc, I had nearly forgotten, so I’m grateful for the refresher /j
@green mayo man🍓 why hello
To be honest same. I really did need a reminder on what a girl even is!
Relatable, I’m genderfluid and I almost forgot how to be a girl! I’m so glad we got this educational video before I fully forgot /j
real/jm
Fr i forgot they existed too 😂😂/j
The Holy Trinity of That’s Not How Girls Work, Bad Women’s Anatomy and Pointlessly Gendered.
Reddit is now a part of Gender Studies and I wish I used that information in my Masters. Imagine if we reviewed Reddit in class.
That would be amazing
Add r/menwritingwomen to that lol
@@wolvie1618 um not really
@@lxchris5252 👎
I got my bachelors a couple of years ago and in one of my research methods class we ABSOLUTELY went over Reddit and how to study it hahah the professor (younger, newly working graduate student) specifically used Reddit to study certain unpleasant behavior, it was amazing to see
As someone who does want their uterus to fall out, I'm going to start chugging water by the gallon.
best of luck
Haha yes! Wish id known this years ago. 😂
Stay hydrated 😉
Like I lose my fertility? FOR FREE?? Bet
Same! My new plan
To me, saying that women dont really like “nice guys”, in a way, perpetuates the idea that women get stuck in abusive relationships because they are asking for it. almost giving an excuse for treating women badly. As if men need more excuses for that.
women do like genuinely nice guys, just not Nice Guys (aka guys who aren't actually nice but wont stop whining about how nice they are and how unfair it is that being nice doesn't buy them sex)
Funny thing is it's usually the "nice guys" thay are the abusive partners.
My ex was really good at playing nice for me at first, to the point I thought it was genuine. Then we moved in together and that facade fell apart, and I spent a majority of the relationship thinking that if I just behaved perfectly I'd get the nice version of him back.
That is exactly what a lot of those men mean when they say women don't like nice guys.
@@alicine-sims8988 I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Hope you've recovered from that trauma
YES.
As a woman, I can confidently say that I do not like being stared at no matter where I am; I also HATE getting D picks and I immediately block the person I got it from and report them. So no, "Mr President" women as a whole actually don't like the stuff they complain about hence why we complain about it.
Also yes, laughing always happens in the group chat 1000%
Just "no means yes" propaganda
Ikr.. I received a d pic when I was 12 bro. Are they going to say that I wanted it?
Bruh my ex kept sending me unsolicited d pics and I HATED it. I ended up getting very good at speed deleting messages before the pics could even load to my phone. That is not a skill I should need to have.
@Trinity M Yeah, there are situations where sending a D pic isn't like, the worst thing. Like sending nudes to your partner, sexting type situations you get a D pic, understandable.
But it still isn't really appealing in that context, I don't know anyone who asks for them, I've gotten them in response to nudes from my husband and it's kinda just like, "what do I do with this?" Like when you're cat brings you a dead mouse, oh thank you for thinking of me, but I do not want this.
I'd much rather get like, a posed nude, dick doesn't even need to be visible, face is definitely more important.
@Trinity M WTF
As a guy, that is messed up like nobody wants to see that
Even if they do want it that picture will NOT stay private bro horrible idea
Those kind of images in general are a stupid idea
i love when they make up a new "biological" reason why women are RUINED if they sleep with 100 men and its always some shit that would also happen if she slept with the same guy 100 times. but they refuse to hear it
the post at 7:57 reminds me of the fact that men used to think that women shouldn't ride trains because their uterus would fly out
@mayonnaiseman_ yeah, men used to think that trains were too fast for women's bodies to handle
or that hysteria is based on the root word for uterus and the idea that the uterus traveling about the body caused unfavorable emotional behavior
WHY WOULD HUMANS EVER EVOLVE THIS WAY?
I know back then they didn't have the technology, BUT OH MY GOD THIS SHOULD BE OBVIOUS
Imagine if people thought men's _balls_ collapsed under high pressure 😭😭😭
That's because they do why else do you think we wear pants now
@@sporkzzz Whenever I wear a dress or a skirt I just leave my uterus home and put it back later
Just a reminder that not everyone is able to use menstrual cups! If you can't, that's totally okay! As long as you're switching them out regularly, pads and tampons are perfectly safe. If you're concerned about the environment, you can look into reusable pads or period underwear, and plenty of menstrual products nowadays are made with the environment in mind. Be kind to yourself and give your body what it needs.
