Why Women Don't Want You When You're Struggling - Men Need To Hear This

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Комментарии • 153

  • @jamesschmidlin789
    @jamesschmidlin789 16 дней назад +85

    *WHO GIVES FUCK- IF THEY DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU THEN THEY'RE NOT WORTH BEING WITH YOU NOW*

  • @mastermindrational1907
    @mastermindrational1907 16 дней назад +52

    There was a study done on what women want. It concluded they want EVERYTHING. Good luck, gentlemen. I will be grinding towards my goals, with or without a woman.

    • @DeadMeat-7
      @DeadMeat-7 15 дней назад +5

      That's it 💯

    • @Hydroy
      @Hydroy 15 дней назад +4

      Lol

    • @aronrosas4191
      @aronrosas4191 15 дней назад +7

      Everything is not enough.

    • @Healthytruth
      @Healthytruth 15 дней назад

      Population control is real and they k kw how to play women in their nature . A real one will see this fake designed reality and see money has nothing to do with anything

    • @Relentless.assault
      @Relentless.assault 15 дней назад +4

      The world is not enough

  • @kaiseri.4641
    @kaiseri.4641 16 дней назад +55

    My Grandfather wasn't a super successful millionaire, but he married for my Grandmother, who was 10/10 with 0 body count.
    Now I should work 10 times more to get a 5/10 with 10+ bod y count.......

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 16 дней назад +1

      Why not a CornStar with hundreds in the body count?

    • @abudakuba4527
      @abudakuba4527 15 дней назад +7

      it´s called feminism

    • @MWALevi
      @MWALevi 15 дней назад +6

      It's called Hoeflation

    • @bloodsweatntearswarrior223
      @bloodsweatntearswarrior223 15 дней назад +2

      Work 10x harder on yourself not for someone or something that has 10x the incentive not to work with/for you

  • @GypsyKing999
    @GypsyKing999 16 дней назад +75

    When YOU elevate HER, she thinks she is better than YOU. DON'T play yourselves

    • @4669Mikehines
      @4669Mikehines 16 дней назад +12

      i agree on this one . i dont fall for it at all. i had a female get mad and leave becasue i didnt wine and dine and trick all my money. it was just sex and za za in the air . I understood the assignment

    • @a1pha_star
      @a1pha_star 16 дней назад +3

      Well said!

  • @TheShospitali
    @TheShospitali 16 дней назад +41

    Sometimes I don't even care what women want anymore. Who cares about jumping through all those hoops to please one. A man nowadays has to work several times harder than his poor old grandfather did for a woman thats twenty times less than his grandmother was or ever will be!

    • @stormchaser419
      @stormchaser419 15 дней назад +5

      Indeed. This is truth

    • @cursed5359
      @cursed5359 15 дней назад +1

      Go see a professional, cut out the bullshit yk you pay either way so why not save the time and effort and just take a vacation somewhere

    • @MBryy
      @MBryy 15 дней назад +2

      You mean a million times worse*

    • @RobertCarter-vg4pk
      @RobertCarter-vg4pk 15 дней назад

      @@cursed5359shut up

    • @user-qo1us9oc7g
      @user-qo1us9oc7g 15 дней назад

      Men back then worked hard and usually got a virgin

  • @user-ic5ku2jk6j
    @user-ic5ku2jk6j 16 дней назад +27

    This is exactly why settling with one once you get things going for yourself is questionable. Love is clearly conditional for the most part with them.

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 15 дней назад +3

      Sad, but true.

    • @colc8535
      @colc8535 15 дней назад +5

      It’s an all an entrapment to weaken and make men powerless and be at the mercy of a woman

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 15 дней назад +16

    Better to be alone than be in bad company. Better to be in good company than to be alone.
    You ARE the company you KEEP.

