4 Reasons why you are so scared of your feelings as a fearful avoidant

In this video I’m going to talk about 4 reasons why you are so scared of your feelings as a fearful avoidant. Being scared of your feelings is actually being scared of something that is continuously there. And that can cause so much resistance and therefore it can be so exhausting. And it doesn’t have to be that way!
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-- CONTENTS --
00:00 Intro
01:40 You were probably not allowed to feel
04:07 Your feelings didn’t really matter
08:42 You weren’t allowed to hurt others
11:39 You are not afraid of your feelings, you are afraid of the stories you attach to those feelings
#fearfulavoidant #healingattachmentstyle #attachmentstyle #emotions #innerchild #paulientimmer

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[@tinywhiskers30]

These videos make me feel so seen❤️

[@Sunshine-gm8uy]

you’re a godsend! my younger self would like to thank you 🦋

[@lorirobinson4665]

I'm feeling so much from this topic in my life right now that I feel like im in a shut down state of mind I know I need help to get back on track but I feel like a so lost

[@lorirobinson4665]

I also am I'm a state where I'm binge Watchung social media alot and don't want to feel my feeling and also take time to see what I want for me life

[@meganjohnson9540]

Thank you, Paulien! You make me feel less alone. Love and light. 💕

[@laksuh6926]

That is true, whenever I feel hurt I feel like I give them the power, like they purposly hurt me and if I feel that, then it is real. The story I create in my self is I loved them, they didn't love me and they hurt me, they already found someone better and yet I am the one feeling this bad about it. I am the loser, they are the winner. Why am I always the loser? Why am I feeling alone, unworthy, unloved and broken while they just move on instantly and find someone better in a few weeks?

[@TheColourAwesomer]

So glad I found this attachment style and your channel. Broke down during this. Child abuse really does train you to reject every feeling you have, because they are expressions of a bad person. Thank you for your videos, you are very kind and empathetic. You make me optimistic for my future.

[@chilloften]

It helps me a lot.
The next part is…should we be speaking feelings.
I contemplate them, and correct how to feel, nearly continuously.

[@patrickoliver263]

Bingo! Ty ;-)

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[@chelseah162]

How do you know if you're fearful avoidant in your relationship or if you really shouldn't be with the person?

[@tinywhiskers30]

Paulien has a video on this on her channel!! I recommend you check it out.

[@chelseah162]

@@tinywhiskers30 Do you know what it was called or when it came out?

[@inthedetails5467]

Would you be able to talk about FAs and risky sexual behavior? Specifically engaging and sometimes even seeking harmful/abusive sexual behavior?

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Thank you!