This, i freaking hate mensural cups or tampons. The only thing I'm comfortable with is pads.
I cannot use a cup because I have an IUD. Honestly, I hate all period products, as they’re all uncomfortable. I use tampons and panty liners. I haven’t found a pair of period panties yet that are comfortable. I tried the thinx target collab, but I HATE underwear that aren’t thongs and they felt damp and gross the whole time. Also, they were a bit too big. Im going to look into a different brand that does thongs and hopefully they’ll feel cleaner and fit tighter.
Was going to like this but it’s at 69…
I grew up on those huge cardboard tampons that were super painful and cheap. Many times the string would come right off and I'd have to fish it out. I was an athlete so pads were out of the question on days I had practice. The pads would crumble up or fall to the sides.. especially in the front. I have to admit the pearls are the best imo. I've been using them for 20 years. But I know some women don't like them.
THIS! Apparently I have short fingers and couldn’t get it out….had to go to the dr to remove it. So yeah they aren’t for every body😂😂
also the "putting i don't want sex in your bio it makes people think you hate sex" comes off alot like the "don't put 'i'm a lesbian' in your bio it really puts off men" imo 😭
truly underrated comment
I seriously got told that saying I'm a lesbian was unattractive to men
back when I was on tinder, my bio was "looking for someone who's emotionally available and not filled with bees" and I met a lot of interesting and nice people with that lmao
Damn you wouldn't smash Candyman??
People who ARE filled with bees can be nice and interesting too… 😢
Lmao
I am allergic to pollen so this amuses me greatly
And I have depression so I could see how that would get attention from interesting people
I always put in that I'm just tryna meet people and wasn't looking for sex and whilst i did meet kinda nice people, i mostly didn't get the feeling many were actually reading the bio lol
What does full of bees mean? Is it like some analogy for being horny all the time?
(english isn't my first language)
I would probably just do the normal, I want something long-term blah blah blah
And then add "CCCCAAAARRRLLLL" and see who gets the reference
I really can't wrap my mind about this scenario they always invent about "females" being "ugly" and rating themselves high but still having sex with more than 100 people and having anxiety meds and cats. I don't understand the correlation between all those events 🤣.
We need to tell those "males " that people have anxiety regardless of gender or if they had sex or not before. People can be 40 and be attractive. People can have cats and kids and a partner at the same time. And last but not least maybe " females" know that the " rating" thing is complete bs and don't really take it that seriously, so they aren't " delusional" they just are content with themselves.
You cannot reason with these subhuman pieces of shit. Their hatred for women and LGBT will outweigh any logic.
it's all about convincing themselves that they haven't lost out when they're told no.
They'll say shit like this and then say "women react badly when I open up and they don't care about my emotions"
If woman then bad. No sex prude bad, have sex slut bad. Yup.
It also just doesn't make any sense.
10 out of 10 for who's beauty preferences? Mine? Yours? This culture's or that culture's??
Of course, I'm gonna rate myself a 10 or more. I ain't gonna put myself down for somebody else's tastes.
It always makes me laugh when men talk about this mythical age of 40. I’m 40 and get more attention now than I did in my 20s. Don’t let them scare you girls. 😘
Thanks for this. Im 30, and I'm more conventionally attractive now than I was in most of my 20s due to working on my weight and confidence. Sometimes I worry that I'm too close to my "expiration date" to enjoy it for long. I know it's silly, but those insecurities do come up, so thanks again for the reassurance.
literally i'm 23 and i absolutely died at "they ultimately reach 40" like ah probably around the time when i'm at my most attractive and have my shit together? i'm not throwing out my 20s but god i feel like 40 is just gonna be the start of my prime. i got all these friends turning 30 going "i'm so close to old" and i'm like "how old is your mom" "58" "is her life close to over is she ancient and decrepit" "no" "exactly. so you're 30 years younger than that, gonna go ahead and say you're Not Old"
@@tsharabrown3719 there’s no such thing as an expiration date. Youre expired only when you die. You are still here and human until you die.
40 or not,, I want nothing to do with them or their attention.
Men can't tell age as easily as they say the do 🙄
You could be 50 and they would probably think your 35 .....I'm convinced by some of the comments I've seen.
wish i was 40, body count in the triple digits, 3 kids, no husband, obese, popping anti anxiety and depression meds like skittles candy and 8 cats for companionship 😔😔😔
aspirational honestly
Some people get all the luck
You just gotta believe in yourself
there's a purple glow around you and I dig it
hehehe thanks queen
“I IDed as bi for four years” **shows bi ID**
Bi-D?