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 16 дней назад +23

    I've been in 4 or 5 relationships.My whole life and I'm 60 years old.One was a marriage and they all did the same shit pretty much

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 15 дней назад +26

    Life is DIFFICULT. But life isn't BAD. If you think life is BAD because life is DIFFICULT, life will NEVER be good.

    • @k1ndr3dspirits
      @k1ndr3dspirits 14 дней назад +2

      @@jonkas4542 Well said. This hit home with me. 💯

  • @patrickrobinson545
    @patrickrobinson545 15 дней назад +15

    Don't care when im struggling, So what women want i could cate less!

  • @kludgedude
    @kludgedude 15 дней назад +10

    As a man you’re on your own

  • @user-xs5so5rz6r
    @user-xs5so5rz6r 16 дней назад +11

    I don't want them wen I got bag either

  • @BrenSoleo
    @BrenSoleo 15 дней назад +5

    Being hard on people you care about is good

  • @tacohitman4003
    @tacohitman4003 16 дней назад +23

    Security. Easy answer. Men who are struggling can’t provide that.

    • @shamimanohar
      @shamimanohar 16 дней назад

      Women are hypocrites. They want security, but they also want the thrill of losing it. That's why they say they want nice guys, but lose control and get excited by bad guys.

    • @yt-user03561
      @yt-user03561 15 дней назад +9

      And if a woman already has that security by herself, why would she need more from a man? Greed.

    • @Healthytruth
      @Healthytruth 15 дней назад +1

      When a woman has money she thinks she is better than you .

    • @tylerk140
      @tylerk140 13 дней назад

      ​@@Healthytruthfacts or college degree

  • @user-ph5dk9ms5t
    @user-ph5dk9ms5t 16 дней назад +12

    So when you stumble and fall while being married, they'll dump you as well.

  • @deanthomas983
    @deanthomas983 15 дней назад +4

    Rest if you must but NEVER under any circumstances quit. NEVER!!

  • @sq9779
    @sq9779 15 дней назад +6

    Who cares what they want, you shouldn’t be caring at all lol.

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 16 дней назад +11

    They make you stumble and fall for their bullshit and then blame you for it

  • @kennv7566
    @kennv7566 15 дней назад +7

    Women wait at the finish line to pick the winner.

    • @omars365moments
      @omars365moments 15 дней назад

      which is why you need to lay low and put the work in

  • @MrHDProd
    @MrHDProd 15 дней назад +7

    It’s all about attraction. If you look like Jeremy Meeks you can do no wrong and woman will do everything for you. If you not a Chad/Tyrone it’s over for you I’m sorry 😞

    • @ShavonR-il6yz
      @ShavonR-il6yz 14 дней назад +1

      That's not always true even if your good looking eventually she still wants the provider the guy with security too take care of her a man's looks don't go ass far ass a woman looks rich men marry hot women everyday how many rich women marry broke good-looking men I'll wait because it doesn't happen and if so it's extremely rare ASF 😢

  • @devilsadvocacy
    @devilsadvocacy 11 дней назад +2

    They didn't want me when I was on my grind. Now that I'm in my prime, why should I want any of the ones who thought I wasn't good enough?

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 15 дней назад +5

    At 21, I suddenly lost my ability to walk, talk and eat with a fork. Took years before I could read an entire page and understand it in reasonable time. Dating?!? Pfft...
    Now I'm 52 and making really good coin. Traveling in my own lane and at my own pace.
    My emptiness has given me freedom to explore this planet. I'm lucky.

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 15 дней назад +2

    I'll say this again!same deal here.personally,I like it that way.staying single and focusing on myself.😊👍🏻

  • @doctorgames101b
    @doctorgames101b 15 дней назад +1

    Perseverance is key to success and victory. No rewards are not place on your lap while being idle and lazy. Right on, Joel.

