This was great, thank you! I've seen you all over Pinterest but had no idea you had your own social media presence. It was comforting, for me, to hear from a supermodel her hair is similar to mine. So often we hear their hair is thick, has body and they almost roll out of bed looking gorgeous. Don't misunderstand, you are gorgeous with your hair natural. Joanne, 63yo.
I finally got a cheap vent brush. What a game changer! Thank you for the tip! I got my hair cut as I thought I was going to lose it with chemo. Then afterwards, they said no! I am loving it! We had a handyman at our house the other day, probably in his 30's, nice young man, and he told me he really liked liked it. I'm 63.
My hair is similar to yours, very soft, not very thick any more (I'm 63)but with a slight curl. I'm very grateful for your tutorial, thanks so much ☺️ and BTW, your accent is absolutely beautiful 🌹
I happened upon your videos as a result of Cindy Hattersley's post, and as a result, have viewed all of your concise and to the point videos. You are a fabulous and vivacious woman with a healthy and positive outlook -- an example to all of us who want to age well. Thank you.
I tell my stylist that I want my hair to look like the top of a soft serve ice cream cone…when you said that in this video I laughed and said “Finally someone gets it!” Love your hair and your style! Thanks for sharing!
I found you on tic toc and I had JUST finished growing my grey out, and was looking for a style!! You do an absolutely awesome job on your hair!! Thanks for the tutorial!! 👍😊🇨🇦
I absolutely love this look! I just recently cut my hair to a very short pixie style with extra length at the top. I had spent 8 years growing my natural dark brown hair all the way to my tailbone but a year ago I used this lightening product that is sprayed onto wet hair and worn out into the sun to lighten it. The color came out a beautiful strawberry blonde but with time the breakage in my hair became so bad that I decided to cut it all off and start all over again. I'll never dye my hair again because it really has been quite traumatic for me. I'm going to give this look a try tomorrow. It's very cute. Super nice 🥰
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with me (I can't imagine having to cut off eight years of growing work!!) I hope that the tutorial helps. Good luck!! x
Thank you for explaining everything and why... I never used the cool shock setting b4. I didn't know why. Now i do. Absolutely love your style also. Ty
I’m on the very cusp of getting my long hair cut short (had the same hair for about a thousand years)… your video here has just clocked up my “let’s do it” percentage from 85 to 95% I’ll work on the final 5% before my cut day next week .
Yes i just cut mine off a few days ago. The first day i was like, what did i do... Now I'm loving it along with everyone else. I'm sure your going to look great shorter.
I have admired you , your style and of course I have been trying to recreate your hair style for a long time. When i saw this video pop up I literally shrieked with delight. Thank you for sharing the tips and tricks.Its my goal to get this to work for me. Love from Stratford Ontario 🇨🇦
You’re so adorable! I love your cut and style, and hope to be as classy as you in the future 👏👏👏 with love from Minnesota 🇺🇸 Looking forward to more RUclips vids 🎥
Thanks for the tutorial 😀 I had this cut years ago when I was younger and recently cut all my hair off again and couldn't remember how to get it to lay the way I needed it to and this was a huge help🙏
You're gorgeous and I love your style. I am going out on back surgery soon, and I've decided to get a short pixie cut. I told everyone "At least if I look ugly, no one will see me at home". LOL. Great tutorial and you've inspired me. Most of hair is gray/white, I hope it looks good like yours.
Thank you for your message and best wishes for a speedy recovery from your surgery. I predict that you will love your pixie. A bit of product to shape it up and you'll be the most gorgeous patient! x
I finally have this hairstyle yay! I actually cut it myself (I have had training). I wouldn’t trust anyone where I live to get this right😳. I too have fine, floppy, soft hair but a fair bit of it. I’ve still got a little bit of growing on top to go though as I have bleach bits on the ends on top that need trimming off but the sides and back are my natural salt and pepper colour. Thanks 🙏🏻 for this tutorial as it has helped 😉
Love this.. I, too, cut my own hair and am using this video as a guide. My hair is white (naturally), and naturally flat. I have found volume hair powder (tiny bit) really helps it stand up. This style is my favorite of all time! Happy to know someone else out there is cutting their own😍
Absolutely lurrrrrve your hair styling, and think you are fantastic darrrlingg . You inspire me as I have very fine and limp hair and have finally found a style I love and hopefully achieve your look... amazing lady
I took your photo to my hairdresser and said I really love this hair style.. but I couldn't get the style done at home... Thank you for this tutorial I'm happy to say your instructions are simple and easy to follow including use of the products YAY😊 Are you able to help with the hair style for my lovely hairdresser. I believe we do have it, and perhaps it's my hair type which is quite thick. Look forward to hearing from you.