@@someofmyplantsarestillaliv5037 You know it's a bi thread when the dad puns come out 👉🏻😎👉🏻
@@sourgreendolly7685 by the BI, these puns sure are coming out hehe
The idea that women release oxytocin everytime they have sex and it runs out overtime (!) sounds a lot like "if you have too much sex you get loose", which if true means even women in relationships shouldn't be having sex. Something tells me these guys wouldn't like a sexless relationship
Especially considering all the other things your body uses oxytocin for: Going to the gym, cuddling, eating things you enjoy, childbirth, etc.
You're telling me I should use up all my oxytocin to sleep with you, when I have all these other things I'd like to use my oxytocin for?
That’s how they try and justify leaving their wives for younger women
I remember learning in school that some hormone can stop being produce by the body but ocytoxin is one of those that will always be produce it could lower or be higher but its not gonna stop it doesnt have a limit
sometimes omegaverse seems less ilogic when you hear how some dudes think women bodies work.
I'm still confused about those but I bet the men got it more confused than I do about omegaberse lmao
Edit: I hope I made sense 😭
my favorite pastime is pretending dudes who call themselves "alphas" and all that crap are actually just omegaverse larpers roleplaying
It really just solidifies my viewpoint that these men honestly just want each other.
The amount of weird tinder profiles I have collected over the years would fill a whole video. Men do not know how to be people on dating apps
I have never been on dating apps, is that a prominent thing people do lol
Half of the reason I want to get into dating apps is to mess with weirdos, of all genders, it's going to be fun
Bumble thankfully has been a really positive experience for me.
Men rarely know how to be people regardless, unfortunately.
I drink water like my pit bull drinks water: via high intensity bursts straight from the hose aimed at my face. And yes, I go "BLARGHLE BLARGHLE GROWL BLAGH" while snapping my jaw repeatedly as I do so.
The true secret we're keeping
Oxytocin is also produced during labor to induce contractions. Synthetic Oxytocin is called pitocin, and it's used to induce labor ( for various reasons).
Pitocin, from personal experience, is HORRIFICALLY PAINFUL.
It is also produced during breastfeeding.
And hugging!
Can confirm - pitocin is the devil and surely doesnt feel like the love hormone when its pumped into you at ever increasing levels without your consent 😂 (love my babe but damn, that synthetic certainly didn't feel therapeutic to me)
Just learned about pitocin this week! Taking a childbirth class so I have some idea what to expect lol. She went over the fact that pitocin is not served out by the brain so it can cause issues (while oxytocin is made, then administered by the brain so you can get the right amounts for what's going on.)
@@alicine-sims8988 I wish I had studied it more before being induced with pitocin. All my birth preferences went out the window. I ceased to even have contractions and after about 2 hours of pitocin it was just constant, unceasing, horrific pain. I remember the nurse saying "I guess you are having an intense reaction to it" and I wanted to claw her eyes out. I was induced due to hypertension and ended up having pre-eclampsia twice after giving birth, plus passing a kidney stone in between each incident of pre-eclampsia. Baby and I spent 6 days in the hospital. She has severely low blood sugar and severe jaundice. I
If I could back and do it over, I would not have been induced at 37 weeks. I would have waited to give birth on my own.
And breastfeeding hurts too lmao. Like it’s a scientific miracle and a beautiful bonding experience, but fuck, it sure is painful sometimes too lol.
1:46 People go on and on about ‘Cat Lady’ and use it as an insult but what’s wrong with that? It’s fun.
Because then she’s not being subservient to a man!!!!!! (Well, a human man, anyway) /s
Men will tell themselves anything to convince themselves women are miserable without them. We're not.
right?? i foster elderly cats and it’s the best
Honestly being a cat lady is my dream. I have a bf but we don't want kids and plan on being cat people together, so it's pretty great
These kinds of men hate cats for the same reason they hate women: Cats demand respect and consent, and they hate that.
The difference between this one and bad women's anatomy is that this one also covers generalizations about women and girls unrelated to anatomy. Like "all girls think X" or "every woman will leave you if you show emotions"
Right, bad women's anatomy is for a specific subset of this specific phenomenon, because there's enough of it specifically to get its own thing
the living with 8 cats one is literally my dream
Bro imagine all the litterbox cleaning you'd have to do tho
@@ek0dev i did not think abt that
@@ek0dev but its probably worth it
@@zoe4277 true
It would be important to make sure all the cats get along with each other aswell
@@ek0dev they will and im gonna be their servant lmaooo
I’m a lesbian who also identified as bi for years, and in my experience it’s as if men just cannot help themselves with the junk pics. Like bro, if I wanted to see a bunch of mini-meat I’d go to a New Year’s party and slam some cocktail weiners.
i don't understand that they are adults.... get it together
@@b.o.3815 Lmao so you're just here to try and defend men then?
