@@peachy1525 something like this happened to me back in high school, im a pretty quiet person in class and never speak to anyone cuz of social problems anyway one day i was talking with my friend when a group of my class mates were passing by and all of them just froze still with a shocked expression seeing me having an actual conversation like a normal person when i looked at them they walked away while whispering to eachother but thats not the worse of it they went and told the whole class about it and one guy came up to my desk and said "so you do know how to talk" and i replied with of course i can talk and he asked then why don't you speak with anyone in class but i didn't know how to answer that so i never said anything then the teacher came to the class and i felt like my life was saved and thankfully he never bothered to ask again. Sorry for the long comment
I avoid people but that's because I just don't like to be with people. I would rather be lost in a forest all alone than at a party. So what exactly am I?
This woman that I worked with referred to me as Miss Antisocial because I was quiet. This really pissed me off. I knew what she meant but having anxiety disorder made me sort of a psychology nerd. I had studied countless books on the subject since I was 17 and the fact that she referred to me as antisocial - someone most likely to be a serial killer made me livid. Not only that, but she was obnoxious.
Happened to me as well. Someone attempting to be funny at my expense and called me antisocial. I just corrected her by definition and told her she was stupid for not knowing the difference.
Yeah she should have made fun of you for being asocial, not antisocial. What a dumbass. Let's hope she gets it right the next time and bully people using the proper terms. It's important!
@@TheBackOfTheClassroom no you didn’t you cornball. “Someone attempting to be funny at my expense.” Tells me you’re a sensitive and you get overly emotional at the slightest things. She cracked a joke and you were to soft to handle it as such, so you took it personal.
I'm not anti-social I'm asocial because I get irritated by others easily and get explosive anger around others so I leave people alone and don't talk to anyone ever. I know I'm not anti-social because I feel remorse and guilt frequently.
One of them, it's also that antisocial people are generally NOT loners, they can be very social, actually, but they use their social skills to manipulate rather than genuinely socialize.
It's not necessarily a bad thing, I think. Although at young age you might have set things on fire for fun, hit animals, etc.. But if you have set yourself straight now it wouldn't matter. I myself as a kid and have noticed odd things I have done in my early childhood; I set from paper to insects on fire, at a farm as a school excursion I stabbed a twig into a pig's nose until it squealed, I have poked or hit a chicken with a broom when it was meant to be killed and eaten, I was indifferent when my mother was in danger, I tortured flies, lied relentlessly to people and manipulated people well lying and manipulating I still hold. Also my sarcastic jokes mainly pokes people's weaknesses and some people I know don't take it so well.
You dont need to. Two weeks ago i was sitting on my teracce when i noticed there is my old schoolm8 (i already graduated) that have ever bullied me. I greet him like i miss him so and invite him to drink tea. And when we entered my house i beat him until he was fainted and then i drag him to my kitchen to cut some of his organ. When it's done i dragged him into the flowing river near to my backyard. And for me nothing bad about it. Even the good thing is, i got free food stock by some organs i took from his body part.
it is bullshit... a subjective pscyhopath... but not an objective psychopath... your right it is bullshit... the guy who wants to believe people is a psychopath should grow up, hes a pyscho for believing people are pyschos.. people have their own way of thinking, emotions, feelings, conditions that make them who they are... always than most the benefit of the doubt should be given to people in difficult circumstances rather than the people being being for being difficult... thats what i have learnt.. the benefit of the doubt... always.. people arent naturally difficult, they are put in difficult circumstances that make them that way.. it would be deeply pathetic and immature to see it that way... not just that but primal like an animal.. we aren't instinctual animals.. we are better than that. we are humans...
“Why are you so quiet” “Why don’t you talk” “Does he talk?(to someone around me)” It pisses me off when people do this and I want to bust their teeth in when they do i love being left alone I like having friends but I am never the one to do the approach if you talk to me nicely and you aren’t fake then we could definitely be friends but the other shit people say pisses me off
@ZeiX94 ur not a sociopath. in psychology, a sociopath would never accept that they are one, they think they are perfectly normal and think highky of themselves. u just said you know ur a sociopath, which contradicts what u said
@ZeiX94 and plus sociopaths cant feel anything.. u said u have anger issues, cried for many hours which isnt want sociopaths consist of- feelings. they cant feel pain emotionally. please get ur facts right. ur just an edgy or depressed teen
@@g.quagmire7583 that what they said when I was 16, but after highschool graduation i just stay home all day munching off my well off family barely seeing sunlight and im 21, am i proud..maybe
bad coping mechanism.. a bully is just a subjective term society places on individuals in order to remain faultless and above these people... what one person may think is a bully, to someone else they might not be a bully. not always but sometimes.. we as human beings place labels on people so we can free ourselves from any blame... thats the kinda society we live in.... a scapegoat society... one that stigmatizes indidivuals in order to make up for societys own short comings... societys badge of shame if you like... no its not acceptable what a bully does but they dont do it intentionally... they are forced into those circumstances.. they didnt choose it to happen... they wouldnt unknowingly ''bully''' for no reason.. but often we like to immediately place the blame on people without looking at external factors... labelling people is just society's 'easy way out'.... cowardly way out... society always took the easy path... thats why they invented these labels in the first place... but it is so much more complicated than that... yes a bully may have bullied someone but I still respect him for he is still a human being like everyone else.. and what he really needs... is understanding, support and encouragement to pull him out of the pit of stress and denial... we live in a judgemental society, one that is entirely subjective... not objectively... only listens to emotions and not facts... where emotions are mistakened for the real truth... thats how bad it is... what im trying to say is that I don't like a bullies actions but even then I still respect him as a person... one has to learn how to separate a person from his issues... I dont hate nobody, but their actions... however I its still unacceptable and I come first... I have to practise self defence... address the bully respectfully however if they dont do that, then avoid them, cut them out completely... never see them ever again... a respectful warning first.. then thats it..
a bully is an oversimplistic term for someone who has stress issues, at home, in family, and relationships... I still cant say that i understand bullies fully and why they do it... but I understand this world is a whole lot complicated than is given out... everything happens for a reason.. and I mean that in every meaning of the word... all i know is that they are motivated because of pain and suffering and they need to be listened to... we live in a limited society that often doesnt grant them help, because of limited resources hence why people see the need to ''bully''. I prefer the term 'stressed'... 'burdened'... 1st is defence... but after self defence comes benefit of the doubt... sometimes a bully is just tackling their issues in the wrong way, with aggression or passiveness when really all they need is a nudge to respond to their issues with more greyness and understanding.. but life is complicated... sometimes things cause domino effects.. the bullies are themselves bullied so it makes sense.. not saying its right.. but i understand in part why they do it.. im no expert by any means but I know that it isnt as simple as society gives to be...
I went to a psychiatrist for a while and I thought I was antisocial but he told me I wasn't. I didn't know that what I actually was was asocial and he never used that word. I'm glad to now know what I am instead of thinking there's something wrong with me because I wasn't normal but I wasn't antisocial.