Hi Deborah, I am so glad to hear that you enjoyed the tutorial, I hope that it helped :) I am not sure what you mean when you ask if I am able to help with the hairstyle for your hairdresser?
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver Maybe because mine is naturally curly?? But it's thin. My hubby keeps saying how much he likes the new style too, so thank you again. I tried to comment on your blog post, but couldn't figure out how, LOL
Didn't know you were on RUclips and only found out because I was reading an article about you on Pinterest and they had a link. I absolutely love your look, style and attitude towards growing older so here I am. Subscribed.😊
So lovely and wonderful. I learned a lot and you couldn't be more beautiful and charming. My hair is growing out from chemotheraphy and is gray. I will try your techniques!
It’s remarkable.. your hair down is cute… but oh my! The finish is dramatic -and stunning! I’ve been styling my hair like this for months and I got some tips that might make it easier.. but I have a bit of natural wave which helps. Plus i use a tiny bit of volume powder on top to really thicken the look of my fine hair. It is nice to be different and be stopped with compliments at my age (76).. but I love the drama of the style. I’m grateful for the inspiration and information!
Thank you for doing this video. Your lovely personality just shines. I worry short hair will make me look unfeminine, but this shows me that it's anything but.
This tutorial has helped me so much. I have the same type of hair, and the same cut as you, but I could never get enough height. Now, I can. Thank you so much 🧡
I don't have a curling iron, I might need to try one :). I am not sure if it will give me the lift from the roots that my drying technique does, but I shall have to give it a go. x
not sure if you will see this message but I don't have instagram but I saw a recent video of yours where you used a small round brush but also a small i.e. narrow what looked like vent brush. I do use a vent brush myself but not as small as that one. Any idea of the make that I could search as I am in GB. Thank you🌺
I have a couple of vent-type brushes that I buy from the pharmacy, no special make. I need to create volume because my hair is so limp, so any brush that allows me to pull the hair up and away from my head, while allowing the air to flow through the brush works. (If you have natural volume in your hair you may not even need this step?) xx
That’s the tutorial that have finally worked for me 🎉 can’t believe it. Apparently, hair texture is a big deal and tricks pulled by other RUclips divas just didn’t workfor me
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver Seriously, can’t thank you enough! I’ve been struggling for so long, I started considering growing hair back, cos I cut it to wear it THIS way 🥹 and it just would not cooperate
Thank you so much for this little tutorial ♥️ Wanted a new style and found a few of you photos. Absolutely love this style and decided to go with it. Any tips I can give my stylist for the cut? Going from long, past my shoulders, to this adorable vibrant short look!
Thank you for your message, I am so glad that you enjoyed the little tutorial and are inspired to try it. I can't offer any tips, I just let Stacy do her thing!! x
So fantastic! Amazing the way you take care of yourself. I need some of that. Close to cutting my hair like yours! I have thin, strangely hair. Did you? I have had two cancers and am in remission, but now I have lung cancer and need inspiration. You’re an inspiration and energy! God bless!
I am so sorry to hear that you have been unwell, I'm sending you my best wishes! My hair is quite fine and floppy, the drying method and products do all the work. xx
My brushes are from the pharmacy, they aren't a particular brand. I have a selection from various places, I just choose them according to their size. Sorry I can't be more helpful x
Love your tutorials! About how old were you when you first switched to this faux hawk? Were you modeling yet? I am new to this hair style (faux hawk), so I don't have it down yet. It's funny. When I got my faux hawk about 3 weeks ago I intended for it to be temporary as I thought chemo would make me bald. I found out I will not lise it this time, ha! Happy accident! I plan to keep it. I've only had 1 women stare at me and look me up and down several times (I was watching her in my peripheral vision. She faced forward for a moment and and I made sure I was looking straight at her so when she turned around to continue to stare I was looking her straight in eye and I smiled at her. She smiled back, faced forward and never looked at me again. Ha!