@@Terminallyposessed Wait, what do you mean?? They seem to be agreeing with the original comment.
@@Just_Juiceb0x nah this guy is here throughout the comments defending shitty actions by men so I doubt it.
@@Terminallyposessed Ah, I didn't know that. I've only seen this one. 😅
The ONLY thing I’ve been told is worse than childbirth, according to some of my moms friends, is kidney stones. It is important to note that, after telling me this, they immediately followed it up with, “but you shouldn’t compare pain like that, they’re different kinds of pain, and its not really a contest. They both hurt, that’s what matters.”
I didn’t see why they felt they needed to tell me that at the time. But now, hearing the dude in this video, I think they were just making sure I didn’t get the wrong idea and end up like him. I’m gonna thank them next time I see them.
I haven't given birth and don't plan to, but I've had a fairly bad kidney stone. My buddy had one too, and he looked like DEATH. They can be rough.
Makes sense. It’s pushing big things out of smaller holes, they’d prob be fairly comparable. And at least with childbirth it’s something that’s meant to be happening, and Babies usually aren’t rocks covered with tiny spikes
So people who have given birth and had kidney stones have generally agreed that they are very similar on the pain scale except contractions are more of a tight squeezing pain whereas kidney stones tend to be more sharp or sudden then a dull throb. So similar in actual pain levels but different in feel. The majority of women I’ve heard have said that they’d prefer kidney stones to giving birth because their labour lasted longer than the kidney stone pain, with kidney stones they were offered better and more effective pain relief options and they didn’t have associated back pain, neck pain, bloating or other pregnancy symptoms at the same time to deal with.
i'm definitely a homesteader as much as it's possible for me. i do it mostly to save money. i bake my own bread, i cook and bake a ton, i try to grow veggies on my balcony and i absolutely love cleaning. nothing funnier than having an incel fawn over me as a "tradwife" and then destroying their illusions because i would never waste my homemaking skills on a toxic manbaby.
same i really like sewing/embroidery/just mending stuff but id never do it for a sexist jerk lol
9:65 there is a fine line between "alpha males" and a/b/o fanfiction and this guy is erasing it 😭
He wants to be an omega so bad
Pffffft amazing
When I saw "a/b/o" I thought you meant blood types and was confused for a hot second 💀
@@wolvie1618 Ok that would kind of make sense if that existed LMAO
Like character tropes based off their blood types?
I don’t know if I am descending into madness or if thats not something that sounds like it’s a real fanfiction
@@kenos911 I’m pretty sure that’s sort of a thing in Japan?
My Japanese teacher’s wife (who he met in Japan) accurately guessed his blood type based on his personality, so I do imagine that it is a thing.
Gonna say this as a man who was raised with a lot of misinformation about women that I learnt from men; these kinds of videos are so validating to my efforts to get things right when it came to the other end of the gender spectrum.
Good job on unlearning misinformation that was distilled into you, that takes a lot of effort
I'd love to help you on your journey if you'd let me
We appreciate you!
As a guy who almost fell into a rabbit hole of misogyny and misinformation, I feel you, I still have the random, terrible thoughts like the ones where my brain tries to reason with these incels who clearly just hate women. I’m glad you’ve also realized how harmful that rhetoric is and are working to change!
Can we pls start making men feel like their weewees will get smaller if they do the dirty omg pleaseeeee
Also we should stop saying that girls friend zone guys and start saying that guys hookup zone girls. Cuz that’s what’s really happening
I saw a meme of it on instagram and you better believe I reposted it to my story right away
As an asexual AFAB, these sorts of "discussions" and "arguments" never fail to baffle the heck out of me
same 😭😭
man the whole idea that nice guys dont get sex or girls is so stupid. my boyfriend is the nicest guy i know, and i can barely keep my hands off him - everything about him is attractive to me, even though I know that buy these guys' standards, he is too short, too thin, doesn't have a strong enough jawline, the list would go on. but i look at him and im very attracted to AND love him.