Samantha Currie Do as you wish, but self diagnosing really is the worst thing you can do for yourself, there's a reason psychiatrists go through all that training and it's ridiculous to think a youtube video (however informative and well researched it may be) can compare or make you anywhere near ready to diagnose a problem especially in yourself.
vetren23 or maybe she's actually realized that she just has a hard time making friends because there are too many people like you in this world... assholes in case you don't know what you are
Great job in distinguishing the crucial differences between anti social bullies and us asocial folks who have often been victimized and labeled antisocial by bullies who are antisocial. I prefer Silence to most conversation, especially with those who just want to yell, argue, insult or interrogate people for "fun" and then call those behaviors love and want their fake friends to thank them for abusing them
Kyary4Ever Autism is really complex and can be very different for each person. For example, my sister has autism and she's mute, and has to attend a special needs school. I have asperger's (a type of autism) but can still socialise and stuff (which is why I was diagnosed so late at 15). The reason all the kids you know with autism are "abnormal" or "slow," is because they're the only ones that are noticeable. There are probably a lot more kids with autism that you know about, it's just less obvious so you don't think they're autistic. And what you said about a screen is quite true, a lot of people with autism, especially when they're older, have learnt to "fit in" and keep things mostly internal, so it becomes much less noticeable. You weren't offensive at all, nothing wrong with asking questions and wanting to learn more :) there's a lot more info online if you're interested
Wish i knew the term asocial as I went around explaining my personality as being antisocial for several years. I've got ASD/Aspergers, depression and anxiety so I avoid people. I forced myself to get used to and interact with people to get over the anxiety and autism symptoms while at uni and ended up having a breakdown and had to postpone my studies. So if there's one lesson I've learned it's that you can't always fix yourself. Sometimes you just have to live with it and work around it regardless of what the demands of yourself, your ambitions and society are.
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“Are you okay? I always see you sitting by yourself” yeah, that’s intentional. Not to mention with covid you SHOULD be sitting by yourself. But either way I still CHOOSE to sit by myself. People always assume that being alone means you don’t have friends. Also, you don’t NEED friends, I have none and I’m functioning perfectly well without them.
Now I finally have a solid reason for my brother to stop calling me antisocial. But tbh I don't think I'm asocial either, I just have a very bad opinion on people in general and outside of the internet I've met no one who have been able to make said opinion better.
Psychology isn't a popular subject here in East Asia. Although there are field practitioners in Clinical Psychology, it's mediocre at best, and is seen as taboo. I've often talked about Anxiety/ADHD/Depression/OCD and 100% of the time: people just give you a blank stare. No wonder a lot of people burst into sudden tantrums and commit suicide.
No, not at all. It's just common for people to misuse the term antisocial for asocial behavior. Every culture has it's way of imposing peer pressure. I can't speak for Caucasians, but it's more subtle here in Asia and deeply focused on sizing the person socially, and intellectually.
I was anti-social, I hated everyone and had no problems sharing my hatred. Now I s'pose I'm asocial since I'm no longer angry and just hate socializing with anyone. Good to know, now I can use the proper terms in the proper contexts.
Anti social doesn't mean you hate people in general and don't want to socialise. It's still asocial as it was depicted you felt hostile and that's anger. Anti social is more like a wolf in a sheep's coat metaphor. You can still socialise but you do it to seek a purpose to hurt or use someone in the later stages if I can vaguely put it into words. Because socialising is considered as a normal thing for the general public so ASPD pt's (patients) do this to fit in. As I said hating humans and not socialising aren't necessarily traits for ASPD. But there are many other factors before you call yourself ASPD but for now it's very premature. You might just hate people because most of whom you've met have disappointed you and betrayed you so deeply it changed your general view for humanity.
I claimed to be Antisocial for years , without even knowing the definition of this behaviour.Thanks to you, I just realized that I'm neither Antisocial nor Asocial. I guess I'm an Introvert , and I hope that you'd make a video about that too .
Walking Dead Unite I'm not... It isn't a science. Don't make the mistake of confusing psychiatry with psychology, ones a doctor subject to the rigors of scrutiny, the other a therapist trying to justify their job by calling it a science. A psychologist is guessing, a tarot card reader. You can take any given patient and have five differing opinions on the disorder the patient has and they could all be right and yet not answerable to anyone if they're all wrong.
Sean Tripp So what about all the studies performed in psychology about human behaviour? Or animal training? Just because we don't really know what is going on, doesn’t warrant it being disregarded, if anything it means that it needs to be investigated further.
***** Do we use positive reinforcement by giving a treat to the dog you're training or do we assume that the dog is a family member responsible for their own actions? Currently, the common zeitgeist on dog training is use treats to cultivate obedient behavior, would you do that to your son or daughter? If you would what happens when the treats run out? I've never needed to enslave my dog with that expectation and have a showcase full of trophies proving that teamwork and fellowship with my dog won the day. Today, many therapist, want to isolate their patients as a behavioral modifier, which is only worsening their patients condition, yet they continue the practice. Why? Because they have a vested interest in protecting their "profession" and exempt themselves from scrutiny even at the expense of their patients well being. This is most prevalent in academia, psychologist and "social scientist" are priest in the new inquisition.
+TheCatMurgatroyd the key word is "feels" feels incomplete. the original comment seemed to have acknowledged the fact that it was complete but they said it 'feels' as though it isn't.
Chicken Bathroom yeah, I know... still... it depends on how you see it... when you've come to terms with it that this is the whole character than you'll be okay with it and won't see it as incomplete
I don’t hate people and I have empathy. But I just like to spend time alone reading and researching about something I am interested in. What does that make me?
i just realized i am a bit asocial, i find social interactions and i try to avoided them if possible, and i often act anxious around new people and resent to making new friends, i much prefer to sit some where quietly in my own world in my head with my 'imaginary' friends and enemy's as well as my 'imaginary' self, the character i manipulate to have my good traits and have similar likes and dislikes, but often are fairly flawless
Bellatrix Lestrange Me too, I just feel reluctant to make new friends, because many people around me are just assholes who taught me nothing but shit stuff.
Aren't cruelty to animals and fire setting warnings for homicidal behavior? People with antisocial personality disorder aren't recorded as being sadistic by nature, just callous.
I think that sort of antisocial behavior would be like the defcon 5 of homicidal behavior. Homicidal actions are typically linked to antisocial behavior, I believe. While Antisocial people want to portray a tough character(might be insecure about something), homicidal people might've been outcasts to society, or school. This is all based off of what I've seen and experienced, so I didn't do the studies or research; Just the contemplation, so it might not be a proven fact.
Antisocial behavior makes me sick. The fact that so many support the aggression of the state over voluntary interactions is abhorrent. It's no wonder depression, anxiety, antisocial traits, etc, are getting worse and worse as the state grows exponentially larger.
I first heard the term asocial from this kid in my school... I now explain to people the difference between asocial and anti social because of how frequently people think they're anti-social when they're not. I explain that anti-social is deliberately doing behaviours that aren't social... like violence and such... whilst asocial and being social to alone or more not being interested in being social... like asexual is a lack of interest in having intimate relationships.
GD SparkerBoy / Sparky_01 yes. in psychology psychopaths and sociopaths do not exist it is all aspd. You will never meet a psychologisy who takes psychopathy as valid disorder name
Hi! I'm Delia, im 12 and I don't know if i'm asocial or not (thats kinda why I watched this video). I don't talk to people because I'm too scared that the person I'm talking to won't like me or becouse I'm scared that I will do something stupid. I have 2 friends that say i'm funny. But 'funny' means when I do something stupid and we laugh about it. My parents are mad at me becouse I don't go outside to make friends. Well staying inside is another problem that I have and I actually don't know why. My parents think that I'm obssesed with the internet and I am really staying only on my phone all day and I know it's bad but I have some people there on the internet that I like calling them "friends". Again my parents think I don't talk to people because of my "obssesion" with the internet. It's probably true but I don't know. I want to know what to do to make friends outside and keep in tuch with the internet people. It makes me feel better writing this.
***** Awwwe thank you! I actually hate going outside. I start being a little more "the mean girl" with people who don't understand me. I love my parents but I really can't talk to them. My idea is to just stay like this and talk in like 2 years about it 😂😂😂. I tryed to tell them with my actions amd they just got that "i don't care" and "i can't do anything". Witch is actually what I was always saying to myself all the time.