My short pixie started to morph upwards about 10 years ago. I started modelling after it was grey and already on its way to being styled up and back. I think that you will find that you get a lot of interest and a lot of compliments. Happy news that you hair will be staying put xx
Hi beautiful! I love your hairstyle, my hair is thin, frizzy and quite curles, well some hairsylist says a have paper hair, it is so frustrating that I always look like if i just jump out of my bed.
Thank you for showing me how to get it to stay up. I've been using the powder for root lift. It's like chalk and makes your hair hard to keep its style.
I hope that I was able to help. I have tried root lift powder and it does tend to make my hair feel very chalky. Mousse or root lift spray works better for me. Good luck!!
So you did find the Poker Paste I suggested to you long time ago after all ? There really is no difference between this one and the Stiff Paste is there ?
Yes! I really like it, I feel that it might be slighter softer than the Stiff Paste, I think I prefer the Poker Paste actually. It isn't available here in South Africa (unless you order online which costs a small fortune for shipping and import duties and taxes). My hairdresser managed to get her hands on a couple of tubs, but I am not sure what I will do once my tub is finished. (I feel very grumpy that it isn't available here :( ) xx
Can you not get it through your hairdresser then in the future ? That’s what you told me then, that you couldn’t get it in SA. So I was surprised and happy for you you did get your hands on it in the end. Stupid isn’t it ! Why do we girls always want something that isn’t available in our own country ! 🤪. I remember I used to drive to France to get my hands on Urban Decay makeup and lots of other things. Now they have many of these brands in Belgium too, I don’t use them anymore. Pity because I did love my trips to the North of France. It was only short of a 2 hours drive and Lille is a beautiful city. Please reconsider a makeup tutorial. I know you think you’re not an expert but hey who needs those Instadolls. You always look so fresh faced with an adorable flush. So come on girl be brave and do it. You always need a daily challenge you always say, there you have one !
@@scotosha You make me laugh! I think that my hairdresser got someone to bring her a couple of tubs into the country in their suitcase, she can't get hold of it easily either, I bought two tubs from her a couple of months ago. (Even though she is a l'Oreal salon, she only uses their products!) I will consider doing a tutorial. (Believe me I have enough challenges going already!!) Thanks for you message xx
I've had similar style for a few years but now growing sides longer while trying to keep top long and high, my problem is I have tried so many hair products to keep the height but hate the sticky feel and also many make my shiny silver hair dull, can you recommend a styling product which offers firm but light natural control? Oh forgot to say you look magnificent ❤
Thanks so much for your message :) I have found a new styling paste which I like very much, and it's more affordable and more readily available here in South Africa. It's a Japanese brand called GATSBY, I use the Mohawk firm, ultimate and shaggy. I still spray it with the firm hold spray, but I don't feel that my hair looks too stiff (although it is in order to stay up). If you would like me to send you a picture of it, you can drop me an email on deborah@deborahdarling.com xx
How kind of you to take time to reply. I haven't been to hairdressers since my stylist left 7 months ago!!but my partner was keeping the sides short with clippers which was great but top became just too heavy so went yesterday...it's ok but not as good as my previous stylist, So thanks for suggestion of this japanese brand which I can find on line ...but as several types I'll send you a mail for exact details. Thank you again. Love from BeBe from Amsterdam
Really weird, I just was showing my partner your video so he could style my hair and 5 mins later got your email! Thanks so much, I can buy this brand on line. I'm not using ista so unfortunately can't keep up with you but wishing you the best
I so want my hair like yours but I'm scared I won't be able to style it myself🤣 my hair at the moment is shoulder length and really dry and horrible I really need a change😍
After searching for a new hairstyle, with a quiff on Pinterest, I came across you and this led me to this video. I have to say, not only do I love your hairstyle, but also the colour. You're absolutely gorgeous too and so is your accent. I'm assuming you're a model (please forgive me, that I don't know this).
Thank you so much for your message. (I have lived in South Africa for years, that's where the accent comes from :) ). I do do some modelling work, but mostly I make a noise about embracing our age, I am "anti anti-ageing".. If you are on Facebook or Instagram you will be able to find me there and keep an eye on what I am up to xx
@Deborah Darling Thanks so much for your reply. Yes I'm on Instagram and Facebook so will look you up and follow you, to keep an eye on what you're up to. 😊 Xx
Thank you so much! My face is quite long too, so this style shouldn't really work on me but somehow it does, perhaps you should try a version that's not quite as tall? Love from me x
This was great, thank you! I've seen you all over Pinterest but had no idea you had your own social media presence. It was comforting, for me, to hear from a supermodel her hair is similar to mine. So often we hear their hair is thick, has body and they almost roll out of bed looking gorgeous. Don't misunderstand, you are gorgeous with your hair natural. Joanne, 63yo.