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 16 дней назад +12

    Well said man. All men need to hear this. 💯🔥

  • @kellileaneriley4263
    @kellileaneriley4263 16 дней назад +11

    I don't care to work so we dont struggle but holy hell. Did yall know if you pay bills first, everything else is just extra money?? To save or FVCK off?? Nobody wants to raise a grown man or woman... And usually if you are struggling, you are going to be stressed and fighting with each other for no reason other than struggling.... If you try to tell someone hey your bad habits are becoming an issue or financial burden, you are just trying to change the person and if you leave, oh my god you abandon me when i needed you the most... It gets old really fast and whats a good solution?? Im all ears

  • @elijahmonmn9249
    @elijahmonmn9249 15 дней назад +2

    Hey brothers, I got a decent lady now. She reciprocates what I put out. That’s all I’ve ever wanted out of a woman, and she ain’t too bad. You gotta find, and love yourself first and foremost! I am still working out, running, hanging out with my family, working, and doing what I want. Become the man you are meant to be by making decisions. If you don’t wake up, then you won’t see what could be. “We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” ~ Seneca

    • @Green89_
      @Green89_ 4 дня назад

      Are you paying for everything

  • @blazebradley4276
    @blazebradley4276 16 дней назад +10

    The world needs strong men. Not men who constantly need to fit in or complain about silly things 24/7. We are suppose build ourselves properly, and overcome challenges that may come our way. If you’re afraid to become better, you already lost the battle.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies 16 дней назад +5

      Forgive me Sir but aren't you sitting here and complaining?

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 16 дней назад +3

      I’m 42 ran 10.6 miles in the dead middle of the day today in 95 degree heat, running hills. Felt good I’ll go farther soon.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies 16 дней назад +1

      @@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Have you ever considered swimming or a less impactful form of training? Aren't you worried about not being able to walk when you get old from the repeated impact? I'd suggest cycling but it's way too dangerous on the streets.

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 16 дней назад

      @@SnakesandDoggies I’ve thought about it but running is harder more of a mental challenge plus I like nature. Sitting on a bike in the gym is boring.

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies 16 дней назад

      @@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Ride the trails on the bike, you can cover 20 miles, see more cool stuff, if there is anything where you are, just don't get too crazy and take a header cause high speed injuries suck real bad too. Even a super low speed crash could take someone out if their head hits the concrete. A guy over here 80+ years old got hit at 12 -15mph and he didn't make it. Either way good for you man! The hottest and most fit girls I've seen have been runners. Some are pure muscle but sooooooo hot. With the ponytails bouncing as well half the time. The outfits too... 😋

  • @Hunnidproof888
    @Hunnidproof888 16 дней назад +3

    I resonate with you on many levels dawg. I was going through it and was seeing some girl and the dynamic just felt so off on my masculine energy.
    Had to cut it short and get my shii together. She was a great woman but I rather it be this way tbh.
    I can tell you’ve actually gone through life based on the advice you give. I be giving similar advice to those that deserve it around me.

  • @connorfortier2699
    @connorfortier2699 15 дней назад +4

    Eagles fly alone.

  • @bloodsweatntearswarrior223
    @bloodsweatntearswarrior223 15 дней назад +1

    Young man you are ahead of your time…ontop of your game and wise amongst most of your generation. AT 18??! Forget about it young blood 💪🏾💪🏾🔥 keep up the message…Patience is key, being hard on yourself now WILL make it easier in the near future. Be tough, build and hold your own. Multi layer yourself with knowledge, will, discipline, self confidence and patience, you will be able to open doors to quality relationships, adapt and survive anytime that arises. Stay humble and blessed

  • @bezoznaught5261
    @bezoznaught5261 15 дней назад +2

    F em', life is a struggle and they'll feel it after 30 and understand when it's too late.

  • @thomaswalton7554
    @thomaswalton7554 15 дней назад +2

    Good weather only.