Thank you for clarifying the differences! As someone who tends to be rather asocial, I always hated hearing the term "antisocial" to describe people like me- that is, when I learned of the differences.
I wouldn't consider myself entirely asocial, because I love talking to people lol but with newfound social anxiety, I prefer small groups, I avoid crowds, and I avoid a lot of social events. I avoid them due to frequent panic attacks. I won't exhibit the anger type behaviours tho. I prefer to socialise in online games than at events. I used to be extroverted but am now rather introverted. When I go somewhere, I usually don't stay long. This change is due to a burnout and increased PTSD symptoms. This video is very helpful. Altho I'm not completely asocial, it will help those who think I am anti-social to understand how I am very much still social.
If I was still in contact with my toxic family members, I would've shown them this, so I could prove to them that they had been wrong for all the years they said I was antisocial. Nope, I'm just asocial. :)
Finally! I thought I was the only one who knew the differences between anti and a social. Everyone just goes and say "dont be such an antisocial" when they see someone shy or alone.
Thanks, oh and all you have to do is put 2 ( - ) a series of word while connecting to both ends. Such as: Here-as well as-Here -as well as- And that's it
Hello, J here...borrowing a friends phone fr....this video helped me realize that I'm asocial. Maybe if some ppl weren't so hateful, critical or manipulative of others, then I wouldn't be as asocial. I consider myself a compassionate , altruistic individual that has had to become more...guarded due to the lessons learned from being gullable in a sometimes seemingly sadistic world. Thanks for these videos....they seem really helpful for us introverted , asocial ppl to learn, cope and accept this knowledge when authentic sources of help are not available in a persons geographical environment. :D - J.F
I have Aspergers and I'm not asocial at all. In fact, I'm confident as fuck and love to hang out with my friends. I don't care what people think and I defend my friends. My Aspergers is a gift, not a disability. :) ~ Tass
Being "straight but gay" means that one is most likely bisexual, but I digress. There are currently no facts nor sources that you included to back up your claim, and there is no common knowledge saying that you cannot have both disorders simultaneously. Your argument is invalid, and your shoddy claim lacks any evidence.
Bisexual is bisexual. When a person is bisexual, they are sexually attracted to male and female individuals. One is not half-straight nor half-gay. That is insulting and an erroneous way to perceive people who considers themselves to have a bisexuality. Also, I can't even take you seriously if you are lacking grammar and punctuation skills.
I'm an asocial, have serious social anxiety, am gaslighted every day, am shy, bullied, and was driven into depression. Suicide is a daily thought for me. Everyone, every day, either calls me names or manipulates me into hating myself more. There used to be one thought in my head, that 'its going to get better.' Well, that was six years ago. And I don't see things getting better any time soon. Case in point: i am hated by everyone (including myself) and I struggle through life hoping something gets better. Also, and though it may not matter, I am middle child, and our family has been surviving on old instant noodles every day. I STAY DETERMINED!!!!!
I'm antisocial, because half of the school students i wish die horribly, altho i keep it inside myself, but once my nerves explode i flip tables and throw chairs, halp me ples.
I typically avoid people most of the time. I have a hard time making new friends even when I want to. I just can't seem to latch on to anyone. But I think this is due with my constant anxiety when I'm around people. I don't think I'm asocial, I'm not hostile I'm the quietest most timid person you'll ever meet. I have frequent bursts of anxiety (that's the only way I could describe it) when I'm around people. My throat squeezes and hurts, I sweat a lot and my jaw tightens. They go on until the interaction is over. Even when I'm confident about the situation they still happen.
This one dude in my class asks me every day if im "antisocial" because i dont talk and be loud in class ...he needs to get his facts straight lol im nothing like antisocial 😂😂
I think I’m asocial. I used to be the most social kid ever, I grew up to my parents never letting me go out on my own or with friends. If they ever did I will have to be stuck with their asses and then ofcourse you can’t do anything that makes you feel comfortable because everything is “inappropriate” in their eyes. They made me into who I am now, I am exactly the opposite of who I used to be years ago, they drew out hope and fun in me. I started accepting that they would never let me go put with friends or myself. And I didn’t want to go put with them because thats hell. So then I started liking to sit home all weekends and do nothing except drown myself in social media and food. Overtime I started hating being around people and lpve being alone, I hate being in the some room with some. I love being left alone in a closed room with internet, bed, and food. That is all I need and I will be okay edit: honestly the best examples i came up with is. Its like putting a bird into a cage and telling it to fly
Man, i find myself in antisocial group, i don't have a girlfriend, that's piss me off... i don't how to fix that, but it's ok and healthy to control or lying people... because life it's just for the strongest guys 😒
billy kong shut up, it's internet and he feels that he has to tell someone his problems, and that is exactly how i feel Aster of Stars i would like, if u want so, to speak with u bcz i think we are so similar
I'm incredible Asoicial.When people ask me to hang out I make excuses.Not because I don't like them but because it makes me super nervous and uncomfortable.
I got diagnosed as asocial 3 years ago. It's true that I kind of avoid people and interacting with them often. I was isolated as a kid, punished for human things like going to the bathroom in the middle of the night, and I was abused a lot as a child and teen. Bullied, the only outcast, rebelling against my family for being so inhumane toward me and my sisters, Never got to be an individual. I am kind of hostile at first when I just meet somebody, but if I get to know them, I warm up. I'm in therapy re-learning the wheel of emotions...my experiences shut me down to anything I've been feeling deep down.
How come the dictionary defines antisocial as : not sociable or wanting the company of others. and asocial as: avoiding social interaction; inconsiderate of or hostile to others? o_O This is now confusing. D: It sounds like a sociopath if someone is antisocial. D: I used to know a girl who does all those things, she used to manipulate people around her and start huge fights then turn it around to make out she did nothing. She'd lie about all kinds of things and be super nice to you then turn suddenly and get really nasty and play on your fears and self doubt. It was horrible.
Hey Holy, thanks for the question. It's interesting, but technically, it's supposed to be the other way around. Antisocial is someone who's inconsiderate or hostile towards others, whereas asocial is not wanting the company of others. I guess.. it just goes to show why the terms are misused. It sounds like the girl you mention would fit more into the antisocial definition. But at the same time, she may also not like being with others too.. or is asocial. I mean everyone has their problems so maybe she had a difficult upbringing or something just causes her to do that. Hard to say.. but being understanding would be a good start. Maybe try to figure out why she is like that?
Psych2Go I did try hard to understand her, but she got more and more aggressive and nasty with me. She used to say some really awful things like no one wanted me around and that I needed to kill myself. She actually had a really good upbringing, her parents were lovely but for some reason she was just not very nice. I do believe she was diagnosed with something at one point, but refused to take the medication for it and sold it at university. :S
I got one of these people into my life years ago, and only just discovered this disorder this year. Am blow away because I always knew there was something strange and wrong about him, but my gracious nature which he knew to exploit, allowed him to get a foot hold on my life. It's weird because he is a friend, yet I do not trust him even after years. To cut tires with these people is nearly impossible.
well then... i have half antisocial characteristics, some psychopath characteristics (a bit more than half), some asocial characteristics... well shit....
i hate talking to people, i hate when people suddenly talk to me or ft me, that's annoying, and i really hate someone who suddenly smile to me. anddddddd i also hate it when people just "hey r u alright?" idk why but i found that annoying, stop caring abt me i dont like it. ok now what am i
Charlie Hill That's because Asocial isn't real and they're bickering about a word that has two definitions. Anti social can be a mental disorder AND a personality trait.
I'm literally just asocial because it's just bad to see my friends hate or betray me, so I tend to not make friends anymore, don't know if there are any real ones out there...