I finally got a cheap vent brush. What a game changer! Thank you for the tip! I got my hair cut as I thought I was going to lose it with chemo. Then afterwards, they said no! I am loving it! We had a handyman at our house the other day, probably in his 30's, nice young man, and he told me he really liked liked it. I'm 63.
I'm so happy to hear this! This hairstyle does something, it has some magic, I am so glad that you are loving it x
My hair is similar to yours, very soft, not very thick any more (I'm 63)but with a slight curl. I'm very grateful for your tutorial, thanks so much ☺️ and BTW, your accent is absolutely beautiful 🌹
Thank you so much, I am glad that it helped! (I am stuck with my mixed-up accent it seems) xx
Gorgeous! I don’t even know if mine could do that, I have zero curl. But it is absolutely stunning on you!
I happened upon your videos as a result of Cindy Hattersley's post, and as a result, have viewed all of your concise and to the point videos. You are a fabulous and vivacious woman with a healthy and positive outlook -- an example to all of us who want to age well. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind words, it means a lot to me to get positive feedback. Thank you x
I’ve been searching for a tutorial JUST like this. Thank you SOOOOO much. I absolutely LOVE your hair😍😍😍😍
Thank you so much! I am very glad that you enjoyed it.x
I tell my stylist that I want my hair to look like the top of a soft serve ice cream cone…when you said that in this video I laughed and said “Finally someone gets it!” Love your hair and your style! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your message! My boyfriend calls it my ice cream cone, I think it's a great description xx
Wonderful style, awesome hair outlook! Love your video tutorial. Thank you very much!
Thank you for your message, I am so glad that you liked it x
Wow 😍 👏👏👏 Stunning, I absolutely LOVE IT 💕💕
Thank you, I am so glad!
Love the style of your hair. I don’t use the little round brush, I use Velcro rollers and I get a similar style. Thanks for sharing😍
Good idea! x
I don't know too much about hairstyles but you have both style & grace.
Thank you 😊
You're very welcome
I found you on tic toc and I had JUST finished growing my grey out, and was looking for a style!! You do an absolutely awesome job on your hair!! Thanks for the tutorial!! 👍😊🇨🇦
Thanks so much, I am thrilled that you enjoyed it. Keep rocking your grey hair, it's such a privilege! x
I absolutely love this look! I just recently cut my hair to a very short pixie style with extra length at the top. I had spent 8 years growing my natural dark brown hair all the way to my tailbone but a year ago I used this lightening product that is sprayed onto wet hair and worn out into the sun to lighten it. The color came out a beautiful strawberry blonde but with time the breakage in my hair became so bad that I decided to cut it all off and start all over again. I'll never dye my hair again because it really has been quite traumatic for me. I'm going to give this look a try tomorrow. It's very cute. Super nice 🥰
Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with me (I can't imagine having to cut off eight years of growing work!!)
I hope that the tutorial helps. Good luck!! x
Thank you for explaining everything and why... I never used the cool shock setting b4. I didn't know why. Now i do. Absolutely love your style also. Ty
Thank you so much! I am glad that you enjoyed it x
I’m on the very cusp of getting my long hair cut short (had the same hair for about a thousand years)… your video here has just clocked up my “let’s do it” percentage from 85 to 95%
I’ll work on the final 5% before my cut day next week .
Thanks for your message :). (Just a thought - a thousand years is a bit too long to have the same hairstyle, give it a go, it will grow!) x
Yes i just cut mine off a few days ago. The first day i was like, what did i do... Now I'm loving it along with everyone else. I'm sure your going to look great shorter.
I could watch you all day. So lovely. Getting my hair cut in 2 days. Gonna copy love
Love the cut, the style and your hair color 🙏😍
Thank you so much!
This hairstyle is so funny and cute❤ I love it!
Totally awesome 🤘🏻 but what happens if you get caught in the rain?!