  • @johnyeager8667
    @johnyeager8667 16 дней назад +9

    Women are the one who wants that are making a struggle.So why do we wanna put any effort towards a hundred percent of ourselves

  • @gardenswell
    @gardenswell 15 дней назад

    thank you, it's important to stay positive

  • @jimherring7315
    @jimherring7315 6 дней назад

    Your videos are inspiring Terry!

  • @t-bonev5637
    @t-bonev5637 16 дней назад +3

    There's no problem having a small group of friends, however it's not ok to disregard the rest of the world imo. I choose to stay cordial and humble. Every once in a while it's good to bs with the troops, let them know and remind myself I'm human too. Even though I and someone else can't be close friends, there's nothing wrong with putting forth a little effort to communicate that at the very least I'm not trying to be hostile toward them. It is rare that a leader will never come across someone they don't agree with on many things of life. I think it's how you handle yourself in those times that have a big impact on how you turn out.

  • @Deron8564
    @Deron8564 16 дней назад +1

    Needed to hear this

  • @SamuelSurbrook98
    @SamuelSurbrook98 15 дней назад +1

    Every man 🧍‍♂️ is in a dilemma as far as an individual. You are going to have to fight through some of the challenges that come along with being the best. Things happen and you are going to have to push through regardless.

  • @Babs42
    @Babs42 14 дней назад +1

    This is why men need to lift each other up, women do not get the struggles. They will never understand. They're great for being there for their children but you need a mentor that is a MAN for support IMHO. You want a wife eventually and not a mother.

  • @ben.scanlan
    @ben.scanlan 15 дней назад +1

    This one was fire

  • @Nick84525
    @Nick84525 13 дней назад +2

    I do everything alone and when i am out and about work gym beach grocery store etc i ignore women i refuse to have anything to do with a woman with nose rings tattoos and colored hair.

  • @NIEMILYFACET1980
    @NIEMILYFACET1980 15 дней назад

    Good video bro 👌👍

  • @jsstapia4
    @jsstapia4 15 дней назад

    Real fam 💯

  • @AerisVera7
    @AerisVera7 14 дней назад +1

    Should be titled 'Why everyone doesn't want you when you're struggling..." That's suitable though because the harder the come up the greater the rise.

  • @arcmov24
    @arcmov24 15 дней назад +3

    Men should focus on these things to be better not necessarily to attain a women

  • @Uknown291
    @Uknown291 16 дней назад +12

    i never cared about women...

  • @ChaViElNuevo
    @ChaViElNuevo 13 дней назад

    This real 🫡💯

  • @jimherring7315
    @jimherring7315 6 дней назад

    I had to let toxic family and toxic friends go as well. And been focusing on my self building myself up! They drained my energy with lies and manipulation and disrespectful behaviors. Such trashy people. Had to let them go! They always downplayed any achievements I have done. Always hating.

  • @heatmecoolme
    @heatmecoolme 15 дней назад +4

    Where’s this guys woman?
    He claims women are just waiting for the right man.
    NO THEY ARE NOT!
    Why does he make 2 videos a day?
    Cause women don’t want him either.
    Work on taking care of yourself.
    Be selfish like women are being.

  • @cj_divine11
    @cj_divine11 16 дней назад +6

    I'm too focused on making music and art. My producer taysty beats thinks I'm fire 🔥

  • @JonasT3x4
    @JonasT3x4 15 дней назад +1

    Because it's been programmed into them - and us - by like a millenia of harsh conditions:
    Women's "selfishness" = infant survival
    Us men have to adapt to the times, but SO DO THEY: And if that means them self-correcting their toxic excess self-interest (selfishness) to be worthy of love, then so be it

  • @JesusUCSB
    @JesusUCSB 16 дней назад +5

    Can you make a video for Veterans and PTSD Anxiety… Too many of us are hurting. God bless

    • @SnakesandDoggies
      @SnakesandDoggies 16 дней назад

      Vitamin D man. You gotta get lots of vitamin d. It reduces sue you know WHAT rates by astronomical numbers just vitamin d alone. Sunshine, but usually sun is not enough cause most folks are not out long enough.
      Full spectrum gummy bears, start with a 5mg dose so you don't trip out and go to 10 or 20 after. They take half hour to kick in. Always critical to take less and work your way up. Don't mix with alcohol. Unless you're prone to psychotic episodes then don't eat any.