The thing is these people think that "nice guy" means a guy that does good things just to get something out of it
They don't consider that some people are actually nice just because they're nice, and aren't expecting to be rewarded for it
It comes down to semantics, and the underlying meaning of "nice". Your person sounds respectful. Being "nice" means you act passively, and hide the truth behind white lies. Nice guys can't muster up the courage to be direct and thus put the onus of everything on the woman they're lusting over.
@EchoDev oh, fair enough. I'm operating not on that whole Nice Guy idea but instead on the literal definition of niceness. because going off the beliefs that these alpha male types like to peddle - that you need to be alpha and essentially a pos towards women and need to be controlling or othwrwise abusive in order to keep her - is the only way to get sex. they like to say women arent attracted to nice betas and will choose them after having a ton of sex with alphas or whatever else, but completely ignore the many "betas" who arent what they think women go for who are actually getting consistent good sex AND a partner who cares for their best interest.
@Zephyr I disagree. You can be nice and diplomatic, which doesnt mean you're engaging in white lies. eg he can and has said "it hurt me when you said/did xyz" as opposed to "you were acting like a bitch" - both convey similarly that i didnt act kindly to him but one is more diplomatic and allows the relationship to repair instead of adding fuel to the flames. On top of that, voicing this IS still showing kindness and a desire to sustain the relationship, as opposed to staying silent and not saying anything because hes too passive or scared. This would make a relationship doomed to fail.
I also disagree with the idea that niceness is inherently passive. If someone drops something and you go out of your way to help pick it up or if you hold a door open for as long as it takes someone to reach you, that is an active choice and a deliberate action that you go out of your way to do because it's a nice thing to do. being passive is often being apathetic to those around you. being nice is being deliberate and thoughtful of others' feelings enough to act in ways that are nice or to minimize damage where possible (eg in the example above, where he has to give feedback relating to others' actions in order to preserve the relationship).
7:40
I have never been so motivated to drink water while standing up. Keep hydrated y'all! 💕
Uhg i hate it when my uterus weakens when i drink from my bottle, almost as uncumfortable as when it falls out when on a train. /s
I hate always having to tape it up when travelling. One time it fell out and I wouldn't have noticed and would've just carried on if it weren't for a kind stranger who pointed it out. I could've accidentally left it in another country!
this is the perfect day - i'm doing a rocks and minerals puzzle, watching my current favorite commentary youtuber, while eating a frozen pizza (it's not frozen anymore). this is the life.
you're not supposed to eat frozen pizza... frozen?? I mean it literally says that on the box
Living life, pal ::3 ♡
@@smartiesmcflurry6755 your cat pfp is cute
that's cool and all but i prefer my pizza ice cold :/
whats a rocks and minerals puzzle? :0
18:00 one time in high school, a guy that i was really good friends with sat me down and told me he was in love with me and had been since we first met. i was nervous about turning him down because i didn't want to lose him as a friend, so i told him that, and he said "it's ok that you don't feel the same way, i may want more with you but i care about you as a person and don't want to lose you. i'd rather stay your friend and still have you in my life than get angry about you rejecting me and lose you forever."
we just celebrated our one year wedding anniversary.
Happy [late] anniversary!🎉
kings, queens, and monarchs, I dutifully remind you all that you all have 10/10 qualities, take it from someone who likes all.
The thing about unsolicited di*k pics is the unsolicited part is the issue. If someone is cool with it that’s fine. Don’t just send them. That’s hella weird.
I wonder if you could do a video on AITA specifically the relationship ones. I recently saw one from a guy that made a super inappropriate joke about a woman that got a c-section and his gf left the dinner. I’d like to hear your opinion on this stuff.
yes! there are certain occasions where it's fine, like if you're exchanging with a partner and you've both consented.
"wdym? I would Love getting unsolicited nudes" *gets off on making recipients uncomfortable*
@@nari5161 exactly! And then act like you are the assh*le when you get mad. 🙄
@@AnnamarieForcino consent is totally key.
@@nari5161 Exactly. I don't buy that they don't know it's unwanted. Not most of them at least.
I was so happy to hear you’ve recovered and so happy to be sinning again with this lovely community 👏🏽
thank u for being here! :~)
my mom is a gyno and she can confirm that drinking water while you stand up will break your uterus! please be safe Annamarie and only drink water in a horizontal position as to not put pressure on your reproductive system
I bet that one guy just said that women "ran low on oxytocin" because they actually fell out of love with him over time, there can't really be another explanation 🙈
Or has no tongue game
18:28 I love (hate) how this guy says that putting that in your bio is pointless when he then a IMMEDIATELY goes on to say that men are only interested in sex. Dude, you’re basically proving that there IS a need to put that in your bio.