Lol I just realized Social Anxiety Disorder is S.A.D
Lol
Midnight Mountan lion PHANNNNNNDOM
Maybe cause when you have Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) you're sad
Midnight Mountan lion looooooooolooool that funny. but serious 😐
David Bowie sama sensei senpai san sama kun its both bro
I feel sad. Everyone says "she's so quiet, She is super quiet, She doesn't talk." Ugh
Chante Vu Yeah your not the only one. Not too long ago I was asked a question and as I was answering some fucker blurted out “wait you talk?!”
@@peachy1525 something like this happened to me back in high school, im a pretty quiet person in class and never speak to anyone cuz of social problems anyway one day i was talking with my friend when a group of my class mates were passing by and all of them just froze still with a shocked expression seeing me having an actual conversation like a normal person when i looked at them they walked away while whispering to eachother but thats not the worse of it they went and told the whole class about it and one guy came up to my desk and said "so you do know how to talk" and i replied with of course i can talk and he asked then why don't you speak with anyone in class but i didn't know how to answer that so i never said anything then the teacher came to the class and i felt like my life was saved and thankfully he never bothered to ask again. Sorry for the long comment
pe achy OMG SAME I WANTED TO FUCKING PUNCH THEM IN THE FUCKING FACE
Pls this is me 😭
dude, you just literally described me •~•
I avoid people but that's because I just don't like to be with people. I would rather be lost in a forest all alone than at a party. So what exactly am I?
Flitx The Destroyer animal
like me :)
Yuh and people treat us abnormal beings
Introverted :?
or shy, idk.
im asocial... asocial mess *mic drop*
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
ReZisT Lust ahahahahahaaHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAGAHAGAGAHAGAGAHAHSHSHS *had heart attack*
me to
me too :(
I think you all are just introverted.
Cruelty to animals, setting fire, and being disobedient, you know who that reminds me of... Azula from the Avatar the Last Airbender
Midnight Panda oh my gosh I was just thinking the same exact thing! ( the "setting illegal fires" thing was genius!)
Michelle Burns Ikr for real though it describes her perfectly
Holy crap I miss that show so much
Natsu Dragneel I should warn you not to set things on fire too Nastu, Lucy won't like it of you burn down her apartment.
Natsu Dragneel ikr I miss it a lot too but I am still an active fan 😊
I'm asocial, because I have always felt like social interactions are fake, they are just using you. They don't take you seriously.
This video was released when Psych2Go was at its lowest ebb. I wouldn’t take it seriously.
Yep they only want to socialize because it benefits them
Psychosis?
Eh, what if I just don't like people? I tend to regret any social interaction because people are usually either assholes or just plain stupid.
late bloomer This.
misantropath maybe just like me. for fuck sake
yup blame everyone else for your lack of sociability
Jesus Christ Where did I:
1. Claim to not be sociable, and
2. Blame anyone?
Also, this*.
Unerring 01 Its called reading between the lines
This woman that I worked with referred to me as Miss Antisocial because I was quiet. This really pissed me off. I knew what she meant but having anxiety disorder made me sort of a psychology nerd. I had studied countless books on the subject since I was 17 and the fact that she referred to me as antisocial - someone most likely to be a serial killer made me livid. Not only that, but she was obnoxious.
Yes, but the woman who called me antisocial didn't know that. She had gotten antisocial and asocial confused as people often do.
Screw that b**ch :( let go of those poeple,just forget and forgive
Happened to me as well. Someone attempting to be funny at my expense and called me antisocial. I just corrected her by definition and told her she was stupid for not knowing the difference.
Yeah she should have made fun of you for being asocial, not antisocial. What a dumbass. Let's hope she gets it right the next time and bully people using the proper terms. It's important!
@@TheBackOfTheClassroom no you didn’t you cornball. “Someone attempting to be funny at my expense.” Tells me you’re a sensitive and you get overly emotional at the slightest things. She cracked a joke and you were to soft to handle it as such, so you took it personal.
I don't talk to people and I prefer to be alone, but I'm not aggressive to anyone. What does that make me? Just an introvert?
Probably.
a teen
Sane.
Normal.
Dog Craws I was like that before I became a teenager though.
Oh i always thought i was an Anti-social but im actually an Asocial.😮
And I'm just an A-hole or so I've been told.
Michael Anthony well you dont seem like one.
+Michael Anthony Me too, do I get the the Asocial moniker if everyone else avoids me?
Sakura black I'm asocial too
dieauferstehung are you talking to me?😕
I'm not anti-social I'm asocial because I get irritated by others easily and get explosive anger around others so I leave people alone and don't talk to anyone ever. I know I'm not anti-social because I feel remorse and guilt frequently.
This is exactly how I feel glad to know I'm not alone :')
So the difference between asocial and antisocial is that u feel guilty or not? Is that what it is?
I'm asocial AND antisocial, so you can bet my life's fun
One of them, it's also that antisocial people are generally NOT loners, they can be very social, actually, but they use their social skills to manipulate rather than genuinely socialize.
i've described myself as antisocial i wish i could fix that mistake now
okay asocial is wrong too
i'm antisocial and i don't know why i like it.... should it bother me?
It's not necessarily a bad thing, I think. Although at young age you might have set things on fire for fun, hit animals, etc..
But if you have set yourself straight now it wouldn't matter.
I myself as a kid and have noticed odd things I have done in my early childhood; I set from paper to insects on fire, at a farm as a school excursion I stabbed a twig into a pig's nose until it squealed, I have poked or hit a chicken with a broom when it was meant to be killed and eaten, I was indifferent when my mother was in danger, I tortured flies, lied relentlessly to people and manipulated people well lying and manipulating I still hold. Also my sarcastic jokes mainly pokes people's weaknesses and some people I know don't take it so well.
You dont need to. Two weeks ago i was sitting on my teracce when i noticed there is my old schoolm8 (i already graduated) that have ever bullied me. I greet him like i miss him so and invite him to drink tea. And when we entered my house i beat him until he was fainted and then i drag him to my kitchen to cut some of his organ. When it's done i dragged him into the flowing river near to my backyard. And for me nothing bad about it. Even the good thing is, i got free food stock by some organs i took from his body part.
@@constantiniasmith4231 stop fantasizing dude no one would be dumb enough to murder someone and post it online unless prison has wifi and computer
Ig I totally misunderstood what antisocial actually means until now
:)
This is bullshit. They're treating it like psychopathy
it is bullshit... a subjective pscyhopath... but not an objective psychopath... your right it is bullshit... the guy who wants to believe people is a psychopath should grow up, hes a pyscho for believing people are pyschos.. people have their own way of thinking, emotions, feelings, conditions that make them who they are... always than most the benefit of the doubt should be given to people in difficult circumstances rather than the people being being for being difficult... thats what i have learnt.. the benefit of the doubt... always.. people arent naturally difficult, they are put in difficult circumstances that make them that way.. it would be deeply pathetic and immature to see it that way... not just that but primal like an animal.. we aren't instinctual animals.. we are better than that. we are humans...
@@tommychappell6359 do you even know what a psychopath is???
Same too u n i am asocial
I'm asocial ._. In the way I don't like to talk to people or be near people
Kawaii Bunny hahaha😂😂😂 nerd
@@warfruins5897 Nerds like Bill Gates that make billions? Cool.
Me too
@@warfruins5897 that’s a compliment😌
@@warfruins5897 bruh wtf being a nerd is obviously not something to insult about what are you a middle schooler?
I just hate people in general :l
Cathy Qurino edgy
Let's form misanthropy club?