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 15 дней назад

    They need to be committed and make women feel safe. Be real not use women and threaten them, they have to be realistic out here. Even if the guy is hot that doesn’t mean much it’s not a game to be cruel with women or anyone. Respect people. And avoid bad friend or family groups that don’t support your relationship

  • @user-gj2wn1eh1n
    @user-gj2wn1eh1n 10 дней назад +1

    Eve was made from Adam . Not Adam from Eve. God made man from the dust of the ground breathe the breath of life into him and he became a living soul.

  • @DavidHunter-ob6so
    @DavidHunter-ob6so 15 дней назад +1

    They want your ATM . . . and perhaps your soul ?

  • @WalkingMeatSuit1925
    @WalkingMeatSuit1925 13 дней назад +1

    Its clearly this simple if you didn't want me within my struggles I have every right, as well as all of the power and authority to decline your invitations upon my come-ups and you women will feel that sting within the long-run when all you're left with are with MEN you're not even remotely attracted to I.E pump and dumpers, or fake nice and fake good guys that are putting on nothing but a facade in the attempt to be someone they're really not knowing this world is collapsing without me is my reward along with blessing its a given I'll go by my own opinions, my own thought's, validations, and approvals while the world can drown within theirs

  • @fireguy96
    @fireguy96 16 дней назад

    🔥

  • @paulablanche136
    @paulablanche136 15 дней назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @a1pha_star
    @a1pha_star 16 дней назад +1

    Always appreciate your words of wisdom. 🙏

  • @user-xs5so5rz6r
    @user-xs5so5rz6r 16 дней назад

    DONT WANT ME , I JUST WANT OUT THIS SITUATION

  • @Cleapatras333
    @Cleapatras333 16 дней назад

    thankyou for being on my team I love and miss yall I appreciate everything your doing bro cant wait to come home cuz

  • @guitawrizt
    @guitawrizt 15 дней назад

    Get Oat

  • @KristopherStidd
    @KristopherStidd 16 дней назад +7

    Thank you for the video Terry ❤

  • @vpower3187
    @vpower3187 15 дней назад

    It's like Super Mario. Bowser(Satan) has taken your woman long ago, whether you've met her yet or not, you just need to beat him to get her back.

  • @RobertCarter-vg4pk
    @RobertCarter-vg4pk 15 дней назад

    I don’t know anybody that doesn’t want me

  • @davemojarra2666
    @davemojarra2666 8 дней назад

    Evolutionary psychology, dont take it personally.

  • @RB-jq6gh
    @RB-jq6gh 15 дней назад +1

    Outside the commercial rat race..there's no relation..just Hypergamy.

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 16 дней назад +8

    I've heard of cases where a strug- gling man married a woman who helps him climb to the top of his profession, and become rich, respected, and famous. Only for the husband to discard his wife who helped him, for a younger woman. Then, he will battle her in court, to try to keep her from getting any of his money. That is why I think women should probably wait until the man she wants becomes successful on his own. She could work on herself and her own career in the interim. Because working to help your man succeed, only to be discarded for a young, pretty bimbo once he has suc- ceeded....what could be worse than that? I know of the former Betty Broderick case, in which this exact thing happened.

    • @markeverson5849
      @markeverson5849 15 дней назад

      Oh really it happened to a woman! so you make it sound like it'll happen every time. there's scumbags on both sides, but that doesn't mean all ar scumbags and losers.