It doesn't like the rain, so I make sure I have an umbrella in wet weather :)
Love the confident but sassy look!
Thank you! My silver hair is my superpower x
You have a gorgeous head of hair. As a bald guy, I'm quite envious.
Ah thank you! Bald men are sexy though 😊
I have admired you , your style and of course I have been trying to recreate your hair style for a long time. When i saw this video pop up I literally shrieked with delight. Thank you for sharing the tips and tricks.Its my goal to get this to work for me. Love from Stratford Ontario 🇨🇦
Yay!! I hope that it helps! Love from Johannesburg x
You’re so adorable! I love your cut and style, and hope to be as classy as you in the future 👏👏👏 with love from Minnesota 🇺🇸 Looking forward to more RUclips vids 🎥
Thank you so much! xx
Thanks for the tutorial 😀 I had this cut years ago when I was younger and recently cut all my hair off again and couldn't remember how to get it to lay the way I needed it to and this was a huge help🙏
Hello! I am so pleased to hear this, glad it was a help. xx
You're gorgeous and I love your style. I am going out on back surgery soon, and I've decided to get a short pixie cut. I told everyone "At least if I look ugly, no one will see me at home". LOL. Great tutorial and you've inspired me. Most of hair is gray/white, I hope it looks good like yours.
Thank you for your message and best wishes for a speedy recovery from your surgery. I predict that you will love your pixie. A bit of product to shape it up and you'll be the most gorgeous patient! x
Omggggggg you look BEAUTIFUL and thanks A LOT for helping me find the style that I want for my short hair!!!!! Love from 🇧🇷❤️😘😘😘
I'm so glad it helped, thank you for your message! x
I finally have this hairstyle yay! I actually cut it myself (I have had training). I wouldn’t trust anyone where I live to get this right😳. I too have fine, floppy, soft hair but a fair bit of it. I’ve still got a little bit of growing on top to go though as I have bleach bits on the ends on top that need trimming off but the sides and back are my natural salt and pepper colour. Thanks 🙏🏻 for this tutorial as it has helped 😉
I'm so glad that it helped, thank you for letting me know! x
Love this.. I, too, cut my own hair and am using this video as a guide. My hair is white (naturally), and naturally flat. I have found volume hair powder (tiny bit) really helps it stand up. This style is my favorite of all time! Happy to know someone else out there is cutting their own😍
Absolutely lurrrrrve your hair styling, and think you are fantastic darrrlingg . You inspire me as I have very fine and limp hair and have finally found a style I love and hopefully achieve your look... amazing lady
Thank you! I have been using your technique for the past month and am so happy to be able to make my hair do what I want!!
I'm so happy to hear that, thank you for letting me know! x
I took your photo to my hairdresser and said I really love this hair style.. but I couldn't get the style done at home...
Thank you for this tutorial I'm happy to say your instructions are simple and easy to follow including use of the products YAY😊
Are you able to help with the hair style for my lovely hairdresser. I believe we do have it, and perhaps it's my hair type which is quite thick.
Look forward to hearing from you.
Hi Deborah, I am so glad to hear that you enjoyed the tutorial, I hope that it helped :)
I am not sure what you mean when you ask if I am able to help with the hairstyle for your hairdresser?
Wow!!! You are gorgeous and your hair is fabulous. Thank you so much for the hair tutorial.❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! I am so glad that you enjoyed it. x
Thanks for such a wonderful tutorial. I'm working on it and today was my second day, and it stayed up through the night too!!
I am so glad that you enjoyed it, and that it helped! You are lucky yours stayed up through the night, mine is nest when I wake up! :)
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver Maybe because mine is naturally curly?? But it's thin. My hubby keeps saying how much he likes the new style too, so thank you again. I tried to comment on your blog post, but couldn't figure out how, LOL
@@jtouchofstyle That might be it, mine is fine and straight. I am glad to hear that your hubby likes it too, that's a bonus x
I just started following you on instagram too! I absolutely love your look and thank you for this great tutorial!!
Hellooo!! Thank you so much, welcome to the gang xx
Thanks for the info, and the accent! The info will help with my new ‘do. The accent just makes it extra pleasant!
I hope that it did help :) I'm giggling about the accent, I am stuck with my strange mix, but thank you! x
Looks amazing ❤
That's a really helpful tutorial, thank you for sharing. Also - you are sooo gorgeous I wanna cry!
