3 signs the kindness isn't just game

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Комментарии • 56

  • @CrystalPearl777
    @CrystalPearl777 7 лет назад +87

    I wouldn't get mad at someone because they didn't care; it's because they pretended to care.

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 9 лет назад +59

    Idk, if a girl is not working and is broke AND she cooks HER food and feeds YOU...that IS giving. Very lovely giving.

    • @niro56
      @niro56 9 лет назад +12

      chilloften you right, a good guy will appreciate it, don't worry

    • @PermanentHigh
      @PermanentHigh 3 года назад

      Lmao where do that at? In what galaxy can hoes these days cook?

  • @fayetaylor1998
    @fayetaylor1998 8 лет назад +38

    Yes I just had to let one fade off recently. I actually was good friends with his sister. He and I knew of each other and was cordial but that's it. Anyways, he caught me at kinda a vulnerable time in my life. And I had recently broke up with my boyfriend (like 7 months prior). I NEVER should have moved forward with him but he came off so "nice".
    Wasn't pushy, gave me money, took me out, ALL that was good! But I started to see how when things didn't go "his way" he would get distant and leave sometimes. And would make me question the "relationship". He told his mom, friends, about me. Even took me to his church, went to his home, and he was telling me he loved me ONLY after 2 months of dating. But yet and still something just didn't seem right. He had this way of making me feel like he could do WITHOUT ME if he had to. And wanted me to initiate contact even if he caused conflict between us. I got tired of the HOT and COLD behavior. I'm not about to be played like a yo yo! 3 months of that was enough for me. So like Chris Breezy I chucked up those Douches! I'm getting older I don't have time to waste. Your either serious or your not!

    • @Come_fly_with_Tee
      @Come_fly_with_Tee 7 лет назад +12

      F. L. Taylor. he was probably a classic clinical narcissist, you were very smart to leave him Quickly...

  • @75150day
    @75150day 9 лет назад +26

    Good advice. I needed this. I think i give too much of myself to the wrong men

    • @75150day
      @75150day 8 лет назад +1

      ***** You are so right about that. I think that's why I am still single because of that guard.

    • @valeriew4833
      @valeriew4833 6 лет назад +2

      Hey just wanted to say you're a great person and don't ever forget you deserve another great person as friends, partner etc.❤

  • @yalondajohnson409
    @yalondajohnson409 6 лет назад +12

    if a woman cooks for u & she doesn't work.. that's giving something of abundance.,coz she needs her food ! especially if she has kids & feeding Ur butt too

    • @sandrarivas4360
      @sandrarivas4360 6 лет назад +1

      Yes! but I wish some men would value that!!!

  • @elli6432
    @elli6432 9 лет назад +9

    Logic combined with sweetness!

  • @rachaeldavis6378
    @rachaeldavis6378 9 лет назад +8

    I'm so glad my cousin referred me to ur page!It's so refreshing to hear this from a wise man that's keeping it real!

  • @LaDeutscheDiva
    @LaDeutscheDiva 6 лет назад +4

    This is an amazing perspective: asking if people can share with you what they DON'T have in abundance. Thank you for this valuable new outlook.

  • @qtslim83
    @qtslim83 9 лет назад +6

    The last point you made was assurance for me...thank you for this video!

  • @itsmeivan
    @itsmeivan 9 лет назад +7

    As usual, you hit the nail on the head!

  • @Autumn_Forest_
    @Autumn_Forest_ 9 лет назад +15

    Thank you for the great information, wisdom, and advice you always share with us! You're awesome!

  • @nancyxtay
    @nancyxtay 9 лет назад +5

    really good point on number three. Thank you!

  • @karencave2654
    @karencave2654 7 лет назад +1

    the third tip about abundance... amazing, thank you

  • @z.deutch1334
    @z.deutch1334 5 лет назад

    These 3 points are spot on! My ex showed all these signs and I ignored them.

  • @dejamesola
    @dejamesola 5 лет назад

    Just started watching your videos! Man,This is RICH! THANK YOU!

  • @randomvids3218
    @randomvids3218 6 лет назад +1

    U got the game and shared it, thanks!

  • @santuccipontarelli3763
    @santuccipontarelli3763 6 лет назад

    You need a tv 📺 talk show I just found you and you helped to make me understand many things about my sweetheart ❤️. Donations are on the way.