Troller Inc. oder auch deine mutter that's edgy get anti edgy therapy
Kolev Antonio im so edgy i have murdered someone by cutting him with my edge
Troller Inc. oder auch deine mutter CRAWLING IN MY SKINNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
unprofessional opinion is right. Someone who is Psychopathic can also be as non-violent as any other person
But they are more likely to premeditate violence...
Razi agreeable 👌
Like Sher- wait, he's a Sociopath. Nevermind.
True but extremely rare
no, it's not completely correct. a psychopath is NOT the same thing as a sociopath! they are very different.
“Why are you so quiet”
“Why don’t you talk”
“Does he talk?(to someone around me)”
It pisses me off when people do this and I want to bust their teeth in when they do i love being left alone I like having friends but I am never the one to do the approach if you talk to me nicely and you aren’t fake then we could definitely be friends but the other shit people say pisses me off
That's so me bro
Exactly! Why bother if most of them just act fake? It is way better to be by ourselves than to be sucked into the drama of the fake people.
Hello, are you me? XD
Bruh I never read something so like me before
@@luhsosa8274 "Do you have a condition?"
Raise your hand if you heard this at school many times.
I'm 90% sure I'm asocial.
ZeiX94 nah you’re just an edgy teen.. it’s just a phase you’ll get over it
@ZeiX94 ur not a sociopath. in psychology, a sociopath would never accept that they are one, they think they are perfectly normal and think highky of themselves. u just said you know ur a sociopath, which contradicts what u said
@ZeiX94 and plus sociopaths cant feel anything.. u said u have anger issues, cried for many hours which isnt want sociopaths consist of- feelings. they cant feel pain emotionally. please get ur facts right. ur just an edgy or depressed teen
@@g.quagmire7583 that what they said when I was 16, but after highschool graduation i just stay home all day munching off my well off family barely seeing sunlight and im 21, am i proud..maybe
@@ilikefoodcrazy ok buddy
im an asocial
and the guy who bully me is antisocial
Jay DeBitDew You know what to do...
He could be or just have a bad coping mechanism
Same
bad coping mechanism.. a bully is just a subjective term society places on individuals in order to remain faultless and above these people... what one person may think is a bully, to someone else they might not be a bully. not always but sometimes.. we as human beings place labels on people so we can free ourselves from any blame... thats the kinda society we live in.... a scapegoat society... one that stigmatizes indidivuals in order to make up for societys own short comings... societys badge of shame if you like... no its not acceptable what a bully does but they dont do it intentionally... they are forced into those circumstances.. they didnt choose it to happen... they wouldnt unknowingly ''bully''' for no reason.. but often we like to immediately place the blame on people without looking at external factors... labelling people is just society's 'easy way out'.... cowardly way out... society always took the easy path... thats why they invented these labels in the first place... but it is so much more complicated than that... yes a bully may have bullied someone but I still respect him for he is still a human being like everyone else.. and what he really needs... is understanding, support and encouragement to pull him out of the pit of stress and denial... we live in a judgemental society, one that is entirely subjective... not objectively... only listens to emotions and not facts... where emotions are mistakened for the real truth... thats how bad it is... what im trying to say is that I don't like a bullies actions but even then I still respect him as a person... one has to learn how to separate a person from his issues... I dont hate nobody, but their actions... however I its still unacceptable and I come first... I have to practise self defence... address the bully respectfully however if they dont do that, then avoid them, cut them out completely... never see them ever again... a respectful warning first.. then thats it..
a bully is an oversimplistic term for someone who has stress issues, at home, in family, and relationships... I still cant say that i understand bullies fully and why they do it... but I understand this world is a whole lot complicated than is given out... everything happens for a reason.. and I mean that in every meaning of the word... all i know is that they are motivated because of pain and suffering and they need to be listened to... we live in a limited society that often doesnt grant them help, because of limited resources hence why people see the need to ''bully''. I prefer the term 'stressed'... 'burdened'... 1st is defence... but after self defence comes benefit of the doubt... sometimes a bully is just tackling their issues in the wrong way, with aggression or passiveness when really all they need is a nudge to respond to their issues with more greyness and understanding.. but life is complicated... sometimes things cause domino effects.. the bullies are themselves bullied so it makes sense.. not saying its right.. but i understand in part why they do it.. im no expert by any means but I know that it isnt as simple as society gives to be...
Me everyday : I'm alone af ...maybe I should socialize and have some friends
When someone approaches me : *GeT aWaY of my SiGht litTle piggy*
@@marimo1368 link doesn’t go anywhere?
I went to a psychiatrist for a while and I thought I was antisocial but he told me I wasn't. I didn't know that what I actually was was asocial and he never used that word. I'm glad to now know what I am instead of thinking there's something wrong with me because I wasn't normal but I wasn't antisocial.
Thanks for sharing your story! Happy to hear here that there's something you can relate to and that it answered a question.
Yeh you can't self diagnose, go to a psychiatrist again
vetren23 I've done better figuring some things out by myself rather than paying $250 an hour for a psychiatrist but thanks 🙂
Samantha Currie Do as you wish, but self diagnosing really is the worst thing you can do for yourself, there's a reason psychiatrists go through all that training and it's ridiculous to think a youtube video (however informative and well researched it may be) can compare or make you anywhere near ready to diagnose a problem especially in yourself.
vetren23 or maybe she's actually realized that she just has a hard time making friends because there are too many people like you in this world... assholes in case you don't know what you are
No clear motives? I have a clear motive for every action. It's called "Hell, why not?"
LOL!
Herrman FEGELEIN lmao
Was heißt das sie können Fegelein nicht finden?
''They were bring goddarn idiots'' is also a clear motive. And a rather good one...
Herrman FEGELEIN how are your antics? does the Failüre gets more pissed?
Great job in distinguishing the crucial differences between anti social bullies and us asocial folks who have often been victimized and labeled antisocial by bullies who are antisocial.
I prefer Silence to most conversation, especially with those who just want to yell, argue, insult or interrogate people for "fun" and then call those behaviors love and want their fake friends to thank them for abusing them
Wow my whole life has been a lie
no college just brainwashes you.
I am autistic.
I am asocial.
Thank you for this video, it has taught me this new term.
***** Aww, that's a nice story
I really loved reading this story :)
***** That's nice to know that your life is getting better! :)
Kyary4Ever It's ok to not know what autism is.
It's kind of complicated anyways.
Kyary4Ever Autism is really complex and can be very different for each person. For example, my sister has autism and she's mute, and has to attend a special needs school. I have asperger's (a type of autism) but can still socialise and stuff (which is why I was diagnosed so late at 15).
The reason all the kids you know with autism are "abnormal" or "slow," is because they're the only ones that are noticeable. There are probably a lot more kids with autism that you know about, it's just less obvious so you don't think they're autistic.
And what you said about a screen is quite true, a lot of people with autism, especially when they're older, have learnt to "fit in" and keep things mostly internal, so it becomes much less noticeable.
You weren't offensive at all, nothing wrong with asking questions and wanting to learn more :) there's a lot more info online if you're interested
Taught you wrong:
en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/antisocial
Wish i knew the term asocial as I went around explaining my personality as being antisocial for several years. I've got ASD/Aspergers, depression and anxiety so I avoid people. I forced myself to get used to and interact with people to get over the anxiety and autism symptoms while at uni and ended up having a breakdown and had to postpone my studies. So if there's one lesson I've learned it's that you can't always fix yourself. Sometimes you just have to live with it and work around it regardless of what the demands of yourself, your ambitions and society are.
Finally someone made a video about this!
Hope you found it informative!
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He says aspd and writes apsd
LABJoostmhw Awesome just saw that lol
He also said Assburger syndrome.
these videos are pretty shitty. just wikipedia summaries
I have DSDGHJKLGHTUJFVBH I swear it’s a disease
“Are you okay? I always see you sitting by yourself” yeah, that’s intentional. Not to mention with covid you SHOULD be sitting by yourself. But either way I still CHOOSE to sit by myself.