Ah thank you!! I'll take it, you've made my day x
Didn't know you were on RUclips and only found out because I was reading an article about you on Pinterest and they had a link. I absolutely love your look, style and attitude towards growing older so here I am. Subscribed.😊
Thank you so much! I am not very active on RUclips (need to work on that!) I am most active on Instagram x
Wow ! Hair is amazing and you look incredible. Beautiful x
Thank you so much for your kind message x
Absolutely perfect. ❤
Just got my first hawk and loved how my stylist styled it but could not do it on my own. Trying these tonight.
Thank you for your advice. I've got the same quality of hair and white. At 66 feeling better then ever.
I am so happy to hear that! Thank you for your message x
So lovely and wonderful. I learned a lot and you couldn't be more beautiful and charming. My hair is growing out from chemotheraphy and is gray. I will try your techniques!
Thank you! I am so glad to hear that your hair is growing back. Good luck! x
Thank you for showing me how to do this! So easy to follow and your look rocks!
Thank you! Good luck x
It’s remarkable.. your hair down is cute… but oh my! The finish is dramatic -and stunning!
I’ve been styling my hair like this for months and I got some tips that might make it easier.. but I have a bit of natural wave which helps. Plus i use a tiny bit of volume powder on top to really thicken the look of my fine hair. It is nice to be different and be stopped with compliments at my age (76).. but I love the drama of the style. I’m grateful for the inspiration and information!
Thank you so much for taking the time to write this lovely message. Keep rocking your power style, I love that!!
I love your hair. Thanks for sharing !
Thank you for your message!! x
Your gorgeous and that hairstyle looks amazing on you.🤩
Thank you so much, it has become my signature, I think I'll have it forever! 🤣😘
Your my hair idol! I love it.
Thank you so much! I'll take it! xx
Thank you for sharing!♥️ I got my pixie because of you. 😁
It's a pleasure, pixies for the win!!!
Awesome look!😊 Ive worn some pretty funky cuts but im not sure if I could pull that one off. You are gorgeous so that doesnt hurt! Lol
Thank you so much. This style seems to suit most faces, interestingly enough! x
One of the things I absolutely love about you is your smile!!!
Thank you so much, that's so sweet of you! x
Beautiful lady, wow, looking good and loving the hair
Thank you so much! x
Love you're style, you're a model for me, I'm glad that I find you on Pinterest.
Oh, that’s so cool. Thank you for your lovely message x
GREAT TUTORIAL thank you!
Thank YOU!!! x
U and ur hair look amazing!
Thank you so much!
What a beautiful woman you are! Terrific hairstyle for you. I am inspired.
Thank you so much, what a lovely comment to wake up to!!! x
You have to be a Fire sign! 😊 I’m an Aries, and I love this! ❤
I am a Sag x
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver I knew you had to be a fire 🔥 sign ❤️
Love your hair!
Thank you so much!
Thank you for doing this video. Your lovely personality just shines. I worry short hair will make me look unfeminine, but this shows me that it's anything but.
Thank you for your sweet message. I love my short hair x
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver It's perfect!
Love love love ❤️ it. You look amazing 👏
Thank you so much! x
Yeah! Rock on! 🤘
This tutorial has helped me so much. I have the same type of hair, and the same cut as you, but I could never get enough height. Now, I can. Thank you so much 🧡
I'm so pleased to hear it! Thank you for letting me know.x
Absolutely loved this tutorial. ❤
I’m so glad!!!
Stunning 😍
Stunning! Love your style
Thank you so much, I hope you enjoyed the video x
7:36 my question is why don’t you just use a curling iron? Seems like that would be a more useful way of getting the curl you desire?
I don't have a curling iron, I might need to try one :). I am not sure if it will give me the lift from the roots that my drying technique does, but I shall have to give it a go. x
not sure if you will see this message but I don't have instagram but I saw a recent video of yours where you used a small round brush but also a small i.e. narrow what looked like vent brush. I do use a vent brush myself but not as small as that one. Any idea of the make that I could search as I am in GB. Thank you🌺
You are beautiful and have gorgeous silver hair. I love it! Thanks, I needed something to teach me how to get height!!!!
What a classy lady, love your hair.