I have always been of this mindset since I have been sexually active, men that demand or pressure women to have anal need to be willing to experience it the same way; I mean the exact same way they are trying to get the women to have anal with them. So if they're not trying to prep, if they're not doing any foreplay, if they're not trying to relax a woman and really get them comfortable with it. If they don't, they should be okay with having anal the exact same way even if it's just with a toy. If you don't, if you aren't willing to do that then you need to leave them alone and stop asking for it and stop complaining about the fact that women are saying it hurts.
Pro tip: if the guy asks and you agree and then they immediately back off about anal: they like that you don't want to do anal. When you enthusiastically agree to anal it takes away that implied lack of consent that some men like.
Honestly I would love to see someone confront those guys with that. See how eager they are to get pegged lmao. They'll throw a hissy fit so fast they'll relapse back into being a toddler.
10000%
it's like they all lack empathy, brains etc. Men: ''mine is a one-way only!'', mine too!!!!
So many also claim to be freaky and hot in the bedroom: but what they mean is they love to DO THOSE GROSS THINGS TO SOMEOEN ELSE, never to experience them.
They are in fact, so fragile and shallow.
Why are any women having anal sex in the first place? There are gay men for this.
I’m a nurse and I can’t imagine telling someone their rotten tooth is more painful than childbirth, so I’m really doubting his story. I’ve told my patients that apologize for crying or “acting like a baby” that broken bones are apparently some of the worst pain imaginable, (because that info is included in my trauma education) but I’ve never tried to invalidate someone else’s pain or compare it to a completely different experience. Not to mention, pain is subjective. I can have an 80 year old granny who asks for Tylenol for a broken hip and a 23 year old man hysterically crying over a broken toe. We just treat pain based on what they report.
Dudes seem to really want to play down childbirth pain like it will make people want to carry a kid. Or they want to make it seem like it’s not as bad as people say because they want to feel tough by comparison? Or make others seem weak? Thing is with a tooth abscess you don’t have months of growing and carrying a mass inside your body and the risk to develop 100 different health complications beforehand, during, and after giving birth. You experience less risk of death, and afterwards the healing is probably a lot less hard on you when you don’t have to juggle keeping a new human alive while your insides repair themselves. Give people who agree to give birth credit - because it’s not a walk in the park even if there’s the potential for reduced pain levels during labour.
I mean but think about it: It has worked.
Most of our society sees pregnancy and childbirth as not a big deal. They've successfully made people ignore or forget that it's stupidly dangerous and has a significant chance for death. It's getting spoken about better now.
3:07 I am always trying to "normalize", menstruating. I'm currently on my fourth day of menstruating and have told strangers and my one friend that I am. If it's relevant to the conversation, I don't hold back.
Like, I feel so drained right now and want everyone to know that I can't be my "normal", self right now. The heat outside has made me feel even worse. I don't get my period all to often because of thyroid issues, but when I do get it, it is awful. And I especially hate when you wake up and think the bleeding has slowed or stopped, but then you try and go about your day and it's like "whoosh".
I saw a notification for this post earlier and I just realized I'm on my period again right now.
So odd to have had it two months in a row.
The idea that drinking water standing up will cause some sort of grand canyon style erosion to the uterus is wild. Like I want someone to ask this man to draw what he thinks human organs are like, it'd be hilarious in a depressing sort of way.
An abscessed tooth is more painful than childbirth?! 🤪 BRO THAT NURSE WAS MOCKING YOU hahahahahaha
Definitely was talking shit about him in post with the others after he left
I love how we're expected to do self care, hair, makeup, nails etc. for hours so we are the prettiest version of ourselves, but we can't admire our beauty when we are our "best self" and feeling confident?
They really forget that appearance is a subjective perception. I could find someone ugly while someone else could find the same person as very attractive.
Like??? Do people not realise that we all see things differently?
Honestly, after having given birth without any drugs, the uterus being weakened by drinking water makes me almost outraged haha the uterus is so fucking strong! I am like offended on behalf of uteruses because of that comment XD
“What an awful day it is to know how to read” took me out 😂 I love your video so much 16:21
That "president of the manosphere" guy is also one of the guys who organized the 22 convention if you needed a better picture of how weird he is
so he's the mastermind behind the Shitty Guy Convention™?