People always assume that being alone means you don’t have friends. Also, you don’t NEED friends, I have none and I’m functioning perfectly well without them.
I think 1 is essential
Heh.
The person was probably just worried.
@@jacknack6819 probably, but I explained it to him, and he didn't seem to understand. I knew he probably still had good intentions though.
*hears ASPD and watches you write APSD* umm...
xilovesasorix IKR!?!?!?
I'm dyslexic so it took me forever to figure out what was wrong with your post.
I thought the same ;;;
+NeonFluffyCakes cheer up~
Blin Me 2
Now I finally have a solid reason for my brother to stop calling me antisocial. But tbh I don't think I'm asocial either, I just have a very bad opinion on people in general and outside of the internet I've met no one who have been able to make said opinion better.
CassieDere best way to describe it ^
CassieDere that means you haven't met enough people, or you're just a pessimist
Well I'm usually pretty optimistic but when it come to people IRL then yes I'm the biggest pessimist of them all
but you are still antisocial, though.
But I'm NICE. Antisocial people is like sociopaths. I only act like that around my parents. Otherwise I can be a generally nice human being.
“A-S-P-D”
*writes down APSD*
Antipersonal sociality disorder
around 0:48 you say ASPD, yet you write APSD. lol
Good catch!
Psych2Go Thanks!
very good catch XD I didn't even catch in your comment XP
anti-personality social disorder
homestuck?
Psychology isn't a popular subject here in East Asia. Although there are field practitioners in Clinical Psychology, it's mediocre at best, and is seen as taboo. I've often talked about Anxiety/ADHD/Depression/OCD and 100% of the time: people just give you a blank stare. No wonder a lot of people burst into sudden tantrums and commit suicide.
No, not at all. It's just common for people to misuse the term antisocial for asocial behavior. Every culture has it's way of imposing peer pressure. I can't speak for Caucasians, but it's more subtle here in Asia and deeply focused on sizing the person socially, and intellectually.
J. Midnite this is so true
Same here in Southeast Asia
It's not that I'm asocial or antisocial I..just don't have a lot of..friends 😔
Awww... :c why not?
I do but I chose to stay alone they think I’m “anti social “😂
Lonesome Banana hahaha😂😂😂 make friends then loner
Theres nothing wrong with thatttt
same, i wish i could tell people that just cus i don't talk to them doesn't mean i don't want to talk to them :(
Oh crap...
Johan Dale my reaction when I saw the symptoms of asocial^
Danish Dragon 😢
Someone's gonna take this information and goto tumblr and self diagnose themselves lol.
I was anti-social, I hated everyone and had no problems sharing my hatred. Now I s'pose I'm asocial since I'm no longer angry and just hate socializing with anyone. Good to know, now I can use the proper terms in the proper contexts.
Anti social doesn't mean you hate people in general and don't want to socialise. It's still asocial as it was depicted you felt hostile and that's anger.
Anti social is more like a wolf in a sheep's coat metaphor.
You can still socialise but you do it to seek a purpose to hurt or use someone in the later stages if I can vaguely put it into words.
Because socialising is considered as a normal thing for the general public so ASPD pt's (patients) do this to fit in.
As I said hating humans and not socialising aren't necessarily traits for ASPD. But there are many other factors before you call yourself ASPD but for now it's very premature. You might just hate people because most of whom you've met have disappointed you and betrayed you so deeply it changed your general view for humanity.
Kind of had a similar thing
What about people who are just scared to socialize?
Paul Myers shy
Paul Myers That's social anxiety or sometimes avoidant personality disorder
or they are shy :P
Paul Myers I have it.... it's a social anexity in my opinion you should go to teraphy it helps...well it helps me.
Satanic Brendon! *Orgasms*
I claimed to be Antisocial for years , without even knowing the definition of this behaviour.Thanks to you, I just realized that I'm neither Antisocial nor Asocial. I guess I'm an Introvert , and I hope that you'd make a video about that too .
2:20 "Here's a list."
*draws picture of a list*
Psychology isn't a science, it's a religion.
How so?
Can't tell if trolling or not
Walking Dead Unite I'm not... It isn't a science.
Don't make the mistake of confusing psychiatry with psychology, ones a doctor subject to the rigors of scrutiny, the other a therapist trying to justify their job by calling it a science.
A psychologist is guessing, a tarot card reader. You can take any given patient and have five differing opinions on the disorder the patient has and they could all be right and yet not answerable to anyone if they're all wrong.
Sean Tripp So what about all the studies performed in psychology about human behaviour? Or animal training? Just because we don't really know what is going on, doesn’t warrant it being disregarded, if anything it means that it needs to be investigated further.
***** Do we use positive reinforcement by giving a treat to the dog you're training or do we assume that the dog is a family member responsible for their own actions? Currently, the common zeitgeist on dog training is use treats to cultivate obedient behavior, would you do that to your son or daughter? If you would what happens when the treats run out? I've never needed to enslave my dog with that expectation and have a showcase full of trophies proving that teamwork and fellowship with my dog won the day.
Today, many therapist, want to isolate their patients as a behavioral modifier, which is only worsening their patients condition, yet they continue the practice. Why? Because they have a vested interest in protecting their "profession" and exempt themselves from scrutiny even at the expense of their patients well being. This is most prevalent in academia, psychologist and "social scientist" are priest in the new inquisition.
My whole life is a lie
I was always the quiet one, i barely talk, always people keeps telling me "wait, do u talk".. i hate that
When you draw the person like in 1:37, I can't help but think that you should have placed a line that connects the leg.... it feels incomplete
Me too.
they draw them like that... it's not incomplete but it's how they draw that character
+TheCatMurgatroyd the key word is "feels" feels incomplete. the original comment seemed to have acknowledged the fact that it was complete but they said it 'feels' as though it isn't.
Chicken Bathroom
yeah, I know... still... it depends on how you see it... when you've come to terms with it that this is the whole character than you'll be okay with it and won't see it as incomplete
TheCatMurgatroyd i see it as the whole character style and yet i still feel as though something's missing.
welp, I guess I'm just an introvert
I don’t hate people and I have empathy. But I just like to spend time alone reading and researching about something I am interested in. What does that make me?
i just realized i am a bit asocial, i find social interactions and i try to avoided them if possible, and i often act anxious around new people and resent to making new friends, i much prefer to sit some where quietly in my own world in my head with my 'imaginary' friends and enemy's as well as my 'imaginary' self, the character i manipulate to have my good traits and have similar likes and dislikes, but often are fairly flawless
Bellatrix Lestrange Me too, I just feel reluctant to make new friends, because many people around me are just assholes who taught me nothing but shit stuff.
S ane
S ame
@@강현서-c3b same
Same
Damn, after watching this I think I'm a Asocial.
That's been harassed by ASPD poeple all my life.
Great video ( ^_^ )
You could just be introverted.
nice self-diagnosing right there.
PinkLotus fukin funny (^ _ ^)
#relatable teens
Actual fucking cringe
Aren't cruelty to animals and fire setting warnings for homicidal behavior? People with antisocial personality disorder aren't recorded as being sadistic by nature, just callous.
nope, that's actually signs your may have apsd.
read the Wikipedia page
+Accelerator you*
You are right
I think that sort of antisocial behavior would be like the defcon 5 of homicidal behavior. Homicidal actions are typically linked to antisocial behavior, I believe. While Antisocial people want to portray a tough character(might be insecure about something), homicidal people might've been outcasts to society, or school.