Thank you! I'm glad that you enjoyed the video x
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver if my hair was straight I would get your haircut. My hair is gray but wavy
I’d liked it right at the beginning! I am just not willing to do that much work on my hair. I know, my loss.
It takes me under five minutes from start to finish, I do it on auto-pilot these days :)
hi what is the name of your vent brush that you use? ty!
I have a couple of vent-type brushes that I buy from the pharmacy, no special make. I need to create volume because my hair is so limp, so any brush that allows me to pull the hair up and away from my head, while allowing the air to flow through the brush works. (If you have natural volume in your hair you may not even need this step?) xx
That’s the tutorial that have finally worked for me 🎉 can’t believe it. Apparently, hair texture is a big deal and tricks pulled by other RUclips divas just didn’t workfor me
I'm so happy to hear that it helped!
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver Seriously, can’t thank you enough! I’ve been struggling for so long, I started considering growing hair back, cos I cut it to wear it THIS way 🥹 and it just would not cooperate
Beautiful! Thank you!
I'm glad you enjoyed it x
Thankyou 🌻
Thank you so much for this little tutorial ♥️ Wanted a new style and found a few of you photos. Absolutely love this style and decided to go with it. Any tips I can give my stylist for the cut? Going from long, past my shoulders, to this adorable vibrant short look!
Thank you for your message, I am so glad that you enjoyed the little tutorial and are inspired to try it. I can't offer any tips, I just let Stacy do her thing!! x
@@DeborahDarlingOlderAndBraver do you use any conditioning products? In shower or after, if so??
So fantastic! Amazing the way you take care of yourself. I need some of that. Close to cutting my hair like yours! I have thin, strangely hair. Did you? I have had two cancers and am in remission, but now I have lung cancer and need inspiration. You’re an inspiration and energy! God bless!
I am so sorry to hear that you have been unwell, I'm sending you my best wishes!
My hair is quite fine and floppy, the drying method and products do all the work. xx
Estupendo guapísima y elegante
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❤❤❤love it, thank you. Now to try it!😂
Your such a stunning women. LOVE THE HAIR,CUT AWESOME
Thank you so much!! 😊
Gorgeous 💘 - cut my hair about 45 cm for this look and very very happy now
Yay!!! There's nothing quite like finding a style that works for you xx
Thank you!
What is the name of that brush?
My brushes are from the pharmacy, they aren't a particular brand. I have a selection from various places, I just choose them according to their size. Sorry I can't be more helpful x
Love your tutorials! About how old were you when you first switched to this faux hawk? Were you modeling yet? I am new to this hair style (faux hawk), so I don't have it down yet. It's funny. When I got my faux hawk about 3 weeks ago I intended for it to be temporary as I thought chemo would make me bald. I found out I will not lise it this time, ha! Happy accident! I plan to keep it. I've only had 1 women stare at me and look me up and down several times (I was watching her in my peripheral vision. She faced forward for a moment and and I made sure I was looking straight at her so when she turned around to continue to stare I was looking her straight in eye and I smiled at her. She smiled back, faced forward and never looked at me again. Ha!
My short pixie started to morph upwards about 10 years ago. I started modelling after it was grey and already on its way to being styled up and back. I think that you will find that you get a lot of interest and a lot of compliments. Happy news that you hair will be staying put xx
❤️❤️❤️!! So beautiful
Thank you Kelli! x
Hi beautiful! I love your hairstyle, my hair is thin, frizzy and quite curles, well some hairsylist says a have paper hair, it is so frustrating that I always look like if i just jump out of my bed.
Hi there! Mine is very fine and limp, thank goodness for product!!! x
Love it! Thank you!
So glad to hear x
So cute 😍
Thank you for showing me how to get it to stay up. I've been using the powder for root lift. It's like chalk and makes your hair hard to keep its style.
I hope that I was able to help. I have tried root lift powder and it does tend to make my hair feel very chalky. Mousse or root lift spray works better for me. Good luck!!
So you did find the Poker Paste I suggested to you long time ago after all ? There really is no difference between this one and the Stiff Paste is there ?