    • @bvhia
      @bvhia 15 дней назад +2

      1. Did she get the money ?
      2. Did she cheat?
      Btw in the Betty Broderick case she literally MURDERED the dude 😂. Probably not the best example to use
      Cheating is wrong either way especially if youre married but theres pluses and minuses whether the woman marries before the mans success or after. If she marries before then shes entitled to something. Whatever the man earns before marriage is his, whatever he earns after is split.
      If a woman gets with a man after he is successful why should she be entitled to anything? She contributed nothing. Unfortunately in the states women are highly predatory and often get away with this

    • @ShameenYakubu
      @ShameenYakubu 15 дней назад +2

      I’ve never seen a woman build a man up in modern times.

  • @Healthytruth
    @Healthytruth 15 дней назад

    What fight . I’m done with this rat race. I’m out this matrix

  • @TroyHanson-ch6nm
    @TroyHanson-ch6nm 16 дней назад +2

    That's great news.. So if i don't want a Lady i will show struggle. Thanks for the tip 👍 more cash for me fosho 😄

  • @JasonScott604
    @JasonScott604 15 дней назад +3

    Women want cash

    • @kennv7566
      @kennv7566 15 дней назад +4

      They want the easy life no hardships.

    • @Josh-fp2qn
      @Josh-fp2qn 15 дней назад +4

      They want to impress other women with Instagram pics .

  • @ptkettlehatsandthegang
    @ptkettlehatsandthegang 16 дней назад

    12:13 Look I bet this comment won't get pinned or liked, reply and I'll do absolutely NOTHING.

  • @ROMANS3-25KJV
    @ROMANS3-25KJV 16 дней назад +19

    Only Jesus saves from hell. All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 16 дней назад

      Think of evolution.
      Adam and Eve didn't exist.
      No original sin.
      Jesus is nothing.

    • @ROMANS3-25KJV
      @ROMANS3-25KJV 16 дней назад +3

      @@bobgreenfield9158 evolution is illogical. And Jesus Christ is THE LORD. Get saved before it's too late for you.

    • @ragoldman3025
      @ragoldman3025 16 дней назад +3

      "Only Jesus saves from sin" - The Romans

    • @luminouseasportsfc
      @luminouseasportsfc 15 дней назад

      Get outta here with all this Bible talk

    • @kinfoul
      @kinfoul 15 дней назад +1

      Tell Jesus I need to borrow a million dollars

  • @DonnaPrice84
    @DonnaPrice84 15 дней назад

    I’m gonna say. After what seems like weeks of you bashing women. I am a woman and I have a totally different experience than what you’re describing. I am currently 40 years old. My first relationship lasted 6 years and began when I was the age 17. I have been nearly exactly everything you seem to depict or wish for in a “good” woman since my first relationship. Each and every man I have dealt with have taken it all for granted, trashed me, destroyed me, hurt me intentional, crushed me, attacked me and made it abundantly clear they hate true feelings, emotions, despise commitment, avoid transparency, lie, CHEAT, CHEAT, CHEAT and rebuke deep/meaningful soul connection that drives us all to evolve. I AM a GOOD woman. It has all been abused. At this point, it’s very offensive you have remained on this topic and I think you should level up before addressing it further. As well, I AM a true psychic medium who is preparing to open her first small business ever as a professional independent psychic medium reader who can facilitate healings. I am a chosen one. This isn’t about our sexual orientation anymore. Please.

    • @timothyhight9588
      @timothyhight9588 11 дней назад +1

      This channel is for men. Why are you even here?

  • @ShavonR-il6yz
    @ShavonR-il6yz 14 дней назад +2

    Leave these golddiggers alone they only want you at the finish line when they can use you for money that's the only time they show interest or act nice towards men when they can get something out of you that's not love if she's not with you on the come up she don't deserve you when u at the top even when you get money ghost these 304s ignore them don't give them your energy let the drown

  • @TheGeorgenc40
    @TheGeorgenc40 7 дней назад

    It doesn't make sense for a man to be the 'superior leader' of women who need direction from a man or else they can't be together that's complete BS 🥱