This is all based off of what I've seen and experienced, so I didn't do the studies or research; Just the contemplation, so it might not be a proven fact.
supressor 106 Only if they're children
Antisocial behavior makes me sick. The fact that so many support the aggression of the state over voluntary interactions is abhorrent. It's no wonder depression, anxiety, antisocial traits, etc, are getting worse and worse as the state grows exponentially larger.
I first heard the term asocial from this kid in my school... I now explain to people the difference between asocial and anti social because of how frequently people think they're anti-social when they're not.
I explain that anti-social is deliberately doing behaviours that aren't social... like violence and such... whilst asocial and being social to alone or more not being interested in being social... like asexual is a lack of interest in having intimate relationships.
Catherine Mitchell Actually, asexuals can have intimate relationships. They just lack sexual attraction towards their partner.
You can do something without actually being interested in it...
Not all dudes have that 'luxury' I'm afraid. It is a myth. Luckily Viagra is not.
Somewhere around a third of asexuals are also aromantic.
Is it ASPD or APSD?
Thanks for clearing it up. Turns out I've been using the term incorrectly too!
It's ASPD. So a good way to remember it is (a)nti(s)ocial (p)ersonality (d)isorder.
+Psych2Go but in the video it's A P S D, I think the artist made a mistake.
He may suffer from dyslexia? Or just too lazy to proofread his video before he publishes it.
2:24 "Pyschopath" is an informal term. It isn't used as an actual medical diagnosis.
GD SparkerBoy / Sparky_01 yes. in psychology psychopaths and sociopaths do not exist it is all aspd. You will never meet a psychologisy who takes psychopathy as valid disorder name
Psychopathy is an “outdated” term like “shell shock” because they’re too “offensive” I guess
Hi! I'm Delia, im 12 and I don't know if i'm asocial or not (thats kinda why I watched this video). I don't talk to people because I'm too scared that the person I'm talking to won't like me or becouse I'm scared that I will do something stupid. I have 2 friends that say i'm funny. But 'funny' means when I do something stupid and we laugh about it. My parents are mad at me becouse I don't go outside to make friends. Well staying inside is another problem that I have and I actually don't know why. My parents think that I'm obssesed with the internet and I am really staying only on my phone all day and I know it's bad but I have some people there on the internet that I like calling them "friends". Again my parents think I don't talk to people because of my "obssesion" with the internet. It's probably true but I don't know. I want to know what to do to make friends outside and keep in tuch with the internet people. It makes me feel better writing this.
yup, same. I don't mind social interaction but I'd rather stay inside, on my phone all day.
Sophie Nicholson Exactly!
don't worry, i'm just like you..Same story..
IRandomVideos óuò
***** Awwwe thank you! I actually hate going outside. I start being a little more "the mean girl" with people who don't understand me. I love my parents but I really can't talk to them. My idea is to just stay like this and talk in like 2 years about it 😂😂😂.
I tryed to tell them with my actions amd they just got that "i don't care" and "i can't do anything". Witch is actually what I was always saying to myself all the time.
I'm also Asocial, I would be calm while talking to someone before screaming at them then going back. Plus I have Social Anxiety Disorder
Thank you for clarifying the differences! As someone who tends to be rather asocial, I always hated hearing the term "antisocial" to describe people like me- that is, when I learned of the differences.
Basically:
Antisocial: Psychopath or sociopath
Asocial: Introvert and/or shy
not really shy, more like quiet. shy people are more likely to want to socialize while asocial wants none of that.
It’s like social anxiety...??
@@heysisters5272 no
It's the complete opposite in german, interesting.
Mayu Ackermann ok
Stimmt, aber nur: Asozial = Antisocial
Antisozial sagt man nicht.
eigentlich nicht, das ist nur ein umgangssprachlicher Fehler.
I wouldn't consider myself entirely asocial, because I love talking to people lol but with newfound social anxiety, I prefer small groups, I avoid crowds, and I avoid a lot of social events. I avoid them due to frequent panic attacks. I won't exhibit the anger type behaviours tho. I prefer to socialise in online games than at events. I used to be extroverted but am now rather introverted. When I go somewhere, I usually don't stay long. This change is due to a burnout and increased PTSD symptoms. This video is very helpful. Altho I'm not completely asocial, it will help those who think I am anti-social to understand how I am very much still social.
If I was still in contact with my toxic family members, I would've shown them this, so I could prove to them that they had been wrong for all the years they said I was antisocial. Nope, I'm just asocial. :)
Awww. But thank goodness you don't have to anymore.
Psych2Go Too true! XD I've felt so much better since I don't have to be around them anymore. :D
Is it ASPD or APSD make up your mind
ASPD, it was just a typo
Zyurg OMG MIA IN YOUR PROF #LOVEMIA
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Kath Vargas
Same to you
:0 thanks
I love that most 'disorders' exhibit a 'resistance to authority'
Fascinating.
Very coincidental too.
makes you wonder if they want slaves
not thinking ppl
Finally! I thought I was the only one who knew the differences between anti and a social. Everyone just goes and say "dont be such an antisocial" when they see someone shy or alone.
I remember when I was younger, at least now I now the correct term. -stares into space-
Sweet! That's good to know. By the way, how did you added the cross to the text 'stares into space"?
Thanks, oh and all you have to do is put 2 ( - ) a series of word while connecting to both ends.
Such as:
Here-as well as-Here
-as well as-
And that's it
Hello, J here...borrowing a friends phone fr....this video helped me realize that I'm asocial. Maybe if some ppl weren't so hateful, critical or manipulative of others, then I wouldn't be as asocial. I consider myself a compassionate , altruistic individual that has had to become more...guarded due to the lessons learned from being gullable in a sometimes seemingly sadistic world. Thanks for these videos....they seem really helpful for us introverted , asocial ppl to learn, cope and accept this knowledge when authentic sources of help are not available in a persons geographical environment. :D - J.F
I have Aspergers and I'm not asocial at all. In fact, I'm confident as fuck and love to hang out with my friends. I don't care what people think and I defend my friends. My Aspergers is a gift, not a disability. :)
~ Tass
What happens if you are diagnosed with both disorders?
It's not uncommon to have both.
BOAKENAWA it's not possible that's like saying. "What if your straight but gay"? It doesn't make sense.
Being "straight but gay" means that one is most likely bisexual, but I digress. There are currently no facts nor sources that you included to back up your claim, and there is no common knowledge saying that you cannot have both disorders simultaneously. Your argument is invalid, and your shoddy claim lacks any evidence.
+BOAKENAWA no, no, if you're bisexual, you are gay, it doesn't matter I you like the opposite gender as well, you cannot be straight.
Bisexual is bisexual. When a person is bisexual, they are sexually attracted to male and female individuals. One is not half-straight nor half-gay. That is insulting and an erroneous way to perceive people who considers themselves to have a bisexuality. Also, I can't even take you seriously if you are lacking grammar and punctuation skills.
Intelligence and decency is hard to find. This is why I stay far away from people as I possibly can.
I do tend to lie, I do get upset with some agressive behavior but I do tend to regret on what I have done
Derpman1 same
Derpman1 same here!
Derpman1 yeah... I’m there too... I guess we’re just slightly less shitty people.
Same I thought I was the only one oh well
Sometimes I hurt someone who is just trying to talk to me.
Then later I just want to burn in hell for eternity.
I think my sister might have ASPD
Poprocks MC lol
I'm an asocial, have serious social anxiety, am gaslighted every day, am shy, bullied, and was driven into depression. Suicide is a daily thought for me. Everyone, every day, either calls me names or manipulates me into hating myself more. There used to be one thought in my head, that 'its going to get better.' Well, that was six years ago. And I don't see things getting better any time soon. Case in point: i am hated by everyone (including myself) and I struggle through life hoping something gets better.