  • @user-ej5jv4km5n
    @user-ej5jv4km5n 6 лет назад

    I loved the third sign!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @alysonnesmith7100
    @alysonnesmith7100 8 лет назад +1

    hi, Chazz.
    Thank you for all your videos. You are helping me a lot. I'm kind of lost in my relationship right now. I need time to figure out what is going on......
    What you are saying is so true, there is no doubt in my mind that I should run away from my boy friend as far as I can, he payed me from day one. I don't understand why........I'm 13 years older than him, he could have any woman he wants and much younger than me........???
    Well, I gess I was easy to get.
    Once again thank you for video and your smile.
    Alissya

  • @Naniquir
    @Naniquir 6 лет назад

    Thank you! You are a blessing!

  • @lindalemoni5428
    @lindalemoni5428 9 лет назад +3

    very smart, thanks

  • @QueenCraftsChannel
    @QueenCraftsChannel 6 лет назад +1

    You on point!

  • @sevenaka7
    @sevenaka7 7 лет назад

    that last one was cool. Thanks

  • @imanisteel7960
    @imanisteel7960 4 года назад

    Wow I numbered two so many people... Didn't see it as clearly as this.

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 9 лет назад +2

    Chazz, im not sure if the man that has been doing these things is really a 5 stage clinger and I'm in a toxic relationship. Can u do a video on this? I find a lot of areas from your other videos that make me say no to moving fwd then I see him doing almost all the right things. #needaChazzElliseClonePlease

  • @ceftomapothelyamburcsvlafr2734
    @ceftomapothelyamburcsvlafr2734 8 лет назад +2

    When I want to be with someone I am mostly kind because thats love and kindness includes patience, understanding and selflessness. But before I even how those to then I test them first by acting all the opposite of kindness(without hurting then physically of course that's not love anymore) I mean pretending to be insecure, cold, narcissist, jealous, impatience and clingy if they leave it's not true love, but if they pass through those and love me more that's real and made the final one my husband out of those test (he doesn't knows and no one knows) but yet he never left me no matter what and never intended to hurt me he just walks out and fix things with me later. Girlfriends if you meet a man like this I mentioned he's a keeper :)

    • @franciumoxide8732
      @franciumoxide8732 8 лет назад +12

      Absolute BS! Why play all those games? Just be yourself, no need to pretend. It's very possible that people who would stick around in such a situation are doing it out of lust, and simply after your body. You don't know it's true love by pretending to to be insecure and so on, you know it's true love when you're loved for who you are. Don't give the ladies wrong advice. Be mature and don't play games!

    • @chailatte7926
      @chailatte7926 8 лет назад +4

      +Francium Oxide Agreed 100%. No way in hell would I ever pretend to be insecure (why would anyone in their right mind pretend to have one the worst character flaws ever??) or anything else, for that matter. It's one thing to be cautious in the beginning, but that's different than pretending.

  • @Rose-vi4zt
    @Rose-vi4zt 8 лет назад +1

    Needed this

  • @DestiB1
    @DestiB1 6 лет назад

    Loved this one

  • @mahadewiiii
    @mahadewiiii 9 лет назад +1

    Spot on!! ;)

  • @sacredspacesllc5260
    @sacredspacesllc5260 6 лет назад

    Interesting, thank you.

  • @bellabrown7413
    @bellabrown7413 6 лет назад

    See this is what I don't have time for. This is why I'm waiting on God for my Boaz.

  • @LeLee1230
    @LeLee1230 9 лет назад

    This is off subject but I was just watching an episode of Homicide Hunter on ID. I was like, that looks like Chazz???? I see you got Skills...........

  • @GodskidUr1
    @GodskidUr1 6 лет назад +1

    Facts!!!👌

  • @beautybuzz8034
    @beautybuzz8034 7 лет назад

    what does it mean if he say.he just wants a connection

  • @santuccipontarelli3763
    @santuccipontarelli3763 6 лет назад

    He said cook him macaroni and cheese 🧀 and pot roast and veggies I love ❤️ feeding my sweetheart he's my friend and I love ❤️ feeding my friends

  • @realm43
    @realm43 6 лет назад

    Great. The sacrifice

  • @carlynyc
    @carlynyc 9 лет назад

    Truth

  • @ecstasy5903
    @ecstasy5903 8 лет назад +1

    Seeking singers

  • @marcellacastillo2631
    @marcellacastillo2631 7 лет назад

    what about in a 6 month relationship....
    so far what is expected by now?
    i am 43 and he is 58? and we are hours away LDR...

    • @Gympiee
      @Gympiee 5 лет назад

      Marcella Castillo how’s it going?

  • @abiolamarshall601
    @abiolamarshall601 7 лет назад

    what to used for tyroid

  • @jameswilliams4033
    @jameswilliams4033 4 года назад

    💯

  • @TheUnleashedSociety
    @TheUnleashedSociety 7 лет назад

    Yessssss

  • @mariaalmosawi9775
    @mariaalmosawi9775 8 лет назад

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