@@AnnamarieForcino yup. Same guy who compared pink hats to white hoods
Fun fact: your pet can also increase oxytocin and decrease cortisol.
9:07 "you don't want your uterus to fall out!"
me, an afab nonbinary person who doesn't want kids: I don't? 😆😅
Everybody likes nice. If someone tells you „you are too nice for me“, the are often saying „you are devoid of any personality and just agree with everything I do or say and have no opinions, suggestions, interests, hopes, dreams of your own“ in a nice way.
16:50 as someone who has eaten lots of doughnuts, I can guarantee that the bottom doughnut will be better. The sugar icing shell detracts from the simplicity of the doughnut. Some people call the bottom version "Plain", but I prefer "Real Doughnut".
If a man ever calls himself an Alpha imma call him a furry and then yell “Bro this guy thinks he’s a wolf!!!”
Friendly neighborhood queer nurse practitioner here to say that yes, can confirm, your esophagus goes directly to your uterus and that is absolutely how bodies work. (No. This is factually untrue. Please. My blood pressure.) also thank you our alpha sinner for bringing us such rad content.
In the piercing/consent thing the guy’s missing the whole point of why they’re willing to go through the pain of waxing or piercing because they get something out of it. If we think of it as an analogy an*l would be like getting waxed and the esthetician that waxed you ends up with smooth legs with no pain
There are 3 important things, for EVERY part of life that people need to adhere to.
First one is whether or not you chose to be there/do this.
Whether that be at the pedicure, the snackbar, in bed or at the dentist.
Second, whether you have controll, if you can stop them or change and influence things. Can you decide the design at the hairdresser, can you stop the doctor when it hurts, can you ask for no ketchup at the snackbar?
And last, whether the person in general, cares about you and shows genuine caring.
Once one of those 3 is missing, even getting a few groceries can end up terrifying. Imagine being at the hairdresser against your will. Or having to buy flipflops in the store that are not even your size, but you are forced to. All three points need to be respected, everywhere.
5:45 If a guy thinks that when a woman says "no" to something, she actually means "yes", that's all you need to know about him.
you just scared the life out of me because I was just washing my menstrual cup and you just told me the exact one I had and I was definitely ready for you to walk into my bathroom for a chat, breaking the 4th wall 😭😭😭
Men act like this and get upset about girls liking girls
Hell yeah! My favorite commentary RUclipsr posts again!!!
Humans also release oxytocin when interacting with dogs too. I spend all day every day with my dog, and cuddle her at night, so i should've run out about a good 6 years ago. Gotta buy more
& Cats. Animals in general.
Are you telling me my puppy is the one who has been stealing my oxytocin? I was wondering where it all went 😔
As an Ace that plainly puts “not looking for sex”
It’s not true that it doesn’t repel men. For some reason it becomes a competition to change my mind :(
BABE WAKE UP ANNAMARIE JUST POSTED
7:00 The first rule of a study is having a sample that’s REPRESENTATIVE and you did just that. So, the academic tweet paper is successful.
Bruh I had a giant abscess in my foot and a bunch of small ones on my sciatic nerve and it was the worst pain I had ever experienced. However...pain It's so different for everybody what could hurt for one person might not her at all for another. Some people have had very easy child births and some really terrible like ew. I hate when people compare their pain anyway and try to invalidate another person's pain because they believe that there's as worse but that 1 really ticked me off
As a trans man, I will drink water badly for now one, thank you so muuuch
Same but I'm gender-fluid
Ditto
As a 43 yo woman who has been menstruating since I was 10, hearing Annamarie say "half my life" and realizing I've been menstruating for over 30 years, about made me fall out of my chair. 😩
I'm a ten to myself and my partner and that's all that matters
Calling out women for being confident is just calling yourself out as miserable.
When you get a little older and wiser, it becomes funny. I understand why they think it works, because they target younger women where that kind of negging could produce results. But the few times I've had it tried on me in recent years has been truly laughable.
Well like Contrapoints pointed out some time ago that is quite often the reason why they act the way they act.
15:28 this reminds me of another tweet where it’s like “women will say their periods hurt but will never know this pain” and it was a picture of rolling your ankle
I saw an ad for how to pick up women in the middle of this video and they could not have picked a worse place for that
The ad began with “you need to listen to this simple FACT. Women are always on their phones-“ and then I simply could not continue any further. Please find out where this man got his discount whole sale audacity so I can restock my own
As a professional woman opener, I am on the run from the police. 😰
As some one who has experienced both labor and delivery and an absest tooth they are different pain by tooth made me want to unlive my self and labor I wanted to unalive everyone else and throw myself off a bridge after I got the tooth removed I was instantly relived with a couple days of soreness but after delivery will I had my beautiful baby I was still in pain for weeks. With little relief as I was breastfeeding, so no painkillers like after having a tooth removed.