Also, and though it may not matter, I am middle child, and our family has been surviving on old instant noodles every day.
I STAY DETERMINED!!!!!
I'm antisocial, because half of the school students i wish die horribly, altho i keep it inside myself, but once my nerves explode i flip tables and throw chairs, halp me ples.
Mr.Scruffle just be normal ok
Rustam 😂🍆💦👅😈😍
Just like I used 2 b
YOu should see a theripst, they may be able to help
You got the alpha male in you if you use it right
I typically avoid people most of the time. I have a hard time making new friends even when I want to. I just can't seem to latch on to anyone. But I think this is due with my constant anxiety when I'm around people. I don't think I'm asocial, I'm not hostile I'm the quietest most timid person you'll ever meet. I have frequent bursts of anxiety (that's the only way I could describe it) when I'm around people. My throat squeezes and hurts, I sweat a lot and my jaw tightens. They go on until the interaction is over. Even when I'm confident about the situation they still happen.
this is now my favorite channel
I have autism but I can tell you my aggression is an ear pearcing scream and nothing more only when I get mad!
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Not a big deal, but I just noticed you may have accidentally switched the 'P' and the 'S' in 'ASPD' at
At 0:57
Yep! Thanks for catching it! We've added the ASPD overlay to it now. Have a great weekend! :)
You too! Very informative video btw!
THANK YOU, the amount if times people call others that social much as anti social was way to much.
I’m VERY asocial.
Same!
do you want to be friends i am like you
@yağmur bor im a stranger in their account account but ill gladly be your friend 😼 (bestie from another testy rizz 💯) /hj
@@StarNeeedsHelp I am also a foreigner. If you have a problem, tell me. People who are usually asocial have problems. I'm here to help.😇
This one dude in my class asks me every day if im "antisocial" because i dont talk and be loud in class ...he needs to get his facts straight lol im nothing like antisocial 😂😂
U alive?
I think I’m asocial.
I used to be the most social kid ever, I grew up to my parents never letting me go out on my own or with friends. If they ever did I will have to be stuck with their asses and then ofcourse you can’t do anything that makes you feel comfortable because everything is “inappropriate” in their eyes. They made me into who I am now, I am exactly the opposite of who I used to be years ago, they drew out hope and fun in me. I started accepting that they would never let me go put with friends or myself. And I didn’t want to go put with them because thats hell. So then I started liking to sit home all weekends and do nothing except drown myself in social media and food. Overtime I started hating being around people and lpve being alone, I hate being in the some room with some. I love being left alone in a closed room with internet, bed, and food. That is all I need and I will be okay
edit: honestly the best examples i came up with is. Its like putting a bird into a cage and telling it to fly
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Man, i find myself in antisocial group, i don't have a girlfriend, that's piss me off... i don't how to fix that, but it's ok and healthy to control or lying people... because life it's just for the strongest guys 😒
Eu Nae Why would the strong adapt to the weak?
I have asocial personality, I was diagnosed, I have anxiety and depression too.
why you tellin us all your problems
billy kong stfu
Clara's animations owo You don't get diagnosed with asocial personality
Clara The Totally Normal Human great, nobody cares.
billy kong shut up, it's internet and he feels that he has to tell someone his problems, and that is exactly how i feel Aster of Stars i would like, if u want so, to speak with u bcz i think we are so similar
I'm incredible Asoicial.When people ask me to hang out I make excuses.Not because I don't like them but because it makes me super nervous and uncomfortable.
I guess every quirky teen that drinks iced coffee is “asocial”
So antisocial is the same as sociopath?
I got diagnosed as asocial 3 years ago. It's true that I kind of avoid people and interacting with them often. I was isolated as a kid, punished for human things like going to the bathroom in the middle of the night, and I was abused a lot as a child and teen. Bullied, the only outcast, rebelling against my family for being so inhumane toward me and my sisters, Never got to be an individual. I am kind of hostile at first when I just meet somebody, but if I get to know them, I warm up. I'm in therapy re-learning the wheel of emotions...my experiences shut me down to anything I've been feeling deep down.
I'm asocial and have aspergers syndrome because my mom told me I had that syndrome so.......*Hides in Dark Corner with My Cat*
Same.
How come the dictionary defines antisocial as : not sociable or wanting the company of others. and asocial as: avoiding social interaction; inconsiderate of or hostile to others? o_O This is now confusing. D: It sounds like a sociopath if someone is antisocial. D: I used to know a girl who does all those things, she used to manipulate people around her and start huge fights then turn it around to make out she did nothing. She'd lie about all kinds of things and be super nice to you then turn suddenly and get really nasty and play on your fears and self doubt. It was horrible.
Hey Holy, thanks for the question. It's interesting, but technically, it's supposed to be the other way around. Antisocial is someone who's inconsiderate or hostile towards others, whereas asocial is not wanting the company of others. I guess.. it just goes to show why the terms are misused. It sounds like the girl you mention would fit more into the antisocial definition. But at the same time, she may also not like being with others too.. or is asocial. I mean everyone has their problems so maybe she had a difficult upbringing or something just causes her to do that. Hard to say.. but being understanding would be a good start. Maybe try to figure out why she is like that?
Psych2Go
I did try hard to understand her, but she got more and more aggressive and nasty with me. She used to say some really awful things like no one wanted me around and that I needed to kill myself. She actually had a really good upbringing, her parents were lovely but for some reason she was just not very nice. I do believe she was diagnosed with something at one point, but refused to take the medication for it and sold it at university. :S
Sounds like she's still trying to figure out who she is.. and the frustration is just reflecting through her acting out. May I ask how old she is? :/
Psych2Go
She is 32 now.
THE DICTIONARY IS WRONG :O
I got one of these people into my life years ago, and only just discovered this disorder this year. Am blow away because I always knew there was something strange and wrong about him, but my gracious nature which he knew to exploit, allowed him to get a foot hold on my life. It's weird because he is a friend, yet I do not trust him even after years. To cut tires with these people is nearly impossible.
well, i guess im both asocial and antisocial :|
*****
yes, espetially when they dont know that i did those bad things to them
I'm An Actual Cancer Cell My Mother Should've Aborted "I like your name."😂
So edgy
Rosey Kat well nog everybody has to be happy
well then... i have half antisocial characteristics, some psychopath characteristics (a bit more than half), some asocial characteristics... well shit....
Then you're like me, between roads.
learn to spell
really what did i fuck up? Sorry english is my 3rd language :3
So edgy I cut myself...
vetren23 You sound like my sister... ಠ_ಠ
i hate talking to people, i hate when people suddenly talk to me or ft me, that's annoying, and i really hate someone who suddenly smile to me. anddddddd i also hate it when people just "hey r u alright?" idk why but i found that annoying, stop caring abt me i dont like it.
ok now what am i
You're probably a mean person irl orrr you just don't have patience and get annoyed easily
Alexa Vi fax bruh this niga sounds mean as fuck
I've always used the word unsociable rather than antisocial, is that still incorrect?
very informative video. i learned something new. never heard of asocial, thought antisocial was the same thing.
Charlie Hill That's because Asocial isn't real and they're bickering about a word that has two definitions. Anti social can be a mental disorder AND a personality trait.
I fall into literally all of the causes to anti social personality disorder
when i don't want to talk
(to someone) i don't talk
i'm wondering if that makes me antisocial or anything?!🤔
im a bit of both tbh
I'm literally just asocial because it's just bad to see my friends hate or betray me, so I tend to not make friends anymore, don't know if there are any real ones out there...
Now I know I’m not Antisocial. I guess I’m just really shy or asocial eh. 😂 man.. I’ve been saying I’m anti social my whole life 🤣 🤣