Yes! I really like it, I feel that it might be slighter softer than the Stiff Paste, I think I prefer the Poker Paste actually. It isn't available here in South Africa (unless you order online which costs a small fortune for shipping and import duties and taxes). My hairdresser managed to get her hands on a couple of tubs, but I am not sure what I will do once my tub is finished. (I feel very grumpy that it isn't available here :( ) xx
Can you not get it through your hairdresser then in the future ? That’s what you told me then, that you couldn’t get it in SA. So I was surprised and happy for you you did get your hands on it in the end. Stupid isn’t it ! Why do we girls always want something that isn’t available in our own country ! 🤪. I remember I used to drive to France to get my hands on Urban Decay makeup and lots of other things. Now they have many of these brands in Belgium too, I don’t use them anymore. Pity because I did love my trips to the North of France. It was only short of a 2 hours drive and Lille is a beautiful city. Please reconsider a makeup tutorial. I know you think you’re not an expert but hey who needs those Instadolls. You always look so fresh faced with an adorable flush. So come on girl be brave and do it. You always need a daily challenge you always say, there you have one !
@@scotosha You make me laugh! I think that my hairdresser got someone to bring her a couple of tubs into the country in their suitcase, she can't get hold of it easily either, I bought two tubs from her a couple of months ago. (Even though she is a l'Oreal salon, she only uses their products!) I will consider doing a tutorial. (Believe me I have enough challenges going already!!) Thanks for you message xx
stunning ❤
Thank you Jakki x
Do you put on conditioner also when washed before adding products
I don't use conditioner because my hair is very soft and floppy and I find that conditioner makes it much harder to style. :)
You have beautiful hair
Thank you so much x
You are sooo cool!!
Ah thank you! You are too kind!! x
Love the hair cut. Thanks for your expertise on this style. You are lovely. Your lipstick is a bit too cool though for your skin tone. Too magenta.
I've had similar style for a few years but now growing sides longer while trying to keep top long and high, my problem is I have tried so many hair products to keep the height but hate the sticky feel and also many make my shiny silver hair dull, can you recommend a styling product which offers firm but light natural control? Oh forgot to say you look magnificent ❤
Thanks so much for your message :) I have found a new styling paste which I like very much, and it's more affordable and more readily available here in South Africa. It's a Japanese brand called GATSBY, I use the Mohawk firm, ultimate and shaggy. I still spray it with the firm hold spray, but I don't feel that my hair looks too stiff (although it is in order to stay up). If you would like me to send you a picture of it, you can drop me an email on deborah@deborahdarling.com xx
How kind of you to take time to reply.
I haven't been to hairdressers since my stylist left 7 months ago!!but my partner was keeping the sides short with clippers which was great but top became just too heavy so went yesterday...it's ok but not as good as my previous stylist,
So thanks for suggestion of this japanese brand which I can find on line ...but as several types I'll send you a mail for exact details.
Thank you again.
Love from BeBe from Amsterdam
@@bebevicinanza107 I have just sent you a photograph of the paste in an email. xx
Really weird, I just was showing my partner your video so he could style my hair and 5 mins later got your email! Thanks so much, I can buy this brand on line.
I'm not using ista so unfortunately can't keep up with you but wishing you the best
I so want my hair like yours but I'm scared I won't be able to style it myself🤣 my hair at the moment is shoulder length and really dry and horrible I really need a change😍
It takes a bit of practice, but I am sure you'll be able to get it right! x
After searching for a new hairstyle, with a quiff on Pinterest, I came across you and this led me to this video. I have to say, not only do I love your hairstyle, but also the colour. You're absolutely gorgeous too and so is your accent. I'm assuming you're a model (please forgive me, that I don't know this).
Thank you so much for your message. (I have lived in South Africa for years, that's where the accent comes from :) ). I do do some modelling work, but mostly I make a noise about embracing our age, I am "anti anti-ageing".. If you are on Facebook or Instagram you will be able to find me there and keep an eye on what I am up to xx
@Deborah Darling Thanks so much for your reply. Yes I'm on Instagram and Facebook so will look you up and follow you, to keep an eye on what you're up to. 😊 Xx
@@NaomiC14 I'm more active on Instagram. My handle is @deborah__darling xx
I'd absolutely love to have my hair like this but I have a long face with a big forehead.... so I can't! 😬😫.... but you look stunning. 💖💖💖
Thank you so much! My face is quite long too, so this style shouldn't really work on me but somehow it does, perhaps you should try a version that's not quite as tall? Love from me x
Fabulous
Thank you!
You are soooo Pretty just keep it this way
Thank you for your sweet message!
Beautiful 🩷❤️🩷