Edit:And what's worse is needing a tooth removed while pregnant. Guess what they won't touch it you just have to deal with the pain until the pregnancy has come to a natural end. So imagine being in the hospital in labor and your in pain tip and bottom.
Not directly about your video but I'm a childfree person who's been getting nothing but pampers ads, having those pop up with this video is hilarious. The timing has been impeccable. 😂
I think most women can tell when "niceness" is just being used as a means to an end.
for the tattoos, piercings, and waxing; there is usually prep for that. numbing cream and cleaning the area. if the an-l is painful, prep is NOT being done right or at all.
I was working out at the gym not too long ago and saw a guy there with a shirt that said 'I [heart] hot moms'. Yeah, I no longer felt comfortable working out in front of him, or at all really. That just makes a really uncomfortable environment to be in because all I want to focus on is, you know, working out.
As someone who has given birth twice and also had to have $20K worth of dental work done (largely due to mineral depletion from the pregnancies XD) I can promise you that labor and childbirth is leagues and miles and kilometers and tons out of the sphere of even touching on dental pain. I’ll have my entire mouth ripped out and replaced before I push another human through my cervix.
The "you are a libra man, you are a walking red flag" got me especially as a queer femme libra who has weirdly had either relationships/situationships with mostly libra men lmao
My last ex was a Libra man. Never again
The rating thing reminds me of a subreddit I heard about where they ban basically anyone who rates a girl above like a 6 because there's no way that ONE girl is the 1:10,000 or 1:100,000 that actually fits the hippocritical qualifiers for it.
Ok I'm a cis guy and just looked up how a menstrual cup works and wow... How do you not spill it? Im guessing you choose a very particular moment to remove it. Keep your chins up god's strongest warriors
Also when are they gonna make a Dante's inferno themed 7 layer collapsible cup
Well, generally you pull it out by the end, depending on the cup pushing a side of the cup with a finger to get rid of the vacuum type thing that keeps it stuck needs to be done too. Since you pull it down the cup should stay up right and generally a cup shouldn't be overflowing, than you should change it more often, so once out it is actually pretty easy to dispose and clean without causing a mess. Thank you for educating yourself on these things even if it doesn't technically concern you directly, wish that was more common.
To answer your question: you take them out when you’re sitting on the toilet, so you’re going to tip them out anyway. They’re also decently deep so if you take them out every X hours like the box suggests you shouldn’t have to worry about it being overfilled or easy to spill. I believe they’re best for certain flows as well.
@@timburtonluver28 ahhh, yeah I guessed so but didn't wanna say it out loud 😂
@@mewt5358 it’s no worries! We all got bodies that have to carry out certain functions - so it’s always better to know as much as possible about them to keep them healthy and make them less shameful and embarrassing.
7:10 For anyone seeing this, if you get an unsolicited sausage in your dm's, reply with:
"That small?"
"🔍🧐"
A bratwurst of your own if you have one
And/or block them
I'd just threaten to send it to everyone in their Facebook friends list 😂😂😂 go ahead and block me, I'll just get on my fiance's page and do it that way. Men need to get out of the habit of doing that. As a woman who finds men attractive, those aren't fun to look at 😂😂😂
also: if they're a minor, delete the picture AND DONT SEND IT AROUND!! that would be possession/sharing of child🌽, but the minor who sent it to you can be charged with child 🌽 production.
I gasped when she was wearing a different shirt and said "Wow! She's wearing a different shirt!"
first: love the little explanation of imprinting, but all that was running through my mind when you said that was; "YOU IMPRINTED ON MY DAUGHTER!?" "AND NICKNAMED HER AFTER A SEA MONSTER!?!" sorry not sorry for the bella jumpscare
I love the little "that was too warm for my liking" AS AN AUTISTIC WOMAN I AGREE SO MUCH I CAN ONLY DRINK COLD WATER THATS OVERFILLED WITH ICE IN MY 2 YEAR OLD PLASTIC WATERBOTTLE COVERED WITH STICKERS, OR I WILL NOT DRINK THE ENTIRE DAY
thanks for coming to my ted talk